Dealing with Silence of your Twin Flame: No reply / Ghosting
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- čas přidán 11. 08. 2021
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I feel silence is very powerful! And it is the most powerful trigger for us for our inner growth.
There is no choice given to us if we want to accept it or not! If we don't accept we suffer in hurt, disappointment, and feeling rejected only draining our energies reaching nowhere.
Our only choice is to accept it.
And the more you get yourself to the level of true acceptance, you learn some of the very very important lessons on this journey.
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Sometimes I wish I never met my twin. I am beyond tired of the back and forth…
same bruh same
I know… so tired
Same here. Sometime I feel like we were good before meeting.
Me too. I say that to myself all the time. I wish i never met him
I've never had regrets I regret meeting my TW
“When silence between 2 ppl is comfortable you know you have found love.” Whoa! 🤯
The silence speaks! They are silent because they don't want you to know they are thinking of you. They are thinking of you so much that the silence reveals that to you. they are not silent with others. Because they dont have to be
Profound and enlightening
Wow! This🔥But are you sure that’s what they do?🥹
@kaylabrown7045 sounds good doesn't it? But it's just food for the mind. There is no separation. There is no self. No other. Look into non duality. it doesn't actually matter what anyone is thinking. There is nobody. Only thoughts. ❤️
@kaylabrown7045 try jim newman. Alan watts. Rupert spira. All have videos on CZcams. My comment was purely on a psychological level. The purpose of meeting this person was not for romantic purposes. It's was to breakdown the illusion of separation. Your mind will probably become very anxious and frantic. What are they doing? Are they thinking about me? Will they come back? What will I do? Becos the mind is still active and hooked on the story. This is purely energetic. Once the energy changes you won't need answers. There won't be any questions. And then the answers will be revealed. They appear to elude us becos we believe the separation. There is none. it seems to hide in plain sight. Becos the mind is still looking for answers. The answer is that there are no questions. I'm the same way you can't get to "here" you can't find your glasses with your glasses on. It's only the belief that they are lost. There is only this. There isn't another version of this. This is perfection. It couldn't be any different. Any thoughts about another version is purely a thought. It's not wrong. It's also part of what is.
@kaylabrown7045 there is nobody to be certain. From the position of the person there is you and other.
You is an illusion.
Do you breathe?
Do you beat your heart?
Do you think thoughts?
Hear sounds?
NO.
The heart beats.
The body breathes.
The ears hear.
It's all just a happening.
There is no you.
There never was.
Both the runner and chaser behave like immature kids and it is really amazing what God can do to teach us lessons! Thank you for sharing with us your authentic guidance! 🙏❤️
Good point
Exactly 🌈
Don't blame this stupid a** man made name for EXCEPTABLE mental and emotional abuse.. not exceptable for anyone to treat another like this, if a husband or boyfriend did this, this would NOT be EXCEPTABLE! But you put a name on it and it's EXCEPTABLE!! Bullsh*t...
I agree 🎉
😂😂😂😂😂😂 So true!
You are 💯 correct. I am speaking from my experience. Yes; They do come back when there is a shift in your energy. Inner work is a must. Thank you ❤️
They do come back?
@@greentea-dg7ht If it's a twin flame experience then push and pull goes on. The worst happened between us, a point of no return however we did come back. And when we reunited, never did my TF nor i spoke about the past. Currently, we are separated and i am so surprised that i no longer crave for reunion. A lot of work i have done on self and i have calmed down. This time our reunion is next to impossible but i know it will happen ❤️
@@bindu6351 i asked him to be my bf and say no. And i sent him lots of messages. It's very impossible that he gonna write back. Even though he read my message but hes never reply back. Its been a year.
So i listened to TF say that i have to go within and work on my soul.
I wish you the best and get union with your TF.
@@greentea-dg7ht It has been almost another year now... Did they ever respond or return?
@@Chelzebelles no, he didnt respond for 3 yrs now and never seen each other for 15 years. Now i just give up
In a no contact situation after what I call the awakening (both souls have found each other), since it's a telepathic connection (you just need to unlock those abilities), you can easily communicate through the invisible tether that connects you to them. So yes, there can often be silence on this plane (earth) and you might not hear from them for a while. Days will likely feel like eons of distance given time isn't linear with them and will be very painful, but you can still send them energy and feel their energy. The various synchronicities (signs) will also guide you. Once the connection has been activated by meeting each other, it's impossible to forget about each other and the connection won't end simply because there is no contact on this plane.
