Changes to our holiday CUSTODY schedule as mom of 7 KIDS
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 6. 01. 2024
- It's Christmas Eve/morning and we get to spend it with in a very special way with all 7 of our kids this year! Although we have 3 different custody & visitation schedules, our current update is that... we don't necessarily follow them lol. We're at a point where we pretty much always just do what's best for all of of the families involved, and that looks different every year. This year we are spending it surrounded by love, excitement and all of the family đ„ș But first.... we have a little incident the night of Christmas eve with our elves đ„Č
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My name is Jess! I had a daughter (Lilia) at age 18 w/ my high school sweetheart. We mutually split up & co-parent to this day. I met someone new, got married at age 19, had twin boys (Kyson & Kaden) and another son (Landen). He cheated, we split ways, & heâs not around much. After juggling life as a single mom of 4 for some time, I met Chris, he had 2 sons: Caden and Tommy, who eventually became my step sons. After Chris and I got married, we had our 7th child together, Addelyn. Weâre one big, complicated, blended family & every second of our story is on CZcams, you can start from the beginning here: âą 8 Weeks Pregnant!
FAQ: Yes, weâre done having kids.
FAQ: Names and ages of the kids: Caden (step son, born in 2009), Lilia (daughter, born in 2010), Tommy (step son, born in 2010), Kyson (son, born in 2012), Kaden (son, born in 2012), Landen (son, born in 2014), Addelyn (daughter, born in 2016)
FAQ: Who are the dads? Gabe (Liliaâs dad), Drake (Kyson, Kaden, and Landen bio dad), Chris (Caden, Tommy, Addelynâs dad)
The boys saw their dad. That's nice for them. I know he's not always been a big part of their lives and Chris has filled that hole most of the time. The fact that they still see him from time to time must be nice for them and him to have some sort of relationship
Itâs actually not. At least not in my case. I had a biological father just like the boys. I always had this thought in my head will he come around now. It was very inconsistent. And for a kid consistency is very important. I am now 29 and have absolutely no relationship with him. I donât even remember when was the last time I seen him.
@prettyyoungthing my point exactly. Consistency is essential.jess has lived her mum years as an open book and good for her .she has given them an awesome childhood along with Chris.
@@prettyyoungthing1008 I agree
I have seven kids my 8 year old twins don't see their dad at all when I was with their dad he alway come when they kids were in bed and then one morning I woke up and he was gone he had left a a note explaining why he wasn't their but then he leaving for early than usual like before anybody else was awake when asked him why he just said because I felt like it and the I found out her was seeing someone else and it all made sense I dumped and chucked him out he did want see the kids now my 6 year old and 4 year see their dad a lot now.
i love how your kids are so grateful no matter how big or small or how expensive the present is! they were brought up to be such sweet and caring kids!
The kids are always so grateful and excited. They all have such beautiful hearts. Iâve seen many times where people make comments on how are the kids paid to have their lives shared on social media and THIS is a perfect example of only one way they are compensated for their lives being shared.
Her kids decide if there in the videos or not she doesn't force them to be in her videos if they don't want to she loves those kids more then life it self if her kids say they don't want to film anymore then she would quit you tube but she leaves it up to them she is the best mom ever
@@nicholetoops5208 I love how she gives them a choice
Watching little kids grow and persevere will never get old. My little cousins just had their first race yesterday and the younger one could barely turn at the beginning of the season. He lost control and fell a lot. This weekend he placed 37th out of 65 and it made me so happy to see all of the practice pay off and for his skill to triple. The other one got 39th out of 60 which is also pretty good for her first time.
Ok so ive been here since jessica was pregnant with lilia and seeing how much she has gone through and been so strong for her babies and for her to be able to give them all these things that she could only dream of back then makes my heart sooo happy â€â€â€
I'm a silent watcher and have been since you were pregnant with Lilia. I pray your kids are grateful for the life they have and all those things they got. Obviously a video isn't the whole truth of what is actually going on but I feel really bad for the 2 girls that were also there celebrating with yall. I don't know the circumstances or even if they were also just as grateful but by the looks on there faces they seemed really disappointed in what they got opposed to what you got your kids. Again no clue if any on what is going on but it broke my heart to see there little faces in the background. Happy holidays yall!
they may be like me to where they dont really show their emotions when opening gifts. i could get the newest iphone and say thanks and just smile but deep down im super excited and appreciative. but as you said, we dont know whats actually going on but that could be a possibility đ
I was wondering who the girl sitting next to lilia is
Alyssa and Delaney were happy and got things that they asked for just like Jessicas kiddos. All 9 kiddos were so happy with what they got. Alyssa and Delaney are a little less expressive in emotions but we equally loved and thankful.
