Why Do We Talk To Ourselves? | HDIGH Ep. #51

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  • čas přidán 18. 06. 2024
  • In a very self-aware episode, Jae and AleXa talk to themselves about why people talk to themselves. Does saying something out loud help you process problems better? Or is it just a sign you maybe needed an extra hour of sleep? Luckily, signs point strongly to the former option.
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    Timestamps
    0:00 - Intro
    1:49 - Why Do We Talk To Ourselves?
    4:49 - Science Of Self-talk
    8:53 - Why Does Self-talk Work For Alexa?
    14:17 - Alexa's New Song!
    18:26 - Fan Questions!
    24:40 Wrap Up + Outro
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  • @DIVEpods
    @DIVEpods  Před 3 lety +57

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    • @avishiperera7767
      @avishiperera7767 Před 3 lety

      I'm into their podcasts! Omg, like it's funny and informative at the same time!

    • @phoebe4770
      @phoebe4770 Před 3 lety +1

      Please dive let this happen HDIGH x GETREAL collab podcast 😍😍🙏🏻

    • @virlymarta5736
      @virlymarta5736 Před 3 lety

      Miss eaj 🥺🥺

  • @ashleybchoi
    @ashleybchoi Před 3 lety +765

    Yes!!!! Come to Get Real!! Would love to meet Alexa >__< and haven’t seen Jae in foreverrrrrrrr
    ..and someone fill me in on what “CAP” is please😬

    • @KpopPrince
      @KpopPrince Před 3 lety +32

      Zoomers only, Ashley. I've been trying to figure it out for months.

    • @AnhThuTran-yn9jr
      @AnhThuTran-yn9jr Před 3 lety +23

      bAsEbAlL cAp

    • @lajntxiagxiong9528
      @lajntxiagxiong9528 Před 3 lety +67

      "cap" or "capping" means like "Ayo stop lyinggg" LMAO but replacing lying as "capping" or "cap"

    • @mynty_me
      @mynty_me Před 3 lety

      lajntxiag xiong no cap

    • @hwippeddouner
      @hwippeddouner Před 3 lety +12

      then no cap ^^ means no lies

  • @Mia-jj3bj
    @Mia-jj3bj Před 3 lety +496

    There is not one day I don’t talk to myself! Like right now I am 😂

  • @arfixgwargaming
    @arfixgwargaming Před 3 lety +237

    "You're making a lot of strange noises today."
    I don't think it's today only Jae. Haha.

  • @vp5816
    @vp5816 Před 3 lety +226

    “I was 4 years old when you were not yet born.” Lol weird flex but ok

  • @notsobestie2487
    @notsobestie2487 Před 3 lety +159

    I even have a meeting with myself, discussion, arguing, and come with agreement between me and myself

  • @FaiGal
    @FaiGal Před 3 lety +192

    Other people talking to themselves: You can do this! You’re gonna be just fine. You gonna do great!
    Me, talking to myself: [whispers a meme reference] why tf am I like this?

    • @aizlynrose6830
      @aizlynrose6830 Před 3 lety +3

      meee

    • @mariavega8272
      @mariavega8272 Před 3 lety +15

      i sometimes say something weird to myself, laugh about it and then say "what is wrong with me"

    • @donghyuknation6724
      @donghyuknation6724 Před 3 lety +7

      Same. If something exciting happens I can't wait to come back home and tell myself about it. Very therapeutic😌

  • @yanahiespinoza559
    @yanahiespinoza559 Před 3 lety +312

    who doesn’t talk to themselves 🧍🏼‍♀️

  • @aniaaina8369
    @aniaaina8369 Před 3 lety +99

    Me : Talking to myself
    My mom : Whats wrong with you? Who are you talking to?

    • @marisa4040
      @marisa4040 Před 3 lety +8

      My three friends; me myself and I

  • @hwippeddouner
    @hwippeddouner Před 3 lety +59

    The Difference between HDIGH and Get Real in itself is already interesting so combining the two would be preeeettyyy interesting!

