Calling My Father For The FIRST TIME To Tell Him We're Pregnant & This Happened...

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  • In today's video, I showed you guys when I called my father for the first time to tell him we're pregnant.
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  • @TriciaAndKam
    @TriciaAndKam  Před rokem +981

    I read your comments on our last video & decided to open up some more about me telling my dad. In tomorrow's video, you'll see our friend's reactions! Thank you guys for being there for us no matter the life situation 🤍

    • @c2kofu59
      @c2kofu59 Před rokem +8

      God bless you guy’s

    • @shawntaviaclark4592
      @shawntaviaclark4592 Před rokem +7

      We love you kam you will be a wonderful father ❤🎉😢

    • @christinawatson5261
      @christinawatson5261 Před rokem +3

      My favorite people❤❤❤❤

    • @tshenolohlomuka4188
      @tshenolohlomuka4188 Před rokem +4

      I've been waiting for this notification 💃💃💃♥️♥️.... why am I so excited though 😂..I hope baby Williams and mama are well...
      And daddy Kam of course 🌼♥️

    • @simranmayekar3109
      @simranmayekar3109 Před rokem +3

      Love both of u

  • @vickymakofela2702
    @vickymakofela2702 Před rokem +699

    Hey Kam. Just wanted to let you know that as long as you have tried to reach out to him and he wasn't up for it, that is okay. But just know that your father's absence doesn't define the type of father you will be. We've already experienced and seen what type of father you will be and we as your supporters are so excited for your journey as a father and we know that you are gonna be an amazing father. Wishing you all the best❤️

  • @andreahickman6638
    @andreahickman6638 Před rokem +102

    They’ve literally become my favorite social media couple because of how down to earth and realistic they are regardless of their income, and don’t flash off their money 💛

  • @geraldallen9832
    @geraldallen9832 Před rokem +209

    Kam, stand up and be the best Father and soon to be husband. You have shown great humility and honor. Your mom did an awesome job!!! I’m so proud of you Kam. Forgiveness and love will always win. No matter what, don’t hold yourself responsible for the absence of your Father. Stay strong and focused.

  • @pamelacurry4201
    @pamelacurry4201 Před rokem +64

    Cam baby boy with tears in my eyes as a mother who had a absent father and the same for my daughter, I say to you this is beautiful King. You got this. Tricia thank you for being the women behind the successful man he is becoming. I truly love you guys and wish you all the best. Oh and I will be riding with you all until the wheels fall off. Team Auntie

  • @kaylas.3094
    @kaylas.3094 Před rokem +142

    this breaks my heart, he’s missing out on such an amazing son who has turned into a great man all thanks to his momma (gotta throw Tricia in there too), and a grand baby. smh. Kam you will be the most amazing father ever and your child will be so so so so so so lucky and blessed to be able to call you Dad. ❤🥺

    • @kaylas.3094
      @kaylas.3094 Před rokem +6

      the reality is a lot of men who walked out on their kids life and haven’t been around for years are too cowardly to now show their face or be questioned, even if deep down they wanna be in your life. just can’t own up to anything and don’t want to face it. I think a lot of it is shame. it’s sad.

  • @katerinasemenov9479
    @katerinasemenov9479 Před rokem +231

    Kam, the mindset that no matter what he is your biological father and deserves the respect for just that is so admirable and shows so much maturity and strength. My dad is my hero just like you say because my mom walked out on me at 16 and never ever looked back. I can respect she’s my mom and I wouldn’t be in the world if it wasn’t for her but she’s not a parent and she’s not there for me and she doesn’t deserve anything from me. He doesn’t deserve anything from you and you made your attempt and that’s good enough. You tried! You are the bigger person. I don’t know if I’d tell my mom if I was pregnant she couldn’t be a grandma if she can’t be a mom.
    That effort of commenting on a post is bs and he only did that to try and make himself look good. For my birthday my mom posted a post on her Facebook page to wish me a happy birthday but yet I don’t have her on Facebook, she could’ve sent me a text she has my number. The effort was for her and not for me and honestly it’s not even effort. I feel for you love. You aren’t alone no matter what. You did the right thing!
    Much love xo

  • @verlinethomas7398
    @verlinethomas7398 Před rokem +71

    You took the first step in reaching out to your dad, that's courageous. You are going to do great as a dad because you know what's not expected. All the best.

