Thank you for your insight. So basically, parental alienation is proved by documenting the instances of alienation over a long period of time, so that by the time it's proved, the alienation has achieved it's end and irrevocably damaged the poor child. Seems about right for the joke that is family court. No wonder defense attorneys mock the hell out of it.
Your frustration is understandable. Most people are hesitant to take immediate, decisive action, and courts are no exception (far from it). There is, of course, value in resisting the temptation to act hastily and rashly, but too often courts will try to justify plain old inaction with "restraint" and "deliberation", especially in parental alienation settings.
you should have asked the question 'how do you determine when someone is manipulating to achieve a parental alienation ruling to cover up their abuse?'.
Sorry but that seems unlikely. Any chance there could have been a bit of alienation on your side? Was the abuse just not proven in court? Another question, were the abuse incidents accepted as fast but not taken as consequential/substantial?
It’s absolutely possible when there is a narcissist involved. They project. They do pa and abuse and then successfully win over proceedings after blaming the good parent for it. Pls look at pa and narcissist together, many videos
In my experience a good psychologist can see parental alienation a mile off its different to abuse in so many ways and if a psychologist cant see the difference then they are a really bad psychologist. A child would hate the othet parent bit have no specisic reason for it and the targeted parent would have been evaluated and also have evid3nce of the child being ok with them before the abuse aligations from the parent began
❤😢 7 years of it. Even get well soon balloons and that im "sick". They dont get sick there only at moms house. And explain it to court gal and judges. Its "he said she said" ❤
Thank you for this but gosh the interviewer did interrupt a bit too much kind of stopped the attorney in his flow. Information was really awesome though.
Hello, In regards to talking badly about the other parent when the other parent has done something extremely wrong, this is how I handled it. The children wanted to know why I got divorced and why dad was incarcerated. I explained that they would have to ask him! They did, when they got old enough. That is the only thing my children ever heard from me. This put all the responsibility on my ex.
Thanks! Can we say,” That is beyond the scope of my practice?” I do not think this is a rocket science subject. I am the targeted parent but I know the eternal love between my child and I are eternal. Life is still beautiful and moves on.
This is very insightful. One thing he forgot to say is that You can not use a foot doctor to do open heart surgery. Meaning you can not use a regular therapist who is not educated or a specialist in parental alienation there will be a misdiagnosis and treatment.
Thank you for watching and for commenting. I go back and forth on how useful (and accurate and competent) mental health professionals are in effectively understanding and resolving differences and disputes around child custody and parent-time. There is a ton of pseudoscience peddled and accepted as truth and fact. There is "research" to support almost any theory. It's easier than I had thought for those suffering from mental illness and personality disorders to fool a professional.
@@ericjohnson7950 What I really wish you guys can talk about is when a GAL GOES ROUGE What can't the person whose pro say can do about this type of guardian ad litem
@@vennielomeli6547 , that's an excellent question, and I can tell you from personal experience that the system is set up to protect the guardian ad litem, regardless of how competent and credible the guardian ad litem is. It is extremely difficult, almost impossible, to expose an ineffective guardian ad litem, let alone to expose a corrupt and/or incompetent guardian ad litem.
@@ericjohnson7950 This is very good stuff here My question to you is because of me knowing how the mother's past behaviors are and since this was the 1st commencement order because of The child's mother doing child deprivation I recorded majority conversations between me and the child the interference that the mother was creating and her boyfriend was creating pick up those recorded Dropbox recorded interactions between me my daughter disciplining was Record it and parental parenting was recorded and my daughter gave some red flags as to the alienation that was ongoing I spotted it off the 1st phone conversations through the court order and I reported to The Guardian ad litem and she deflected Talking about how Parental alienation is hard to prove then I informed her that I have video and then she said I don't have time for that.. Then I requested for a Child forensic interviewer at what she said it cost too much money so since she Did 3 months of Deflecting I didn't want to DSS and requested for assistance on parental alienation as my child's behavior throughout the 1st 3 months we're showing significant change
You have some good points and I too have been on the receiving end of prental alienation. Unfortunately I live in Outagamie County Wisconsin. Laws are not enforced here as I have found out. I have done most of the things that you have talked about to no avail. Alienators win here. And some of the attorneys I've had involved in my case only chose to keep it going. Now my daughter's life is destroyed. They will not listen to The Experts. It is so sad that I have seen this still on and have lost all respect for the laws that cannot be enforced
Thank you for watching and for commenting, and I agree that most courts still, nowadays, go to great lengths to avoid confronting, analyzing, and neutralizing parental alienation in child custody disputes.
