I've been having terrible prostate problems and I hope that massage and milking will help with my issues. I have a urologist and have verified that I don't have cancer. Thanks for your candid discussions.
Ahhh, Lava Lee gets her/his moment! I love how Gabriel sits and grins as he asks questions we know darn well he already knows the answer to. Love watching you both, so upbeat, informative, and kind, especially to each other! I enjoy the no-drama zone!
I have had BPH for 25 years (from a young age) but don't have cancer and my urologist said the best thing I can do is to have an orgasm and it didn't matter if I took things into my own hands to do it. He had me go to PT at the practice for a long time and they taught me pelvic floor exercises that have helped.
@@mrock828 if u think the original comment that I replied to isn't inappropriate you are indeed the problem. Are u aware of what a "demonstration" would look like ?
Great Presentation. As a physician myself, I try to teach this to some of my patients. Nice to see it here! Next time, I would recommend a visual aid,,,not sexual. Some of my patients don’t understand how to locate the prostate. Overall awesome job guys.
I'm heading over to your other videos to find milking the prostate. I've been dying to try it. I haven't been able to find a video to actually show how to do it. Even medically, I think there should be a video of how to milk the prostate. I appreciate this video. Just my 1 cent.
Young Gents (dr, D, and lava lee); Todays topic is actualy timely, I have been wondering about if my prostate is good (Healthy). Yes Ignited have a primary, and can discuss most things, but that you bring it up is just for me most auspicious. (note 63 here) Thank you for what you gents do Glenn
I don't know if I should mention this, I read an article several years ago that Gay Men as a whole have far lower rates of prostate cancer than their so called straight guys do. I will believe that because most gay men are receiving some type of prostate massage. I believe I read this article in "Men's Health". Please don't quote me on this it was a men's magazine. I would still like for you to cover the topic of PSA levels for the prostate. Prostate massage also helps with this, I believe I am correct. I know that TRT is also a huge help as that boost your sex drive as well. An active prostate is a healthy prostate.
The article is correct, except It's not gay men with healthy prostates. It's men who have sex with men who have healthy prostates. I truly believe men with prostate problems aren't having any sex, stimulation, and/or aren't beating off enough (due to insecurity or embarrassment of beating their dicks as often as necessary). With the category of men who have sex with men growing, I predict in 20 years, as many men won't have prostate problems.
I learned that a non-vibrating toy with a strong curve, and long enough to play around with angles and rhythms is much more effective than a vibrating toy or just a finger regarding internal stimulation for me personally. I got a motorized and angled wriggling toy that mimicked the thumb (was just longer and thicker than the average thumb) and it had optional vibrational and heat function. It worked great for a few days and then sadly ended up breaking🥲🥲… So I came across a video on YT that suggested a steel, curved G/P-Spot stimulator wand that has two different sized ball ends for smooth and gentle running over the delicate surface of the prostate. I’m super excited to try it out!
A demonstration of techniques using a model of some sort at least for the external massage. I’ve never felt like I had done any good with external massage.
I love your channel, it is one of my very favorites. I love watching how you treat each other with such respect. I love knowing you are a couple. And I love how you talk so frankly and at ease about everything. I do this with all my gay male friends, and am always surprised when I hear that some people don’t. I always say “we’re all guys, nothing is off the table”.
This would've been a great skit on the old TV show from the '90s called "In Living Color" with their "Men on...." series. Blain Edwards and Antwan Merriweather would've had a blast with this one!
I am watching this from England and finding it very informative and helpful; thanks for telling me things about my own body that I did not know fully. Pity I had to wait until later in life to learn these things!
I love your videos, and this one really hit home. I was in my 20s when I came out and had my first gay experience. I had those “puppy love” moments heterosexually, and lived a straight lifestyle. I grew up assuming that straight was normal, and suppressed any feelings I had. Not sure I even understood the concept of gay at the time. In fact I was engaged twice in my late teens - early 20s. I abstained sexually “saving myself for marriage”. When I finally accepted myself and embraced my true self I realized in retrospect that I really knew as early as maybe 4th-5th grade. I feel in some ways I missed out on many years of experience, but I can’t help but wonder if it also protected me from certain heartache and negative bullying. After coming out, I spent several years dating before meeting my partner, whom I’ve been with for 10 years. I couldn’t be happier. Thank you both for your videos.