  • @SIMONEMOM100
    @SIMONEMOM100 Před rokem +14

    I can definitely relate. I reconnected with my dad after a decade. I am grateful for three times we shared and forgiven him. Unfortunately, he passed away recently, but I have peace. I am proud of you for taking these steps.

  • @jayde-rebecca7810
    @jayde-rebecca7810 Před rokem +153

    As someone that grew up in care with addicts as parents my mom is now clean I hope to show her the same respect you showed your dad congratulations guys xx

  • @TLG24
    @TLG24 Před rokem +26

    As I'm watching this video, it just shows me that I'm not the only one struggling to have a relationship with my father. I'm proud for the effort you make to tell him what is going on in your life which is something I cannot bring myself.
    Be a better father to your child.
    Wish you all the best in this journey.

  • @gamblingqueen5883
    @gamblingqueen5883 Před rokem +12

    Kam, I'm sooo proud of you! You were the bigger person and reached out to him even though he didn't answer. That shows what kind of man you are & what kind of father/husband you're gonna be! Don't let his decisions mold you. You follow the path that God has molded for you.

  • @angelaw4117
    @angelaw4117 Před rokem +24

    So proud of you Kam! This is breaking barriers and creating a positive atmosphere for your family

  • @kodiedyani
    @kodiedyani Před rokem +7

    I tell you under every video how proud I am of you, Kam. I don’t know how else to say it 🙏🏼🤎 You say you want to find out what he did so that you can avoid doing that to your child however, besides personal growth and closure, you don’t even need to search because you are already doing a great job at “avoiding” those things. You aren’t even close to failing your child. You’re on the other end of that stick and I can see that you always will be. Try not to over think it and be easy with yourself. Again. *Besides* learning, growing and curiosity. ♥️

  • @maddyisabel1573
    @maddyisabel1573 Před rokem +3

    You are amazing Kam !! I can see how mature you are and the amount of grace you are presenting in this situation is amazing ! You already seem as if ur a better man then he is . Not many men end up like you when they have had an absent father but I can see how much of an amazing job ur mom did with you . Praying for you and that u find the answers and closure your looking for !

  • @sandraortiz4848
    @sandraortiz4848 Před rokem +1

    It was definitely brave of you and we’re all here for you! It took a lot to do that and then put it out there. We respect you and thank you for being 100 Percent real and raw when it comes to this subject

  • @sbongile9043
    @sbongile9043 Před rokem +24

    I'm so proud of you kam for calling your Father u did your part God will make u the most amazing father to him or her

  • @shyningsmile8736
    @shyningsmile8736 Před rokem +7

    Kameron, as someone who at your age went through the thick of it with my dad as well, I definitely did not have the guts to call him and tell him any major news. Proud of you. My Dad officially left once I turned 21 and we didn’t speak for almost a decade. Things are better now, but it’s still very much a process. It’s so surreal to go through the grief of losing a parent and they are very much alive, but choosing not to be in your life. You need answers, and it’s more than ok to ask them for both your u and your baby. Your Dad is missing out on the beautiful family and life that you and your Tricia have already built together. It’s his loss. I pray that one day your Dad feels that loss and opens up to you, but if not just know that his absence has taught you how to be an even better father than you probably would’ve been in the first place. Much love from NYC.

  • @thefrontlineplans7068
    @thefrontlineplans7068 Před rokem +10

    Mad respect to you Kam. This definitely couldn’t have been easy, but it was a good thing to do. Because of your struggles, you’re going to be the best father that your baby could ever have.

  • @vashatymz2089
    @vashatymz2089 Před rokem +47

    Kam thank you for reaching out to your father
    Am so proud of you

  • @DeMirioRansom2113
    @DeMirioRansom2113 Před rokem +18

    This is before I even start the video. I just want to say Tricia was absolutely correct, The absence of your own father will help you be the greatest father because you're going to give your child everything your father should have given you ! Whether thats time, attention, unconditional love, ANYTHING ! I wish yall the absolute best, I wish yall nothing but good times and prosperity. We're your family even if he doesnt wanna be part of that then FORGET HIM. Much love to the Williams family ❤️

  • @teresarouse2194
    @teresarouse2194 Před rokem +12

    You already have such a beautiful heart, and the fact that you want to know more about you, so you can be the best for YOUR baby shows just how amazing your going to be as a dad. Your hearts are both so full of love and it's truly beautiful. This baby will be so blessed, and in return the biggest blessing you guys will ever, everrr receive. 🥰👏🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @mathildermuhanda2452
      @mathildermuhanda2452 Před rokem

      too bad ,same to me here,my dad even doesnt know how i love,i have a daughter 8 yrs bt my dad has never seen her

