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- Lily James has some sage advice for anyone who's struggling to deal with their inner critic. "Talk to yourself like you're talking to your friend," she told us from the set of her Harper's Bazaar cover shoot. "You're your own worst critic, which is so ridiculous. Why can't we be kind to ourselves like we are to our friends?"
James takes on the role of the second Mrs de Winter in a new adaptation of Daphne du Maurier's Rebecca - alongside Armie Hammer and Kristin Scott Thomas - and it was a role that was perfect for her to play at this particular time in her life, she explains.
"Rebecca's one of my favourite books, so when the opportunity came around to play the second Mrs de Winter I just couldn't resist it," she said. "She's such an extraordinary character. I was so intrigued by the disparity between how she thinks of herself and how she comes across. I think that's something that I've been exploring in myself so it was this golden moment to play her."
Watch the video interview in full here, in which the 31-year-old discusses dealing with criticism, tackling insecurities and the importance of being rebellious.
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“Voice in your head aren’t facts. Talk to yourself like you talk to your friends. Vulnerability is your power” thank you Lily
Lily James: "Rebecca disobeyed her husband, had affairs, and was basically just brilliant [loud laugh]" 😳😳😳
Quite
and having affairs is something to admire?? 🤨
Right?? Rebecca was written as an awful, deceitful narcissist!! She wasn’t meant to be seen as a cool independent woman!
@@stephq4008 ikr did she even read the book
This is so weird I just watch the news that husband murdered his pregnant wife because she having affair with her husband brother😱
Well this is incredibly ironic timing
Lmaoo ik
Why? I don’t get it.
@@abc98114 two words - Dominic West = very ironic indeed
Wildly ironic , such a cliche...... gosh....
@@abc98114 Lily had an affair with a married guy (he’s an actor too - unfortunately I don’t remember his name).
Despite what’s going on rn with her you have to admit she’s brave for doing these interviews plus guys come on if we were celebrities would we be perfect and not make some bad decisions??
Well personally I don't give a shit what the rest of you think. I love her sweetness and her vulnerability in this interview. She may or may not have knowingly made a mistake but, either way, I will continue to support her. Having met her, she is actually a very nice and kind person and I won't forget her warmth to me.
I agree.
Umm what? Everything was fine until she called Rebecca brilliant. She was written to be a narcissistic malicious person who was deceitful and unfaithful and hurt her husband for the thrill of it. She wasn't some confident icon who did her own thing.
Lily is no Joan Fontaine; but I LOVED her in Rebecca, she was so cute and adorable.
This gave me second hand embarrassment
Calling Rebecca a "free, wild woman who breaks every rule" is really putting it mildly 😬
I've read the book like 10 times... Rebecca is horrible, cruel (against disabled people, animals and generally anyone!)
She shows us the power and privilege physical beauty, a good position in society and wealth can give, allowing her to do harm and still being praised by all who knew her.
Maxim was a traditionalist man and eventual criminal which I do not condone, but he did NOT force either of his wives to submit, so there was no reason to "disobey him" 🙄
The second Mrs.De winter is initially young, extremely insecure and shy, she is tortured in her own mind thanks to her sense of inferiority, but she overcomes all that to become a strong woman, not like Rebecca ever was, still gentle, soft and not all all rebellious, but by no means weak or inferior.
It seems like Lily has a very modern and narrow view about the book and the characters, so I don't know what to expect from the movie...
Sigh, there always will be the iconic Joan Fontaine film (great portrayal of what introverted, shy and insecure people go through)
Oh man this sort of reminded me of Keira Knightly saying she wouldn’t allow her child to watch Cinderella because she is a bad example for women since she isn’t independent and bold or something like that (Cinderella!! One of the biggest examples of kindness and resilience under abuse!!!!!).
Sadly women being shy, cooperative, gentle, forgiving and sweet is _still_ being seen as inferiority and weakness, but even worst now is that being the *complete* opposite is praised as a strength.. There’s nothing that shows someone’s toxic fragility more than them being selfish, cruel and manipulative. These aren’t virtues 😩
Thanks god the movie turn out to be great. I’m actually like it
@@kora4185 omg that's so sad I love Keira Knightly and Cinderella 😥
I think she was talking about her character
@@kora4185 omg i’m so glad you brought this up! people think they’re living with a feminist mindset but really trying to push the idea that being soft, forgiving, sweet or any of the things you mentioned can’t be signs of strength is just another problem because all of them are typically associated with femininity/women.
people spreading the idea that being those things means you aren’t strong is just continuing to spread the misogynistic mindset that anything to do with women/anything related to femininity is inherently bad. if only people like keira knightly and many other modern mothers/women were able to see that:(
Wait. So basically you are willing to wreck a marriage so that you can find yourself and learn from your mistakes??