Important thing to keep in mind though is that TF connections are not bound to evolve into romantic connections in this dimension unless both have achieved a certain level of spiritual awakening. When either or both are not evolved enough , TF connections generally work as growth catalysts and nothing more. Since we're all incarnated, there is a LOT of work to do and one or both may never get there. Imagine this pool filled with heavenly water. You can't walk in there if you're still dirty and are going to contaminate it. You need to work on yourself, on your ego, on your purpose for this life, on mending your relationships with parents, siblings, whoever else you've got karma with and so on.
TF is reserved for when love can be unconditional from both ends.
Also, there are karmic connections which often turn into spouse relationships and take priority (i.e past karma of some sort to rectify), even though the depth of love with someone else is certainly not the same and once you meet your TF you also need to come to terms with that.
While the love for your TF is disarming, heavenly and one of a kind that penetrates every cell of your body and soul, it is also often unbearable and just too much if you aren't really prepared to take it in. It draws your attention away from everything else. Often we are not quite there in life... I was brave enough to open my heart to him (despite some objective difficulties and doubts and insecurities). He gave me all of himself for some unforgettable moments then totally pulled away with no explanation. Almost three weeks of no contact. Am I broken right now? Of course. I'm devastated and lost and scared that I may never really hear from him again in this life and I just wish time felt linear and that I didn't feel my eternal love for him weighing on me so deeply. But I do. It's on me to handle, accept and overcome... I hope this helps those who have found this message. Stay strong, and work on becoming a better version of yourself.
silence is a sign you must do the work, heal! I love you my dear.
whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️⏯+ (Two three four) nine one five five four five six one three eight ⏯⏯
I was told we can't continue talking. That was almost a year and a half ago. She is my twin flame. There is no doubt about it. When you're on a TF journey it's quite obvious, but it's difficult not to interpret it as her not wanting to be with me. To me, it's not about me being upset that she's not responding. I've been waiting for this woman my entire life. My soul has been anticipating this meeting and she shut it down within a few months and I have no way of knowing whether she'll reach out. I've just now finally learned to raise my love to the point where I can respect her decision and be comfortable in spirit, but it's been extremely emotionally grating.
its brutal
why did she say you can't talk?
you were told by who?
@@11Virgo11 I've been experiencing the twin flame phenomenon for 3 years now. I can say this. There is foul play afoot. The eyes of the matrix are on these connections and there is an active effort from bad actors in the spirit ream to keep twin flames separate and prevent them from coming into union. It's true that self love and coming into union with one self if more important, but twin flames are the recipient of dark occult attacks, and that could be part of the reason why it was so harsh for you. Twin flames don't want to admit that there is foul play at work, but I've been experiencing this long enough to where I can say for certain there is. I can't control what my twin flame does, so I leave it be, but don't assume it's all them.
Any progress?
Dear Pr.
I am following. This message and at peace. Thank you
I don't know why but your voice heals so many things inside me ❤
My "twin" just does not care about me. So I am ending my journey as I deserve much better.
They don’t. I pick another anything. That’s lame. What was the purpose
I understand. But if your really on it you can not end it. And it is not about it being worth.
Here is my detailed answer to that:
www.quora.com/How-do-I-stop-a-twin-flame-journey/answer/Pradnya-Pandit-1?ch=10&oid=346009258&share=18a0df0b&srid=mEBs&target_type=answer
This is gold, thank you dear !!
Absolutely TRUE! Great topic and beautifully put mam! ❤️❣️✨
Thank you! This is so clear and makes so much sense. I look forward to the introspection.🙌💗
I was able to sleep last night finally. I had just prayed last week for help with this journey and then your channel popped up. This is helpful beyond words. Thank you for doing this.
