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  • My Mom Is In a Relationship With a Married Man!
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Komentáře • 245

  • @jcherestal
    @jcherestal Před 3 lety +295

    Caller: my mother is a side piece
    Dave: whats her car payment?

  • @rachelgooden9981
    @rachelgooden9981 Před 3 lety +139

    Anthony’s facial expression 😳

    • @talyahr3302
      @talyahr3302 Před 3 lety +3

      The Way he looked around 😂

    • @nicholeknight1893
      @nicholeknight1893 Před 3 lety +3

      Right!!!! I literally hollered 🤣😫😂

    • @JK-om1ry
      @JK-om1ry Před 3 lety +1

      Well poor man it probably hits close to home 😔

  • @DerpyTheCow47
    @DerpyTheCow47 Před 3 lety +52

    Caller: My mom is in a relation with a married man
    Dave: SELL YOUR CAR

  • @dmitch9362
    @dmitch9362 Před 3 lety +65

    Anthony's facial expressions lol.

  • @ij1376
    @ij1376 Před 3 lety +95

    0:20 Love the psychologist's response is relatively neutral cuz he's probably heard every batshit crazy story, and the other guy is like hol' up.

    • @Pandorash8
      @Pandorash8 Před 3 lety +6

      Sadly, Dr John, as a therapist, knows the reality. That the caller gets little say over this and will likely just put his mother offside. It shouldn’t be that way, but people don’t listen to what they don’t want to hear. No matter who delivers the message.

  • @_AYAX_
    @_AYAX_ Před 3 lety +108

    DAVE RAMSEY “is the married man a doctor or a lawyer?”

  • @RuthAnnNordin
    @RuthAnnNordin Před 3 lety +75

    I agree with the others. The expression on Anthony's face is the best part of this call.

  • @aaronmeives4496
    @aaronmeives4496 Před 3 lety +105

    My mom was also in a relationship with a married man. A little weird cause he was my dad and I wouldn’t think of it like that

  • @lindasmith3391
    @lindasmith3391 Před 3 lety +12

    His mom and the married man is selfish. She is not thinking of her son she is hurting or the other man’s wife and children. The married man is just using this guy’s mom. It is adultery pure and simple. Step up and save your mom.

    • @saltwatertaffy7020
      @saltwatertaffy7020 Před 3 lety +1

      Can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved. He needs to step away from the situation, and let her know his boundaries.

    • @ryankelly8077
      @ryankelly8077 Před 2 lety

      Truth

  • @BandasPalette
    @BandasPalette Před 3 lety +47

    This is a question I wish Dave would have answered. His experience is golden for these extreme questions.

  • @gritsnwavy3059
    @gritsnwavy3059 Před 3 lety +47

    This guy must have called in sounding soo sad that the producers just let the call threw. Poor Fellow.

    • @lovyng
      @lovyng Před 3 lety +2

      YEAH MOM NOT GIVING THAT DINGALING UP

    • @gritsnwavy3059
      @gritsnwavy3059 Před 3 lety

      @@lovyng Right. 🤫🤣

    • @Pandorash8
      @Pandorash8 Před 3 lety +2

      Plus the juicy headline they can put on the CZcams clip haha.

  • @AT-ij4bc
    @AT-ij4bc Před 3 lety +42

    Homewreckers are trash. My mom dated a married man living with his wife for years. He didn't want to divorce his wife for financial reasons. Thankfully, it is over now but it caused so much pain and damage. Disgusting....Lord have mercy....

    • @konglives4453
      @konglives4453 Před 3 lety +10

      Had the exact same experience. My brother looked the other way and never said anything. I questioned her on it and became the black sheep.

    • @agathachris9722
      @agathachris9722 Před 3 lety +6

      It's really disgusting low class behavior for all involved.

    • @agathachris9722
      @agathachris9722 Před 3 lety +7

      An old lady once told me that you have a reputation, and the most important reputation you have is in front of your family. Never ruin your reputation in front of your kids. People don't care how they look in front of their own children.

    • @ilonat8373
      @ilonat8373 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Same. My mum have been dating a married man since I was 10. I always knew about it. Traumatized me so much that now I cannot trust any man.

  • @gerialexander8973
    @gerialexander8973 Před 3 lety +46

    Anthony's face had me @ 0:25 seconds in 😂😂😂!!! He looks up and then turns to Doc like..."what tha"?
    I'm done!

  • @eurekahope5310
    @eurekahope5310 Před 3 lety +11

    I'm with Deloney on this. If we all ignore the devastation of affairs, giving tacit approval, we will make affairs acceptable in our society.