Going through a bladder cancer treatment protocol leaves me experiencing post-treatment irritation for typically three days. The passage of catheters through the prostatic urethra is particularly irritating. This presentation has left me wondering if prostatic stimulation will ease, or only aggravate the irritation.
I'm amazed that people can't find it. Once something is up there, you're likely to accidentally stimulate it lightly. And once that happens to me, it lets me know very clearly where it is and that it wants to be stimulated more.
I agree. But, despite trying with fingers, toys, and third-party assistance (cough, cough :)), no luck. Either I missed it or it's hiding. I am a bottom, which feels awesome, and feels that way for every foot inserted; maybe mine just hides until a prefered visitor arrives?
Thank you for the professional education on the matter, it's a much requested topic that you don't often get to speak about with health professionals. Or you might resort to reddit, which can have good info, but sometimes it's hard to differentiate. I'm actually trying for an anal orgasm through prostate stimulation (without success thus far) so thank you for shedding some light on the topic and if you have more tips, please share them! :)
You'll get there. Just let yourself go when you're alone. Relax your prostate like when you're about to piss. Lube your index and middle fingers and continue with an in out motion all while you're stroking. You're gonna shoot to the ceiling. 💪🏽
Love this video. I bought a prostate massager. It’s remote control. I only used it a few times. My question is how many times a week should you do the massage? I don’t want to be a looseygoosey back there.
Loved your matter-of-fact presentation. However, I do think a closeup medical illustration of the areas involved would be of the greatest help ...especially for beginners. What's more, such a chart would allow you to more fully demonstrate things like the location of the perineum/taint, most comfortable and effective position/direction of the hand and toy or fingers to achieve the best results, for both partners. You might even throw in some suggestions on what the masseur might do with their free hand. Even at 80 years of age I haven't forgotten such beautiful intimacies of my youth. So, yes, do it ...but do it right. Pay close, loving attention to the "massagee", so the experience is less stressful and more enjoyable for both parttners! Please keep up these good, education-as-entertainment shows! Love you guys and hope you have a long, loving, happy, and successful future together! ❤👨🏼🎓👆🏼
I’m not a nut consumer so have no clue what walnut size means. Anatomical models are available for our bits and pieces so I’m wondering if they exist for the prostate. If not, can a modeling clay replica be created for your presentations?
Keep in mind they are referring to whole walnuts, shell included. If you're in a typical grocery store, you would likely only find walnut halves or crushed with no shell. Better is go to a health food store, the bulk section, and they should have whole walnuts. But basically, a bit smaller than a golf ball. Good luck!
@@JJ-in3bc - Yes I do! I’m too fond of maraschino cherries in syrup for my own good but indulge occasionally. I hand feed chickadees and nuthatches so I buy raw, unsalted sunflower seeds and the birds love them. They land on my index fingers and eat from a prescription vial. If the vial is occupied, they sit on my hat and wait their turn! Having wild birds trust me like that is heartwarming.
Does having a TURP procedure mean that this cannot be done anymore, and if it can, how long after the procedure should I wait before trying it out. In fact, how does one get intensity back after a TURP or is it lost forever?
speaking from experience. i've had two turps..... so no ejaculation..... but the pleasure is still there. maybe the best answer though, is to talk with your urologist.
I'm still a little unsure of where the prostate is. if I'm lying on my back insert finger/toy, is the prostate up (toward the ceiling) or down (toward the floor)? thanks
If you were on your back, towards ceiling. The prostate is sort of just inside, underneath your perineum (section between anus and testes) It does help if you relax, and explore. First couple of times, it felt OK, but the main thing was increased semem when I ejaculated. After that, the prostate stimulation, itself, felt amazing. Hope this helps.
Hello Dr. Tyler, I am a 62-year-old gay man with a long-term relationship of 21 years. I can't ask all that I wish to because it is far from private or safe in the universe of CZcams commentary! But I would like to know if you have a recommendation for therapeutic healing for someone who has had trauma and fear around sexuality. Any suggestions or thoughts would be so very much appreciated. Thank you!
