Think and Speak Like a British Person! 🇬🇧 What we SAY vs what we MEAN!

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  • What British people SAY isn't always what they MEAN! Learn how to think and speak like a British person! 📝 Get your FREE lesson PDF here 👉🏼ewl.info/think-speak-pdf
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Komentáře • 430

  • @EnglishwithLucy
    @EnglishwithLucy  Před 4 měsíci +53

    📝 Get your FREE lesson PDF here👉🏼ewl.info/think-speak-pdf
    🗣Free LanguaTalk trial and $10 lesson credit here👉🏼 bit.ly/FindBritishTutor (message the support team with BRITISH10 after your first purchase!) - *Ad/Affiliate

    • @Sunshinepower696
      @Sunshinepower696 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Thanks 🧡

    • @essammarie5974
      @essammarie5974 Před 4 měsíci

      Actually, I am required to improve my skills in English listening when I listen to someone from British. I don't understand what does he says

    • @mmhamid2300
      @mmhamid2300 Před 4 měsíci

      Thanks alot ❤

    • @abdi-123
      @abdi-123 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ❤❤❤❤beauty teacher

    • @AbraoManuel-ht9ui
      @AbraoManuel-ht9ui Před 4 měsíci

      I'm keen on you teacher. I hope your lessons Will master my English skiils.

  • @ms-ht1cj
    @ms-ht1cj Před 4 měsíci +182

    Aren't Japanese similar in this matter? Avoiding confrontation, I mean.
    We, Polish, love to complain. Meeting a friend and saying "Yeah, everything ok, I feel great" is something we never say. 😂 Sometimes a conversation between two people consist in "boasting" about who has it worse. 😂 So, when you ask Polish person "How's going?", the answer you get will be: "Not great/eh/same old". It means we're okay and happy. 🤣

    • @sweetsunnyvibes
      @sweetsunnyvibes Před 4 měsíci

      Polish people have a reason to be upset. They've been abused for years, screwed around from all sides. The first victim of WW2, the scapegoat of WW1

    • @vanconferenceinterpreting
      @vanconferenceinterpreting Před 4 měsíci +6

      Vietnamese culture shares the same indirectness

    • @JaskaJ
      @JaskaJ Před 4 měsíci +14

      Love your explanation of "Not great/eh/same old".🤣🤣🤣 Although I am Polish by blood and bone, in this case I am definitely American, which means always happy, never complaining. Best from Gdańsk, Poland.

    • @benzell4
      @benzell4 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Human connections!

    • @D.C.1
      @D.C.1 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Sooo true! LOL!

  • @KayleeANNAytbe
    @KayleeANNAytbe Před 4 měsíci +123

    If you want to avoid confrontation don't compliment things you don't like to avoid being fake and rude 😊

    • @adriannakiss3920
      @adriannakiss3920 Před 4 měsíci +7

      I actually came here to say the exact same thing, lol

    • @magdabak5797
      @magdabak5797 Před 4 měsíci +8

      Yes, but Some People desperately want to Say something, anything. That is why they will Say any bullshit Just to keep the small talk going.

    • @DubaiShortsChannel
      @DubaiShortsChannel Před 4 měsíci +2

      Nah, that'll be too easy and honest.. Hypocrisy hooray!

    • @sujitmohanty1
      @sujitmohanty1 Před 4 měsíci +1

      That's y u r not British! It's an art dear!

    • @VukaGhost
      @VukaGhost Před 4 měsíci

      @@sujitmohanty1 sounds like compliment

  • @paolafrancescarepetto637
    @paolafrancescarepetto637 Před 4 měsíci +45

    Some time ago, I wrote a letter on behalf of a friend of mine who had a disagreement with a British airline about a ticket refund. After reading it, my friend found it bland and asked me if I couldn't have been a little more forceful. I had used expressions such as "I'm feeling a bit disappointed", "I don't think your assessment is really fair" "Your answer was not exactly what I would have expected". I answered him I had been very forceful indeed and I was right: the airline answered at once and refunded the full price.

    • @TheFrewah
      @TheFrewah Před 4 měsíci +4

      You did right. You can always be more forceful but it’s difficult to do it the other way round

    • @robbedontuesday
      @robbedontuesday Před 4 měsíci +2

      Maybe they just wanted to avoid a scandal, not do the right thing because of your PC...

