Narcissists (getting free from past or present pain) - Tapping with Brad Yates

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  • čas přidán 30. 08. 2020
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Komentáře • 385

  • @celissewillis9399
    @celissewillis9399 Před 9 měsíci +24

    5:36 "just because someone else is sick, doesn't mean that I can't recover"... THIS!!!

  • @christinebennett9394
    @christinebennett9394 Před 3 lety +165

    This is so needed! I was not prepared for what came up during this session. Being raised by a Narcissist really messes with your identity.

  • @itsPOWOW
    @itsPOWOW Před 3 lety +93

    Hello Brad. What a gift this is. I'm an Empath, a Highly Sensitive Person, who has PTSD! I formed a loving relationship with someone with NPD - I had not met such a person before. Your videos on other subjects have helped me on the long road to recovery from that damaging relationship. I still love the man who is a prisoner of his own disease, so I'm glad you included a wish for their healing because it's a terrible condition for all concerned. May we invoke healing for all of us who have been used, misled, confused, abused and traumatised and may we ask divine source to flood them with light and opportunity at every turn to change. It's not easy for them because, in their reality, their prison, they are not wrong. Love and light must win. kxx

    • @christineplaton3048
      @christineplaton3048 Před 2 lety +10

      They say they cannot love. I believe it is very true. However they also say we never loved the narcissist. They say we loved what they saw In or acted towards us. But they ever were true enough for us to love them, it is all a facade. They never wanted us to know them. It was just a game of theirs, and they play horrible games. We are not game players and don't deserve this. We knew how to love and we tried to be in a normal relationship. It was never normal. I refuse to invest time in another abusive relationship.

    • @marwaelsayed9451
      @marwaelsayed9451 Před 2 lety +5

      May all of us who suffered and injured to heal and recovered for those who injured us

    • @cajsalundgren2138
      @cajsalundgren2138 Před rokem +2

      Hey Brad! I absolutly adore your videos. This is so unbelivible thankful! You say all the right words. My X is still in my life. When he says; Im here for you…. I know he is, but just for control and manipulation-… Now, when you said; Im here for ya” … it felt so honest.. and it felt totalt different in my body… that is the way it should be said. Thank you soooo much for tou voice, your heart to help others and for your tapping. Be blessed 🤲🏽

    • @zelihasahin7748
      @zelihasahin7748 Před rokem +4

      That really breaks my heart. Yes, we can fall in love with them and they hurt us terribly. On some level they know that they hurt us. Still wishing well and forgiving them for us to move on.

  • @mdmmalou
    @mdmmalou Před 3 lety +96

    Born to be the scapegoat. Escaped many times, but not without being severe injured. Great that you added narsissism as a theme! Thank you so much for posting.🙏💥

  • @GardenofResistance
    @GardenofResistance Před 3 lety +50

    "Sometimes when we've been knocked down, it feels safer to stay down."
    I am weeping into my pillow so no one can hear me. That hit me hard. Just ow.
    Thank you for sharing your work.

    • @Emma-km4mz
      @Emma-km4mz Před rokem +1

      I was full of tears doing this again today!

    • @MsEssmess
      @MsEssmess Před rokem +1

      I darent dream anymore.... so working on little ones!

  • @vanessasouthern1792
    @vanessasouthern1792 Před 3 lety +75

    Thanks my CZcams Dad. I needed this today. More than you'd ever know. It's a difficult annuversay. Every word you said is so fitting. And healing. 🙏

  • @anitatortita
    @anitatortita Před 5 měsíci +4

    "I'm acknowledging i'm worthy of love, love that they weren't capable of giving me, BUT OTHERS CAN,"... just hit me like a ton of bricks. Wow thank you for that truth!

