Your statement is absolute truth ma’am. Let us not go out and be reckless for the sake of it. Same way you drive a roadworthy car, you put on a safety belt, you have a valid driver’s license and you adhere to the rules of the road when you drive. You should apply same principles to other areas of your life including your reproductive system. I am not perfect, life is not perfect but let us change the narrative because now we know better, let’s do better.
thank you i agree 110% it has no formula child no child at what ever time wort work for everybody so no one knows better for the other person we must just do us
This is not only about having kids for a man. What I have Lent is that even sex is not personal to men I repeat sex is not that serious to men I use to think that being the baddest in bed can make u keep a man it can't. So having a kid is also not that deep to men. Let's protect ourselves ladies
One thing about you, you’ll say the truths only! 🤞🏼” having a child with someone doesn’t mean, he will marry you” and sana umntana is NOT a Wedding Ring bawo wam🤦🏼♀️
Cassper & Thobeka have always said that their child was planned. So people need to free Cassper, she willingly agreed to have a child out of wedlock so I don't understand the backlash Cassper is getting. Judging from Thobeka's IG captions & stories she wanted marriage but I guess she didn't play her cards right . Also according to Cassper they had been broken up for 2 years so what's the outrage about? The wife is beautiful, congratulations to them.
So which cards are to be played for one to marry you???😮 If a men wanna leave you he will leave you uzithobile ayoshada isdakwa sengwadla,,so which cards are you talking about
Owi, my childhood friend was not my type when we were growing up, i did not look him like that. Until he grew up and I am like, wait, what?😊 now I can date him. So, let’s not question the lady’s intentions hereGuys… we all want the best version of a person!
Owamie, I think you should watch his interview on Mpumi's podcast to get clarity of what actually happened between him and the baby mama, from my understanding from that interview, she chose to leave the relationship because she was deeply hurt (of which I celebrate her for). To me this is just an unfortunate event for her because she just happened to be in Caspers life at the wrong time not that he didnt have intentions to settle with her at the first place.
The truth is when a man is ready to marry he will marry. Most of the times it has nothing to do with the women. If he is ready he will marry the woman he met 3 weeks ago. He may marry the woman he was living with for 20 years. He may marry his 1st gaby momma he left 15 years ago. The only thing that changed is the fact that he is now ready. Some me will not be ready until they are one foit in the grave & need a place to die & a nurse. Some will never be ready. It is what it is!
I just noticed, she posted a heartfelt video of him with a caption that ends in “we love you” just last year June. He also responded saying “I love you for life” Less than a year later he’s married? This life no balance
The most irritating part is they know who they will marry from day one.But they choose to waste someone else's time only to end up marrying someone else.This reminds me of Psyfo and Hulisani
I honestly don't think the money played as huge a role as people think it did. True, it's great to have a partner who is in good financial standing but remember, Casper is not a new millionaire. He has been living large for well over a decade now. If she truelly wanted him for the bag she would have come through a long time ago. I think it was just God's timing and the fact that Cass has now adjusted his lifestyle, acknowledged his sex addiction and found God also speaks to that. She seems like a lovely lady who respected herself and stayed away from him while he was chasing other women and now that the man is ready to be a proper husband she is reaping the benefits.
But he did say on Mpoomy's podcast that he was seeing someone. Regarding the looks, unfortunately it happens with a lot of couples. For instance, look at Julius Malema's wife. Do you think she'd marry him if he didn't have money? I don't think so. Even Regina Daniels, I mean look at that old man. She wouldn't marry him if he was not wealthy.
Yes, and the women go there willingly. So if someone is happy to be "paid" for a lavish lifestyle it's also okay for a man to pick solely out of beauty. I don't see the problem there. And such men and women should be ready for the consequences of their choices. EG. If the money runs out, the wife will leave, and if the beauty fades, he will find another younger version of you. People just make choices but don't want to see the full swing of their decisions. See the good and bad, and decide that you are going to be okay if shit hit the fan and you have to bear the bad effects of your decision that served you right at first.
Men really love themselves and they put them first. As women,we need to start doing that. Kids or not, let us love ourselves shyme. I am staying with a man,my baby daddy but guess what,he felt that I'm not good enough for him to take me to his graduation and he took one of his girlfriends. And he is happy with that. Is for me to decide.