  • @mariahalvarado7734
    @mariahalvarado7734 Před rokem

    I recently just started watching you guys through the good ol Rissa an quan, hearing you speak about your dad resonates with me so much and trust me when i say your already a good dad just by wanting to be a good dad. It’s hard when you have kids and had an absent parent because once you have your baby you’ll feel like how could someone ever not do whatever they possibly could for their child but knowing your a present parent will feel all that more rewarding, those thoughts will go away..you’ll be so busy wiping butts and catching spit up you won’t even think about it…obviously it’s going to always stick with you but as time goes on it gets easier and you start to heal with forgiveness that parenting is hard and sometimes people are to weak to do it! Your at the beginning stages of healing and the best time is now, and once you have your baby your eyes will open up so much!! Congratulations you guys! Love your videos already ❤️

  • @crashdoll91
    @crashdoll91 Před rokem +7

    Kam you’re so admirable. The fact that you’re trying to push past his absence is courageous.

  • @natashamercado403
    @natashamercado403 Před rokem +1

    Hey Kam, I totally feel you. My dad was absent as well. At the end of the day, you did what you could and you gave everything to try. If your dad doesn’t want to change then that will be something that he will have to deal with.
    You will be the change and you will be the best dad. We will all do our best to be better and grow from here.
    I admire your courage and just the strength to confront this and take action. Thank you for setting the example and you are doing the best that you can

  • @maryelizabeth7420
    @maryelizabeth7420 Před rokem +7

    Kam, I was adopted when I was 3 so I know the feeling all too well of wanting to talk to or see a biological parent to learn more about yourself. Especially when having a child of your own on the way it’s always nice to know family history and all that. But don’t feel like you have to do anything because of what people are commenting. You do what feels right and what is best for you and your family. Sometimes opening up that can of worms can do more harm than good. I’m so sorry you are going through this with your father. Keep your head up and keep focusing on your family who is there supporting you like you guys deserve❤ you tried your best and that’s all you can do. You guys are doing great things in this life❤️

  • @nadichipeta9412
    @nadichipeta9412 Před rokem +5

    Kam♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️. You don't know how much people relate to you. Thank you for being vulnerable for all of us. This baby will have an amazing dad..

  • @daniellerusso8172
    @daniellerusso8172 Před rokem +5

    Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us. There’s a lot of people out there struggling with the same thing! Hang in there ❤

  • @reynamartinez9595
    @reynamartinez9595 Před rokem +35

    I’m 42 years old and still get emotional because my dad isn’t a part of my life. I understand you so much but that pain will make you the best father kam!! I’m so proud of you!!

  • @maciecrow5390
    @maciecrow5390 Před rokem +2

    I know how hard it is to have an absent parent. It’s absolutely heartbreaking. You go through so much and so many emotions trying to deal with and handle it all. At the end of the day you need to do what is the best for you and your family. So much love for you guys

  • @sfranklin5172
    @sfranklin5172 Před rokem +16

    Am so proud of you for trying to reach out to your father if he doesn’t want to get to know you or your baby that’s his lost your mom did a really amazing job raising you and she raised you to be this amazing young king your dad doesn’t define you as a father let god lead you and direct your path we love you and Tricia ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ikselxzy8533
    @ikselxzy8533 Před rokem +8

    I feel you Kam. My father was also absent (even when he was present).
    my unsolicited advice is just let it go because the interest has to be both ways and in trying to get information you might be setting yourself up for more heartache. If in the 24 years of your life you, and your siblings, were not important enough for him to take a deliberate step to get to know you even though you've kept the door open and all he had to do was walk through it, then why should you make him important enough to disturb your life?
    You already know what being a bad father looks like, all you have to do is avoid doing that.
    My mother always said "If someone tells you with their actions that they don't want you, don't let them tell you with words"
    you and your family are already blessed in Jesus name
    🙏