  • @Hautenani
    @Hautenani Před rokem +3

    Wow! All the healing I’ve done and when I did this everything came up from the surface such as…
    1. They’ll always win.
    2. I’ll never get justice.
    3. They get to live a good life off of the things I’ve done for them and I’m going to always be trying to heal and crawl myself out of this hole.
    4. It’s so unfair!!!
    5. Life isn’t fair!!!
    6. Everyone is always going to side with them.
    7. Everyone is always going to believe them.
    8. I’m going to be punished for the rest of my life for trying to genuinely love this person.
    9. It’s foolish to think I can ever heal.
    By the end of the tapping my thoughts were…
    1. I’ve come such a long way!
    2. This person’s hate and bad treatment allowed me to level up like never before.
    3. It’s not my fault.
    4. God sees all and is a just God.
    5. It’s my responsibility to heal myself which means I am fully capable of doing so.
    6. I’m excited to see the person I become once fully healed.
    7. I can arrive early to custody drop offs and do this in the car before I interact with the narcissist!
    8. The more I heal the closer I get to God and allow this person to get closer to God.
    9. I am powerful!
    10. I can do this.
    11. Thank God for my huge heart.
    12. I won’t let this make me less kind or loving.
    13. I am protected.
    14. I am supported.
    15. My success is guaranteed if I keep healing
    16. I love the person I am.
    17. God please help this person heal 🙏🏽
    Thank you Brad for all you do! I’ve been watching your videos and they will be a consistent part of my morning and evening routine. God bless you!!! ❤

  • @nicholebeamer9071
    @nicholebeamer9071 Před 2 lety +11

    I was shocked by this session. I started bawling immediately. I don’t think I’ve ever really allowed myself to fully understand how much narcissism has impacted me. This is going to be added to my daily tapping routine (along with your self-love practice which is awesome). Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @MiokaYurika
    @MiokaYurika Před 3 lety +49

    Since I found your channel, I've been tapping every day. Your videos are so powerful. This is one of my absolute favorites. I've been crying through the whole video. Thank you so much. Love from Germany.

  • @mariegracebrabandt8028
    @mariegracebrabandt8028 Před 3 lety +63

    Every male in my life including my dad was a narsist. I am away from all of them and some have even passed on. I didn't even really know what narcissism was until 2 years ago. I used to think it was all me. Even though I know now that I wasn't fully loving myself and wasn't feeling whole. I unknowingly attracted these kinds of people. Learned behavior from my dad as well. This is a very important topic and I hope there is more variety of them. I know it will help so many. Thank you so much.
    With love and gratitude ❤ 💕 🙏

    • @nevill81
      @nevill81 Před 3 lety +5

      This is so much true what you are writing dear Marie it is exactly my story as well. I also was attracting these lunatics my whole life - always male. Lets heal together!

    • @mariegracebrabandt8028
      @mariegracebrabandt8028 Před 3 lety +4

      @@nevill81 thank you for sharing! Agreed! Let's heal together ❤
      Started my own youtube channel to heal and tell my stories from a deeper level and from adult eyes.
      You can find me at "Reinventing ME Marie Grace"
      Have a beautiful day! 💛🌻🍂🍁🧡🥰

    • @nevill81
      @nevill81 Před 3 lety +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @LolaClo
      @LolaClo Před 3 lety +2

      Hope you are doing well!

    • @mariegracebrabandt8028
      @mariegracebrabandt8028 Před 3 lety +2

      @@LolaClo I am doing so much better. Thank you 😊

  • @TheFirefly71
    @TheFirefly71 Před 2 lety +3

    Oh my GOD!!!!! Nothing was working. I have been stuck in freeze response and the pain had been UNBEARABLE I cannot function even on a basic level daily; I struggle to even take care of my basic needs and things that one does as second nature. This is the worst part not just losing materialistic stuff but Myself and my health. I did this tapping and almost instantaneous I breathed out such a loooong breath and my heart actually FELT some healing.. like some pain was melted just like a hug except I didn’t need someone to hug me to feel the love.
    it was so soothing I needed this sooo much. Even thou it was like a drop in an ocean. It was amazing. I just started this but I’m going to carry on so glad I found you.
    Thank you thank you thank you. God bless you.

  • @normathompson8011
    @normathompson8011 Před 7 měsíci +8

    You are brilliant! You are such an amazing combination of calm and soothing along with powerful and on target!!!!! (I’m also impressed with no advertising, and self-promotion to subscribe and like. We are all happily promoting you wherever and whenever we can!!!!!) What a very special gift you have in changing people’s life!!

  • @ayeshaworsham
    @ayeshaworsham Před 3 lety +43

    Exactly what I needed. A few hours ago, I asked for a sign, and your new video popped up in my email, addressing the very thing that had triggered me badly, throwing me in a bad cycle today. Thank you so much!! I appreciate the work you do and the tools you share with me/us. Have a fun Monday!