  • @R1K4RU
    @R1K4RU Před 3 lety +152

    If you don't talk to yourself, then what do you think or do when you're alone?

    • @dianaron2257
      @dianaron2257 Před 3 lety +15

      Exactly, what are you doin when you don't do anything? You talk to your self man duh

    • @reinegeronimo8337
      @reinegeronimo8337 Před 3 lety +10

      He’s a streamer... he must be talking to himself

    • @protectomegax2674
      @protectomegax2674 Před 3 lety +5

      I think everyone is talking to them selfs. Not out loud but in head. Like me.

    • @michaelaoren7058
      @michaelaoren7058 Před 3 lety

      I just live my life in silence. It's super easy. Lol

    • @no-gh5hk
      @no-gh5hk Před 3 lety

      Fr

  • @nazzishrazzaq
    @nazzishrazzaq Před 3 lety +111

    Me talking to myself = my whole Childhood.

  • @user-gg2pu6jf7g
    @user-gg2pu6jf7g Před 3 lety +56

    I tend to talk to myself when im studying like im teaching myself

  • @shawolchingu2342
    @shawolchingu2342 Před 3 lety +53

    I love talking to myself,,I love having internal conversation with my other personalities, thank goodness I'm not the only one.

  • @jihanrahmadantyazhari7968
    @jihanrahmadantyazhari7968 Před 3 lety +31

    Jae's smile is the cutest, especially when he was looking at alexa :)

  • @jiannaalarca7129
    @jiannaalarca7129 Před 3 lety +44

    i always talk to myself. debates at times. i scold myself too lol i feel like talking to myself helps me think and organize my thoughts better.

    • @acarmemcita
      @acarmemcita Před 3 lety +4

      Omg yes I always scold myself and also scold myself for being harsh on me... like "OMG YOU'RE SO STUPID, wait no you're not don't be mean to yourself, me..."

  • @landy9345
    @landy9345 Před 3 lety +132

    Jae an Alex on Get Real would be so interesting 🍵

    • @marisa4040
      @marisa4040 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes! I would love to see them with the cast of Get Real!

  • @Sunny-il7zr
    @Sunny-il7zr Před 3 lety +44

    Jae using Twitch lingo. 😂 "We should RAID them one day" 😂

  • @keziahholmes2893
    @keziahholmes2893 Před 3 lety +24

    Alexa complements jae so well haha. Give this man positivity cause he deserves it.

  • @florac3058
    @florac3058 Před 3 lety +39

    This my interpretation to your intro quote, as the famous philosopher Aristotle once wrote “The more you know, the more you realize you don't know.” I fill like this is applicable.

  • @urvishamallick1147
    @urvishamallick1147 Před 3 lety +15

    16:07 is the perfect representation of a brother melting over the younger's cuteness

  • @hannahmayalonso
    @hannahmayalonso Před 3 lety +61

    PLEASE MAKE IT REAL, EAJ ON GET REAL. WANNA SEE HOW HIM AND TIDDIE GANG BOND TOGETHER. PLEASEEEE

  • @xStarlitee
    @xStarlitee Před 3 lety +27

    Jae and AleXa should totally be on Get Real! pls make it happen 🥺

  • @whatxtoxdo7756
    @whatxtoxdo7756 Před 3 lety +20

    I talk to myself to organize my thoughts because there is just chaos in my head. I'll literally have a full-blown discussion with myself. but it does really help.

  • @RiverDancer99
    @RiverDancer99 Před 3 lety +6

    Alexa I totally get your vine reference! And also, when anyone else so sad when Alexa said "I love Day6 and I'm waiting for y'all to come back" and all Jae said was "Hmmm"😭😭😭😭

  • @lykapogs3814
    @lykapogs3814 Před 3 lety +80

    listened to the podcast yesterday but nothing beats seeing these two argue: JAE being weird but in a good way and ALEXA doing actions that are cute and awkward but in a good way tooo.. ahahahahhahahah KUDOS guys!