Isn’t HE 😳 the one married? Shouldn’t HE possess the discipline not to go out & cheat out of respect for his wife? There’s no such thing as a “home wrecker” or man being “seduced “ by a temptress. The rage needs to be directed towards HIM. 😳
@@kidano5317 Of course both the man and woman deserve it since neither is innocent. He knows he has a family and she should have known better than to be involved with a married man (who has like what, 4 kids? Smh). Idk maybe it's just me but the way she said it in the interview is as if implying it's okay to do it. Is it?
@@kidano5317 why not both? The married one should get most of the blame, but the one they are cheating with is also an piece of shit
@@DillerDallerDuller She’s the outside party. It’s not her responsibility to keep his marriage intact. It’s his. At the end of the day, he would’ve rejected her advances if he truly cared even slightly about his family. He didn’t.
@@kidano5317 he is definitely getting hate, everyone thinks he’s disgusting. But that doesn’t mean she is innocent either. She’s being blamed because she also took the decision to have an affair with a married man. He’s definitely wrong, NO ONE is denying that
But obviously she has to be called out too, I doubt she would’ve liked it had someone slept with her partner
Same for Dominic - I hope his wife leaves him cos he’s a disgusting pig
To all the people judging her for an affair with a married man.. go and judge Dominic West? :) it’s not her marriage
I can smell Dominic West’s breath from here
settling for someone's husband is not confident eh.. and this is why people you never judge people based on looks! who knows what type of person she is
I agree that she made a mistake, though we don't know the details and what she was told by Dominic etc., but it doesn't necessarily make Lily a terrible person, plus she is extremely talented. She's done some great movies and I'm excited to see what she does next.
Lily James hadn't committed the most heinous crime in the world....she might have been involved in an extra-marital affair which is definitely a bad thing....but celebrities get away with worse things absolutely scot free...this comment section is a classic example of patriarchal minded people only criticising the woman and also of people being extremely frustrated with their own lives and spreading hate...i m sure if lily james was a man involved in an affair with his married costar he wouldn't have to bear the burnt so much or tolerate such harsh comments....if still you dislike what she did so much then why are you here in the comment section of "her" interview....i m sure everybody has the choice of not watching her interviews and her movies if you find her that disgusting...i can say with 100% certainty all the people here in this comment section aren't perfect themselves otherwise they wouldn't be here commenting on a matter that has nothing to do with their own lives....and in my opinion spreading hate and negative remark about a person is way worse than having affairs.
Okay lay off everybody. Cheating is more his responsibility than hers. Maybe he told her all the classic lies that he was separated or is divorcing or god knows. You don’t know and probably will never know so stop judging. Blaming it all on her is incredibly sexist and unfair.
Lmao no ones blaming it all on her. People are hating on Dominic and he deserves it. I hope his wife leaves him. But she also has responsibility. He could’ve told her a classic lie but they’re celebrities. They were sneaking around having an affair secretly. Both are to blame. Dominic more cos he’s the one married but her as well because she knew he was married and should’ve just avoided him
Can a company this big really not afford decent audio equipment?
The acoustics are different in a room 😅
They cant shoot in a studio
Put the subtitles.
Lily is such a beautifully genuine person.
"Talk yourself like you're talking to a friend"
That's really therapeutic people try it sometime.....I know cause I do it ALL THE TIME!
♥
Cinderella was perfect girl
Lily james: i was a rebelliou teenager
She seems very nice and humble.
I'M SO THANKFUL OF LILY JAMES. HEARD HER MUSIC FROM MAMMA MIA 2 MOVIE. HER SONG, "I HAVE A DREAM" TOUCHED MY HEART. I FEEL THE SONG IS DEDICATED FOR ME. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ THAT MOVIE WAS SHOWNED BACK IN 2018. I WATCHED IT WITH MY MOM ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Im so glad you posted this, because I feel exactly the same way about her song, this song I can say, saved me a lot, going through tough times.