  • @lilimedina9812
    @lilimedina9812 Před rokem +7

    Congrats guys❤been here for three years and I honestly wasn’t expecting this video and to see kam putting everything on the side to make this video and his dad leaving him hanging shame on him that’s so messed up😢he could have sent a reply and said call you back or can’t answer their is no excuse😢kam just you knowing about the pregnancy and being their sticking around for your baby and Tricia that already makes you a better father and a better human being then your dad was. It’s understandable that your inner child of you wants that healing and understanding you deserve it it’s understandable 😢

  • @melodycaraballo6248
    @melodycaraballo6248 Před rokem +6

    So sorry the situation with your dad isn’t working out. Praying he comes around and is a wonderful grandfather, if you allow it. Peace and love to you both! ❤

  • @TheDayauna
    @TheDayauna Před rokem +1

    Opening up to us especially this deep, is a tough thing to do. The internet can be cruel n not understanding for people feelings and lives. Thank you for sharing this with us because you didn’t have to. You’re already the best father and your just going to evolve from here 💕

  • @iiowaokelly5225
    @iiowaokelly5225 Před rokem

    This video is much needed a lot of men and women go thru things like this while trying to take on a new positive journey. I pray for your peace and healing and just know you will be an awesome father because you’re breaking the cycle❤️❤️

  • @anissiacoleman1076
    @anissiacoleman1076 Před rokem

    Kam you did your part as reaching out. That takes a lot and shows what type of person you are. You just showed true strength.

  • @Dayplayer98
    @Dayplayer98 Před rokem

    Being angry takes a toll on your body and mental health. It’s also very hard to forgive and it is a process trying to not be angry and be the bigger person when you feel like they should have been the bigger person. I do know exactly where you come from and I’m so proud of you for stepping up and talking about it.

  • @Donteanddacy
    @Donteanddacy Před rokem

    I feel where you coming from yo, I’m in the same situation with my father. As a 34 year old woman and mother the best advice I can give you that I gave myself was to keep doing your very best. Make sure you continue to take care of yourself, your siblings, your mom and Trish. It will hurt, it’s more than just confusing but don’t let it get to you. If he comes around then he does. When or if he does give him that opportunity. Then at that point move how you see fit. You have a baby coming and your household is priority. Keep doing you yo. I’m proud of the both of you the love y’all have is sooo amazing. Keep going up

  • @annbednarczyk1006
    @annbednarczyk1006 Před rokem

    Kam I'm so sorry your bio Dad isn't there for you the way you need him to be. As step mom of a daughter who's mom isn't around, it truly breaks my heart for you. I've watched my step daughter go through all that pain and it sucks to watch. From what I have been seeing you seem like a wonderful young man who has a good head on your shoulders and I know that you are going to be an amazing dad to your son or daughter. I'm going to be praying for you and your dad that you guys can try to build some type of relationship and work through the past issues and heal them and move forward. I'm adopted so I totally understand that feeling of wanting to meet your bio parents to see who you look like and why you do what you do. So I'm definitely going to be praying for you guys like I said.

  • @TNSmoove
    @TNSmoove Před rokem +3

    Keep strong Kam. I'm in the same boat you are. My Dad and Mother have been locked up most of my childhood. Now, I am 21 and we are having our second child. I find it hard sometimes myself to be a good father. Just keep faith in God and always leave everything up to him. He will guide you how to be a good Dad. You got this! Love you guys!

  • @audreydheard9538
    @audreydheard9538 Před rokem +2

    I’m so proud of you!! YOU DID YOUR PART!!!!💯💯

  • @aminatakanu3001
    @aminatakanu3001 Před rokem +79

    I’m so proud of kam

  • @taylorturner5724
    @taylorturner5724 Před rokem

    I never comment on videos but feel the need to now . To start with y’all are such a beautiful couple and you can see how supportive of each other you are . Coming from someone that had an absent mother and unknown father with grandparents raising me, I was scared to death to have children . What if I messed up like my mom did and ruined my babies ? As soon as I found out I was pregnant my whole mind set changed and you can tell the same has for you . Having an absent parent can make you the BEST parent even if it doesn’t seem like it at the time . We learn from their mistakes and we know ahead of time that we could never put our children through what we went through so we do everything in our power to change the cycles . Congratulations on your baby !! ❤️ praying for a safe pregnancy and delivery

  • @tinawilliams4384
    @tinawilliams4384 Před rokem +8

    Kam, I truly understand where you're coming from. My Dad was MIA in my life. It takes a lot for you to move forward. I always felt like why should a child have to chase a parent in order to have a relationship. I hope that you get the answers that you are looking for from your Dad. No matter how you grew up, be the best dad to your baby that you can be and that you wanted in your life. You turned out to be Ok.

