Don't judge me | @Browngirlproblems1

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  • @Browngirlproblems1
    @Browngirlproblems1  Před 7 lety +3054

    Being an Asian girl and making videos online I'm understandably a prime target for getting judged. I wish I could say that this is where the judgement stops, however the harsh reality is that everyone whether they choose to live their life public or private gets judged day in day out.
    I personally feel girls in particular have it more difficult with every aspect of their lives closely monitored and then judged by this brown society. The way she talks, walks, acts to even silly things like what she eats. Not ever considering the other side of the story, as what we see is not always what is true. This topic is close to my heart so I hope it resonates with you all.
    Here are 3 examples of this harsh reality. Enjoy X

    • @iqrayasir894
      @iqrayasir894 Před 7 lety +28

      Browngirl problems1 This is really heart touching......good job👍👍👍

    • @sanapathan9268
      @sanapathan9268 Před 7 lety +7

      Browngirl problems1 I love your videos

    • @tab6364
      @tab6364 Před 7 lety +8

      Browngirl problems1 yay no dislikes yet

    • @relaxingtv7510
      @relaxingtv7510 Před 7 lety +11

      I like your song. and this is so nice video insh allah sent more video pl........

    • @aminahabib7566
      @aminahabib7566 Před 7 lety +4

      Browngirl problems1 I respect you so much and I love your video's they are amazing 💖

  • @hafijakhatun1234
    @hafijakhatun1234 Před 7 lety +1496

    plz pray for my mum she has cancer may Allah grant her shaffa. ameen

  • @sarasafia8280
    @sarasafia8280 Před 7 lety +113

    I love her. She may not wear a hijab, but at least she's a Muslim, she knows how to be a Muslim, and she's thank full for it. May Allah bless her with a warm heart.(which she thankfully already has) and make sure there's always someone by her side to make her happy. LOVE U!!!!!

  • @funtasticvibezz172
    @funtasticvibezz172 Před 7 lety +270

    BIG YOU UP SISTER..YOUR DOING A GOOD JOB..

  • @sakuraharuno4667
    @sakuraharuno4667 Před 5 lety +88

    *_you're not alone.. I'm also judged.. but I don't care about what people says.. they're doing their job without salary😂.. don't care about them sis.. you're beautiful.. if you care about those people too much then they'll win.._*

    • @iqranadeem9837
      @iqranadeem9837 Před 4 lety

      Extra s sorry if I’m late replying but you’ve got so much to live for. Every day I wanna die but then realise that I have blessings and I don’t want to give up

    • @bluelagoon8156
      @bluelagoon8156 Před 4 lety

      I know

    • @areebajhan123
      @areebajhan123 Před 4 lety

      Really sakura

    • @haiqafatima289
      @haiqafatima289 Před 3 lety

      What Allah gave you is beautiful

  • @syedjaffer2125
    @syedjaffer2125 Před 7 lety +52

    This reminds me of sheikh DR Ahmad deedat's comment he used to say "The biggest enemy of Islam is the ignorant Muslim whose ignorance leads him to intolerance which in turn leads to destruction of the image of Islam & when people look at him they say Islam is what *he/she is*"
    unfortunately many Muslims fall in this category of ignorant & judgemental Muslim May Allah protect us from being amongst them...Ameen
    May Allah have mercy on Dr.Deedat's soul he was indeed a true Muslim may the ummah see such Muslims again..... Ameen

  • @iramgosiya6956
    @iramgosiya6956 Před 5 lety +22

    *And [ Allah revealed] that if they had remained straight on the way, We would have given them abundant provision*
    *Quran: Surat-ul-Jinn Ayat#15*

  • @meyou7289
    @meyou7289 Před 6 lety +148

    Speechless 😶
    Brave thinking
    Never mind what race you are, you would see people like this everywhere
    It's my experience!

  • @angeld3ath168
    @angeld3ath168 Před 7 lety +69

    damn! it was a heart touching message 😢 agree?