  • @tristandunn4628
    @tristandunn4628 Před 4 měsíci +18

    I think a lot of our culture comes from sayings/phrases we're taught as kids. For example, "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all," is probably behind our fear of saying something unpleasant to the point that we'll then actively lie about it.

    • @user-no2mz9hl4f
      @user-no2mz9hl4f Před 4 měsíci +2

      You might be right on that one! I was taught that phrase, too.

  • @teltevskoynick1521
    @teltevskoynick1521 Před 4 měsíci +1

    the describtion of some phrases is just gorgeous! Thank you so much for such a humorous manner of giving very important information!

  • @schnschm1popokatepetl653
    @schnschm1popokatepetl653 Před 4 měsíci +11

    I really loved the phrase: I felt like death warmed up.
    I loughed my head off. It will work in german too, and I definitely will integrate it to my portfolio of pictorial phrases. 😂

  • @saivyas4276
    @saivyas4276 Před 4 měsíci +13

    You have been really helpful for me to learn English from basic to advanced... I'm from India and from heart i just wanna thank you.... thanks alot Lucy ma'am

  • @techslfink9722
    @techslfink9722 Před 4 měsíci +4

    As a regular visitor to the UK it all sounds very familiar, but it’s always good to be reminded of this kind of phrases (and tutting)! Thanks!

  • @sameetramrakhiani9774
    @sameetramrakhiani9774 Před 4 měsíci +1

    It goes without saying that you wonderfully designed lesson.😊 Thank you for sharing real English conversation with us.!
    God bless you!😊

  • @akwrite
    @akwrite Před 4 měsíci +14

    The irony, it's highly regarded in expression and firmly embedded in the British culture.

    • @user-dz6sj4qj1w
      @user-dz6sj4qj1w Před 4 měsíci

      Hi bro ,lm just wanna know if there is any word in English that contain a sequence of consonant in the final position more than 4 as in _ccccc????do u know,😢

  • @kurdishblink7984
    @kurdishblink7984 Před 4 měsíci +12

    Thank you Lucy ❤ please make video to intermediate English learners level because this level is so difficult for us.!!🙂

  • @06cdh
    @06cdh Před 4 měsíci

    I lived 17 years in London, and it is so nice to listen to all this which brings back many good memories. Working in the City, I had some pretty good experiences. I loved it and miss it.

  • @janeentumbao8690
    @janeentumbao8690 Před 4 měsíci +5

    "I'll let you get on..." I usually say something like that if I feel like I've taken up too much of someone's time.
    Or, I'd say "I know you have a thousand things to get back to".
    The different sunburnt expressions... I would jokingly say "You look well done!". 😂😂😂😂
    I'm in the Chicago area and originally from Cleveland Ohio. Our version of English is kinda different. 😊

  • @DarkDarth1984
    @DarkDarth1984 Před 4 měsíci +1

    That video was really great! Funny, but full of warm insight about our British friends!

  • @user-qs5cz6mx5h
    @user-qs5cz6mx5h Před 4 měsíci

    I love this video and the way you present the conversation so much.

  • @lavayuki
    @lavayuki Před 4 měsíci +11

    I live in the UK, but am Irish and also lived in Japan so Im fluent in Japanese as well, and this indirectness seems similar to Japan actually. I don't think Irish as indirect as British though, I noticed the more indirectness after moving to the UK for sure. This was in stark contrast to when I went on holidays to Germany, where people were the opposite. I think the US is also much more direct as well.

    • @raettchen1988
      @raettchen1988 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Yeah, German here. If you tell us to write a date in the calendar, we probably will grab our calendar and search for a good day 😂 good luck to come out of that one 😂😂
      I also had a strange moment, when I accidentally get on a private lawn and the owner came around to get me off. (I was like 12 and didn't speak English very well) I told him that I was sorry and his last words were "your welcome". Thar got me confused 😂

  • @davidaristideakoaamenda2022
    @davidaristideakoaamenda2022 Před 4 měsíci

    Really informative, thanks so much Lucy. I owe you one.

  • @noblestsavage1742
    @noblestsavage1742 Před 4 měsíci +5

    im an english native but also on the autistic spectrum. this is brilliant, you could do a whole series of these for the autistic community.

