Who thinks attempted murder should be treated the same as murder? Luck is often the only thing that separates these two, while the person did the same thing in both cases. Punishment should be same.
NoHappyEndings 96 no it depends on the community you’re in... I was run over and I was the one arrested bc he the lied and the cops believed him and his parents.
Because it's the generation gap between the kid(s) and parent(s). How a parent may seem a struggle as something the child can get over. That's what pisses me off knowing that the ones that brought you into this world don't acknowledge nor appreciate you with realism. But rather than grief and manipulation for one's own doing, as well as lack of understanding.
Parents tempt to forgot they were once a child too. That they also make the same mistake in the past. Now days most parents always compare their old life style with the century that we are living now. Is sad that some parents can't accept the reailty that the world is slowly changing and sometime things aren't suppose to stay forever. They don't like to accept the truth and facts. Those type of parents were mostly lost and forgot that they once had gone through the same journey just like their own child have. They forgot the pain that they had felt when they were our age. I hate the midset of some parents were mistreating their own child just like how they were mistreated back in the days. Quoting : "we were raise like this when we were your age so you have no right to complain" But the problem is , they are NOT changing but they are REPEATING the same cycle. And we need to change that.
@@JA-im9xs yeah I agree, often they were raised by parents who just taught them discipline and didn't allow them to express emotions or if they did it was a weakness. What I can't understand is why they do the same when they should know what it feels like. Maybe some of them have just stayed like that they're whole lives.... Hopefully things are changing with society but too slowly, much too slowly.
My uncle used to regularly steal money from my grandfather and dad's purse, it was wrong thing okay, but when you see from his point of view my grandfather was quite rich but still didn't paid him for food or bus while going to college or even clothes, when my uncle were like 18 , my grandfather always loved money more than his two sons and now my uncle earns really well, he is a very nice and loyal man, he was never a thief, but just hates his dad but so does my dad hates my grandfather and so do I
@@krishafyme uh, since when is one individual entitled to anothers money? The grandfather may very well be in love with money more than his kids, that doesnt mean that he is obligated to pay for college, or bus fare, Ive had to pay my own way through any schooling I wanted to take after high school... Sounds like your uncle was indeed a thief, might not be anymore, but he certainly took something that didn't belong to him.
Maybe the brother had a history of stealing/being a problem child? Lots to this statement we don't really know. Then again, father could be an asshole.
Dongskie Snow I don’t think you understand my point. The quote just CONFIRMS that betrayal is something that comes from your closest ones. It reminds the reader that betrayal is awful - because it’s something that can never ever come from someone you hate. It always comes from someone you like/ or maybe even love. I know that. That is the whole point of the word „betrayal“.
I also have some trouble sharing my emotions, I’m pretty comfortable sharing them on social media, because most of the time no one knows it’s me. there’s been huge problems in my life that I’ve only told a few people (for example I only told my 2 friends when I started self harm, and that I think I have depression, or anxiety)
I will never understand why parents cannot understand their children's mental health struggles sometimes. News flash, being angry at something a kid cannot control only makes things worse.
@@rikachan5394 might be worst if you are the son of a asian family, being taught that crying is weak and work your ass off to feed the family when you become a adult
@@veyolaski4324 I'm the oldest and I'm a girl and I just know if I cry I'll be told I have no reason to cry and I just hate crying in front of my parents cuz they just don't care
It does hurt a lot when your parent leaves. Hurts a lot because sometimes they don’t leave an explanation and just go and make a whole new life. For me for a while I got really sad when I saw my friends with their dad. Mine was a really cold goodbye too, literally the last time I saw him he was on Skype telling me he was never coming back and just ended it with my crying hysterically. I always wonder why he left.
black sparrow that’s such a backwards way of thought, my dude. You can’t tell people how to feel. Especially if she was so young and her mother walked it, it could engrave self-doubt inside her. Mental health is seriously no joke and things like that can cause long-lasting deterioration. And, if the tables were turned and the kid walked out, would it be any different? You shouldn’t tell people how to deal with trauma
@@14Njanja Everyone has their own opinion like i have mine and you have yours and you are correct but so am i too. To clarify my point, most of my friends will relate to my point not some. And that's because I'm not saying that families can be dangerous or abusive, i am implying that family is not a safe haven, meaning that kids can not go upto their parents and tell them everything, which happens to most rather than some. Hope you got my point. I am not at any means trying to be rude or offensive. Just explaining my point of view. 🙂❤️
@@t1m3l0rd did you see the video? Or the likes on my comment? Not only that, my friends, cousins, all of em agree. This generation can not speak to their parents without them being judgemental. Maybe you can, yea maybe your friends can, but for the most part, many cant.
Muqaddas Kashif that’s the consequence of our sinful hearts, Jesus own family didn’t believe that He was God. His own people put Him on the cross they were His children
Thats because strangers dont know anything about you , not related to your life and wont judge you. It’s way easier to tell your problems to a complete stranger than someone who r close to you
@@dismaldice3045 Spoken like a true parent. A 10 year old doesn't have to "do" anything to deserve a parent. BUT a parent literally brought that child into the world and holds the responsibility to make them happy and keep them safe. They're talking about a "child". A kid. Every kid does deserve a parent. But not every parent deserves a kid. I'm not talking about children (that could include 70 year olds, too, coz they were someone's child) in general. I'm talking about kids. Little children. "Heal yourself before you have kids. Your kid shouldn't have to heal because they had you as their parent".
About the father who expelled his son because of $100, it happened to me too only that it was totally different ... I took about $50 from my dad's wallet, and he didn't hit me, he didn't yell at me, he just made me get a job after school and realize how difficult it was to earn your own money. Believe me, with a father who throws his son out of the house because of that, that boy is much better off without this family
its just me but i feel like as soon as he heard the dad say he had to leave the house, he should’ve owned up to what he did and confess that it was actually him. i mean his brother probably had to pack up everything so he knew he could’ve said something with all that time but didn’t.
Agreed, but when you’re emotionally and positively close to someone, your blood bond with them can sometimes make it stronger if that makes sense! It doesn’t have to be present though:)
Yeah because at least it showed that she changed and gives hope for those who were betrayed to think that the person who fucked them over turned a new leaf.
Ring Around The Rosy Sometimes positivity isn’t the answer, I’m not trans nor do I understand how hard it must be, but what I do understand is that a trans persons lives must be so difficult already, they are having a war in their heads, they’re trying to figure out who they are, to go your whole life and realize in college that you aren’t something which you’ve been told you are and associated with is most likely a mindfuck. We don’t know what the aftermath or the fallout that girl telling people was, but she could’ve ruined her life. IMO that girl deserves no redemption until the other person thinks so and is ready to truly forgive her. She should have thought before she acted. Same thing with murderers, the argument I wish I didn’t do doesn’t hold up in court for the same reason I think this girl doesn’t deserve forgiveness, you shouldn’t have done it in the first place, and no matter how much you change and no matter how much you say sorry that person’s life and the lives of others around them is changed forever.
WHY WOULD YOU KICK YOUR OWN CHILD OUT OF THE HOUSE FOR JUST 100 DOLLARS? Edit: To whoever says that it's ok to kick your child out. How's that childhood trauma you're supressing going? (Go to therapy)
yeah i think there's more to the story. As someone who lives with a family member who is a kleptomaniac and has gotten caught its not easy. Said person is constantly being watched in our home.
i strongly believe u should blame urself i mean i do blame myself becuase he only bullied me no one else so isnt it my fault if it was his he wouldve bullied everyone
The mother who was angry at her daughter for speaking up after being sexually assaulted by multiple family member should have never become a parent. She is the worst parent on earth
@@hellothere-jz4ny I hope you’re ok. Remember it is not your fault and people that don’t believe you and support you are inherently bad people. Stay strong. You’ve got this
I'm trying to be understanding of every persons situation, but damn, the guy who made his brother get kicked out of the house for money he didn't steal.. idk man, that's extremely shitty. The fact that he never told the truth even after a year..
LucJ there’s clearly more to the situation, those two lines aren’t an accurate picture of the whole situation. Sounds like it was something culminating for a while, and then this was the tipping point. That sibling probably is also in danger and would get physical abused or kicked out if he said the truth after all these years (not condoning the lie telling of course).
@@chaeyoungsbestie414 If he was so scared he shouldn't have stolen the money and even if he did throwing your own brother under the bus is not something that can be justified by saying *I was scared*
He likely hasn't told the truth because he has a father that would kick someone out of their house over $100. I can understand why he hasn't told his father the truth if it would then mean that he is kicked out of the house instead because already from what little we know, that was an extreme reaction over a minor offense. So what would he do to someone who lied for a year? It was morally wrong to throw his brother under the bus, but, when the truth would result in far, far, more severe consequences than are reasonable, I can't judge someone harshly for not being able to do the more ethically correct thing and leaning towards self-preservation. It's a complex situation where telling the truth is far more harshly punishing than lying and the consequences incurred wouldn't be fair. We also don't know the ages of those involved either. A 30 year doing this would be really shitty but a child? A preteen? A teenager? Someone with a disability or a reliance on the father that can't readily stop depending on the father and would die otherwise? Sometimes you have to sacrifice 'doing the right thing' for 'doing the thing that keeps you safe and alive', even if you feel awful for doing it, and they clearly have tried to contact the brother to apologise for it. You can't always afford to do the right thing when the punishment for it will be so severe and unfair.
To me it seems like the father is abusive or something and they nerd to steal money to get by. Nobody kicks their own child out for stealing from their wallet I know my dad wont. There will be disciplining for sure but who kicks out their child for something so small unless they're stealing from everybody
The suicide of a friend really hit me hard… I was 14 at the time when my best friend at school left a note in my locker… “he hit me again. I can’t deal with the abuse anymore. I love you and you have helped me through things as much as you could. Please don’t blame yourself, this is my decision, and I hope you can move on with your life and meet other people. I love you Grey…”… I went looking for her and I found her… she was in the school bathroom… she had already killed herself and… After a few days.. I decide that her dad needed to pay for what he was doing to her.. so I gathered photos she gave me of her bruises and phone call recordings of his abuse… he only got 5 years of jail… he’s back out in the world today… I hope he isn’t hurting anyone else and.. I hope no one else goes through that sort of thing… cause no one deserves that..