Please Owami create that platform for our kids so that we bring them there and get them empowered coz from what i see in the world around me and social media our young girl's needs an intervention and raising a girl child in this planet is no joke. You would see girls as Young as 13 talking about there sex experience Imagen that what a shame and a doomed generation this is. Our mother's never had sex before they got married sex was a sacred special thing that was cherished back there and even in the Bible that abazalwane are reading but we ain't practicing that at all now we hear boys say aaah that one is easy and they pass you around for 2 savannas and our kids are done and treated like that is sad to look at this generation Please Owami look in to that and host starting from our 12 year old kids you can make it be an every month thing.... We could change the world to be a better place for everyone that lives in it❤
Preach Ausi Owami, preach. Young lady your womb is precious stop having babies too early with people who cannot and will not look after the babies let alone marry you. It is a crisis and as a nation it seems like we have accepted this as our fate.😢
Guys, mina I think Casper married his dream girl - as men do. Unfortunately many women are placeholders and become girlfriends for 10+ years and that man will later go marry a woman he’s known for 3 weeks
Very true, every man has a dream girl that they’ll do anything for. Wether that means leaving his wife, kids, baby mama etc they don’t care when it comes to getting his dream girl.
@@masegothembawhy would you waste someone’s time if they aren’t your dream, lena le encourage evil acts yooooo. They must go to their dream women and marry them from scratch yoooo.
she has to be very careful. He does not sound like a man who is capable of handling a relationship. It takes at least 5 years to clear out a previous relationship, plus all his addiction issues. I hope for her sake he really has changed otherwise you can be happy to get married, but is the quality of the marriage good enough? That depends on the characters of the people married and not just being a dream girl. A man won't stop being the way he is truly just because you are his dream girl. It could also be well that his baby momma was done with him, and as usual most men cannot be single, which is the problem, and he just went to the next available woman.
Totally agree with you and also when will people get the fact that men naturally put themselves first they do not compromise, they do what makes them happy and they have no problem changing their whole lives in that process. They come first! And again the minute you become a 'baby mama' everything changes you live up to that title 🥲
Thobeka chose to be his baby mama.. She did say that her and Cassper had a mutual agreement regarding having a child.. She set her standards very low now they blame Cassper for moving on
A lot of times we make the mistake of thinking, men are the ones who make decisions regarding when to get married,when to pursue certain relationships. It could be that his wife, didn't like the person he was before he met Christ. They probably got even closer during a vulnerable time. There's a lot we dont know.There is a time and place for everything. Lets be happy for the couple and keep them in our prayers
@dineomametja3277 naaaaah. I doubt you pray for your relatives, too. Their families must pray for them. Why would you pray for people that you don't even know what they lack or have, naaah.
Men will leave when they want even when they have married you, even that is not assurance, they'll promise the world, marry you, get you pregnant and leave with those children. Also Men will get you pregnant and marry you, we also don't know the promises he may have made to her. Also in this situation She is the one that left Cassper because he was a serial cheater He said so himself We might be catching feelings but The Baby momma is at peace. Kodwa ke Men will disappoint sana hay nje kancinci.
It’s unfortunate as a women to find a man when he’s still finding himself because you get the worst version of him while learning how to be a better husby to his wife to come. As you think you’re building your future with hes busy looking for his wife
Having a child with a man doesn't mean he will marry you. True. Having a child with your husband too doesn't mean he will stay and not divorce you. Kubi regardless, as women we are suffering. I salute those who have decided to never have kids 🙌🏽
@@Beex848 married men are the most single people I know. Those people hardly ever respect their wives to start with. I still say as a woman, have kids because you want them. Not because your husband does. Even when things are good, ensure you will survive and have the resources to be fine should be ditch yall.
Not all relationships will end in marriage Not all relationships will end well Above all nothing last forever in this world and we must learn to accept when love stop
.. year later you seems to agree with what Nonnie said!! There’s a better chance for someone who has no child before marriage, we all learn from our mistakes although we seems not to take advice
Could it not be that Cassper is the one who decided to not be in a relationship because he wanted to give her everything he didn't have when he was broke? Men don't just abruptly marry; I think she was the one from the time they were still in school he just wanted to find himself and play and do what boys do before they marry. Some men do this. It's not always about money, who knows he might have been telling her when i'm right i am going to marry you.
Debatable he should have went back when he started booming and started buying all these cars and made it, if that was the case, I look at it and he has just been a man the whole time, play the field while she "waited" for him then come back and marry her, still he put himself before all these women So it's a bit questionable on why they weren't together from then
@@nonhlanhlankosi1786 very true, maybe just maybe those sneaking out days of his were with her sometimes, we will never know Women just need to put themselves first also, as his baby mama did, she was tired shame
He dumped her but he’s the bitter one . Trying to get full custody of the child with her while not doing a 🤬thing for his other kids… He thought he would break her but she’s steady bringing in the money.. He sees a meal ticket in the child 🙄
Kodwa this is very common. Most people have babies but they are nolonger together and moved on to be with other partners. Why is Casper's situation different from what we see everyday hence we have thousands of single mothers.
