I've had problems in the other direction. I live pretty detached and willing to go with the flow. My spouse is much more structured and needs a plan to feel comfortable. We had lots of disagreements about our outlooks. It took me far to long to realize my lack of attachment left me not being as sympathetic to her discomfort.
@@BrandG. my understanding of detachment is you need to emotionally detach from your own expectations of her and accept that she’s not going to be as laid back as you are. When you can accept that you’ll find that a lot of tensions will dissipate
This is the way to be man... "You got to go with the flow, the sea refuses no river. The idea is to remain in a constant state of departure while always arriving. The ride does not require a destination just occupants."
@@dirtcopdualsport It's from a movie called 'Waking Life' it's a weird one for sure but has some very interesting parts in it. If you look up "boat car waking life" you can find it.
Get outta my brain man!! I've been needing a thought process like this to help me work through the trials and tribulations of life. I'm about to turn 23 and am working so hard to try and get to where I wanna be in my life, but in the end, my plans only control like a fraction of what actually happens in the world around me. I think we could all be a little happier by letting go a bit more.
I can only say this process has made me a lot happier and life less hard! Honestly the results of this video will be a great exercise in applying the law of detachment!
"It's a slow road, and I'm a busy man." Great line. Try, 'Slow road, fast man!" Nice one-handed riding! Whiskers! Due to the pouring rain, I'm detached from my Tdub, but there will be a positive outcome soon. Great vid, brah!
" Smooth Is Fast "..... just " Flow ", your doing it my friend and on a TW. like your videos. Truly enjoy that the journey does not really involve a destination but rather reflection and maybe a drink( coffee or beer):)
I can honestly say I don’t think I’ve heard of this mindset before, but it makes total sense! Way to make us think as well as show us some beautiful terrain 👍🏻👍🏻
mounted a UTV gun rack on handle bars for collapsible metal detector and have a nice retractable rod and reel kit ..keep small reel and tackle box in my rear rack bag and the rod closes down to like 17" inside sleeve case .. I tuck it into seat strap and rear bag mount straps. I'm ready roll.. you never know what you're gonna come across exploring on a tdub
Ha! One of the many scenarios where detaching ourselves from the expected outcome can save us from disappointment. And not to mention I don’t home a patent on this you should make the video and blow mine out of the water!
@@dirtcopdualsport I really liked the presentation/format of the video man! I don’t think I know enough about the law of detachment to make a video yet but it’s a very helpful concept imo, it reminds me of the Bhagavad Gita! You could do a whole bunch of these ‘conceptual essays wrapped in a dual sport format! Very cool video man I’m pumped for your next one
@@Wheelsandwilds thanks man! I’ve been trying to mix things up and veer away from the traditional Motovlog. I have some ideas knocking around in my head that I will get out there! Thank you for watching this and I’m glad you are enjoying the content!
Is anyone else finding this year particularly challengin? Let me know what you've been doing to make life better and easier!
I've had problems in the other direction. I live pretty detached and willing to go with the flow. My spouse is much more structured and needs a plan to feel comfortable. We had lots of disagreements about our outlooks. It took me far to long to realize my lack of attachment left me not being as sympathetic to her discomfort.
@@BrandG.it’s certainly a fine line to walk but detaching from detachment is certainly a thing.
@@BrandG. my understanding of detachment is you need to emotionally detach from your own expectations of her and accept that she’s not going to be as laid back as you are. When you can accept that you’ll find that a lot of tensions will dissipate
Detaching from things and expectations has allowed me to be free and love and enjoy people, places and things! Thanks and enjoy your riding time.....
@@QuinnBoone thank you I will! Thank you for watching.
This is the way to be man... "You got to go with the flow, the sea refuses no river. The idea is to remain in a constant state of departure while always arriving. The ride does not require a destination just occupants."
Beautiful! What is that from?
@@dirtcopdualsport It's from a movie called 'Waking Life' it's a weird one for sure but has some very interesting parts in it. If you look up "boat car waking life" you can find it.
I like what you re doing here. I think I'll try this as well. Riding and reflecting.
Thank you! I was already riding and reflecting so i thought I might as well film it!
Get outta my brain man!! I've been needing a thought process like this to help me work through the trials and tribulations of life. I'm about to turn 23 and am working so hard to try and get to where I wanna be in my life, but in the end, my plans only control like a fraction of what actually happens in the world around me. I think we could all be a little happier by letting go a bit more.
I can only say this process has made me a lot happier and life less hard! Honestly the results of this video will be a great exercise in applying the law of detachment!
"It's a slow road, and I'm a busy man." Great line. Try, 'Slow road, fast man!"
Nice one-handed riding!
Whiskers!
Due to the pouring rain, I'm detached from my Tdub, but there will be a positive outcome soon. Great vid, brah!
Thanks budddy! I’m currently experiencing the same storm you are but in north Idaho.
" Smooth Is Fast "..... just " Flow ", your doing it my friend and on a TW. like your videos. Truly enjoy that the journey does not really involve a destination but rather reflection and maybe a drink( coffee or beer):)
Love your comment!!! Thanks so much for watching im really glad you enjoyed it!
I can honestly say I don’t think I’ve heard of this mindset before, but it makes total sense!
Way to make us think as well as show us some beautiful terrain
👍🏻👍🏻
Thanks Talen! I thinks it’s something that would benefit any one who tried it!
This is the creek I was telling you about the other day!
Love your vids man... I'm going to practice some detachment today!
Thank you!!! I love to hear that!!! I struggle with anxiety due to PTSD and it’s been a big help!
mounted a UTV gun rack on handle bars for collapsible metal detector and have a nice retractable rod and reel kit ..keep small reel and tackle box in my rear rack bag and the rod closes down to like 17" inside sleeve case .. I tuck it into seat strap and rear bag mount straps. I'm ready roll.. you never know what you're gonna come across exploring on a tdub
@hobonickel840 Thanks for the advice! A lot of times I bring a shotgun for grouse and a tenkara rod for trout!
Man I love your videos u seem like a solid dude
Thank you for saying that! I try my best lol! If you DM on Instagram or can get you a sticker and a coaster!
It's fascinating that I can have an idea for a video and then stumble upon somebody else who has already made that idea!
Ha! One of the many scenarios where detaching ourselves from the expected outcome can save us from disappointment. And not to mention I don’t home a patent on this you should make the video and blow mine out of the water!
@@dirtcopdualsport I really liked the presentation/format of the video man! I don’t think I know enough about the law of detachment to make a video yet but it’s a very helpful concept imo, it reminds me of the Bhagavad Gita! You could do a whole bunch of these ‘conceptual essays wrapped in a dual sport format! Very cool video man I’m pumped for your next one
@@Wheelsandwilds thanks man! I’ve been trying to mix things up and veer away from the traditional Motovlog. I have some ideas knocking around in my head that I will get out there! Thank you for watching this and I’m glad you are enjoying the content!
@@Wheelsandwilds also if you want a sticker shoot me a message on Instagram and I’ll get one too you!
good
Thank you! I appreciate that!!!
I thought you would be become disengaged from your bike....and go flying over the handlebars.
Ha! Not on this episode.
Just ride man
Ridings a good time for me to think too