I remember a while ago, my mothers boyfriend came into the bathroom while I was taking a bath and I kept telling him no you can wait but he still entered and I remember him staring at me through the mirror. When I told my grandma my mom came in because he had said something to her. She asked me to talk to him and her and started rampaging and yelling at me and said he didnt even come in. I was 13. At that time she didn't believe me and said it was all an excuse for my terrible life and nothing I say is true and tried kicking me out on the street. The same night she came home after telling every person she knew that I lied. She said that all by the men that had touched me or done something to me was all a lie to ruin her life. A few days after she acted normal. All I got was a sorry. I've never trusted my mom since on what happen. And her boyfriend tried to make me get a lie detector test and put me in juvie but he never showed up because he knows what he did..
This is so messed up. I experienced a lot of situations where I questioned my trust towards my mother. Hope things are better for u now and you’re going through life with more ease with blessings comming your way! Much love.
I hate people that are soo fucked up it makes me mad how they just don’t give a fuck and specially when a person been there your whole life and decides this person lied because thats who i dont “trust”
Life is hard but you are strong. We are with you and to the people who say garbage things like you asked for it, need to step in your shoes and need to understand. Sometime people who you trust can also hurt you but in the end remeber that people are there who love you for you and know that you are an amazing person, which you are! You go you!
As a kid, I knew I was different- I had crushes on girls while other females my age didn’t. I was 6 when I discovered what being gay was. 7 when I came out to some of whom I thought were my closest friends at the time. They didn’t take it very well. For a couple of months before that and a couple of years after that they would bully me- calling me homophobic slurs, beating me up, mentally abusing me. I stuck with them until I was 10 because I didn’t know what a friendship was (I was a very antisocial kid) and didn’t know that wasn’t how friends treated each other. When I started talking about it- at age 13 after my first suicide attempt, no one believed me and said I was making it up for attention- along with my depression. I was contacted by one of the girls who mentally abused my years later and she asked to meet up- I was reluctant but accepted. At that point I had just come out publicly and people accepted me- which was a huge surprise for me. That day we met up she brought me into a back alley and beat me with a bible, calling me homophobic slurs and quotes from the religious book the whole time. That was years ago and now I fight for LGBTQ+ Rights so others don’t have to go through what I did.
I'm sorry for what you have been through, being a bi at a extremely religious church and that church also fight for anti-homosexual marriage and sexual equality, the energy that they spread is giving anxiety and I'm hoping that you walk out of your childhood
The fact that she beat your with a bible is a HUGE insult to those in that religion. It's lovely to see now that you fight for LGBTQ+ rights. As a panromantic asexual, it's beautiful. I remember talking to my best friend saying I found out that I was asexual, and his response really quite shocked me... He said that maybe because your still young and you might change your preference when your older. (He's gay btw) I was kinda there like... "okay...." He was trying to say, in a way that I could think of, that I was confused since I'm still "young" as I'm 15. He's a great person, but that really kinda hurt. I haven't really told much people I'm asexual for that major reason. I don't want people to say, "you're confused" and ETC. I've known that I was asexual for years now, just I never knew the term. I'd LOVE to fight for asexual rights because people just dont want to accept the fact that we have young and older asexual's that want to feel validated. Young asexuals that I've known are always told their "confused" and it hurts.
Which is why I live alone in the mountains my family shamed me when I was young and my wife cheated on me with my best friend now am friends with a some wolves i think. I feed them sometimes and they dont fear me ,they have never betrayed me I have lost hope in humanity absolutely.
Frank sreaklex wow really? Can you tell me more about how your life is? Ive always dreamed of having a life like that, living in the city with a bunch of people is blaaahh..
@@bordle4376 it's absolutely fantastic I mean the first time I arrived there I had a headache coz the air there was so clean and fresh unlike city air fresh supply of water and deers men there are also wolves and the occasional bears which I avoid but the wolves are friendly and don't try to eat you and there is the absence of Karen's and and this political dramas it's a paradise for me and the sunrise oooh it's more beautiful than the women I have met 👌👌👌👌👌👍👍👍👍😌😌😌
When I attempt suicide my father told me in the hospital that "if I'm going to do something, I have to make sure that it's going to work as the plan". The best father of the year.
@@felix0155 he should be ashamed of his behavior, like how can u be so rude to other people, especially when he should be comforting since he is ur father. I hope ur doing okay rn, and please lmk if something is wrong or anything. Because no one should go through that ever❤️
I give my cousin half my salary every month so he can pretend to his father that he has a job. The last time I couldn't afford to give him, he assaulted me and I ended up missing 3 weeks of work because I was in the hospital. The worst part is having to see my colleagues buying nice cars and homes while I can barely afford to keep my 2003 Toyota running.
He doesn't deserve your money even before he assulted u he needs to get his ass up and get a job. YOU are the 1 putting the hours in at work u should be able to buy the car you have been eyeing, go to that more expensive looking cafe, do WHAT U WANT because it's yours. How ever what is not YOURS is your cousins issues with finding a job not saying u cant support ppl but u should always put yourself first tho
I understand your reasons for initially doing so but at most you shouldn’t have done it for more than 3 months. Whilst you were helping him out, he could’ve been looking for a job but it sounds like he’s acting complacent, righteous and deserving of the money you’ve worked hard for. 50% is a lot, be selfish get your car repaired or a new one! Plus if you don’t stop now, he’s gonna start asking for more once he gets used to the lifestyle of the money you give him. The assault should’ve been the last straw, you missed the work which you need to get by on and what happens next time you can’t afford to pay him? Will he assault you again, what if he breaks something and you aren’t able to work or God forbid he kills you? His father can handle him not having a job and as adult he should be able to rely on himself.
I swear some of them are actually reading their own stories, like the reader and story just matches up way too perfectly, and some of them feel sad yet relieved for saying it out loud and getting it off of their chests
That time when i go to dormitory school i got sexually abuse by a canteen waiter, he intentionally touched my boobs, luckily i could get out from that situation before it gets worse. I was traumatized and go straight to my dorm, there i tell my roommate about it and later she tells her friend and not long after almost everyone knew. I still remember what she said when i confront her, "its just a touch, right? nothing major."
My biggest betrayal is finding out the friend that I saved from suicide 2 years ago still fantasises about murdering me in various ways, and I cant help but believe that she will, which is killing me enough
@@2jung554 wow I hope you're ok, and that there was some follow up- its scary and frustrating that people are naive to whats happening in peoples heads, especially when they don't listen to you. Make sure to protect yourself- but do you have any advive for not being so anxious of what they might do in the future?
@@2jung554 cheers for the support, I'm not worried short term as i barely ever see her, I left my old school because of her, but I'm anxious for the more distant future if she ever gets vengeful
I was raped when I was out at a gay bar and when I told my family, they were more concerned about the fact that I’m gay than the fact that I was raped. Edit: I just thought I would follow up and say that my parents have since come around. It took a lot of work, but we did it. Now whenever they see my husband, they always ask us when we’ll give them grand babies ☺️
There are family members like that, stay strong! Blood related family is not always the best! We are here for you! We are your family as well as you've got our support! 😍❤️
@@busumakundabwalya I get what you mean but just sharing that just because someone else is going through worse doesn't mean you need to invalidate your own feelings. I also used to look at others and think that they are going through more but that led to me bottling up my emotions with led to depression. Sorry if I said something wrong. Have a good day💜💜
@@yoongisgummysmile9648 Every now and then I'm reminded that their some great ppl in this world🤗. You said nothing wrong trust me I'm guilty of putting ppl before my own feelings and.... Long story short (it wasn't good)😭
@@busumakundabwalya Thanks for the kind words and yeah you are right I am slowly learning to value my emotions because that is the most important thing. Hope everything gets better for you as well. Good luck💜
The one where the mom was more angry at the fact that her child tried to receive help, than the fact that she almost take her life just proves how many parents don't deserve children :/
Im male 15. From ages 7-14 i was being sexually abused at school and at home. My cousin molested and sexually abused me ages 7-11. The rest was at school. I told my cousins and sister this year and they didn't believe me. My sister/cousins said it was my fault for what had happended at school. And no one believed me that my cousin molested me, except for this one cousin. 2 weeks ago, I had my first suicide attempt. I felt betrayal because, I shared a deep secret with my sister and cousins, and they automatically put the blame on me. Edit: Thank you so much Everyone in the comments for your support! I'll try my best to reply to each and one of you, and I'm glad to see that there are no negative in the comment section! If you are going through this too, know that you aren't alone, I'm here with you! Thanks y'all again so much for your advice and support!❤
THEY BLAMED YOU?! Thats really twisted. i'm so sorry, you dont deserve this! You are not him, you are not your memory of him -you are so so much more❤ i hope you're somewhat safe now, i cant imagine being around someone like that. Maybe there are tips on the Internet? But i'm so glad that you survived and you will find people you can trust 💛🧡 it will take time, but please, dont give up. You're worth it 🌱
Hello, I worked for years as a domestic violence and sexual assault advocate. One of the biggest things I've learned and see all the time is that often family is not able to provide you with the validation and support you need. ESPECIALLY if they know both parties. From my experience, almost 80% of people were able to get the support by reaching out for support outside of their immediate family. They eventually were connected with my organization. I say all of this bc you're suicide attempt might also fall on deaf hear meaning that they will most likely not understand. I recommend that you find online support since we're in quarantine (well at least were I live).
@@not-a-ghost2206 thank you so so much😭 it's sucks when the whole world feels beneath my feet, and I'm in fear he'll do it again, or do it to someone else, and i wouldn't be able to bear my emotions if he went and did it to someone i love or anyone in general. But again tysmmmm for your words❤❤❤
@@jmjm1195 Hey Nati! Thank you so much for your thoughts. As you said you have people connected to your organization, and may I ask what your organization is or is called? And do you have any advice on how I can move on from this trauma? And lastly, do you know any services or online text hotlines for those who have been sexually abused/assaulted or are still being sexually abused, just so I could get more advice from more points of views. And yes here, we are in quarantine too❤😊
@@asadahmed2172 I hope you have friends you can trust and if not, there are plenty of Internet, where you can found friends you could Tell this. I was cyberbullied and stalked for a while and i thought nothing would help except me throwing myself in the river. Thats how Bad they made me feel. You cant change him either. You cant protect other people, if they dont believe you, sadly. But remember: its not your fault. You didnt do this. You are not the reason if this happens again! But it really helps to Talk to people about this (even if its just a therapist on the phone). It takes off the weight on your shoulder. I hope you're okay. I know you will be, given the circumstances. 🧡💛🌠
@@joonietingz4171 thank you so much for saying that. i'm always scared to talk about my own problems in life while others are talking about theirs because "you don't know what they've gone through" and therefore i shouldn't be allowed to open up because my pain matters less
Me too. Uhm... When I was younger my dad was a alcoholic. I thought I had it bad but listening to them it makes mine seem like nothing. When I'm older I want to be a therapist or psychiatric. I wanna help others.
