A Weekend at University || Jade, studying & afternoon tea

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  • čas přidán 6. 02. 2024
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Komentáře • 226

  • @weliveinasociety8797
    @weliveinasociety8797 Před 3 měsíci +299

    Oh my heart, when you told Jade she could read her tea leaves, the combination of your empathetic optimism and Jade's face going from disappointment to enthusiasm was so unbelievably sweet!!

  • @Sofia-ht6kn
    @Sofia-ht6kn Před 3 měsíci +214

    What I love about your vlogs recently is how I noticed an evolution from mainly telling your everyday life to making your videos into art. I love it so much how you place small quotes from books in the voice overs and I really love your reflections on topics like the purpose of life (and how poetic you tell your reflections). So lovely videos, really! Thanks you, Ruby!

    • @Westly.3
      @Westly.3 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Here here I second that point!

  • @anjanashyam9333
    @anjanashyam9333 Před 3 měsíci +128

    You are such a kind, beautiful, hardworking, and pure soul Ruby

  • @billoddy5637
    @billoddy5637 Před 3 měsíci +70

    Congratulations Ruby, for speaking at the Oxford Union last month.
    This is an achievement that I can only dream of for myself, and which I have been itching to see you accomplish for months.
    Do not let yourself be deterred by the excess of negative comments in the comment section of that video. As you have said yourself, Government influence can be very difficult to detect, and it is not impossible that many of these criticisms come from bots, with no real person or face behind them (please forgive my own anonymity in this regard).
    I wish you the best of luck for the rest of your studies, and hope to see you regale us with your insights at the Oxford Union, once more in the near future!

    • @starchtrek7263
      @starchtrek7263 Před 3 měsíci +1

      which video are you referring to? I'd love to see her speak at the Oxford Union! 😍 what an honour this must have been!

    • @guillaumedesaint-quentin887
      @guillaumedesaint-quentin887 Před 3 měsíci +1

      On the Oxford Union CZcams channel, a week or two ago.
      (I can’t copy the link here, apparently)

    • @AndNowIJustSitInSilence
      @AndNowIJustSitInSilence Před 3 měsíci +4

      when you naively idolize someone so hard that you believe critics are not real..... 🤣

    • @starchtrek7263
      @starchtrek7263 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@guillaumedesaint-quentin887 thank you! :)

    • @starchtrek7263
      @starchtrek7263 Před 3 měsíci +2

      @@AndNowIJustSitInSilence why would I believe critics before watching anything and making up my own mind? It's rather foolish to just believe some people I've never even met before seeing something with my own eyes.

  • @anthonyholton2886
    @anthonyholton2886 Před 3 měsíci +59

    Thank you for the brief snippet of the bells ringing in Oxford. I remember this from when I was a boy in Newbury/Thatcham, but I wasn't sure that it was still being done today. Very pleasant to find that it is.

    • @Nada.-qu7pg
      @Nada.-qu7pg Před 3 měsíci

      Halle😊my name is Nada Iam from Algerai😊

  • @ktnmz2046
    @ktnmz2046 Před 3 měsíci +45

    I know Ruby ultimately wants to be a writer, but I honestly think she’d love the process of doing a PhD. She just has the personality for it.

    • @maneskinnnnn7190
      @maneskinnnnn7190 Před 3 měsíci +10

      you can be a writer and do a PhD

    • @ktnmz2046
      @ktnmz2046 Před 3 měsíci +4

      @@maneskinnnnn7190 Very true. I was thinking about it from the perspective of a STEM PhD (which took over my life and took away from a lot of my hobbies during that period of my life). You’re right though, creative writing and a PhD in the arts go much more hand and hand and would probably help each other in the long run.

    • @annriya4566
      @annriya4566 Před 3 měsíci

      Ruby is planning to do PhD?

    • @AndNowIJustSitInSilence
      @AndNowIJustSitInSilence Před 3 měsíci +3

      you have to be able to do some critical thinking as a PhD. Not Ruby's cup of tea
      Ruby is too immature to do something like a PhD. Doing a PhD requires you to take criticism without resorting to lame excuses. Academia can be very tough and toxic and you really have to push through years of incredible hard work and harsh feedback. She cannot run to her Mommy and cry after every supervision in which her supervisor told her that she misuses every 6th word that she found in the dictionary.

    • @lucalo1827
      @lucalo1827 Před 3 měsíci +15

      @@AndNowIJustSitInSilencewhat I find quite interesting is how you find yourself able to judge her without knowing her in person. It’s a video. It’s the internet. And: if you don’t like things, why consume them?

