How Tristan Tate Will Raise his Kids

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  • @LuckyOctober
    @LuckyOctober Před 2 měsíci +10044

    I think there’s a balance between teaching them the value of money and being able to provide as a caregiver.

    • @Glock7eventeen
      @Glock7eventeen Před 2 měsíci +400

      Yes. Give them shelter, food, clothing, pay for their education. But do not spoil them with easy money, cars, property, they should get that themselves.

    • @Purp1eRe1gn696
      @Purp1eRe1gn696 Před měsícem +56

      This is more than care giving. This is teaching them what you didn’t get taught which is why you think it’s wrong.

    • @jonathanchristman335
      @jonathanchristman335 Před měsícem +26

      Provide for their needs, teach them morals and hard work, financial skills. Then when they develop all that, are 40 and father dies, they get their inheritance which will be a blessing instead of a curse like it would be if given way too young.

    • @user-oy2oq5ql9q
      @user-oy2oq5ql9q Před měsícem +25

      He should not spoil the girls either they are worse when they get spoiled

    • @weird_0
      @weird_0 Před měsícem +7

      @@Purp1eRe1gn696buying clothes is basic care giving.

  • @catiasimoes3761
    @catiasimoes3761 Před 2 měsíci +6127

    I'd rather have my children work for what they want, all of them get the same treatment. Working for your own stuff makes you resilient

    • @joel9002
      @joel9002 Před 2 měsíci +35

      Whats the point of being rich if u cant spoil anyone

    • @diarmuidb50
      @diarmuidb50 Před 2 měsíci

      @@joel9002spoil yourself and let your chikdren do the same

    • @omarhamed924
      @omarhamed924 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@joel9002yes

    • @KSKUNKS
      @KSKUNKS Před 2 měsíci

      @@joel9002spoiling yourself its what most ppl get rich for

    • @princeroymartin8027
      @princeroymartin8027 Před 2 měsíci +34

      @@joel9002not being broke

  • @kingdoggie5231
    @kingdoggie5231 Před měsícem +1672

    My sons won’t have to do what I did. They just have to prove to me that they are worthy, that is itself is enough.

    • @jessestinson9252
      @jessestinson9252 Před měsícem +19

      Who would even have a kid in this world. Shit baffles me

    • @guestaccount4188
      @guestaccount4188 Před měsícem

      ​@@jessestinson9252heh?

    • @Saphire0686
      @Saphire0686 Před měsícem +36

      ​@@jessestinson9252You were a kid once too yk?

    • @zzzzjohnnyzzzz6209
      @zzzzjohnnyzzzz6209 Před měsícem

      ⁠@@jessestinson9252anyone who thinks like this is an idiot why would you end your bloodline just because the world is falling apart you act like history hasn’t been bad before and having kids who can help the future and continue your bloodline is the best thing anyone could do

    • @jessestinson9252
      @jessestinson9252 Před měsícem +8

      @@Saphire0686 yea before the world took a shit. I was a 97 baby before 9/11

  • @vanoroth9567
    @vanoroth9567 Před 2 měsíci +500

    Teaching your kids to fend for themselves is fine, just don't be surprised when they don't help you when you need it, they're just doing what you taught them.

    • @megakdre100
      @megakdre100 Před měsícem +10

      Fr you a grown man we don’t need to buy you anything

    • @GhostBanned369
      @GhostBanned369 Před měsícem +47

      Like my dad, he did not even buy me new shoes so i worked from age 12.
      He loved his money so much more then his own blood so now he is a lonely and depressed old man dying all alone and i don't care.

    • @brandonporis2376
      @brandonporis2376 Před měsícem +7

      I found it fascinating that people cant understand a simple thing..dude your dad was greedy..tristan is talking abut making them strong making them box will definitely be a good thing for them in the future nd if they are spoil with money they'll never know how to be a good men they will be weak men

    • @Auriyt_78628
      @Auriyt_78628 Před měsícem +6

      Ok so u dont want ur kids to be disciplined and u want them to be a gen alpha crybaby for the rest of their lives

    • @coolcat6103
      @coolcat6103 Před měsícem +2

      😂!! Excellent……sorry dad I’m not changing your diaper OR doing your shopping , you have to go through what we did n fend for yourself

  • @MrManWithPlan
    @MrManWithPlan Před 2 měsíci +1528

    I disagree on one part. Daughters ain’t getting special treatment. There’s already enough stuck up girls in the world. I’d rather raise humble kids regardless of gender. And I want my sons to not hate my daughters. So the idea is you’re all my kids and you’re all raised then same.

