If your cheating why do you expect your wife to still have sec with you..That’s crazy 😮
lack of sex from her COULD BE WHAT LED TO CHEATING IN THE FIRST PLACE,,TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY
So...that gives him the right to kill her?? So as a man yal dick is the only thing yal care about 😒
If you have sex with your spouse while they're cheating, then don't be surprised if you get a STD
Thank you so much this is probably the kindest story I’ve seen about my mom… some of the info isn’t correct but I know whoever put it together got it from other outlets. Thank you everyone for your condolences, they are received in the manner in which they were given. I’m still waiting on “justice” to be served. He has not been convicted, yet. I am hopeful a verdict will happen this year. 💗
May God's will be done and my condolences and prayers are with you and your family now and forever more. I know how it is to not have your mother any more. This is a very sad sorry story may justice be served.
Your mother’s smile is amazing. May you find comfort in knowing God heals❤
Marriage and relationships are becoming dangerous these days. The ones that are supposed to protect you are becoming who you should fear the most 😢
No wonder serial killers becoming dormant, Your own loved ones are doing you wrong , leaving nothing for the enemy to do
It was always dangerous, that's why you have so many cold cases. So many women were killed and are buried under their houses.
Have you actually checked the stats? Today we know of more things that people do that we otherwise wouldn’t know about. On CZcams for the world to know! Crime is actually going down…
Steroid brings out a monster in a person. I feel so bad for Patricia family. I was married to a man who did steriods he break my nose pulled a gun out and had bad mental issues.I left in the middle of the night and never looked back. RIP Patricia
Yesss. A former abuser of mine would become a monster while taking steroids. All about his muscles while completely out of his mind. 🤬
Oh God I'm so sorry you went through that. I'm glad you were able to escape.
14 years?! They showed him favor because he was law enforcement, because taking someone's life like that should be 25 to life
He didn't accidentally kill her, he murdered her.. mandatory punishment for murder should be death.
They showed him love because he already 62 so 14 years is a life sentence to him
@@Danny-by3io 14 years isn't life, many can live up to 90+. He murdered her, she isn't here to even see 14 more years.
@@PansydaflowerofIsrael in the courts eyes that's a life sentence, they don't believe he will live that long and I do agree he should have got 100 years but cause it's black on black u see where I'm going
Why would you give a murderer bond?
So many lives lost to Bond.
Laws do not protect the men woman and children.
Which is why smart women don’t give this cruel system children to feed upon.
It’s like, we all see these outcomes and imagine ourselves as “different” somehow.
But we women keep feeding babies to a sick world and act surprised when we meet the same tragic fates.
Make
It
Make
Sense.
Because we still somewhat live in America we’re you are supposed to be innocent until proven guilty. Secondly you never see stories of the people on bond that cooperate and follow the law then get found not guilty, because it’s a boring news story so your position is swayed.
Can’t put your trust in laws, people, government etc. they will be faulty & they WILL let you down. That’s why we have to fully trust and depend on Lord God. He is the only one who can protect you 😌🙏🏾🩷
I doubt she could tussle over a gun with a man that size.
How do you know she didn't shoot him first and he took the gun from her and shot her in self defense
I wish I would marry a cop!! Who's gonna believe u when u report him??
Exactly, don't ever date an authority figure, military, police, nothing. They will eventually leverage their authority over you whether they suspect you of cheating and have friend patrolmen watch where you live or if they snap and beat you , military and police associates will act like they don't see your black eye. True story from the military family I grew up in, which is why I know better at a young age.
Cops and doctors.
They both know how to k!ll and get away with it
She was beautiful and wore beautiful short hairstyles. RIP
@@cokethearussell8630 you need some serious medical attention!!! Help and prayer!! because all you see about this situation is hair like I said she got shot in the heart by a murderer!!!!! what I see in the story is that her heart will be judged you don't know her and I don't either and you got nothing at all from the story which means you're vain.
Is that ALL THAT MATTERS TO YOU?
I really need people to read these responses from black women and women in general online.
It really seems like some of them share ONE brain cell because there’s nothing going on upstairs.
There is no critical thought happening.
There is no introspection occurring.
These same women are pregnant right now creating future stories for us to watch.
It’s ridiculous.