  • @acarmemcita
    @acarmemcita Před 3 lety +4

    Alexa at 12:48 I FEEL YOU GIRL!!!!
    Oh boy I not only talk to myself, but I give full TED talks to me and myself only. After I moved cities to go to University, and spent more time at my house alone... full concerts singing to myself, talking to myself, making myself laugh, making a podcast to myself, and I also say "who tf are you talking to girl, you're alone lol this would be weird do listen to..."
    A mood indeed...

  • @nurezrynmardhiah3521
    @nurezrynmardhiah3521 Před 3 lety +6

    19:55 alexa reaction is everything 😂 😂

  • @almariaghern1876
    @almariaghern1876 Před 3 lety +4

    7:57 the relatable queen hit again

  • @yonitayuliani4721
    @yonitayuliani4721 Před 3 lety +27

    It's been almost a year and I have been staying at home and only go out for grocery shopping once or twice every month. I am staying with my mom who got stroke attacks a year earlier and I have to postpone going to graduate school for almost a year now. Thank god, my brothers provide everything so my job is only to do house chores and take care of my mom. Even though my friends have been asking me to go hang out, I always turn it down. Why? Cause I live with a high risk person, very susceptible to get infected.
    But people seem to have no common sense these days and I don't understand why they still have the gut to hang out in cafes. Especially in Indonesia, the hospitals are full, more than 500 doctors passed away (not to mention the other health workers), and many patients died untreated. Just imagining, I don't get to say goodbye (for the worst case), if my loved ones passed away because of Covid (cause every funeral will follow the Covid-19 protocol) is so unimaginable. That thoughts give me strenght to be persistent to stay at home, postponing my next step cause there is no one protecting my mom and me, but myself.
    So, guys please, be aware, don't let your guard down. Just because the vaccines are ready to be distributed, it doesn't mean we are already safe! We still have a longg way to goo

    • @marla0412
      @marla0412 Před 3 lety +2

      oh god i am so sorry :( please just know that you're doing things to the best of your capability. i sincerely hope that everything will pass smoothly for you and end very soon

    • @heloisaoliveira6342
      @heloisaoliveira6342 Před 3 lety +5

      you are not alone. even if other people may say otherwise, staying at home and taking care of the one we love, is the right thing to do. I hope that everything can improve! stay healthy!

  • @shaniaalexandra193
    @shaniaalexandra193 Před 3 lety +7

    Jae: i have no internal monologue
    Me: *having a whole concert and drama in my brain*

  • @kewdoie
    @kewdoie Před 3 lety +22

    jae says something
    alexa: lets laugh

  • @luvposter
    @luvposter Před 3 lety +12

    the dad in jae leapt when he was telling alexa to eat breakfast 😭

  • @nico954
    @nico954 Před 3 lety +11

    16:05 Nooo this moment was too cutee

  • @imhs9_xD
    @imhs9_xD Před 3 lety +7

    Jae: WHATT??! AEGYOO?!!! NOOO!!
    Also Jae: *acting cute 18:46

  • @jwaecheeks3386
    @jwaecheeks3386 Před 3 lety +7

    aleXa is really such a mood i'm loving her every single episode and her new song i love so much too check it out guys!!

  • @ChingguChiniebels
    @ChingguChiniebels Před 3 lety +9

    Petition to have Jae and AleXa on Get Real💯 We jinjja need that.

  • @bluestrawberry5034
    @bluestrawberry5034 Před 3 lety +21

    Alexa and Jae on get real pls😭😭😭

  • @percythelonelynite
    @percythelonelynite Před 3 lety +9

    Get Real X HDIGH collab!!!!!!!
    I need this!!!!