We have a very close family friend that served as a Marine for 5 years. A couple of guys jumped him outside of a bar and beat him almost to death. He’s ok now but it’s insane to think that people would do that to somebody. He’s the nicest person and didn’t deserve what happened to him.
The love of my life, who I risked my safety for hers, supported her in leaving her abusive home, and shared my deepest fears, regrets and secrets to, left me for the man who abused me, traumatized me and statutory raped me. She knew all the things he'd done to me, and even after all her and I had been through, she betrayed me. Having to deal with the trauma from my past abusive relationship, and then one of the only people I have ever trusted throw me away without a second thought, has seriously effected me. It's a lot to deal with and I'm trying to move past it, but some days I either want to beg on my knees for her to come back, or to scream until my lungs collapse and my vocal chords shred
eatjinskookie what kind of benefits are you getting if having a child battling with mental illness or identity means you loose them. Also even if, for some reason the info couldn’t get out, you should still be personally kind and understanding to your child and try to work through problems behind closed doors
Rose Rose it wasn't on purpose. I bet they thought quickly knowing what their father is like but not thinking about what would happen to their sibling. I feel like they're afraid to come clean since they could also get kicked out or a worse punishment. I don't have personal experience with this though
Golden Bacon They’re sibling was kicked out and is probably homeless. The right thing to do would be to come clean. If you’re gonna steal own up to it in the first place.
My biggest betrayal was about 2 years ago when I told a really good friend of mine that I was suicidal and I needed someone to talk to about it and, instead of replying, she told a lot of her friends who are on my sports team and now I've been bullied by them even to this day and even my family doesn't see me the same. I really hate that girl now and it's hard to forgive her for what she did. I don't think she even knows how much she hurt me I'm doing much better now and I have to say I'm very happy with my life now and am very successful in my sports!
My bestfriend (of 6 years now), once told me that she will always pick her boyfriend over her bestfriends and she won't tell me why. The bitterness and betrayal I felt that moment made me leave the conversation, I just kinda ignored her for a few days and then she acted what she did wrong for me to ignore her, I just wanna slap her tbh
same, and because most of my friends go through depression and anxiety or suicidal tendencies I always answer back immediately whenever I notice their messages are a cry for help. but because I have a life of my own I sometimes miss their messages
'Survivors' or the Suicide of others should never blame themselves - unless they like intentially made them so miserable that they were pushed to that extreme. A person commits suicide for their own reasons - it is not on you to save them. If they are that fragile that you not answering leads to them killing themself, they were probably beyond saving anyway.
I went for a 5 month trip with my best friends and I got really sick, I almost died. When I asked them to bring me some food to the hospital cause I was so hungry that evening, they said they too had a pretty rough day and dont want to. After I flew home only one of them asked if I arrived at home and how Ive been. I tried to contact the others but the blocked / ghosted me. This betrayal was so massiv, It sometimes still haunts me and now I have big trust issues in every relationship/friendship I commit
You probably are a bad judge of character. It's okay. We all make mistakes.. learn from them. Choose better. And "best friends"?? Really? Better phrase it as , what you thought then as best friends . These concepts are sacred .. shouldn't be lumped in for everyone.
I had a friend in college who told me she never had a real friend before. She was black and went to a mostly white catholic high school and lived in a mostly white neighborhood, said a lot of the other kids' parents told their kids not to talk to her for no reason, and that a lot of her past friends just stopped talking to her out of the blue, and I believed her. For 3 years I tried to show her what true friendship was, but during our last year of friendship, on her 21st birthday, she decided to go to the club with all these people she talked smack about to me, and didn't even invite me to go with them. I found out she had blocked me on every social media platform possible, and when I confronted her about it, she didn't give me a straight answer. That's when I realized it was never her old friends' fault for ruining the friendships, it was always her. She manipulated me, and to this day, I'm convinced she never thought of me as a friend, and it makes me wish I hadn't even tried to be her friend in the first place.
As someone who grew up in a toxic home and is now a mother I get mad hearing about parents like this. You brought a beautiful unique life into the world and this is how you treat them? You should be their safe haven not their storm.
My father never really talked to me. I'm 17 years old and since my childhood I've never hugged my dad, he never talks to me about anything, he never takes me out with him, he never wished me luck for anything in my life. Moreover, my mother keeps on scolding me for not scoring more, comparing me to my classmates, always blaming me for not studying and still I try my best to help her she yells me for not doing household chores. I don't have anyone to share anything not even my friends. I don't have anyone close to me. All I have is the guilt for not being a 'better kid'. I am sorry.
i felt so bad for every single person here. i felt especially bad for the person who fought with her dad and her dad died shortly after, cause i related to it. Me and my brother argued for hours, and i didn’t speak to him for a couple of days. shortly after, my brother was killed in a car accident, and i regretted everything that happened. everyone seeing this, never hold grudges, as it could be their last day on earth.
I can't remember what video or comment or whatever I found this, but I remember someone saying that after every argument they say "I love you" in case something bad happened after
You are right never hold grudges against your family. But what if your own father doesn't show father figure love and treated you like crap in public. Either way if you didn't hold grudges and he still treated you like crap.
Depression kicks in when u realize early in life that you’ll never be loved unconditionally and sometimes in order to be accepted either about sexual orientation in a orthodox society or about ur own beliefs you have to let your own closest people go
@MYH I believe we are loved unconditionally when someone gives up their life for us. Especially a stranger. Jesus Christ gave up His life for all so that by faith those who believe can have eternal life. Of course in any relationship love is going to have conditions that we serve and make sacrifices for one another, especially that we are forgiving of one another. But because we have certain desires that are not in the best interests of ourselves or others or society we cannot just love unconditionally. I believe discipline and laws and order is a form of love as well in raising children and framing a healthy society.
Cynistrelle Cadrelle i agree , i have asthma and also its associated with chronic depression due to the tightness of chest and the wheezing that forbidden me from playing football and every kind of sport 😔
in freshman year of highschool, I met a girl and we became best friends really quick, I trusted her a lot but in sophomore year she choose popularity over our friendship. Because of her I lost my friend group, I was left alone the whole year because of her rumors. the only thing good about quarantine is I don't have to see them every day. Betrayal sucks so bad I hope whoever's reading this never experiences it. stay healthy
This year is my first year in highschool. It's not in my first language and I really struggle in tests and trying to understand what the questions are asking because I don't have great vocabulary in that language at all. It's really difficult for me to make friends because in my primary school I grew up with those people ( it was a small school ). In my new school I left all of my friends in primary school because they all stayed there and the "friends" I made in highschool leave me out constantly and they are really rude but I can't make other friends because everybody already has their friend groups and I am really quiet person in general and nobody ever actually speaks to me even though I am really nice to everyone ( lending then pencils, getting them stuff, greeting them ) but nobody likes me. I had so many friends in primary school but now I have zero. That's my rant. I just thought maybe you would understand because nobody else seems to
it’s okay , i went through the same thing, you are not alone. they obviously don’t deserve you and it will be alright, you will find the right friends soon. stay safe🥺
My parents physically, psychologically, and verbally abused me for around 5 years. They stopped when they sent me in 2019 to spend the summer with my grandma. We'd moved from Vegas to Washington after that. I've struggled with Major Depressive Disorder and trauma that landed me in the psychiatric center of a hospital for 8 days in December. CPS has been called a few times, but with me lying to protect my parents it never went anywhere. When I got out I confronted my Dad about the abuse and asked if he felt what my Mom and he did was wrong. He said "It wouldn't matter because it all happened in Vegas. They can't go after us for it." This week I finally had the courage to tell my therapist about everything they've done, and spent an hour on the phone with CPS and my therapist telling them everything. I never cried so hard in my life, and it was easily the most difficult thing I've ever done. Before I hung up my therapist told me that because it happened in Nevada, they couldn't do an investigation but could put it on file in case it ever happened again. Except, my parents know the laws here are different, so they won't do it again. In the end, my Dad was right. They got away with it all, and feel no remorse. Turns out I really did only protect them by not telling anyone. I didn't do myself any favors.
Coffee Bean You did everything you could and came out with something very deep and personal; That is amazing. Don’t blame yourself for not coming out sooner. You’ve tried your best and now if it ever happens again you have something in place to protect yourself. At this point it’s best to take time to heal and better yourself. Focus on yourself and other things around you instead of your parents, so you can get out of that house and be in a better place. I wish you the best my friend.
I have tons of respect for you on coming out about something deep. You are really brave for telling, and that is just plain amazing. You did everything you can. And always know that there are still people in the world supporting you, someone like me and the other people who commented here. I wish you the best, and I hope you are better now :)
I kept everything to myself for years, until my 7th grade when i got close with my mom and sister, i was very open to them. Until now, because of it, i got them into a great silent war with my grandmother and aunt, especially my sister. Because i told her Everything they said behind her back. I heard everything, i was hurt. My grandmother's harassing me silently, and i figured out to myself that i want to stay quiet again, i want to isolate my self again from them inorder for them to be away from harm.
I confronted my mom over catching her cheat. Told her she had 24 hours to tell my dad or i would tell him myself. She confessed and they worked it out. It hasnt been easy but they love each other and take it a day at a time.
You actually actually right in this situation. I've already read comments from people with similar experiences saying they still haven't told their dad and saying it would be better for him not knowing. Like how is that better? You would just betray him as much as your if you don't tell him eventhough you know.