  • @UnJadedJade
    @UnJadedJade Před 3 měsíci +34

    I adore you Ruby!! I'm forever so proud of you 🌷

    • @UnJadedJade
      @UnJadedJade Před 3 měsíci +10

      (also your reflections on purpose in the voiceover were so well-put!)

    • @billoddy5637
      @billoddy5637 Před 3 měsíci +1

      The two of you form a dream team! I know of no other example online. You must realise that.
      (btw, as someone who has studied cognitive science, you should spend more time reading Ruby’s comment sections.
      Fascinating material.)

  • @GoldfinchRobin
    @GoldfinchRobin Před 3 měsíci +14

    Ruby, you are like a modern Jane Austen. Your choice of words in your videos are so eloquent and intellectual, and thoughtful wiith elements of fun and happiness.

  • @Nate1975
    @Nate1975 Před 3 měsíci +33

    Your vlogs have this unique vibe to me, like peeking into some other world, a life that is so interesting, outside of the usual constraints and worries. I am fascinated with what that is to do with, whether it is studying, reading. There’s a certain atmosphere to it that inspires me. I recognise it in myself. Well-done and thank you for such a unique channel and presentation

  • @YourTrueShelf
    @YourTrueShelf Před 3 měsíci +8

    It's so nice to see you have some downtime with a wonderful friend after you've been working so hard. I always feel that days and times like these reinvigorate us so much 🥰
    I love that someone bought you afternoon tea, what a lovely gesture.

  • @silvialogan9226
    @silvialogan9226 Před 3 měsíci +11

    Ruby, I am glad that you and Jade had so much fun together and you two were both happy.

  • @Nora_M.Byrne88
    @Nora_M.Byrne88 Před 3 měsíci +14

    Hello Ruby🤍🫂
    This video was so sweet and a true ode to life, I've teared up a little bit 'cause you're capable of narrate the most normal things in a thankful and warm way. Thank you. 💕

  • @petat13
    @petat13 Před 3 měsíci +21

    It’s nice to see you and Jade together again. There’s nothing like the warmth of a kindred spirit.
    My favourite sign off (used for friends) is TTFN from Winnie the Pooh.

    • @RubyGranger8
      @RubyGranger8  Před 3 měsíci +5

      I had to search that up, and it's so cute xx

  • @penultimateh766
    @penultimateh766 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Love it when Ruby acts all happy and spontaneous with one of her friends.

  • @RW7266
    @RW7266 Před 3 měsíci +12

    What a delightfully charming pair, I am not at all surprised that someone bought you afternoon tea. People like to do things that the receiver will appreciate and your appreciation is written all over your faces. There was a music recital at the Exchange Theatre in Manchester a few years back. Outside was a Cheetham's School of Music student busking hoping to raise the £20 admission fee. A complete stranger, I was happy to buy her a ticket, just to see her face light up, five minutes before the start, and still £15 short. I hope that one day she will pass it on to some other person in need.

  • @amelieelise3716
    @amelieelise3716 Před 3 měsíci +11

    what you said about purpose really moved and inspired me, thank you for those motivational words

  • @Zara_Beth
    @Zara_Beth Před 3 měsíci +8

    that is the perfect description of jade! 💖✨ she truly is so joyful

  • @snjez2762
    @snjez2762 Před 3 měsíci +4

    That was so wonderful to see two exuberant friends enjoying life! Thank You.

  • @Mimsi2304
    @Mimsi2304 Před 3 měsíci +19

    These videos are so realistic and calming. Not like some of the other "vlogs" out there :)
    My favourite channel 😍

  • @dize3672
    @dize3672 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I love your giddy friendship with Jade. You both bring out the joy in each other.

  • @costeamara3966
    @costeamara3966 Před 3 měsíci +6

    I admire your friendship so much… I can’t wait to find a person with whom I can have such deep and inspiring talks with… love the vids always. Thank you ruby ❤

  • @MariaMedeiros
    @MariaMedeiros Před 3 měsíci +3

    Thank you for sharing your vlog with us Ruby. Your friendship with Jade is so lovely. makes me miss my friends so much. Have a lovely rest of the week.

  • @SeerOfTime577
    @SeerOfTime577 Před 3 měsíci +3

    This video was such a brilliant sunspot at the end of a busy week! I'm currently in my first semester of Uni, and I have far less free time than I originally thought. However, your videos always inspire me, Ruby! And Jade is so wonderful; that lady who bought you tea likely could see your friendship was something special. ❤ And your speech on purpose moved me immensely.