  • @canoslo6126
    @canoslo6126 Před 3 lety +10

    This message is to anybody dealing with narcissists, especially those whose parents were narcissists. You are not alone, and you are not crazy!
    I was raised by two clinically diagnosed narcissists tending towards the sociopathic end of the spectrum. I can understand what you are going through because I’ve lived it, too.
    I just want to make it clear that although the NPD disorder does cause a host of unpleasant behaviors, these people are still *choosing* their actions. In fact, narcissists excel at making choices, they simply make the choices that suit them not anyone else.
    That’s why boundaries are so crucial to getting you the space you need to heal.
    You’re not only have to be willing to say no, you have to be willing to enforce the consequences of breaching that boundary.
    The narcissist will play victim, and it’s your job not to fall into that trap but to hold to your NO and protect yourself.
    By and large, these are adults. You have no responsibility to live their lives for them and absolutely no responsibility for keeping them happy.
    You deserve love, honor, and respect. You don’t have to go on being hurt or kowtowing to the demands of someone who can never be pleased. You are worth so much more than that.
    It took me a long time to break completely free and go no contact, but oh, the amazing healing since that time!
    May you have the insight you need to see truth, the wisdom to know the next right action to take, the courage you need to take that action, and the strength to stick to your boundaries.
    May you be safe. May you be well. May you live in peace.
    You are SO not alone!! 🤗

  • @fionam3735
    @fionam3735 Před 3 lety +2

    This has me sobbing. The damage they do runs so deep. Parents in the past and soon to be ex husband in the here and now. They have ganged up and between them have destroyed my character and took whatever they could, there even after my kids. The kids and I have been homeless and I still feel helpless against there relentless hatred towards me. The law does not recognise this and there charm fools many officials. Most people want to be on the winning side and in real life that tends to be the bullies. So help me god 🙏

  • @lajellybeans
    @lajellybeans Před 3 lety +54

    As I was tapping, I remembered the abusive shit that my narcissist dad does to me and I started laughing so hard. I never had that reaction before when tapping. I just started realizing how dumb he actually is 😂

  • @dawne2443
    @dawne2443 Před 3 lety +10

    This is my second tapping session with you in 48 hours and I, who have been aware of tapping for 10 years but avoided it for some reason, can actually finally feel a very positive and immediate shift. I believe I needed the right teacher and guide to come along. Thank you, Brad. You are helping me to finally change and/or release old pain, after 60 years of accumulation. Blessed be, beautiful soul. 💚🌹🙏🌹💚

  • @cbs0224
    @cbs0224 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Wow, Thank you for this tapping Brad!!! The energy was so heavy and it lifted right off. It was tough to feel safe to let it go as I grew up under a narcissistic parent and still keep a very far distance today. Thank you so so much!!!!

  • @rosebud93
    @rosebud93 Před 3 lety +11

    Yeah! I've been dealing with these types of people since 2000.

  • @s.e.6616
    @s.e.6616 Před 3 lety +10

    Thank you, Brad. My mom had narcissistic tendencies and my sister is a full blown narcissist who has turned all my siblings afainst me and told me I was no longer part of the family. That was 6 years ago. I thought I had accepted it but lately have been thinking about it again and there you were!

  • @archuonly
    @archuonly Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank you very much Brad, i bursted into tears in the middle of tapping process, so many old events popped up in my mind, didn’t know that i have been carrying so much pain from my narcissism family, its just so hurt.

  • @brentlee5921
    @brentlee5921 Před rokem +5

    Hey Brad, I can’t thank you enough for your help. Appreciate you and wish you a fantastic 2023!

  • @indidavison3382
    @indidavison3382 Před rokem +2

    This was/is my mum who I’ve had to keep at a distance for my own safety and well-being for the last decade as I suffer PTSD from her😢 and the words you used were spot on a million thank yous for making this ❤

  • @mountainluvr2312
    @mountainluvr2312 Před 3 lety +6

    I cut off contact with a narcissistic mother 3 years ago after 50 years of daily poisoning. I can only control me. The damage, which feels like it is in every cell of my body, requires daily work to recover (or uncover and discover? my lost self).Thank you Brad for this timely video and video was spot on!! ❤️ You are a gem! 🔶

    • @eydra1452
      @eydra1452 Před 3 lety

      Same after 27 years ! We can heal !