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Thank you so much, I needed this! ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for this video 🙏
Beautiful messages thank you so very much ❤️
I prayed to meet my twin for 10 years. The connection is unmistakable. Never felt this. Sad to say I regret it. When I’ve been ghosted before I cut them off and move on as I’m worth more than that kind of treatment. THIS is starting to feel like I’m accepting love bombing then ghosting….it feels like I’m accepting toxicity and that’s not empowering. I’ll settle for a soulmate at this point.
Thank you for this video...big hugs ❤
Thank you Pradnya, for being there for us. God bless you. 🌻
I’m so grateful for this msg. Just a different perspective on the journey and on silence.
This has come as an answer and at absolutely the right time . Thank you so much Pradnyaa ji.
I'm very new to all this but one of the things I learned is that ghosting is still communicating. Ghosting is saying I need space right now I know it's really hard but you just have to know they will reach out when they're ready. Be patient & and continue to work on yourself.
These videoes are great lessons for me and you give me so much peace to grow and take care of myself thank you helping all the questions we have on this journey❤
🙏❤️ awesome video!🙏 Thank you Pradnya
I love your videos. You explain everything about the journey so well. It’s very reassuring. Thank you
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Got blocked again, without a word. It's so painful, leaving you hanging in air. I doubt my sanity sometimes , whether it's true or only in my head. All signs fit but silence from the other side. Sometimes I get scared that I don't look like a psycho to the other person. Silent treatment, ghosting, blocking and then returning can drive you nuts.
Thank you so much for your words. I know how I should be responding to the silence. I am now empowered.
It was a blessing to come across your channel Pradnya, thank you for your sharing about TF. Im forever grateful to you. You are such a great heal and your sharing brings so much comfort.
When my twin flame was silent I would just talk to him through the silence inside my heart inside my soul.. I would just find a peaceful place and talk to him like he was there.. but inner talk when mind is calm
Thank you please keep making video..it helps me understand
I needed this; thank you. ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for this video!!
It actually helped me alot to understand his silence towards me.. thku❤️thkuuu soo much💕💕
Thank you for this video ...i really needed to understand it more about the silence...just today I found you and all the answers i needed it you are giving to me so thank you so much 💯👌🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥💞💞
Thank you 🙏
All of this resonates with my Journey.
I am so glad to share I am fully acceptant of her non reply. All of this, through Allowing gently guided me through and on out to the other side so many bubbling up emotions, perspectives, perceptions, doubts, fears and insecurities.
Accepting what Is 🙏
The growth and expansion further into myself provides for such a beautiful deep and rich connection with Trust and Faith. It is in this Space I feel the shift and connection with her / with myself.
Loving this experience that purges my inner soul allowing for my True Self to unfold fully ❤️
Be Well gentle Soul and keep shining ☀️
Hi Pradnya,
Loads of respect, extremely grateful for helping me in this journey, I am now much calmer in my own being.
Divine Grace shivshakti
Gratitude to Divine
Thank you so much! I am really glad I found you, Pradnyaa! Your videos help me a lot to let go and relief the pressure, that sometimes builds up along this journey!
Great explanation. Thank you so much. 🙏😊❤️❤️❤️
If I haven't found you one year ago, this twin flame journey may have become a hell ride for me. Thank God I got to see your videos and they helped me a lot as a guidance and I am really doing better otherwise I may end up questioning a lot of things in confusion and doubt. Thank you God thank you universe thank you my dear angels thank you my dear ancestors thank you my dear spirit guides thank you my twin soul for your love,support and guidance towards my life's purpose ❤️
THANK YOU KINDLY!!! your videos help me to tap into my own intuition, as a divine being more than any videos i’ve watched. your twinflame journey & process resonates deeply with me, as i’m almost at the peace phase, after our 7 mos. on & off relationship.
That's so great to hear Trudi! Keep up the good work!! 🥰
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa 🙏🏽🧡💙
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa i FINALLY aligned with soul & made it to inner peace. i feel like i was traumatized & killed 3x’s lol🤷🏽♀️but for this kind of peace, it was worth it.
I was just going through this thing and i saw your video in notification 🤯🥳Thank you ma'am ❤
Are you from odisha ?
Absolutely true. I feel every word you said. Infact, I already thought all this but you validated it and gave me comfort. Thank you 🙏
Yes he said that he don't want to hurt me at any cost but he is not in position to communicate properly and now it doesn't hurt me anymore thank you for your beautiful massage ❤
I really appreciate your videos.. they have helped me tremendously and I have been on this journey for 4 yrs now
Am glad it helped. ♥️
Pradnyaa Thank You!
