After having watched a couple of videos of him here, I can confidently say that this guy is LEGIT!! His advice is very relevant and applicable to both men and women equally. I also like how he goes straight to the point with whatever he has to say🎯. I'm gonna keep listening.
I went on a date with a young man. He knew I have a vehicle the first time we met. We met at the restaurant, but for the rest of the date I parked my car and rode with him in his car to the next location.
I have become regular here. Learning each day. Now i know mistakes i have made before. Narcissistic people suffocate you within the 1st week of dating..
Here representing the "self contained" women 🙋🏻♀️ with no apologies. Men should be confident enough to accommodate accomplished women who are go getters but also be ambitious in their own selves. Not trying to downgrade the woman a.k.a #enemiesofprogress 😒
Maybe this man will be an answer to African countries, cause the mindset of most African men are so limited and they are so self-centered, power eager, stereotypes, selfish autocratic etc.
So true. “Be blank but polite so that you can study him.” I do this all the time, give men space to be himself and I just observe and the answers are always there.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you........
Love the hair Joyce! Yasssss!!! On the topic though, be very aware of narcissists and sociopaths! Insecurity hubs. Loving the conversation... more English please for your audience in England 🙏🏾
This is dooope meeeen!How was i so blind that i couldn't see this channel long ago.Anyways, it isn't late at all,infact the right time to learn.Thank you for this lessons.
12:24-12:25 When you want to know what a man wants, don't describe what you want yourself. Sound advice! Steve Harvey said something similar on his talk show. You have to observe the man to see what his true character is.
Im so happy listening to this topic, cause my husband left me when i started making money and we went for counselling but his response was he want a divorce cause everything is done by my wife , the councillor from Zambia asked him did your wife ever say bad things about you he replied he just feel that way. Remember most women have higher positions then men now in Africa ! Please men of Africa accept us.
Im first listening here, I'm learning a lot thank you, please translate down with English when you speak your language so we can understand everything please thanx, Benjamin Zulu and everyone thank You
Wow. I am immensely impressed by Benjamin. He is life smart and manages to deliver serious psychological truths with a sense of humour. I need to binge watch his other interviews.
I really enjoy what I learn from these conversations! I even love it when you switch to Swahili, it reminds me of the power of being African, our languages are so beautiful. I personally don’t understand Swahili but I feel like I understand 🤣 when you talk, I make up my understanding as I go along!
Jst lestening to this dude once, i cant stop lestening to u. Find aman not a bull 🤣🤣🤣 Philosophical very realistic articulative and so intelligent etc❤❤
I stumbled on this page and I love Dr. Benjamin and Joyce you guys are amazing. i am totally hooked. Please I am Nigerian, can you guys interpret your language in English so that I can flow very well. thank you so much.
I used to feel bad when I turned down short guys. I'm relatively tall as a lady so I've always wanted someone taller than me so thank you Zulu for not making me feel bad about this.
My dear dont ever feel bad cos men dont feel bad about whatever they prefer in women, whether it is a particular complexion, breast size, bum size etc 😂😂 1,65 meter which is not short and also not so tall but I want to be able to wear heels and still not look down on a man.
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This is still a very valid discussion now as it was earlier in the year. Thank you Joyce
I think I need help,my man says I have mood swing how to deal with them.
Please can we have subtitles when you speak in your language. I enjoy your shows bt get lost when you switch to your language. Im Zimbabwean.
please speak english throughout or at least put subtitles
Please can you speak English please? Or please you can add a subtitle please. This is your Nigerian fan Benjamin Zulu
My answer is date with a purpose. Your relationship with God will define which partner you have.
100%true so true
I agree.
Well said
So true
Spot on!
He's right ladies .... Do not tell a man what you want in a man.
Wow
This man is so hilarious yet so wise. I could listen to him all day.
Insecurities when a man tracks you and where you are going. And when they judge how you are looking. Woooza
Good girls are not flattered by your achievements.😊
we look for character and integrity.