To everyone criticizing Lily James for the recent scandal - Dominic West is 51 and has been married for 10 years. She's only like 30. He willingly consented to having an affair with her - as a married man with children. He has 20 years more time to have matured than her and should be held to a higher standard. He is equally if not more accountable if his marriage ends. She is not entirely to blame.
I mean 30 years is plenty time to know your rights from wrong...
@@starfire7322 So is 50 - even more time if you ask anyone.
Dont bring age into this, its stupid. They are both adults. Life experience and maturity is not the same thing and being a bad person or not has nothing to do with age either.
Shes gonna need thick skin after the tabloids r talking about her affair with a married man
@@AKRose-nm1zs Wow! I just looked up the pictures. 😨 Why is she so sloppy with her image?!? How is she so comfortable doing these things openly as a public figure?
Or not lol shes been cancelling interviews left right and centre.
No she has hay fever she was using an inhaler
My favourite actress is lily james
I would love to have a friend like Lily x I would love to have Lily as my friend
she is so gorgeous
A gorgeous homewrecker
I'M A NATURALLY NICE AND SINCERE PERSON. LILY JAMES IS COOL AND AWESOME.
Opinions or judgments aside... Praying for everyone including Lily. She was in my dream last night very upset and for a good reason. Just checked the news. Very sad for everyone whatever happened.
Great advice, Lily, love it. She is such a great inspiration to me, just hearing her speak this sound advice makes me more confident to be stronger in myself, especially when it comes to critisism, and having the confidence to deal with anything that life throws at you.
Just here for the comments 😁😂
This lady is talking about growing as a person when she knowing has been messing around with a married man. The pair of them are disgusting!
Isn’t HE 😳 the one married? Shouldn’t HE possess the discipline not to go out & cheat out of respect for his wife? There’s no such thing as a “home wrecker” or man being “seduced “ by a temptress. The rage needs to be directed towards HIM. 😳
@@kidano5317 I think it’s fair to be disappointed in both, women should be fair to one another. I wouldn’t knowingly do things with a married man and I expect the same from other women. Of course he is mostly in the wrong, but that doesn’t make Lily innocent either.
very ironic .....timing.... cheating .... is not cool
@@b.6826 But people seem to go after her more than him.
@@ShadowSonic2 Well I cant help that, if it was him in the video then I would be “going after” him instead, but it’s not.
That is so true.
I really love this girl but seeing those news about her having an affair with a married man, I don't know anymore 💔 very disappointing. Hope you can come to your senses lily Married guy is off limits, there's a lot of young men that is available. Isn't it obvious that he is NOT A MAN? Cheating with you is no good for both of you. If he can't be a MAN for the women he marry, he can't be a MAN for you. Come to your senses Lily.
She loved her character so much that she needed to experience in real life Lol and she learned from it, I’m not criticising her just roasting, I love Lily
She so refreshing! Cant wait to see Rebecca! 😍💗
I ask all of us to look in the mirror and have an honest talk about who and what we want to be, then ask for forgiveness. Step away from things that will harm others or ourselves. Try and change what we did wrong by going forward and not repeating it. That goes for everybody living on this earth. Above all prayer. Praying can help and sets off miracles everywhere, even if we weren't aware of it to begin with.
This is beautiful 💛
Religion is a mass accepted mental illness. If you think praying helps you're just as deluded as children who write to santa.
Ridiculously lovely looking.
Lily is so intelligent and incredibly beautiful, why she would dumb herself down and ran after a married man is beyond me. Maybe I’d give her the benefit of the doubt if she was a regular person and didn’t know he was married. But she has access to google this man AND 99% chance she probably knows the same people as him. Even regular people can look a person up on Facebook and see if they’re with someone 🤦♀️ don’t feel sorry for her for a second. I keep that energy with both her and Dominic.
Lily James is a very nice woman.
Apart from when she's publicly dating a married man...
@@whereami2477 Isn’t HE 😳 the one married? Shouldn’t HE possess the discipline not to go out & cheat out of respect for his wife? There’s no such thing as a “home wrecker” or man being “seduced “ by a temptress. The rage needs to be directed towards HIM. 😳
@@kidano5317 They're obviously both at fault. Surely she would know if he's married or not
Lilly, I admire the fact that you made a “mistake” and yet, you are back into the spotlight with an incredibly humble and sincere approach to life.