  • @mndblwnn
    @mndblwnn Před 3 lety +8

    Off topic just came from the interview of Jae talking bout mental healthness. *Jae you the best.* And even if you are not perfect, it’s still perfectly fine. Just do however you like and be you

  • @blackcoveredrose7938
    @blackcoveredrose7938 Před 3 lety +17

    But who else already listened on google podcast or the likes??😉😉😉
    Watching bcuz I love Jae and Alexa...and the topic is interesting too🔥🔥🔥

  • @hannahmayalonso
    @hannahmayalonso Před 3 lety +26

    THIS IS EAJ OUTFIT WHEN HE WENT LIVE ON IG/VLIVE/TWITCH. SOOOOO OUR BABY WORKIN HARD HUH? PEOUD GIRLFIRND HERE.

  • @cathwulf426
    @cathwulf426 Před 3 lety +15

    Just when i was about to wash the dishes at 2am . Just perfect

  • @kayshelton888
    @kayshelton888 Před 2 lety

    The "I can do this" thing has helped me many times when I have to do something unpleasant/stressful. It at least calms me or strengthens me enough to go do it.

  • @jinxboo9241
    @jinxboo9241 Před 3 lety +5

    I talk out loud to myself to help me process things. For example similar to AleXa with the 'down and up', while dancing I make noises or call moves certain things to help remember them. I also talk out loud to help gather thoughts especially if it's confusing or I have a lot I need to do so then that way I can figure out if I'm missing anything 😅

  • @rui5u
    @rui5u Před 3 lety +7

    That reference, Alexa (10:37). Mad respect #BelieveIt

  • @naping
    @naping Před 3 lety +3

    I used to watch this podcast because of Jay now i watch it because of Alexa, she is so animated and funny to me.

  • @jazzybeardancer
    @jazzybeardancer Před 3 lety +2

    Honestly Jae and Alexa’s PSA about the job-compliance to social distancing, washing hands and wearing mask is a worldwide issue. I get it’s hard for those who can’t go out and I understand needing to feel connected but it’s just so hard in world that tbh it needs to be consistent and kindness to those who need help and can’t always afford to stay home. But hopes to 2021 with a happier, healthier and peaceful world 🙏🏼👏🏼

  • @rae_shares
    @rae_shares Před 3 lety +7

    the fact that it took jae 11 minutes into the podcast to say "this mic smells nice" -
    kkkkk

  • @Elizabeth-uw2zl
    @Elizabeth-uw2zl Před 3 lety +3

    OMG YES!!! 👏🏻 Please go on ‘Get Real’ I’ve been wanting to see you guys on their podcast! Two of my favorite podcast together! 😀🤩

  • @nicojayakusuma7041
    @nicojayakusuma7041 Před 3 lety +12

    jae and alexa come to get real it would be LIT

  • @emi9691
    @emi9691 Před 3 lety +4

    I can relate to Jae so much, not understanding others having monologues at all.. 😂

  • @kathiamartinez3440
    @kathiamartinez3440 Před 3 lety +4

    Put these two on get real!!! But all five of them together!! That would be so fun!

  • @loveaintascience
    @loveaintascience Před rokem +1

    "I was walking, when you were still but a cell"
    - Jae 2021

  • @marktuanbestboy1332
    @marktuanbestboy1332 Před 3 lety +8

    HDIGH to get real??????? YES PLEASE!

  • @im_kinda.hungry9691
    @im_kinda.hungry9691 Před 3 lety +6

    Yessss get jae and alexa on get real omg!!!!!!!