2021 ..you said it.. 😍😍😍😍
Well no that's wrong achievement is what makes men attractive because high status means He will be able to provide for the family
True
Yes money we make it ourselves, for more than two decade I HV done it
Unfortunately character and integrity alone don’t pay the bills
As a man, I am motivated to be the best version of myself for myself and for my queens.
"True love is jealous but not possessive" good one indeed 👍👌
After having watched a couple of videos of him here, I can confidently say that this guy is LEGIT!! His advice is very relevant and applicable to both men and women equally. I also like how he goes straight to the point with whatever he has to say🎯. I'm gonna keep listening.
Just started let me hear what he got to say
Ati we have learned fools😂😂 this man has wisdom
Don't give exclusivity to a man who hasn't earned it.Well taken in.
Really inspired to start my own CZcams Channel:)
Christian hypergamy
Good advise i like it
Hope you do!
I disovered this channel recently and have been binge watching. I am loving Benjamin's teachings.
Me too
Me too😭😹
Me as well
I went on a date with a young man. He knew I have a vehicle the first time we met. We met at the restaurant, but for the rest of the date I parked my car and rode with him in his car to the next location.
Wooow "true love is jealous but not possessive" I love it
AND THAT IS WHY WOMEN ARE ADVISED NOT TO SLEEP WITH MEN UNTIL THEY GET MARRIED.
💯💯
I agree
This is a terrible idea
@@Austin_ka why do you say it is a terrible idea?
@@trishtrish2349 How can you tell if you are sexually compatible to your partner? Sometimes its either you are compatible or not.
A driven man looks for a driven woman..
Full of energy in this discussion
Shine as the Noonday Sun Sir!!
You are brilliant!
May thy rising be evident to all and sundry!!
I have been listening to advise about relationship from foreigners I am glad finally we have sharp mind in Kenya. I thank God for you sir, keep going.
Hi loice
Same
Same,
We have all, only we need to be confident with our talents and he is ...
Hope it's not Kevin Samuel
When a guy asks me what I'm looking for in a man my answer is "he should be who he is"
Great answer👍🏽
Short and sweet
Mines I will know when I see it
Next time tell him you will know him when you find him.period
luv u
Here for the first time and I love Benjamin's advice, tips.. and Joyce's discussions. You are talking to the 40s too. Learning never ends
Am so getting inspired, am glad I came across this, Benjamin you're so right, thank you for this!
Could you please carry on the conversation in English. Non Swahili speakers are missing out on vital information. Much love.
Non English too might be missing😀😁
happy
happy
happy
You just voiced my thoughts
I have become regular here. Learning each day. Now i know mistakes i have made before. Narcissistic people suffocate you within the 1st week of dating..
@Sabina Moraa sorry my dia
Here representing the "self contained" women 🙋🏻♀️ with no apologies. Men should be confident enough to accommodate accomplished women who are go getters but also be ambitious in their own selves. Not trying to downgrade the woman a.k.a #enemiesofprogress 😒
Maybe this man will be an answer to African countries, cause the mindset of most African men are so limited and they are so self-centered, power eager, stereotypes, selfish autocratic etc.
Wah, Kali Ms Kanyi, am raising my daughter to be a bit self contained. This life you never know.
been this unapologetic self contained women. i got married to a man who tried to change who i am n downgrade me, i had to drop his sorry ass
I guess according to you women are perfect and changing needs to happen to men only and you call us selfish nkt!! Education needs to happen to both
So true. “Be blank but polite so that you can study him.” I do this all the time, give men space to be himself and I just observe and the answers are always there.
Everything he speaks i feel boom i have done every mistake 😂😂😂🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 not too bad i am just 21years
Ain’t you lucky!
much love Benjamin from South Africa🇿🇦
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you........
I am so in love with Benjamin Zulu,I am glad I found you just when am preparing for this journey may God bless you and continue giving you wisdom.