And working hard to promote your film. A film somewhat close to what you are experiencing, it must be incredibly difficult to navigate all the media and people so quick to judgement . While married men get away with very little heat or media hatred for their rendezvous.
From the way you speak you seem to be a lady with a big heart. I hope you find true love someday! Someone deserving of you.
Mistakes are not pre meditated. Thats called a choice.
@@ThornyRoseV Hi Rose, she did not make a mistake, she's not the married one in this tale. Plus we do not anything other that the photos we saw. There are way more important things to do than to lynch people out there. Women need to support each other specially when we know very little information. Are you so perfect that you dare to accuse people?
Yes Lily - vulnerability is power 💓 😘 Xx
wow she really isn’t okay and it shows. Yall are monsters for making someone feel SO SO BAD. She messed up but shes human :/ wtf she’s trying her best
Gross...Married men are off-limits
If they do the film version of Matilda the Musical, Lily James would be the perfect Ms Honey. Imagine her singing When I grow up with the children. How amazing would that be?
I think there a gazillion of other actresses who can easily play that role.
But you chose to have an affair with a married man 🙄🤦♀️
"the things I tell myself arn't ture" "I learnt that recently" lol someone has been hanging out with Chris Evans
I wonder how feminists are going to try and defend her and portay her as the victim after she tried to ruin a marriage!
RebelSatyr It was so obviously a publicity stunt she has a Movie to promote..
Isn’t HE 😳 the one married? Shouldn’t HE possess the discipline not to go out & cheat out of respect for his wife? There’s no such thing as a “home wrecker” or man being “seduced “ by a temptress. The rage needs to be directed towards HIM. 😳
Who the hell gonna defend her but the problem is why did she got more hate? That guy should've keep it on his pants and loyal to his wife
Yeet The choices in Britain for beautiful Starlets like Lily is very limited because the Industry is dominated by Public School Boys ,Its worse than ever in terms of diversity of the Classes..
@@kidano5317 we as a society are so quick to attack 'the other woman' but she did not cheat, we do not know what has been said between them. He had the affair, he cheated on his wife. He is the problem.
Modern Feminism. Isn't is just so noble and lovely?
I love you so much
Lily James would like you to wreck another woman's marriage with an open heart. Cute.
Wreck? Isn’t HE 😳 the one married? Shouldn’t HE possess the discipline not to go out & cheat out of respect for his wife? There’s no such thing as a “home wrecker” or man being “seduced “ by a temptress. The rage needs to be directed towards HIM. 😳
@@kidano5317 they are both adults and know exactly what they are doing. This is a video where Lily james talks about mistakes, I would say the same about a Dominic West video where he talks about mistakes.
@@pb.j.1753 She’s the outside party. It’s not her responsibility to keep his marriage intact. It’s his. At the end of the day, he would’ve rejected her advances if he truly cared even slightly about his family. He didn’t.
@@kidano5317 wich makes him a narcissist and she his enabler and complicity.
If you know someone is being harmful/disrespectful towards anyone and do nothing about it - or worse, joins in - you’re simply part of the problem.
Descent people just don’t need to have any close relationship with another human to have empathy, sympathy, kindness and respect for them
@@kidano5317 Well if you think having romantic relationships with married people is perfectly fine then we have very different morals.
Love her movies, she is so good amazing actress and rolemodel and singer 😍😎🤩❤🌎💧🍀🎆🎇❤❤❤❤❤ Look for to see Rebecca when is come out on Netflix❤❤ Lily james you are my rolemodel❤❤❤
This is your Role model...Interesting.
Oh dear....
Beautiful lady in and out...
Lol you do realise she has twice been involved with married men. How is that nice ?
I love yoy lot
Ilove you
she seems like a sweet girl even we don't know her in person , yes she cheated on a married man Dominic West , but most of all .... the Rebecca movie was quite bad ..... I watched it on Netflix and was quite disappointing . It was very rushed in the 2/3 of the movie and the characters in the movie were not engaging , quite a hollow experience
It's so disappointing when you know every hollywood actress not intelligent enough to be an independent thinker is just gonna appropriate the ready made McPolitics of the day of wokeness and espouse feminism
Ok, trollop.
