From OVERWHELMED To ENJOYING Motherhood More| ADULTING & THRIVING

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  • čas přidán 13. 06. 2024
  • At the end of the day, we're all trying to live happy fulfilled lives as moms. Through anchoring ourselves in God and our passions, every single day is spent trying to make the best out of life as an adult, more so as a mom!
    How do you find joy in adulting?
    Let us know in the comments below.
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Komentáře • 271

  • @bumploveug
    @bumploveug  Před měsícem +8

    At the end of the day, we're all trying to live happy fulfilled lives as moms. Through anchoring ourselves in God and our passions, every single day is spent trying to make the best out of life as an adult, more so as a mom!
    How do you find joy in adulting?
    Let us know in the comments below.
    Wardrobe: Cadia Fashions & Arija Fashions
    Make up: Nisky, Tina Brows & Sununu Effect
    Hair: Zuri Uganda
    Please like this video if you enjoyed it and share it with someone who will too!
    Follow us on all our socials for updates:
    Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug
    Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove
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    • @katusabemargret9347
      @katusabemargret9347 Před měsícem

      I can say my adult life is full of struggles ,but just pushing on with all I can do for a better life

    • @kirabo.mariam5891
      @kirabo.mariam5891 Před měsícem +2

      Friday is for education 🎉🎉
      Mob love ladies

  • @imacayebazibwe6412
    @imacayebazibwe6412 Před měsícem +11

    Bev, go and offer a very good tip to the person who did make up. You are shining bright like a diamond

  • @bridgetndyamuhaki8873
    @bridgetndyamuhaki8873 Před měsícem +30

    The woman with natural hair banage , looking so natural and amazing

    • @rachaelnabukko4358
      @rachaelnabukko4358 Před měsícem

      She is called Beverly

    • @bridgetndyamuhaki8873
      @bridgetndyamuhaki8873 Před měsícem

      @@rachaelnabukko4358 ok , i like her

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev Před měsícem

      Thank you

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today Před měsícem +8

      I'm telling you she is beautiful.When I was in my s6 vacation, I used to volunteer at a women's organization. She used to come there to use the internet. She must have been in her 20s ( the organization used to be on Bukoto street). I am telling you this lady's beauty would just be oozing in that Cafe. Back then she had no kids and her body was banging. It's still banging but ehhhh! This lady will age beautifully ❤

  • @aggyakuamoah8767
    @aggyakuamoah8767 Před měsícem +7

    Bev asking Barbara how she is. . . seems so simple but yet it is so powerful.
    Do you know how many people we say how are you to but they do not return the question. Thank you for being mindful of eachother - THANK YOU FOR SEEING EACHOTHER.
    It is beautiful♡.
    BEV your make up is so on point today. Manuela your fringe is buriful on you, Barbara your grace fills up the room.
    Yall are beautiful.
    Keep shining.

  • @wildpansy2023
    @wildpansy2023 Před měsícem +7

    Adulting is rafting.
    Self preservation
    Stop explaining decisions
    Maintaining who u are.
    Nothing lasts forever
    ..... Beautiful insights on here. Im blessed

  • @malaikamalaika4062
    @malaikamalaika4062 Před měsícem +15

    Awwwww! Ms. Barbara is soooo sweet! What a host!

  • @Tuongeemediahub
    @Tuongeemediahub Před měsícem +9

    People giving unnecessary opinions and asking for the previous ladies cut us some slack they decided to leave and let's respect their decisions plus embrace 2.0 i absolutely love them all kudos ladies ❤❤

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo Před měsícem +1

      It really is a fact of life that people manage change differently......some people embrace it quickly and positively, some negatively, but some just do not know how to embrace change....

    • @KomanaKatangaTee
      @KomanaKatangaTee Před měsícem

      @@manuelap.mulondothe only constant thing in our lives is change. From the moment of conception till death, change is the only thing that never stops. I wish people could embrace change more openly

    • @ConquererAnita-ns7qu
      @ConquererAnita-ns7qu Před měsícem

      I have learnt to decide without explaining from u ladies. Coz ehh pipo can make u oba feel how?