Your sense of humour kills me Benjamin. Anyway may God bless you for your teachings.
Joyce,, I just love how calm you are always. Baraka
Love the hair Joyce! Yasssss!!! On the topic though, be very aware of narcissists and sociopaths! Insecurity hubs.
Loving the conversation... more English please for your audience in England 🙏🏾
I love listening to Benjamin Zulu. A valuable message to all, humorous too!
I just love this show. Thank u Benjamin...so much truth here!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👌🏾
I like this kid of talk, this is gorgeous, thanks for being not selfish🤗be blessed guys🇳🇦 from Namibia.
M nw obsessed about watching yo interviews....Mr Benjamin....great advicer....love frm Zimbabwe🇿🇼
My goodness listening to Benjamin is like therapy for me..thanks sooo much for this program and your expertise in relationships.
Gatta love this talk.. Wow.. Wish I knew this 20 years ago🤔It is well. Thank you Benjamin 🙏
Wisdom in this interview is priceless.
Benjamin is everything I swear🤣🤣🤣🤣 thanks Joyce en Zulu for ths educative topic
🤣🤣🤣🤣very educational and funny!! I can hear Mr Zulu for hours and hours....👍👍
Ugandan here too
Benjamin is just too obsessive
Cant stop watching, he is someone really inspiring and awareness awakening.
Obsessive or Addictive?
@@KenyanAtHeart I think its obsessive
Addiction not exactly
Tsup Peris
I like this guy. Kenyan men describe a wife as a house help.
They are running mad,is there any parents that can raise a daughter to become a nanny,those men they need psychologists
All African men not only Kenyans
@@nakamijunic5844 not only Africans most men in saudi they have just allowed them to drive a car
Ag xem!!! That's more African men's small mind set.that's women abuse.
💯
I love what you are saying, brimming with wisdom and sound advice, THANK YOU!!!
😍
I can say that all people who have come a cross your teachings are so so blessed.....am blessed too 👍👍👍👍
🤣🤣🤣 this Zulu is so hilarious and too real!I love it!
Wow... Good point,my goodness am glad to be here❤ God bless you guys
😂😂😂😂😂😂uuuh! This man though! My ribs are not safe right now
This is dooope meeeen!How was i so blind that i couldn't see this channel long ago.Anyways, it isn't late at all,infact the right time to learn.Thank you for this lessons.
12:24-12:25 When you want to know what a man wants, don't describe what you want yourself. Sound advice! Steve Harvey said something similar on his talk show. You have to observe the man to see what his true character is.
This is true ,it has always been my weakness
I can listen to this man all day
Im so happy listening to this topic, cause my husband left me when i started making money and we went for counselling but his response was he want a divorce cause everything is done by my wife , the councillor from Zambia asked him did your wife ever say bad things about you he replied he just feel that way. Remember most women have higher positions then men now in Africa ! Please men of Africa accept us.
Congratulations Mr Benjamin for good teaching I cant get enough for your teaching may God continue giving more wisdom
Benjamin and Joyce thank you so much
New sub ..I can’t get enough of Benjamin
Everytime I come to CZcams I must watch benjamin speak...pure wisdom.
This is so DEEEEP!!! Wow! Wisdom at its best, more blessings Zulu.
Zulu mentored me when was in form four and since then have liked the guy..Zulu we emea vau
U r very lucky
Ur lucky
Vau vau
Am so enlightened... thank you guys
Great wisdom..I really love it
Im first listening here, I'm learning a lot thank you, please translate down with English when you speak your language so we can understand everything please thanx, Benjamin Zulu and everyone thank You
I love this programme. Thank you Benjamin
Thank you for being so informative ,you are the best .
My goodness thanks for this show.
I love this guy for free, he is so real.
Benjamin.. I love your wisdom!!! Taking notes for the future.
I love this show!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 “even on earth 🌍 you can’t tell who is for real , who is fake” Benjamin Zulu is here to keep it real. This been a fun show👍👍👍
When did relationship discussions become this interesting and fun. Lol Benjamin Zulu.
