My Postpartum Hairloss Journey | Losing my hair ON MY WEDDING DAY!!!

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  • My Postpartum Hairloss Journey | Losing my hair ON MY WEDDING DAY!!!
    Hey guys,
    Welcome to my channel!
    It's me Nessa.
    In today's video, I decided to be vulnerable and share my story with postpartum hair loss as well as give you guys all the details on how I overcame it. I am also sharing all of my most personal pictures with you. LOL don't judge me!!
    I hope that this video could encourage anyone out there who is going through the same journey.
    Side note, can we just appreciate my new and improved quality here!!!!!! So excited about it haha!!
    #yourebeautiful
    #wereallinthistogether
    #noshame
    #safespace
    VOTD:
    "You are beautiful, for you are fearfully and wonderfully made"
    Psalm 139:14
    MUSIC:
    • LAKEY INSPIRED - Bette...
    / @lakeyinspired

Komentáře • 43

  • @SimplyCelena
    @SimplyCelena Před rokem +7

    Thank you for this 😢 My daughter is 1 & my hair is extremely thin & breaking off 🥴 I legit cried finding this video & being able to relate. Thank you so much. I know it’s old but it’s so helpful ❤️

  • @britenidarling3704
    @britenidarling3704 Před rokem +5

    Literally going through this right now 😩. This is the only video that I could currently relate to.

  • @rubyrouge988
    @rubyrouge988 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Girl, I am laughing so hard because everything you're saying was my whole life!!! I was shook when I noticed I had a five head. I'm crying!!!! I relate so hard. Thank you for making this and being open about it. I look back at my photos during that time like, "hooooh Chile!!"

  • @prconnexions9749
    @prconnexions9749 Před měsícem

    This video made me laugh😂 been stressing bout my pp hairloss 3rd rodeo but u still feel sad when it happens but this reminded me it will grow back💕

  • @kelviannaepperson3677
    @kelviannaepperson3677 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Ive had matting and when washing it at fist it wasnt much then after time just clumps and i wash regularly. I got my first braids postpartum yesterday.

    • @jordosara
      @jordosara Před 3 měsíci +1

      This! It would just clump up and tangle in the shower. I hated wash days 😭

  • @destra0909
    @destra0909 Před 3 lety +2

    Great content Vava! I’m sure this will help a lot of women! And we all appreciate you sharing your experience...and Isabel’s guest appearance too 🥰

    • @nessadestra98
      @nessadestra98  Před 3 lety

      Thank you Fania!! Yayy, Im glad you enjoyed the video🤗❤

  • @caresajayy3015
    @caresajayy3015 Před 3 lety +1

    I am so happy you shared this because people need to know

    • @nessadestra98
      @nessadestra98  Před 3 lety

      I'm glad and I completely agree😊 Everyone needs to know this is normal!!

  • @reginaldplacide5095
    @reginaldplacide5095 Před 3 lety +1

    This was great! Quality on 1000! we love to see it! 🙌🏾

  • @MosWorldChannel
    @MosWorldChannel Před 3 lety

    This QUA-LI-TYYYYYYYYYY 😍😍 and that useful content 👌👌

    • @nessadestra98
      @nessadestra98  Před 3 lety +1

      Ahhhhhh thanks for noticing Mo😆🙌🏽❤❤

  • @melissaforgue9950
    @melissaforgue9950 Před 3 lety

    Wow !! I loved this ! I’m going to make sure I watch this video for some encouragement if I ever go through this 😩... great content ! Hi Nounou !!!❤️❤️

    • @nessadestra98
      @nessadestra98  Před 3 lety

      Yesss save it in the archives!! Thanks sis❤❤❤

  • @cassdcass
    @cassdcass Před 3 lety +2

    You're so beautiful Vanès! 😍
    Yeah I lost hair after both pregnancies. Let's see what happens after baby #3 comes this month😬
    I heard that continuing to take ur prenatal vitamins after giving birth helps reduce the shedding. I'll try that🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @belleelle1239
      @belleelle1239 Před 3 lety

      Nope not true. I did it with Daelle and it did not help.

    • @nessadestra98
      @nessadestra98  Před 3 lety

      Awwww thanks you Soulette🥰🙈❤
      And kètttt. If the next baby doesn't eat your edges, please let me be the first to know so that I could have a little hope for the next time I deal with postpartum😂😫🙌🏽 And yeah I really kind of stopped taking my vitamins abruptly...maybe that could be it😬

  • @tianaasworld2705
    @tianaasworld2705 Před 3 lety

    Gurllll you are GLOWINGGGGG 😍😍😍😍 hiii babyyyyyyyy! 😩🌸

  • @kimo6584
    @kimo6584 Před 2 lety

    Just discovered your channel.. I needed this video! Please make more videos again

  • @cheyennehemphill8274
    @cheyennehemphill8274 Před 7 měsíci

    I’m going thru this right now I lost so much hair it’s so crazy I wish I can post a picture

  • @Brwyngyal
    @Brwyngyal Před rokem

    I am going through this now never have i ever been edgeless and bald I’m just ready to shave it all off

  • @callmeobedient
    @callmeobedient Před 4 měsíci

    Currently going through this, amd i don't even know what to do.