    • @kilarymz4life772
      @kilarymz4life772 Před měsícem

      No. Women need a fathers love and guidance or they will get it somewhere else and become onlyfans girls

    • @RickWick-gt7yp
      @RickWick-gt7yp Před měsícem +62

      Agreed 100%

    • @abbymkw12
      @abbymkw12 Před měsícem +27

      W mans

    • @HardHustler956
      @HardHustler956 Před měsícem +16

      This ☝️

    • @MrManWithPlan
      @MrManWithPlan Před měsícem +9

      @@HardHustler956 thought you did the nerd emoji ☠️ I was terrified that I actually had to defend my argument

  • @christianc6873
    @christianc6873 Před měsícem +1348

    Kid in 30 years time: "No Dad I'm not gonna help you, let me be very clear with you, I am healthy and young, and you are sick and old, sort it out yourself"

    • @IDubOnAll
      @IDubOnAll Před měsícem +64

      Fr there needs to be balance

    • @rfg8768
      @rfg8768 Před měsícem +6

      rs

    • @ThatGuy-vk2fe
      @ThatGuy-vk2fe Před měsícem +8

      It's more about working to achieve the best version of yourself in this life
      rather than being a sponge

    • @christianc6873
      @christianc6873 Před měsícem +8

      @@ThatGuy-vk2fe That's completely fine and obviously is a good thing to want for your children, but there are far better ways of going about it. All I'm getting at is instilling complete selfishness and the mentality of "no man deserves my help and generosity, even family" is not a great base to start with when it comes to raising a man with moral integrity

    • @Contemplatingspider
      @Contemplatingspider Před měsícem

      @@christianc6873kid shhh

  • @chandrakantshah3610
    @chandrakantshah3610 Před měsícem +314

    *son comes out*
    Son:whos my father
    Doctor:tristan tate
    Son:alright i am going back inside

    • @beautifulnature7895
      @beautifulnature7895 Před měsícem +3

      Bros a cry baby it’s okay little buddy

    • @Uncleruckus403
      @Uncleruckus403 Před měsícem +12

      @@beautifulnature7895bros mad bc he made a joke about his precious big daddy

    • @WakandaleezaRazz
      @WakandaleezaRazz Před měsícem +1

      Why is a baby talking?

    • @Uncleruckus403
      @Uncleruckus403 Před měsícem

      @@WakandaleezaRazz Offend your big daddy as well and who are you I'm the uncle ruckus pffff

    • @heinkemp3253
      @heinkemp3253 Před měsícem

      ​@@WakandaleezaRazzHe didnt talk just crawled it isnt impossible to crawl at 2mins whwn your dad is Tristian

  • @toanluong4736
    @toanluong4736 Před 2 měsíci +77

    My dad is a millionaire and he has the same mindset. My sister just get everything handed to her on a golden plate and I just get to eat dirt and shit. Trust me it sucks getting treated like that I would never treat my son the way my dad did.

    • @rationalis5867
      @rationalis5867 Před měsícem +9

      I am very sorry to hear this...
      How did this affect your relationship with your sister and your father? Do you resent them?

    • @IndiaIncoming-ko6my
      @IndiaIncoming-ko6my Před měsícem +3

      Don't you worry bro because your sister will probably grow up to be spoiled

    • @MissiFull
      @MissiFull Před 17 dny +3

      Entitled sister vs resilient man.
      You playing victim here. Grow some balls.

    • @000Veron
      @000Veron Před 13 dny

      @@MissiFull Shut up

    • @MissiFull
      @MissiFull Před 13 dny

      @@000Veron kiss me

  • @austinhargis4606
    @austinhargis4606 Před 2 měsíci +405

    I grew up poor nd wouldn’t ever want my kids to expierience what I went through

    • @sevollta1291
      @sevollta1291 Před 2 měsíci +22

      But that made u who u are and apreciate money. If u grew up rich and having everything u would be diffrent person. Most probably worse person.

    • @Khylur_Getz
      @Khylur_Getz Před 2 měsíci +10

      I complete agree, and his kids clearly wouldn't experience living poor either. That's not what he's saying. His kids would still live in his nice home and have their basic needs met better than 90% of kids today. The difference is these certain, more privileged aspects of their day to day life would have to be earned, similar to what he had to do.
      I couldn't imagine being that rich and not spoil my kids. It would really take this kind of calculated approach and personally I commend him for it. I'd bet he raises some pretty solid kids.

    • @Khylur_Getz
      @Khylur_Getz Před 2 měsíci

      ...Or they'll be pretentious little shittes, but by then everyone will have forgotten this clip 😂

    • @atdhekrasniqi6080
      @atdhekrasniqi6080 Před měsícem

      I grew up beeing „Quite“ poor. I am „Quite“ rich now. I would love if my children would Experience the Same struggle as me. In the end, i am happy that i experienced also difficult Times

    • @hamster4618
      @hamster4618 Před měsícem

      @@sevollta1291 😂 that’s a load of bull.

  • @user-qy6yo7hp1r
    @user-qy6yo7hp1r Před 2 měsíci +4755

    Son, I'm rich, you are poor. Oh you want to eat? Go to KFC and start digging through buckets

    • @VV-db8vh
      @VV-db8vh Před 2 měsíci +131

      Yeah if I had a kid and I was rich I would want them to have a happy, peaceful, easy going life

    • @ajayy3290
      @ajayy3290 Před 2 měsíci +248

      @@VV-db8vhthat’s how u raise a spoiled kid who expects everything to be given to them

    • @warlock-jr-2545
      @warlock-jr-2545 Před 2 měsíci +50

      @@ajayy3290 They have to know how it feels to be poor and suffer the same way others do Otherwise u wont ever learn to appreciate money the same way

    • @scenepack2529
      @scenepack2529 Před 2 měsíci

      @@VV-db8vhyou wanna raise spoilt children?

    • @Syahindra-
      @Syahindra- Před 2 měsíci

      @@VV-db8vhyeah ur Future bloodline like ur grandkids are gonna suffer because then your son will be spoiled and lazy.