    • @basketballdiaries2846
      @basketballdiaries2846 Před 9 dny

      True, these women are just as great 👍

  • @nalubugaketra
    @nalubugaketra Před měsícem +15

    Barbra’s Calmness is a whole goal❤..

    • @babramugeni2966
      @babramugeni2966 Před měsícem +1

      Thank you ❤

    • @juliannamuyaba7445
      @juliannamuyaba7445 Před měsícem

      Barbra, can I be sharing some songs with you?? I too have the same wish like you.. gospel artist😅

    • @babramugeni2966
      @babramugeni2966 Před měsícem

      @juliana I would love that , thank you

  • @dorakaysinga3115
    @dorakaysinga3115 Před měsícem +8

    I sooo needed this episode on adulting... I've been waiting for it since forever! When I was little, as little as 10 years old, I couldn't wait to grow up! I don't actually remember particularly enjoying being a child.. even when adults said enjoy the sleep and being a child, I xoulsnt wait to grow up! As a 17 year old, I was sooo busy dreaming and planning my future like Manuella, even when they would tell me to enjoy being 17, I couldn't! Ironically, I was also so afraid of what adulthood would bring.. then lo and behold! It brought! My wake up call was when I had kids.. that's when adulting real hit. So for now, I'm on those rapids and water falls, finding my way as we go along.. juggling them balls! 💪

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo Před měsícem

      This was so me. Yikes! Now I tell my kids to enjoy their childhood

  • @bridgetbamulinde3181
    @bridgetbamulinde3181 Před měsícem +16

    This episode has really brought out your real selves. You were all comfortable in your skins .... Cheers to more growth. I can't wait to see you all blossom

    • @katek4724
      @katek4724 Před měsícem +1

      I agree... finally it's beginning to feel natural.

    • @esther7975
      @esther7975 Před měsícem +2

      This is a reminder that it's not easy in the beginning but it will always get better then perfect 🎉

  • @rosettewam
    @rosettewam Před měsícem +16

    Great show. @Barbara thank you for proudly sharing your faith and asking deep reflection questions. @ Beverly I love your zeal for life. We are the same age and I too celebrate the next decades. I have started counting to the 5th floor. @ Manuella thank you for being the vision bearerfor this show you are certainly serving many women and changing legacies. You all #Keepsoaring

  • @user-mz1wd4qo7x
    @user-mz1wd4qo7x Před měsícem +7

    Amazing ladies,oh my God these ladies are so great, nothing is better than digging deeper into a conversation,now adulting feels good 😊.Love that the ladies are fewer for better conversations,but in the two new ladies,with Beverley,I still see Pumla and Angie,with Babra, there's a blend of Rachel and Rosette,Manuela,you did a great job getting this two ladies,3 of you but 7 in the show,its a blend of 1.0 and 2.0 is even perfect,well well done 👍

  • @clairenakasi8042
    @clairenakasi8042 Před měsícem +7

    To me adulting has been learning that life is lived in seasons, some very warm and radiant, others very cloudy, gloomy and grey...but i am anchored in this; knowing that the clouds may pass and quickly and simply give way to the sun or the clouds may pour out so much rain that i get drenched, be cold and shivery, however irrespective of it all, somehow the clouds and the rain must make way for the beauty and radiance of the sun😊!!

  • @ellenkansiime5908
    @ellenkansiime5908 Před měsícem +11

    Barbra you're such a wonderful host! Thank you ladies.

  • @theonlymrswoodcharity5597
    @theonlymrswoodcharity5597 Před měsícem +6

    I never stop learning from.bump love.i shall stay real to who i am.
    Love you ladies.....❤

  • @ssenkumbahope5332
    @ssenkumbahope5332 Před měsícem +2

    You're right Barbra. I don't like it when people expect us to explain ourselves why we don't do things the way they excepted. And Bev, saying no graciously, I like. Thank you Manuela for these ladies

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo Před měsícem

      You are welcome. Enjoy them as much as I do. I know they will bless your lives

  • @magalienia6958
    @magalienia6958 Před měsícem +5

    This episode shld be called- Bump Love (The Sage Nugget Edition).
    The ladies dispensed so much wisdom; btn the art of self-preservation & graciously learning to say no ...our cups runneth over.
    " No Is A Complete Sentence" stop explaining yaself when it's not necessary.
    What a difference
    afew episodes make, it's awesome to watch Barbara getting comfortable in front of the camera.
    Yes!Manuela giving Cleopatra vibes with that hair & gold hue (hello Elizabeth Taylor!)
    Bev's makeup is beautiful.