  • @AbraoManuel-ht9ui
    @AbraoManuel-ht9ui Před 4 měsíci

    I admire how greatful is your teaching

  • @tigradigra
    @tigradigra Před 4 měsíci +2

    That was ridiculously awesome! Thanks a lot! Now I'm forearmed!👍👏👏👏

  • @olafgogmo5426
    @olafgogmo5426 Před 4 měsíci +5

    When a German says "Can't complain" he/she means: "I feel great". And when something is considered "not bad" it's "exellent". That' s why coversation with a Brit can be difficult.

    • @valeries.5445
      @valeries.5445 Před 4 měsíci

      You nailed it. What I first thought, too, such an awkward moment for a German just hearing about an alternative interpretation of „not bad“ or „can’t complain“. I laugh about how the French use irony, too. Without doubt in French is about 80% for sure for example 😄

    • @BB-un2ts
      @BB-un2ts Před 4 měsíci

      French do that quite often to…

  • @b6983832
    @b6983832 Před 4 měsíci +2

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  • @m.rubland6737
    @m.rubland6737 Před 3 měsíci +2

    As a German, I have to say that it's more complicated than I thought. I didn't realise that the cultural differences were so big. Here in Germany, it's considered polite to actually say whether you intend to come or not. How else is the host supposed to be prepared?

  • @borushiki1464
    @borushiki1464 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Thanks for your videos ma'am. I'm really getting better and better everyday coz of you.

  • @abhishekzen5993
    @abhishekzen5993 Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing this video. I learnt so many things from you

  • @ldp6481
    @ldp6481 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank u Lucy. No word to say hw much I feel yr lesson is interesting. ❤

  • @maryhernandez3804
    @maryhernandez3804 Před 4 měsíci

    I really enjoyed this lesson 😂 Thank you Lucy ❣

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 Před 4 měsíci

    Good job Lucy.
    Thank you so much.
    Have a good weekend. ☺👍

  • @nickcoyshardiman2693
    @nickcoyshardiman2693 Před 4 měsíci +21

    I love your content and humour Lucy. I am a Brit (Welshman) lol. Your videos always brighten my day and sometimes I do learn something. Great work.

    • @Mooheda
      @Mooheda Před 4 měsíci

      I'm from the UK, Good Video 'That'll do"

  • @vadim_podoliack
    @vadim_podoliack Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for the valuable insight!

  • @tanyaloshak4600
    @tanyaloshak4600 Před 4 měsíci +1

    That was so fun and interesting, I wish the video was longer 🙂

  • @j.asiaa77h77
    @j.asiaa77h77 Před 4 měsíci

    That was really good. Thank you Lucy :)

  • @ritamaulana751
    @ritamaulana751 Před 4 měsíci

    Lucy, watching this video made me remember the time when I was in London. Pleasant time.

  • @oisantos
    @oisantos Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks my lovely teacher for this lesson 🙂🙏🏻
    Wish u the best always

  • @sibelk3098
    @sibelk3098 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you 🎉 Lots of love from Türkiye 🇹🇷

  • @pauldevehers394
    @pauldevehers394 Před 4 měsíci

    FANTASTIC, LOVELY.
    THANK YOU EVER SO MUCH LUCY.

  • @hectorevolorio3339
    @hectorevolorio3339 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for the lesson, Lucy 😊😊😊.

  • @lillymie520
    @lillymie520 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Your great Lucy! A true inspiration!! Your the best 🙂

  • @dark_diyar
    @dark_diyar Před 4 měsíci

    Love you and your personality, dear Lucy. 💖

  • @saberkhaleq433
    @saberkhaleq433 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this amazing video ,keep going and break a leg

  • @Selfloveyoga1111
    @Selfloveyoga1111 Před 4 měsíci +8

    As a person who values honesty and authenticity and have lived in the UK for almost 20 years still struggle with this bit of British culture.Someone tell me please is it possible to build a trully genuine relationship with the British guy or true friends or perhaps I should take my interests elsewhere? 😅

    • @edegajoanna8241
      @edegajoanna8241 Před 4 měsíci +2

      My thoughts exactly.How to find friends??

    • @lewissparkes
      @lewissparkes Před 4 měsíci +3

      Pretty easy if you find the right people, I’m English, I have loads of french, Italian and South African friends. You need to put yourself out there and find people with similar interests. It’s not particularly easy for British people sometimes

    • @Selfloveyoga1111
      @Selfloveyoga1111 Před 4 měsíci

      @lewissparkes thank you for your kind words! Yes, it's a matter to find the right people I guess and not let negative experiences affect you.

