Quick Takes- Bambi talks about being a single mother. The stigma, the struggles,and the renewed life

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2021
  • This is an excerpt from episode 8.
    #Naga #Nagaland #Life #Windfall

Komentáře • 46

  • @Bluebird8888
    @Bluebird8888 Před 2 lety +57

    Never knew the person creating beautiful dresses for brides is a single mum. Life happens and the way she laid it out for all to hear is very brave.

  • @toshinaroozukum354
    @toshinaroozukum354 Před 2 lety +117

    So many people are stuck in a loveless and lifeless marriage for fear of What the society will say or another very common excuse as " For the sake of the children " without realizing the amount of harm that such relationship cause to themselves and their children. So it's high time we nagas also become more open to such situation and help individuals find their own peace either together or separate. What a beautiful conversation

  • @insomniac8667
    @insomniac8667 Před 2 lety +74

    Thank you for speaking on divorce and single motherhood. Not every husband/wife is your soulmate or someone that you're meant to be with. Staying in a loveless marriage for the sake of your children will only harm them in the long run. If two people cannot live together under one roof, it's better to live separately and have that mutual respect. Divorced or not, the right parenting matters- if both mom and dad have time for their kids and shower them with unconditional love and support, then there's nothing to worry about. Imagine bringing up your child in a toxic environment? That's worst. Forget about what the society says, they'll talk of things which you haven't even done and most of these people will be those who doesn't even know the inside of your home. Honestly their opinion don't matter. Live your life, have fun with your kids, date and fall in love if you want to. Just be happy.

    • @Reniz123
      @Reniz123 Před 2 lety +1

      So true, you spoke my mind

  • @vitsokspn1593
    @vitsokspn1593 Před 2 lety +21

    The moment she started speaking on her son..Aww I felt that!!! Without a doubt her son would be so proud of her!!!

  • @achemjr420
    @achemjr420 Před 2 lety +32

    M a proud Single Mom too blessed with two lovely sons.
    They r the reason that keeps me going more stronger than ever.
    Being a Single Mom is twice the work but it is also twice the hugs n twice the love.
    God is so gracious n just....He would never pour burden on us that we can't overcome. I'm awed by His wondrous works🙏
    Not every woman can become a Single Mom. It takes courage n grit to become one.
    To all the Single Moms'.....keep the faith n move on👍🏻
    God bless!

    • @achemjr420
      @achemjr420 Před 2 lety +1

      I just subscribed🙋

    • @Reniz123
      @Reniz123 Před 2 lety +5

      @Achem jr, Salute and more power to you, God bless

    • @achemjr420
      @achemjr420 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Reniz123
      I'm humbled🙏
      Thank you so much.

  • @user-sy9gl2ku9n
    @user-sy9gl2ku9n Před 2 lety +11

    Bambi's smile when she talks about her son 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @zovi123
    @zovi123 Před 2 lety +9

    The interviewer made it so personal that I felt I was eavesdropping in their conversation. Well done.

  • @eunicedeshps2773
    @eunicedeshps2773 Před 2 lety +7

    My late sister was also stuck in a abusive marriage. But she hung on, maybe due to societal and family pressures. She was the bread earner here. She was a big shot. I cannot understand why she hung on when she could have so easily walked away and been happier. Her marraige was a total sham. She suffered in silence.. I so wish she had the strength..to walk away

  • @gracekikon241
    @gracekikon241 Před měsícem +1

    Bambi, you are stitching up the fabrics of your life into a beautiful ensemble. Very proud of you.❤

  • @nzanbenitsopoe3220
    @nzanbenitsopoe3220 Před 2 lety +27

    Interesting conversation 🥰 positive woman Bambi she is really a humble beautiful lady 💃new subscriber here 🙋

  • @bek7286
    @bek7286 Před 2 lety +12

    This is so good. Thanks to you both. Our society is definitely progressing.

  • @zanrhonimurry6918
    @zanrhonimurry6918 Před 2 lety +9

    This show is not only interesting but also we get to learn different perspectives from different people.This host has a really good eye for recognizing and inviting inspiring and intellectual people.Keep it up👍

  • @Cherry77789
    @Cherry77789 Před 2 lety +30

    Thankyou Shout out Podcast and Bambi. That was truly touching and a moment of truth , The talk of the need of the hour. May God's strength and love covers you as always!

