Overcoming the Pain of Your Past

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  • čas přidán 23. 07. 2024
  • We all have pain from our past mistakes. No matter what you've experienced with God's help you can overcome. Every great person has to rise above the pain of their past to reach their destiny.
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    Jimmy Evans is one of America’s leading experts on family and marriage relationships. He is Founder and CEO of MarriageToday™ and co-host of MarriageToday with Jimmy and Karen, the marriage ministry and national award-winning broadcast that airs to millions of homes each week. A popular church and conference speaker, he has also authored a number of books, including Marriage on the Rock, Our Secret Paradise and The Right One.

Komentáře • 88

  • @jackiecolbert3915
    @jackiecolbert3915 Před 4 lety +8

    Father God I pray for all the marriages that are struggling right now. Including my own marriage. God touch each and everyone of us with a special touch. Father give us peace, guidance and direction in Jesus Name Amen

    • @jenniperkins4260
      @jenniperkins4260 Před 4 lety

      Jackie Colbert amen. Thank you

    • @violetharprashad9805
      @violetharprashad9805 Před 4 lety

      thank you pray for me please,my marriage is at the divorce your i pray god will restore my marriage, thank-you jesus

    • @earleansmith8608
      @earleansmith8608 Před 3 lety

      Violent praying for your marriage to be restored going to the designer of marriage to asked him in prayer to have mercy on your marriage in Jesus name Amen

  • @Vavavoum-gr8
    @Vavavoum-gr8 Před 4 lety +14

    I am the end of pain in my family in Jesus Name.

  • @pec924ify
    @pec924ify Před 3 lety +3

    Let's pray every day for marriages. And let's do our part to protect and support good marriages.

  • @iw9338
    @iw9338 Před 6 lety +64

    Please pray that my marriage be restored. Thank you for the teaching, blessing to you and yours.

    • @georgeschoullis771
      @georgeschoullis771 Před 5 lety +8

      Please pray for my marriage I pray for yours to be restored in Jesus name amen

    • @larryreynolds7676
      @larryreynolds7676 Před 5 lety +12

      I pray for healing, forgiveness, and restoration in all of our relationships, broken marriages, and situations in the name of Jesus, amen.

    • @faithcordova3114
      @faithcordova3114 Před 4 lety +7

      Praying for you and your marriage as well as mine

    • @jenniperkins4260
      @jenniperkins4260 Před 4 lety +5

      I W praying now. Pls pray for mine too.

    • @sandradunlap5535
      @sandradunlap5535 Před 4 lety +7

      Praying for each of you and your marriages. And asking for prayers for my husband and I (healing and restoring our Marriage) as well.🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @brianray2803
    @brianray2803 Před 4 lety +6

    This teaching lead me to write the redemptive story of my life, "I Must be Born Again".

  • @Jacurlz08
    @Jacurlz08 Před 2 lety +3

    You always know what to speak about 🙏🕊👑 Generational curses I pray being broken off my husband's family and mine 💖

  • @paulaoghenerukevwe3610
    @paulaoghenerukevwe3610 Před 4 lety +13

    I won't spread pain or hate.it stops with me

  • @innocencianyembo2325
    @innocencianyembo2325 Před 4 lety +3

    thanks for the massage, the pain and hate stops with me. and my past has no power over me in Jesus name Amen.

  • @marahaquala1686
    @marahaquala1686 Před 2 lety +1

    I gave my husband 9 years of the "pain out". I can't do that for him anymore. 💔 While he had my love, support and encouragement he wanted every woman but me. Lied about everything to cover it. Sometimes they are chosing to to talk the path they are on and don't care about anything meaningful.

  • @mpiatt121674
    @mpiatt121674 Před 6 lety +16

    You are touching so many marriages for the glory of GOD and thank the lord for Christian men like you. Love you brother even though you don’t know me now I️ will see you in heaven.

  • @DDR1610
    @DDR1610 Před 6 lety +26

    There is so much truth in this video! People try to fill the holes in their hearts with the things of the world instead of with God. They try to distract themselves and self-medicate instead of being still and letting God truly heal them from the inside out. Thanks for uploading!.

  • @EmzilIa
    @EmzilIa Před 4 lety +20

    I wish brother Jimmy would do tours! He is Such a blessing.

    • @sha8329
      @sha8329 Před 4 lety +1

      Emily Rizzuti he does do tours. Have a look at Marriagetoday.com

  • @justusmurokorebiryomumaish8659
    @justusmurokorebiryomumaish8659 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This is so real. May God help us to deal with our pain.