I used to think “how are they finding people with such sad stories” but then I realized that everyone has stories like these and that we just don’t talk about it enough.
my story is the one at 5:14 and I want to say thank you for using my story out of all the ones you gotten. I was in such a bad place when I sent that story and I'm better now. hearing my story made me cry as soon as I heard the first three words. again thanks it may not seem like a lot but it was and still is to me.❤️
My mom was cheating on my dad, She was cheating on him with 3 men and he didn't know, and whenever I remember this I feel that my heart is hurting me, because I did not find a person to tell him about it Nobody will feel this same pain until it happens to him, but I still love her cuz I have just one mom in this world.
@memetastic hater This happened to me as well. And until now the guilt and regret about not saying anything still haunts me. I feel like it was my fault that my siblings doesn't have a complete family now. I know it's hard because you love them both, but please make the right decision to speak up. And I am hoping that you'll heal from this.
I know how you feel. My mom cheated on my dad when he was gone most of the year working. She would always bring home guys from the bar and have sex with them whist me and my older sister were home in our rooms. I don’t think she knows I know that, but I can’t bring myself to hate her for doing all she’s done for us. My dad still doesn’t know, but it’s best that he doesn’t. It hurts, but just know that you’re not the only one who’s alone in a situation like this.
@@annabeld7758 you know that say stick and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me well that saying is false af words hurt more than sticks and stone
My best friend died in a fire and I was the last person he talked to. He had called me but he was drunk so I told him I couldn't talk and to call back when he felt better. He passed out a short time later with a lit cigarette that burnt the whole house down.
The kid that got disowned because they seeked help after being SEXUALLY ASSAULTED by FAMILY members... some people in this world honestly
her entire family needs to go to jail and therapy. WTF.
Unapologetically Sorry Sadly it happens a lot in the brown Muslim community because they think it will bring shame on their family to reveal it.
someone ya @ her? It's gender neutral
@black sparrow I am part of it, I think I understand the situation. I'm pretty sure it happens more commonly amongst my people
MachinegunTiti ts i don’t think they meant it like that. i think they just said her because it’s more likely to happen to a girl
The girl only getting 5 yrs probation for attempted murder really pissed me off
Same that should be at least 15 years without parole.
Ayveh exactly smh
Who thinks attempted murder should be treated the same as murder? Luck is often the only thing that separates these two, while the person did the same thing in both cases. Punishment should be same.
Court systems are very gender biased. Had it been a man, it woulda been a 15+ year sentence
NoHappyEndings 96 no it depends on the community you’re in... I was run over and I was the one arrested bc he the lied and the cops believed him and his parents.
Whyyyyy are parents so bad at understanding their children's emotional struggles
Like my parents, my mom, she says I'm too young to get depressed
Because it's the generation gap between the kid(s) and parent(s). How a parent may seem a struggle as something the child can get over. That's what pisses me off knowing that the ones that brought you into this world don't acknowledge nor appreciate you with realism. But rather than grief and manipulation for one's own doing, as well as lack of understanding.
Because parents are humans too, imperfect and with emotional struggles of their own.
Parents tempt to forgot they were once a child too. That they also make the same mistake in the past.
Now days most parents always compare their old life style with the century that we are living now.
Is sad that some parents can't accept the reailty that the world is slowly changing and sometime things aren't suppose to stay forever.
They don't like to accept the truth and facts. Those type of parents were mostly lost and forgot that they once had gone through the same journey just like their own child have.
They forgot the pain that they had felt when they were our age.
I hate the midset of some parents were mistreating their own child just like how they were mistreated back in the days.
Quoting : "we were raise like this when we were your age so you have no right to complain"
But the problem is , they are NOT changing but they are REPEATING the same cycle.
And we need to change that.
@@JA-im9xs yeah I agree, often they were raised by parents who just taught them discipline and didn't allow them to express emotions or if they did it was a weakness. What I can't understand is why they do the same when they should know what it feels like. Maybe some of them have just stayed like that they're whole lives.... Hopefully things are changing with society but too slowly, much too slowly.
I’m sorry, but why on earth would you kick your own child out for taking $100??? That is a really extreme punishment.
My dad this to me too for 1 hour and it was just 50 cents , he did it because I took it without permission 😑
My uncle used to regularly steal money from my grandfather and dad's purse, it was wrong thing okay, but when you see from his point of view my grandfather was quite rich but still didn't paid him for food or bus while going to college or even clothes, when my uncle were like 18 , my grandfather always loved money more than his two sons and now my uncle earns really well, he is a very nice and loyal man, he was never a thief, but just hates his dad but so does my dad hates my grandfather and so do I
Exactly
@@krishafyme uh, since when is one individual entitled to anothers money?
The grandfather may very well be in love with money more than his kids, that doesnt mean that he is obligated to pay for college, or bus fare, Ive had to pay my own way through any schooling I wanted to take after high school...
Sounds like your uncle was indeed a thief, might not be anymore, but he certainly took something that didn't belong to him.
Maybe the brother had a history of stealing/being a problem child? Lots to this statement we don't really know. Then again, father could be an asshole.
Fun fact: the chances of being killed by someone you know is higher than being killed by a stranger
Captain Ireland that kind of sounds like just logic be honest - sry if I come of as rude not trying to be!
It's easier for you to meticulously plan it and therefore have it go TO plan if you know them well!
Yep learned that from watching the show “You” 👌🏽
I really wouldn't call it 'fun'
Okay.
The saddest thing about betrayal is that it can never come from your enemies
That is why it's called 'betrayal' in the first place. Your enemies cannot 'Betray' you, you are aware they hate you and they do.
Dongskie Snow I don’t think you understand my point. The quote just CONFIRMS that betrayal is something that comes from your closest ones. It reminds the reader that betrayal is awful - because it’s something that can never ever come from someone you hate. It always comes from someone you like/ or maybe even love. I know that. That is the whole point of the word „betrayal“.
Lmao how is that sad.
But from the people you trust most - XXXTENTACION
@@robertbenitez3647 Because it hurts a lot more since you were super close with that person? Doesn't really need to be explained
Social Media might be extremely toxic, but sometimes it understands you more than your family and friends.
This comment section is more trustable
Than the people ik personally
@@Yoongiluvbot ikr same
I also have some trouble sharing my emotions, I’m pretty comfortable sharing them on social media, because most of the time no one knows it’s me. there’s been huge problems in my life that I’ve only told a few people (for example I only told my 2 friends when I started self harm, and that I think I have depression, or anxiety)
Have an amazing day army 💜
The worst feeling is when your closest friend became a stranger now...
My life in a sentence-
Handsome Squidward It’s not that simple
@@damien18462 I agree
"What a loss to spend that much time with someone just to end up being strangers"
-Joel, Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind
I meannnn that’s definitely not the worst feeling
I will never understand why parents cannot understand their children's mental health struggles sometimes. News flash, being angry at something a kid cannot control only makes things worse.
Yes
Well actually... I’m afraid my parents would do it too if I ever were in those situations
@@rikachan5394 might be worst if you are the son of a asian family, being taught that crying is weak and work your ass off to feed the family when you become a adult
@@veyolaski4324 it's okay to cry, it's okay to be vulnerable, it is so you can become stronger
don't hold back and let it out😊
@@veyolaski4324 I'm the oldest and I'm a girl and I just know if I cry I'll be told I have no reason to cry and I just hate crying in front of my parents cuz they just don't care
i want to give that girl whose mother left a hug.
It does hurt a lot when your parent leaves. Hurts a lot because sometimes they don’t leave an explanation and just go and make a whole new life. For me for a while I got really sad when I saw my friends with their dad. Mine was a really cold goodbye too, literally the last time I saw him he was on Skype telling me he was never coming back and just ended it with my crying hysterically. I always wonder why he left.
Me too!
When she said she had abandonment issues, I realised what I had been living through all this time. 😭😭😭😭
black sparrow that’s such a backwards way of thought, my dude. You can’t tell people how to feel. Especially if she was so young and her mother walked it, it could engrave self-doubt inside her. Mental health is seriously no joke and things like that can cause long-lasting deterioration. And, if the tables were turned and the kid walked out, would it be any different? You shouldn’t tell people how to deal with trauma
A hug ain't going to fix it
The dislikes are people who cried so much that they hit the wrong button.
😂 jbut sometimes people dislike so that things won’t show up like this in there day to day youtube feed. ik coz my sister loves to do it 🤭
@gamingwith me I don't play minecraft
@@iam.anastasiaa Really? Well, that's not nice. This stuff should be presented to the public.
You ruined the moment for me I was crying and now I’m laughing🤣
I Was crying so hard. Your comment made me choke on laugh while crying
We must get rid of the stereotype that family is inherently good. Family is NOT the safe haven for most people.
No, for most it is. For some it isn't
@@14Njanja Everyone has their own opinion like i have mine and you have yours and you are correct but so am i too. To clarify my point, most of my friends will relate to my point not some. And that's because I'm not saying that families can be dangerous or abusive, i am implying that family is not a safe haven, meaning that kids can not go upto their parents and tell them everything, which happens to most rather than some. Hope you got my point. I am not at any means trying to be rude or offensive. Just explaining my point of view. 🙂❤️
I realized that the hard way multiple times.
Lol is not? Can you quote your sources? Where is this study that you speak of?
@@t1m3l0rd did you see the video? Or the likes on my comment? Not only that, my friends, cousins, all of em agree. This generation can not speak to their parents without them being judgemental. Maybe you can, yea maybe your friends can, but for the most part, many cant.
It’s crazy to think that even the most closest people can be the most evil ones....
the ones the trust the most are the ones who ruin your life
Muqaddas Kashif yeah because you tell your secrets to them and they take advantage of you 😭
For real tho imagine them lying to your face at your lowest moment you can never ever forgive them for that ever.
Muqaddas Kashif that’s the consequence of our sinful hearts, Jesus own family didn’t believe that He was God. His own people put Him on the cross they were His children
lucky me, i don't have any close friends...
When strangers understand more than your closest friends and family
EllieLiLi are u ok? I’m kidding I’m here for you You can tell me anything (I know I’m a stranger but I hope u can trust me)
Yeah,couldn’t agree more!
Some strangers are ready to hear u out and not judge unlike some families
Thats because strangers dont know anything about you , not related to your life and wont judge you. It’s way easier to tell your problems to a complete stranger than someone who r close to you
Here in Philippines there's a saying that " You'll feel better after you tell a strangers what your problem is. "
Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child. 💔
Well actually to deserve something you need to do something, soo, it might be the other way around.