  • @joannasweelife
    @joannasweelife Před 3 měsíci +7

    Such a lovely, pleasant time! These are the moments that truly fill your cup. Also, the paintings in the dining hall are amazing. I've been very interested in Elizabethan history as of late and the paintings caught my attention immediately.

  • @bekytg9393
    @bekytg9393 Před 3 měsíci

    Watching your vlogs, is food for the soul. Seeing your progress, sharing your experiences is just wonderful. It is so lovely to see cold Oxford.

  • @SusieTheExhaustedCatLady
    @SusieTheExhaustedCatLady Před 3 měsíci +3

    So happy to see you and Jade together again!

  • @maheswarsatpathy
    @maheswarsatpathy Před 3 měsíci +1

    Whenever I see your videos, I feel so happy, and inspired. Seeing your video in my feed after so many months!

  • @joelharris4399
    @joelharris4399 Před 3 měsíci +10

    Keep on doing what you're doing Ruby! Go for it!

  • @jsterling6805
    @jsterling6805 Před 3 měsíci +1

    First of all, you possess a lot of philosophical wisdom at an early point in your life. You are on a good path so hold tight to your convictions, don’t allow others negativity to dissuade you on your journey. Enjoy these moments they will provide you some of the best memories in your life. May you always enjoy your journey Ruby.

  • @livkhammonds
    @livkhammonds Před 3 měsíci +2

    Your discussion about purpose was just what I needed to hear, this week 🥺 I love your & Jade's videos -- I'm going to go watch her sister vlog now!

  • @thetragicyouth
    @thetragicyouth Před 3 měsíci +11

    Always good to see Jade! 👍👍👍👍

  • @tahsintabassums
    @tahsintabassums Před 3 měsíci +5

    I always wait for your videos patiently and save it to watch later to savor every second of it

  • @helenwolfhard6668
    @helenwolfhard6668 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Your such a kind and inspiration person Ruby ❤️ lots of love❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Mariadelabahia
    @Mariadelabahia Před 3 měsíci +1

    Love you two together. What a heartwarming video

  • @elleneagles3379
    @elleneagles3379 Před 3 měsíci +2

    What a wholesome vlog with two of my favourite people

  • @swagmeister5323
    @swagmeister5323 Před 3 měsíci +3

    wow- i myself am an Oxford student and have NO CLUE as to how you are managing to maintain a life (and CZcams channel!) outside of studies. i feel totally subsumed in my work 😭

  • @123canadagirl
    @123canadagirl Před 3 měsíci +2

    Nice to see you and Jade hanging out in Oxford

  • @rimasalem5373
    @rimasalem5373 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Inspired to be endlessly hopeful and inspired by the joy of life. Thank you - eternally grateful for your content 😊❤

  • @allamanamedlonk-db6yk
    @allamanamedlonk-db6yk Před 3 měsíci +1

    Jade is such a beautiful and positive ray of sunshine!

  • @zarradsana5888
    @zarradsana5888 Před 3 měsíci

    Oh Ruby the part where you talk about purpose ... so beautifully said ! I've been following both yours and Jade's content for years now and you both continue to inspire me as you're growing into wonderful human beings

  • @saikamoon_
    @saikamoon_ Před 3 měsíci +4

    This was just so beautifully made. Thank you so much for sharing your love of life with us!!!❤

    • @RubyGranger8
      @RubyGranger8  Před 3 měsíci +2

      And thank you so much for being here x

  • @juliavidovichi7990
    @juliavidovichi7990 Před 3 měsíci

    I am completely in love with this video❤ you are both amazing

  • @angelulegaspi1714
    @angelulegaspi1714 Před 3 měsíci

    my two favorite vlogger in one video 😍🤩❤️ my heartttt!!💖

  • @AllPeopleUnite
    @AllPeopleUnite Před měsícem

    I love that the Oxford Library-approved Travel Mug always makes a cameo

  • @gabyberron1916
    @gabyberron1916 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Never been this early! Your voice has gotten deeper somehow! Love seeing you and Jade together!

  • @luasworld
    @luasworld Před 3 měsíci

    I just love your vlogs! So inspiring! Hope you have a wonderful day❤

  • @Merve77772
    @Merve77772 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I'm so glad to see you read Frances Hardinge's books. She is so underrated. My personal favourite is Unraveller.

  • @skinni_the_P00hBear
    @skinni_the_P00hBear Před 3 měsíci +5

    16:38 Earl Grey is top tier, always lol😅😅
    I discovered it thanks to Sir Patrick Stewart's character in Star Trek💀. Delicious, especially with a little bit of vanilla almond milk 💛💛🤘🏾

  • @neurodivergentdawn
    @neurodivergentdawn Před 3 měsíci +3

    Jade is a glowing presence ✨

  • @justamberreading
    @justamberreading Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love coming home to seeing a new video from you!