  • @Sunshine-yz3rk
    @Sunshine-yz3rk Před rokem +1

    Wow 👏🏾 🌊 💚. Just discovered you today. Mighty strongholds coming down. Hallelujah 🙌🏽 🙌🏽 🙌🏽 🙌🏽

  • @belovedofthelord7355
    @belovedofthelord7355 Před 4 lety +5

    I was a nobody ...in my family while growing up! Nobody missed me when I was not around and I accepted it...I hid that pain well! I still feel it doesn't matter if God knows I am here or not...as long as I don't create problems for Him or make people angry at Him! I really don't know where to go from here!

    • @Asneeded
      @Asneeded Před 4 lety +2

      If Jesus is your lord and Savior, go to him and tell him exactly what you posted, ask him to help you and allow the Holy spirit to lead you on the path of healing. If Jesus is not your lord and saviour, accept the salvation that he has offered with his own life. God bless you.

    • @reg8297
      @reg8297 Před 4 lety +3

      I understand how u feel I went thru lifelong childhood abuse from a parent to the father of my kids I lost everything cause they abused me the father of my kids brainwashed and turned my kids against me when young I can barely face another day and I ask why god let him away with what he did

    • @Joseph-en7gx
      @Joseph-en7gx Před 3 lety

      Here the message from Ivan Tait on the Orphan Spirit. It really helped me brother. Love you

    • @brianwoo8877
      @brianwoo8877 Před 3 lety

      Don't know where to go? Can I suggest you go into His presence? All of us need to, few of us will pursue Him. Do so with all your heart.

  • @nickparsons9804
    @nickparsons9804 Před 4 lety +5

    Needing prayers for my wife and I and for our marriage,

  • @Vavavoum-gr8
    @Vavavoum-gr8 Před 4 lety +4

    God bless you for speaking on trauma.its a subject the church needs to address

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 Před 5 lety +3

    I have faced all my pains through a deep dive in my own soul and I have overwon them, through the blood of and in the name of Jesus Christ in me, that I know that the laws of the almighty god through are written in my whole body, spirit and mind : hallelujah, I agree, believe and declare this prayer to be complete truth: amen, in Jesus Christ his name!

  • @JenJenn78
    @JenJenn78 Před 5 lety +6

    Amen, wow i just love this i have 2 watch again. I have been redeemed. God is a merciful and beautiful god. Just wow!!!!!💘💜🧡💙💚💖🙌🤴

  • @airplane800
    @airplane800 Před 5 lety +7

    I remember growing up in church and girls would never give me a chance, I was rejected at least 10 times and a girl's father even called me at home and told me to not talk to her anymore. My family was not Christian and this created a big problem in a church that girls wanted to find a guy from a rich, Christian family. I didn't date a girl until I was 31. Until today I am traumatized with "Christian" women. I was on a church in a single's group and saw that nothing changed. The women wanted to date the cute and the rich. I worked with college ministry for many years and saw the same dynamics. Some guys have all the girls and many in the group are rejected and never get invited to do things. Sometimes I ask myself how much Christianity makes a difference in women concerning relationship but I see much more Hollywood than Christianity in churches today.

    • @trishawhitehouse4226
      @trishawhitehouse4226 Před 5 lety +9

      Thank -you for sharing the reality that you experienced.
      The culture has always affected and infected the church, yet within the church there is a remnant of true Believers.
      The hypocrisy you experienced is real. Jesus said "forgive them, for they know not what they do."
      Jesus sees your faithfulness, your courage and your desire to seek and serve Him come what may.
      Those who seek social standing, fortunes, and superficial lives will miss the kingdom of God, even while pretending to be spiritual, and perhaps even be convinced they are saved.
      Please pray for everyone who hurt you in anyway. Ask God to forgive them, and pray they come to know Jesus intimately.
      The fact is that the only person you can guarantee to be a genuine Christian is you.
      You are absolutely known by God and He will provide a way for you.
      I pray for God to move in your life to show you how much He loves and appreciate you.
      People may judge the exteriors, but God looks at the heart and will fight on your behalf.

    • @pamleach4278
      @pamleach4278 Před 5 lety

      Sorry ro hear your experiences. The Devil wants us to despair. He does not create anything, he just twists and preverts what is there. I commend you for offering yourself as a servant to God. Keep helping others and keep the faith in humanity. God loves you and provides companionship. Yes it is lonely but we were told following Jesus would not be easy. You have my prayers and keep praying for those that failed you. Our Lord's Prayer says "forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us". We cannot harden our hearts, though we are just weak humans starving for love and compassion. Read about Mother Teresa or watch "The Letters". She loved so much but always felt "dry" in God's love for her. She did all she did anyway. Persevere and tell the Devil to get behind thee.