  • @drgatsby5570
    @drgatsby5570 Před 2 lety +15

    keep going, the only talk show that i feel have much more potential even though it is soo good right now, love the issues discussed, kudos 👏

  • @iamgroot4706
    @iamgroot4706 Před 2 lety +2

    The first Naga CZcams channel i subscribed to, this is it. 👍

  • @akumlonglongchar8433
    @akumlonglongchar8433 Před 2 lety +8

    This channel is so underrated. SHOW SOME LOVE PEEPS

  • @yourdailydose6065
    @yourdailydose6065 Před 2 lety +17

    This channel deserve more subscriber 😍

  • @sethrongba3698
    @sethrongba3698 Před 2 lety +3

    This conversation made me impressed to subscribe your channel.

  • @angelinathedrifter
    @angelinathedrifter Před 2 lety +4

    Bambi ❤always sooo sweet n gentle..i miss ur smiles and laughter 😊 it's absolutely fine to be a single mother or a divorcee..why stuck in a loveless marriage..good u walked out..Salute👑 n a big shout out to all te single moms 💪a big secret 😂we used 2 've a massive crush on ur Dad'wen we were kids..we often visit ur place D.C quarter..Raj Bhavan 2 see him hahaha Bless you always love❤

  • @elizaswu6837
    @elizaswu6837 Před rokem +1

    God bless you Bambi ❣
    I could relate to my life as a single mother.

  • @lilliangonmei4566
    @lilliangonmei4566 Před 2 lety +2

    So proud of you Bambi

  • @lovisumi9614
    @lovisumi9614 Před 2 lety +8

    awesome

  • @atsujanger5614
    @atsujanger5614 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you Bambi, you really inspires me.
    Love you
    God bless

    • @atsujanger5614
      @atsujanger5614 Před 2 lety +1

      Subscribed for Bambi ❤❤
      Keep going brother, Keep inspiring with beautiful testimonies and experiences of beautiful people. God bless

  • @Yanlemvlog
    @Yanlemvlog Před 2 lety +1

    Such good vibes😊

  • @aienamri
    @aienamri Před 2 lety +15

    Lately watching a lot from this channel. Keep it up.... really appreciate the hard work you put into... God bless you sis bambi 💜💜💜💜

  • @AsanoPeseyie
    @AsanoPeseyie Před 2 lety +5

    Her strength is truly inspiring!

  • @eaglesben4041
    @eaglesben4041 Před 2 lety +6

    It's so interesting to come across this channel
    subscribing to your channel right away 👍

    • @ShoutOutMediaYT
      @ShoutOutMediaYT  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you. Hope you enjoy our upcoming episodes 😊🙏🏻

  • @nungsangnaro1930
    @nungsangnaro1930 Před 2 lety +17

    This relate so much to my own story..... ..... Highly appreciated shoutout podcast and Bambi...... 👌

  • @hulam3937
    @hulam3937 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you for sharing

  • @neinuokire8520
    @neinuokire8520 Před rokem

    Brave heart lady Bambi. 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

  • @Tutu-ch4vg
    @Tutu-ch4vg Před rokem

    Met her only once but she is down to earth woman!!!

  • @akumyim2387
    @akumyim2387 Před 2 lety +5

    Excellent host

  • @kaholikinimi7090
    @kaholikinimi7090 Před 2 lety +6

    Appreciated .

  • @Reniz123
    @Reniz123 Před 2 lety +3

    New subscriber here, so good to across your channel. It's worth watching👍

  • @user-vt2ce2jc4r
    @user-vt2ce2jc4r Před 2 měsíci

    I dont believe in soulmate concept......other than abuse , i think marriage is for life and i won't encourage divorce.... being in love is based on feelings, feelings can change . Feelings are not constant so that should not be the reason for divorce....
    I also have a son and i feel im his mother not his friend....
    So through this i can say i have differences in opinion with Maam Bambi..,
    But having said that she has done amazingly well and God be with her

  • @khyodenopatton1178
    @khyodenopatton1178 Před 2 lety +1

    Every couple all dressed and well groomed, smiling and holding hands aren't all perfectly in tuned with each other when you are in the four walls of your home. Some continue to work on it despite the ups and downs, some give up and go seperate ways which is a very very brave decision.
    This conversation is something that could open up the eyes of numerous women going through bad times, not being able to decide whether to stay or go. It is more difficult when you have children together and yet it is next to impossible to mend the battered soul. This is present in many homes today.
    I relate.
    Lots of respect and love for this brave wonderful woman. A role model and a beautiful soul ❣️

  • @chubaimchen4026
    @chubaimchen4026 Před 2 lety

    Who was the husband of ms Bambi?

  • @bendanglilaaier2367
    @bendanglilaaier2367 Před 10 měsíci

    Should interview downtrodden single mums too, even if you are single, if one is financially secure with family support, staying away from an abusive marriage is safer and better.

  • @mymother1359
    @mymother1359 Před rokem +1

    Can I marry you
    She’s so good