    • @mirafilipovic5162
      @mirafilipovic5162 Před rokem +1

      In most cases the cut off is the only option that can help you to heal and prevent further emotional wounds!

  • @katemchardy542
    @katemchardy542 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thankyou Brad. I have listened to this before re my mother ... but another narcissistis relationship from the past reared its head just yesterday (in a dream) and I realised that the parasitic energy it left behind in my psyche has stayed there all this time! Sucking at me for 17 years! I have done this tapping several times over the last couple of days and I can feel it moving on. It'll take some more and probably some maintenance but what a relief! Thankyou a hundred times over!

  • @claudiafegari5116
    @claudiafegari5116 Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you Brad, your life really makes this planet a better world.
    Getting out from a 10 years relationship with a narcissist. Working on self-healing now.
    Thank you for this video it did bring stuff to the surface that needs to be healed and it will be healed.

  • @lajellybeans
    @lajellybeans Před 3 lety +14

    Wow! That was AMAZING! I totally manifested this! Just last night I was hoping that you would do a video for dealing with narcissists. This is the first EFT sesh that I actually cried. My dad is a malignant narcissist and he is really tough to deal with. My mom is also a covert narcissist. This helped a lot! Thank you!!!

    • @susannal27
      @susannal27 Před 3 lety +1

      Same! I’ve never cried before & I’ve done a lot of EFT. So POWERFUL! 🔥

  • @musclechic2001
    @musclechic2001 Před 3 lety +5

    "Lather, rinse, repeat as necessary"
    Targeting some residual stuff. Thank you for being a huge part of my healing. 🕉 ❤

  • @uzmayousuf8684
    @uzmayousuf8684 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this video. All my life, i was surrounded by narcissists and manipulators who made me feel small and told me I'm not good enough! After 13 years, i still suffer from the pain.

  • @meganvinson3599
    @meganvinson3599 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you! Been appreciating all of your videos and this one is esp appreciated. Was with an abusive narcissist for 14 years. He was physically, emotionally, and financially abusive. We share a son so I'm still in contact with him. He stole everything from me that I loved in my life and I'm working hard on recovery. Thank you, again.

  • @PH_1964
    @PH_1964 Před rokem +4

    Thank you so much Brad. This appeared minutes after I prayed to overcome PTSD from my Narcissistic Psychopathic ex. It's affected me daily for 5 torturous years. You are amazing; so calming and I believe you have a gift 🤗💖

  • @haileykate6420
    @haileykate6420 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you! Just went through bad stuff with a major narcissist! Thank you Brad!

  • @isabelinidad
    @isabelinidad Před 2 lety +5

    This one hits hard today. Once again, you're the savior on my healing journey, which hasn't been easy, but i feel better more and more. I hope you're very well.

  • @resurrectionvictor8816
    @resurrectionvictor8816 Před 3 lety +11

    I had been hoping you'd touch on this since I discovered you. Thank you soooooo much. If ever you do a program on this like your other stuff - MBB, TAGR, FRTF, etc l. I'd be the first one to get em and also purchase more copies for some people close to me. Thank you again Brad . Thank you thank you

  • @ScottBowman1
    @ScottBowman1 Před 3 lety +3

    BRAD theres something about this one and the emotional manipulation one that seriously reduce me to tears EVERY TIME. It is the single most beneficial medicine I have found for overcoming the loss (well, maybe not loss, but "ending") of a relationship with a true narcissist. Thank you for all that you do, you are an ANGEL and a true legend, your name will ring on for AGES THROUGHOUT TIME you are seriously the next Buddha.

  • @natachamusser
    @natachamusser Před 2 měsíci

    As I am doing this, the phrase: "you like it or not, you have to do it", came to my mind. The kind that has negative and threatening tone. It would create fear, and a whole array of other emotions that seem unsurmountable to overcome.