    • @airplane800
      @airplane800 Před 5 lety

      Thank you !!

    • @tawanacalamari5712
      @tawanacalamari5712 Před 4 lety

      Preach

  • @trishknaut1031
    @trishknaut1031 Před 5 lety

    Yes! That is my understanding! Praise God for you Padtor!

  • @merium401
    @merium401 Před 4 lety +1

    Praise God for this message! We both will be able to heal now! Breakthrough! Thank you Lord for this message...

  • @tawanda3333
    @tawanda3333 Před 4 lety +7

    "God does not have any boundaries. That book on boundaries...God never read it" 😆 Hilarious & true

  • @mariesunshineguillory7908

    Thank you for this message I'm hearing today, and I'm so thankful for the love the Lord .
    That I can still forgive,forget, because our Father in heaven doesn't keep count of our flawless,and I choose not to myself. I choose forgiveness, Truth,love, hope, faith, long-suffering, and I fully trust the Lord in everything, because he knows my heart, and he knew in my mother's womb. Thank you Lord for these blessed words of encouragement and support by the Pasto and family. Bless them Lord

  • @izzygee2216
    @izzygee2216 Před 5 lety +1

    Amen 🙏🏽 God bless to all who seeks him diligently.

  • @box_of_sorrows5557
    @box_of_sorrows5557 Před 6 lety +8

    Thank you for this message. It definitely hit home for me right now and pulled at my heart. I needed to hear this today.

  • @emediongekong3225
    @emediongekong3225 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you for this broadcast

  • @charlenelaguer7072
    @charlenelaguer7072 Před 3 lety

    Powerful message and one I've learned from! Thank you for this valuable resource!!

  • @zamacele6646
    @zamacele6646 Před 4 lety

    Thank you marriage today You are helping millions of couples

  • @nashgillis9030
    @nashgillis9030 Před 3 lety

    Thank you. GOD works through people right when they need it . Wow

  • @russellmarvin2850
    @russellmarvin2850 Před 2 lety

    I'm learning that God derails me for a reason. I'm starting over totally now. Thank God is my lord

  • @marcellakramer5871
    @marcellakramer5871 Před 2 lety

    Thank God for Godly Professional Counselors who are helping me to work through "father" pain. Facing the pain of my past, is allowing my marriage and relationship with my children to thrive.

  • @arlenecox6274
    @arlenecox6274 Před rokem

    Thank you for this word needed it

  • @reg8297
    @reg8297 Před 4 lety +11

    Please pray for me am overcome from a traumatic past

    • @jenniperkins4260
      @jenniperkins4260 Před 4 lety +1

      Reg prayers lifted up. Same situation

    • @earleansmith8608
      @earleansmith8608 Před 3 lety +1

      Reg praying for you to overcome your traumatic pass that you will press on to higher ground to the mark of a higher calling on your life the plan God have for you is good to prosper you and not harm you in Jesus name Amen

    • @Joseph-en7gx
      @Joseph-en7gx Před 3 lety

      Look up Ivan Tait. His sermons really helped me

  • @julietsteyn1112
    @julietsteyn1112 Před 3 lety

    Powerful. Thank you!

  • @conynunez1951
    @conynunez1951 Před 4 lety +1

    Jesús the Healing for all Pains !!!!!

  • @ngreat4390
    @ngreat4390 Před 2 lety

    The epic way God showed me to deal with pain is to over-share with him. Report everything and everyone to him without apportioning to them consequences for their actions.
    When we share with God like this, miracles happen fast.

  • @johnnyhensler
    @johnnyhensler Před rokem

    Thank You For Sharing ❤️

  • @conynunez1951
    @conynunez1951 Před 4 lety

    Powerful . Pain the root of all things

  • @shannonclaire7800
    @shannonclaire7800 Před 6 lety +2

    Godbless you and your wife

  • @deenawright1838
    @deenawright1838 Před rokem

    Thank you so much

  • @jbtoptc7327
    @jbtoptc7327 Před 4 lety +2

    This message is so revealing. I am in awe of the way Mr. Evans can take the Biblical teachings and word them in a way to have so much truth and impact without being mean or degrading. This message in particular has meaning for me and gives a new insight that I hope will be shared with other people who are inflicted.