    • @user-ei9ns9hq6b
      @user-ei9ns9hq6b Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@lewissparkes you call them your "friends" but what you really mean is they're your enemies XD

    • @annamari7863
      @annamari7863 Před 4 měsíci

      It s impossible. They hate everyone including themselves!

  • @arnoldpodcast3614
    @arnoldpodcast3614 Před 4 měsíci

    Excellent video. I had lived in Coventry for one year with my two british friends. This content brings me back to that memories! Haha.

  • @Myriako
    @Myriako Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for this video! 😀🌷

  • @paulc.sesquen9992
    @paulc.sesquen9992 Před 4 měsíci

    I love ur videos, they have helped me a lot.

  • @gabriellagirardi4741
    @gabriellagirardi4741 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Fantastic video. Thank you ❤️

  • @user-fr5vo9yi2c
    @user-fr5vo9yi2c Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you so much I am great full for such a effort 😊😊😊❤❤❤ thanks a lot

  • @doffyangel3596
    @doffyangel3596 Před 4 měsíci

    You're absolutely amazing !!

  • @D.C.1
    @D.C.1 Před 4 měsíci +1

    What an excellent video! I laughed so hard! 😁👍

  • @lineanders5330
    @lineanders5330 Před měsícem

    According to what I learned today, I am absolutely 100% British 😂 hope to visit your beautiful country soon! Greetings from Germany

  • @nhungcute8888
    @nhungcute8888 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Wonderful lesson ❤❤❤❤

  • @wizymrojasb45
    @wizymrojasb45 Před 4 měsíci

    Always so great! Tkank you.!

  • @ErmakBrovar
    @ErmakBrovar Před 4 měsíci

    Probably the best of your videos ever. Thank you.

  • @zekibilen1775
    @zekibilen1775 Před 4 měsíci

    Happy New year's Lucy 🎉

  • @rmgreenesq
    @rmgreenesq Před 3 měsíci

    Oh Lucy, bless your heart!

  • @Houssem0880
    @Houssem0880 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Greeting from Tunisia 👋 and nice lesson as usual

  • @antoniomartinazzo5847
    @antoniomartinazzo5847 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I loved this video, Lucy, snd I mean it. It is very tricky for an italian haha. I find it hilarious when a british person sugar-coates sentences with a negative, like "i am not overly keen on this". Another favourite of mine is "don't let me keep you" :)

  • @anho5722
    @anho5722 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you, Lucy ❤

  • @fantasticaircond
    @fantasticaircond Před měsícem

    This is effortlessly hilarious 😂😂😂 great work Lucy!

  • @davesmith6436
    @davesmith6436 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Hmm... A pretty contradictional video! How could I understand y'all British people correctly?!! Haha!😉
    Thank you much, gorgeous Lucy for the awesome English lesson!👍👍👍

  • @dylanthekoreanteacher
    @dylanthekoreanteacher Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you so much :)! Learned a lot :)

  • @Sohana_RB
    @Sohana_RB Před 4 měsíci

    this was fun! and is relatable to my culture as well😂

  • @wu_lian
    @wu_lian Před 4 měsíci +1

    its so useful thank you

  • @ushaaheibam2207
    @ushaaheibam2207 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you!! ❤

  • @Rachelbrookylnn
    @Rachelbrookylnn Před 4 měsíci

    Wonderful lesson

  • @mh017509
    @mh017509 Před 4 měsíci

    So true! Always have to decipher my British colleagues . A hard task for an Ozzie.

  • @richardweems4517
    @richardweems4517 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Thank you oodles for your translations of British into American English. I have warned my son that texting is not the place for sarcasm nor anything which might be taken literally. English is an atonal language whereas sarcasm such as 'I love that shirt meaning you hate it requires tone, emphasis, and an alteration of cadence. Therefore I recommend to all who listen to and 'ADORE' your videos please abstain from using subtext or anything other than what is not open to interpretation. I truly do love your videos but wished to point out to all that in order to be sarcastic (or perhaps passive-aggressive9?0) that I had to capitalize adore in order to imply abhpr.

  • @vanessacantos836
    @vanessacantos836 Před 4 měsíci

    Very interesting video. Thank you :) !!!