  • @dianaperez4557
    @dianaperez4557 Před 3 lety +1

    Only did this once but plan on doing it daily.... the narcissist interrupted the session by entering the room as I was doing this.... but glad I was able to complete it in peace. Thank you :)

  • @annavie5820
    @annavie5820 Před 3 lety +5

    Oh be blessed... my parents, former friends and current colleagues of mine are narcissists... I look forward to heal and thrive. I am on sick leave and really needed this !! Blessings blessings blessings to you

  • @daniellestaley9432
    @daniellestaley9432 Před rokem +1

    So appreciative this came up in my feed. I found another one of yours this morning - I believe the title was ‘healing trauma from the body - I was having anxiety attack when I first awoke and my usual parader and meditation was not settling me down and I did you video and it literally changed the course of my entire day. Purposely typed in ‘tapping to heal from the trauma bond’ and was so grateful this turned up. I’m
    9 months out of the relationship and today was the first day that I REALLY got the depth of the manipulation and the abuse and it just filled me with so much loathing and anger and hatred… it’s been such a energy drain, this going in and out of healing and longing and wondering and recovering… I had tears streaming down my face as I did this and instantly felt better. Thank you so for this video: I feel like I’ll sleep well tonight.

  • @erockfreedom1727
    @erockfreedom1727 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you so much for this, Brad. I have been wounded by severe narcissistic abuse in childhood, and in present time reality, from the very people who were supposed to (and told me that) they loved me. Thank you for this healing experience. I know it is a process and 8 am ready for it. I am educating myself everyday on what this is, so I can heal myself, let them go, and not continue to react or try to communicate sincerely with them. I walk away and I walk away faster. I don't respond, and feel less guilt for they. This was not personal. These are profoundly sick people, and maybe someday I'll be able to forgive them, with time, self love and distance. I am focusing on my Self more and more, getting to know who i am.
    ❤💛💜🙏

  • @aanchalchadda3675
    @aanchalchadda3675 Před 3 lety +1

    You have no idea how much this is helping me. Thank you for supporting me

  • @tigerkeats6379
    @tigerkeats6379 Před 3 měsíci

    Oh thank you so much for this - my Narcissistic bully big sister has been impacting my life in such an unhealthy, harmful way, it’s been hard to rise above it. We are currently involved in a grubby legal dispute because of her behaviour/ illness /obsessive avarice and I need all the help and resources I can get to make it to the other side on one piece. Will be doing this daily. Narcissism is the worst!!

  • @bohochica
    @bohochica Před 3 lety +6

    thank you, exactly what i needed

  • @tina7458
    @tina7458 Před 3 lety +7

    Wow! Brad, just what I needed today! The past week has been a whirlwind for me as I've been dealing with some narcissist fallout. I was so angry this weekend and was having trouble coping. Getting this in my email today, I smiled and thanked God for sending me what I needed. I was calmer after a (finally) good night's sleep but I knew that my overthinking mind would still want answers or at least an apology for starters. I know, don't expect closure from people who are incapable of empathizing. Anyway, thanks Brad. You are a blessing!

  • @mareeagraz
    @mareeagraz Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much Brad. You are a gift to this world. 💖

  • @reshelvittori8147
    @reshelvittori8147 Před rokem +1

    In case this is helpful to someone, this works for damage from a narcissistic parent, even if you blocked out your childhood and don’t know and can’t remember exactly what you’re tapping for. Brad, you’re an amazing person and a genius. Thank you 🙏

  • @brettdelarosa7083
    @brettdelarosa7083 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm also healing with self love as practice not overnight you know. Made my painful life lessons and now I'm priority one as I'm healing and evolving too.

  • @beachcoffee9
    @beachcoffee9 Před 28 dny

    Thank you, Brad you have been my friend these past weeks. But this video actually removed the ache from my breast cyst. Thank you. Will do your course, I am sure it will assist in speeding up my healing. You have the words I feel inside. Thank you.

  • @Zeitics
    @Zeitics Před 2 lety +1

    Still living with a narc mother… thank you

  • @anakaia9021
    @anakaia9021 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi dear Brad, this is for our french crazy president today !
    Thank you & Love from here

  • @seidenschnabelfederflugel5441

    I had a narcissistic stepmother and was abandoned by my mom and my dad. No one would comfort me or hug me ever. So one day i gathered all my courage and asked my stepmother why she would never hug me and she answered that no one wants to hug a cyclone fence. That was so traumatic for me because i was terrified to ask her in the first place because she was horrible and abusive and than i was once again left alone.
    Thanks for the tapping. I'm looking forward to heal from the claws of my past. ♥️

  • @mishkameow
    @mishkameow Před 3 lety +3

    I will probably have to LRR on this one for the rest of my life and I'm happy to have this tool in my toolbox now! I'm so appreciative of how timely your videos often are for me personally and how skillfully you respond to what people seem to be expressing collectively.