  • @LifeofKairo
    @LifeofKairo Před 3 lety +84

    So was my mom with my dad...
    Until they got a divorce 😆

  • @andrewsuderman
    @andrewsuderman Před 3 lety +66

    This call should be on the Dr D show, not on the Ramsey show. Not even a hint of finances involved.

    • @kimh3905
      @kimh3905 Před 3 lety +4

      The other man works for Dave and helps people with relationships

    • @andrewsuderman
      @andrewsuderman Před 3 lety +6

      @@kimh3905 I understand, I watch every episode posted on this channel... Looking for financial wisdom, not domestic drama.

    • @stevenporter863
      @stevenporter863 Před 3 lety +1

      @@andrewsuderman With you. This is not the venue for that type of call, not even a hint of a financial componient. He is married and moved out.

    • @mattotis8412
      @mattotis8412 Před 3 lety +1

      It's definitely out of the financial context, also one of the first that I watched that didn't even have Ramsey on it.

    • @alycewich4472
      @alycewich4472 Před 3 lety +1

      @@andrewsuderman So why did you click on this one with the title My mom is in a relationship with a married man?

  • @amandal8798
    @amandal8798 Před 3 měsíci +2

    My Mum has done this for 25 years on and off with a married man who has never shown any intentions of leaving his wife for and the wife is unaware. It doesn't sit comfortably in my soul she has done this for so long. I thought she had cut him off finally 5 years ago and this week found it was still happening here and there and I am done with it now. I just do not want to even talk to her now because I am so disgusted with her lies and cheating.

  • @T25de
    @T25de Před 3 lety +19

    Staying in your lane can be hard sometimes I suppose

  • @itachir8290
    @itachir8290 Před 3 lety +9

    The spouse deserves to know they are being cheated on.

    • @johniii8147
      @johniii8147 Před 3 lety

      How do you know she's doesn't know?

    • @bbkr7910
      @bbkr7910 Před 3 lety

      If the wife was taking care of the husband, there wouldn't be any affairs.

    • @johniii8147
      @johniii8147 Před 3 lety +2

      @@bbkr7910 lol no. This isn’t the 1950’s

    • @bbkr7910
      @bbkr7910 Před 3 lety

      @@johniii8147 yep, for both better and worse. Life is easier and now cheaper than ever.

    • @unnamedchannel1237
      @unnamedchannel1237 Před 2 lety

      @@bbkr7910 yet wives are more expensive than ever

  • @ellencox8415
    @ellencox8415 Před 3 lety +6

    🤣😂 I love Anthony so much. It was like watching myself watch this video 🤣 😂

  • @monicautt9233
    @monicautt9233 Před 3 lety +8

    What is up with tip-toeing around the issue? It is called SIN! Mom, you're living in a state of MORTAL SIN. I love you, and want you to go to Heaven. You need to stop!

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 Před 3 lety

      F-ing is Better than a ham sandwich

  • @knownonsense2015
    @knownonsense2015 Před 3 lety +7

    I’d say something to the mom, not the man. But if she refuses to listen, then there’s nothing you can do and that’s okay.

  • @Ghost-jy9hk
    @Ghost-jy9hk Před 3 lety +33

    They must have forgotten to call Dr. Phil

  • @zeal4god402
    @zeal4god402 Před 3 lety +14

    He probably telling her they are about to divorce, but for real, it still needs to remain platonic at this stage

  • @RaineyPowerTraining
    @RaineyPowerTraining Před 3 lety +7

    Anthony keeping it real. That's how most people would handle this situation 🤣

  • @alaskahaul2085
    @alaskahaul2085 Před 3 lety +23

    Why are they calling Dave Ramsey about this🤔

  • @leahmcdermott4189
    @leahmcdermott4189 Před 3 lety +49

    Literally so confused on how this relates to Dave Ramsey or finance, like at all? 😂🥴

    • @psychedelicdaemon4914
      @psychedelicdaemon4914 Před 3 lety +7

      sometimes people make calls like this and it's kind of annoying as it's not related, but Dave did the right thing rather than screen them and separate question from question he let them come and he adjusted which is why he added the other personalities to the show

    • @brandonmcmillan9641
      @brandonmcmillan9641 Před 3 lety +1

      I wonder what his household income is?

    • @MyNameIsCorey
      @MyNameIsCorey Před 3 lety +8

      Finances and relationships are intertwined

    • @shola7987
      @shola7987 Před 3 lety +5

      He called to speak to the therapist.

  • @anabeliagarza1805
    @anabeliagarza1805 Před 3 lety +2

    I don’t feel it’s a child’s place to judge his mother. He needs to grow up and accept her decision on how to live her life.