@@dismaldice3045 Spoken like a true parent.
A 10 year old doesn't have to "do" anything to deserve a parent. BUT a parent literally brought that child into the world and holds the responsibility to make them happy and keep them safe. They're talking about a "child". A kid. Every kid does deserve a parent. But not every parent deserves a kid.
I'm not talking about children (that could include 70 year olds, too, coz they were someone's child) in general. I'm talking about kids. Little children.
"Heal yourself before you have kids. Your kid shouldn't have to heal because they had you as their parent".
@@shakthiganesh5117 They didn't do anything, that's my point.
@@shakthiganesh5117 They can’t do anything. That’s his point. You’re* basically fighting for his side.
that's quite wrong, since psychopaths are born, and a lot of narcissists are, too.
About the father who expelled his son because of $100, it happened to me too only that it was totally different ... I took about $50 from my dad's wallet, and he didn't hit me, he didn't yell at me, he just made me get a job after school and realize how difficult it was to earn your own money. Believe me, with a father who throws his son out of the house because of that, that boy is much better off without this family
Your father is a very wise man.
Good father!
You may not have noticed it then but that is extremely good parenting (your father, not the cruel father that kicked out his own son over 100 dollars)
@@ellietheelphant629 Ikr, he taught them practically and made them tealize their mistake on their own.
Good father
i feel so bad for the guy who got kicked out bc of his sibling. the sibling shouldve told it was their fault, thats a shitty thing to do
Helena Sadiku Yh the family betrayal especially sibling is the worst.
Thank you!
Helena Sadiku some siblings are so mean for no reason and I have no idea why
its just me but i feel like as soon as he heard the dad say he had to leave the house, he should’ve owned up to what he did and confess that it was actually him. i mean his brother probably had to pack up everything so he knew he could’ve said something with all that time
but didn’t.
I wonder how old the were , and also what kind of parents are these?!
Jubilee: wanna get emotional?
Me: nah don't wanna ruin my mood
*clicks anyways*
fr, i was already feeling low but i clicked anyway
@@unSTOPPABLExFLAME bro one hit real deep, wanted to click off ahah
:/
Destinine that Suicide one struck me so hard. I usually don’t cry at stuff like this but that one ruined me
Goof Ballzy ❤️❤️
We need to stop this obsession with bonds of blood, clearly family isn't made from blood. It's made from love.
Exactly
Agreed, but when you’re emotionally and positively close to someone, your blood bond with them can sometimes make it stronger if that makes sense! It doesn’t have to be present though:)
Well its kinda is made from blood but ok-
@@zarazaman1785 probably on a sense where "family" means those who love you, you love and care about. Not necessarily blood relatives
Well metaphorical family yes actual family no-
True friends stab you in the front.
-Oscar Wilde
This quote is a good quote to tell people who have done it.
what
true friends don't stab you
I wouldnt hooooold my breath if I was you cus I'll forget but I'll never forgive you
@@nameless8435 don’t u know true friends stab u in the front
props to that one girl who talked about her story with outing a trans person. that takes a lot of guts and i’m really glad she talked about it.
Yeah because at least it showed that she changed and gives hope for those who were betrayed to think that the person who fucked them over turned a new leaf.
she said that so normally to me i got so upset... why would u even do that i think there was an intention to that. We can’t trust people ..
Ring Around The Rosy Sometimes positivity isn’t the answer, I’m not trans nor do I understand how hard it must be, but what I do understand is that a trans persons lives must be so difficult already, they are having a war in their heads, they’re trying to figure out who they are, to go your whole life and realize in college that you aren’t something which you’ve been told you are and associated with is most likely a mindfuck. We don’t know what the aftermath or the fallout that girl telling people was, but she could’ve ruined her life. IMO that girl deserves no redemption until the other person thinks so and is ready to truly forgive her. She should have thought before she acted. Same thing with murderers, the argument I wish I didn’t do doesn’t hold up in court for the same reason I think this girl doesn’t deserve forgiveness, you shouldn’t have done it in the first place, and no matter how much you change and no matter how much you say sorry that person’s life and the lives of others around them is changed forever.
Yeah and its good she has a remorse
Ring Around The Rosy Rightfully so.
WHY WOULD YOU KICK YOUR OWN CHILD OUT OF THE HOUSE FOR JUST 100 DOLLARS?
Edit: To whoever says that it's ok to kick your child out. How's that childhood trauma you're supressing going? (Go to therapy)
I don't know how that father lives with himself. Damn shame.
Maybe it happened multiple times and the dad got fed up. I don't think this was the first time ore the first couple of times
Atomic - not everyone’s family is like that ...you don’t know
If the son is above 18 it kinda makes sense... and something tells me the son was above 18
yeah i think there's more to the story. As someone who lives with a family member who is a kleptomaniac and has gotten caught its not easy. Said person is constantly being watched in our home.
"You can't blame yourself for other things someone is doing."
I really wish someone told me this sooner.
i strongly believe u should blame urself i mean i do blame myself becuase he only bullied me no one else so isnt it my fault if it was his he wouldve bullied everyone
The mother who was angry at her daughter for speaking up after being sexually assaulted by multiple family member should have never become a parent. She is the worst parent on earth
@@hellothere-jz4ny I hope you’re ok. Remember it is not your fault and people that don’t believe you and support you are inherently bad people. Stay strong. You’ve got this
She was probably her pimp
You lived very horrible thing. Know that at least someone, who is far away from you, heard you an listened you. Stay strong
“Sometimes the person that you’d take a bullet for is behind the trigger”
- Miss Missing You by Fall Out Boy
Excuse me for a second 🤧
Aspyn W that line isn’t wrong.
Micah Wise it’s just a metaphor but it’s absolutely true.
Seeing as FOB is my favorite band, I'm glad someone else noticed that lyric
that’s really deep...
I'm trying to be understanding of every persons situation, but damn, the guy who made his brother get kicked out of the house for money he didn't steal.. idk man, that's extremely shitty. The fact that he never told the truth even after a year..
LucJ there’s clearly more to the situation, those two lines aren’t an accurate picture of the whole situation. Sounds like it was something culminating for a while, and then this was the tipping point. That sibling probably is also in danger and would get physical abused or kicked out if he said the truth after all these years (not condoning the lie telling of course).
I feel sorry for him
@@chaeyoungsbestie414 If he was so scared he shouldn't have stolen the money and even if he did throwing your own brother under the bus is not something that can be justified by saying *I was scared*
He likely hasn't told the truth because he has a father that would kick someone out of their house over $100. I can understand why he hasn't told his father the truth if it would then mean that he is kicked out of the house instead because already from what little we know, that was an extreme reaction over a minor offense. So what would he do to someone who lied for a year?
It was morally wrong to throw his brother under the bus, but, when the truth would result in far, far, more severe consequences than are reasonable, I can't judge someone harshly for not being able to do the more ethically correct thing and leaning towards self-preservation. It's a complex situation where telling the truth is far more harshly punishing than lying and the consequences incurred wouldn't be fair.
We also don't know the ages of those involved either. A 30 year doing this would be really shitty but a child? A preteen? A teenager? Someone with a disability or a reliance on the father that can't readily stop depending on the father and would die otherwise? Sometimes you have to sacrifice 'doing the right thing' for 'doing the thing that keeps you safe and alive', even if you feel awful for doing it, and they clearly have tried to contact the brother to apologise for it.
You can't always afford to do the right thing when the punishment for it will be so severe and unfair.
To me it seems like the father is abusive or something and they nerd to steal money to get by. Nobody kicks their own child out for stealing from their wallet I know my dad wont. There will be disciplining for sure but who kicks out their child for something so small unless they're stealing from everybody
The suicide of a friend really hit me hard… I was 14 at the time when my best friend at school left a note in my locker… “he hit me again. I can’t deal with the abuse anymore. I love you and you have helped me through things as much as you could. Please don’t blame yourself, this is my decision, and I hope you can move on with your life and meet other people. I love you Grey…”… I went looking for her and I found her… she was in the school bathroom… she had already killed herself and… After a few days.. I decide that her dad needed to pay for what he was doing to her.. so I gathered photos she gave me of her bruises and phone call recordings of his abuse… he only got 5 years of jail… he’s back out in the world today… I hope he isn’t hurting anyone else and.. I hope no one else goes through that sort of thing… cause no one deserves that..
you did the right thing. i’m sure she would be proud of you
I remember a while ago, my mothers boyfriend came into the bathroom while I was taking a bath and I kept telling him no you can wait but he still entered and I remember him staring at me through the mirror. When I told my grandma my mom came in because he had said something to her. She asked me to talk to him and her and started rampaging and yelling at me and said he didnt even come in. I was 13. At that time she didn't believe me and said it was all an excuse for my terrible life and nothing I say is true and tried kicking me out on the street. The same night she came home after telling every person she knew that I lied. She said that all by the men that had touched me or done something to me was all a lie to ruin her life. A few days after she acted normal. All I got was a sorry. I've never trusted my mom since on what happen. And her boyfriend tried to make me get a lie detector test and put me in juvie but he never showed up because he knows what he did..
This is so messed up. I experienced a lot of situations where I questioned my trust towards my mother. Hope things are better for u now and you’re going through life with more ease with blessings comming your way! Much love.
I hate people that are soo fucked up it makes me mad how they just don’t give a fuck and specially when a person been there your whole life and decides this person lied because thats who i dont “trust”
Life is hard but you are strong. We are with you and to the people who say garbage things like you asked for it, need to step in your shoes and need to understand. Sometime people who you trust can also hurt you but in the end remeber that people are there who love you for you and know that you are an amazing person, which you are! You go you!
Stay strong ❤ karma will get em
Such a bad parenting
The people who disliked couldn’t see through their tears and clicked the wrong button
this comment is usually funny but in the case of this video, i truly hope that’s true. disliking a video like this is just evil.
Here Come Dat boi I’m sure he was just exaggerating
@@Cat-tg8nk Then liking is equally evil, like do you enjoy that kind of stories?
I disliked the video and oh look at that someone thinks im evil... thats okay I dont believe in good or evil anyways
People llike the video because they want those anonymous to know they are not alone
Plottwist: They’re actually reading their own stories.
that's what i think too
I honestly think some of them actually do
i literally just thought this and this comment scrolled up omg
Same I really think that
hmm
Watching this video makes me feel like one of the luckiest people ever.