  • @rhysmendozavilla2378
    @rhysmendozavilla2378 Před měsícem +145

    Tristan when he’s old: why don’t my sons ever visit me?

    • @plopkoek7520
      @plopkoek7520 Před měsícem +4

      Yea that happens if you do it with bad intentions and if you kids don’t respect you

    • @Cyborg_Lenin
      @Cyborg_Lenin Před měsícem +1

      ​@@plopkoek7520hahahahah yeah, its about bad intentions. Kids will love a dad that mistreatment them purposely. They will definitly respect him.

    • @RiftEnalios
      @RiftEnalios Před měsícem +8

      @@plopkoek7520sorry, but if you treat your daughters like royalty and your sons like basic humans, yea, your sons are gonna hate you. That’s just how it is

    • @MrMatchete
      @MrMatchete Před 29 dny

      tristan is not his brother man. this guy has cuck mentalist all over him

    • @hamzamahmood3956
      @hamzamahmood3956 Před 27 dny

      I don't think he'll care tbh

  • @luciferGms2453
    @luciferGms2453 Před měsícem +80

    *All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserves children*

    • @LosPollos400
      @LosPollos400 Před 24 dny +6

      Bro onto nothing

    • @Bazinga415
      @Bazinga415 Před 23 dny +3

      ⁠@@LosPollos400bro is onto something

    • @LosPollos400
      @LosPollos400 Před 23 dny +6

      @@Bazinga415 Not spoiling your kids and teaching them to value everything = NoT aLl pArEnTs dEsErVe cHiLdReN

    • @luciferGms2453
      @luciferGms2453 Před 23 dny

      @@LosPollos400 Bros onto nothing

    • @LosPollos400
      @LosPollos400 Před 23 dny

      @@luciferGms2453Nah you just dont understand the purpose of what he said in the video

  • @voltstorm2519
    @voltstorm2519 Před 2 měsíci +844

    If I have kids I will make sure they have a better life than I did, but will still be raised to have respect and discipline so they become good people
    Edit: It seems people didn't read my full comment I said I would discipline my kid so they learn respect

    • @freddiet8639
      @freddiet8639 Před 2 měsíci +19

      Unfortunately comfort breeds weakness, you're kids will grow up entitled and spoilt with no respect for hard work, that is just how life works. It's OK though my kids are spoilt by nanny and grandad, auntie uncle etc, they are young and I can see already how little they appreciate luxarys because they are so used to having them all the time, before I had kids I was like you, I thought I knew it all, but you will soon learn, best of luck.

    • @xc9034
      @xc9034 Před 2 měsíci +12

      @@freddiet8639 Not if u disciplin them hard early, tell them they wont get anything unless they work hard, with training, school etc, that should happen as soon as they can walk and think

    • @mauritsvanneijenhoff6444
      @mauritsvanneijenhoff6444 Před 2 měsíci

      @@xc9034Young kids don’t understand if you just tell them.

    • @xc9034
      @xc9034 Před 2 měsíci

      @@mauritsvanneijenhoff6444 That’s why you make them work for it, I’d rather have my children disciplined and a good force in life and they hate me then they love me and are miserable for them selves and in life with no knowledge or wisdom so that when I die they won’t know what to do

    • @freddiet8639
      @freddiet8639 Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@xc9034 do you have children? I'm a strict parent, punishment is applied somtimes aggressively if needed, they are well behaved I'm talking about respect for things they are given, it's just not there because they are so used to getting everything, I make good money as does my family, there is no hard times for them, as I said, hard times breed strength, easy times breed weakness, regardless of discipline applied.

  • @PatrickStephens-hc5sp
    @PatrickStephens-hc5sp Před 2 měsíci +112

    I believe in giving my kids a better life than I had. It’s Not about spoiling them with money, but using what I have to give them the best experiences and opportunities possible.

    • @THELIFEDREAMER.1329
      @THELIFEDREAMER.1329 Před 2 měsíci +8

      I agree with you! We don't want our kids to go through all the bad things we have to suffer. They have to have a better life because they are us.

    • @user-xt9hs9lt9j
      @user-xt9hs9lt9j Před 2 měsíci +5

      Yes but to him kids = sons, and realistically giving ur daughter such a idiotic view on life of getting what she wants while the “boys” are going to be poorer than you is a terrible way to raise a woman

    • @corytrappint.v.2841
      @corytrappint.v.2841 Před měsícem

      They will be spoiled and entitled. Trust me I have children

    • @PatrickStephens-hc5sp
      @PatrickStephens-hc5sp Před měsícem

      @@corytrappint.v.2841 do you mean by nature or by nurture?.

    • @DuoIingo_Is_Coming
      @DuoIingo_Is_Coming Před měsícem

      ⁠@@corytrappint.v.2841massive cap, just because you had a terrible childhood doesn’t mean your children have too.

  • @cbpilot
    @cbpilot Před měsícem +7

    .. Yes and give your daughters everything. Good way to teach them to be respectful and hard working....