  • @flutgos
    @flutgos Před 3 lety +13

    Rice and beans, beans and rice.

  • @leatherface9377
    @leatherface9377 Před 3 lety +5

    Dave: sell the stinkin car

  • @buildingwithtrees2258
    @buildingwithtrees2258 Před 3 lety +8

    Why did they take this call? Dave isn't there...coincidence?

  • @TartarianTopG
    @TartarianTopG Před 3 lety

    I heard this on the radio but I love watching it too 🤣😭😂

  • @hopeforchrist7772
    @hopeforchrist7772 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for this.

  • @jeffdorris5321
    @jeffdorris5321 Před 3 lety

    Nice work 🌠🎆🎇

  • @TheLuxeTraveler702
    @TheLuxeTraveler702 Před 3 lety +5

    This is an episode of Snapped waiting to happen !! 🥴🥴🥴 Mom should know better.

  • @pattiansl
    @pattiansl Před 3 lety +2

    I understand this man's disappointment in his mother.

  • @gritsnwavy3059
    @gritsnwavy3059 Před 3 lety +24

    Interesting. I wonder if the mom or married guy is in debt. 🙃

  • @kevdogg545
    @kevdogg545 Před 3 lety +12

    Caller: “My mom is dating a married man”
    Dave Ramsey: “How much debt does he have?”

  • @mariamfayed4740
    @mariamfayed4740 Před 5 měsíci +1

    What if I live in this situation.. my mom is in a relationship with a married man and it’s affecting me and I’m not comfortable so how can I deal with that or what should I do

  • @milesmeralis5334
    @milesmeralis5334 Před 3 lety +1

    Simping is strong. And no one deserves anything. I heard that a ton on the show

  • @atomicgeisha
    @atomicgeisha Před 2 lety +1

    I have zero respect for homewreckers. I was cheated on and these woman don't care about the damage they cause. Also what kind of woman lowers herself so much she can't find her own man?

  • @Lovetheonewithin
    @Lovetheonewithin Před 3 lety +6

    Shane: My mom is in a relationship with a married man..
    Dave: Sell your car!

  • @rebeccaoprea9917
    @rebeccaoprea9917 Před 3 lety +2

    You don’t have to be okay with what’s not okay . Put your boundaries and respect them . Yes you will do this , not you won’t do that ....

  • @sauravkushwah6783
    @sauravkushwah6783 Před 3 lety +12

    I come here to learn but this time i came here to laugh.

    • @sauravkushwah6783
      @sauravkushwah6783 Před 3 lety +2

      And i heard the full conversation but i am not laughing 😐

  • @andreytereshchenko1197
    @andreytereshchenko1197 Před 3 lety +5

    Dave would tell him to work extra hours, deliver pizza and sell his car :) sometimes I feel like dave works for Domino's HR :) but jokes to the side this is very sad situation, totally wrong and sinful...

  • @lazyakers
    @lazyakers Před 3 lety +2

    This phone call sounds juicy!

  • @whocares2459
    @whocares2459 Před 3 lety

    Why replay the same video we watched yesterday?

  • @joycejudd5109
    @joycejudd5109 Před 3 lety +2

    I wonder...is mama very content with this married man because HE won't ask her to marry...he's simply a date, a playmate, a "feel good moment", but zero responsibility? He will put no strings or ties or demands on her...? She's already hurting from a divorce from her first husband... I have no respect for someone who is willing to wreck someone else's marriage. However, this woman might be thinking she is "playing it safe". But of course, she's hurting herself in ways she doesn't understand.

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 Před 3 lety

      Why buy the whole hog, when all you want is sausage.

  • @mv7374
    @mv7374 Před 3 lety +3

    His mom knows fully what she's doing and dgaf. Older parents dont care about what their kids want for them. Just let her know once you don't particularly care for him or her relationship and dont want them around, then just mind your business since she aint gonna change.

  • @kingrclrg
    @kingrclrg Před 3 lety +4

    Say out to mamas business BOY

  • @furryplantsandcoins9070
    @furryplantsandcoins9070 Před 3 lety +1

    Sounds like she's happy in the wrong way... Cuz she reverted to a teenager! He's a forbidden man.. and she doesn't care...

  • @sami-9233
    @sami-9233 Před 3 lety +6

    Gossip Ramsey Show

  • @marlenehahn5678
    @marlenehahn5678 Před 3 lety +1

    She needs to call Dr John

  • @otmanel.640
    @otmanel.640 Před 3 lety +3

    This is Baby step what zero or seven ? 😂

  • @christiankopet5891
    @christiankopet5891 Před 3 lety +1

    Caller: My mom is on and off dating a married man.
    Dave: what's your household income?

