How to tell better stories
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- čas přidán 1. 01. 2023
- The secret to telling better stories is to live a more interesting life!
Whenever you have an experience that really moves you, make it a habit to jot down the story into a notebook or on your phone.
If you do this consistently you'll start having a library of stories that you can share!
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What is your profession ? I don't know what we call but I know 1 thing for sure I wanna be just like you.
The simplicity and clarity of that great advice is incredible. It makes perfect sense and gives easy to follow directions, even examples.
Thanks Chris!
the worst roads make the best stories..*puts drink down and immediately gets in truck*
😂lmao, in all seriousness this advice is great👏
Haha lets goo
This man speaks facts, I am always self conscious and felt like I am being left out, to the others that are communating with joy sharing their stories while I couldn't think of anything as I don't have any and felt awkward, I could only stay silent and hope they remember that I am still there
The truth of this hit me pretty hard
I was so skeptical whether watch this video or not even though i searched for the topic myself. It's not that I'mma an introvert, i have always been an extrovert who can talk to anyone anywhere BUT in the last few years i have started listening to everyone around, i like how people share their stories with me. But because of too much listening i have completely forgotten how to tell a story of my own, i always think whether the person in front of me would be intrested or not OR whether my story is any good or not. Thank you so much for this video. It was a simple yet very important message for me. Thanks!
It’s my second day in Australia (from Canada) and nothing has gone according to plan and everything has been a challenge. This is the first video I see after I got home for the days. Thanks Vinh, this helped 👍
Best of luck (from a Montrealer)!
Challenges or future stories to tell?
@@gastonangelini8352 many. My brother and I made a video about it, and are currently making more about our endeavours. We might release them
Everybody's life has stories worth telling though. If you know nothing about someone or what they've done, that can be a fascinating story to someone. Something has happened to everyone.
I really liked his point. We should do something new. Scrolling through social media is a habit of people, even mine as well, but it's not worth it if you do this for a long time. Instead of that something new or interesting thing should be done, maybe learning a new skill, language or going on some trip. But, this takes a lot of courage for a lazy person like me 😅.
Tell me later how to overcpme laziness if u did something about that
So right ! I think the problem is people are afraid of trying new things because they fear failure. But if you can get over that fear of failing you'd be surprised at just how many things you can accomplish.
Wow 🔥🔥🔥
You said it excellently.
"Live a life that is worth talking about"
This man always gives the best advice
I think it's also important that when you do go on adventures or have new experiences that you live in the moment. Many times I catch myself thinking about the past or worrying about the future that makes the present moment less memorable
People love to hear about your failures. It's something everyone can relate. And how you bounce back is the kicker
Thank you! You fixed a part of me :)
I need to change my life badly, man. Now is the time.
Hi, how u been?
Man, those 3 examples are relevant as people struggle with interesting self reflection during storytelling- with experiences come good/happy/sad insights which are heart of good stories. Good one 👍🏻
You will not require communication skills classes if you have a great life and it will be shared easily if the content is great . And bonds will be strong
"He said one day you'll leave this world behind....
So live a life you will remember...."
So true, you words hits the spot in my brain, and I always stop and think about it. Thank you for making me contemplate.
It absolutely makes sense cause once you know your position and experience which is already high enough than the average people it's an instant self value or immense self confidence that comes unknowingly as your selves realizes that you're even more than worthy. The sense of Social anxiety and any kind of mental or verbal dilemma then automatically stops by loosing zero effort. Because the root cause of this personality trope is now obliterated and got replaced with the sense of ego.
Focused diligent effort on something will also create a story
Nope. I disagree with him on that one for a couple of reasons:
1) people with “boring” jobs are needed. If everyone had his job, then no one would have a job.
2) some people are more short and concise than others. 2 people can tell the same story in very different ways, and within drastically different time frames.
I have friends that can spend half an hour telling me a story like they’re drawing me a picture, they have to tell me about every little thing they saw on their journey. then I’ll retell the same story in 2 minutes time. It would be the most mundane story too, but the way they tell it would make it sound so interesting and engaging.
Think about jokes, which are a type of a story. The way you tell a joke can either make or break the joke.
In add to this, I've heard great stories told from events that's not happened to them but to someone else they know, or a novel they read. They probably told a better story than the book or person they heard from.