I’m in Texas :( I’m the custodial parent and he took off with my son. He’s done this for 3 years to me. I haven’t seen or talked to my son in 3 years now. I’m still trying to fight for justice. My son is 10 years old now and I can’t find a attorney that will take my case :(
I have a contempt action in play now. My s/o will come to the exchange place weekly but will not leave the exchange area after the child gets out of her car and comes to mine. She records the entire event every time. My child will come to my car , refuse to get in, and walk back over to my ex's car. Sometimes 15 or 20 min aftrer showing up at my car. My ex says the court order doesnt say leave the area. The order says that I pick up after school from the school. My ex would normally not be there if it weren't for COVID-19 and home-school. Her bringing my child to the exchange place (school) , then sitting there recording the events tells me that she is staging and /or condoning my child not getting into my car at exchanges. My ex, after letting my child re-enter her car will then leave the exchange area and that's it. No exchange made. Every week for two months this has been happening and I have 2 more months to go until the hearing. This is alienation , interference with parenting time/ custody etc. but will the judge do anything?
Mine are all adults now. can i sue ex in civil court tort law for lying to my children about me? i have the email that prove it all & they bribed court appointed therapist who lost his licenSe
My brother is going thru this with his kids.. The mother has decided she's gay and has married another woman. The other woman wants custody of my brothers kids, and his ex is compliant. They schedule other activities, parties, anything they can to prevent their Dad from seeing them.... Making it sound like more fun to stay with the Moms than go over Dads. They go to the school and remove the Dad's name from the contact list so, if there is an emergency, meeting, school event, he is never notified. One of the children has a learning disability and he never gets to sit in on school meetings determining what his needs are and course of action. My brother finally took the court order to school, ordering her to allow him parental rights, and they finally stopped removing his name from the contact list, but he still doesn't get notified about meetings and school events. They will not allow the children to call their Dad, and when they do, they stand over them to make sure they don't say anything they don't want said, and punish them if they do. .. They've made it so difficult for the children to be with him, only one of the three came to spend time with him for Christmas, and he is extremely depressed about it. They've let it be known that their plan is, if anything happens to his ex, her wife will demand custody of the kids, since they have been in their custody. They want him completely removed from his life. The ex was very promiscuous during their relationship. She constantly had affairs with both men and women. When she first started living with her first girlfriend, she and her girlfriend slept with the girlfriends 10 year old daughter....a point she spoke out of her own mouth to a court and it's in court papers, yet she still got custody of the kids. His kids were abused by the first girlfriends son. There was evidence and it went to social services. All they did was put the son in a home, and sent the kids to some counseling.... Again while in her custody, and she still retained custody of the kids. He has paid 2 lawyers to try to get custody, or at the very least, get parental rights, and get her for contempt of court. They have a full diary of court regulations for custody, text messages, recordings of what the children say about how they're not allowed to call, a long string of hard evidence. He has paid a second lawyer and still doesn't have any results.... No hearing or anything. Now, the lawyer is saying he has to get off his third shift job to get custody.... That's insane! If they're going to deny custody because he's on third shift, they need to make it illegal for jobs to require you to work third shift! Thousands of people in this state work third shift everyday and raise their children!!! I'm sick of the system giving her a pass to treat him and the children so badly, just because she's the Mom! His oldest is already 17... The younger two are a couple of years behind.... He is so depressed and remorseful of all the time he's lost with them.... All the money he's paid to try to at least get some form of fatherhood, and he's continually stripped of his rights.... While his ex gleefully tells him his children chose to be with her, and not him! The court system is horrendous when it comes to fathers rights! They have no rights! 😡
That is a good question, Troy. If you are a Utahan and want to consult with Mr. Peterson, I am sure he'd be willing to schedule an appointment with you.
My daughter was nineteen when I left her Father, she is now forty and has two children. So twenty years on we are still rehashing the past, reinforced I believe by her Father to get back at me for leaving him. He has a woman in his life now, who he lives with. I live on my own, and it is now affecting my grandchildren. I lived with depression for many years, and during the divorce, attempted to take my life. Her father called me mad, but two of his brothers attempted, and succeeded in suicide. I live a contented life, and only feel down at moments of stress, like now, my daughter is again not talking to me, which does not help ! The only way I want to speak to my ex-husband, is through a medium..
@chuck wood That picture was taken a year ago, and my grandchildren are 15 and eleven. What is it with you, do you hate older people? Your Mom should have left you in a pig sty. If I receive any more "hate mail" I will report you.
@chuck wood Would you say these things to your grandmother? She would give you a clip round the ears. We don't all want to sit in a corner knitting. My daughter was 19 -20 when I left. Why should I stay in an unhappy marriage. She is now 43 and happily married with two teenage children.