  • @random-nz7dy
    @random-nz7dy Před 3 lety +1

    I feel like I would not address it but I would definitely speak with my lack of words about it.
    I wouldn't ask my mom about this guy. I wouldn't mention his name. I would act like he doesn't even exist.
    And if she wants need to interact with him in some capacity I would just tell her that I'm not doing that. "I will not interact with him, and you know why, mom".

  • @djony10
    @djony10 Před 3 lety +1

    Cut the guy loose. Mom is lost and she needs guidance and that's where you as a man need to step up and be there for her

  • @mikenelson8377
    @mikenelson8377 Před 3 lety +16

    JERRY! JERRY! JERRY! 🍿🍿🍿

  • @annloui8814
    @annloui8814 Před 3 lety +1

    AO is awesome!

  • @jackjumper4231
    @jackjumper4231 Před 3 lety +2

    You cannot strike a balance between someone being happy and someone living in sin. Those two things are incompatible. Family is responsible to hold one another accountable parents create the children, children point the parents back to righteousness. You do not need to justify telling your family member that they are in sin you only have to do it from a position of love grace and open the door for repentance. And leave the rest up to them. The Bible repeatedly tells us to do these things

    • @kamarwashington
      @kamarwashington Před 3 lety

      Sin is pleasurable and makes people happy in the short term. That’s why people stay in it. True happiness and joy is in Christ, but lost people think the ways of themselves are all the world has to offer.

  • @dabd8175
    @dabd8175 Před 3 lety +3

    The streets for the heathen!!!!

  • @BabyBearRudy
    @BabyBearRudy Před 3 lety +19

    I’m going to call in next week, “My wife is pregnant and I’m not sure if the baby is mine.”

    • @juanfelipe8484
      @juanfelipe8484 Před 3 lety

      😂

    • @chartuck
      @chartuck Před 3 lety +3

      No man knows if the child is his. Gotta order that paternity test and hope the result is accurate.

    • @marla-singer
      @marla-singer Před 3 lety +6

      A female should call in and say “I’m pregnant and I’m not sure if the baby is mine” 😝

    • @ayonnazglam9050
      @ayonnazglam9050 Před 3 lety

      😂

  • @acedogg692005
    @acedogg692005 Před 3 lety

    Odd call, but He's 23 and doesn't live at home. Not his business!

  • @joncovington2859
    @joncovington2859 Před 3 lety +4

    you cannot raise "Grown Folks." Let God be with her guide.

  • @Lumberjack-fr6ve
    @Lumberjack-fr6ve Před 3 lety +5

    Daily reminder why is hate humanity as a whole

  • @JxBx80
    @JxBx80 Před 3 lety +2

    Is this Jerry Springer? Dr Phil? Why let this caller through?

  • @jessitabonita
    @jessitabonita Před 3 lety +6

    This caller needs to start watching Kevin Samuels... and perhaps book a session.

    • @boss_life3195
      @boss_life3195 Před 3 lety +1

      Kevin Samuels hasn't had his own successful marriage. So if you are following him you're dumb af!

    • @thobilemthandi9235
      @thobilemthandi9235 Před rokem

      Best answer

  • @ReenaBINA
    @ReenaBINA Před 3 lety

    Reminds me off my deadbeat dad

  • @Boneywolf
    @Boneywolf Před 3 lety

    Anthony’s absolutely right...

  • @andicantu6490
    @andicantu6490 Před 3 lety +1

    He and his wife can invite mom over for dinner and provide an approved blind date. If she tells her son she’s already involved with someone, he can then talk about how bad it makes him feel.

    • @Originalman144
      @Originalman144 Před 3 lety

      No, she's grown, he has no place in trying to drive her relationship.

  • @fishgills2009
    @fishgills2009 Před 3 lety +8

    Wow, this is was an extremely disappointing way for this situation to be addressed! Happiness? Let her live her own life? Don't start drama?
    What in the world is going on at the Ramsey show???

    • @milesmeralis5334
      @milesmeralis5334 Před 3 lety +1

      It's because it's a woman. If it was a guy he would be a piece of trash that needed to grow up lol

    • @justshady
      @justshady Před 3 lety

      Her body her choice right ?

  • @Atypical82
    @Atypical82 Před 3 lety +1

    We don’t need anyone’s permission to speak the truth to them in a loving way. He loves his mom and she is committing adultery. By God, he’s able to tell her the truth in love.

  • @SWillTiamG
    @SWillTiamG Před 3 lety +1

    Just call it what it is... mom why are you being an adulterer?

