Im 50 years old today. Single dad of a 5 year old. ive had to re invent who i am as a person in order to have the privilege of being a dad. also new to the faith.
It's still the word of God being preached and it's beneficial for men and women to understand both roles that God has for men and women. Husbands and wives. But also for children so that when children become men and women and live lives as an adult follower of Christ they have already been taught all of these truth and have a belief that is founded on Christ. The world wants people to go after what they want same thing as Satan same thing as a serpent in the garden. If we are in a Christian marriage and we find ourselves one teen something for ourselves and are insisting that our spouse give us what we want. I would suggest that we do what God wants. Jesus didn't go to the bride and ask the bride what do you want and I'll give you everything you want. Jesus came and gave the bride what the bride needs. My role as husband and father is different than my wife's role as wife and mother. If we find ourselves wanting our spouse to be like and how we live our lives. That is from Satan. We should be helping each other to conform to Christ and not to something we want. As a spouse we could have wounding or spiritual strongholds from our childhood that we carry into marriage and if we insist on raising Sheldon the way we want or not raising children the way our parents raised us, then we're focused on everything except What God Says. Everything is about living dependent on God and obeying his way of living.
I'm a father that has made mistakes, but I tried to bring Jesus into our home. My wife has bipolar and schizophrenia and recently had a paranoid moment where she thought I was was threatening her and had me arrested even though I never said anything or acted in anyway to threaten her. Now I'm out of the house and still paying for the mortgage, phones etc..please pray for me that the Lord goes before me to get my daughters back and my house and hopefully my wife.
God bless you, brother. Stay strong and trust in the Lord. He will bring you through this and will restore your family to you. You're going through the fire right now and it's going to be tough, but if you put your faith in God, He will bless you richly and take care of all that troubles you. He brings all things to a perfect resolution for those who have faith and honor Him with their lives. Stay in the word and stay in prayer. Victory is on the horizon!
Jesus is the cure. I had PTSD, bi-polar depression, OCD, an anxiety disorder and BPD. HAD. I suffered for 17 years before I let Jesus in to my life. Prayer works. Praying for all of you.
I’m sorry Matthew praying for you! I was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder about 12 years ago, I’m 33 now. Jesus was the only thing that delivered me and it wasn’t instant I progressively got better with understanding my authority in Christ and surrendering to him. When you’re on fire for Christ it causes these manifestations in others to come out because they are territorial.
❤❤❤❤ keep teaching please it's so useful! I'm a woman but these sermons are AMAZING. It helps me to know what kind of man to look for!!! these guidelines to raise kids works for mothers too 😊
It would seem to me that public school teachers could not be Christians and teach the curriculum required by the government today. Best solution is too get kids out of government schools.
I am having such a problem with this right now. My husband and I don’t agree and it’s a bit stained. He is on the BOE so I feel better but ugh. The other children there are the problem.
This is exactly what we have down, don't think it will be easy because it is not, just remember that it is what God wants for your life and he will never leave or forsake you
I have gone to church over 20 years and this is the first message I heard about how to raise godly children. Thank you Pastor Mark! This is much needed. Please publish a book about this!
Pastor Driskoll. Thank you. All your teachings apply to females also. BRILLIANT!! I am a woman. GOD THE FATHER has truly blessed you with the gift of teaching. We are thankful to JESUS CHRIST for bold teachers of the TRUTH. I pray for all of the wonderful BIBLE Teachers and Pastors GOD is using in this social media platform, for I would never have had the wonderful opportunity to learn from the best, for the HOLY SPIRIT clearly works through all those who share GODS TRUTH. GOD Bless you,your family, and your ministry .
Thank you to Pastor Mark and team on this Real Men message! This was exactly what I needed after a tough week with my twin boys. It reaffirmed what I'm doing right and guided me where I'm doing wrong. Thank you!
public teachers are amazing. They spend so much of their money on their classrooms. They spend all day and night thinking about their students. School teachers deserve everything great in this world for how much they give. 💗
So many teachers are mind warpers. My ex wife loved to be in control of her students. Luckily she seemed to be Christian (I honestly don’t know, she was a good deceiver) but if she were to let her liberal side take over, she’d be a complete monster. I forgive her. But people can be awful.
Some of them are mind warpers. My ex wife is a teacher and she pretty much thought she owned her students. She tried it with me and I got tired of it pretty quickly. She’s all about rainbows and equality now, looks like I dodged a bullet
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. Thank you for challenging Christians to think about what happens in their baby’s first 1-60 minutes of life. I’m so grateful for what you’re saying lately. Calling out the men to workout and be healthy last week. There are so many subjects that Pastor’s won’t touch. I’m so thankful for you.
This video really helped me out learned a lot of Great Jewels on Fatherhood. I’m currently 20 years old with a 1 year and 4 month old I’ve had him out of weblock and me and the mother are not together, and I was scared and nervous don’t know what I’m doing. Im under the dominion of God so I can be a great father like God is to me. This video helped
At 36, I’m realizing that a father who belittles and shames you into obedience and a mother who abandons you to raise yourself “because the world won’t cut you any breaks” was actually not normal. I had no idea why I had so many anger issues stemming from nowhere as an adult and can’t control my emotions. I’ve been through probably 40 jobs in my adult life and am currently jobless. I have a lifelong pile of failures to prove the enemy right when he whispers in my ear that I’m absolutely worthless. Watching how Mark talks to his kids evokes anger, regret, and resentment. Because I’ve never seen that before. And a deep sadness about how my life could have been so different. I forgive my parents, I’m a good son and am always the first to call, say sorry, I love you, etc, but honestly they don’t deserve it nor do they appreciate it. I’m their only son.