I needed to hear this. 🙏🏻
Absolutely correct in my experience. It took me over one year to resolve my inner childhood wounds of abandonment, lack of self-worth and dependency. And, yes, a great peace became part of my continuing experience. Thank you. 💕😇
Ohhhhh I was the ONE THOUSANDTH LIKE !!! Talk about numbers and synchronousities !!
Best video I’ve seen on this
Had saved this video a while ago but only today was the day I really needed to hear it. I travelled to see my TF and after 1 day he decides to run off on me without explanation or later messages. Even though, I'm handling this situation much better, all those feelings of abandonment, rejection, shame, anger, confusion, disappointment ... are here again.
I am tired and I miss feeling loved and at peace. If I ever had it.
I could do with some hugs today, thank you for listening!
I have heard numerous incidences of runners running off at 11th hour with no communication.
I understand, we all have gone through it.Takeykur time to feel better and know that it is okay.
This happened, not because they don't care for you or don't love you. It happened because they (or you) are not yet ready to meet face to face. There is something which needs to be finished. It is all about the divine timing. Trust that. Trust the divine and your love for them. They will be back! 🥰
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa
10 hours and 53 mins to be precise 😅 thanks so much for sharing this, this helps. Thank you Pradnyaa 😘😘
Really a great video ..i need it too much,one of my favourite , intelligent nd sensitive tf teacher in you tube,blessing to you
Thank you so much for your warm words and love!! 💕
Such a nice information. Thank you so much pradnya ma'am❤
Wow, this is the first video on this channel I saw, and I was not expecting such quality. I feel like your words had impact in my soul and mind.
Not found my TF yet, but recently I read one book about twin flames and soulmates by Lala Agni «I just want you to Remember...». I was surprised how deep that book is. So much information, so many answers. I highly recommend you get one of those, I really think you will found it as interesting and helpful as I did
Thank you for the video!
😆 you were not expecting such quality - lol. Thank you for your feedback. Yes what I share comes from my own journey and the understanding I developed in last 30 years. I will surely look for the book you suggested. Thank you. ❤️
This come at the right moment. 🙏
Oh mam.. 😊
I don't know why I feel that you talking about me.. My thoughts.. My feelings.. Exactly my problem.. Thank you mam.. ..
Thank you universe.. I got my Mentor.. ❤❤❤
I can relate
Thank you so much
Thank you so much..!!!🙏🏻
I love your content Pradnyaa❤❤. I hope so many more find your content. It is so helpful. Everything you say speaks to me😢❤❤. I feel a sense of peace knowing that I can have some control over my situation. Thank you for your videos 🧘🏽♀️🧘🏽♀️❤❤❤
Thank you so much Terry for your love and support!! 🥰🥰
Thank you for sharing...it helps me a lot💟💟💟💟💟
We are same gender TF. Now I start accepting and its okay if she doesn't reply. She reads or listens my voice message whenever I send it. From today I follow your guidance. From today i start thinking from my TF side. Now we are in separation and getting silent treatment from my TF. Everything resonates. It really helps me a lot. Sometimes she reads my message after 2-3days when she gets angry.
Thank you I wish I found this yrs ago... I kind got used to the silance now
What makes you seek on this path?
If you truly got used to the Silence - then what is it that draws you here? Point to think about! 🙃💫
💜my Fav Topic for 2 years ☺️☺️
Thank you! This video popped up, when I most needed it.
He's been ghosting and blocking me for 4 months now - and I have tried hard to find out, what exactly inner work is.
I suffer rejection and taking things personally and sliten and patenting and jealous and I flushed them out and I note these are gravely flushing out from his behavior too this connection is powerful since I met my twin and spiritual I have change a hole lot people and my relatives see it and feeling lighter meditating alot thank u miss great massage you give us all twins happy new year to you and your twin 🧘♂️🧘♀️🤗🙏🙏👍
Thank you
I am in the state of understanding and peace 🥰
Thank you ❤️.