@@nanceypayne9172 thats what i thought! glad everyone is happy :)
@@nanceypayne9172 absolutely!! I knew I shouldn't have even said anything. That family is soo blessed to have the life they have and I'm grateful we all get to witness them growing up! (:
I love the little snippet of the cat with the treats!
We are at the stage in life where all the children are grown and married but not to the stage of grandbabies yet, so our Christmas is more of a chilled out vibe. I miss the Christmas chaos!
As always, I love how appreciative the kids are with their gifts. You and Chris knocked it out of the park this year. đ©·
I love watching their reactions to all their presents đ„°. Looks like an amazing morning for all!
Me too đ„č and I love that I got to watch it back while editing too! Thank you đ«¶đ»
That's what I call "being grateful" đ †I love their reactions
i love seeing christmas morning because it is never a dull moment in your house and I love it
I donât mean this in a rude way at all, but I felt for the other children on Christmas morning (the ones visiting), it would have been tough watching Jessâ kids getting incredible gifts (you have worked hard for it and your kids are clearly grateful for what they get) whilst they didnât seem to get nearly as much. I saw Alyssa get a pair of jeans and some shoes. Obviously we canât see everything they got and Iâm sure they enjoyed their gifts too, just seeing them watching the others open all their gifts made me feel for them. Your kids are so lucky!
I totally agree, I thought the exact same thing.
Keeping up with the Joneses doesn't cure unhappiness or discontent. There will always be someone that has more. Being happy and appreciative with what you have is a lot more important.
My thoughts the whole time. How awkward
Not awkward at all. All 9 kids present were loved and given presents and things that they had on the wishlist. Alyssa and Delaney were just as blessed as the rest.
I noticed that as well
I glad drake is spending time with the boys. And I love that you respect each kids wish to take part in your videos... Happy holidays.
Right everyone hating on her for big Caden being covered up in pics and videos I'm over her thinking at least she respects her kids and there wishes most family vloggers I see have no respect for there kids and it's all about me me me as a parent and what they want not what there kids want
I do the same thing with the wrapping paper with my 4 kids, and to make it extra fun I hid etheir scrap of paper at the bottom of their stocking for them to find â€
I absolutely love the fact that big Kayden does not want to be filmed. It shows really big maturity, but once in a while, it would be cute to see his face and how much heâs grown.
there is a picture of him in the kids room we see in the intro!
Also, Santa takes our elf back to the North Pole on his sleigh. No magic needed for that. So my daughter got to watch a movie and cuddle with our elf before going to bed Christmas Eve. She absolutely LOVED it!!!!
That had to have been a CRAZY EXPENSIVE bill for Christmas presents holy cow. Thousands of dollars đ„Č
Youre a great mom! You really do make everything down to the last detail special for all the kids. Job job Jess
Such genuinely grateful kids đ„șâ€ïž reminds me of my childhood Christmas!!!
Loved how cute and appreciative and happy they all were opening their Christmas presents
Merry late Christmas Jesssfam you guys are the best glad the boys got to see their dad
The kids are so spoilt but its lovely to see they appreciate all the gifts! Hope you all have the best new year :) Xx
She's finally back đ
Can't wait to see the new vlog and hope you guys have a great Sunday evening and night with the kids and hope you guys and the kids had a wonderful Christmas and New Year and can't wait to see what the kids got for Christmas and hope they like everything.
It is so chaotic, I love it. I have been waiting for this vlog for sooo long!
Itâs so nice to see how appreciative and excited the kids are about all their gifts đ„Č
I guess the days of something you want, something you need and something to read are long gone.
Seems that way sadly.
Not everyone does that. I never did that with my boys.