People angry that Cassper chose another woman as a wife and not his baby mama calm down. First does Thobeka seem like she wanted to marry Cassper? This lady has always been about Rich Aunt,Rich Mommy and just honestly focusing on her bag. I am sure his going to make sure baby mama whos well off by the way will have a home, car, and monthly allowance for his son. Sis is good guys. She lived with this guy for years if ahe wanted marriage she could have gotten it. I doubt she did. I agree with you, most childhood friendships turns into love for the other person, I think Cass had always eyed her ka love but could not express it, girlie probably eyed him the same and gave it a shot.
Eish that is so scary and sad for Pulane, I wouldn't wish that on anyone too. I hope he has sincerely found Christ because I know he will be free from the addiction and I hope Pulane has a relationship with Jesus too, to be strong for however long it takes for him to be freed from the spirit of addiction🙏
@@indianam7689 sadly addiction is a life-long thing. He will always be in recovery. She must pray he sticks to whatever therapy measures he’s taking. Sex-addiction like any other addiction is hard to beat.
I don't think it was intentional. I think what happened in the relationship with BM happened. They truly were in love, but things just didn't work out. I don't think she was trying to keep him. She's capable of looking after herself and their child. This just the next chapter for Cassper.
Was waiting for you to report on this the whole weekend ninja. You're opinionated maaam and I love how your mind works. It spits the truth as it is,period
It is better not to have or receive a blessing, than you receive a blessing a lose it. Baby mama is better off, than to get married to him and divorce.
I don’t know hey, looks like Bex didn’t want and she chose a different path, he then chose the next best thing. Baby mothers don’t always want to marry their child’s father especially when there is bad history. Married today, divorced tomorrow ?🤷🏾♀️. You can have a husband and still be a single mother. Have kids when you can afford & have time to have children and only have as many as you can handle by yourself, that’s how women should think. Use logic and not your feelings & don’t worry about hurting anyone’s feelings. Even if you are getting married always think to yourself, if this dude dips, either he runs off, dies, becomes disabled, loses his mind or his job? How many kids are you able to raise by yourself ? None? 1 or 2? And then go with that. Don’t just have kids because you feel like it, and don’t have kids to keep a man or for a man because the right man can become the wrong one at some point down the line, or you might not even want to be with that man at some point. Also men will ask you to marry them for different reasons, it’s not always because he loves you, we really need to socialize women to stop centering men. But until Bex says it herself I’ll never believe this guy who is definitely not husband goals left her. Bex said no and kept it cute. I mean…. have you guys really seen her though?
True Queen, but the latter is equated the other side. Women leave babe daddies and be married to other people. Let's not say Casper was wrong it maybe the case that he was good as a baby daddy so the lady didn't opt for marriage. We all have choices to make. Let's not blame a man choosing himself as much as we support women choosing themselves. Let's not be a bias nation. You can marry who ever you want
ayi you are below the belt here. Choosing yourself = sexual promiscuous at the expense of your girlfriend? If everyone does what they feel like doing, just imagine the chaos in the world?
I agree. Casper really loved this girl. O kari he was just WAITING for her to be single. His moving Tooooooo QUICK. I feel sorry for the baby mama. She was just practice
I chose to have a child. I felt that a child was a must and marriage will come if it comes. The most important thing was to have a child with a person that I don't mind having in my life for the rest of my life whether or not we are together. Men don't love us... we need to put ourselves and our needs first because they will never put their needs after us.
I have been waiting for the ancestors' voice video since Monday. Manje, I feel bad for hearing about you not feeling well and the passing of the baby 💙🩵🩶
I think she was with him even when he was with his baby mama . Since she has been his childhood friend always in the background . Never trust just a friend
They went through all the photosynthesis process in life together am also surprised 🙀 why are they deciding to mary now?😮and putting their relationship out there 🤔
Married at the age of 2😂😂😂Owamie Mara. We must just make peace that at the end of the day money makes things easy. I know alot of guys who are not on the public eye and did the same "married someone they couldn't have when they where broke" so it's really nothing new.
Casper calculated the fact that even if he were to go broke atleast his son will still be well taken care of because Thobeka family is rich but has always knew he will marry Pulane 😅😂
So true Owami, I have never had interest in just having a baby with just a boyfriend or staying with a man who is not my husband. We really need to try harder to have babies in wedlock, even if the marriage fails or works out, one can say they tried their best to give a child a shot at having both parents or if one parent passes away. We have seen what a fatherless society has done to our men.
Perhaps they met when they were young and dated briefly but it didn't work out. They still loved each other even when they moved on , they perhaps waited for the right time and they tried it out and it worked. Maybe they always kept in touch for MANY YEARS. Maybe that right person, wrong time thing happened to them.