  • @funnypantshd150
    @funnypantshd150 Před měsícem +24

    how to be an abusive father and get no love from their children leading to split up families 101

  • @ghostwithface
    @ghostwithface Před 2 měsíci +366

    2 yo boy just shivering beside the dinner table "Dad.. can I have your crumbs"
    "500 PUSH UPS!!"
    😂

    • @MrManWithPlan
      @MrManWithPlan Před měsícem +5

      Average brain rot sigma male🤓☝️:

    • @MrManWithPlan
      @MrManWithPlan Před měsícem +4

      Wait lemme specify I’m not saying that to you I’m saying that to people who think that’s a good idea to treat kids that way

    • @RitzyRoutes
      @RitzyRoutes Před měsícem

      or make them wash dishes after eating

    • @heinkemp3253
      @heinkemp3253 Před měsícem

      Tristian is prob 700

    • @Hannah_Banana371
      @Hannah_Banana371 Před měsícem +1

      Oomgg fr 😂😭

  • @zack_plays7063
    @zack_plays7063 Před 2 měsíci +282

    While you do have to teach your sons how to survive and thrive, doing it this way will have them resent you and their sisters no matter how greatful they might be for the lessons in the future.

    • @johnyervins5824
      @johnyervins5824 Před 2 měsíci +21

      So you wouldn't make your son's the greatest they could be because of the selfish thought they'd resent you?

    • @Zeysteria
      @Zeysteria Před 2 měsíci

      yea I want to speak to my son​@@johnyervins5824

    • @zack_plays7063
      @zack_plays7063 Před 2 měsíci +43

      @johnyervins5824 I'm saying there are better ways to teach them about suffering and struggle without them hating their family.

    • @5ivestar65
      @5ivestar65 Před 2 měsíci +8

      @@johnyervins5824lol as someone who values “family” this should be considered by the Tates. Their whole thing is brotherhood so I have no doubt they would also want their sons to love their sisters, no resent them.

    • @bosssavage3325
      @bosssavage3325 Před 2 měsíci

      If their thoughts were “resentment” then they didn’t develop into good men and don’t deserve it anyway.

  • @Firegod13244
    @Firegod13244 Před měsícem +32

    Never give this guy a son 💀

    • @carsonledonne5423
      @carsonledonne5423 Před měsícem +1

      And why’s that?

    • @Nekuno
      @Nekuno Před měsícem +6

      @@carsonledonne5423not buying your son a plane ticket to go with you is kinda wack imo 😂

    • @konstantinpyro1900
      @konstantinpyro1900 Před měsícem

      100%

    • @Firegod13244
      @Firegod13244 Před měsícem

      @@carsonledonne5423 did you not watch the video or am I just stupid?

    • @ambarino1993
      @ambarino1993 Před 12 dny

      @@carsonledonne5423He just said: I’m gonna neglect my son, I’m gonna make him fight, I’m a good dad. There is a difference between raising your kids to be strong and resilient vs neglecting your children

  • @LOL13262
    @LOL13262 Před měsícem +4

    “Dont want my kids to become waiters, waiting for me to die” - some man on a show

  • @Kub44682
    @Kub44682 Před 2 měsíci +142

    My cousins are well off.. they go on 3 holidays a year with my uncle and aunt.. my cousin tilly has already started making money working for my uncle and Olly is going to uni .. Both are hardworking people and not spoilt in their behaviour theyre both really kind hardworking individuals. I dont think forcing them to experience what you went through is necessarily the way to do it as you risk making your child resent you instead of teaching them strong values. Setting a good example and guiding them to make good choices and adopt good habits is just as effective if not more in my experience.

    • @Ember_Prime
      @Ember_Prime Před 2 měsíci +11

      It is the most effective. Not just possibly more effective. Putting your children through a hellish situation but not their other siblings on the basis of sex will make them resent their family, and inevitably will lead to a horrible relationship that is likely to end in the children cutting off their parents.
      Psychologically, what Tristan is saying is that he will treat his sons unfairly. For him it clearly isn’t to make them better men, though. He wants control over another human being, knowing he can make their life good but refusing to do so. What he wants to do is emotionally and psychologically abuse his future sons, which will end very badly for him.

    • @GTASMehMet
      @GTASMehMet Před 2 měsíci

      yeah... that can work, but the odds are against them. if they did it dont mean everyone can. there is not much spoiled kids from poor families. and if they got everything, money, holidays and JOBS from their uncle.... means they are good workers, but the problem is what they are going to give their children? their uncle is a leader and he made it all possible... this guy is talling long term in dynasty and legacy, not just his kids.

    • @dean0o0o
      @dean0o0o Před 2 měsíci

      @@Ember_Primeretarded take

    • @super_5402
      @super_5402 Před 2 měsíci

      @@Ember_Primethese tate suck ups don’t know what common sense is

    • @ra8937
      @ra8937 Před 2 měsíci

      Well said.

  • @kingbattle393
    @kingbattle393 Před 2 měsíci +364

    Nah you have to have your sons carry you around like an Egyptian pharaoh to build strength and endurance, then you have to abandon them at five to let them learn how to survive the world without you at a young age.

  • @maa.6007
    @maa.6007 Před měsícem +2

    Having a father who says "i will make sure to tell u that im rich and you, my own son, is poor" ..
    Thats why not everyone deserves to be a parent

  • @vanshbhondekar8126
    @vanshbhondekar8126 Před 23 dny +1

    Having intense partiality or even a simple partiality between kids would make your kids hate you.