@@prettyyoungthing1008 no but Jess did and she made. Massive thing out of it and buying used. Every when she got a bigger following it was still simple gift one large gift the rest stuffers. This just seems excessive a computer $2000 at least and a $1k phone each for the boys plus all their bits your looking $4 a child. No wonder the other two visiting kids didnât look happy in all the background footage. If you got it go for it but donât rub it in other kids faces
@@Cerrie88 Not sure if you have kids but once they get older their needs/wants change. Along with that comes with a price tag. This is Jess channel so itâs about her kids. She isnât going to show what her nieces got because that unnecessary. And you canât say they felt a certain way from a few minute clip.
@@prettyyoungthing1008 i do have children ! I have three 14-12-9 year olds ! We spend ÂŁ200 a child ! Wants and needs are very different. They donât need a computer each ! They donât need a brand new. Thousand dollar phone each ! My children have phones but ones that are needed ÂŁ300 each. Spending thousands is just silly they are spoilt. Yes they seem grateful but it isnât necessary at all.
This is the Christmas vlog we have been waiting for the short was a different perspective of this very morning
Happy new year Jesssfam!! The kids are so appreciative, thatâs so big to me with my kids and itâs always so refreshing to see other kids appreciate what they receive †looks like a truly wonderful Christmas. If Iâm correct the girls babies are a year old now? Or 2? â€
13:40 I freaking love how the boys opened their same gifts at the same time & lost their crap for each other!! đđ€Ł
Looks like itâs been a wonderful holiday for you and I hope the next year keeps on getting better.
Looks like nova had her best first Christmas everđ
Oh Iâd love to come help plant a huge garden there. I just moved and Iâm adding a new garden. Growing your own food is the best!
Addie looked so happy when she open her gifts i can tell she really liked it . I would love all those gifts that addie and lilia got those reaction are amazing. Addie i also like the youtuber you watch. Hope you all have an amazing Christmas/new year
This is my favorite videos every since i watch your vlog. I watched all the christmas morning you had and it feels good to watch this kind of videos snd the halloween especially. Because i never had it â€â€
I LOVE YOU GUYS!! Merry late Christmas and New year! Hope you guys have a great year. Also you guys should do another 24hr saying yes video. I have been watching you guys since Landen was born.
i really missed the âwhat i got my kids for xmasâ videos!!! those are soo fun!
So glad everyone had a good Christmas sending prayers for everyone
What a sweet video, I think your kids are just precious
This made me so emotional! Happy holidays and merry Christmas
Liliaâs Madoka costume is super cute!! :) I cosplay Madoka too
My cat trys to open the drew where the treats so nova playing with them had me laughing đ
Nova going to town with the temptations snacks should definitely be a commercial. haha. Looks like you all no doubt had a beautiful Christmas! Here's to a wonderful 2024!!
I had no idea that happened until I went to edit the footage and I was cracking up đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł so good hahah
There is nothing better than being able to bless your babies. You guys really went all out and I know how much that melts your heart as a parent. đ«¶
Things donât make kids happy.
Iâm so glad the boys finally got to see their dad
its not super new, they see their dads often.
@@devanapaiva5243not that often.
Would love to know the break down of how you cater for so many kids with different interests and ages.
I have the same stocking for my bearded dragon!đ„č my cats also did the same thing with the temptations on Christmas lol đ
In our blended family every single year we always do christmas on the 23rd with my mom and (step)dad and all my siblings, then all of us kids split up and go to our other parents houses on christmas eve that way we can spend christmas day with them and that side of the family, my mom has always done this in order to not have to argue with the other parents about who gets who during the holidays (mostly my dad though because he lives 4 hours away and all the other parents live in the same town as my mom)
Iâm not sure who was more aggressive opening gifts - the boys or Nova! đđđ
I love this fam sooooo much merry Christmas guysss
You canât help but smile at how grateful they all are Beautiful kids and family â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
My kids literally set up a similar Santa trap đđđđ and Addy saying sheâs going to punch Santa is my daughter ALL dayđđđ
hi jess! so iâm not an adult or anything, iâm a teen but i love watching all your videos and you have no clue how much you have helped me. i know this may sound weird but you have helped me thru some really hard stages.
Merry Christmas yâall!
God bless!
It's crazy to see how big all the kids have gotten!! I've watched since your first videos! I hope you all had a great new year as well!!
merry xmas and a happy new fro simon from the uk your family are so cool
dang i hope their cousins got good gifts cause that would lowkey suck watching everyone else get electronics đđ
Merry Christmas đđ đ
We need a haul from all the kids
Whatâs the pc specs Iâm curious I hope you show us there set up
Where did you get the wrapping paper from?