Thank you so much- I need to not take things so personally. He has told me when things are going on with him it is never because of me…. It’s other stuff…..I need to believe
Thank you 🙏❤🌸
No words but👏👏👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you ❤
But people, don't hold your breath waiting. Keep working on you.
Thank you Pradnyaa. I no longer feel rejected when my twin flame ghosts me. He has suppressed anger issues, he is passive aggressive. I now just use this space to work more with the rays of creation, on unconditional love and also on withdrawing attachments. We are destined to be together.
So relatable...listening to you is such a comfort that it is not only me who faces such situations and emotions...I am realising the ascention journey...have come so much ahead from where i was two years back..but still a long way to go and journey of introspection is continued..Whenever i feel stucked your videos come..😄😄😄 really these are a gr8 help for me...thanku pradnyaa for everything
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whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️⏯+ (Two three four) nine one five five four five six one three eight ⏯⏯
Some people don't reply simply because they only think about themselves and about how they feel. We should ask ourselves, would I do that ? Would I not bother to respond to another human being that I had an acquaintance with ? I find it completely rude to not respond to an email or text at some point. Everyone deserves a response. We all are humans with feelings. If someone repeatedly pulls that on us, then they are not worth our time. Twin flame or not. This type of rudeness and silence might be a powerful trigger, but for me, it is a trigger to work on myself, to value myself, and find happiness elsewhere. I chose to walk away from anyone who deliberately causes me pain, as it should be clear to anyone how not responding to someone's email or message could make them feel. Why should we accept it ?
I understand what you feel. However I have some points to make.
[Some people only think about themselves and about how they feel.]--------------
Probably this is what your twin flame is also thinking?
Many time when we start putting all the blame on the other - we too may be only thinking from OUR perspective and failing to understand theirs. Which makes us conclude quickly - that they dont care and are wrong in their behavior.
[We should ask ourselves, would I do that ? ]----
You probably would not! But they are not you - in the sense they have a different personality, different childhood experiences, belief systems, patterns and conditioning. So they can react completely differently than how you would. ( This is what I mean when I say - we too are thinking only from our own perspective.)
[Would I not bother to respond to another human being that I had an acquaintance with ?]----------
Yes, but if at all the other person is still choosing not to respond we need to go BEYOND our general conclusions and look into WHY they are choosing not to reply? Don't you think that will give you more insights about them and their issues?
[I find it completely rude to not respond to an email or text at some point. Everyone deserves a response. We all are humans with feelings.]-------
Thats our ego talking. And well, nothing wrong about it.
Big question is - are you also able to listen to your soul? and what it is telling you?
Or your ego has successfully overpowered it?
[ If someone repeatedly pulls that on us, then they are not worth our time. Twin flame or not. ]-------
Absolutely. There is no need to carry on only because you feel this person is your twin flame. You can raw your own boundaries if things are becoming impossible to handle.
But again, we always need to be in the introspective zone - what is triggering us and why.
[This type of rudeness and silence might be a powerful trigger, but for me, it is a trigger to work on myself, to value myself, and find happiness elsewhere].-------------]
Spot on!
Only thing happiness is not in your twin flame or elsewhere. It is WITHIN you. We take several lives to understand that unfortunately. This journey is about understanding that.
[I chose to walk away from anyone who deliberately causes me pain,]-------
I am sure this pain is not deliberate, they have no clue what you feel and they don't intend to hurt you in any way.
[as it should be clear to anyone how not responding to someone's email or message could make them feel. Why should we accept it ?]---------
Do not accept if that puts you in peace.
But if you holding resentment or hurt for that person then there is surely something for you to look into.
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa I am very grateful for your detailed reply Pradnyaa. For the time and effort you put into it. Your kindness made me cry actually. And also a feeling of a connection with you.
I did not want a twin flame at all. Did not want him to happen. Btw he is my therapist, an osteopath, and a very good one, which complicates the situation immensely. I myself would cut all communication if not for the therapy I need.
One look into his eyes, the first therapy session, the connection happened which awakened me on a grand scale. Everything started to happen at once. All my potentials heightened, I invented a new teaching method, I published a new book, I started to discover parts of myself I did not even know existed ...... and the list is quite long.