  • @doreenk.arinawe
    @doreenk.arinawe Před měsícem +3

    God is my anchor too. Coz my goodness, life can mean to happen.

  • @igniteyourinnerman8029
    @igniteyourinnerman8029 Před měsícem +5

    Barbra, my kind of girl! You don't have to explain yourself.

  • @dianeseromba5743
    @dianeseromba5743 Před měsícem +5

    Beverly is looking exceptionally great today. Perfect attire, and your hair is on point❤❤ . Thanks for sharing your experience with us ladies.❤❤❤

  • @adultspurpose
    @adultspurpose Před měsícem +3

    Girls the raft is the best illustration about adulting...I can vividly see my self flipping over...😂

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 Před měsícem +5

    You carried this very well Barbara! Bev, you are such a good listener going by the way you pick up on the littlest things and the way you expound on them.

  • @angelumwiza329
    @angelumwiza329 Před měsícem +2

    Hey Bumplove, I am making 24 years on Monday. What I would tell myself at 17? "You worry a lot girl. Relax and be true to yourself. Pausing is ok Enjoy the ride." Thanks Bumplove

  • @Njoki-bw3vp
    @Njoki-bw3vp Před měsícem +2

    Y'all feel to me like the big sisters I need now Wholesome, godly, exemplary, wise...

  • @mubeezichristine09
    @mubeezichristine09 Před měsícem +8

    "Nothing under the sun except for God lasts forever " .... Manuela
    Listening to this while going through some different time has lifted my spirit ...
    Thank you ladies ❤

  • @sunshineheaven1802
    @sunshineheaven1802 Před měsícem +5

    Wow wow Thank you, ladies.... for an awesome one, I so love that part of staying true to who you are; I think society conditions us to explain so much to make us look okay. Coping mechanisms as long as they are not harmful then we stick to those. Adulting is not a scam but it is an open-ground reality check on a life we have always viewed from a safe space but now we get to participate in all the activities including the ones we do not like but have to carry out. I love the child-like faith, allowing me to dream, looking back my best years were 20 years and below, and maybe now from now and into the future...22 to 27 were not good at all. I think I have not been promoted in two years, I have been stuck but now I am going forward. I am really a dreamer, it had dimmed down but I have picked up momentum.

  • @katek4724
    @katek4724 Před měsícem +6

    Ya... growing up is hectic. For me its knowing there is nobody else to fix things except me.

  • @pat1998
    @pat1998 Před měsícem +15

    Barbara is a fantastic host

  • @preciousmoryn5583
    @preciousmoryn5583 Před měsícem +5

    Thank you for this episode ladies
    I have now learnt to live in the moment even wen I have future dreams too

  • @setonfire347
    @setonfire347 Před měsícem +2

    I am definitely Bev! I’d come back as myself - just wiser and more disciplined. Love, love, love BL 2.0. New minds, new tongues, new eyes, new lived experiences. Well done ladies! I’m on that “I was not available “ journey!

  • @vani4738
    @vani4738 Před měsícem +1

    Hey ladies thanks for the show. Adulting happens in stages. What you shared as a point of uncertainty and not understanding who you are is called emerging adulthood, then there is the young adulthood stage and then finally adulthood. They all have different developmental characteristics. If people knew what kind of stage they are at, a lot of heartache and confusion would be avoided.

  • @margretmugaba7992
    @margretmugaba7992 Před měsícem +2

    Rafting is the perfect description of Adulting. Its constantly swinging from one mountain, to the valley and back.