Iâm sure that lilia would wanna go to comic con when it comes to town even though tickets are kinda expensive
I love Jesss fam
There so grateful đ«¶
I love this!!! I love watching your older videos they just make me smile so muchâ€â€
Merry Christmas, JessFam I love how equal you are with all your kids and I love the part with nova is playing with his treats Iâve been dying to get the pets that you have two of them, which is a kitty and one of the mango Iâve been doing some research on them And also cannot wait to buy a PC for my son he adores playing video games. He is seven years old. Also been wondering if anybody knows the town we lives in.?.
Love this, my 8 year old is the same way , Jess where did u get the gaming pc looking to get my son one but afraid to buy one not sure which one we want
Jesss can you put a link to the gaming PC's pleaseeee I want to get my kids one!!
I love Landons hair
The 3 boys still see there birth dad? I was wondering how that has been going, in the beginning Landon was so scared. I am glad things are working out.
Santa picks them up on Christmas Eve. They can be touched Christmas Eve
Can you post what each kid got? I miss those videos
Can the boys do a setup tour please
i miss this feeling of excitement on Christmas day
Are you gonna do what you got your kids for Christmas vid
What's the point? We already know. Moving on to next time...
Thats the same way, i get to be with my mom Christmas Eve and Christmas morning and then I go to my dadâs Christmas afternoon cause I donât get to see him that much either
Who are the other kids in the house? Are they staying together/moved in?
The little girl is jess' cousins kid. The older one - im not sure and was wondering who she is also
All I got was a hug đ«đđ€
Does Addy ever complain that sheâs the only one who doesnât get 2 Christmases?
Why would she? She gets enough gifts for two christmases
The cousins from out of town probably did Christmas before or after cuz it hard to bring everything back when they go back home. They donât live in town. And so what u donât see every thing Every one was so appreciative and thankful. The cousins parents did what works for them we only see mins. And itâs non of our business
What did you get your lizard for Christmas?
You know your kids so well. My family knows absolutely nothing about me. Think like what you got Addie. Ya know things marketed toward young girls. Thatâs what I got. Iâm 17 and male. Idk where my family got lost at. đđ
Does Tommy still live with you guys
Christmas hauls!???
Imagine the budget đ” how do you top that every year!? What lucky kids!
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I seen that outter box case đđ
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The elf incident here reminding me of when Landon accidentally touched Fiona & poor little Lilia had a little breakdown thinking Christmas was ruinedâŠ. The freezer did the trick then too!
Our elf letâs us touch him on Christmas Eve because Santa comes to pick him up when he drop off the presents.
Maybe next year Fred and Fiona will do the same
Made us wait 4 days wth jesssđŁ
What console did you get Adeline I would like to know because I want one too
It was a nintendo switch
@JesssFam My name is Emily im 16 years old and I'm in Grade 11 and Have a Twin sister named Elizabeth who's also 16 and in grade 11 . I am one of your biggest fans and have been watching for a while I absolutely love your family so much and my dream is to meet all of you I live in Waterloo Ontario Canada hopefully one day i can meet you guys . I thinks its really awesome The boys saw their dad. That's nice for them. I know he's not always been a big part of their lives and Chris has filled that hole most of the time. The fact that they still see him from time to time must be nice for them and him to have some sort of relationship. Please Reply Love you guys Much love from Emily and Elizabeth from Waterloo Ontario Canadađ„°đ„°đ„°
Hi jesssfam
Are they a foster family or adoption since a number of them still spend time with their biological parents
Was that a steam deck in that pink case she opened or was it a switch I couldnât tell
Definitely a Switch. Looks nothing like a Steamdeck. Seeing as its already in a case they might have taken it out to put a different casing on it hence the non factory colour scheme
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Is the FAMtastic four podcast ever going to come back? Happy holiday season Jess!!đ„°đ„°.
I donât think so since amber and Gabe broke up
Kinda hard to do when 1 of the 4 went basically no contact. I assume Amber talks to Gabe about things concerning their son but Amber doesnât talk to Jess and Chris anymore at all.
I litterly got the same Stanley for Christmas with my name on it also
Girl Christmas was like 2 weeks ago.
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