  • @MohammedAli-1
    @MohammedAli-1 Před 2 měsíci +79

    For a moment it seemed like they have to pay for their own plane tickets from 3, 4, 5 😂

  • @Mookie70
    @Mookie70 Před 2 měsíci +29

    You raise your children your way and I’ll raise mine my way

    • @proffesormonke8301
      @proffesormonke8301 Před měsícem +1

      kind of the point of society, different people different backgrounds different morals etc

  • @R3tr0Burd
    @R3tr0Burd Před měsícem +2

    There's a difference between teaching young men responsibility and hard work and just being flat out neglectful.

  • @Anward4240
    @Anward4240 Před měsícem +1

    If I was rich they would sit in first class, but I’d raise them to not be little shits and respect people and to feel lucky where they are.

  • @emilelambert4255
    @emilelambert4255 Před 2 měsíci +87

    I don't think it is a good idea to sepparate the boys and girls like that. It is healty for a girl to learn the sence of responsbility and value of money too. You most not make entitle princesses out of them.

    • @paradoxxgaming
      @paradoxxgaming Před 2 měsíci

      It’s kind of like choose your poison with girls if you are a hyper successful father. Boys will benefit more going through hardships and develop the masculine character, but you don’t want masculine daughters. Yet you don’t want entitled spoiled daughters either. Double edged sword

    • @jarrolightfeather4703
      @jarrolightfeather4703 Před 2 měsíci

      Boy and girl need to be separated because we have a different brain and way of thinking

    • @sweetness34km
      @sweetness34km Před 2 měsíci

      He is creating same women they make fun of. Moronic

    • @user-oz5nw8kp3b
      @user-oz5nw8kp3b Před 2 měsíci +1

      If you raise your kids by teaching them house chores are for girls only..Than you can treate them like princess..
      What's the use of teaching your daughters how to be women but not treat them as such??

    • @emilelambert4255
      @emilelambert4255 Před 2 měsíci

      @@user-oz5nw8kp3b because they should be able to take care of children, in their adulthood. The woman role is not just being a smiling bimbo.

  • @CrazedJester37
    @CrazedJester37 Před 2 měsíci +24

    How to make your kids hate and resent you 101

  • @mavicprotoe3959
    @mavicprotoe3959 Před 2 hodinami

    My Father never bort me material items, But gave me the wisdom in life and il never forget that. His famous saying was (If you have your health, You have your wealth) R.I.P Dad. Thank you for your knowledge ❤❤❤❤

  • @Ga1axyCODM
    @Ga1axyCODM Před měsícem +18

    20 years later: “I wonder why my sons ignore me and my daughters always ask me for money 😢”

  • @countryrats6206
    @countryrats6206 Před 2 měsíci +7

    My goal in life is to make sure my kids never have to go through what I did and can have the opportunities I didn't. I want them by my side the whole time I remember how it was growing up and my friends parents would throw birthday parties and most of the time I couldn't go because I didn't have the money for myself I had 1 friend whose dad paid for me to come with them even argued with my parents about me not being able to come I was 13 and he spent more money on me that day then anyone had for years and I just stated crying idk why I couldn't explain it at all but I cried and cried and cried I was just so happy I felt more than love I felt valued I prey I can pay that back to someone one day. I know now that I grew up in a household where we had nothing it was a struggle to put food on the table for me and my family for them they valued my health the whole time. I love my parents both of them and I prey to be as awsome as they was and still be able to spoil my own

  • @TheMabDarogan
    @TheMabDarogan Před 2 měsíci +22

    Older generation : "I work hard so that my kids get a easy life"
    Also older generation : "when I was a kid I had it harder"

    • @johanason884
      @johanason884 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Also older generation : "When I was a kid all I needed was a firm hand shake and High school diploma to get a job and buy my 15k dollar starter home"

  • @gr8familyguy452
    @gr8familyguy452 Před 6 dny

    This is the most powerful thing I heard on CZcams ever

  • @michaelhalloran21
    @michaelhalloran21 Před měsícem +2

    Couldn’t have been that hard then if you want your kids to go through what you consider to be difficult times.
    I wouldn’t wish my lowest times on my child.

  • @TheMightsparrow
    @TheMightsparrow Před 2 měsíci +90

    They will be Angry as well.
    But this is why they will recent him.
    I understand making them self reliant but hand me downs whilst getting his daughters everything.
    I know what this kind of treatment does to a kid having gone through this type of childhood.
    I do know what doing the opposite does as well, having Spoilt my kids.
    There is a balance just finding that is the hardest part.

    • @dinosehic4158
      @dinosehic4158 Před 2 měsíci

      What are you talking about?! Every famous person who has made life easy for their kids are fukkkkin unhinged nuts.

    • @nickw6993
      @nickw6993 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Well said, experience is one hell of a teacher and I’m glad you’ve got your head on straight and learned 🫡
      I hope that doesn’t sound condescending, and if it does I’d like to let you know that I’m an 18 year old and I don’t have shit relative to experience and I apologize if I misspoke.

    • @ryou8820
      @ryou8820 Před 2 měsíci

      You can spoil a girl but not a boy , cz otherwise he gonna be a dumbass

    • @little_lord_tam
      @little_lord_tam Před 2 měsíci +4

      To everything there is a balance, sadly you only get one chance at raising kids and the only people you can ask are people that failed themselves. Well mostly.
      I know I am gonna read book after book once I expect a child. All about psychology, behavior science and parental psychology

    • @johanason884
      @johanason884 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I agree, all the children need to be treated the same. If you are favoring some children over others then they are going to grow up to despise you and their siblings.