  • @janineatkinson9042
    @janineatkinson9042 Před 3 lety +4

    THANK YOU!! I was hoping one day there'd be a tapping video for narcissism, this helps so much!!! Tap with Brad for the win, yet again!

  • @Georgia275
    @Georgia275 Před 9 měsíci

    Dealing with very hurtful behaviour by my brother. Keeps me awake at night, wondering what he'll do next. This video helps a lot. Thanks, Brad.

  • @triciamoran4996
    @triciamoran4996 Před rokem

    I have had a few narcissistic people in my Life & finding & doing this EFT Tapping sequence has made me realize just How much Trauma I still have & Need to heal from. This tapping sequence definitely got me started on the Right track.
    I Love Everything that you do Brad & as an EFT Tapping Practitioner myself, you're definitely my Go To Guy for All things Tapping & more. 🥰

  • @aanchalchadda3675
    @aanchalchadda3675 Před 2 lety +2

    I have cried so so much from this today, and I thank you for helping guide me to free myself from narcissism. Thank you for everything

  • @legendsword7
    @legendsword7 Před 3 lety +4

    This is my first experience with tapping after my therapist recommended it. (Specifically your channel, Brad!) I was surprised how the motion reinforced the sense of healing. I felt both release from the trauma of the narc's treatment of me and deep compassion for their pain which they can't handle at the same time.

  • @nicolatomlin8370
    @nicolatomlin8370 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank you brad. This came at right time 4 years ago I was discarded by a former spouse who discarded me. I also believe a female friend is one too. I need use this regularly. Can you do more

  • @elisaferzacca1775
    @elisaferzacca1775 Před 2 lety +2

    That was great, as all your videos are. I am a few months in to tapping and it has been the missing link for me in terms of why therapy, positive thinking, etc. hasn't worked as well as it should. With tapping, and especially the deeper issues that you cover Brad, I am finally able to process the remnants and effects of my awful childhood up and out. So many of the "spiritual" groups and movements, and even some of my therapists, did not allow the negative/truth. There is a fear/panic about expressing "negativity" in many new age and spiritual circles. There is a superstitious belief that if you think something negative, you draw it to you. The problem is that so much of our thoughts and beliefs exist on a subconscious level. You can say all the positive things you want on the outside but if you are harboring the opposite on a subconscious level, it won't work. Tapping allows us to be where we are-to feel what we do-to think what we think on both a conscious and subconscious level for the purposes of moving past the limiting and painful. At 65 with 50 years of being on a healing path, Tapping has put it all together for me...Brad, you are a part of that! I love that you address so many deep issues with an air of lightness and humor without minimizing the issue. Thank you!

  • @Kathleensophiacitrine888
    @Kathleensophiacitrine888 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this important healing video Brad. This was very helpful. I have so much appreciation for all of your work and all of your generous sharing with us. It is a true divine blessing. I've been learning through my ongoing cycling of pain, back 'injuries', quest for healing and homeostasis, and releasing layer by by layer over the years that TMS (John Sarno, MD) is a factor, and for me, has been since I was young. I know that all is energy and emotional states trigger physical states as they are one, but really coming into focus for me now is suppression which feels trickier, specifically, *suppressed* rage and anger (including at the self as well, especially for HSPs and former scapegoats) from abuse and eventual self-betrayals, which is what leads to the chronic tension and anxiety states (as does CPTSD in general, but focus is on suppressed rage/anger here). This in turn creates oxygen deprivation to the muscles, nerves, ligaments, tendons creating the pain and dysfunction throughout the postural muscles; and essentially chronic fight/flight/freeze responses and corrosive adrenalized states.
    All of this to say, I would be so grateful if you could do a video on *releasing suppressed anger and rage* for those of us who can't fully access it unless somehow specifically triggered (which is likely in many cases a projection of the root of the abuse), and even then, it feels so terrible having the anger and is not getting the roots. There are so many layers to healing CPTSD and narcissistic abuse syndrome, but I do think the suppression factor is really big, especially for those of us with TMS or whatever you want to call the chronic cycling pain that adversely impacts vitality and life force and distracts missions. This suppressed rage and anger also adversely impacts the liver and creates too much heat, creating nighttime awakenings and impacting quality sleep. I think much of this suppressed anger and rage gets improperly directed at the self in many instances and I have experienced this as well. Perhaps much of the chronic cycling 'depression' I've experienced is truly suppressed and misdirected anger and rage internalized, as well as its impact to the adrenals from over adrenalized chronic states.