Regarding hurting me deliberately, I had 2 conversations about that with him. I actually told him very openly how I feel about that. Both times he said " You are right". However he continued doing it. The second time he did it was after I sent him an email with the information he asked me to give. So yes, he was fully aware how it will make me feel. He even said "I knew you will be angry with me". He did it anyway.
And I told him about how I feel because my tendency is to actually go over it, if he doesn't know any better, or can't do any better at the moment. Then I think how I should be able to set some boundaries, and not let him do this to me again. It simply doesn't feel right and doesn't make me feel good about myself. In all this I am also a patient, and much more vulnerable than he is. I told him that too.
Then, he sent me a friendship request on Facebook, which I very much regret accepting. Because he absolutely NEVER acknowledges my posts, never contacts me, and never even likes any of my posts, which I know he reads. So what was the point of sending me that request ? To spy on me ? To have one more platform where he can show me how much I am insignificant to him ? Is he trying to convince myself or himself I wonder ? I never contacted him on FB though. I sent him only 3 emails in 4 months, one quite official, as a patient to a doctor, which I now also regret sending.
After all this, I feel like running away, and I would if not for the therapy. I felt like blocking him everywhere, and stop my therapy all together. But sice I need the therapy I am forced to see him every week. So how to set boundaries when I have to be in his presence every week ?
Something that was a pure bliss when it started, became a nightmare. I have a special condition and that therapy is something that does help and does make me feel much better physically. But after all that happened, I cannot go back and relate to him as I would to any other therapist. I started to feel very tense, very uncomfortable, and very uneasy, which I am afraid will make the therapy much less effective, if not even impossible. The problem is, there are no other therapists like him in my city.
I do love him though, I do understand that this all is so very confusing for him, that he fights with his emotions, and social programming, and with what he believes are my expectations (although I told him many times that I do not have any), and I see that he is unable to handle the complexity of the situation. I feel great compassion for him too. And grateful for all that was triggered by him. But at the same time, I feel completely overwhelmed. I am confused too and trying to understand what is the right thing to do to benefit us both.
I know it all sounds very confusing, but it is because I am. We both are.
@@Xenia-E-Zilli
[I did not want a twin flame at all. ] ----- No one did! 🙃
[ Btw he is my therapist] ---- I see many people in this setup where their twin is their therapist. I am sure there is a reason why certain pairs have chosen this setting .
This involves a peculiar challenge - where you and even your twin are somewhat supposed to (forced by the nature of the relationship) to remain "formal" and maintain that decorum.
[ he said " You are right". However he continued doing it.]-----
What you need to understand here is - there are two parts of him.
His soul (his true self) and his physical personality. (which needs to carry the official duties of being your therapist.) He has this core challenge in front of him what to stick to!
He understands what you say, but his physcial personality/ego mind is also pushing him to stick to ONLY the official part of his work.
You you look deeper, there is a huge struggle he may be going through. To refrain himself from getting into his heart's calling. Because his ego always calls him back!
Can you see it? If you can - you won't be upset with him, in fact you will hold a huge empathy.
[He even said "I knew you will be angry with me". He did it anyway. ]---- same reason as above.
[ I think how I should be able to set some boundaries, and not let him do this to me again. It simply doesn't feel right and doesn't make me feel good about myself. In all this I am also a patient, and much more vulnerable than he is.]---------------------
He is not "doing" anything here, and surely not to hurt you. He is merely trying to deal with his own situation - the struggle between his duty and feeling. Struggle between what is right and wrong. And it is equally confusing and painful for him as well, and well he will try his best to NOT to show his vulnerable side to you.
All he (his higher self) is showing you WHAT you need to work on!
1. how to set your boundary
2. How to not get effected but outer unfolding and stay in your own balance.
3. Learning about patience.
4. Learning about acceptance.
[ he sent me a friendship request on Facebook,] --- that is a great positive sign. Acknowledge it with utmost gratitude.
[he absolutely NEVER acknowledges my posts, never contacts me, and never even likes any of my posts]------ thats expectation. It doesnt matter what activity he does or doesnt. Is that so so important?
What is important is - he feels like being connected to you and see what you are upto - that indicates he feels that connection too. and wants to be connected in some way.
ACCEPT THAT.