Guys if you didnt know actually you dont even need to tell a good story, if you are passionate about what you are saying and you have high confidence people will be drawn to it. The reason for that is we are wired to follow and pay attention to people that are high value.
Brilliant! Simply brilliant
This guy speaks truths!!!!!
He is speaking the truth
Love it! Live a life worth telling. 😎
This hits home.
Live a life that worth telling
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This is a note-to-self
I love this message! Thank you!
don't worry guys just make them up
Best advice!!!
Powerful information right there
Great point as always, thank u!
Some of the best advice I've ever heard
Completely agree with him
Love this! Next up.. how to tell that story well🤩
Really moving. Wow
You are Amazing!!!! you gave me lots of lyric for my song LOL... THx
Your work is beautiful
Live a life that's worth telling 📌
I love this! ❤
Great point 👍🏻
Thank you! This is beautiful and I needed to hear this.
You are amazing!
Solid advice.
Good point!
Think of life as an interesting RPG game. *BE* the main character, not just an NPC. You wouldn't want to play a boring MC. You'd want to play someone with a cool backstory, cool skills, and maybe even a cool look. Be unique, and live uniquely. Live story-worthy.
very interesting point thank you.
Smart speaker appreciate broo
Amen. Interesting
Great advice
Outstanding
This is kinda difficult for a disabled person who hasn't have a chance to live their own life.
He'd say you're just not trying hard enough lol. "Comfort zone" and other such nonsense.
Profound!
This makes sense 😮
I love getting this info for free thanks 😊
Nice. God's Love and Blessings.
Yes definitely, I'll try to apply it.. 💪 😎 ❤️
Truth!!!
What happened with me is that I am more interested in talking about ideas but sometimes of chilling I talk about events, I have my cave era and my version of hippie from Woodstock in modernity hahaha
Here's the thing, I disagree that doing the same things will not lead to a great story.
A great storyteller can see the wonder in the mundane. It's not always about what you do that creates the story, it's your ability to see the extraordinary in the ordinary that makes the difference.
Also you can tell a story about how you wasted your time on internet😂
Your videos are really helpful, thank
So true!!!
God bless you
Sounds great
That's wise
100% anything interesting that I have done I have done on impulse. All those choices very different from what I normally would do.
Fully agree 👍👍
Amazing
Amazing🔥🔥🔥
On point
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Exactly
Every Introverts crying in the corner right now
Storytime:
Little sis: when are we going to grandma's
Dad:now
Big sis: why are we going to her? It is like 1,5 hour away.
Mom: it is grandma's 81th birthday.
Little sis: yay!! It is going to be so much fun!!
Big sis: but mom! I promised to Amanda my Bestfriend to go an hang out at her house! If i dont go she probally is going to be angry at me!
Dad: your going
Mom: just text her and saythat you are going to your grandma or just say you are sick.
Big sis: or you guys just go and i dont? I also have much homework to do!
Dad: that trick isnt working anymore on us.
Little sis: sissy, why do you not want to go to grandma. It will be so pleasant!!and grandma's cake is the best in the whoule world!!
Big sis: still no
Dad: get in the car, you to
Big sis: but Amanda...
Mom: listen to your father you young lady!
Big sis: okay, fine!
☆~THE END~☆
A hard pill to swallow.
If you keep staying in your comfort zone and procrastinate all the time, your situation will stay the same and your life will not change for the better.
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Hmmm... that's true.
What is the title of the long format video ?
How do I grab someone's attention long enough to tell a short story? About 2 minutes long?
What about someone who has stories to share, but they're just bad and structuring the story.. And the listeners get bored or distracted early from the story teller?
Most people collect those stories to fill up their empty life's :)
Socisl experiment is a hell experience of my short life 😥😥😥
like it
this is true. i moved in with sister and although by nature i’m already quite reserved, i have nothing to talk about with her because i have no stories to tell. it’s eating me alive tbh.
I'm a magician!!
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I'm not asking how to make stories, i have it already. How to tell it more engagingly that's my question, talk about that
Dang...
"I drink donut milk"
Ouch
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thats why my parents are boring when they tell stories.. because they dont have time to try new things...
hello fellow introverts.
Read books!