I want to have my sorkel.
💖💖💖
First comment 🥰🥰🥰
English beauty💖
Wow🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️💕♥️♥️
I need to put it out there everyone is going at poor Lily for the Dominic West thing when he was the MARRIED MAN and he had a choice. Lily made a mistake but don’t we all! No one is perfect and I just think people need to remember that. It’s possible lily didn’t even know and even if she did it was his choice and people can only guess what he said to her!! For all you guys know he could have told her some shit about a divorce or something (random). My point it don’t get involved until you know all the facts 🤍❄️
She also had a choice to ruin something or not. A mistake is not premeditated. Stop making excuses.
Sorry
Me me me
not OK to be in a relationship with someone's husband! and it wasnt first time you did it! homewrecker!!
🤮
Wonder what you were sniffing up your nose in the park during the summer? :/
She is NOT you should be ashamed of yourself spreading lies!
She is extremely broken.
Okay homewrecker, I'll never watch anything with her in it again including Baby Driver which I love.
So, let me get this straight. Because a married 50 year old man kissed a 30 year old actress in public, you are going to stop supporting the ACTRESS, to the point that you will never again watch a movie you “love”. Sorry, doesn’t really make much logical sense.
This is sad. What if she and Dominick really, really, care about each other?
This girl needs JESUS and professional help. ASAP!
I never liked her, I dont know why. Something about her seems off to me. Her act always feels too much. I dont care about her being a homewrecker, it’s her personal life... but her act is just so so so terrible I just cant see
You tried to ruin a woman's marriage and you call yourself a feminist...shame on you...
I would rather watch a blank screen inspite of watching another lily James movie.
Isn’t HE 😳 the one married? Shouldn’t HE possess the discipline not to go out & cheat out of respect for his wife? There’s no such thing as a “home wrecker” or man being “seduced “ by a temptress. The rage needs to be directed towards HIM. 😳
Tbh those paparazzi pics are clickbait the media twisting peoples thoughts wtf saying they 'passionately kissed'!? Wasnt even a kiss on the lips and shes on her phone the while time! 😂
@@17pinksoda they didn't kiss!!! but he kissed on her neck...she was there "enjoying" the moment...after that, they rode on a scooter to end their romantic date!! if she is so "innocent", then she should have stopped him from coming close to her as he is married and they both are each other's colleagues... colleagues work together, hang out together but don't go on a date and kiss each other!!! she ruined a woman's marriage, SHAME ON HER!!!
@@saanjhsharma2743 it takes two to ruin a marriage.
@@missisfreddiemercury ya ur absolutely correct... it takes two people to ruin a marriage one is lily James and the other is Dominic west..
Homewrecker
Dominic is the one who is the homewrecker. He chose to start an affair as the one who is married. Lily is very much in the wrong, but she isn't married and Dominic is the unfaithful adulterous snake. The married man needs to be held accountable because HE is the cheat. Lily may have thought he was separated, men spin lots of lies to get a woman and he is the married person, but if she knew then Lily is stupid.
@@vaw796 lol
@@AKRose-nm1zs You are telling a lie and Lily was in a park with friends clearly using a hayfever nasal spray. There are bigger things going on than this, but both are in wrong yet Lily is villified more. Dominic is the married party and aduleterous one with kids. It happens every day, but the world has huge problems right now and this was gossip.
@@vaw796 if Lily knew he was still married then she’s also a cheater. By definition they are BOTH homewreckers.
Isn’t HE 😳 the one married? Shouldn’t HE possess the discipline not to go out & cheat out of respect for his wife? There’s no such thing as a “home wrecker” or man being “seduced “ by a temptress. The rage needs to be directed towards HIM. 😳
So fake wrecking someone’s life is cruel
Ok wow now it came out she had a thing with Armie Hammer as well. Girl just can’t help herself.
I don't like her, I don't really know why, but I do.
She loves affair.
You are mistress misty not good
Dirty home wrecker
No such thing. HE was the married man. HE was the one that saw this girl that was TWENTY years younger than him and kiss her. As far as I or anyone that actually looked up what happened is concerned, she’s not the bad guy here.
Homewrecker