He too needs time to process what is happening.
My TF added me on FB and did not post anything on my profile EVER!!! (Except 1 or 2 comments.) But I was delighted to have him on my friends list and to know that he is reading my posts!
I think it is just about your perspective!
[To spy on me ? To have one more platform where he can show me how much I am insignificant to him ?]----
I sated the reasons of his connecting with you above. All this chatter which is coming to you is coming from your ego mind who is insecure, fearful and judgmental.
I feel like running away / I felt like blocking him everywhere ------ find out your triggers. mostly related to expectations and empathy. Start being mindful about your ego mind. Understand whats coming from your soul.
[I am forced to see him every week]---
thats divine's way to put you on your lessons. 😁
[So how to set boundaries when I have to be in his presence every week ?] ----
Change your perspective. Change the way you look at him. For sometime get into his shoes and look into the whole thing. Replace anger and resentment with empathy and love and set no expectation, go with the flow. trust the process.
wow...too much I have written.
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You can write to me, however I can't promise an immediate reply due to a lot of things/ emails/ sessions taking place.
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Thank you for reading, understanding and replying. Means the world to me. I sent you an email with more details. Sending the most heartfelt love to you. 💜
@@Xenia-E-Zilli I personally feel you have to get to a place of peace within yourself. This journey is about finding and loving ourselves. I also feel we have to love them unconditionally and let them go. They do Always come back on e you do this. Good Luck on you're journey 🙏🙌❤
omg this is so dead on!!
That's the sad part of the twin flame journey. Silence from the other self. I don't wait for no one. If a soul mate comes along and I am happy with them we will have to catch up in the next life.
Silence teaches you many things. As they say - "When silence between two people is comfortable, you have found love."
Yes you can certainly find a soulmate and flow with the natural flow of life. But you can also release the dis-satisfaction about this silence. Its there for a reason. :-)
When my twin goes silent I look back and see that it the same way I behave every thing of him is me so I work on it
this type of connection is exhausting.
It is!
The bottom line is - it has the capacity to transform you on the soul level - the core purpose of human life.
My twin flame tells me to slow down. So I am slowing down. I keep myself busy and let him do his own thing.
All true it happened in my twin flame journey I am the chaser but I let go slow down let go of the egeo mind
Thank you pradanya ji, it was needed badly. God gave me at right time. 💗
I just call him my human journal. I accepted his silence. Last time we spoke it turn into argument ( almost 2yrs ago) so im not really surprised he is not responding. He even admitted he can be very difficult. Saying he is not good at staying in contact even on good yrs.
These days I am satisfied with just the fact he is listening/reading. He told me in the beginning of our journey " if u need someone to just listen, i can lend u my ear." And pretty much he has done that thus far. That helps me respond and not react.
Thank you soul sister
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Suddenly he is not replying me since two days after so loving Convo of a month.. and this video auto played after some video I had played..
Yes, I had been into this situation innumerable times but used to get info same loop.. this time yeah, need to understand this within me..
Thank you so much..❤
Sometimes I wish i never see my twin flame on my entire life. I don’t want to see him in this lifetime, and now I feel complete inside me 😌 .
i recently rethink my big reactions towards his not replying msg and actually he had explained himself saying he read but forgot to reply but then in reality when i talk to him or ask him question he would have replied me.
didi, I msged , I got inspired him--- Abhi so rahi thi and aapki baat yaad kar rahi thi ...jo jo pyar tha mere partner ke liye maine sab type kardiya without expecting any reply-- And you know what such a relief it is !!! I am only feeling love for him and our connection.
I am in gratitude , If he wouldn't hurted me how would I have find my love (krishna ji and shiv ji❤️)...The spritual journey might be seen painful in starting bcoz life get little hissle vissle. But trust me it is the most precious gift 🥺🥺.. I am getting into solitude state , earlier I used to scared of being alone🥺....It is bliss.