  • @johniii8147
    @johniii8147 Před 3 lety

    It's not really your business. She's going to make her own choices just as you do. DON"T get involved.

  • @MrOfficer235
    @MrOfficer235 Před 3 lety +1

    Why do people call a radio show when they clearly need therapy

  • @courtney1427
    @courtney1427 Před 3 lety

    And you’re in her business 🤣

  • @ryankelly8077
    @ryankelly8077 Před 2 lety

    Respectfully - Tell your mom to “drop the married man and start dating a cub instead”

  • @darrendent8288
    @darrendent8288 Před 3 lety +3

    @0:25 Anthony's expression. 🤣

  • @TheTurdballs420
    @TheTurdballs420 Před 3 lety +7

    I liked this channel before they started going for the Jerry Springer audience

  • @karmichaelblue
    @karmichaelblue Před 3 lety

    The correct answer is: tell the wife of the married man, and then stay out of it and don’t be around the mom anymore while she is making these decisions.

  • @garys.1415
    @garys.1415 Před 3 lety

    Bruh.... she knows she’s messing up. She wants to have fun. Let he be. She knows better.

  • @davidmilhouscarter8198
    @davidmilhouscarter8198 Před 3 lety +1

    I think the majority of America gets upset listening to The Ramsey Show… Just in general.

  • @PantherGeek7
    @PantherGeek7 Před 3 lety

    It’s interesting how many people call Dave Ramsey with issues that are more relational than financial. Granted, they tend to be very much intertwined, but this particular call doesn’t seem to have anything to do with personal finance.

    • @gmarie3053
      @gmarie3053 Před 3 lety +1

      Some of us have grown up with Dave

    • @PantherGeek7
      @PantherGeek7 Před 3 lety

      @@gmarie3053 I guess you’re right - he’s been doing this for nearly 30 years!

  • @ACDC4LIFE
    @ACDC4LIFE Před 3 lety +6

    Sign her up for some self defense classes they will come in handy ...

  • @esonon5210
    @esonon5210 Před 3 lety +1

    Wrong. The married man is hurting his own family by willingly being in a relationship with someone while he's still married.

  • @DevylsAdvocut
    @DevylsAdvocut Před 3 lety

    Is this still a financial show?

  • @Steven-kc7id
    @Steven-kc7id Před 3 lety

    Of course it's Dayton..

  • @Akrna47
    @Akrna47 Před 3 lety

    I thought this channel talked about finances

  • @jared6361
    @jared6361 Před 3 lety +6

    What happened to this show lol

    • @dabd8175
      @dabd8175 Před 3 lety +6

      Dave helps ppl solve problems and be happier and whole in life. Their diversifying how they help people

  • @frozentundra7446
    @frozentundra7446 Před 3 lety

    Did this guy call the right show (Dr. Phill)?

  • @Zorichai
    @Zorichai Před 3 lety

    Yo when did this show become Dr. Phil

  • @codys5727
    @codys5727 Před 3 lety +1

    This woman's living like no one else so later his wife can life and collect alimony like noone else

  • @talyahr3302
    @talyahr3302 Před 3 lety +2

    Yeah, ain't nothing he can do about it. And he's already told his mom multiple times. So you've already been heard, she just doesn't care. Set some boundaries so you won't have to be around them.

  • @AccidentalHiker1
    @AccidentalHiker1 Před 3 lety

    Mine your on business. She is a grown woman.

  • @tjbalistic
    @tjbalistic Před 3 lety

    Sounds like an open marriage

  • @pointlesshistorian4390

    Plot twist, it’s his father.

  • @iw5207
    @iw5207 Před 3 lety +1

    Hold on … is this still a financial show or…..? I love juice as much as the next person but I heard no financial problem at all

  • @donaldrichey3318
    @donaldrichey3318 Před 3 lety

    Mom is a bad person. I would move on with my life.

  • @freshmex85
    @freshmex85 Před 3 lety +3

    What if the married man is in an open relationship, and every one is ok with the set up?

    • @alexlewis8143
      @alexlewis8143 Před 3 lety +6

      Do you want that around your children?

    • @meshaerobinson8316
      @meshaerobinson8316 Před 3 lety

      The relationship is open, but the son doesn't know this? Although it would make more sense if he skipped that part because it would be irrelevant to him.

    • @freshmex85
      @freshmex85 Před 3 lety +3

      @@alexlewis8143 what you and I want can be completely different from anyone else. To assume that everyone wants the same for their kids is folly

  • @sandyseibelhager7131
    @sandyseibelhager7131 Před 3 lety

    It sounds like he already told mom his opinion. End of story.