  • @helentrxn
    @helentrxn Před 3 lety +3

    y’all should invite Jamie (Jimin Park) ! interested to see her and alexa interact and Jae just being reminded of ASC days

  • @alexandrae.z191
    @alexandrae.z191 Před 3 lety +2

    Yaas we need the podcast crossover! Stream Never let you go and Pillows hehe

  • @itsstardust3462
    @itsstardust3462 Před 3 lety +1

    Talking to oneself helps especially for people whose learning & motivation stimuli lean more on auditory. Some people absorb information better by reading, some by doing, some by hearing. I dont remember where I learned this lol but I just remember that most people are audio-visual learners so most of us like to see and hear things when we try to process them as information. 😊

  • @hye8769
    @hye8769 Před 3 lety +3

    Yeeesss Alexa on Get Real pleaseee🥺🥺

  • @yuripeki
    @yuripeki Před 3 lety +4

    Drink water whenever Jae says CAP , stay hydrated kids

    • @thearchivist1437
      @thearchivist1437 Před 3 lety

      yes kids: drink water not wine (unless your legal and only in moderation cus water is still better for you)🥛

  • @Pinnie06
    @Pinnie06 Před 3 lety +1

    4:10 just another example of why I love Alexa

  • @xheralt
    @xheralt Před 3 lety +2

    Talking to yourself: 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑎 𝑝𝑟𝑜𝑏𝑙𝑒𝑚
    Getting an answer back: 𝕡𝕣𝕠𝕓𝕝𝕖𝕞!

  • @tchala5349
    @tchala5349 Před 3 lety +5

    Alexa: YOU GOT TO BELIEVE
    dabettayo narouto

  • @jonalynagaran8514
    @jonalynagaran8514 Před 3 lety +4

    Me RN: Baby Jae, what's with the low energy today? Can feel it.. No more brrrrrrr....
    Me also: Can't helped but laugh at Jae everytime.. Like emphasizing the four-year age gap and all..

  • @jeanpagrada2648
    @jeanpagrada2648 Před 3 lety +1

    i really love hdigh podcasts . if Jae and Alexa will raid the Get Real podcasts please have Ms. Diane join too . i really really want to see the 3 of them in a podcasts . i stanned Ms. Diane since the very 1st episode of hdigh . hdigh make my dream come true . heart . heart . heart

  • @timehimehi2860
    @timehimehi2860 Před 3 lety +5

    Alexa in this episode has given us lott - i mean lot - of relateable moment/ situation/ expression/ emotions/ you name it.
    I mean.... you know what i mean right. Or, only me?

    • @saras.5619
      @saras.5619 Před 3 lety +1

      I don't how to word it but YES I agree

  • @suaravita
    @suaravita Před 3 lety +1

    1. Alexa.. you are pretty. I like your style
    2. Thanks Jae for showing your face. It's like having a real conversation with you two and Alexa. Not just Alexa and BASEBALL CAP.
    3. Diane... where is your voice?
    4. It will be good talking about people behavior nowadays towards this epidemic that seems longer than we expected. "Does Quarantine really work?" something like that, Diane. You can figure it out better than me. *grin*

  • @fadhilahrasya8679
    @fadhilahrasya8679 Před 3 lety +1

    well actually talking to myself help me to calm myself down, to stop crying, to smile:)

  • @zilanslah1146
    @zilanslah1146 Před 3 lety +2

    Dude I love their English so much the first thing that made me their fan was their English accent lol 😂.

  • @nana28599
    @nana28599 Před 3 lety +1

    I was waiting for this. thank you always😊

  • @fatimasolitary
    @fatimasolitary Před 3 lety +1

    Yes! We need a Get Real and How Did I Get Here collab.

  • @graxiaarevalo5570
    @graxiaarevalo5570 Před 3 lety

    How did I get here?
    Coz im loving it here.🤗
    Thank you .. I've been waiting for this. I'm a fan❤

  • @AnnA-vg5vx
    @AnnA-vg5vx Před 3 lety +9

    I like Sorn being in the middle, wish she'd be a regular.