  • @amarahaliyan320
    @amarahaliyan320 Před 7 lety +130

    our Pakistani Doll
    love you dear sister :-)

  • @fajerabdulrauf
    @fajerabdulrauf Před 6 lety +35

    thats true even i've also been judged by many people

  • @saharokhai225
    @saharokhai225 Před 7 lety +117

    In the UK you aren't surrounded with people selling Jalebis on the street and most ladies in Hijabs etc. That has an impact on the way we live, how we dress. I take selfies, for fun! I dress how I like but appropriately, not in mini skirts or whatever. I pray my five daily prayers. I can speak most Urdu and Hindi but it's hard with people constantly speaking English to you. My other relatives (Aren't very close) always ask me whenever I visit them "Do you pray your Namaaz? When will you wear Hijab? And more! The answer is most probably always going to be YES! It's hard for us in the UK to be able to keep up with our religions and stuff like that, may Allah make this easy for us and make people less judgemental. Ameen💓By the way I love your videos, ly byeee❤️(Khuda Hafiz😏😉)

    • @feezaali3930
      @feezaali3930 Před 5 lety +1

      Ameen

    • @masterhamzster5276
      @masterhamzster5276 Před 4 lety

      It can be hard with many influencers around us but with strong faith, it can also be very easy

    • @iman.s6119
      @iman.s6119 Před 4 lety

      Ameen

    • @ghazalamahroof2351
      @ghazalamahroof2351 Před 4 lety +1

      Ameen

    • @avora1000
      @avora1000 Před 4 lety

      Quran talked about women to dress modestly. There is no concept of hijab Hijab only came a 1000 years later when in Iran women were suffering from rape so the emperor at the time asked them to where the burka to protect themselves. This law is a societal law not a religious law. We don't need to wear the burqa in the west becaus we don't have this problem.
      Also to think by wearing a burqa you enter Islam That is wrong burqa is just a dress. Entering Islam means where the heart is. Name of God should be in your heart When you have the love of God in your heart that's when you have the inner veil
      Btw if women choose to wear the burqa that is their choice. But it has nothing to do with religion

  • @tanvirahosan9387
    @tanvirahosan9387 Před 7 lety +154

    *I DON'T JUDGE YOU, I LOVE YOU*

  • @fardeen4786
    @fardeen4786 Před 7 lety +55

    the thing is that we all judge to early without knowing the truth

  • @sophiehopkins8176
    @sophiehopkins8176 Před 6 lety +28

    Oh my god I cried sooo much. Ya allah make life easy for every muslimah out there brother or sister mom and dad x it'll get easier. Always hold your heads up high and ignore all the haters. You're all beautiful inside and out regardless of others' opinions about you xxxx stay strong xxxxxx

  • @world-424
    @world-424 Před 6 lety +16

    You are great and gives good lessons and god will bless you (INSHALLAH)

  • @parveenjugoo1833
    @parveenjugoo1833 Před 7 lety +65

    Totally agree. People are quick to judge whatever they do not understand. Its too hard to understand so they label it bad and judge. Thanks for your videos which bring awareness. Hope those who judge are watching. keep it up!!

  • @maryumkhan1309
    @maryumkhan1309 Před 7 lety +228

    keep up the great work....we all love you and will always support you..

  • @eishaimran8412
    @eishaimran8412 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you so much about spreading awareness of judgement. Whenever I hear stories, I get so wound up. It is not our place to judge others, honestly just because you were brought up differently or have never had to experience a certain hardship doesn’t give you the right to believe you’re better than someone else or that they were brought up the ‘wrong’ way or that they’re being rebellious. I honestly do not understand society and it’s so difficult to try and make these people understand that they cannot control other people’s lives.

  • @eishaimran8412
    @eishaimran8412 Před 5 lety +3

    Rox believe that you inspire us girls! We all know how hard it is to live in the brown/ Asian society. But with influencers like you, spreading awareness of where people’s behaviour is going too far we can hopefully change stereotypes and attitudes. Thank you for posting your videos.

