I just want everyone to know this: if the person you are asking about has been exhibiting ANY signs of verbal, physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, the answer is YES regardless of what your reading says. These readings are NOT for those experiencing abuse - my advice will always be to escape as soon as you can in those situations. With that being said, most relationships are not as black or white, and that is why I wanted to do a reading on this subject. Please remember to listen to your own intuition at the end of the day and take whatever resonates from these group readings
Pile #3. We live at a distance from each other. He's polyamorous. I'm monogamous. The sexual chemistry is insane. No, he can't be replaced. I feel like I'm replaceable to him. That's a problem. I'm attached. He isn't. That's what I feel. He says he cares. Idk... It all happened so fast. I feel like it's a spiritual connection also. I don't want to be the reason for anyone's spiritual growth, damn it! I want my person in this lifetime before I die.
As a poly person myself, I can say that mono/poly relationships can be very difficult to navigate at times because the ways of thinking are so different. But not always impossible - my partner of 6 years that I share a home and cat family with is mono and we have overcome our issues and are extremely solid and happy. None of my partners are replaceable to me at all. I would say you should explore what makes you feel fully loved and seen in your relationships and learn how to ask for that and know when to let go when someone cannot offer you those things ❤️
@laurdowns Thank you so much for your thoughtful response. He's gone cold on me. We're not communicating right now. I'm thinking that for the time being, I need to let this go. I feel rejected by him, and it hurts. I'm seeing a therapist to help me process my feelings. I know that I have some unhealed childhood wounds that need to be addressed. I am going to focus on myself now. Whatever will be, will be.
Pile 3 - Separation yes, but some contact rn. We thought we'd have a family.... Lack of education yes - he didn't understand how fwb works because tbh he never really was well versed in fwb. Resonates completely... hes going through a 20 year marriage / divorce so release makes sense. He accidentally hurt me several times. Vice versa. .. So friendship rn. FWB didn't work out because see above... sloppiness... past energy. I heard "Time in a bottle" or "Don't stop till you get enough" lol very sexual connection. Strong attachment but rn protecting myself with boundaries as platonic friendship although the chemistry is off the charts, long distance yes. Thank you this resonates we do have a weird connection LOL. Tyvm. But I guess I won't cut it off .... so tyvm... I won't.
I just want everyone to know this: if the person you are asking about has been exhibiting ANY signs of verbal, physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, the answer is YES regardless of what your reading says. These readings are NOT for those experiencing abuse - my advice will always be to escape as soon as you can in those situations. With that being said, most relationships are not as black or white, and that is why I wanted to do a reading on this subject. Please remember to listen to your own intuition at the end of the day and take whatever resonates from these group readings
I was literally wondering if I should search for a reading on this today when this popped up in my feed! Thank you.
You’re welcome 😊
Pile #3. We live at a distance from each other. He's polyamorous. I'm monogamous. The sexual chemistry is insane. No, he can't be replaced. I feel like I'm replaceable to him. That's a problem. I'm attached. He isn't. That's what I feel. He says he cares. Idk... It all happened so fast. I feel like it's a spiritual connection also. I don't want to be the reason for anyone's spiritual growth, damn it! I want my person in this lifetime before I die.
As a poly person myself, I can say that mono/poly relationships can be very difficult to navigate at times because the ways of thinking are so different. But not always impossible - my partner of 6 years that I share a home and cat family with is mono and we have overcome our issues and are extremely solid and happy. None of my partners are replaceable to me at all. I would say you should explore what makes you feel fully loved and seen in your relationships and learn how to ask for that and know when to let go when someone cannot offer you those things ❤️
@laurdowns Thank you so much for your thoughtful response. He's gone cold on me. We're not communicating right now. I'm thinking that for the time being, I need to let this go. I feel rejected by him, and it hurts. I'm seeing a therapist to help me process my feelings. I know that I have some unhealed childhood wounds that need to be addressed. I am going to focus on myself now. Whatever will be, will be.
Pile 2: energy vampire for sure I already told her to back off. There’s nothing there but history we had together.
Sounds like you have the answers you need ❤️
Thank you 🙏🏼
Pile 1 - I've literally ended it today because I'm not sure where he's going to live and I'm not interested in that
Yeah, you deserve security ❤️
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All three piles for three different connections 😅
Felt 😂
pile 1
Pile 1 ❤
You are super cool, accurate and with much love, thank you sweet soul
Thank you so much 🤗💖
Super accurate 🙏🏽
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Pile 3 - Separation yes, but some contact rn. We thought we'd have a family.... Lack of education yes - he didn't understand how fwb works because tbh he never really was well versed in fwb. Resonates completely... hes going through a 20 year marriage / divorce so release makes sense. He accidentally hurt me several times. Vice versa. .. So friendship rn. FWB didn't work out because see above... sloppiness... past energy. I heard "Time in a bottle" or "Don't stop till you get enough" lol very sexual connection. Strong attachment but rn protecting myself with boundaries as platonic friendship although the chemistry is off the charts, long distance yes. Thank you this resonates we do have a weird connection LOL. Tyvm. But I guess I won't cut it off .... so tyvm... I won't.
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