Hello I am a single mom from Iowa and I have disabilities one of those is a small comprehension one with reading and writing CPS DHS they have come into our lives and illegally taking my children the court appointed attorneys they do not help in fact they do the opposite they have well one has flat out told me I have no rights because the state pays for him another one he told me to put my tail between my legs and do what they say and when I told him that wasn't right he told me that I could fight it but did I have enough money for an attorney when I told him he was my attorney he made me a deal he said if I sign the papers for my newborn son that I can have my teenage daughter back and that's my excuse myself I had to go get sick I couldn't believe what I had just heard over this last year I've had to learn the law by myself and it's been extremely hard so when you say that I need specific dates when Michelle the DHS lady has literally manipulating my child to the point where my daughter doesn't even want to see me in I praise my daughter her 15 years we have an extremely good Bond at the beginning of this it was actually stated in the courtroom that I should be proud of the job I did and I don't know how it's got to where it's got and they've terminated my son and my daughter haven't seen her in over 2 months I'm trying to learn this but it's so overwhelming and I don't have nobody here it kills me to know that because I can't comprehend certain things I've got to lose my children do you have any advice
My lawyer asked for a GAL in my case. I have a beautiful daughter who will be 4 in July and I have never had one overnight with her. I drive to my ex girlfriends house ( daughters mother ) once a week and have 2 hours of visitation and I drive an hour each way. I do not understand what her deal is but I hope this gets resolved as there is no abuse and I am not a criminal or alcoholic ( I am hoping for the best )
We do not know of any forensic evaluators in Massachusetts, but you should be able to find one by inquiring with local universities, local psychologists (even if they don't provide forensic evaluation services, they should know those who do), and by Googling "forensic child custody evaluator Massachusetts" or "forensic child custody evaluator West Massachusetts." Best wishes.
I live in Michigan my ex last year 2021 summer in court brought up a false aligation after taking me to court to take time away. She admitted in court to alieting our kids and said in court she don’t support our children to have a good relationship with me. Court then had my two young kids 8 and 10 hrs old to testify against me. I have spent thousands I have done supervised visits but it’s all because of the lie she said against me no proof and eight years to bring it up shows it’s not true. I’m desperate my kids are being abused I’m going through domestic abuse by this and the court won’t or don’t know about alietion. It’s been yr and half now almost two years since the took my kids on me having add and outbursts again no evidence but I take my meds for add. I am so desperate the court won’t follow up on complaints I have spent my savings and I’m broken, better now and ready to take it on but worst thing is my son was sexual abused and mom is covering it up and cps said it is because of custody dispute.
If anyone can help me with this cause the court don’t see it and it’s a crime in Michigan I have called the senate, house of reps and district attorney as well as cps. I want the mom to get help I just want some time back and my kids in counseling
Again she admitted to parental alienation and we use OFW to communicate and so much evidence but she admitted already but court don’t care. I miss my kids the court didn’t do there job to protect my kids and the sexual abuse cover up.
CPS took my kids because I failed to protect them because I was in a domestic violence by there dad, so when he they were removed and were placed 2 hours away, at that time we lived with my parents we always had but my sisters lived there too with her 4 kids , and my husband sister had a house no kids . I accepted her to be the foster parents while we work in reunification, little by little my kids strated saying lies about me and saying I wanted to kill there dad , long story short I lost my parental rights i have a restraining order I had a baby an CPS took him away when he was only 18 days old. Luckily my moms brother adopted my baby, my baby is now 3 yrs old I was able to visit him out in Georgia for 1 week. But it’s been 4 yrs since i lost my parental rights if my older 3 kids. They grew up with my parents and they said that we aren’t there family. I am grateful for my husbands sister an husband for giving my kids a home food matirial things. CPS don’t reunite families they destroy families
My daughter was done this way by the children’s great aunt on the dads side the aunt went to cps and reported abandonment drug trafficking everything she could get kids took for and we were reported for allowing abuse to happen in our home this was never true The great aunt never let my daughter see her children when it was court ordered The aunt lied my daughter when one of the children was going to have surgery she lied about the day it was going to happen on so my daughter wouldn’t be there The aunt went and took no contact order on my daughter for nothing. Just to keep children awY from her cps was with the aunt 100 percent Cps never came and investigated us but the children are not allowed around our side of family. But the children were supposed to spend time with us on birthdays and holidays the aunt never let that happen Cps said it was up to aunt well if true was ordered in court she shouldn’t have ever kept them from us The aunt used dr s And a lot of people even police against my daughter the aunt told the children the mom didn’t love them. She told them if they cry after visit s they would never see her again The aunt was friends with the cps worker the dr they sent children to was the aunts daughter in law the judge was kin to the aunt. My daughter lost her kids for nothing but lies One of the children told his mom that she was lying to them that she wasn’t ever coming back a three year old is not going to know to say something like that the children act like they don’t know us at all The aunt adandoned her own children and stole her sisters children and tryed to take her grandchildren from her son
Great information,but won’t help us,looks like mom will only get FaceTime for the next 14 years as her twins are 2,and have already been alienated for physical contact 1 yr and too young for their own opinion of things.Good luck to everyone else on here.As the lawyer has already bled mom and family dry..and the dads lawyer keeps asking for more to keep her poor,,it’s all playing out in front of our eyes and we as parents won’t sell our house to make his lawyer rich.I’ve never met the father but he’s trying real hard to take us all down.And he just might succeed.