  • @sabi467
    @sabi467 Před 7 lety +22

    This is a powerful video for the ones who are being judged and they have a very good reason for it people like this are better than the people who judge

  • @iqrahmohammad774
    @iqrahmohammad774 Před 7 lety +137

    Rukhsar your so cute❤❤❤
    I HOPE I get at least 15 likes👍

  • @Miszshah
    @Miszshah Před 6 lety +1

    Browngirl problem1 you are such a lovely person this video is so true a lot of women have to listen to this crap on a daily basis which is sad nobody knows what the person actually goes through behind that beautiful smile some women go through a lot of pain. This is why they say never judge a book by it's cover but our older generation will never understand that. Thank you for making this video xx

  • @fatimasamira3695
    @fatimasamira3695 Před 5 lety +1

    Heart touching. Great message. Great way of delivering the great message.

  • @rashidraja8805
    @rashidraja8805 Před 7 lety +30

    mahsahallah, browngirlsproblems your so right, we shouldn't judge a girl because of there make-up or dressing cuz we don't know their story and as a Muslim I accept peaple just the way they are and don't judge a book by its cover, browngirlsproblems May Allah bless you soo very much.

  • @saimasadiq2331
    @saimasadiq2331 Před 7 lety +30

    you are beautiful don't let anyone's comments stand in your way

  • @tinamanzoor5681
    @tinamanzoor5681 Před 5 lety +6

    you've made me cry girl.
    I like your videos. you are so pretty x

  • @ampamp8945
    @ampamp8945 Před 4 lety

    That video made me cry. Well done girl for such a powerful message!

  • @iqraghafoor5353
    @iqraghafoor5353 Před 7 lety +111

    u are doing a great job👏👏👏 I love your work 😊😊😊 God bless you all

  • @ishahakeem
    @ishahakeem Před 7 lety +29

    Assalamo Aleykum Baji. I've never seen such a powerful video like yours. I have to admit I know exactly what you mean. For example girls in school would be like 'oh she plays with dolls and she's 16 hahaha' but what they don't know is that I have no friends, family. I go to my room make my videos and it comforts me and makes me happy. I feel as if I only have myself for myself. Or when I went through my operation to remove my brain tumour, people wish the process had failed. Also your second clip about the 'divorcee' was what my mum went through so now she helps other women who are in domestic abuse and speaks out about her story. Anyway Baji, thank you very much for this message. Mashallah you are such a lovely person.
    Allah Hafiz
    Isha xx

    • @yourfavex187
      @yourfavex187 Před 6 lety +1

      Isha Kausar Hakeem it’s easy for
      People to judge but InshaAllah you will have a good successful life and not be judged by people around you . Very good message Rukhsa

    • @islampost3626
      @islampost3626 Před 5 lety

      Hi

  • @Kewlkikko
    @Kewlkikko Před 6 lety +1

    so heart touching.. em literally crying cz ppl always judge me for my scars....

  • @Kiwi--nk6dq
    @Kiwi--nk6dq Před 6 lety

    Love your honesty. You tell it like it is.

  • @daneentahira9980
    @daneentahira9980 Před 7 lety +116

    I love your videos. you are a great youtuber and you should get more subscribers.

  • @Et-eq6cx
    @Et-eq6cx Před 7 lety +22

    we should not make assumptions about others because we don't really know what the're going through so people stay calm and let them heal cause we didn't see them getting hurt!!!

  • @euginadangol684
    @euginadangol684 Před 6 lety +3

    very heart touching video...tq mam....am also single mom...i hav a son n am happy with him....really it's very nice video...😙😙😙😙i lov u mam

  • @Yezdani
    @Yezdani Před 5 lety

    Two thumbs up ! Keep making such wonderful videos. A very strong message for everyone - both males and females.