I might be reaching here but I think cassper got married because the church said so n maybe to find a wife in the church n the childhood friend happened to attend the same church coz vele ikhona into e off with this wedding 😂
In my opinion... khona into e-Off la... I have a suspicion that the getting married thing is to do the things 'properly' since he is now Christian... I wish them all the best because once the things hype dies down they can keep the fire burning somehow some way
Women, please know that having a child for a man is not the same as having a child for yourself. Please marry first before making children with a man and make sure you can afford them by yourself, but always know that even married people break up, and if you had children for yourself, it will not destroy you. You will be able to fund your children without his money, and God will bless you in the process.
@@rebotilekgweedi5627 yeah I'm one person who doesn't take people's experiences and say it's going to happen to me... Just that I've been hurt, that's where this attitude comes from
Cassper n baby mama broke up last year. Did you expect his life to remain stagnant? To have child with sm1 doest mean you gona get married. Ppl break up everyday n Cassper is no exception. As long as he is there for his child
Guys we are making big deal out of nothing, i also have a baby momma and we are no longer together, so if i decide to get married i must go look for my baby momma and beg them, maybe even marriage was the last thing on baby momma mind
Women it's high time you respect your womb, you can even have a child at 40 but with the right person
I love the fact that this statement was uttered by a man. Thank you sir
Amen Amen
That's me...thank you for that
You can say that again even at 40
Thank you
You know what ne, this life has no formula 🤞🏾
Your statement is absolute truth ma’am. Let us not go out and be reckless for the sake of it. Same way you drive a roadworthy car, you put on a safety belt, you have a valid driver’s license and you adhere to the rules of the road when you drive. You should apply same principles to other areas of your life including your reproductive system. I am not perfect, life is not perfect but let us change the narrative because now we know better, let’s do better.
thank you i agree 110% it has no formula child no child at what ever time wort work for everybody so no one knows better for the other person we must just do us
He can make you his babymama knowing very well he is not going to make you his wife):Owamie
🙌🙌🙌🙌
But if you as women refuse to give him a child he won't force you. Giving a man a child is no guarantee
This is not only about having kids for a man. What I have Lent is that even sex is not personal to men I repeat sex is not that serious to men I use to think that being the baddest in bed can make u keep a man it can't. So having a kid is also not that deep to men. Let's protect ourselves ladies
One thing about you, you’ll say the truths only! 🤞🏼” having a child with someone doesn’t mean, he will marry you” and sana umntana is NOT a Wedding Ring bawo wam🤦🏼♀️
Not a wedding ring at all.i fully agree with you.🙌🙌🙌
@busisiwe...but she said nothing new,our parents & grandparents have always told us dat a child doesnt keep a man...
@@LollyMadikiza-xw4okin the hood, most girls think that's how you keep a man!
Cassper & Thobeka have always said that their child was planned. So people need to free Cassper, she willingly agreed to have a child out of wedlock so I don't understand the backlash Cassper is getting. Judging from Thobeka's IG captions & stories she wanted marriage but I guess she didn't play her cards right .
Also according to Cassper they had been broken up for 2 years so what's the outrage about?
The wife is beautiful, congratulations to them.
I think they just want content
Really I don't understand the big fuss
So which cards are to be played for one to marry you???😮
If a men wanna leave you he will leave you uzithobile ayoshada isdakwa sengwadla,,so which cards are you talking about
@user-ci4dz9uk6i You sound very defensive. Calm down then maybe we can have a meaningful interaction.
@@MoskwaMoskwa-p3x I was about to ask the same thing...so it's her fault he didn't marry her??? Bakithi which cards are played kanti
Wami umuhle sana🥰❤. Makeup or not you are still a hotie😘👌
Love is a beautiful thing amen…..Break ups can be a blessing…. We can all relax there is more life to live
Danko 🎤
Amen
Owi, my childhood friend was not my type when we were growing up, i did not look him like that. Until he grew up and I am like, wait, what?😊 now I can date him. So, let’s not question the lady’s intentions hereGuys… we all want the best version of a person!
The headboy of the ninjas signing in, we missed you Queen Ninja
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@@TheeMsutu Ola Thee Msutu, unjani
Bathong😢😢😢I missed her too 😢😊I always wondered why she's so quite ....
Our headgal was deeply missed, hi headboy
Preach Owamie
I see alot of single moms in the near future
It’s no joke, motherhood is tough it takes a village to raise a child
Owamie, I think you should watch his interview on Mpumi's podcast to get clarity of what actually happened between him and the baby mama, from my understanding from that interview, she chose to leave the relationship because she was deeply hurt (of which I celebrate her for). To me this is just an unfortunate event for her because she just happened to be in Caspers life at the wrong time not that he didnt have intentions to settle with her at the first place.
I agree with you 💯
True
The truth is when a man is ready to marry he will marry. Most of the times it has nothing to do with the women. If he is ready he will marry the woman he met 3 weeks ago. He may marry the woman he was living with for 20 years. He may marry his 1st gaby momma he left 15 years ago. The only thing that changed is the fact that he is now ready.