  • @peninahmachaga9214
    @peninahmachaga9214 Před měsícem +4

    Wow, these ladies are beautiful inside and out. The knowledge and light that you have shared about Adulting has really blessed me. More Grace beautiful ladies. My take home is from Barbra -Maintain who you are despite the circumstances it results to inner peace.

  • @doreenk.arinawe
    @doreenk.arinawe Před měsícem +1

    This conversation is very liberating. Putting into words what we are going through as adults.

  • @estherasio367
    @estherasio367 Před měsícem +2

    my ladies you are all looking so beautiful wow, the wisdom in you is beyond measure ,Manuela,Barbara,Beverly. lots of love.ADULTING IS REAL

  • @lizieatuha3376
    @lizieatuha3376 Před měsícem +1

    The episodes are getting better, good job team❤. I appreciate the vulnerability, it makes the conversations more relatable.

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today Před měsícem +6

    Thank you Manuela for choosing these ladies to represent Bumplove. Thank you for also being a representative.❤

  • @mirembegracejuliet1387
    @mirembegracejuliet1387 Před měsícem +1

    I love Beverly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! eh! i am drawing so much to her! Babs too. lovely smile. she is so poised. manuela gwe ur a constant silikuta foreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. GREAT TEAM

  • @namusokepearleunice99
    @namusokepearleunice99 Před měsícem

    very awesome conversation topic and great insights shared by you all. thumbs up.

  • @fridahnakabiri3525
    @fridahnakabiri3525 Před měsícem +1

    I rarely rewatch videos immediately unless it’s a sermon and I had to make notes but my dears u blessed me and answered some of the questions I have been asking myself lately.
    God bless u. I can honestly say this was for me. I will save to rewatch on my next birthday.

  • @PatienceAnguparu
    @PatienceAnguparu Před měsícem +1

    Another one I turn to is writing just lyk Mrs. Berv... and wen I look back after sometym wen I have overcome the problem and I nolonger think abt t,,, I give. God more thanks

  • @nakittohellen3934
    @nakittohellen3934 Před měsícem +4

    Good insights you need God as your anchoring

  • @MaryMaina-lu3fe
    @MaryMaina-lu3fe Před měsícem

    I listen to these episodes smiling....so much love from Kenya.. The growth is so evident❤more grace bumplove ....i really do love you ❤❤❤

  • @sumayamya357
    @sumayamya357 Před měsícem +1

    The 3 beauties...Happy to see you again

  • @gracegift7994
    @gracegift7994 Před měsícem +1

    Awwwww ❤❤❤ what more can I ask for! Thank you 🎉

  • @kemigishagrace7285
    @kemigishagrace7285 Před 22 dny

    I need Bev as my mentor. I genuinely love her energy

  • @yigadouglas2827
    @yigadouglas2827 Před měsícem +1

    Wow, wonderful topic, wow so challenging, mind blowing , long live bump love 💪💪
    Blessings

  • @kisakyedeborah4042
    @kisakyedeborah4042 Před měsícem +1

    It always nice being here. Thanks @bumplove 2.0

  • @georginwillo5000
    @georginwillo5000 Před měsícem +1

    Woww
    Thank you ladies
    A lot of lessons from here.❤

  • @namulindageorgette.m6243
    @namulindageorgette.m6243 Před měsícem

    I started adulting when I was in second year of campus,now am 24 and am grateful to bump love that is trying to give us ways to manouver through it.

  • @christinenakazzi280
    @christinenakazzi280 Před měsícem +4

    Ladies your looking gorgeous, you all explained Adulting differently well the message was sent. ❤❤❤

  • @PatienceAnguparu
    @PatienceAnguparu Před měsícem

    Thank u guys,, one of my mechanisms I turn to is bump love,,, emotionally it helps me no matter wat,, Gid bless u,, I love you

  • @awillifiona
    @awillifiona Před měsícem

    I love you ladies....more grace and blessings to you all❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-jz1rd3lx3m
    @user-jz1rd3lx3m Před měsícem +2

    Thanks ladies.Barbra is like Reachel.So calm and composed! Bev reminds me of Pumla.So out spoken . Thanks Manuela.Long live bump love.We learn a lot from you ladies.