  • @mkilcrece4176
    @mkilcrece4176 Před 3 lety

    As a single person it would be great if these messages mentioned single people not just married people. We all have relationships, and in my case I was watching out of excruciating pain from different relationships, like family and certain friendships.

  • @fredcoleman1773
    @fredcoleman1773 Před 4 lety +2

    Please pray for my marriage..

    • @Joseph-en7gx
      @Joseph-en7gx Před 3 lety +1

      Fred your marriage is healed by the blood of Jesus

  • @nicholedaughterofgod7931

    Awesome sermon

  • @redeemeddaughter5967
    @redeemeddaughter5967 Před 4 lety +1

    Unless you won't let your past die, you don't let your future live.

  • @flamingrobin5957
    @flamingrobin5957 Před 6 lety +12

    i dont know how to let people in to the pain....i need counseling... please pray that God will help me find some.

    • @dre2548
      @dre2548 Před 5 lety +4

      I hope your prayers have been answered. Praying for you

    • @jenniperkins4260
      @jenniperkins4260 Před 4 lety +1

      Ted Myrrh exactly same story. My husband 28 years best friend abandoning me. After multiple grief death of father and best friend alone w/trauma. Pray for me I’ll pray for you

  • @laceybamber7314
    @laceybamber7314 Před 4 lety

    that's all about life and that's true and god bless you l don't know who you are

  • @christysmith7558
    @christysmith7558 Před 4 lety +1

    This was a really good message.. Great job 😀💝 To be honest, I've always loved King David and thought very highly of him but I, obviously, forgot this part and think someone should have kicked his arse for not protecting his daughter! No bueno 👎😣😒

  • @Dk-lo2dt
    @Dk-lo2dt Před 3 lety

    PLEASE 🙏🙏🙏🥺 pray that my marriage be restored.

  • @lilyl.8874
    @lilyl.8874 Před 4 lety +1

    Please Pastor Evans pray for me and my husband. Our childhood is full of traumatic memories.

    • @Joseph-en7gx
      @Joseph-en7gx Před 3 lety +1

      Here the sermons by Ivan Tait. It really helped me

  • @meagandekkar6377
    @meagandekkar6377 Před 3 lety

    David became just like his father.

  • @Joseph-en7gx
    @Joseph-en7gx Před 3 lety

    This is true. I was medicating my pain with sex and pornography until i dealt with my pain. Mine was pain was no love from my dad. It caused me to look for love in all the wrong places. Get help men. Love you all

  • @reginapadelford474
    @reginapadelford474 Před 2 lety

    Please pray my marriage is better then before. The is In forgiveness. My husband drinks to much alcohol. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @melonyanderson6847
    @melonyanderson6847 Před 4 lety +1

    My husband is divorcing me it's unbiblical and asking for prayer

    • @Joseph-en7gx
      @Joseph-en7gx Před 3 lety

      I put a stop to that hard heart and melt it in blood of Jesus

  • @Dreamlandhomestead
    @Dreamlandhomestead Před 4 lety +2

    And how, pray tell, do you overcome the horrific past, when your husband holds to a theology so horrific that it makes God worse than the devil? And he never told you about it before you got married, but now you are forced to choose to go to his church that teaches this theology and in that be reminded over and over again about the past? Or you can't go to church since most churches in your area have been infiltrated by this anti-Christ theology!

    • @KeiaJohn4-15
      @KeiaJohn4-15 Před 4 lety

      Regina ten Brinke Ms. Regina, I’m sorry to hear about your situation. I’ve have also been deceived before and after the fact. One day I watched a sermon on forgiveness, and said out loud to God... I’m good, I’m not holding anything over anyone’s head. That night, I dreamt I was working in a dept. store, my ex try to speak to me... and I called security., then I woke up,. I had to let it go... now I’m seeking healing, before my husband gets here... . God loves the ones who are humble, and recognize that there is an issue. That’s the first step. Keep praying to God, he enjoys the conversation and he’s at work. When you can look up Bsfinternational.com. It’s a women’s bible study, that’s world wide hopefully it’s in your city. You meet up once a week, in a group setting of at least 10-15, and for 9 months study a certain book in the Bible... chapter by chapter. Sorry about the rant, just don’t want you to give up on what can be restored with a blink of an eye.

  • @nurseykt
    @nurseykt Před 5 lety

    ,

  • @persevere6326
    @persevere6326 Před 3 lety

    Spoken like someone who has has never truly experienced trauma
    Sit down