Some me will not be ready until they are one foit in the grave & need a place to die & a nurse. Some will never be ready. It is what it is!
I just noticed, she posted a heartfelt video of him with a caption that ends in “we love you” just last year June. He also responded saying “I love you for life” Less than a year later he’s married? This life no balance
The most irritating part is they know who they will marry from day one.But they choose to waste someone else's time only to end up marrying someone else.This reminds me of Psyfo and Hulisani
Remember when Dumi mkostad, said on TV he knew that he always wanted to marry ZiphoZenkosi , but he was in a relationship with his former gf for years
@@vuyelwavanga1282 You see!They don't even think twice
Why not make an example about yourself?
@@_COCOgal Go take your medication for whatever you are suffering from.I don't have time for nonsense
AKA & Zinhle. He always wanted Bonang.
Themba, Mpho & Nqobile combo. He always knew
I honestly don't think the money played as huge a role as people think it did. True, it's great to have a partner who is in good financial standing but remember, Casper is not a new millionaire. He has been living large for well over a decade now. If she truelly wanted him for the bag she would have come through a long time ago. I think it was just God's timing and the fact that Cass has now adjusted his lifestyle, acknowledged his sex addiction and found God also speaks to that. She seems like a lovely lady who respected herself and stayed away from him while he was chasing other women and now that the man is ready to be a proper husband she is reaping the benefits.
But he did say on Mpoomy's podcast that he was seeing someone. Regarding the looks, unfortunately it happens with a lot of couples. For instance, look at Julius Malema's wife. Do you think she'd marry him if he didn't have money? I don't think so. Even Regina Daniels, I mean look at that old man. She wouldn't marry him if he was not wealthy.
So true😮
Yes, and the women go there willingly. So if someone is happy to be "paid" for a lavish lifestyle it's also okay for a man to pick solely out of beauty. I don't see the problem there. And such men and women should be ready for the consequences of their choices. EG. If the money runs out, the wife will leave, and if the beauty fades, he will find another younger version of you. People just make choices but don't want to see the full swing of their decisions. See the good and bad, and decide that you are going to be okay if shit hit the fan and you have to bear the bad effects of your decision that served you right at first.
Where are our childhood friends? 😂😂😂😂
It's time to get married
ei mfethu
Men really love themselves and they put them first. As women,we need to start doing that. Kids or not, let us love ourselves shyme. I am staying with a man,my baby daddy but guess what,he felt that I'm not good enough for him to take me to his graduation and he took one of his girlfriends. And he is happy with that. Is for me to decide.
Yoh, wooow I could😂said it better men love themselves,. Men decides, their happiness comes first
yoh 💔
Please Owami create that platform for our kids so that we bring them there and get them empowered coz from what i see in the world around me and social media our young girl's needs an intervention and raising a girl child in this planet is no joke. You would see girls as Young as 13 talking about there sex experience Imagen that what a shame and a doomed generation this is. Our mother's never had sex before they got married sex was a sacred special thing that was cherished back there and even in the Bible that abazalwane are reading but we ain't practicing that at all now we hear boys say aaah that one is easy and they pass you around for 2 savannas and our kids are done and treated like that is sad to look at this generation
Please Owami look in to that and host starting from our 12 year old kids you can make it be an every month thing....
We could change the world to be a better place for everyone that lives in it❤
Preach Ausi Owami, preach. Young lady your womb is precious stop having babies too early with people who cannot and will not look after the babies let alone marry you. It is a crisis and as a nation it seems like we have accepted this as our fate.😢
Guys, mina I think Casper married his dream girl - as men do. Unfortunately many women are placeholders and become girlfriends for 10+ years and that man will later go marry a woman he’s known for 3 weeks
Very true, every man has a dream girl that they’ll do anything for. Wether that means leaving his wife, kids, baby mama etc they don’t care when it comes to getting his dream girl.
@@masegothembawhy would you waste someone’s time if they aren’t your dream, lena le encourage evil acts yooooo. They must go to their dream women and marry them from scratch yoooo.
she has to be very careful. He does not sound like a man who is capable of handling a relationship. It takes at least 5 years to clear out a previous relationship, plus all his addiction issues. I hope for her sake he really has changed otherwise you can be happy to get married, but is the quality of the marriage good enough? That depends on the characters of the people married and not just being a dream girl. A man won't stop being the way he is truly just because you are his dream girl. It could also be well that his baby momma was done with him, and as usual most men cannot be single, which is the problem, and he just went to the next available woman.