and yes After sending him my love msg-- I didn't got reply and doesn't make me sad. It is the most beautiful feeling❤️
Thank you so much , we all need your guidance ❤️
I too feel on somedays that my life would have been much better if I had not met my twin....but on some days I feel I am lucky. We all have problems...my twin wont text back but when we see he goes on talking as if nothing happened...one day I got really irritated and I stopped talking to him.we still aee sometimes but we are not talking...its been over two months like this....he tried to talk to me energetically but I cut the chord with him and I from time ro time claim all my energy and power back...returning him in the same coin...but I am in a very happy place now, minding my own business, really working on myself...got my rhird eye activated and so on....so I think its better to just forget about them, at least stop the obsessive thinking, work on yourself and go on with your life...if they come back give them a piece of your mind and either take them in or not depending on how you are feeling at that time is the best advice for all the twins...just mind your own business and be happy
My twin is silent bt I trust my love bz I know how much affected in my innerchild I love. My self
My twin is ignoring me, I know he loves me but I sometimes feel he's not interested at all. He is just saying he is hurt, he wants to meet me in person and talk about it, but he ain't even meeting. This video just popped up just when I needed.
Yoooh This is super exhausting, I wish it was easy to just forget about him. I've tried and failed, I just can't get him off my mind.
1.1 likes! Namaste 🙌
i feel like your videos showed up in my life, at just the right time, as his xwife just came back, a few days ago, after almost a year of rejecting him. he was my good friend/brother, before we became aware of our deep soul connection. he doesn’t ascribe to soulmates, twinflames, astrology persay, but he does know, we have a deep soul tie.
It's okay if they don't believe in things you believe in. They have their own routes to come to the same destination!!
There is surely a reason why she came back now - either some soul lesson to be learned or some karmic clearance remaining. It's okay, she's playing her role and that is important in your journey.
My only question is, if they ghosted you and continue ghosting you... aren’t they sending a signal that they do not wish to communicate with you? Everything you said makes total sense, but at the same time, out of self-respect, when do we draw the line and close the door on “chasing” a person who makes very little to no effort in return? Clearly they are not a vibrational match then. Did your TF ever initiate contact with you after that, or were you always the first one to reach out?
Btw, this video was made in the same month I was ghosted last year!
Then again, I am also thinking about reaching out to this person again, for the first time since last August, but I have no idea what I would even say considering they ghosted me last year. It feels awkward now and as though I am forcing them to be in my life. Thoughts?? :) Thank you Pradnyaa!
I agree with you a lot. as much as I like the concept of twinflames sometimes i wonder if its really just emotinally unavilable men with avoidant attachement issues. I waited for my twinflame 4 years. only to get rejected over and over. With hurtful words everytime. i have grown so much on this yourney, and I am still doing my inner work. But i am not gonna wait for a man for such long time ever again. I still Hope we get together, but i am.not accepting his bad and immature behaviour anymore. I have come this far, and I am finally in a state where i know i am.not gonna contact him anymore unless HE starts Contacting me. Moving Mountains for someone who is investing so little in you, is not healthy . Until ( or IF it ever happens) he is ready to give me the investment i deserve, then there is no contact
@@Kraniosakral I could write this comment my self ! I have exactly the same thoughts and the same experience. 😏
Overall ye h ki shiv parvati ko tapasya may zhok kr hi manange!
To parvati tapsaya se darti nhi,vo to tapasya ka sarvoccha udharan h.
Hm devi ko sakshi mankar ghor tapasya krenge...mgr apne shiv se prem krna kbhi nahi chodenge🙏🙏
I got extremely pissed because we had been in no contact for months and when I let go in September and focused on me he came back right before my birthday I told you that so he asked for a do over and to go slow this time which I felt Was strange because he was the one who was jumping in head first then after agreeing he said he would call me the next day and nothing but silence for two days I was triggered and went off and he walked away again and this time i said forget this im done. As far as I knew it was no one else at this time but I'm not sure because now i think it is because of things that he has said. So I pulled back my energy and keep seeing his name or things about him and when I get triggered i call him out on social media because I know watches me. I'm getting to the point where I hate him for everything he's done and what he's doing and I know he's with another woman because of the things he has said and what I feel.
My emotional turmoil from my TF’s silence came from my own trauma due to fear of abandonment. Makes so much sense now… I still feel like I should write to him but I can’t because my inner work is still not complete.
@Rina Rosalia
I’m in the completely same situation, right now.
The same thing happened to me.
My current situation and every time I write I get left on read 🥲😭