When I was a teenager, I used my lubricated fingers, but I wanted something firmer, so I used a broom handle. Big mistake. I don’t recommend it. Then I used a few carrots 🥕 and my mom was wondering why her produce was vanishing. Taking one’s sexy time with a thoroughly lubricated sex toy designed for this purpose is definitely the way to go.
Penso que estes vídeos são benéficos por uma série de razões: libertam a informação sexual da vergonha e do estigma, melhoram a intimidade sexual pessoal e interpessoal, melhoram a saúde e as competências sexuais... muito grato 🙏🏽
You two have referred to Lava Lee using both female and male pronouns. I am sure Lava has a plug, but I am unsure of Lava’s preferred pronouns. Please advise!
❤❤❤❤ Live watching your episodes. As a gay man, 70, I haven't had an orgasm nor sexual.play in the last three years with my partner of 23 years. Will this be the reason for an enlarged prostate or is it the result of having an enlarged prostate?
You said something in this video that prompted a question. But it’s behavioral rather than physiological. You said that body language would indicate whether a partner was into stimulation. I am a silent all the time partner. Comments, fantasy expressions, etc., make me lose my interest, and subsequently, my erection. It’s woeful that my partner requires sex talk to stay into it. When I say require, that cannot be minimized. I have tried compromising to let him talk until I’m losing it, but then he loses it. Unfortunately, we no longer have penetrative sex, and we’re bummed. We’ve been together for 22 years, our sexual requirements got more and more divergent, and now we don’t have intercourse, which I consider the primary and best part of sex. Any suggestions?
as someone who shares the same kind of preference your partner does, i’ve never understood your type. having sex in complete silence feels so passionless and unengaging. i’ve been with a couple people that are just completely quiet the whole time and i’ve tried overlooking the silence but it would never work cause their silence always makes me think they’re not into it which turns me off immediately. and trust me i tried so hard to just get over it cause they were hot and i rlly wanted to enjoy the sex but i just couldn’t. why do you require silence to stay turned on? genuine question.
@@Nate-ht4se Hi guy, I wasn’t entirely clear in my post. I frequently make utterances, moans, grunts, etc., during sex. My difficulty is with sex talk. It distracts me as I find it beside the point, empty, ridiculous. Show me. Don’t tell me. Ironically, my partner hates non-verbal noises. Once again, he loses interest. We can’t find a way to meet in the middle. Trying to accept the other’s preferences or trying to refrain from talk/noise has proven to be disappointing. We can’t refrain as it’s primal behavior. That’s why I posted. My husband is my perfect match in most every other way. But we haven’t had sex, even mutual masturbation, in six years. That’s a good enough reason to write to the doctor. Finally, I have no trauma or former sex partner who set a template for my irritation with sex talk. As you can see from how I write too much, I am very verbal. But telling me I’m hot or my hole is tight is the fastest way to disinterest, aborting. I wish I could be like you because you represent the majority.
I’m a bit nervous to try this 😅 I’m a bisexual man and im comfortable with my sexuality and exploring my body. But as a top, I’m not used to contact from there. I’ve also tried to be penetrated down there and I couldn’t stand the feeling so it didn’t go very far. Any advice?
Is it ok to massage the prostate without releasing/orgasm? Wouldn’t that promote inflammation by increasing fluid in the prostate without draining the fluid?
Wow, Maybe I wouldn't have BPH if I had done this. Thanks for the tip. I have already had PAE 2 times first with BEADS and then with Japanese GLUE. These two procedures did not help. My question is should I do this even though I have BPH? It is 95 CCs. I don't mind talking about it because it is aggravating, and I don't want the Green Lazer treatment or anything that destroys that Gland. I am also allergic to Alpha blockers and they have made things worse as I have been taking them for over 4 years maybe more. I have tried them all blistering of the skin and a scary situation and is Right where you don't want it. Sorry Guys. But I need your help. Dr. Doesn't say much at this point.
My man had a very enlarged prostrate and would make 7 to 8 trips a night to pee. His doctor recommended TURP. I was there and yelled "NO!". We have an amazing sex life, and I didn't want it f'd up. Instead, he had a procedure called Rezum. He said it wasn't bad at all. We were back to having sex in a few days. He now sleeps very well, usually with only 1 wake up to pee. Do not use TURP. It can ruin you sex life.