  • @belindabow1345
    @belindabow1345 Před 3 lety +6

    You are truly an incredible human Brad. I agree with another subscribers post, it seems as though your posts pop up at just the right time. Thank you 🙏

  • @cathrynbonddoyle
    @cathrynbonddoyle Před 3 lety +5

    Hi Brad😊Yahoo for this wonderful (and much needed tapping)❣️It is now part of my daily tapping for awhile and as needed.🙏🏻
    Idea: Eleanor Payson wrote a very clear & practical book that fits well with so many of your statements. “The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists”. She’s a trail blazer for those of us healing from narcissists. Thanks again so very much Brad. Many more Blessings to you.
    PS full disclosure: I found her book so helpful that I convinced her to let me make it into audiobook so more people could benefit from her straightforward wisdom.

  • @KRDCM
    @KRDCM Před 2 lety +1

    I just returned from a visit with my 92-yr-old narcissistic dad. This video helped keep me from going down the post-visit depression rabbit hole. Thanks for all you do, Brad.💕I’m so grateful for you.

  • @claudiacivico-ingram6859
    @claudiacivico-ingram6859 Před 2 lety +1

    I cannot express my thanks for these videos, time and time again you come to the rescue. A thousand times, thank you.

  • @Kswift47
    @Kswift47 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for the tapping on narcissism video. My personal history is extremely long with narcs, and I am thrilled that I found your channel this evening when I was asking the universe for a message. I was heard and extremely grateful.

  • @shirleyharpham1488
    @shirleyharpham1488 Před rokem

    This man is amazing , to spend his time freely giving out this information to help us heal ..... I m sending so so much gratitude to you .... your an earth angel 😇 xxxxx

  • @Colors_in_the_attick
    @Colors_in_the_attick Před rokem

    Namasté ❤ Thank you. So many tears came up during this session. 😢 Feel so much lighter now. 🙏 May you be safe. 🌞🪷

  • @reikijo3timesacharm276
    @reikijo3timesacharm276 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you so much. Very needed. I have patterns around allowing narcissists into my life and will continue this tapping through each of them. I will continue to learn my lessons and grow. Much love Brad 💖

  • @Freedom-2BME
    @Freedom-2BME Před 5 měsíci

    Powerful & emotional letting go.. it hit me too though how I feel so empathetic to their illness that I stayed hoping my staying would help heal them 😢 …it’s been a big cost to my own health

  • @ktmggg
    @ktmggg Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you Brad! I just got the discard from my now ex-narcissist. I was angry but after tapping I now feel like he's a clown to be pitied. His loss!

  • @oliviagates4499
    @oliviagates4499 Před rokem +2

    My goodness, I've never cried and yawned so much doing eft before ! Thank you Brad, you're such a blessing ♥️

  • @jeannehayes7859
    @jeannehayes7859 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow, once again Brad, you have a vid on JUST what I needed and wanted help with. You are such a gem! Thank you ☺️

  • @annadrawsnow
    @annadrawsnow Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you Brad! Your tapping is helping me to release all these toxic emotions and come to myself! 🧡

  • @stephaniefarlow1128
    @stephaniefarlow1128 Před 3 lety +2

    So happy you’re touching on this topic !

  • @cecilymccarthy5963
    @cecilymccarthy5963 Před 3 lety +1

    I've just discovered you and have been tapping along with some of your videos. I especially liked this one and wanted to thank you for it and many others. I really appreciate you!