  • @boosee4718
    @boosee4718 Před rokem +1

    As I watched this video while Kam made the call I was so anxious for him and when you didn't get to speak to him I was so disappointed I won't lie... But hey just wanna let you know that we are not responsible how others feel about us or act around us... You gonna be the best dad... Fact that you even wanted a kid so bad proves that you are the best version of your past experience... Stay strong and I hope you get the closure you want... I love yall 💕

  • @cheyannewilliams2020
    @cheyannewilliams2020 Před rokem

    Thanks for this. You're right. Having absent parents has not and will not continue to be easy. I appreciate people on channels with so much influence putting good words out there.

  • @suennonaingie2441
    @suennonaingie2441 Před rokem +6

    Every child needs his father and guess what homie!!
    Your child is gonna get the best father ever Much love Kam and Tricia much love to you to ❤❤

  • @taiwodavid7462
    @taiwodavid7462 Před rokem +15

    Thank you for forgiving him enough to call him, it's for you moving forward, and not giving him power over your life. Good for you guys, you are going to be great parents

  • @mariahzervos
    @mariahzervos Před rokem

    Sending you guys (and your lil one on the way) sm love!! You two are the sweetest, and it’s really heartbreaking to see your dad miss out… no matter the circumstances, I hope you guys keep making the best out of everything and ultimately you’ll have everything you deserve! ❤️

  • @ambermckeehan6798
    @ambermckeehan6798 Před rokem

    Kam first off thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story with us. You are so strong and so damn brave! You are going to be such an amazing Father💙 baby Williams is so blessed to have you! Keep following your heart and pray. I love y’all so much! Xoxo

  • @tashasamuels7469
    @tashasamuels7469 Před rokem

    I am so proud of you. You are a beautiful couple. The way you support each other through challenges is refreshing.

  • @neematfadahunsi4968
    @neematfadahunsi4968 Před rokem +8

    I loved how you guys faced your fears head on. Kam dont let that hold you down,this another chapter of your life so it's for the best and it's a chance for you too. Kam is gonna the best dad ever to baby willy, I'm sure of that. I love you guys✨❤️.

  • @clover2722
    @clover2722 Před rokem

    This is really relatable I feel how everything ur feeling my dad has never been in my life and have never met him. And he always says he’s trying I’m so happy how open u are and congratulations on the baby❤️🥰

  • @Minister-Jacky
    @Minister-Jacky Před rokem

    So so proud of you Cam, forgiveness is more for you then it is for him, thank you for doing this for your little one on the way, as a mom myself raising my kids on my own, I completely understand what you did, God bless you for bieng the bigger person🙏🙏

  • @only1you736
    @only1you736 Před rokem

    Congratulations again! So happy I get to embark on this journey with you both! Much love!!!💜💜💜

  • @maddyheti3576
    @maddyheti3576 Před rokem +1

    Omg Kam. I feel for you sooo bad!!!! Your gonna be the best dad. And honestly some dads just don’t want to step up to the responsibility of being a father but I wish you the best!!!!!!!! You have a wonderful heart. Your baby is blessed to have a good level headed dad!!!! As a person that didn’t have her dad majority of her life I know how you feel!!!!!!!! Be strong Kam!!!🫶🏽

  • @michellesmith9365
    @michellesmith9365 Před rokem +1

    I feel your pain 😞 keep in your mind that no one can really understand how you're feeling about the situation concerning you and your dad! don't let anyone else's opinions discourage how you want to handle dealing with your father! Its your heart, do whats best for it!!!
    All the best to you!

  • @francisasare8640
    @francisasare8640 Před rokem

    More respect for u man u are the big person here teaching most of us how to forgive to the fullest level . Great leadership skills by u may God bless u n ur family.