  • @nosiphodube9651
    @nosiphodube9651 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Love seeing my favourite CZcamsrs and friends reunited ❤. Love from SA 🇿🇦

  • @alice-elizabeth
    @alice-elizabeth Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love how you got to meet with Jade!

  • @charlotte7590
    @charlotte7590 Před 3 měsíci

    Ruby, all of your videos are exceptional but this one was particularly lovely. Your speech about purpose is one of the best things I’ve heard and something I really needed while I’m currently stressed writing an essay! Loved this so much- thanks ❤

  • @evadepeva11
    @evadepeva11 Před 3 měsíci

    I loved the insights you shared on purpose ❤ And the rest of this video too!!

  • @ornleifs
    @ornleifs Před 3 měsíci

    Been so many times to England and I've basically done everything that I want there, But there's one thing that I truly miss and that's a proper English Afternoon Tea - for me nothing beats that, simply heaven on earth.

  • @sophiependragon2467
    @sophiependragon2467 Před 3 měsíci

    You guys are so sweet ❤️❤️❤️ loved the purpose talk 😍

  • @carlybenarbia9193
    @carlybenarbia9193 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Love video ❤️,love you and Jade together x

  • @kristinandj
    @kristinandj Před 3 měsíci +2

    Two pure souls

  • @jedipudgiebunny
    @jedipudgiebunny Před 3 měsíci +15

    Oh my gosh Ruby, on your last video I requested to hear more about your Women in Print module and it made me SO unbelievably happy to hear you speak so much about it in this video!!! I loved your insights and it’s so inspiring to hear about the importance of translation and female writers! I’m so excited to dive into this more and to read your blog post!! I’m currently reading a book called “Women’s Labour and the History of the Book in Early Modern England” edited by Valerie Wayne and I’m learning so much about the women involved in making early printed books (collecting and sorting rags for paper, printing, publishing, selling, and more) and I just love hearing about all the contributions they have made. Thank you so much for giving an update and sharing your thoughts!! ❤️

  • @rileylawson9958
    @rileylawson9958 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Jade seems like such a sweetheart!

  • @Reem_iqbal
    @Reem_iqbal Před 3 měsíci +1

    Loved this collab❤❤

  • @snxlxphant09
    @snxlxphant09 Před 3 měsíci

    Your videos are so beautiful, they really romanticise life, even the stressful bits! P.s in the best way possible you are so wonderfully British haha! Love from another British person x

  • @colestar95
    @colestar95 Před 3 měsíci

    I could listen to you speak all day long!! 🥰

  • @Gladioli10
    @Gladioli10 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Such a wholesome video

  • @carolynmarshall1968
    @carolynmarshall1968 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Ruby that Alice in Wonderland hotel (well the pictures) looked soo lovely. Your friend is lovely too. Your vlogs never fail to disappoint 📚

  • @sharmilan8995
    @sharmilan8995 Před 2 měsíci

    Loved watching you both together and made my day. I got to know Ruby’s CZcams through unjaded Jade! So glad you’re both living your lives to the fullest xx

  • @hannahsummerhalder486
    @hannahsummerhalder486 Před 3 měsíci

    I love watching your videos Ruby. They help motivate me to continue with my projects including my school work. I wish you luck on your dream on becoming a published author. I also love how knowledgeable you are. I too wish to become a published author, working on a murder-mystery novel is difficult, but I believe in the end it will be worth it.

  • @poetrybysuhashani__
    @poetrybysuhashani__ Před 3 měsíci

    such a lovely vlog as always 🌻

  • @DarrenJamesNI
    @DarrenJamesNI Před 3 měsíci

    Such a lovely vlog Ruby.

  • @SarinaMotta
    @SarinaMotta Před 3 měsíci

    I loved that reflection on purpose.

  • @alice-elizabeth
    @alice-elizabeth Před 3 měsíci +1

    Also I love how you narrated this video! So clever. I often thought about using video recordings in my vlogs but I hate my own voice 😂

  • @JuliaWeiser91
    @JuliaWeiser91 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I studied German and History at a University in Germany. Your videos reminds me always of this time. I studied from 2003 to 2009. Long time ago 👩‍🎓!