  • @Ricomadix
    @Ricomadix Před 2 měsíci +8

    I fux wit the Tates but I ain’t rockin with this here. If I’m rich my kids are rich.

  • @zxomb
    @zxomb Před měsícem +27

    "I wonder why they dont call me"

  • @gabe9431
    @gabe9431 Před měsícem +1

    Honestly I get this, I get it bcz the struggle to get rich is better than the money itself, but you have to help them and give them something

  • @andrewoberg
    @andrewoberg Před 2 měsíci +11

    this works when you run multi-million dollar businesses, they’ll have phenomenal connections & if they develop a work ethic they’ll be just fine

  • @Littlejohnnymarston1
    @Littlejohnnymarston1 Před 2 měsíci +47

    Bros sons are gonna hate him I get what he’s doing but teaching them instead of forcing them to earn their worth is only gonna blow up in his face

    • @dinosehic4158
      @dinosehic4158 Před 2 měsíci +2

      It's better for them to hate em!! Lol famous people's kids are nuts

    • @Dawnchuy
      @Dawnchuy Před 2 měsíci

      Good, id hate my dad if he was a rich dickhead too

  • @bream7076
    @bream7076 Před měsícem

    Every single parents treat their kids like this

  • @Nivarokgaming
    @Nivarokgaming Před měsícem +1

    Treat them too differently and they’ll build resentment it’s a balance love and toughness

  • @hamoud9017
    @hamoud9017 Před 2 měsíci +9

    What’s the point of generational wealth then 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @mayuragarwal6648
    @mayuragarwal6648 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Tate kids will buy their dad's courses to became rich😂😂

  • @Tofiiman1
    @Tofiiman1 Před měsícem

    That’s what a lot people say before they get their own child, after they’ll love them unconditionally

  • @erikasamano444
    @erikasamano444 Před měsícem

    That's how u raise successful unentitled adults! ❤❤❤❤

  • @abcdcba4405
    @abcdcba4405 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Tristan: “I love my daughters more than my sons”

    • @hamster4618
      @hamster4618 Před měsícem

      Yeah, his daughters can work in his prawn industry.

  • @paulagoh-ry9go
    @paulagoh-ry9go Před 2 měsíci +12

    Recycling your pain
    Very brilliant

  • @00777X
    @00777X Před 2 dny

    If they're hungry they will have a greater chance at success. 😊

  • @Andreas_Gaming13
    @Andreas_Gaming13 Před dnem

    Talk abaut equality 😂

  • @randomxaos
    @randomxaos Před 2 měsíci +16

    Man I don't know if that's right or wrong but it's sure sounds funny

  • @pbabuik
    @pbabuik Před 2 měsíci +3

    That only works to an extent. While it is important to teach them that hardwork is the only way to get what you earn . It's not really fair to make them suffer for no reward.

  • @balabala_be2
    @balabala_be2 Před 2 dny

    That's actually my father's mentality

  • @CRCM2000
    @CRCM2000 Před 2 měsíci +25

    My parents are making me do the same thing. I’ve finally come to the realization that this is the right way.

    • @NathanBLTZ
      @NathanBLTZ Před měsícem +5

      No, that's not the way someone should raise their kids...

    • @Davchooo
      @Davchooo Před měsícem

      @@NathanBLTZ How should one raise their kids?

    • @flareshuriken1661
      @flareshuriken1661 Před měsícem +2

      @@Davchoooeducating them and taking care of them

  • @DiceLegendaryWarrior
    @DiceLegendaryWarrior Před 2 měsíci +6

    You can still teach your sons lessons of hardship without making them feel their lives are less valuable to you then your daughters...That is all you will instill teaching this way...A resentment towards you and likely women as a whole as they will see women as getting the easy way in life and their life means less...Let me tell you you never want a class of people who are stronger who think their life means less...Thats a recipe for societal disaster

    • @dinosehic4158
      @dinosehic4158 Před 2 měsíci

      Show me 1 normal Hollywood child 😂

    • @DiceLegendaryWarrior
      @DiceLegendaryWarrior Před 2 měsíci +4

      @@dinosehic4158 he's not Hollywood what does this have to do with anything?

  • @Justanything1717
    @Justanything1717 Před měsícem +1

    You go through that so your children do not have to

  • @johnleelove
    @johnleelove Před měsícem +1

    I agree with Tate, think about (life) you have to earn, EVERYTHING!! Nothing should be given, but must be earned!! So spoiledness doesn't happen!

    • @Aajd549
      @Aajd549 Před 3 dny

      Thats neglection, not discipline. Please learn how to not spoil and make them disciplined PROPERLY.

  • @faridshahid1833
    @faridshahid1833 Před 2 měsíci +24

    First it’s discrimination against his male children. Second, you are obligated (morally and legally depending on where you live) to care for and provide for your children. This is a terrible way of raising children.

    • @cointomato9768
      @cointomato9768 Před 2 měsíci +2

      He's a millionaire, bro. 😅
      Not giving your kids nice clothes or going on lots of vacations isn't "not providing."