  • @c.a.sreacts
    @c.a.sreacts Před rokem +22

    My dad was physically and verbally abrasive growing up as a kids. It lead me to have serious anger issues had to go to therapy, and yet people telling me to forget the past

  • @jasmineknox5368
    @jasmineknox5368 Před rokem

    Coming from the same situation where my biological dad wasn’t around I completely understand where you’re coming from. I thank God every day for sending me a stepdad that wanted to be apart of my life.. you seem to be a strong man and you WILL BE NOTHING like your father. (Coming from a fan of your channel) most of the time children always be better than what’s their parents were..
    Much love to you guys and congratulations on the baby

  • @Sadames03
    @Sadames03 Před rokem

    Loving this so much! So happy for u both!! Tearing up over here!!🥹

  • @tinalove2070
    @tinalove2070 Před rokem +1

    My heart goes out to you Kam. Big hugs to you. Praying your dad allows you to get the answers you need 🙏🏽

  • @marciacadogan5975
    @marciacadogan5975 Před rokem

    Hey Cam! I felt so happy to see this video, you trying to reach your dad, this is such a great bigggg step, i'm so proud of you, i'm loving this move. Dont just give up on him, give him some time and another chanceto be in your lives, you and your offspring. Just like you needed time, just maybe he needs some time to get himself together, it could be that he's needing to overcome something or some things, sometimes as humans, its hard to swallow our pride. Could it be that his phone is out of service or his number has changed, phone is down? Please dont give up so soon, keep on trying, keep on reaching out to him. I have a good feeling that at the end of the day, it will be worth it. I would also like to suggest that you discontinue speaking about the past in a negative way, even though there may be lots of negative things that had occured, it can make him feel bad and not feel the urge to want to reach out, just try to send out positive words, things that you hope to see happen for you guys in the future,let him know also that you have forgiven him for everything that may have occured in the past , pray about it as well and watch God turn things around in this situation, he knows your heart and he knows what you desire. Sometimes in life, we need to forget about the hurt we feel and try to consider what we may have done to cause others to hurt as well, maybe in retaliation to the other person or persons actions towards us, they may have been wrong to us at the beginning of things but lets reflect on our response, did we respond to things in the correct way or in the best way we could have. Try to forget the past, and look forward to an awesome future. Which you can help try to make happen. I dont know your dad, dont know the situation either but i know that WITH GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE!! ITS POSSIBLE FOR THINGS TO BE MENDED!! KEEP ON SEEING THE BRIGHTER SIDE OF THINGS!! Stop saying things like, my dad was never in my life or any negative stuff, instead say things like , i look forward to having a great relationship with my dad, i believe that things will change soon, even if you feel otherwise, speak the positive, life and death is in the power of our tongue. Speak life to this situation, brand new life, I have a very good feeling about this. I'm praying for good things to begin to come out of this. Keep on praying!! It will happen.

  • @davidnsarah07
    @davidnsarah07 Před rokem

    I wish the best for you cam...I too have had an absent father...for over 30plus years with my mother playing both roles as well & so I know EXACTLY what you're going thru! I go back & forth w ever even wanting to speak to him let alone know anything bout my life, as I've tried numerous times only to fall on deaf ears! I even emptied my account flying across country to see him for the 1st time only for him to spend 2hrs TOTAL out of an ENTIRE WK w me, so...it's just hard, hard af at times & if you ever need someone to talk or relate I'm so totally here for yall! Much love & congrats to you 2 amazing beautiful people! You're gonna be an amazing father & Trish is gonna be an amazing mother I HAVE NOOOOO DOOOOUBT! LOVE YALL!!

  • @brookeburgess1929
    @brookeburgess1929 Před rokem

    I love how strong y’all are! Love my TK FAM!🥹🤍❤️‍🔥

  • @lettymiaka187
    @lettymiaka187 Před rokem +5

    That is a huge step you took.
    We are here for you guys❤️
    Can't wait for Charissa and Shaquan reaction

  • @zeighreigns7726
    @zeighreigns7726 Před rokem +4

    Honestly I'm proud of you Kam
    You're gonna be the best dad baby Williams can ever ask for ❤❤

  • @kleopatraaslanidou29
    @kleopatraaslanidou29 Před rokem

    That is forgiveness and maturity
    You did the right thing to contact your father God bless you both

  • @kayandtyren
    @kayandtyren Před rokem

    You’re so strong for doing this Kam, God always blesses us through different ways and never forsakes us! Praying your relationship is mended ❤

  • @dfordrake7760
    @dfordrake7760 Před rokem +28

    We love you Kim stay strong just because your dad is not in your life we are all ways here for you ❤

  • @TheJuldenise1
    @TheJuldenise1 Před rokem

    I'm so happy you're breaking the chains in your last video when you were letting your parents know you guys was pregnant. You had to do this. This is your biggest step in life and I'm so happy for you because you're doing it and that's all that matters it's really for you big blessings Kam you got this 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