Me too. We should always be grateful ❤️
@@hppts123 tbf you shouldn't downplay your own problems just because someone else has it worse
@@carpetchair5778 not you calling my life dilemma out
As a kid, I knew I was different- I had crushes on girls while other females my age didn’t. I was 6 when I discovered what being gay was. 7 when I came out to some of whom I thought were my closest friends at the time.
They didn’t take it very well. For a couple of months before that and a couple of years after that they would bully me- calling me homophobic slurs, beating me up, mentally abusing me. I stuck with them until I was 10 because I didn’t know what a friendship was (I was a very antisocial kid) and didn’t know that wasn’t how friends treated each other.
When I started talking about it- at age 13 after my first suicide attempt, no one believed me and said I was making it up for attention- along with my depression.
I was contacted by one of the girls who mentally abused my years later and she asked to meet up- I was reluctant but accepted.
At that point I had just come out publicly and people accepted me- which was a huge surprise for me.
That day we met up she brought me into a back alley and beat me with a bible, calling me homophobic slurs and quotes from the religious book the whole time.
That was years ago and now I fight for LGBTQ+ Rights so others don’t have to go through what I did.
I'm sorry for what you have been through, being a bi at a extremely religious church and that church also fight for anti-homosexual marriage and sexual equality, the energy that they spread is giving anxiety and I'm hoping that you walk out of your childhood
Oh god, this is just horrible. I am very sorry for what had happened to you and i hope you are okay ♥️
Keep fighting, this must’ve been a hard thing to go through. I send you love!
The fact that she beat your with a bible is a HUGE insult to those in that religion. It's lovely to see now that you fight for LGBTQ+ rights. As a panromantic asexual, it's beautiful.
I remember talking to my best friend saying I found out that I was asexual, and his response really quite shocked me... He said that maybe because your still young and you might change your preference when your older. (He's gay btw) I was kinda there like... "okay...." He was trying to say, in a way that I could think of, that I was confused since I'm still "young" as I'm 15. He's a great person, but that really kinda hurt. I haven't really told much people I'm asexual for that major reason. I don't want people to say, "you're confused" and ETC. I've known that I was asexual for years now, just I never knew the term. I'd LOVE to fight for asexual rights because people just dont want to accept the fact that we have young and older asexual's that want to feel validated. Young asexuals that I've known are always told their "confused" and it hurts.
i'm not part of LGBTQ+ community but i believe there is nothing wrong on it but in society there is.
It shocks me that people can be this heartless and cruel.
Which is why I live alone in the mountains my family shamed me when I was young and my wife cheated on me with my best friend now am friends with a some wolves i think. I feed them sometimes and they dont fear me ,they have never betrayed me I have lost hope in humanity absolutely.
Frank sreaklex wow really? Can you tell me more about how your life is? Ive always dreamed of having a life like that, living in the city with a bunch of people is blaaahh..
@@bordle4376 it's absolutely fantastic I mean the first time I arrived there I had a headache coz the air there was so clean and fresh unlike city air fresh supply of water and deers men there are also wolves and the occasional bears which I avoid but the wolves are friendly and don't try to eat you and there is the absence of Karen's and and this political dramas it's a paradise for me and the sunrise oooh it's more beautiful than the women I have met 👌👌👌👌👌👍👍👍👍😌😌😌
@@licensed_beheader I hope you're doing alright man, that seems like a peaceful life.
@@hex_devour_soap6678 it is and to top it up no toxic people there haa I thought you had to die to go to heaven 😁😁
*Betrayal is something that can never be forgotten*
Winx Love PERIOD!
True
Winx Love but it can be forgiven
Ey, theology!
yeah but they can be forgiven. some ppl don't know the difference
So if this is to be what betrayl wyd cause the trust so no friends is if why so brtrayled
You don't call it betrayal when it's done by enemies
@@palnatinagamma HAHA ikr? finally, someone with common sense
Enemies can see and maybe show your real life, while your "close" people hide it by faking it oof
That's literally the definition of betrayl
Exactly
The saddest thing about betrayals is that you don't get betrayed by an enemy.
Those girls attempting suicide because of their moms really got to me, but the fact that the mom got mad because she asked for help, I can’t...
Same Like BRUHHHHHH the mom got mad at her for asking help than her trying to attempt suicide like uhhhhhhh I can't even anymore....
When I attempt suicide my father told me in the hospital that "if I'm going to do something, I have to make sure that it's going to work as the plan".
The best father of the year.
@@felix0155 he should be ashamed of his behavior, like how can u be so rude to other people, especially when he should be comforting since he is ur father.
I hope ur doing okay rn, and please lmk if something is wrong or anything. Because no one should go through that ever❤️
I give my cousin half my salary every month so he can pretend to his father that he has a job. The last time I couldn't afford to give him, he assaulted me and I ended up missing 3 weeks of work because I was in the hospital. The worst part is having to see my colleagues buying nice cars and homes while I can barely afford to keep my 2003 Toyota running.
CodePlay cheers dude everyone has a sad life stand up for urself be a bit selfish and smile the worls will be good
He doesn't deserve your money even before he assulted u he needs to get his ass up and get a job. YOU are the 1 putting the hours in at work u should be able to buy the car you have been eyeing, go to that more expensive looking cafe, do WHAT U WANT because it's yours. How ever what is not YOURS is your cousins issues with finding a job not saying u cant support ppl but u should always put yourself first tho
I understand your reasons for initially doing so but at most you shouldn’t have done it for more than 3 months. Whilst you were helping him out, he could’ve been looking for a job but it sounds like he’s acting complacent, righteous and deserving of the money you’ve worked hard for.
50% is a lot, be selfish get your car repaired or a new one! Plus if you don’t stop now, he’s gonna start asking for more once he gets used to the lifestyle of the money you give him.
The assault should’ve been the last straw, you missed the work which you need to get by on and what happens next time you can’t afford to pay him? Will he assault you again, what if he breaks something and you aren’t able to work or God forbid he kills you? His father can handle him not having a job and as adult he should be able to rely on himself.
I'm so sorry for what u've been through I hope he's in jail now! Stay safe xx💖
CodePlay he dosent deserve your money
“The worst part about betrayal is that, it’s not from an enemy, it’s from a loved one”
- Jahseh Dwayne Onfroy (1998-2018
“Every child deserves a parent, but not every parents deserves a child.”
One of the most tue words I’ve ever heard
The fact that the person's mom told him his glasses broke because he fell down, just broke my heart...
some parents don't deserve children...
Me too.. I can't imagine what they must've felt like then
It is wierd
my parents always did that to me when I was younger.
@@vl180 im sorry that happened to you :(
Can't even front - This is deep AF.
Fr
Stfu
@@erika662 someone's on their periode
So heavy
Cameron J repent and turn to Jesus 🙌🏽
I swear some of them are actually reading their own stories, like the reader and story just matches up way too perfectly, and some of them feel sad yet relieved for saying it out loud and getting it off of their chests
That time when i go to dormitory school i got sexually abuse by a canteen waiter, he intentionally touched my boobs, luckily i could get out from that situation before it gets worse. I was traumatized and go straight to my dorm, there i tell my roommate about it and later she tells her friend and not long after almost everyone knew. I still remember what she said when i confront her, "its just a touch, right? nothing major."
My biggest betrayal is finding out the friend that I saved from suicide 2 years ago still fantasises about murdering me in various ways, and I cant help but believe that she will, which is killing me enough
They need serious help
@Circé A. I told the police, they didn't take me seriously. Everyone just says Im being anxious about it
@@2jung554 wow I hope you're ok, and that there was some follow up- its scary and frustrating that people are naive to whats happening in peoples heads, especially when they don't listen to you. Make sure to protect yourself- but do you have any advive for not being so anxious of what they might do in the future?
Uh
@@2jung554 cheers for the support, I'm not worried short term as i barely ever see her, I left my old school because of her, but I'm anxious for the more distant future if she ever gets vengeful
I was raped when I was out at a gay bar and when I told my family, they were more concerned about the fact that I’m gay than the fact that I was raped.
Edit: I just thought I would follow up and say that my parents have since come around. It took a lot of work, but we did it. Now whenever they see my husband, they always ask us when we’ll give them grand babies ☺️
I'm sorry, hope your doing better.
Sorry mate, that's rough
I’m so sorry
There are family members like that, stay strong! Blood related family is not always the best! We are here for you! We are your family as well as you've got our support! 😍❤️
i’m so sorry
Reading this make me feel like... My life is not that horrible.... I feel bad for them
Right??!!!
Like my life is not great but damn some people are actually going through it
@@busumakundabwalya I get what you mean but just sharing that just because someone else is going through worse doesn't mean you need to invalidate your own feelings. I also used to look at others and think that they are going through more but that led to me bottling up my emotions with led to depression. Sorry if I said something wrong. Have a good day💜💜
@@yoongisgummysmile9648 Every now and then I'm reminded that their some great ppl in this world🤗. You said nothing wrong trust me I'm guilty of putting ppl before my own feelings and....
Long story short (it wasn't good)😭
@@busumakundabwalya Thanks for the kind words and yeah you are right I am slowly learning to value my emotions because that is the most important thing. Hope everything gets better for you as well. Good luck💜
@@yoongisgummysmile9648 That makes two of us with emphasis on the slowly part for me 😅.All the best wishes from my side to you.😘
The one where the mom was more angry at the fact that her child tried to receive help, than the fact that she almost take her life just proves how many parents don't deserve children :/
"The worst things about betrayal, is that it doesn't come from your enemies."
hmm, very similar to the one of the top comments...
Yes
that’s why u always keep ur enemies closer
keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer
@@m-h1217 and so?
Im male 15. From ages 7-14 i was being sexually abused at school and at home. My cousin molested and sexually abused me ages 7-11. The rest was at school. I told my cousins and sister this year and they didn't believe me. My sister/cousins said it was my fault for what had happended at school. And no one believed me that my cousin molested me, except for this one cousin. 2 weeks ago, I had my first suicide attempt. I felt betrayal because, I shared a deep secret with my sister and cousins, and they automatically put the blame on me.