  • @ebrihamakonteh5018
    @ebrihamakonteh5018 Před 4 měsíci

    Great effort Lucy

  • @nancyg8664
    @nancyg8664 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for nice lesson

  • @bernardmansire8642
    @bernardmansire8642 Před 4 měsíci

    THANKS GOOD TEACHER

  • @patriciamargarcia3959
    @patriciamargarcia3959 Před 4 měsíci

    Loved this one 😂❤❤❤

  • @kawsarkamalakter1932
    @kawsarkamalakter1932 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you for your video

  • @nutangupta2305
    @nutangupta2305 Před 4 měsíci

    Loved it 😊

  • @elizabethbekelechitima228
    @elizabethbekelechitima228 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Lucy I got everything right thanks ❤

  • @Sarah_892
    @Sarah_892 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Love you Lucy from Egypt 🇪🇬♥️

  • @akbargabbar505
    @akbargabbar505 Před 4 měsíci

    Great leason👍💯
    ❤❤❤❤Gorgeous teacher💑 💕

  • @AbderrazakHouari
    @AbderrazakHouari Před 4 měsíci

    Hello lovely teacher Lucy ❤let me say that you’re my best teacher forever

  • @valeries.5445
    @valeries.5445 Před 4 měsíci +9

    I was aware this is happening but the level of awkwardness it can create is terrible 😄 German here, having a big doubt it really is the same in many ways with the Americans that also act very indirect. We hate the indirectness because we think it’s so inefficient. But Lucy, what a fun video and what an excellent way of telling including the texts. I am a big fan of your channel and learned a lot from this one, too! - honestly speaking 😄❤️

  • @ingilizce_sayfasi
    @ingilizce_sayfasi Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thanks teacher ❤

  • @ANDYLAM
    @ANDYLAM Před 4 měsíci

    I love it, I really love the tut, especially when I said "excuse me" to a lady who was blocking the toilet corridor yesterday at London Coliseum.
    I was just taking my daughter to the man's toilet.
    Lovely country

  • @benzell4
    @benzell4 Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks Lucy!

  • @sergepottier2382
    @sergepottier2382 Před 3 měsíci

    I must say, this video is really usefull!

  • @jancejpek9993
    @jancejpek9993 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Excellent! 🥰

  • @yassminamor4424
    @yassminamor4424 Před 4 měsíci

    I do admire your videos❤❤❤

  • @ikarly2898
    @ikarly2898 Před 3 měsíci

    2:25 confirms you did push through with your wedding. Happy for you both!

  • @IrenaHadravova
    @IrenaHadravova Před 3 měsíci

    Lucy, this has been one of the most interesting videos ever! Thank you for claryfing the expressions and British behaviour, which we, foreigners, can be often very confused about. Now, I understand why the cookies I made for the family were "interesting" and yet nobody ate them :-)

  • @fabianmaeda1523
    @fabianmaeda1523 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Hello thank you por your Help. Lucy

  • @Tamami-88
    @Tamami-88 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I wish your channel existed 20 years ago before I went to college in UK..!!!

  • @geab.2182
    @geab.2182 Před 2 měsíci

    this was so cool and so funny 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @charlestims1851
    @charlestims1851 Před 4 měsíci

    Well done indeed! And, very funny on the top of it. Thanks :-).

  • @roohital1074
    @roohital1074 Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks lucy. 😊

  • @GsmXteamFiXiT
    @GsmXteamFiXiT Před 4 měsíci

    Lucy ,Lovely and cherished English teacher 😊

  • @anushabhattacharjee4294
    @anushabhattacharjee4294 Před 4 měsíci +3

    As an Indian (native Bengali speaker ),i can totally relate to your expressions! Lol sometimes we really become mean iwhile dealing with people in our daily lives 😂 nd it's quite funny

  • @BlueRoad_Vietnguyen
    @BlueRoad_Vietnguyen Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you Mam 👍

  • @munozinni
    @munozinni Před 4 měsíci

    Hola 👋 Lucy!!! Great video 😊

  • @usemuseu8334
    @usemuseu8334 Před 4 měsíci

    Lucy, you're great!

  • @abdullahbaguffah4898
    @abdullahbaguffah4898 Před 4 měsíci

    Welcome
    Good work to be done .

  • @sebastianlindenbeck268
    @sebastianlindenbeck268 Před 4 měsíci

    When my dad died my mum and I we got friends who popped up unannounced which was really nice.

  • @rocklobstah1876
    @rocklobstah1876 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Also making vague social plans is a national sport in England