  • @jimjones7171
    @jimjones7171 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm so happy Jae said that because I've been really wanting them on get real for the longest time

  • @oliviat6208
    @oliviat6208 Před 3 lety +1

    I love watching these, they are funny and cute❤️

  • @mangorootdesu
    @mangorootdesu Před 3 lety +6

    i just love alexa's tiny voice and her cute gesture

  • @forsakenfaithfallenfrey6914

    Why do I get this vibe where I think
    HDIGH = education podcast
    Get Real = life sharing podcast

  • @mattress6662
    @mattress6662 Před 3 lety +2

    Omg alexa references that spiderman vine!!!!

  • @redkoala4057
    @redkoala4057 Před 2 lety

    jae is so funny in this episode 😂

  • @saoriyaa8166
    @saoriyaa8166 Před 3 lety

    no but legit they are such a good pair for these sort of things, i love them

  • @kennafoster2483
    @kennafoster2483 Před 3 lety

    loved this topic!

  • @hcsymkin
    @hcsymkin Před 3 lety +1

    my routine, listen to podcast and watch video when it comes out
    then, if im on overtime work i re-listen to podcasts from latest until i finish work (on speakers if im alone)
    it makes me know more, not smarter ☆♡

  • @qi7029
    @qi7029 Před 3 lety

    i always feel that im learning something out of these podcasts

  • @jimjones7171
    @jimjones7171 Před 3 lety +1

    Alexa is just a weird, awkward being but we appreciate it

  • @ukhtiramadhani747
    @ukhtiramadhani747 Před 3 lety +6

    Wait Jae??? You never talk to yourself??? I do it like E V E R Y single day, lmao😂

  • @MegaMirchmasala
    @MegaMirchmasala Před 3 lety +2

    OMG PLEASE GET THEM ON GET REAL!! that would be awesome!!!

    • @s.b.8859
      @s.b.8859 Před 3 lety

      I agree!I'll wait for that moment

  • @jimjones7171
    @jimjones7171 Před 3 lety +1

    I relate to Alexa so much but the difference is that when I talk to myself it actually helps my situation

  • @lovelylove112
    @lovelylove112 Před 3 lety

    this is the only thing that keeps me going on

  • @chielougarzo2490
    @chielougarzo2490 Před 3 lety +1

    Like I always talk to myself when I'm scrolling on twitter, watching videos on CZcams and reading some books and my mom would be like, "Stop talking to yourself you look crazy" 😁

  • @geeta2503
    @geeta2503 Před 3 lety +10

    Jae don't have inner monolog, he talked about this before right. Cmmiw. That's why he cant relate hehe

  • @sugarmilk28
    @sugarmilk28 Před 3 lety +1

    I feel it's normal to talk to yourself...some people have seen it as being "crazy" but if we think to ourselves all the time ...why not out loud ?

  • @aizlynrose6830
    @aizlynrose6830 Před 3 lety +5

    moral of the story: ppl with inner monologue and self-talk are... idk add something

  • @margareth7599
    @margareth7599 Před 2 lety

    Jae and Alexa will be in get real
    prepare ur chipss!!

  • @akakdoun5616
    @akakdoun5616 Před 3 lety +2

    Alexa so cute omg !!!

  • @lauracarvalho2365
    @lauracarvalho2365 Před 3 lety

    I love dive studios aaaaaaaaaaa ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @aizlynrose6830
    @aizlynrose6830 Před 3 lety +1

    now this is THE question for peeps like me who talk to themselves and their inner monologue is at peak ykw i mean

  • @elinolivialundh4771
    @elinolivialundh4771 Před 3 lety

    Came here for Jae, stayed for the awesome conversations

  • @jordynnlarocque1606
    @jordynnlarocque1606 Před 3 lety +7

    Doesn’t talk to himself and no internal monologue, Jae really is *head empty no thoughts*
    (all jokes, anyways stream eaJ music~)

    • @killjadeskye
      @killjadeskye Před 3 lety

      Yeah, I remember he mentioned this on previous podcast

  • @katelynsjourney7051
    @katelynsjourney7051 Před 3 lety

    Omg i can't belive i used to watch this podcast and didn't know who you guys were. 🤣😂