Edit: Thank you so much Everyone in the comments for your support! I'll try my best to reply to each and one of you, and I'm glad to see that there are no negative in the comment section! If you are going through this too, know that you aren't alone, I'm here with you! Thanks y'all again so much for your advice and support!❤
THEY BLAMED YOU?! Thats really twisted. i'm so sorry, you dont deserve this! You are not him, you are not your memory of him -you are so so much more❤ i hope you're somewhat safe now, i cant imagine being around someone like that. Maybe there are tips on the Internet? But i'm so glad that you survived and you will find people you can trust 💛🧡 it will take time, but please, dont give up. You're worth it 🌱
Hello, I worked for years as a domestic violence and sexual assault advocate. One of the biggest things I've learned and see all the time is that often family is not able to provide you with the validation and support you need. ESPECIALLY if they know both parties. From my experience, almost 80% of people were able to get the support by reaching out for support outside of their immediate family. They eventually were connected with my organization. I say all of this bc you're suicide attempt might also fall on deaf hear meaning that they will most likely not understand. I recommend that you find online support since we're in quarantine (well at least were I live).
@@not-a-ghost2206 thank you so so much😭 it's sucks when the whole world feels beneath my feet, and I'm in fear he'll do it again, or do it to someone else, and i wouldn't be able to bear my emotions if he went and did it to someone i love or anyone in general. But again tysmmmm for your words❤❤❤
@@jmjm1195 Hey Nati! Thank you so much for your thoughts. As you said you have people connected to your organization, and may I ask what your organization is or is called? And do you have any advice on how I can move on from this trauma? And lastly, do you know any services or online text hotlines for those who have been sexually abused/assaulted or are still being sexually abused, just so I could get more advice from more points of views. And yes here, we are in quarantine too❤😊
@@asadahmed2172 I hope you have friends you can trust and if not, there are plenty of Internet, where you can found friends you could Tell this. I was cyberbullied and stalked for a while and i thought nothing would help except me throwing myself in the river. Thats how Bad they made me feel. You cant change him either. You cant protect other people, if they dont believe you, sadly. But remember: its not your fault. You didnt do this. You are not the reason if this happens again! But it really helps to Talk to people about this (even if its just a therapist on the phone). It takes off the weight on your shoulder. I hope you're okay. I know you will be, given the circumstances. 🧡💛🌠
"The people you know the most will hurt you the most"
- A wise man
I just realized that they are reading strangers stories and not theirs-. I love the advice they gave 😇
I thought MY life was bad, but compared to what these people have gone through it's something that they could only dream of.
Luv that isn’t a reason for your pain to be invalidated. Your pain is just as important as their’s kk 😊💕
Lolalovesroblox You too dear. Know your pain matters also no matter how small or big 🥰
@@joonietingz4171 that is the most noble and wisest thing I have ever heard.
@@joonietingz4171 thank you so much for saying that. i'm always scared to talk about my own problems in life while others are talking about theirs because "you don't know what they've gone through" and therefore i shouldn't be allowed to open up because my pain matters less
Me too. Uhm... When I was younger my dad was a alcoholic. I thought I had it bad but listening to them it makes mine seem like nothing. When I'm older I want to be a therapist or psychiatric. I wanna help others.
betrayal hurts more than heartbreak.
even worse when you're heartbroken because they betrayed you
Mutsa Mavingire but doesnt betrayal break your heart?
Sjors Paauw yes, but you can have heartbreak without betrayal
No, not really. It depends on the person and situation. Both can be horrible and both are valid
@@caroa8 I'd like to disagree with you on that. Betrayal is far more worse.
You guys need to make Netflix series of everything you guys do
and that’s on PERIODT.
ok
Support is the rarest thing in the world.
So, don't be broken if there isn't anyone near you.
“The saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from enemies, it comes from those you trust the most.”
- xxxtentacion
Ok
Wait didn't Michael Corleone originally say that
the fact that some of their voices cracked while reading it just broke my heart..
We have a very close family friend that served as a Marine for 5 years. A couple of guys jumped him outside of a bar and beat him almost to death. He’s ok now but it’s insane to think that people would do that to somebody. He’s the nicest person and didn’t deserve what happened to him.
The love of my life, who I risked my safety for hers, supported her in leaving her abusive home, and shared my deepest fears, regrets and secrets to, left me for the man who abused me, traumatized me and statutory raped me. She knew all the things he'd done to me, and even after all her and I had been through, she betrayed me.
Having to deal with the trauma from my past abusive relationship, and then one of the only people I have ever trusted throw me away without a second thought, has seriously effected me. It's a lot to deal with and I'm trying to move past it, but some days I either want to beg on my knees for her to come back, or to scream until my lungs collapse and my vocal chords shred
DON'T WORRY!!!! IT WILL GET BETTER!!!!!!
Reputation over your child’s happiness, does strike a chord.
@@eatjinskookie7156 are you talking "if you have an LGBT+ child in the household, your benefits will be lessened/stopped"?
eatjinskookie what kind of benefits are you getting if having a child battling with mental illness or identity means you loose them. Also even if, for some reason the info couldn’t get out, you should still be personally kind and understanding to your child and try to work through problems behind closed doors
eatjinskookie Household benefits shouldn’t even be priority over your child’s happiness.
Lewis Price ....
Cardiac Coder 🙌🏻🙌🏻
i want to give the people who's secrets these are a hug
Alaina Walt Not all of them, what about the guy who got their sibling kicked out?!
@@RoseRose-fc1sr i still want to give the siblong a hug
Rose Rose
it wasn't on purpose. I bet they thought quickly knowing what their father is like but not thinking about what would happen to their sibling. I feel like they're afraid to come clean since they could also get kicked out or a worse punishment.
I don't have personal experience with this though
Are you the same person who commented on the ariana shade video? Lol the worlds a small place
Golden Bacon
They’re sibling was kicked out and is probably homeless. The right thing to do would be to come clean. If you’re gonna steal own up to it in the first place.
My biggest betrayal was about 2 years ago when I told a really good friend of mine that I was suicidal and I needed someone to talk to about it and, instead of replying, she told a lot of her friends who are on my sports team and now I've been bullied by them even to this day and even my family doesn't see me the same. I really hate that girl now and it's hard to forgive her for what she did. I don't think she even knows how much she hurt me
I'm doing much better now and I have to say I'm very happy with my life now and am very successful in my sports!
My bestfriend (of 6 years now), once told me that she will always pick her boyfriend over her bestfriends and she won't tell me why. The bitterness and betrayal I felt that moment made me leave the conversation, I just kinda ignored her for a few days and then she acted what she did wrong for me to ignore her, I just wanna slap her tbh
@An entire package Of all awesome things dude can't you understand English "for 6 years" and "is 6 years old" is different
@An entire package Of all awesome things oh sorry then
One of my biggest fears is finding out that if u answered someone, u could've saved them. Then for ur whole life u just live with that guilt. 1:05
same, and because most of my friends go through depression and anxiety or suicidal tendencies I always answer back immediately whenever I notice their messages are a cry for help. but because I have a life of my own I sometimes miss their messages
Yes, I wish I could be 2 hours early to save my bestie Afaan, I'm crying that I was late, I'm regret that, I'm not a true friend
@@pinkcherry6747 aww I'm sorry that you have to go through this ❤️ but plz remember it's not ur fault okay ? stay strong
'Survivors' or the Suicide of others should never blame themselves - unless they like intentially made them so miserable that they were pushed to that extreme. A person commits suicide for their own reasons - it is not on you to save them. If they are that fragile that you not answering leads to them killing themself, they were probably beyond saving anyway.
I understand what he means but, he had no idea and it prob had nothing to do with him either, he shouldn't feel guilty about it :(
I was NOT emotionally prepared to watch this
Same 😭
Me too, I swore I wasnt gonna cry.
None of us were.
The worst thing about betrayal is that it doesn’t come from your enemy, it comes from a person who you thought won’t betray you in the first place.
It breaks my heart. I just want to hug those people who wrote this and tell them how important and loved they are
I went for a 5 month trip with my best friends and I got really sick, I almost died. When I asked them to bring me some food to the hospital cause I was so hungry that evening, they said they too had a pretty rough day and dont want to. After I flew home only one of them asked if I arrived at home and how Ive been. I tried to contact the others but the blocked / ghosted me. This betrayal was so massiv, It sometimes still haunts me and now I have big trust issues in every relationship/friendship I commit
I am really sorry, this seems traumatic for you. Just know that you are important, and they are kinda jerks for doing such a thing. Hope you are okay
I am so sorry. I hope you're doing well. Those friends didn't deserve you. ❤️
I cried reading this
Really sorry you had to face that sis you are better off without them
You probably are a bad judge of character. It's okay. We all make mistakes.. learn from them. Choose better.
And "best friends"?? Really? Better phrase it as , what you thought then as best friends .
These concepts are sacred .. shouldn't be lumped in for everyone.
The girl who tried to end her life after she fought with her mother need a BEAR HUG!!♥️♥️
omg why did this comment make me cry- I'm so emotional
You may have walked pass so much people like her and not even notice.
@@tahaniahmed4382 wowwww that makes me feel so much better thank you for the input Tahani Ahmed much appreciated
"One of the most
corageous
decisions you'll ever
make is to finally
let go of what is
hurting you heart
and soul"
-Brigitte Nicole
I had a friend in college who told me she never had a real friend before. She was black and went to a mostly white catholic high school and lived in a mostly white neighborhood, said a lot of the other kids' parents told their kids not to talk to her for no reason, and that a lot of her past friends just stopped talking to her out of the blue, and I believed her. For 3 years I tried to show her what true friendship was, but during our last year of friendship, on her 21st birthday, she decided to go to the club with all these people she talked smack about to me, and didn't even invite me to go with them. I found out she had blocked me on every social media platform possible, and when I confronted her about it, she didn't give me a straight answer. That's when I realized it was never her old friends' fault for ruining the friendships, it was always her. She manipulated me, and to this day, I'm convinced she never thought of me as a friend, and it makes me wish I hadn't even tried to be her friend in the first place.
"HOPE IS SOMETHING YOU GIVE YOURSELF. THAT IS THE MEANING OF INNER STRENGTH."