I had my Prostate burned out because of prostate cancer. I am cured. But I am not allowed to have anything that will produce testosterone. It's frustrating. Tried Viagra but not very satisfying, erections, NOT! Don't want implants. What's man to do?
I did in fact not search this video, this video found me
@@SpaghettiDog86. ITS A SIGN YOU NEED A FINGER IN YOUR BUTT
😂😂😂
it knew your prostate was wanting rubbing
Same, but I'm not surprised.
Right after I whipped one out 😂😂😂 Siri nosey ass
why does it feel like they touched each other's bodies after the video
Oh I hope so
well i mean they are in a relationship…so
I wanted to see them demo this on each other so I do it right!!!
@@tomiharv5923- I had been thinking they might be ‘paired’! Thanks for confirming my suspicions.
@@mrock828- Ahem! This is oh-so-vanilla YT!
I've been having terrible prostate problems and I hope that massage and milking will help with my issues. I have a urologist and have verified that I don't have cancer. Thanks for your candid discussions.
LOL…….iam sorry bro….
Ahhh, Lava Lee gets her/his moment!
I love how Gabriel sits and grins as he asks questions we know darn well he already knows the answer to. Love watching you both, so upbeat, informative, and kind, especially to each other! I enjoy the no-drama zone!
Correct pronouns only, please ...Lava Lee prefers "Them" & "Their", thank you!😉
Gabriel grin cracks me up
He’s probably semi hard; that’s why his palms pressed on it
I have had BPH for 25 years (from a young age) but don't have cancer and my urologist said the best thing I can do is to have an orgasm and it didn't matter if I took things into my own hands to do it. He had me go to PT at the practice for a long time and they taught me pelvic floor exercises that have helped.
I think the hot doctor needs to deemonstrate locating the prostate on Gabriel.
Inappropriate
@@Pjfonvisybau
@@Pjfonvi it's medical, how is it inappropriate!
@@mrock828 if u think the original comment that I replied to isn't inappropriate you are indeed the problem. Are u aware of what a "demonstration" would look like ?
@@Pjfonvi I do! That's why I want to see one! Are you offering to show me? 😉
I’ve never seen 2 guys smile so much, absolutely ❤️❤️❤️❤️them, very contagious 😁
You would be smiling like that too if they just rubbed your prostate
Probably smiling because they just got their prostate massaged
they live what they preach lol
thank you for being informative in a frank, neutral way.
Great Presentation. As a physician myself, I try to teach this to some of my patients. Nice to see it here! Next time, I would recommend a visual aid,,,not sexual. Some of my patients don’t understand how to locate the prostate. Overall awesome job guys.
@medguy3232 I SO wish you were MY physician!! 😊😘🤗
Definitely a visual diagram would have helped
I SCREAM WHEN I HAVE MY PROSTATE IS RUBBED! FEELS INCREDIBLE
Definitely
Okay
@@xavierminchello8431 Rubbed?
You scream? Are you a ladyboy?
Omg?
I'm heading over to your other videos to find milking the prostate. I've been dying to try it. I haven't been able to find a video to actually show how to do it. Even medically, I think there should be a video of how to milk the prostate. I appreciate this video. Just my 1 cent.
Young Gents (dr, D, and lava lee);
Todays topic is actualy timely,
I have been wondering about if my
prostate is good (Healthy). Yes Ignited
have a primary, and can discuss most
things, but that you bring it up is just for
me most auspicious. (note 63 here)
Thank you for what you gents do
Glenn
So ask and talk to your md
Darn...I was hoping for a visual presentation..... 🤪
Me too!!😊
Ask VP candidate jd Vance if that is appropriate. Lol
you know where to find that and it’s not on youtube.
Would’ve saved us so much time.
@@jamesbrodhagen5020 why would Vance care what you do in private? Beware the propaganda dude.
I don't know if I should mention this, I read an article several years ago that Gay Men as a whole have far lower rates of prostate cancer than their so called straight guys do. I will believe that because most gay men are receiving some type of prostate massage. I believe I read this article in "Men's Health". Please don't quote me on this it was a men's magazine.
I would still like for you to cover the topic of PSA levels for the prostate. Prostate massage also helps with this, I believe I am correct. I know that TRT is also a huge help as that boost your sex drive as well. An active prostate is a healthy prostate.