  • @faridahakiiki3884
    @faridahakiiki3884 Před měsícem +1

    Woooow Mandela, breverly, Barbra thanks alot ladies you instilling sense into me 🎉

  • @rachaelnabukko4358
    @rachaelnabukko4358 Před měsícem +13

    Thanks ladies for this show, I wish you invited ki Pumla to allow weigh in on Adulthood. But back to the topic I have been flipped off by maids behavior still struggling in that area. But listening through I am encouraged that nothing last forever, I will put up with the maids for a little while and I will be through, I know kids will grow and yeah things will be OK. Today is the last day into my contract but I am brave and I know there is light at the end of the tunnel. But Adulthood is hard I feel personally I wasn't ready, we need to speak more to the younger ones to prepare for the worst times.

    • @magalienia6958
      @magalienia6958 Před měsícem

      I totally second that suggestion of speaking to the younger ones & preparing them for the inevitable adulting.

    • @MariaGorretyNamubiru
      @MariaGorretyNamubiru Před měsícem

      Same, I was wondering what Pumla would say especially on this topic

    • @setonfire347
      @setonfire347 Před měsícem +14

      I didn’t miss Pumla in this episode. I guess it is AQ- Adverse Quotient - ability to move with change. This quorum is well constituted. Life is lived in seasons. We can’t keep looking backwards to what could be, what is - is perfect.

    • @MariaGorretyNamubiru
      @MariaGorretyNamubiru Před měsícem

      @@setonfire347 the conversation actually unfolded beautifully….the fact that we are here every week to watch, I believe we are coping well with the change as well and yes these ladies are amazing.

    • @Shar-N
      @Shar-N Před měsícem

      @@magalienia6958 right? So that kids can enjoy childhood and not rush to grow up because eh!!!

  • @user-ib2in6sh6g
    @user-ib2in6sh6g Před měsícem +1

    Raw and real. Just amazing......starting to move on from Bumplove 1.0

  • @mollymusoki6341
    @mollymusoki6341 Před měsícem +2

    Wow, i loved the topic

  • @alicekanyana7277
    @alicekanyana7277 Před měsícem +3

    WISDOM!!!

  • @Flamingo_pink
    @Flamingo_pink Před měsícem +7

    Beverly nkwagadde!! #impact.

  • @mutesibetty-hd7xg
    @mutesibetty-hd7xg Před měsícem +2

    Wow I love the show women of substance thanks for helping women out there to have that confidence

  • @Idaregin
    @Idaregin Před měsícem

    I’m on a journey on understanding what respect and submission to men is and this conversation has clarified a few things. It’s different for every man. I guess my job is to ask my future husband what he regards as respect and submission.

  • @paulineshavuyashavuya9644
    @paulineshavuyashavuya9644 Před měsícem

    Thank you ladies for the lessons

  • @baramassarah5094
    @baramassarah5094 Před měsícem +2

    I loved this❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @akellosarah4539
    @akellosarah4539 Před měsícem +1

    This episode is so amazing am so in love with 2.0 bump love let's keep sailing together

  • @PLAY-yu5wf
    @PLAY-yu5wf Před měsícem +1

    I love the poem

  • @kunihiragloria5009
    @kunihiragloria5009 Před měsícem

    Ive learnt soo much today, Thank you ladies.

  • @Elise-Ruth
    @Elise-Ruth Před měsícem +2

    Lovely conversation ladies…

  • @user-jr3sf9cl8t
    @user-jr3sf9cl8t Před měsícem +3

    Thiiiiiiiiisssssssss.......has been well done. Thank you for sharing candidly with such perceived authenticity.

  • @lizzienntate
    @lizzienntate Před měsícem +1

    Great topic, thax ladies.

  • @blessingsharindah6710
    @blessingsharindah6710 Před měsícem

    waiting for u on Friday my ladies. Shine on

  • @kojokiliberty1002
    @kojokiliberty1002 Před měsícem

    Am just just happy to be here

  • @NEKESAJUSTIN-sc2tp
    @NEKESAJUSTIN-sc2tp Před měsícem +2

    I have done white water rafting and I will definitely do it. Perfect comparison for adulting because the rapids never end but you will always have time to enjoy the water, take some cool pics as you proceed to next rapids.