    • @24bulletdodger_uffishal
      @24bulletdodger_uffishal Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@cointomato9768not at all what he said
      Dumba*s

    • @megakdre100
      @megakdre100 Před měsícem +2

      @@cointomato9768I think it is when he does it with the daughters but not the sons. What does that tell the sons oh dad hate where where born but love sister

    • @UnexpectingDuck
      @UnexpectingDuck Před měsícem

      @@cointomato9768That parts true but you didn’t cover the part where he values his daughters well more than his sons. Like I understand different needs different types of people, but he implied he would take his daughters on trips and keep his sons at home, which is bs.

    • @JakeTheCake668
      @JakeTheCake668 Před měsícem

      @@cointomato9768so ur telling me that he I a millionaire yet he still is going to make his kids work for necessities

  • @user-ks4bt7gs6d
    @user-ks4bt7gs6d Před 2 měsíci +7

    That’s how you should raise your kids, just like real life people aren’t going to just hand you success

    • @kevindaigle5743
      @kevindaigle5743 Před 2 měsíci +1

      The harder you work the more you respect your accomplishments. Nothing in life is free 💪!!!!!

    • @grunt7555
      @grunt7555 Před 2 měsíci +3

      I’m sure all those hard working kids in sweat shops are gonna become super successful in the future and be super appreciative of working in factories from the age of 4

    • @slickrick873
      @slickrick873 Před měsícem

      They are if they suppose to

  • @Godinme229
    @Godinme229 Před 23 dny

    Love this man. Some kids these days are so greatful... keep it 💯

  • @saisushanth3125
    @saisushanth3125 Před 28 dny

    'If a boy doesn't feel the warmth of a family while growing up he would burn it down to feel it'

  • @mjbtowip4369
    @mjbtowip4369 Před 2 měsíci +16

    I despise this mug,

  • @brantleycombs3088
    @brantleycombs3088 Před 2 měsíci +3

    That’s how you create strong men. They will thank you for it for as long as they live when they are old enough to understand it.

    • @Aajd549
      @Aajd549 Před 3 dny

      THATS NEGLECTION, THEY'LL GROW RESENTMENT TOO. Imagine scrapping for food with ripped shirts and shoes that barely resemble a shoe. Is that neglection or discipline? Learn how to discipline before you get kids.

  • @morganstevens001
    @morganstevens001 Před 20 dny

    Love this. This is how my parents have been with me too. And I’m glad for that now

    • @user-ri9qp7xf8w
      @user-ri9qp7xf8w Před 19 dny

      So the daughters are allowed first class and not the sons?

  • @Sus-on9jv
    @Sus-on9jv Před měsícem

    his kids are gonna hate him when they are young, but when they mature, theyll realize he is the best dad in the world

  • @user-nh7el2nt6v
    @user-nh7el2nt6v Před 2 měsíci +3

    That's how my father raised me. I'm now 19 and have my own business and it's running well. I now earn more than 2,000 euros a week before my friends hang around me in a visual circle. I'm glad I have a father who takes me there. let go of all the heavy things but stand by me when I need help, you have to do everything alone

    • @banjobluedog
      @banjobluedog Před 2 měsíci

      excellent, you almost earn enough to hire a hit man and buy that sex change you've been dreaming of.

  • @ronburgundy4375
    @ronburgundy4375 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Its not wrong to make sure your children understand the value of life and a dollar

  • @superiorflame2654
    @superiorflame2654 Před měsícem

    All my kids need to do is do their best in school and my sons will exercise and do martial arts. I won’t spoil them, but I will give them the things they ask for because if they get good grades and become skilled fighters, that will make me proud of them. When I think of how it will look when I’m rich I picture my family rich with me but I also picture them humble

  • @joshuajacobs2757
    @joshuajacobs2757 Před měsícem

    It's a value of teaching your kids that everything you have is because of me. If you want to be like me you need to work like I did .

  • @Acewavey4
    @Acewavey4 Před 2 měsíci +4

    All these hate comments are matrix talk everyone raises there kids differently if he wants them to have a tuff childhood and turn them into men that’s him everyone else either raises their kids differently or the same way

    • @3yearstolong880
      @3yearstolong880 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Just because it worked and turned him and his brother into men don't mean it will work for his kids Especially if he's showing Favoritism to one of them and not showing the same level of love to the others it will just make them mad and hate him in the long run

    • @Aajd549
      @Aajd549 Před 3 dny

      Me when not supporting neglection is a matrix attack

  • @mason4013
    @mason4013 Před 2 měsíci +7

    so all the things he worked for was just for himself and not to support his family first L take by him

    • @rumblii9485
      @rumblii9485 Před 2 měsíci +2

      brother, all he is saying is he wents his sons to be very capable people not brats. If they are ever in actual harms way they will be fine but he will not spoil them.

    • @garretttyler7457
      @garretttyler7457 Před 2 měsíci

      @@rumblii9485if you think having your kids box at like 4 years old is a good take you are some delusional tate fan

    • @YamamotoKazuo
      @YamamotoKazuo Před 2 měsíci

      So that means that his son's will have to refer him as Mr. Tate during the plane ride

    • @daricklane9799
      @daricklane9799 Před 2 měsíci

      Adults who share their wealth end up with kids like bidden. Shaq has the same mindset

    • @muhammedsiddiqui7258
      @muhammedsiddiqui7258 Před 2 měsíci

      Gotta wake up my friend
      Men don’t get handouts you have to learn that
      If not now you will later when you get older

  • @Loveyourneighbour21
    @Loveyourneighbour21 Před měsícem

    I remember the old hand me downs from my brother, wish we got on like Tristan and Andrew though.😢

  • @colbyturner9573
    @colbyturner9573 Před měsícem +1

    Sounds like cruelty to treat your daughters with special treatment but not your son's

  • @teamextras4life270
    @teamextras4life270 Před měsícem

    YES MY VISION IS CLEAR
    AND MY HEART IS OPEN
    SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS GRAVITATE
    TOWARDS ME
    OBSTACLES VANISH AS MY INTENTIONS STRENGTHEN AND MY DESIRES ARE REALIZED WITH EASE.