The article is correct, except It's not gay men with healthy prostates. It's men who have sex with men who have healthy prostates. I truly believe men with prostate problems aren't having any sex, stimulation, and/or aren't beating off enough (due to insecurity or embarrassment of beating their dicks as often as necessary).
With the category of men who have sex with men growing, I predict in 20 years, as many men won't have prostate problems.
I learned that a non-vibrating toy with a strong curve, and long enough to play around with angles and rhythms is much more effective than a vibrating toy or just a finger regarding internal stimulation for me personally.
I got a motorized and angled wriggling toy that mimicked the thumb (was just longer and thicker than the average thumb) and it had optional vibrational and heat function. It worked great for a few days and then sadly ended up breaking🥲🥲…
So I came across a video on YT that suggested a steel, curved G/P-Spot stimulator wand that has two different sized ball ends for smooth and gentle running over the delicate surface of the prostate. I’m super excited to try it out!
My God, these two afre really well built which makes you want to watch this all the way to the end!
5:48 fun fact: pressing on this area during and after orgasm will allow you to reset and be ready for another round more quickly. The more you know 🌈
A demonstration of techniques using a model of some sort at least for the external massage. I’ve never felt like I had done any good with external massage.
I could show you how, I do it on myself really good all the time 😉
I love your channel, it is one of my very favorites. I love watching how you treat each other with such respect. I love knowing you are a couple. And I love how you talk so frankly and at ease about everything. I do this with all my gay male friends, and am always surprised when I hear that some people don’t. I always say “we’re all guys, nothing is off the table”.
I'm so glad you guys talk about this stuff!!!!! Keep doing it! It needs to get out there.
You guys should demonstrate what you talk about.
Not good video only too much blah blah blah! Can you talk to the main topic and demonstrate how to massage prostate?
This would've been a great skit on the old TV show from the '90s called "In Living Color" with their "Men on...." series. Blain Edwards and Antwan Merriweather would've had a blast with this one!
I am watching this from England and finding it very informative and helpful; thanks for telling me things about my own body that I did not know fully. Pity I had to wait until later in life to learn these things!
Thank you both for normalizing, something that is unnecessarily made taboo!
What a great, informative show! ☺️
Gabrlel is dreamy!!
can the guy who tried to top me tonight watch this please before he ruins someone else's night
Do you not like being topped? Or did he drill too hard?
@@mrock828 He mis-drilled.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love your videos, and this one really hit home. I was in my 20s when I came out and had my first gay experience. I had those “puppy love” moments heterosexually, and lived a straight lifestyle. I grew up assuming that straight was normal, and suppressed any feelings I had. Not sure I even understood the concept of gay at the time. In fact I was engaged twice in my late teens - early 20s. I abstained sexually “saving myself for marriage”. When I finally accepted myself and embraced my true self I realized in retrospect that I really knew as early as maybe 4th-5th grade. I feel in some ways I missed out on many years of experience, but I can’t help but wonder if it also protected me from certain heartache and negative bullying. After coming out, I spent several years dating before meeting my partner, whom I’ve been with for 10 years. I couldn’t be happier. Thank you both for your videos.
Haha, guess I typed so much my comment went to the next video. In response to: Young, Gay and Learning Love Late
Wait... if there's negative bullying, is there also positive bullying? Isn't bullying always bad? Anyways, glad you found yourself 😁
So Is your prostate rocked daily now?
@@joshisailer9521 just like there is far too much toxic positivity!
@@KEITHMCROBERTS-i7cstraight is by definition normal because it furthers humanity, anything else is abnormal
Going through a bladder cancer treatment protocol leaves me experiencing post-treatment irritation for typically three days. The passage of catheters through the prostatic urethra is particularly irritating. This presentation has left me wondering if prostatic stimulation will ease, or only aggravate the irritation.
Don't do it with catheters in, it's meant to be pleasurable.
Thanks for helping men
I love this show so relatable
The reason why I watched this podcast is coz I thought there will be a demonstration from the host and guest.
I'm amazed that people can't find it. Once something is up there, you're likely to accidentally stimulate it lightly. And once that happens to me, it lets me know very clearly where it is and that it wants to be stimulated more.