A GAL is someone that makes Avery thing worse! This is the sad reality. Clinicians experts in parental alienation are the only one that shall be allow to assess and identify the symptoms of alienation on the child and not forensics. As a matter of fact, it is extremely difficult if not impossible to identify an ongoing alienation by assessing the parents. This is because if the alienating parent is purposely alienating( and this is what happens most of the time let’s be objective e and realistic here), will never admit it, otherwise what would have they been alienating for in first place??? So, the only way to find out, experts says, is to so to speak find the finger prints of the alienating parent on the child, which means by observing the behavioral patter of the child. As a matter of fact, parental alienation symptoms are very clear and specific. Period! If courts will continue not listening and refusing to rely on clinicians and to acknowledge their expertise, we will never go no where, children’s alienation will go on and alienating parents let continue perpetrating such criminal ( yes criminal because so even experts defines it) child abuse! Shame on the justice system that refuses to acknowledge this and in doing so, not acting in the best interest of the child!!! Who’s then the real criminal in the end: the alienating parent or… a system that is supposed to protect victims of alienation, both, child and alienated parent, but does not???!!!!
For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth. (Romans 1:18)
These GALs are really ignorant and making everything even worse. The non sense this GAL said is endless. There such a misconceptions and ignorance from forensics that is unbelievable. Clinicians, specialized clinicians shall be assess, symptoms identified and therapy plan established!!!!!!
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The child doesn't have a chance to decide, when been brained washed for years,been told she could never say noBern alienated so long when wasn't around the biological mother,couldn't make phones calls,phone monitor as a special needs child, that became that way injured when wasn't in the biological mothers custody,and no one did nothing about it.
Peterson is not a child psychiatrist. You always tell the kids the truth. If a child asks a question you explain it. A six year old can watch a mother giving birth. If we start educating our children early about the world aka the truth...there are people who are cluster b out there. They need to be taught boundaries from day 1. Children should be emotionally raised to feel autonomy. Stage 2 of development autonomy vs shame. Have you ever seen children play? They live in the moment. They forgive and move to the next game. It's the courts that are harming the children. Peterson himself was extremely reckless. In fact, he is known for not talking to children before making choices for them. Seems like he is using evdense for patterns. This is exactly what Randy Rand, Childress, Dorcy Pruter and Warshak use. I suggest you interview Joanna Silberg. PA is what courts use if a person was abused. That is their only defense now against domestic violence. Glad you interviewed him. He is a textbook court whore.
I'm a little confused can you please clarify? Is this good information or not? My ex is a cluster B and I'm terrified that she's going to get full custody although my hands are clean and she has a huge paper trail. I am a pro se litigant. I really have no choice. I'm doing a pretty good job and it's been challenging paying for the GAL. If I could only get my children's therapist notes I'd win custody but I've never heard of the forensic evaluator before and from my recent research they don't really exist in Massachusetts just forensic psychologists. Can you give me any more information?
So, how about this situation: "Dad, why are you and mom divorced?" What if the truth is, "Your mother was having sex with 6 married men at her place of work." That's the truth. Go ahead, tell that to a child.
Thank you for your insight. So basically, parental alienation is proved by documenting the instances of alienation over a long period of time, so that by the time it's proved, the alienation has achieved it's end and irrevocably damaged the poor child. Seems about right for the joke that is family court. No wonder defense attorneys mock the hell out of it.
Your frustration is understandable. Most people are hesitant to take immediate, decisive action, and courts are no exception (far from it). There is, of course, value in resisting the temptation to act hastily and rashly, but too often courts will try to justify plain old inaction with "restraint" and "deliberation", especially in parental alienation settings.
Does not seem right and by then it is no longer in the "child's best interests" to be removed from the abuser
Grandparents can also cause a child to become alienated. And good luck getting the courts or law to protect the child.
Yep
This is a good video, but getting the courts to acknowledge these issues is impossible.
15:40-20:00
@@abeaguirre8046 Understand what you meant. I feel once you are a targeted parent, you are not counted as a person in the legal society except God.
You have "the right to remain silent" - you can sue them for slander/defamation of character later on
How
Have you tried that?
you should have asked the question 'how do you determine when someone is manipulating to achieve a parental alienation ruling to cover up their abuse?'.
That's exactly what happened to me and my children
Sorry but that seems unlikely. Any chance there could have been a bit of alienation on your side? Was the abuse just not proven in court? Another question, were the abuse incidents accepted as fast but not taken as consequential/substantial?