  • @denali1122
    @denali1122 Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks Brad. It's been an eye-opening and painful journey, but I can see the light peeking in now. 🙏

  • @sandracarvajal7570
    @sandracarvajal7570 Před 2 dny

    You are Angel Brad. God bless you ! And i am blessed to found your content ❤

  • @girlontheeast
    @girlontheeast Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you, Brad, for doing all this for us. I have been dealing with narcistic people throughout my life and mostly of them were and are part of my closest family. I was always trying to help, because i know that attacks are just calls for help, but you can't help the person who doesn't want to change. This video is helping me to forgive to parts of myself who still think its my fault... So i want to thank you for your beautiful healing energy.

  • @romero0518
    @romero0518 Před 3 lety +1

    You're always helping me get thru it Brad. Thank you from the bottom of my ❤

  • @charlottev5478
    @charlottev5478 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for the video on this important topic of narcissism. I am so grateful for this powerful tool. I grew up with two narcissist and mental illness. Bless you Brad, for your generosity and commitment to support others on their healing journey.

  • @julienorton-huse871
    @julienorton-huse871 Před 3 lety +6

    Just wot i needed at the moment, thankyou 👍👍

  • @JT-su4fh
    @JT-su4fh Před rokem +1

    Thank you Brad - your videos seem to pop up in a very timely manner. So helpful 😊

  • @lovesings2us
    @lovesings2us Před 3 lety +1

    This is awesome! Thank you so much!

  • @jonibarton4276
    @jonibarton4276 Před rokem

    Brad. So so many of your videos have helped me,including this one. Thank you!! Your work is a blessing to many!!

  • @DH-nr5om
    @DH-nr5om Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much, tears flowing from so much abuse. I will continue to do this one.

  • @happycalimama354
    @happycalimama354 Před 3 lety +2

    Brad thank you so much, I cried during this whole thing. This truly helped me and I’m sure many others. Your making a big difference in the world

  • @theyogahomeschoolwithingri8460

    Perfect timing! Thank you, Brad🙏🏼🙌🏽❤️

  • @spicastar2971
    @spicastar2971 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much, your approach to this difficult topic for many people was all-included, very powerful and truly beautiful. Shine on with your amazing work!

  • @carolinavergara5710
    @carolinavergara5710 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you Brad for having this channel many of your tappings have helped me so much in my heeling journey and this one in specific is helping a lot to release all the childhood trauma from my mom's behaviour that has caused me so much pain. Thank you! many blessings to you.

  • @Gemisnotmyname
    @Gemisnotmyname Před rokem +1

    This has been really healing❤ Your healing alot of people! thank u for this video

  • @deboraho6779
    @deboraho6779 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for this video! So beneficial for those who are working to recover from Narcissistic abuse! 🙏🏻🕊💗

  • @dilysbrown5988
    @dilysbrown5988 Před 3 lety +1

    Brad as a sufferer of narcissistic behavior from a partner this really helped. I thank you and God Bless. Dilys Brown

  • @MarkAri961
    @MarkAri961 Před 3 měsíci

    Brad …. Thank you so much….Your videos are a go to when I m down …. I always feel lifted after tapping with you. I only need this once in a while but right now I ve been helped tremendously. Kind regards, Mark 🙏

  • @LG-lr1up
    @LG-lr1up Před 3 lety

    I am so grateful for all the work you do!!! You are awesome helping so many people around the world!!! It's my spiritual mission as well to heal others going through crazy experiences because , like you said, we are all connected. I'm a very strong person and each interaction with sick people only makes me stronger so I can help those who want to heal. Blessings! 🙏🏼❤

  • @webdoar
    @webdoar Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you very much God bless you

  • @alysmarcus7747
    @alysmarcus7747 Před 3 lety +1

    This was fantastic, your wording patterns are so right on, Thankyou !

  • @bellam8076
    @bellam8076 Před 3 lety

    Thank you Brad... such a powerful session which has brought out a lot of emotions in me that is helping me deal with the narcissists in my life at the moment.

  • @nevill81
    @nevill81 Před 3 lety

    Dear Brad I wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart!

  • @bizzielizzie4414
    @bizzielizzie4414 Před 2 lety

    I love the way you capture the dynamics in a non-judgmental way. This one really helped me and I'll be using it frequently. Thank you.