  • @mellin3920
    @mellin3920 Před 7 lety +82

    may Allah forgive us for what we say intentionally or unintentionally. may He guide us as an ummah. beautiful video. x

  • @hoodiestea9405
    @hoodiestea9405 Před 7 lety +41

    Honestly, this is one of the best, real, relatable CZcams videos I have seen in a long time. From one young Pakistani to another; you are truly amazing. This video was amazing. Stay blessed & continue with your head held high. 💕

  • @tayyabafatima5584
    @tayyabafatima5584 Před 5 lety +4

    You deserve a lot of appreciation .
    May Allah bless you.
    Ameen

  • @zeenatfareedh6936
    @zeenatfareedh6936 Před 6 lety

    That'ts really true dear. You are truly doing a great job and also informing people who do that and are about to, not to behave in a such a harsh manner not only to girls but everyone. 👍😊

  • @imaanmir5176
    @imaanmir5176 Před 7 lety +4

    This is so heart breaking . Just please don't judge people because you don't know their real story

  • @PertikKatnour
    @PertikKatnour Před 7 lety +141

    You are Amazing! I love all your videos. Keep it up! Greetings from Greece ❤️

  • @nasreenakhtar7606
    @nasreenakhtar7606 Před 5 lety +1

    SHE IS BEAUTIFUL THE WAY SHE IS

  • @zahidshakeel1142
    @zahidshakeel1142 Před 6 lety

    Hands down most honest video, thankyou for trying to change the world. Keep up the good work!!

  • @irsamalik8518
    @irsamalik8518 Před 7 lety +5

    This is so,so,so true people always judge you about everything and they always will ,so never listen to them and make every day a special day to rember keep smiling and ignore people that backbite about you because they never want to see you be happy!!☺️😊🙂

  • @mohammedrizwan7145
    @mohammedrizwan7145 Před 7 lety +33

    true. nice message

  • @y786qnycuk7
    @y786qnycuk7 Před 5 lety +1

    This video still touches my soul and makes me cry

  • @zoyakhalid3474
    @zoyakhalid3474 Před 6 lety +1

    This made me cry so much 😭😭😭 mashallah you r so amazing . Dont listen to all those aunties who are jealous of ur life just cuz when they were ur age they were getting married #jealousauntia

  • @Savita.S
    @Savita.S Před 7 lety +7

    this video shows the real face of society. I luv those girls who live their life on their own terms. only thing keep in mind, we should not do anything that causes any harm to others.

  • @lifefullofcolours336
    @lifefullofcolours336 Před 7 lety +4

    Browngirl problems1😢😭U nailed it..What an amazing video 1 of the best of all ur videos🌹💚...May ALLAH bless u dear & the positivity of ur video gets into each & every single persons heart & brain...Pllzzz dont b judgemental

  • @bbgg8175
    @bbgg8175 Před 7 lety +86

    What is this naat called its beautyful maashallah

  • @noorqureshi1953
    @noorqureshi1953 Před 3 lety +1

    That’s so true it’s happened to me a lot but I still think ppl are much better behaved and respectful than me

  • @asilhamidi8424
    @asilhamidi8424 Před 7 lety +5

    I really don't know what should i say but really its touching my soul and how beautiful you are making this videos its bringing my mind away...

  • @priyar889
    @priyar889 Před 7 lety +5

    I literally cried while watching it
    Our society is so judgmental.
    Great effort though love u ❤️❤️.

    • @mdtahir8999
      @mdtahir8999 Před 6 lety

      Masha Allah
      Just one word to say
      Awesome
      Great
      Super se bhi uper

  • @elishbailyas4455
    @elishbailyas4455 Před 6 lety

    This video has a very strong message and browngirlsproblem ur videos are the best

  • @wania5741
    @wania5741 Před 6 lety +21

    The 279 people to dislike this are those who judged others for no reason and are now regretting but don’t want to express it! 😂

  • @sav4712
    @sav4712 Před 7 lety +21

    I'm a brown girl and I get judged every now and then by the society for example the way I dress and other minor things. People don't judge me by my appearance my connection with Allah may be way stronger than yours Alhamdulillah!!!