It’s absolutely possible when there is a narcissist involved. They project. They do pa and abuse and then successfully win over proceedings after blaming the good parent for it. Pls look at pa and narcissist together, many videos
In my experience a good psychologist can see parental alienation a mile off its different to abuse in so many ways and if a psychologist cant see the difference then they are a really bad psychologist. A child would hate the othet parent bit have no specisic reason for it and the targeted parent would have been evaluated and also have evid3nce of the child being ok with them before the abuse aligations from the parent began
OMG THIS IS STEP BY STEP WHAT IM GOING THROUGH!!!! Everything you are talking about, everything!!
my nephew going through same 2 years since he last seen his boy good luck my friend
❤😢 7 years of it. Even get well soon balloons and that im "sick". They dont get sick there only at moms house. And explain it to court gal and judges. Its "he said she said" ❤
I know someone like that..it's exactly what you said about the call and all..my gosh it's not right.. children deserve better
Thank you for this but gosh the interviewer did interrupt a bit too much kind of stopped the attorney in his flow. Information was really awesome though.
Hello, In regards to talking badly about the other parent when the other parent has done something extremely wrong, this is how I handled it. The children wanted to know why I got divorced and why dad was incarcerated. I explained that they would have to ask him! They did, when they got old enough. That is the only thing my children ever heard from me. This put all the responsibility on my ex.
Thanks! Can we say,” That is beyond the scope of my practice?” I do not think this is a rocket science subject. I am the targeted parent but I know the eternal love between my child and I are eternal. Life is still beautiful and moves on.
This is very insightful. One thing he forgot to say is that You can not use a foot doctor to do open heart surgery. Meaning you can not use a regular therapist who is not educated or a specialist in parental alienation there will be a misdiagnosis
and treatment.
Thank you for watching and for commenting. I go back and forth on how useful (and accurate and competent) mental health professionals are in effectively understanding and resolving differences and disputes around child custody and parent-time. There is a ton of pseudoscience peddled and accepted as truth and fact. There is "research" to support almost any theory. It's easier than I had thought for those suffering from mental illness and personality disorders to fool a professional.
@@ericjohnson7950 What I really wish you guys can talk about is when a GAL GOES ROUGE What can't the person whose pro say can do about this type of guardian ad litem
@@vennielomeli6547 , that's an excellent question, and I can tell you from personal experience that the system is set up to protect the guardian ad litem, regardless of how competent and credible the guardian ad litem is. It is extremely difficult, almost impossible, to expose an ineffective guardian ad litem, let alone to expose a corrupt and/or incompetent guardian ad litem.
@@ericjohnson7950 This is very good stuff here My question to you is because of me knowing how the mother's past behaviors are and since this was the 1st commencement order because of The child's mother doing child deprivation I recorded majority conversations between me and the child the interference that the mother was creating and her boyfriend was creating pick up those recorded Dropbox recorded interactions between me my daughter disciplining was Record it and parental parenting was recorded and my daughter gave some red flags as to the alienation that was ongoing I spotted it off the 1st phone conversations through the court order and I reported to The Guardian ad litem and she deflected Talking about how Parental alienation is hard to prove then I informed her that I have video and then she said I don't have time for that.. Then I requested for a Child forensic interviewer at what she said it cost too much money so since she Did 3 months of Deflecting I didn't want to DSS and requested for assistance on parental alienation as my child's behavior throughout the 1st 3 months we're showing significant change
You have some good points and I too have been on the receiving end of prental alienation. Unfortunately I live in Outagamie County Wisconsin. Laws are not enforced here as I have found out. I have done most of the things that you have talked about to no avail. Alienators win here. And some of the attorneys I've had involved in my case only chose to keep it going. Now my daughter's life is destroyed. They will not listen to The Experts. It is so sad that I have seen this still on and have lost all respect for the laws that cannot be enforced
Thank you for watching and for commenting, and I agree that most courts still, nowadays, go to great lengths to avoid confronting, analyzing, and neutralizing parental alienation in child custody disputes.
It's horrible. 😔
BRAVO! I watched this one twice!
I’m in Texas :( I’m the custodial parent and he took off with my son. He’s done this for 3 years to me. I haven’t seen or talked to my son in 3 years now. I’m still trying to fight for justice. My son is 10 years old now and I can’t find a attorney that will take my case :(
I have a contempt action in play now. My s/o will come to the exchange place weekly but will not leave the exchange area after the child gets out of her car and comes to mine. She records the entire event every time. My child will come to my car , refuse to get in, and walk back over to my ex's car. Sometimes 15 or 20 min aftrer showing up at my car. My ex says the court order doesnt say leave the area. The order says that I pick up after school from the school. My ex would normally not be there if it weren't for COVID-19 and home-school. Her bringing my child to the exchange place (school) , then sitting there recording the events tells me that she is staging and /or condoning my child not getting into my car at exchanges. My ex, after letting my child re-enter her car will then leave the exchange area and that's it. No exchange made. Every week for two months this has been happening and I have 2 more months to go until the hearing. This is alienation , interference with parenting time/ custody etc. but will the judge do anything?
crazy is as crazy does
I think we all could agree that this topic needs to be updated with a new upload.