Totally agree with you and also when will people get the fact that men naturally put themselves first they do not compromise, they do what makes them happy and they have no problem changing their whole lives in that process. They come first! And again the minute you become a 'baby mama' everything changes you live up to that title 🥲
Men never marry for love. Its Only us women who do, and its a big mustake. Men get married for THEMSELVES and their needs. Love is secondary
Thobeka chose to be his baby mama..
She did say that her and Cassper had a mutual agreement regarding having a child..
She set her standards very low now they blame Cassper for moving on
A lot of times we make the mistake of thinking, men are the ones who make decisions regarding when to get married,when to pursue certain relationships. It could be that his wife, didn't like the person he was before he met Christ. They probably got even closer during a vulnerable time. There's a lot we dont know.There is a time and place for everything. Lets be happy for the couple and keep them in our prayers
Pray for your family instead, Lena Mara yooooo😅😅😅😅
@@JNM834 as brothers and sisters in Christ,we pray for one another
@@JNM834 yazi in fact let me leave this comment section and worry about my problems
@dineomametja3277 naaaaah. I doubt you pray for your relatives, too. Their families must pray for them. Why would you pray for people that you don't even know what they lack or have, naaah.
Men will leave when they want even when they have married you, even that is not assurance, they'll promise the world, marry you, get you pregnant and leave with those children.
Also Men will get you pregnant and marry you, we also don't know the promises he may have made to her.
Also in this situation She is the one that left Cassper because he was a serial cheater He said so himself
We might be catching feelings but The Baby momma is at peace.
Kodwa ke Men will disappoint sana hay nje kancinci.
It’s unfortunate as a women to find a man when he’s still finding himself because you get the worst version of him while learning how to be a better husby to his wife to come. As you think you’re building your future with hes busy looking for his wife
Having a child with a man doesn't mean he will marry you. True.
Having a child with your husband too doesn't mean he will stay and not divorce you.
Kubi regardless, as women we are suffering. I salute those who have decided to never have kids 🙌🏽
Thank you ! End of story
But let's be honest. A man who has married you is more likely to be present for you than a child out of wedlock
@@Beex848 married men are the most single people I know. Those people hardly ever respect their wives to start with.
I still say as a woman, have kids because you want them. Not because your husband does. Even when things are good, ensure you will survive and have the resources to be fine should be ditch yall.
But why girls think it ok to give Boys children without him paying lobola it's ok??
Spot on my ninja ❤❤love from Zimbabwe, Byo
Not all relationships will end in marriage
Not all relationships will end well
Above all nothing last forever in this world and we must learn to accept when love stop
Money will get you the woman you want not the woman you need and when men get money they run after the woman they want.
.. year later you seems to agree with what Nonnie said!! There’s a better chance for someone who has no child before marriage, we all learn from our mistakes although we seems not to take advice
Could it not be that Cassper is the one who decided to not be in a relationship because he wanted to give her everything he didn't have when he was broke? Men don't just abruptly marry; I think she was the one from the time they were still in school he just wanted to find himself and play and do what boys do before they marry.
Some men do this. It's not always about money, who knows he might have been telling her when i'm right i am going to marry you.
Debatable he should have went back when he started booming and started buying all these cars and made it, if that was the case, I look at it and he has just been a man the whole time, play the field while she "waited" for him then come back and marry her, still he put himself before all these women
So it's a bit questionable on why they weren't together from then
But that was her choice to wait and also maybe they've been together all along we just didn't know.
"Do what boys do" please evaluate that statement because young girls are getting hurt whenever those boys "do what boys do " .
@@nonhlanhlankosi1786 very true, maybe just maybe those sneaking out days of his were with her sometimes, we will never know
Women just need to put themselves first also, as his baby mama did, she was tired shame
@koketso...i agree wid u
Casper married his dream girl , that was his dream girl along 👀…
That’s men for you
“Stop having babies with these men without a ring” do you know Jienie Mei fro the talk show The real. The is no formula shem 😂
The way you butchered her name ke sana 😩. Jeannie Mai*
*Jeannie Mai please
Yhooo I remember she got married they dumped her.there is no formula in or manual of life.
😭😭😭 that story has puzzled me to this day
He dumped her but he’s the bitter one . Trying to get full custody of the child with her while not doing a 🤬thing for his other kids… He thought he would break her but she’s steady bringing in the money.. He sees a meal ticket in the child 🙄
Kodwa this is very common. Most people have babies but they are nolonger together and moved on to be with other partners. Why is Casper's situation different from what we see everyday hence we have thousands of single mothers.
This life no balance oooo
At all
Is not make sense now!
@@liphoskosana2425😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yi wishi wishi mntakabawo
Tell the sis,some of us have been around for a while..it is so so true,girls please take care of yourselves❤
People angry that Cassper chose another woman as a wife and not his baby mama calm down. First does Thobeka seem like she wanted to marry Cassper? This lady has always been about Rich Aunt,Rich Mommy and just honestly focusing on her bag.