  • @jdavies777
    @jdavies777 Před rokem

    Aww I’m so sad for Kam. I had an absent father who really couldn’t careless about me or events in my life and I can relate to the heartbreak Kam felt throughout his life. Stay strong, you’re gonna be an amazing Dad, and it is not your fault that he wasn’t good enough. It’s his fault. I know you know that but it took me a long time to realize that so here’s a reminder. Congrats on tricias pregnancy and your upcoming baby and it’s his loss if your father doesn’t want to be a part of that gift. ❤

  • @geileenvargas8177
    @geileenvargas8177 Před rokem +2

    Let’s get them to 1M subscribers because they deserve it for posting amazing content and congratulations on your baby again love you guys ❤🎉

  • @dineo7183
    @dineo7183 Před rokem

    i can totally relate to your story. can’t tell you how or how not to deal with the situation but i wish you all the strength and love in the world. it’s probably for the best that he’s not willing to be in your life. love & light to y’all ❤️

  • @tangeerodgers6670
    @tangeerodgers6670 Před rokem

    I applaud you for making the effort to contact your dad and pressing through the hurt and rejection. Not just for you but for your unborn child. And I agree you will be a great day actions prove a lot.

  • @milindaphillips925
    @milindaphillips925 Před rokem

    Same situation here, I've reached out and my brother has reached out to our and dad will only talk to me. If he can't communicate with both his kids then he don't need the 1..
    Our mom is our Hero also. My browser a AMAZING dad!
    If he doesn't allow a link up then you tried and love your happy lives.
    Love you guys

  • @teelasabo2005
    @teelasabo2005 Před rokem

    I’m sooo proud of this video! You definitely a brave man kam, good luck with the future, love y’all

  • @neicy1673
    @neicy1673 Před rokem

    Kam you did what you felt you needed to do. I truly understand how you feel, that was my situation as well. You and Tricia are so blessed to start your own family. I know you’ll be a great Dad. I see you with the fur babies.🐕❤️

  • @taj0113
    @taj0113 Před rokem +1

    Proud of you Kam! It took a lot of courage to make the first call we can’t choose our parents but we always work hard to become better ones! 💙✊🏾

  • @honeymain9361
    @honeymain9361 Před rokem +2

    Kam this is probably very heart breaking 💔 for you😢 I know everyone wants both mother and father in their life but unfortunately it doesn't always happen that way 😢 It's his loss not wanting to be in his son's life 😢 He's missing out on a wonderful son that has grown to be the most caring, loving and wonderful grown young man💜 Kam you be the best dad that you can be to your children 🥰 That's the best way to go about it 💙 I have always been the only parent in my kid's live's and my heart goes out to you💙 I have alot of respect to your mother for always being your mom and providing the best that she can for her children 🥰

  • @kels0jade6
    @kels0jade6 Před rokem

    I'm so sorry Kam. I can feel the hurt in your voice over this. It really makes me sad. It's crazy people just expect you to put the past behind you when they dont even know the situation and that you cant even do that. For 1, nobody can just let a lifetime of hurt like that go. For 2, he's still not even trying to have a relationship with you so how could you? I'm not sure if you've ever gone to counseling over this but I would recommend it. It could really be a good thing for you to try to cope with. But either way, my heart goes out to you and I'll be praying for you to find peace in this situation 💜🙏🏼💚

  • @Leeyurrr
    @Leeyurrr Před rokem

    I'm happy that you did this Kam, you are a strong man continue being the good person you are. At least you tried to reach out to him...Tricia and baby Williams is so bless to have you. We love and appreciate you guys❤

  • @jennajames89318
    @jennajames89318 Před rokem +2

    No matter what your dad did doesn't define you. Sending love you got this!

  • @SimplyLyrical999
    @SimplyLyrical999 Před rokem +1

    I am so glad you are comfortable enough to do this Kam, even though you may not have had the best relationship with him, I'm glad you get to show him what he should've been to you.. I'm so proud of you both 💗💖

  • @claudialeandre9398
    @claudialeandre9398 Před rokem +5

    You are going to be a great father. Just by trying to bridge the gap made you better person and begin the healing process. Congratulations again!