Mine is so irrational we had to call the Canadian RCMP to the door just so that I could try to wish them a merry Christmas it’s unreal!🥶🇨🇦
This is a huge problem in Canada!🥶🇨🇦
This is sad and horrible for the child devastating to the children..
Thank you for sharing your expertise!
Mine are all adults now. can i sue ex in civil court tort law for lying to my children about me? i have the email that prove it all & they bribed court appointed therapist who lost his licenSe
You are so right exactly my feelings
My brother is going thru this with his kids.. The mother has decided she's gay and has married another woman. The other woman wants custody of my brothers kids, and his ex is compliant. They schedule other activities, parties, anything they can to prevent their Dad from seeing them.... Making it sound like more fun to stay with the Moms than go over Dads. They go to the school and remove the Dad's name from the contact list so, if there is an emergency, meeting, school event, he is never notified. One of the children has a learning disability and he never gets to sit in on school meetings determining what his needs are and course of action. My brother finally took the court order to school, ordering her to allow him parental rights, and they finally stopped removing his name from the contact list, but he still doesn't get notified about meetings and school events. They will not allow the children to call their Dad, and when they do, they stand over them to make sure they don't say anything they don't want said, and punish them if they do. .. They've made it so difficult for the children to be with him, only one of the three came to spend time with him for Christmas, and he is extremely depressed about it. They've let it be known that their plan is, if anything happens to his ex, her wife will demand custody of the kids, since they have been in their custody. They want him completely removed from his life. The ex was very promiscuous during their relationship. She constantly had affairs with both men and women. When she first started living with her first girlfriend, she and her girlfriend slept with the girlfriends 10 year old daughter....a point she spoke out of her own mouth to a court and it's in court papers, yet she still got custody of the kids. His kids were abused by the first girlfriends son. There was evidence and it went to social services. All they did was put the son in a home, and sent the kids to some counseling.... Again while in her custody, and she still retained custody of the kids. He has paid 2 lawyers to try to get custody, or at the very least, get parental rights, and get her for contempt of court. They have a full diary of court regulations for custody, text messages, recordings of what the children say about how they're not allowed to call, a long string of hard evidence. He has paid a second lawyer and still doesn't have any results.... No hearing or anything. Now, the lawyer is saying he has to get off his third shift job to get custody.... That's insane! If they're going to deny custody because he's on third shift, they need to make it illegal for jobs to require you to work third shift! Thousands of people in this state work third shift everyday and raise their children!!! I'm sick of the system giving her a pass to treat him and the children so badly, just because she's the Mom! His oldest is already 17... The younger two are a couple of years behind.... He is so depressed and remorseful of all the time he's lost with them.... All the money he's paid to try to at least get some form of fatherhood, and he's continually stripped of his rights.... While his ex gleefully tells him his children chose to be with her, and not him! The court system is horrendous when it comes to fathers rights! They have no rights! 😡
That is a good question, Troy. If you are a Utahan and want to consult with Mr. Peterson, I am sure he'd be willing to schedule an appointment with you.
Steparents can also cause this
"that made you kinda special". Lmao
My daughter was nineteen when I left her Father, she is now forty and has two children. So twenty years on we are still rehashing the past, reinforced I believe by her Father to get back at me for leaving him. He has a woman in his life now, who he lives with. I live on my own, and it is now affecting my grandchildren. I lived with depression for many years, and during the divorce, attempted to take my life. Her father called me mad, but two of his brothers attempted, and succeeded in suicide. I live a contented life, and only feel down at moments of stress, like now, my daughter is again not talking to me, which does not help ! The only way I want to speak to my ex-husband, is through a medium..
@chuck wood Do you stay with Girlfriends you don't like? Nah! Didn't think so.
@chuck wood That picture was taken a year ago, and my grandchildren are 15 and eleven. What is it with you, do you hate older people? Your Mom should have left you in a pig sty. If I receive any more "hate mail" I will report you.
@chuck wood Would you say these things to your grandmother? She would give you a clip round the ears. We don't all want to sit in a corner knitting. My daughter was 19 -20 when I left. Why should I stay in an unhappy marriage. She is now 43 and happily married with two teenage children.
@chuck wood Get your mouth washed out with soap and water, no need for that language.