This man says it as it is! I love it
Wow!wow! Incredible wisdom there
Thank you for blessing us with such wisdom
I love this topic very good advice God bless you my brother
I am from Zimbabwe, I looooove this show. But I feel I loose a lot of important information when you switch from English 😭😭😭
Taura hako
Me too we need translation really
Wao wao..am lucky am not married but already 30 ..but i look young my body is small...i can now make the right decesions..bless joyce & zulu.
Wow. I am immensely impressed by Benjamin. He is life smart and manages to deliver serious psychological truths with a sense of humour. I need to binge watch his other interviews.
I love how they switch from English and Swahili even though I dont understand a word from the later.
I konw , we are in the same boat .
Me too
I can teach you
I really enjoy what I learn from these conversations! I even love it when you switch to Swahili, it reminds me of the power of being African, our languages are so beautiful. I personally don’t understand Swahili but I feel like I understand 🤣 when you talk, I make up my understanding as I go along!
Swahili is so beautiful
Me too 🤣🤣🤣 I'm even willing to learn Swahili through CZcams tutorials
Jst lestening to this dude once, i cant stop lestening to u. Find aman not a bull 🤣🤣🤣
Philosophical very realistic articulative and so intelligent etc❤❤
I like this man already...
Perfect show I really love both of u guys, u inspire us so much
Wow Benjamin Zulu, good job. i will never forget the first day i met you and the time you took me to a mission in kitui. Good job bro. KUDOS
He's is so refreshing!
so educative.kip it up,honestly have learned something
Wow!! This guy is really enlightened he talks with a lot of Zeal and he totally makes sense.
This is an eye-opener! I hope they did this video 4 years ago, the time before I entered a relationship.
I need this guy as my mentor 😩❤️😂
l love this man so much , you always make my days look younger thanks for the show May God continue giving u wisdom
Waaa nilikua wapi mwanzoni..it's just today..by it's realities.. thanks brother Benjamin na wasikilizaji
I stumbled on this page and I love Dr. Benjamin and Joyce you guys are amazing. i am totally hooked. Please I am Nigerian, can you guys interpret your language in English so that I can flow very well. thank you so much.
We need more of this to our singles aki ....this is really educational
Such profound wisdom Mr Zulu!! Love from Zimbabwe
A very wise man there. He is spitting fire. I just stumbled on this channel and I am hooked already. Kindly reduce the code switching
wow i have learned alot just from benjamin's conversation
Wooow your words are full of facts and wisdom
I should HV learnt to listen to you like immediately I was a teen.nevertheless its never too late!
Your a gift for us dear. God bless you.
Hello!! Mr Zulu, I didn't know that God, Could lift you this way, Wonderful........, Man of God, Glory to God, for such a Wisdom
Eeeish very knowledgeable, I really feel wow. Wise words to us
Joyce, how are you not rolling on the floor laughing....😂😂
I wonder ,the way this man is funny and wise😄😄😄😄😄
I have just discovered these videos and am loving this ...this man is speaking truths ...please add interpretation to the Swahili bits x
there things you can't say in English and even when translated they lose their meaning
sorry for that
I have learnt a lot from this conversation.
Thanks Sir. You've confirmed a lot to me through this video.
I used to feel bad when I turned down short guys. I'm relatively tall as a lady so I've always wanted someone taller than me so thank you Zulu for not making me feel bad about this.
My dear dont ever feel bad cos men dont feel bad about whatever they prefer in women, whether it is a particular complexion, breast size, bum size etc 😂😂 1,65 meter which is not short and also not so tall but I want to be able to wear heels and still not look down on a man.
@@durbansaladyinaccra2173 yes o thank you ma. This so so true and I can totally relate.
Me I like tall girl ladies o. Where are you based in fine tall lady?
@@shodapad07 😂😂😂😂😂😂