  • @redrumarcus
    @redrumarcus Před 12 dny

    Like father like son

  • @sophiewest7769
    @sophiewest7769 Před 16 dny

    Your children, your rules. You get what you create. Some children will get what you're preaching. But beware some will have resentment.

  • @Reddeadvalross
    @Reddeadvalross Před měsícem

    “I am rich and they are poor” 🙏🐺

  • @The10List
    @The10List Před měsícem +1

    this is how u dicipline ur kids when ur rich

    • @Aajd549
      @Aajd549 Před 3 dny

      Thats not discipline. Thats neglection.

  • @MikeKollin
    @MikeKollin Před měsícem

    That's very interesting!!! It makes it really clear... You are Poor I am Rich! It will cause them to clearly see they have to develop a work ethic etc. which is really good...

  • @SirCash.
    @SirCash. Před 12 dny

    their dad is rich yet i somehow feel sorry for these children

  • @johnwhite2293
    @johnwhite2293 Před 12 dny

    That is the way I am bringing my kids up, if they want to live in the lifestyle that they do and they want to be as rich or richer than their parents, they need to work hard. But also it teaches them the value of money.

    • @Aajd549
      @Aajd549 Před 3 dny

      Thats neglecting your children. Please, PLEASE learn how to properly discipline your kids before you even get one.

  • @JonDavid-gr6ol
    @JonDavid-gr6ol Před 19 dny

    Thats a quick way to create resentment.

  • @jozsikabari8962
    @jozsikabari8962 Před 13 dny

    Dont judge him. Once he gonna have a kid with him full time, he will definitely be different. I used to say the same then my son was born and now he gets everything he want.. )

  • @RAo-hx8jc
    @RAo-hx8jc Před měsícem

    Totally agreed . To be a good man you must first experience strife pain hardship and understand how to carve a good life out of it . The greatest day in a young man’s life should be when he realizes he can make it own his own no matter what life throws . This message isn’t for everyone and I understand that but its values I was taught and I think it’s necessary.

  • @bringsocietytogether
    @bringsocietytogether Před měsícem

    there’s a major difference with not wanting to spoil your child and straight up neglecting your child despite being their caregiver

  • @normanbusch9686
    @normanbusch9686 Před měsícem

    Agreed Learn the struggle to get to a better place and be a better man

  • @MrNobody989
    @MrNobody989 Před měsícem +1

    I wouldn’t do that but I would lead them down the right path, once they enter high school slowly take off the training wheels. For example when they’re 6-14 do regular chores, if they want something they’ll have to do something else like help me repair or upgrade something around the house, for that part of the message is discipline and if you want something have to do more. After 14 if you want something you’ll have to find a way to pay for it, with me approving of how you are going to get the money. For sports early on as in before junior high no contact sport(mainly football or boxing) once you get into junior high you can do whatever sport you want. Once they graduate, college is optional, but if you go to college you better not fail and then try to work with me(you can if you pass and then decide this isn’t for me), if you fail your going to need to find a job and work for at least 2 years(same as if you didn’t go to college) before you work with me. Life’s to short to not live life to the fullest but don’t want to raise some p…

  • @Borninthewrongera
    @Borninthewrongera Před měsícem

    He will feel differently when he sees those babies for the first time. I have 7 and its a struggle not to spoil them when you have the means. But, so far, they are AMAZING kids with a hard work ethic.

  • @Kyle-ik8kq
    @Kyle-ik8kq Před měsícem +1

    A great dad👌

  • @Vampira_robin
    @Vampira_robin Před 4 dny

    20 years later: why isn't my son talking to me

  • @caydendurham5058
    @caydendurham5058 Před měsícem

    he does this so they can be successful

  • @Wollyhood_wulk_wogan
    @Wollyhood_wulk_wogan Před měsícem +1

    Father of the year.

  • @jimmycarney8758
    @jimmycarney8758 Před 12 dny

    Rare occurrence where I agree with what he says

  • @jayxofficial5126
    @jayxofficial5126 Před 2 měsíci

    Bro I get that if I was rich I feel like my kids should know how the real world works and get a real appreciation for the people that aren’t as fortunate. It would give them at least a respect most rich kids don’t have

  • @Chloo_e
    @Chloo_e Před měsícem

    I feel like the whole point of being a parent is to provide your kid with a better life than you had growing up.

  • @nausherkhan8480
    @nausherkhan8480 Před 8 hodinami

    Damn i feel bad fr the kids

  • @dylanaldous1865
    @dylanaldous1865 Před 16 dny

    That’s how winners are built

  • @Hytgffgh
    @Hytgffgh Před měsícem +1

    Good man if you want to be Rich go out and get it