@chuck wood Can't help when I was born. blame the parents. Dad served on 2nd WW. Mum did 'munnitions. Was born a "Baby-boomer"
Hello I am a single mom from Iowa and I have disabilities one of those is a small comprehension one with reading and writing CPS DHS they have come into our lives and illegally taking my children the court appointed attorneys they do not help in fact they do the opposite they have well one has flat out told me I have no rights because the state pays for him another one he told me to put my tail between my legs and do what they say and when I told him that wasn't right he told me that I could fight it but did I have enough money for an attorney when I told him he was my attorney he made me a deal he said if I sign the papers for my newborn son that I can have my teenage daughter back and that's my excuse myself I had to go get sick I couldn't believe what I had just heard over this last year I've had to learn the law by myself and it's been extremely hard so when you say that I need specific dates when Michelle the DHS lady has literally manipulating my child to the point where my daughter doesn't even want to see me in I praise my daughter her 15 years we have an extremely good Bond at the beginning of this it was actually stated in the courtroom that I should be proud of the job I did and I don't know how it's got to where it's got and they've terminated my son and my daughter haven't seen her in over 2 months I'm trying to learn this but it's so overwhelming and I don't have nobody here it kills me to know that because I can't comprehend certain things I've got to lose my children do you have any advice
My lawyer asked for a GAL in my case. I have a beautiful daughter who will be 4 in July and I have never had one overnight with her. I drive to my ex girlfriends house ( daughters mother ) once a week and have 2 hours of visitation and I drive an hour each way. I do not understand what her deal is but I hope this gets resolved as there is no abuse and I am not a criminal or alcoholic ( I am hoping for the best )
Be careful what you wish for. Did it work out?
26:00 deposition of parents
When if the child confirms there intent to alienate?
So is keeping a child from the other parent alienating?
This is a fact. There is a movement that is working hard to debunk PAS.
I cannot find a forensic evaluator in W. Ma. Can you help?
We do not know of any forensic evaluators in Massachusetts, but you should be able to find one by inquiring with local universities, local psychologists (even if they don't provide forensic evaluation services, they should know those who do), and by Googling "forensic child custody evaluator Massachusetts" or "forensic child custody evaluator West Massachusetts." Best wishes.
I live in Michigan my ex last year 2021 summer in court brought up a false aligation after taking me to court to take time away. She admitted in court to alieting our kids and said in court she don’t support our children to have a good relationship with me. Court then had my two young kids 8 and 10 hrs old to testify against me. I have spent thousands I have done supervised visits but it’s all because of the lie she said against me no proof and eight years to bring it up shows it’s not true. I’m desperate my kids are being abused I’m going through domestic abuse by this and the court won’t or don’t know about alietion. It’s been yr and half now almost two years since the took my kids on me having add and outbursts again no evidence but I take my meds for add. I am so desperate the court won’t follow up on complaints I have spent my savings and I’m broken, better now and ready to take it on but worst thing is my son was sexual abused and mom is covering it up and cps said it is because of custody dispute.
If anyone can help me with this cause the court don’t see it and it’s a crime in Michigan I have called the senate, house of reps and district attorney as well as cps. I want the mom to get help I just want some time back and my kids in counseling
Again she admitted to parental alienation and we use OFW to communicate and so much evidence but she admitted already but court don’t care. I miss my kids the court didn’t do there job to protect my kids and the sexual abuse cover up.
CPS took my kids because I failed to protect them because I was in a domestic violence by there dad, so when he they were removed and were placed 2 hours away, at that time we lived with my parents we always had but my sisters lived there too with her 4 kids , and my husband sister had a house no kids . I accepted her to be the foster parents while we work in reunification, little by little my kids strated saying lies about me and saying I wanted to kill there dad , long story short I lost my parental rights i have a restraining order I had a baby an CPS took him away when he was only 18 days old. Luckily my moms brother adopted my baby, my baby is now 3 yrs old I was able to visit him out in Georgia for 1 week. But it’s been 4 yrs since i lost my parental rights if my older 3 kids. They grew up with my parents and they said that we aren’t there family. I am grateful for my husbands sister an husband for giving my kids a home food matirial things. CPS don’t reunite families they destroy families
My daughter was done this way by the children’s great aunt on the dads side the aunt went to cps and reported abandonment drug trafficking everything she could get kids took for and we were reported for allowing abuse to happen in our home this was never true The great aunt never let my daughter see her children when it was court ordered The aunt lied my daughter when one of the children was going to have surgery she lied about the day it was going to happen on so my daughter wouldn’t be there The aunt went and took no contact order on my daughter for nothing. Just to keep children awY from her cps was with the aunt 100 percent Cps never came and investigated us but the children are not allowed around our side of family. But the children were supposed to spend time with us on birthdays and holidays the aunt never let that happen Cps said it was up to aunt well if true was ordered in court she shouldn’t have ever kept them from us The aunt used dr s And a lot of people even police against my daughter the aunt told the children the mom didn’t love them. She told them if they cry after visit s they would never see her again The aunt was friends with the cps worker the dr they sent children to was the aunts daughter in law the judge was kin to the aunt. My daughter lost her kids for nothing but lies One of the children told his mom that she was lying to them that she wasn’t ever coming back a three year old is not going to know to say something like that the children act like they don’t know us at all The aunt adandoned her own children and stole her sisters children and tryed to take her grandchildren from her son
LoL
Why this defense does not work?