I agree. But, despite trying with fingers, toys, and third-party assistance (cough, cough :)), no luck. Either I missed it or it's hiding. I am a bottom, which feels awesome, and feels that way for every foot inserted; maybe mine just hides until a prefered visitor arrives?
Thank you for the professional education on the matter, it's a much requested topic that you don't often get to speak about with health professionals. Or you might resort to reddit, which can have good info, but sometimes it's hard to differentiate. I'm actually trying for an anal orgasm through prostate stimulation (without success thus far) so thank you for shedding some light on the topic and if you have more tips, please share them! :)
You'll get there. Just let yourself go when you're alone. Relax your prostate like when you're about to piss. Lube your index and middle fingers and continue with an in out motion all while you're stroking. You're gonna shoot to the ceiling. 💪🏽
Well done Boys - great topic
Hahah love 😂 but I think we need a drawing pg of course of where these Anatomy things are!!! 😂
Needed the guy in green to drop trough and show us.
Love this video. I bought a prostate massager. It’s remote control. I only used it a few times. My question is how many times a week should you do the massage? I don’t want to be a looseygoosey back there.
Twice a day or more. Never even think about going too loose -- it does not happen. And any stretch is very soon shut closed again. HAVE FUN!
Loved your matter-of-fact presentation. However, I do think a closeup medical illustration of the areas involved would be of the greatest help ...especially for beginners. What's more, such a chart would allow you to more fully demonstrate things like the location of the perineum/taint, most comfortable and effective position/direction of the hand and toy or fingers to achieve the best results, for both partners. You might even throw in some suggestions on what the masseur might do with their free hand. Even at 80 years of age I haven't forgotten such beautiful intimacies of my youth. So, yes, do it ...but do it right. Pay close, loving attention to the "massagee", so the experience is less stressful and more enjoyable for both parttners! Please keep up these good, education-as-entertainment shows! Love you guys and hope you have a long, loving, happy, and successful future together! ❤👨🏼🎓👆🏼
Thanks guys, very informative. Never heard of external stimulation before, no wonder it's nice to rub there 😊.
The awkward silence at the end.😂
now, time to go and try it
'Taint never heard nuthin l like this !
You should have some photos or some diagrams for us
This is needed information. Education is elevation..😂
Fantastic presentation.. I enjoy all these things
After viewing this video, no more saying "I can't put my finger on it" as an excuse as to why greater pleasure can't be achieved.
Next idea for discussion: Is it safe to use Poppers?
Im a visual learner imma need a demonstration
I want a HendRx hat. How to get one?
I’m not a nut consumer so have no clue what walnut size means. Anatomical models are available for our bits and pieces so I’m wondering if they exist for the prostate. If not, can a modeling clay replica be created for your presentations?
Keep in mind they are referring to whole walnuts, shell included. If you're in a typical grocery store, you would likely only find walnut halves or crushed with no shell. Better is go to a health food store, the bulk section, and they should have whole walnuts. But basically, a bit smaller than a golf ball. Good luck!
I don’t know why I’m so shocked that someone hasn’t seen a walnut. It’s possible 😅
@@JJ-in3bc- Thank you. I have a Bulk Barn within walking distance so I will check it out.
@yogiperogy fantastic! Bulk sections... dehydrated cherries are amazing! And chocolate covered almonds are terrific too! Do you have any favorites?
@@JJ-in3bc - Yes I do! I’m too fond of maraschino cherries in syrup for my own good but indulge occasionally. I hand feed chickadees and nuthatches so I buy raw, unsalted sunflower seeds and the birds love them. They land on my index fingers and eat from a prescription vial. If the vial is occupied, they sit on my hat and wait their turn! Having wild birds trust me like that is heartwarming.
Hi when will you guys talk about veins in the arms hand leg and feet.
Can you do a video on varicocele?
THANK YOU DOCTOR
This was really interesting, thank you!
Does having a TURP procedure mean that this cannot be done anymore, and if it can, how long after the procedure should I wait before trying it out. In fact, how does one get intensity back after a TURP or is it lost forever?
speaking from experience. i've had two turps..... so no ejaculation..... but the pleasure is still there. maybe the best answer though, is to talk with your urologist.