@@faithshaw5992 I don’t Think she meant any harm by saying she wore short hair it was just an observation of her beauty because you don’t see a lot of black women proudly wearing their short hair I think that’s all she meant by that
@@faithshaw5992 u went off for no reason when she paid the woman a compliment..freaking chill
Ladies, when you have a monster on your hands, speak softly, leave quickly and quietly, and never look back.
I was married to a man just like this man, began overdosing on steroids for bodybuilding, and having an increased sex drive, which lead to multiple affairs in person and online. I saw the anger in him when I questioned him and I left him without him knowing when and I never looked back, when he threatened to kill me for knowing what he was doing and not wanting to sleep with him anymore
You should’ve supported him d be there for him. He needed enough sex to control his roid rage 😢
I could never marry an officer of the law. They be hella crazy. My condolenses to the family. This is so senseless.
Those steroids are scary. 😨
I’m so sorry this happened to her . It seems she was dealing with someone with drug/steroid issues. This was horrible for her , with him using his authority to murder her wife thinking he’d get away with it
For whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved!!!
NOPE!! It's not THAT easy & simple ‼️‼️ If you are in sin, you need to repent & not do the sin. You also have to keep the commandments & observe the Most Highs statutes & feast days. Celebrating Xmas, birthdays & Easter is not biblical!
He were so surprise how the man know he were unhappy.
@@jonathansmith2192 your reading comprehension is off the charts. No disrespect to the OP.
I'm done I'm staying to myself I think I will live longer by myself no friends
Ok so he risked his freedom for lack of sex & a steroid pill 😐 he supposed to be out here to protect & serve the citizens of this country & he out here killing them sad case
Sleeping w/ the enemy smh
That is a tragic case, but what do you mean by 'sleeping with the enemy' ?
It's not about me because I don't support marriage at all.
@satinstruthers9794 its another way of saying you are sleeping with your killer or the person who would hurt you.
The marriage seems good from this vid. But the roids and infidelity caused a big fight.
I find , whether married, divorced, single, pregnant, ex , police or soldier , dating for a week or a year, most black women are meeting the same fate, even here in the Caribbean, a woman can be left or dumped but she can't leave.
@@Mrscarricom Always remember that women has the access to sex, am I excusing the tragedy that he's caused (I am most certainly not he's wrong all around the board) and it's more than B.W. who goes through those types of tragedies that happened to her.
I remember watching that episode and thinking.. damn, dude is right, he doesn't look happy.. then this came out and I was like well dang!
@@idontdohumans5950 When I was dating, I heard my partners would talk about me when I wasn't around, and that they'd light up whenever someone mentioned me. I was the same way when someone made me happy. That's a good way to know.
Blk women learn to stop arguing & exit quietly.
STOP . . . just stop. You can't change anyone.
Once you see the red flags, stop trying to save him or convince him, just leave.
Right! I don’t argue or provoke!
I’ll ask! You answer, then decisions are made!
I don’t play around with
Smh, so sad. Praying for her child and family. If you're not happy then leave.
The nerve!! Why would her family want him there when he took their only daughter’s life and took her from her daughter??? They don’t want to see a murderer!
Wow that's so damn crazy, what a shame!🤦♂️
Let me stay single
Exactly 💯 so I've been single for 8 years, and like McDonald's, I'm loving it ❤
I am totally shocked 😳. I remember Reynard from watching him on Justice with Judge Christina. He seemed like a really nice guy on the show. It just goes to prove that you never know what goes on behind closed doors. I always assumed that he probably did use steroids, because he seemed unnaturally huge. And I hear that those steroids really create a lot of anger issues in people who use them. So sad 😞 to see that this is what happened to him. My condolences 💐 to his wife and her family. 🙏🏾
I met Spivey..well, at the houston county jail. He was overseeing some work that inmates were doing. Seemed calm and collected. So unfortunate that he got into this mess. Reminder that anyone is prone to snapping.
You can't trust anyone these days. This is so sad😢
Spivey lied in the court clip that they'd been married 20 something years. What a big, dumb doofus! I hate that the only side of the story we're getting is his. R.I.P. Patricia.
I was wondering about that myself. Maybe he was married to 3 different women over the course of 20 something years.
You just never know what is going on behind closed doors. If one does, most of the time they don't believe someone can take it to that type of extreme.