  • @belleelle1239
    @belleelle1239 Před 3 lety +1

    I went through this with all three of my kids. It was a nightmare. My right temple area still hasn’t recovered to this day. My hair still comes out in that area.

    • @nessadestra98
      @nessadestra98  Před 3 lety

      I believe it😔 woww that must be tough El!! I guess the only thing to do in the meantime is to style it in ways where it can be hidden. I feel you though❤❤

    • @belleelle1239
      @belleelle1239 Před 3 lety

      @@nessadestra98 I locked my hair now lol problem solved!

  • @ChipegoChifwepa
    @ChipegoChifwepa Před 9 měsíci

    I have had this struggle for 11years 😢 now

  • @allthingsnaturalhair5854
    @allthingsnaturalhair5854 Před 11 měsíci

    😭😭... It's so hard dealing with this

  • @lorianepierreorelus5948

    Love the video 💕

  • @allisonfelden4676
    @allisonfelden4676 Před 2 lety

    i’m literally dealing w this right now.. same spots.. how long did your last

  • @YeaImNotTheOne
    @YeaImNotTheOne Před rokem

    I currently look like your oct 10th pic😑😭😭.. ugh postpartum hair loss sucks

  • @cierapowell4390
    @cierapowell4390 Před rokem

    Thank u for this

  • @alexisgray7647
    @alexisgray7647 Před 3 lety

    So I know you had a breast reduction a few years ago and said you may have gone down to a size C in one of your vids. You’ve carried a beautiful baby and I know breast growth comes with that. That is one thing I’m worried about as I look into getting a breast reduction since I would like to have kids in the future and know my boobs will probably get bigger. If you don’t mind me asking, do you know what size you are now/how much bigger your breast got following your pregnancy ? Did you ever go back down in size after the pregnancy? Or Are you now the size you were originally prior to your breast reduction?

    • @nessadestra98
      @nessadestra98  Před 2 lety

      Hey Alexis! I apologize for the very late response, but I hope this answer is still helpful or relevant for you right now.
      So my breast did get bigger while I was pregnant, however, It didn't grow anywhere near the size I was prior to my surgery. It got swollen, and kept changing form due to the fact that I was producing milk. Today, now that my daughter is 19 months old, I'm currently wearing a 34D cup. Sometimes it fits too loose, and other times when I'm about to get my period, it fits perfectly. I think the looseness comes from the fact that breast feeding stole the volume I once had. My breast no longer sits up, and my lift from he surgery is gone. At the end of the day, all I can say is I cant even begin to imagine what kind of pain and discomfort I would've been in had I waited to have kids first before my surgery. I probably would've dealt with A LOT more pain with my back and neck being pregnant and breast feeding while carrying a 34DDD(not to mention, that bra size was still too small for me). I hope this answers your question. And I wish you all the best xox

  • @osayasmalive5123
    @osayasmalive5123 Před 3 lety

    This frightened me!!!! Girl. Imma have to take an L on a baby because I’m vain 😬😬😬

    • @nessadestra98
      @nessadestra98  Před 3 lety +1

      😂😂😂😂 Osaaaaaa. Motherhood is the most ghetto hood I've ever been a part of, but sis ITS THE BEST. Trust me it's worth loosing your edges for🥰😂

    • @osayasmalive5123
      @osayasmalive5123 Před 3 lety

      @@nessadestra98 LOLOLOLOL I H8 U
      I just feel like I'd be looking at my child jealous cause she stole my edges....I wouldn't want to start a bad relationship with him/her like that lol!
      also, did you take any vitamins meant for post partum that sped up getting your edges back???

    • @nessadestra98
      @nessadestra98  Před 3 lety

      @@osayasmalive5123 😂😂😂 you kill me!! And I had already been taking my prenatal vitamins as soon as I became pregnant, and then a little bit after giving birth. But at that point a quick cold turkey cause my girll, do you know how hard it is to remember after giving birth😫

  • @proverbs31woman31
    @proverbs31woman31 Před 6 měsíci

    I lost my hair like this after all 4 of my pregnancies, my youngest is 5 and my hair still is growing slow still short and very short at the nape. I do have edges but they are thin. The struggle is real.