God, I love Gabriel. Love, love, love.❤❤❤
I'm still a little unsure of where the prostate is. if I'm lying on my back insert finger/toy, is the prostate up (toward the ceiling) or down (toward the floor)? thanks
towards the ceiling. It's on the front side of your anal wall.
Exactly my question. I feel dumb asking because seems like everyone knows.
If you were on your back, towards ceiling. The prostate is sort of just inside, underneath your perineum (section between anus and testes) It does help if you relax, and explore. First couple of times, it felt OK, but the main thing was increased semem when I ejaculated. After that, the prostate stimulation, itself, felt amazing. Hope this helps.
if you're going into the rectum and you're on your back ..... it is upwards. good luck! maybe get a 'map' (lol) of where you want to go!
@@gubermas10up towards the ceiling
DR please give us visual presentation please :D
Excellent presentation 🙋♂️👍⭐️🌈💙🏳️🌈
What about giving a massage to my prostate, when I already have little stones in there. The stones are from an inflammation years ago. Should I try?
Go ahead. Not only is it safe, but you can have the greatest joy added to your life.
Hey guys, so glad I bumped into your podcast 😁😁
A few times Dr T said “if you have a prostate”, is it possible to not have a prostate?
Most women and trans men
The prostate can also be surgically removed
@@erikpina6041zero women.
Thank you
New meaning for the phrase GFY.
The way the microphone was lined up Made you look like a Blue Jays bobble head
Hello Dr. Tyler,
I am a 62-year-old gay man with a long-term relationship of 21 years.
I can't ask all that I wish to because it is far from private or safe in the universe of CZcams commentary! But I would like to know if you have a recommendation for therapeutic healing for someone who has had trauma and fear around sexuality. Any suggestions or thoughts would be so very much appreciated.
Thank you!
They’re such a cute couple❤❤❤
I love you guys! This is amazing❤
I’m glad he said it’s not the texture of walnut 😂 But then he says it’s pretty small but walnuts are pretty large. 🤷
Demo please
When I was a teenager, I used my lubricated fingers, but I wanted something firmer, so I used a broom handle. Big mistake. I don’t recommend it. Then I used a few carrots 🥕 and my mom was wondering why her produce was vanishing.
Taking one’s sexy time with a thoroughly lubricated sex toy designed for this purpose is definitely the way to go.
Theyre such a cute couple ❤❤❤❤
Penso que estes vídeos são benéficos por uma série de razões: libertam a informação sexual da vergonha e do estigma, melhoram a intimidade sexual pessoal e interpessoal, melhoram a saúde e as competências sexuais... muito grato 🙏🏽
MY OrganismS ARE EXHAUSTING WHEN MY PROSTATE IS RUBBED … INFACT I SCREAM! 😮
😊 please bring a real walnut on the set & display 😊
I need a private lesson please :)
I think they did practice that after the video😍🫠
Dr. T. are you accepting new patients?
can you please show visual demonstrations too so that we can understand better
The kids with hats talking sex. Very funny
But they're medically-based, so who cares. It's accurate scientific information
Those who had radical prostatectomy wouldn't have that wonderful experience.
You two have referred to Lava Lee using both female and male pronouns. I am sure Lava has a plug, but I am unsure of Lava’s preferred pronouns. Please advise!
It’s a LAMP. Not a confused human.
Weirdo
@@sckaze777 FREAK🤡
😂😂😂
People not getting that this comment was a joke aha💀
I'm a bigger guy and have flexibility issues. What's your recommendation to stimulate my prostate?
Have you tried a vibrator? They feel amazing and can give hands free orgasms.
Grindr
@@LeeArmitage2002 LOL!
@@LeeArmitage2002😂
❤❤❤❤ Live watching your episodes. As a gay man, 70, I haven't had an orgasm nor sexual.play in the last three years with my partner of 23 years. Will this be the reason for an enlarged prostate or is it the result of having an enlarged prostate?
You said something in this video that prompted a question. But it’s behavioral rather than physiological. You said that body language would indicate whether a partner was into stimulation. I am a silent all the time partner. Comments, fantasy expressions, etc., make me lose my interest, and subsequently, my erection. It’s woeful that my partner requires sex talk to stay into it. When I say require, that cannot be minimized. I have tried compromising to let him talk until I’m losing it, but then he loses it. Unfortunately, we no longer have penetrative sex, and we’re bummed. We’ve been together for 22 years, our sexual requirements got more and more divergent, and now we don’t have intercourse, which I consider the primary and best part of sex.