  • @izzywright24
    @izzywright24 Před rokem

    Lemme tell you something brother, keep your head up your going to have a baby that's really exciting and now it's preparing for what comes next. My father me personally and I always have had rough times going through issues in the past but with this video I'm glad you shared this because it shows that you and us men in general are better than any father that refuses to speak with their son or have some guilt feeling inside themselves that they don't want to share or it's just how they are and it should not be that way. But anyhow Keep on going don't stop yall are going to do just fine like wine! Congrats and Happy Thanksgiving😁

  • @terrywalker7115
    @terrywalker7115 Před rokem

    Kam there is nothing wrong with you finding closer with your dad situation but it’s whenever you are and perhaps if your dad is ready. It seems like you reaching out and not getting anywhere got to be a hard pill to swallow. Being the you man that you are and growing to be you are going to be an amazing dad!!! This is a very touchy conversation so I can relate but everyone is different so find pieces with yourself to make you happier. I love you all and thanks for sharing

  • @ticherice1
    @ticherice1 Před rokem

    Kam, your handling this so well. I'm sure anyone who sees this, is proud of the road your taking. It's human nature to search for a conclusion or find answers to things we don't understand. Honestly, actions we don't do ourselves, are beyond our comprehension and sometimes the answers are worse than we anticipate. I hope you get what your seeking but whatever happens, you made the first step. That's admirable! 💛 love you guys

  • @zainabShabeeb
    @zainabShabeeb Před rokem +2

    When he talked about he's mom i started crying 😢
    We have same story. And my mom did everything to put food in the table and now that i have grown up i will do any thing to see my mom happy.

  • @alexismcgowan5254
    @alexismcgowan5254 Před rokem

    Definitely understood this video. I’m personally not pregnant yet but next year I plan to be. My relationship with my dad hasn’t always been great. We don’t communicate much at all. You made me realize that it’s important to at least tell him about the pregnancy to include him. I have this debate on wether or I would even tell mine. Shows that you truly are growing and willing to make changes before your bundle of joy gets here. Great character❤

  • @jamilahm.bridget7089
    @jamilahm.bridget7089 Před rokem +1

    You understand the meaning and the value of relationships. I am proud of you. You are gonna be the best dad

  • @jenniferseachrist3574

    You show great maturity an I know I went through the same exact experience. Well similar an now I'm doing the single mom thing an I give you mad respect! Your gonna be a great father!

  • @danielcigarroa1724
    @danielcigarroa1724 Před rokem

    Hey Kam I understand you, my dad was absent in my case I was raised by my grandparents. It took me years to finally talk to my father. My advice is take your time it’s not an easy process and when that conversation does happen you’ll fell like a huge load came off your shoulders. Blessings to you, Tricia and baby Williams 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @brittanyyother.
    @brittanyyother. Před rokem +1

    Show him what a real dad is and what he should of done. I don’t know you personally but I can tell you right now. You are already a better father than he could ever be. I’m so excited to watch you and Tricia be parents 🥰🥰🥰

  • @myeshabirts-randle1589

    The both of you guys are going to be wonderful parents I can't wait to see the bundle of joy

  • @Mz.Katrina
    @Mz.Katrina Před rokem +11

    I’m on break right now, fighting back tears bc this really hits home for me

  • @olivianichole288
    @olivianichole288 Před rokem

    I truly feel for you. I know exactly how this feels what helps get through it is understanding that your father will one day in his old age realize he lost his opportunity. Let him go Cam, dont chase him. It will only hurt you. Absent fathers are simply that....absent. God got you and your beautiful family

  • @joycearyee3266
    @joycearyee3266 Před rokem +1

    Cam you are such a gentle soul. Tricia is always there to support you. Both of you are beautiful together. Tricia pregnancy is a journey l wish you well in these months of waiting. Cam you know what? Not all parents are responsible. I love your move to contact your father. I also thank God for how far He has brought you. Cheer up and live your beautiful life. Like Tricia said you are the best dad already. Love you all. Greetings from Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @tracymanengatkayumba
    @tracymanengatkayumba Před rokem

    ❤️❤️❤️GOD is with you dearest, what your Dad did is not being overlooked,but don't over think being a Dad God has blessed you with a beautiful baby, your little one chose you and that alone is confirmation to say you are going to be an amazing Dad to your baby.
    Dearest you will do great the most important that your child needs amongst everything else is your presence, emotionally, spiritually and physically so dear all the boxes are ticked already and not forgetting the amazing woman by your side Dearest it is well, God says his with you and you will be fine🙏🏾❤️