Why the courts pretend PA doesn’t exist?
Gross Generational Collision, its is a untreated childhood trauma in the parent,
Great information,but won’t help us,looks like mom will only get FaceTime for the next 14 years as her twins are 2,and have already been alienated for physical contact 1 yr and too young for their own opinion of things.Good luck to everyone else on here.As the lawyer has already bled mom and family dry..and the dads lawyer keeps asking for more to keep her poor,,it’s all playing out in front of our eyes and we as parents won’t sell our house to make his lawyer rich.I’ve never met the father but he’s trying real hard to take us all down.And he just might succeed.
What are guardian atletems? I'm going to Google it. Just curious
A guardian ad litem is normally appointed in cases where children are involved. Ad litem is latin and it means "for this action".
A GAL is someone that makes Avery thing worse! This is the sad reality. Clinicians experts in parental alienation are the only one that shall be allow to assess and identify the symptoms of alienation on the child and not forensics.
As a matter of fact, it is extremely difficult if not impossible to identify an ongoing alienation by assessing the parents. This is because if the alienating parent is purposely alienating( and this is what happens most of the time let’s be objective e and realistic here), will never admit it, otherwise what would have they been alienating for in first place???
So, the only way to find out, experts says, is to so to speak find the finger prints of the alienating parent on the child, which means by observing the behavioral patter of the child. As a matter of fact, parental alienation symptoms are very clear and specific. Period!
If courts will continue not listening and refusing to rely on clinicians and to acknowledge their expertise, we will never go no where, children’s alienation will go on and alienating parents let continue perpetrating such criminal ( yes criminal because so even experts defines it) child abuse!
Shame on the justice system that refuses to acknowledge this and in doing so, not acting in the best interest of the child!!!
Who’s then the real criminal in the end: the alienating parent or… a system that is supposed to protect victims of alienation, both, child and alienated parent, but does not???!!!!
Covert Narcessistic to not put your child first
For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth. (Romans 1:18)
These GALs are really ignorant and making everything even worse. The non sense this GAL said is endless.
There such a misconceptions and ignorance from forensics that is unbelievable.
Clinicians, specialized clinicians shall be assess, symptoms identified and therapy plan established!!!!!!
For parents who are trying to battle parental alienation strategies and need some support I have created a Facebook page just for you. Please reach out!
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The child doesn't have a chance to decide, when been brained washed for years,been told she could never say noBern alienated so long when wasn't around the biological mother,couldn't make phones calls,phone monitor as a special needs child, that became that way injured when wasn't in the biological mothers custody,and no one did nothing about it.
Google it
It's because they don't care about us.. LoL
Peterson is not a child psychiatrist. You always tell the kids the truth. If a child asks a question you explain it. A six year old can watch a mother giving birth. If we start educating our children early about the world aka the truth...there are people who are cluster b out there. They need to be taught boundaries from day 1. Children should be emotionally raised to feel autonomy. Stage 2 of development autonomy vs shame. Have you ever seen children play? They live in the moment. They forgive and move to the next game. It's the courts that are harming the children. Peterson himself was extremely reckless. In fact, he is known for not talking to children before making choices for them. Seems like he is using evdense for patterns. This is exactly what Randy Rand, Childress, Dorcy Pruter and Warshak use. I suggest you interview Joanna Silberg. PA is what courts use if a person was abused. That is their only defense now against domestic violence. Glad you interviewed him. He is a textbook court whore.
I'm a little confused can you please clarify? Is this good information or not? My ex is a cluster B and I'm terrified that she's going to get full custody although my hands are clean and she has a huge paper trail. I am a pro se litigant. I really have no choice. I'm doing a pretty good job and it's been challenging paying for the GAL. If I could only get my children's therapist notes I'd win custody but I've never heard of the forensic evaluator before and from my recent research they don't really exist in Massachusetts just forensic psychologists. Can you give me any more information?
So, how about this situation: "Dad, why are you and mom divorced?" What if the truth is, "Your mother was having sex with 6 married men at her place of work." That's the truth. Go ahead, tell that to a child.
@@usafa1993 perfect ex. Of things not to say..
@@usafa1993 shocking..
Yes! "Give birth" not "birds & bees".. Way to young for a child to know about..