  • @amerhabib5451
    @amerhabib5451 Před 7 lety +14

    Ur so pretty

  • @Jomana_azhar
    @Jomana_azhar Před 4 lety

    pREACH!!!
    This is so true
    God keep you happy amen

  • @aseemurrehmanqureshi4202

    Very nice message this judgemental people should stop if they dont know the actual story even i am judged everyday even though i am a kid under the teenage years a wonderful message love it really heartbreaking love it

  • @ShamimAkhtar-gn4gt
    @ShamimAkhtar-gn4gt Před 7 lety +5

    Great message

  • @mohammedsamiullahkhan5614
    @mohammedsamiullahkhan5614 Před 7 lety +12

    Best video of all time

  • @Ammanullah100
    @Ammanullah100 Před 4 lety

    A true and painful message. Sadly this is what we have came down too. Stay strong sister, ALLAH will reward you for your patience and make it easier for you.

  • @puragirl6513
    @puragirl6513 Před 6 lety

    So much filled with love
    Thank you for video so many "Judgers" now will be "Helpers" you should deserve a billion subscribe though that also means so less comparing the effort

  • @bismanasir2417
    @bismanasir2417 Před 7 lety +8

    Amazing lesson!!! 😊 my mama loves your every video!!! 😍

  • @tasnimahbegum9457
    @tasnimahbegum9457 Před 7 lety +8

    You know what you are? AMAZING!! I literally have soooo much respect for you. Legit like I can't even explain. You're such an inspiration to all the girls out there. You present such important messages in such a beautiful way, it just leaves me in awe. May Allah always keep you and your family happy. May He always replace your worries with a smile. Ameen sum Ameen. ❤️❤️💕💕🌹✨

  • @aafreenfoorooskar9911
    @aafreenfoorooskar9911 Před 6 lety +1

    I love this video❤ one of my favorite videos after the father's love for his daughter
    amazing work❤

  • @nabihabegum9668
    @nabihabegum9668 Před 6 lety +1

    This actually made me cry 😭😭😭❤️

  • @frazbakht4480
    @frazbakht4480 Před 7 lety +3

    All of this stuff about judging others is true, but it still doesn't justify what we do against islam. May Allah guide us. Peace!

  • @dr.shaguftaparveen5111
    @dr.shaguftaparveen5111 Před 7 lety +4

    It was a very heart touching and true message

  • @Mrnobod44565
    @Mrnobod44565 Před 7 lety

    This is a really good video! One of the best i've seen in a while! Very Powerful and you are soo right!

  • @rabbeyasiraj3196
    @rabbeyasiraj3196 Před 6 lety

    Nice public message!!! ¥€$, don't judge people sometimes we are quite wrong... And it's hurt other...

  • @Unknown-sm1eh
    @Unknown-sm1eh Před 7 lety +3

    you are just awesome and all your video has something special in it that we all love just keep up the great work ruksaar ❤we love U

  • @sanajaved5893
    @sanajaved5893 Před 7 lety +5

    you are amazing ...and your videos are always inspirational for me ...please keep on making such videos 🖒🖒🖒

  • @Princess_A-iy9pg
    @Princess_A-iy9pg Před 6 lety +1

    Hate wen ppl judge wen they dnt even knw me 😭😤😤 but love the video ❤️❤️💗💯💯 x

  • @knowledgeispower6754
    @knowledgeispower6754 Před 7 lety

    Heart touching msg!!

  • @muntahabajwa8572
    @muntahabajwa8572 Před 6 lety +8

    you are so beautiful ,intelligent and so nice ... i am falling in love with u after watching ur every video .... u r awesome ... cha gai ho sis . stay blessed

  • @syedgirl6519
    @syedgirl6519 Před 7 lety +62

    I'm unlucky... Wish if this vid could be in OFFLINE OPTION .. So I could really gonna download it... #Amazing👸

  • @matilda5471472
    @matilda5471472 Před 5 lety

    I really respect that while your videos are funny and entertaining you always manage to find a good message to deliver as well.

  • @siduraja8051
    @siduraja8051 Před 6 lety

    No words a great thinking a big message for all people. Those who only see our face and outlets and make imagination about us this is a big message for them.