-Mako “Iroh” Iwamatsu
💙🧡💚🤍
Yes.
oh i love him
まこ いわまつ
I'm crying
As someone who grew up in a toxic home and is now a mother I get mad hearing about parents like this. You brought a beautiful unique life into the world and this is how you treat them? You should be their safe haven not their storm.
Youre an amazing mom luisa
My father never really talked to me. I'm 17 years old and since my childhood I've never hugged my dad, he never talks to me about anything, he never takes me out with him, he never wished me luck for anything in my life. Moreover, my mother keeps on scolding me for not scoring more, comparing me to my classmates, always blaming me for not studying and still I try my best to help her she yells me for not doing household chores. I don't have anyone to share anything not even my friends. I don't have anyone close to me. All I have is the guilt for not being a 'better kid'. I am sorry.
You have me now :) and I feel ur pain. We will get through this together dw.
Betrayal doesn't make us lose a friend, or a supporter. It costs us our trust of humans.
i felt so bad for every single person here. i felt especially bad for the person who fought with her dad and her dad died shortly after, cause i related to it. Me and my brother argued for hours, and i didn’t speak to him for a couple of days. shortly after, my brother was killed in a car accident, and i regretted everything that happened. everyone seeing this, never hold grudges, as it could be their last day on earth.
god, i'm so sorry!
I can't remember what video or comment or whatever I found this, but I remember someone saying that after every argument they say "I love you" in case something bad happened after
i'm so sorry, i'm sending my love to you. i hope one day you are able to get over any of the negative feelings you may have x
You are right never hold grudges against your family. But what if your own father doesn't show father figure love and treated you like crap in public. Either way if you didn't hold grudges and he still treated you like crap.
@@goldenbacon1572 that's a hard one. I guess continue saying I love you to your father even tho he doesn't respect his own kids and wife.
the suicide one where the friend tried calling is so so sad :(
sad but is the reality, no one cares if you die. They only realize it was serious for you when you die.
Then they regret, but you are dead!!!
@@marin5431 People do care that you die lol
"They chose reputation over their children's happiness" hits home. And is it really home though?
I hope I NEVER put my child in a situation where they're crying themselves to sleep and I've No idea.
Depression kicks in when u realize early in life that you’ll never be loved unconditionally and sometimes in order to be accepted either about sexual orientation in a orthodox society or about ur own beliefs you have to let your own closest people go
@MYH I believe we are loved unconditionally when someone gives up their life for us. Especially a stranger. Jesus Christ gave up His life for all so that by faith those who believe can have eternal life. Of course in any relationship love is going to have conditions that we serve and make sacrifices for one another, especially that we are forgiving of one another. But because we have certain desires that are not in the best interests of ourselves or others or society we cannot just love unconditionally. I believe discipline and laws and order is a form of love as well in raising children and framing a healthy society.
Depression isn't always about love
Cynistrelle Cadrelle i agree , i have asthma and also its associated with chronic depression due to the tightness of chest and the wheezing that forbidden me from playing football and every kind of sport 😔
in freshman year of highschool, I met a girl and we became best friends really quick, I trusted her a lot but in sophomore year she choose popularity over our friendship. Because of her I lost my friend group, I was left alone the whole year because of her rumors. the only thing good about quarantine is I don't have to see them every day. Betrayal sucks so bad I hope whoever's reading this never experiences it. stay healthy
Sis they don’t deserve u, try finding friends that realize your worth and potential :)
This year is my first year in highschool. It's not in my first language and I really struggle in tests and trying to understand what the questions are asking because I don't have great vocabulary in that language at all. It's really difficult for me to make friends because in my primary school I grew up with those people ( it was a small school ). In my new school I left all of my friends in primary school because they all stayed there and the "friends" I made in highschool leave me out constantly and they are really rude but I can't make other friends because everybody already has their friend groups and I am really quiet person in general and nobody ever actually speaks to me even though I am really nice to everyone ( lending then pencils, getting them stuff, greeting them ) but nobody likes me. I had so many friends in primary school but now I have zero.
That's my rant.
I just thought maybe you would understand because nobody else seems to
The EXACT same thing happened to me. We’ll all get through this
I can really relate to this, happened to me in middle school and I was left alone most of the time cause my one true best friend was on a trip
it’s okay , i went through the same thing, you are not alone. they obviously don’t deserve you and it will be alright, you will find the right friends soon. stay safe🥺
That's the reason why I'm distant to people. don't trust anyone.
My parents physically, psychologically, and verbally abused me for around 5 years. They stopped when they sent me in 2019 to spend the summer with my grandma. We'd moved from Vegas to Washington after that. I've struggled with Major Depressive Disorder and trauma that landed me in the psychiatric center of a hospital for 8 days in December. CPS has been called a few times, but with me lying to protect my parents it never went anywhere. When I got out I confronted my Dad about the abuse and asked if he felt what my Mom and he did was wrong. He said "It wouldn't matter because it all happened in Vegas. They can't go after us for it."
This week I finally had the courage to tell my therapist about everything they've done, and spent an hour on the phone with CPS and my therapist telling them everything. I never cried so hard in my life, and it was easily the most difficult thing I've ever done. Before I hung up my therapist told me that because it happened in Nevada, they couldn't do an investigation but could put it on file in case it ever happened again. Except, my parents know the laws here are different, so they won't do it again.
In the end, my Dad was right. They got away with it all, and feel no remorse. Turns out I really did only protect them by not telling anyone. I didn't do myself any favors.
Coffee Bean You did everything you could and came out with something very deep and personal; That is amazing. Don’t blame yourself for not coming out sooner. You’ve tried your best and now if it ever happens again you have something in place to protect yourself. At this point it’s best to take time to heal and better yourself. Focus on yourself and other things around you instead of your parents, so you can get out of that house and be in a better place. I wish you the best my friend.
You're an amazing person
I can't believe parents can do such things to their own children... I am so sorry. You are very brave for telling, and i hope you are ok
I really hope you're feeling better. that must have been awful
I have tons of respect for you on coming out about something deep. You are really brave for telling, and that is just plain amazing. You did everything you can. And always know that there are still people in the world supporting you, someone like me and the other people who commented here. I wish you the best, and I hope you are better now :)
Mother taking side of her brother who sexually abused the girl???.
I rather be mom less than that kind of mom. Smfh
Yeah it's the saddest thing I ever heard
it could be a boy but yeah i agree what kind of mom is that
Betrayal from enemies is hard and difficult but the most deepest betrayal is the one from the people whom you trusted with your life
I kept everything to myself for years, until my 7th grade when i got close with my mom and sister, i was very open to them. Until now, because of it, i got them into a great silent war with my grandmother and aunt, especially my sister. Because i told her Everything they said behind her back. I heard everything, i was hurt. My grandmother's harassing me silently, and i figured out to myself that i want to stay quiet again, i want to isolate my self again from them inorder for them to be away from harm.
"The grass is cut, the snakes will show" - Letlive.
I confronted my mom over catching her cheat. Told her she had 24 hours to tell my dad or i would tell him myself. She confessed and they worked it out. It hasnt been easy but they love each other and take it a day at a time.
No offence but if she really did love ur dad why would she cheat?
@@imintheghettoratatata6593 I’m sure at the time she did that she didn’t love my dad.
@@jennymtz8684 dang I’m sorry though but I hope everything goes well for u 🙂
You actually actually right in this situation. I've already read comments from people with similar experiences saying they still haven't told their dad and saying it would be better for him not knowing. Like how is that better? You would just betray him as much as your if you don't tell him eventhough you know.
You handled this really well, I'm so happy to hear that your family is doing good
I began crying at the last one. The "find your own family who will love and support you" part just hit deep and made me so emotional
I used to think “how are they finding people with such sad stories” but then I realized that everyone has stories like these and that we just don’t talk about it enough.
my story is the one at 5:14 and I want to say thank you for using my story out of all the ones you gotten. I was in such a bad place when I sent that story and I'm better now. hearing my story made me cry as soon as I heard the first three words. again thanks it may not seem like a lot but it was and still is to me.❤️
I'm so glad you're doing better :)
@@tayh.6235 thank you! ❤️
I'm at ease right now...Thank you so much for sharing your story and I'm so happy you're feeling way better. :D
@@leenelshami4809 thank you for taking time out of your day to give me a positive comment! ❤️
Hugs to you!!
The saddest part about betrayal is that it‘s caused by those who we care most about
One thing I love about social media is that there’s always someone who can explain my pain for me
i mean that’s the sad part about betrayal it will NEVER come from your enemies…
My mom was cheating on my dad, She was cheating on him with 3 men and he didn't know, and whenever I remember this I feel that my heart is hurting me, because I did not find a person to tell him about it Nobody will feel this same pain until it happens to him, but I still love her cuz I have just one mom in this world.
I’m going to be honest I don’t know how you still love your mom. You have a good heart cuz I would never talk to my mom
Hey, you should tell him I know it is difficult but put yourself in that situation
Luciana Carranza fr his dad deserves to know
@memetastic hater This happened to me as well. And until now the guilt and regret about not saying anything still haunts me. I feel like it was my fault that my siblings doesn't have a complete family now. I know it's hard because you love them both, but please make the right decision to speak up. And I am hoping that you'll heal from this.
I know how you feel. My mom cheated on my dad when he was gone most of the year working. She would always bring home guys from the bar and have sex with them whist me and my older sister were home in our rooms. I don’t think she knows I know that, but I can’t bring myself to hate her for doing all she’s done for us. My dad still doesn’t know, but it’s best that he doesn’t. It hurts, but just know that you’re not the only one who’s alone in a situation like this.
im crying so much. this isnt at hurtful in the video, but it reminds me of the time my crush called me the n word TWICE. it still hurts.
don't feel ashamed. words can hurt too. im sorry you had to go through that.💕💕
Stop messing with these hateful ass demons.
He sucks, you deserve much better
@@annabeld7758 you know that say stick and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me well that saying is false af words hurt more than sticks and stone
Shoulda left him the first time he said it
This shows u the craziest thing people go through and makes you feel blessed
My best friend died in a fire and I was the last person he talked to. He had called me but he was drunk so I told him I couldn't talk and to call back when he felt better. He passed out a short time later with a lit cigarette that burnt the whole house down.
Me: In a happy mood
Jubilee: not so fast
*I'm never in a happy mood. CHECKMATE*
😭