  • @juliannamuyaba7445
    @juliannamuyaba7445 Před měsícem

    Bambinyoubare smart , this is very beautiful conversation .. very encouraging , practical and educative

  • @jobosa2969
    @jobosa2969 Před měsícem +1

    Very profound discussion . Keep it up ladies.

  • @sarahganny
    @sarahganny Před měsícem

    I love that poem

  • @JamillahNassali
    @JamillahNassali Před měsícem +3

    The lesson shall always repeat itself until you learn it.

  • @zaburahzaburahh1784
    @zaburahzaburahh1784 Před měsícem

    We love you ladies❤❤🎉🎉

  • @annettesasha564
    @annettesasha564 Před měsícem +2

    I love the natural hair ,let's embrace the African culture ladies

  • @janetmusasizi8748
    @janetmusasizi8748 Před měsícem

    Beautiful conversation ❤

  • @rachealmutonyi365
    @rachealmutonyi365 Před měsícem

    Have really learnt from this session.Thank you so much

  • @bisangamarvin4636
    @bisangamarvin4636 Před měsícem +2

    Awww Beverly, super proud of you 🎉

  • @narindashirah4766
    @narindashirah4766 Před měsícem +3

    I love these ladies

  • @Flamingo_pink
    @Flamingo_pink Před měsícem

    Sweet sweet episodee

  • @kemigishamichelle5971
    @kemigishamichelle5971 Před měsícem +2

    Well done❤

  • @gowadee1703
    @gowadee1703 Před měsícem +2

    Bev, you look so beautiful!

  • @ConquererAnita-ns7qu
    @ConquererAnita-ns7qu Před měsícem

    U all look beautiful, I love u all. Beauty with brains. Blessings. I love bump love. Ohhhh yes I do.

  • @Deedor72
    @Deedor72 Před měsícem

    Hahahaha if wishes were horses..beautiful conversation 😍😍😍😍

  • @kemigishabwongyererwa4917
    @kemigishabwongyererwa4917 Před měsícem

    This is great! We are back!

  • @lifeofachom
    @lifeofachom Před měsícem +1

    So true Manuela Bambi can explain to detail..I remember we had an appointment,and I texted her ,she sent me a pic of her Blake in the hospital and explained she had to escort her son , I was like okaaay☺️loved the honesty though

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo Před měsícem

      Hahahahahahaha, I always feel compelled to explain, now see these ladies are teaching me bad manners 😅🤣😂😅🤣😂😅🤣😂

  • @atuhairwemary.immaculate4380
    @atuhairwemary.immaculate4380 Před měsícem +3

    Beverly. Oh beverly. ❤

  • @perisnyoha143
    @perisnyoha143 Před měsícem +1

    I realy love this show...from kenya❤❤❤

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo Před měsícem

      Kariba karibu. Lovely to have you in the BumpLove family

  • @thennungitv6240
    @thennungitv6240 Před měsícem +1

    I think I love this,,,, to the person who recommended me to this channel, THANK YOU ❤

  • @susanbamanya787
    @susanbamanya787 Před měsícem

    Me am speechless still pondering

  • @carolynebalungi9720
    @carolynebalungi9720 Před měsícem

    This was insightful 😊

  • @bisangamarvin4636
    @bisangamarvin4636 Před měsícem

    I take walks. Small steps as I talk to myself. It helps self regulate my emotions. As a first born it can be intense navigating expectations and reality.
    The walks help a lot

  • @lucianagawa3371
    @lucianagawa3371 Před měsícem

    Love love u ladies..Thank u

  • @katusabemargret9347
    @katusabemargret9347 Před měsícem +2

    Well be back guys, your smart

  • @acandaritah9670
    @acandaritah9670 Před měsícem +13

    I love Madam Natural hair’s energy❤

  • @Trinitychoi4857
    @Trinitychoi4857 Před měsícem

    I have been missing bump love.. wea ma ladies banange... pumla, Angie