  • @hannah_xx
    @hannah_xx Před 3 měsíci +4

    hi ruby, i was wondering if you could make a video about or talk about in a video, how you view your oxford undergrad rejection now you're doing a master's there. lots and lots of love

  • @GuntherFjord
    @GuntherFjord Před 3 měsíci

    I LOVE THAT FRIENDSHIP

  • @guillaumedesaint-quentin887
    @guillaumedesaint-quentin887 Před 3 měsíci

    This video on purpose now has a very special meaning to me. ☀️

  • @mrsbertimus2645
    @mrsbertimus2645 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Hello there! It was so lovely to meet you in Blackwells of all places!
    Getting to have a little chat with you made my day!
    Thank you!

    • @deborahgrice
      @deborahgrice Před 3 měsíci +2

      This is a very small world - I've followed Ruby for years! Hope you're well, my love x

    • @mrsbertimus2645
      @mrsbertimus2645 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Hello there my friend! x@@deborahgrice

  • @catherinebuerta4114
    @catherinebuerta4114 Před 3 měsíci +1

    The best crossover♥

  • @margo9026
    @margo9026 Před 3 měsíci

    Jade has got a mesmerising voice

  • @pim1234
    @pim1234 Před 3 měsíci

    Love your vids !

  • @eniksan86
    @eniksan86 Před 3 měsíci +1

    motivation now inspires me to study

  • @user-fi2th4ri7s
    @user-fi2th4ri7s Před 3 měsíci

    Omg just started to watch ur videos si sweeeeet❤

  • @Creatureexotics
    @Creatureexotics Před 3 měsíci +1

    This was a beautiful video

  • @rhiannonarjona5718
    @rhiannonarjona5718 Před 3 měsíci

    Allways love your posts.

  • @SusanMihalic--Writer
    @SusanMihalic--Writer Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing this with us. ❤

  • @Alexandra-kg3qz
    @Alexandra-kg3qz Před 3 měsíci +1

    It’s amazing to know that you’re making a research about female literature. I’m studying female literature too, English and Russian female texts from comparative point of view. Writing master’s dissertation xxx

  • @sydneyhart
    @sydneyhart Před 3 měsíci +3

    You should bring Lola down to Oxford. She will take over the town.

  • @katja8559
    @katja8559 Před 3 měsíci

    Love you ruby ❤️

  • @filmsgal
    @filmsgal Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hey ruby, love all your videos! - just wondering are you thinking of doing a pHD at Oxford or elsewhere?

  • @emilylyon8906
    @emilylyon8906 Před 3 měsíci +1

    stir bakery- there is lots around cambridge is vegan galore and the vegan pastries are golden

  • @e527.
    @e527. Před 3 měsíci

    I'm a Japanese student.
    I'm studying hard for the test by watching your videos.
    I respect you.

  • @freelander5370
    @freelander5370 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Ruby,
    I really like the romanticism and the classic way of letter writing in books, I like books such as Count of Monte Christo and the letters written by Lucy in Dracula, I just really admire how people used to write letters in the past. Do you have any book recommendations that have this style of writing?
    Thanks.

  • @laurawright27
    @laurawright27 Před 3 měsíci

    If you haven't already read it, I thoroughly recommend Daniel Hahn's "Catching Fire: A Translation Diary". It's literally a diary written alongside translating a book. It's a fascinating glimpse into the art of translation and the choices that must be made along the way.

  • @charlienewnham1072
    @charlienewnham1072 Před 3 měsíci

    I've been reading more this year and I read a book recently that I kept thinking you could like/it reminded me of you. It is called After Story and it is about a mother and a daughter traveling around London visiting literary places

  • @KB-bx9ui
    @KB-bx9ui Před 3 měsíci +3

    Such a heart warming video...to have such a friendship to cherish and foster must be such bliss. What is the gorgeous store called that you went into at the end 18:40 ? Have magical day Ruby and Jade!💙

    • @RubyGranger8
      @RubyGranger8  Před 3 měsíci +3

      I genuinely feel so lucky to have her in my life! And it's Scriptum on Turl Street :)x

  • @marysalmon2367
    @marysalmon2367 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Are there 2 kinds of people? Those who put the cream cheese on a little at a time and those, (like me) who just take one big gob and spread it?

  • @Meirins
    @Meirins Před 3 měsíci +2

    Sweet Ruby and Jade

  • @elizabethelms4512
    @elizabethelms4512 Před 3 měsíci

    You girls are fabulous ❤

  • @rondoflicflac
    @rondoflicflac Před 3 měsíci

    What a beautiful video ❤

  • @danielleptc
    @danielleptc Před 3 měsíci

    As a translator, I couldn't be happier to hear your comments re. Mary Sidney Herbert and translation in general. Thank you!

  • @jillianwinkler4207
    @jillianwinkler4207 Před 3 měsíci

    I can't wait to read the first book you write.