I am sure his going to make sure baby mama whos well off by the way will have a home, car, and monthly allowance for his son. Sis is good guys. She lived with this guy for years if ahe wanted marriage she could have gotten it. I doubt she did.
I agree with you, most childhood friendships turns into love for the other person, I think Cass had always eyed her ka love but could not express it, girlie probably eyed him the same and gave it a shot.
Let's just say he is happy now. Maybe he wanted an academic. Let's be happy for him.🎉🎉🎉🎉
The baby mama won. Imagine getting married to someone with an addiction problem. She’s free, pulane will have to deal with all his issues 😅
Jealousy will kill you no doubt
@@terrencetncube264 I’d never be jealous of a man with an addiction problem. That’s a hell hole I wouldn’t wish even on my worst enemy.
Eish that is so scary and sad for Pulane, I wouldn't wish that on anyone too. I hope he has sincerely found Christ because I know he will be free from the addiction and I hope Pulane has a relationship with Jesus too, to be strong for however long it takes for him to be freed from the spirit of addiction🙏
@@indianam7689 sadly addiction is a life-long thing. He will always be in recovery. She must pray he sticks to whatever therapy measures he’s taking. Sex-addiction like any other addiction is hard to beat.
@moe_ramz many things are a life long addiction from a Christian Spiritual view but nothing is too hard for the Lord
I was waiting for this one, let me sit down and pay attention
the only version that matters!
Missed you so much Queen ❤. There is zero chemistry between him and his wife, I actually thought he was shooting a music video!!
Intombi yolahleko😂😩finally you're back! Still waiting for the ancestors voice note ❤️
Your skin is glowing 😍
I don't think it was intentional. I think what happened in the relationship with BM happened. They truly were in love, but things just didn't work out. I don't think she was trying to keep him. She's capable of looking after herself and their child. This just the next chapter for Cassper.
I was waiting for you to cover this story😂💜
Was waiting for you to report on this the whole weekend ninja. You're opinionated maaam and I love how your mind works. It spits the truth as it is,period
It is better not to have or receive a blessing, than you receive a blessing a lose it. Baby mama is better off, than to get married to him and divorce.
I don’t know hey, looks like Bex didn’t want and she chose a different path, he then chose the next best thing. Baby mothers don’t always want to marry their child’s father especially when there is bad history. Married today, divorced tomorrow ?🤷🏾♀️. You can have a husband and still be a single mother. Have kids when you can afford & have time to have children and only have as many as you can handle by yourself, that’s how women should think. Use logic and not your feelings & don’t worry about hurting anyone’s feelings. Even if you are getting married always think to yourself, if this dude dips, either he runs off, dies, becomes disabled, loses his mind or his job? How many kids are you able to raise by yourself ? None? 1 or 2? And then go with that. Don’t just have kids because you feel like it, and don’t have kids to keep a man or for a man because the right man can become the wrong one at some point down the line, or you might not even want to be with that man at some point. Also men will ask you to marry them for different reasons, it’s not always because he loves you, we really need to socialize women to stop centering men. But until Bex says it herself I’ll never believe this guy who is definitely not husband goals left her. Bex said no and kept it cute. I mean…. have you guys really seen her though?
Glowing sana
True Queen, but the latter is equated the other side. Women leave babe daddies and be married to other people. Let's not say Casper was wrong it maybe the case that he was good as a baby daddy so the lady didn't opt for marriage. We all have choices to make. Let's not blame a man choosing himself as much as we support women choosing themselves. Let's not be a bias nation. You can marry who ever you want
ayi you are below the belt here. Choosing yourself = sexual promiscuous at the expense of your girlfriend? If everyone does what they feel like doing, just imagine the chaos in the world?
Driving from jhb to cape Town is a bad idea .A 16hr drive is torture 😣... Unless you are in for a "on the road experience "..
I agree. Casper really loved this girl. O kari he was just WAITING for her to be single. His moving Tooooooo QUICK. I feel sorry for the baby mama. She was just practice
I chose to have a child. I felt that a child was a must and marriage will come if it comes. The most important thing was to have a child with a person that I don't mind having in my life for the rest of my life whether or not we are together.
Men don't love us... we need to put ourselves and our needs first because they will never put their needs after us.
My Ninja I often watch your videos but I never get tired of your Intro
You have great me of the best intros on CZcams ke sana!
Let us be selfish with our wombs ❤
Both ladies are gorgeous i doubt its only abt looks..he just chose to do what he did.