Since when does a bailiff get classified as an actor🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
@@Feron55 He was a show for 8 years broham. Even if his role was to stand there and be quiet.
Why would you want to go to the furnual of someone you murdered. He should be denied by the family.😒
$50k bond for MURDER? Wow.
That’s unheard of that’s insane. I thought they meant it was 500k and he paid 50k to get out but nah it was 50,000k an he paid 5k to get out. That’s crazy asf an he never went to jail he was acquitted last year in December this video lied. Google it.
I personally knew Reynard he was a kind man. Always respectful. You just never know what goes on with people.
Kind men don’t pop their wife. The delusion and black male worship is real
@@anonimothy5979they lived in a big town so its very possible there are a plenty of husbands that are nice to the world and not so nice to the wife because a lot of the time they feel were married shes not going anywhere they get comfortable
🤦🏽♀️wow
He didn’t learn anything in life🙄what ashame.
Sleeping with the enemy this is so scary rest up Queen ❤🙏🏾
This is horrible and he knows that story that he gave is a LIE!!! He needs to be held accountable for what he did to her!!! May she rest peacefully and I'm so sorry that this happened to her and my condolences to the family and the loved ones of the victim!!!
$50000 bond - what a shame
Wow the bailiff !? Smh. I use to watch Cristina’s Court all the time too smh
Yeah I remember this cop way back in the 90s working security at the night clubs. He was a cool dude but this is truly a sad ending. Condolences to the families.
Okay, so he got upset with her because she wouldn't be intimate with him knowing he was out there sleeping with other women??? This woman lost her life trying to protect herself from the unsafe choices HE made. I'm so sorry this happened!😢
But these men will say she deserves it with their psychopathic narcissistic attitudes 🙄
Nope, she was upset he wasn't being intimate. He couldn't get it up. She suspected steroids or cheating
He look like dude from them Tyler Perry movies. The mean husband in “Diary of a Mad Black Woman”
😂😂😂😂
Roid Rage is no joke!
I bet when that man saw that he k*lled his wife he said I knew he wasn’t happy I called it utterly sad never judge a book by it’s cover although the gentleman was joking he was right. Riparadise Patrica ❤️🙏🏾
What a liar..for saying his wife shot him He should have been sent to spend the rest of his life in prison. What a senseless dangerous man
Instead of staying on the phone with an out of control man for hours, why not call the police? He threatened to rise up like the hulk on your sister........
I have two brothers and they are not the first ppl I would EVER call to protect me. These males are useless sometimes. Sorry to say! Smh my mom and sister will be there before anybody tho❤
It's that hope shit that get them killed. Hoping they're partner will come around
My sister and I was raised not to put our brothers in harm's way. Yes, maybe he should have called the police to let them handle the situation.
@@michellesmomentsyour parents must have knew their sons weren’t worth anything
That's why I'm staying happily single.
People that are really happy don't have to reinforce they're happy. I agree with your statement it just contains a tinge of forcefulness and cringe.
People can say they're happy but sooner or later people in relationships want to be single and single people want relationships.
Definitely not cringe or forceful. She's saying having a man isnt everything! And I agree! I rather be single and healthy and at peace.
Look at him though he look mad
Jesus Christ is coming back soon!!!
He should never had a bond. SMH RIP Patricia🕊
Abusive is written all over him
Rest in peace princess! And much love to the family!
I don’t think anyone’s buying his story about them allegedly ‘struggling’ over the gun. Look at the size of that guy.
Plus he was on steroids? I’m sure it wouldn’t have been much of a ‘struggle.’
Then somehow the gun magically ends up pointed at his wife and going off twice? She gets shot in the chest while he gets shot in the leg?
He probably shot himself in the leg afterwards just to try to make his story seem more plausible.
Amazing, his bail was the same as mine, and no one died
That's how you know there's some police corruption since he was a cop or this story is made up
This is a sad outcome for the TV personality and his late wife. RIP Patricia.
This is shocking. I always thought he was a kind respectful young man. *Just Disgraceful!!!*
@@pierrettelaf9728 King is talking bout yrs ago when he did the court show.