Any suggestions?
as someone who shares the same kind of preference your partner does, i’ve never understood your type. having sex in complete silence feels so passionless and unengaging. i’ve been with a couple people that are just completely quiet the whole time and i’ve tried overlooking the silence but it would never work cause their silence always makes me think they’re not into it which turns me off immediately. and trust me i tried so hard to just get over it cause they were hot and i rlly wanted to enjoy the sex but i just couldn’t.
why do you require silence to stay turned on? genuine question.
@@Nate-ht4se Hi guy,
I wasn’t entirely clear in my post. I frequently make utterances, moans, grunts, etc., during sex. My difficulty is with sex talk. It distracts me as I find it beside the point, empty, ridiculous. Show me. Don’t tell me.
Ironically, my partner hates non-verbal noises. Once again, he loses interest. We can’t find a way to meet in the middle. Trying to accept the other’s preferences or trying to refrain from talk/noise has proven to be disappointing. We can’t refrain as it’s primal behavior. That’s why I posted.
My husband is my perfect match in most every other way. But we haven’t had sex, even mutual masturbation, in six years. That’s a good enough reason to write to the doctor.
Finally, I have no trauma or former sex partner who set a template for my irritation with sex talk. As you can see from how I write too much, I am very verbal. But telling me I’m hot or my hole is tight is the fastest way to disinterest, aborting. I wish I could be like you because you represent the majority.
I'm exactly like you..
I get distracted and lose my erection. I need to focus on the sensations so they continue.
"if you're a male" ... dying! only males have this organ Dr.T. btw - I love it when Dr. T matches his socks with his cap. :D
maybe there's somebody who doesn't know that. either way, I'm not judging :D
What do you call someone with both male and female organs. These people exist.
I just love seeing him in his sock feet😊
I’m a bit nervous to try this 😅 I’m a bisexual man and im comfortable with my sexuality and exploring my body. But as a top, I’m not used to contact from there. I’ve also tried to be penetrated down there and I couldn’t stand the feeling so it didn’t go very far. Any advice?
Try to just use your fingers. If you tried penetration and didn’t like it, then you should probably try smaller objects first lol
Is it ok to massage the prostate without releasing/orgasm? Wouldn’t that promote inflammation by increasing fluid in the prostate without draining the fluid?
No not at all. You need not squirt or even dribble for the prostate massage to *reduce* inflammation.
That’s easy. Huck twah!
Damn they could show us, OF link?
u guys are so attractive it hurts
I thought this was a taboo area?
So all the men secretly know this?
This why we take so long in the bathroom 😅..
Diagrams would have definitely been helpful *appropriate of course*
you know as soon as cut was said they knocked the lava lamp over diddling each other
So who's doing who tonight in the bed dr T or Danny? 😂
Lava Lee has lots to say, thanks for informative information of sexual health
Wow, Maybe I wouldn't have BPH if I had done this. Thanks for the tip. I have already had PAE 2 times first with BEADS and then with Japanese GLUE. These two procedures did not help. My question is should I do this even though I have BPH? It is 95 CCs. I don't mind talking about it because it is aggravating, and I don't want the Green Lazer treatment or anything that destroys that Gland. I am also allergic to Alpha blockers and they have made things worse as I have been taking them for over 4 years maybe more. I have tried them all blistering of the skin and a scary situation and is Right where you don't want it. Sorry Guys. But I need your help. Dr. Doesn't say much at this point.
My man had a very enlarged prostrate and would make 7 to 8 trips a night to pee. His doctor recommended TURP. I was there and yelled "NO!". We have an amazing sex life, and I didn't want it f'd up. Instead, he had a procedure called Rezum. He said it wasn't bad at all. We were back to having sex in a few days. He now sleeps very well, usually with only 1 wake up to pee. Do not use TURP. It can ruin you sex life.
I had my Prostate burned out because of prostate cancer. I am cured. But I am not allowed to have anything that will produce testosterone. It's frustrating. Tried Viagra but not very satisfying, erections, NOT! Don't want implants. What's man to do?
Doc is hot.
can you shrink your prostate ?????