  • @ujalaadnan2479
    @ujalaadnan2479 Před 6 lety +3

    That was very nice I started crying after Siena this people cannot judge other people by their looks

  • @shakzkhan4452
    @shakzkhan4452 Před 7 lety +3

    Truly amazing n inspiring... Ignore the bad and life will be full ov smiles..
    May u get all that u deserve beautiful

  • @sayedafarzanaakter7568

    I am really speechless. You made me cry . This a really great video

  • @ramayaali4072
    @ramayaali4072 Před 7 lety

    actually crying literally a tear falling down my cheek such a powerful video keep doing these videos pleeaassee

  • @faizaabuttbutt7915
    @faizaabuttbutt7915 Před 7 lety +15

    sukar hai ap ne video bnie Ramzan mubark sis yr bout miss kartiii ho ap ko jalde bnaya kroo video oo plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. ...😍😙😙😙😙😙😙😙😙💓💜💜💜💜💜

  • @saifs9461
    @saifs9461 Před 7 lety +25

    touched ma heart ngl

  • @awaisahmed4884
    @awaisahmed4884 Před 6 lety

    This is such a powerfull video with a clear message "never judge a book by its cover"

  • @islamicknowlegdebylittlesi2649

    Ur content always has a great meaning and u always make me smile

  • @imaansajid7404
    @imaansajid7404 Před 7 lety +59

    you doing such a grrt job you taught me I should be prould for who I am please can answer my comment

  • @alishanasir3539
    @alishanasir3539 Před 6 lety +46

    Heaven is underneath mom's feet

  • @ahzeesh
    @ahzeesh Před 6 lety

    It brought tears in my eyes. So true..

  • @ask7293
    @ask7293 Před 7 lety +1

    i watch ur videos.. i hv strtd watchin em snc two days n i love evrything tht u say.. this video of urz made me comment... ppl nvr know what we go through.. thy jus make fun n walk past.. but.. to smile is the name of life.. n thts wht iv always bn doing.. ur doin a grt job.. keep it up gall.. love frm Bham.. xx

  • @sheryamir9303
    @sheryamir9303 Před 7 lety +11

    is girl so cute and beautiful

  • @entertainmentwithshreya4210

    #DON'T LISTEN TO OTHERS
    #BE YOU
    #BE A GIRL WHO DON'T NEED ANYONE'S HELP

    • @yourfavex187
      @yourfavex187 Před 6 lety +2

      Entertainment with Shreya all of these are true but you forgot to mention one :
      #read your naamaz
      Did u see how successful she became when she read her naamaz and had faith in Allah

    • @aysha4489
      @aysha4489 Před 5 lety

      @@yourfavex187 when

    • @yeezysoth6745
      @yeezysoth6745 Před 5 lety +1

      Entertainment with Shreya u know what ur right I won’t kill myself

    • @amore4472
      @amore4472 Před 3 lety

      @Sabriya
      May Allah help your situation and may He grant you a long life full of blessings. I pray that you can/have overcome this difficulty. I used to have mental health problems too, but through the mercy of Allah I was able to get through it. And In’Sha’Allah you will/have too. ❤️

  • @LabourDerby
    @LabourDerby Před 7 lety +1

    Sis hats off to u, ur honestly doing a great job and don't let petty people's comments get to u as behind a keyboard everyone can dictate and lecture u as much as they want but the truth is the same thing happens in their own houses but they ain't got nerves to say anything because who's gona feed em looooool so keep up the good work and ur a LEGEND

  • @iramgosiya6956
    @iramgosiya6956 Před 5 lety

    Alhamdulillah and Jazak Allah khair for this EYE-OPENING video.. May Allah taala forgive us all for our silly Considerations for others. Ameen

  • @theentertainer2005
    @theentertainer2005 Před 7 lety +10

    Hey brown girl you have great videos keep it up

  • @naazunisaunisa1622
    @naazunisaunisa1622 Před 6 lety +3

    I love ur videos n I enjoy them u will look more beautiful without or with make up no matter don't listen peoples listen to ur heart it's ur life enjoy it with ur wishes

  • @empressivequeen1909
    @empressivequeen1909 Před 5 lety

    Amazing....this really touches your heart

  • @dollarsgain360
    @dollarsgain360 Před 6 lety

    First ever vlog of yours, which made me almost cry, feeling heavy at throat. Srsly, its so true in our society.