I have been waiting for the ancestors' voice video since Monday. Manje, I feel bad for hearing about you not feeling well and the passing of the baby 💙🩵🩶
I think she was with him even when he was with his baby mama . Since she has been his childhood friend always in the background . Never trust just a friend
They went through all the photosynthesis process in life together am also surprised 🙀 why are they deciding to mary now?😮and putting their relationship out there 🤔
Married at the age of 2😂😂😂Owamie Mara. We must just make peace that at the end of the day money makes things easy. I know alot of guys who are not on the public eye and did the same "married someone they couldn't have when they where broke" so it's really nothing new.
Woman date who they want but man marry who they want!
Casper calculated the fact that even if he were to go broke atleast his son will still be well taken care of because Thobeka family is rich but has always knew he will marry Pulane 😅😂
Chaaaiiiiii, the truth hurts, personally I saw a different Casper, he was cold, he was dead inside
When was he cold???
He was very happy, I was there to witness it.
Am I the only one that feels sorry for both the baby mama AND the wife??? Ay no, guy didn't look excited shame
So true Owami, I have never had interest in just having a baby with just a boyfriend or staying with a man who is not my husband. We really need to try harder to have babies in wedlock, even if the marriage fails or works out, one can say they tried their best to give a child a shot at having both parents or if one parent passes away. We have seen what a fatherless society has done to our men.
But Casper was looking like indoda edlisiweyo, he was looking so weak at the wedding, I hope he is ok
Thought I'm the only who sow this.......and seemed controlling/ no happiness. And for Cat not to even do outfit change something is off
Sober shame kadliswanga man know what they want shame yeah
Perhaps they met when they were young and dated briefly but it didn't work out. They still loved each other even when they moved on , they perhaps waited for the right time and they tried it out and it worked. Maybe they always kept in touch for MANY YEARS. Maybe that right person, wrong time thing happened to them.
I might be reaching here but I think cassper got married because the church said so n maybe to find a wife in the church n the childhood friend happened to attend the same church coz vele ikhona into e off with this wedding 😂
Motherhood is dangerous if you're doing it alone. Fathers nowadays dont even wanna be fathers
my ask is how do we know that Thobeka wanted the ring??????????
In my opinion... khona into e-Off la... I have a suspicion that the getting married thing is to do the things 'properly' since he is now Christian... I wish them all the best because once the things hype dies down they can keep the fire burning somehow some way
Have missed you so much my Ninja
Ninja signing in ❤
Utube streets was not interesting without u queen ninja 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
I am the representative of the ninjas in Namibia 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Signing in from Mount Frere
We missed you mama 🥺
Owamie, you are beautiful even without make up. Mama-Genes Gal. ❤
U baby nama is so happy lapho akhona I'm sure of that ,coz thisn mn wow very toxic shem ,she dogged the bullet
I really feel like Casper did not plan on marrying this woman. It was arranged by his family, and I think he is a family pleaser
Women, please know that having a child for a man is not the same as having a child for yourself. Please marry first before making children with a man and make sure you can afford them by yourself, but always know that even married people break up, and if you had children for yourself, it will not destroy you.
You will be able to fund your children without his money, and God will bless you in the process.
If indoda uyizalele owokuqala uphindelani owesibini mbuze iphi Ring 💍 for owesibini nowesithathu.... Mxm nakusheka nengane nina .
I don't take men seriously anymore xem
It makes the two of us nxaaa...liked Casper bt how he played poor baby mother ain't cool shem😢😢😢
😂😂😂 don't play yourself....there are really good man out there, don't live through other ppl's experience
@@rebotilekgweedi5627 yeah I'm one person who doesn't take people's experiences and say it's going to happen to me... Just that I've been hurt, that's where this attitude comes from
@@rebotilekgweedi5627 I know there are good men out here but they're rare
@@m_motsothat's me now , that's me in 20 years to come
Men know who they want to marry. They date you 10 years, make babies and marry someone else
And this happens alot , this ladies just have hard heads😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think we must start learning from other people's experiences
Ndomutuvha queen 👸 🎉❤
Facts on facts on facts, Danko
Once we except that a man that does not have a FIANCE or WIFE does not belong to anyone sizoba right.
Ninja checking in💗💗💗
You look beautiful Owamie
casper said it himself that the babymama dumped him cz he was a serial cheater..congratulations to them and l wish the baby mama gudluck.
Within 🖤
Cassper n baby mama broke up last year. Did you expect his life to remain stagnant? To have child with sm1 doest mean you gona get married. Ppl break up everyday n Cassper is no exception. As long as he is there for his child
When are you gonna post the video with the ancestor voice
Queen Ninja ❤❤
Bazo divosa... 🤞🏾. Khona okungahlangani la and it's in our faces!
yes i was waiting for this one
Guys we are making big deal out of nothing, i also have a baby momma and we are no longer together, so if i decide to get married i must go look for my baby momma and beg them, maybe even marriage was the last thing on baby momma mind