Condolences 💐
Dear Lord, to think he was a bailiff, which calm and composure is a requirement - sad. This dude is 6'2" and weighed almost 300 pounds said he was tussling with his wife over a gun - SMH
I know it was a big surprise to Judge Christa
50k bond on murder
Like wtf
This is very sad. This man has got friends in high places and he looks like he’s going to get away with it.😢
I never knew steroids gave you a high sex drive, I always thought it shrunk the peen
Dag, anyone can become a victim in evil or a victim in innocence
Man all I can see is her beautiful smile. I can tell she was a bright spirit…may her soul rest in peace ❤
I've always thought Mr. Spivey was angry when I watched him on tv. He has that kind of face that if he's not smiling he does look angry.
What he did is inexcusable and I'm sure it's unforgivable to her family. It's painful to even hear. She looked like a very nice and pretty lady. May she rest in eternal peace. 😢❤ Mr. Spivey has to be a miserable person
She was a beautiful woman! Her life was cut short for what? She was a mother, sister, and your wife! How’s this going to turn out! Judge Chirstina, can’t help you at all! Life without the possibility of parole! That’s where animals belong in cages!
He was sentenced to Life, HIS Life #fromHoustonTexas
Repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand!!!
YOU HAVE TO BE HAPPY IN YOUR HEART AND MIND, WITH YOUR LOVE MATE, I DON'T WANT TO BE SEXUAL ACTIVE WITH NO ONE IF IM NOT HAPPY WITH YOU
That's why I'm single and like McDonald's. I love it❤.... My life has purpose, and I love myself.
Ppl don't ever want to believe you when u tell them about ppl and their sex habit
She had such a sweet face ❤•
Go with the angels Patricia-
May your soul rest peacefully.
P.S: The man in court who said Reynard didn’t look happy could see right through him.
She was beautiful like Danielle Spencer (Dee from What's Happening!!)
Watching this, I now know, the woman he was married to during the filming of the show is not the same woman he killed.
How on earth did any woman see love on a face like that? Wtf
It always puzzles me. I think women are taught to ignore looks & give a narled face male a chance. Dude is hard on the eyes
@Fancy Perals.The men you have opened up your legs for are all inferior to Spivy
Sincere condolences to you and your family.
?a bond wtf?
I remember getting the hell away from a girl in the gym when I found out she was doing d bol.
She kept going off about the smallest things. We all knew her Popeye arms came from roids.
Steroids are. Very bad
Take a break, walk away, talk on the phone if need be.
Watch those steroids.
Rip beautiful, she had such a pretty smile. SMH
I’m not gon lie I stay away from dudes whose this big cuz I always get to thinkin about abuse not to say a skinny dude won’t do the same ,I just rather be alone
Like I said don't never say what nobody want to do
He got off over BLUE Privilege
Definitely, allowed out on bond after killing someone then only getting 14 years, that is wild.
THIS GUY WAS MARRIED TWICE.
AND THAT DIDN'T TELL HER SOMETHING????
It’s crazy how women still believe in the conditioning that men love them. Males love what they can get from you. And the sooner you understand that, the sooner you can get the jump on them and live your life.
Look at him, he look mad....😢
He shot himself that's common sense.
My condolences to her family and friends!
Ladies he is 63 some men at that age is not going to have a high sex drive without the steriods.
SO ... the Problem was the steroids ! Tht made his Lil Pee pee even SMALLER & HIS Sex drive wack ...
I thought she was mad the he couldn’t get it up because of the steroids…
They have many other safe options than steroids. Steroids have dangerous effects.
@@Cecelovesbirdie steroids sometimes causes low sex drive and he is older and with a younger women
May her soul rest in paradise May the good lord look down and her family at this time of pain from Jamaica
Never knew he went to jail for murder wow....I just remember him from the TV show
She was born same year as me . Praying for her family 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
He looked good for 63. Smh can’t believe he would take his wife’s life like this.
Imagine going thru life just fine happy and safe then boom, here comes a “husband”
The sad part is she was perfectly content before she met this monster. It's okay to be single, ladies. ☹️
No they need a man! Stop giving out bullshit feminist advice!
@@gmshadowtraders lies every man on earth continues to tell women. Y'all NEED US!!! We don't NEED you. Deal with it!🖕
Yes it s!! This is heart breaking!
Am happy for now until I meet my divine partner.
@@Joyful-gu5bj that's all smoke and mirrors no such thing as a "divine partner" don't set yourself up like that sis.