Sir you’re become my one of the most favorite pastor and teacher. I can’t have enough of your sermons. Thank you for all you are doing. God bless you and your ministry 🙏
Wow very amazing I truly pray that I may be a good father like you Pastor Mark and kind wish I had a father like you. My Question to you is how can a man in his 30s grow to become a better man when his upbringing was not
I truly appreciate this message. I’ve been devastated at the statistics regarding fatherless homes. My estranged husband left a year ago after 13 years of traditional marriage roles and no longer wanted that. He’s continued chasing his paramours and living wayward which is what he decided he wanted. The Lord has led me to where we are today and opened so many doors for our children. I do worry about how I can help facilitate more of a fatherly presence for them since I truly respect this critical role that I cannot fill.
God never said He wouldnt give you more than you could handle.. He said He wouldnt let you be tempted beyond what you could bare without providing a means of escape. In this world we are told we WILL face trouble but take care because He has overcome this world. I face more than i can handle on the regular..
I feel that way too. I have a hard time with that scripture. When you have a bullet in your hand there’s only two things you can do. End it or keep going. So I just put my head down and dig in and keep tredging
I would just like to add that there are christian teachers that love and care for children. My wife and I both teach in Illinois of all places. While we can't be as unfiltered with our faith as we'd like, we do take every opportunity to mention it to the students as well as other staff. I feel like it is a great opportunity to build relationships and show real broken children God's love. They just don't immediately know that is what it is. Yes, there are policies and some things I don't agree with or support. We feel like God has us in this school for a purpose. When the day comes that they actually force us to teach against our beliefs, we won't do it. I guess I just want those that are unable to afford a private or Christian school to know that there are good people in public schools.
Investing the $$ in the memory. So good. It is very hard blending with someone who does not teach their children how to be thankful. Pretty soon you feel like a checkbook.
The Planned Destruction of The Family…it’s a documentary written by a woman I came across this revelation in the late 90’s after being divorced in the mid 80’s by a malignant narcissist…her and her mother destroyed their children as “men hater’s”
Bruh the hospital staff wasn’t being rude when they said “in case your wife has a venereal disease.” 🙄 She COULD even if she’s only been with you - random example, what if her mother was assaulted as a teen, and was an asymptomatic carrier for a disease, that she passed to your wife via birth, and your wife has been lucky enough to be asymptomatic and could pass it to your newborn? Or, what if her dad had a secret affair, passed it to her mom -> your wife via birth -> your newborn? You get the idea. I DO see reasons to decline those treatments, but to scoff and act like Grace “being a stripper” is the ONLY way she could be carrying an STD is wildly ignorant.
This advice not hitting out of anger should have been understood by the Catholic Church and Nun teachers who would hit children with rulers or worse . And they wonder why people have left the Catholic faith their and church attendance is at an all time low?
Mark, if you're so against all these medical procedures, that have a ton of evidence behind them, why the hell did you go to the hospital in the first place???
My family doctor tried that with my daughter when she was 2 and he kept trying to tell me why my little girl needed the shot and I finally got so mad I got in his face and I said to him . I tell you what doc if someone does something to my little girl where she need that shot , I will have a shot for them and it’s called a bullet and then I said to him am I clear now and that was the last time any conversation like that took place and I soon after found a new doctor. I also had my daughter do her last 3 years of hs at home because I was constantly having to go to the school to direct there thinking and behavior. I think everyone involved was happy when I decided to home school her and we were traveling all over the country with her national team for women’s ice hockey so it was better for her and we lost her mom my beloved wife when my daughter was 14 and it was hard for her always seeing all the other kids doing mother daughter stuff so I was trying to reduce her suffering the best I could
Im 50 years old today. Single dad of a 5 year old. ive had to re invent who i am as a person in order to have the privilege of being a dad. also new to the faith.
Im not a man, but I love your sermons meant for men despite the fact I am a women. Thank you, Pastor Mark.
It's still the word of God being preached and it's beneficial for men and women to understand both roles that God has for men and women. Husbands and wives. But also for children so that when children become men and women and live lives as an adult follower of Christ they have already been taught all of these truth and have a belief that is founded on Christ. The world wants people to go after what they want same thing as Satan same thing as a serpent in the garden. If we are in a Christian marriage and we find ourselves one teen something for ourselves and are insisting that our spouse give us what we want. I would suggest that we do what God wants. Jesus didn't go to the bride and ask the bride what do you want and I'll give you everything you want. Jesus came and gave the bride what the bride needs. My role as husband and father is different than my wife's role as wife and mother. If we find ourselves wanting our spouse to be like and how we live our lives. That is from Satan. We should be helping each other to conform to Christ and not to something we want. As a spouse we could have wounding or spiritual strongholds from our childhood that we carry into marriage and if we insist on raising Sheldon the way we want or not raising children the way our parents raised us, then we're focused on everything except What God Says. Everything is about living dependent on God and obeying his way of living.
I am a wimmenz
I'm a father that has made mistakes, but I tried to bring Jesus into our home. My wife has bipolar and schizophrenia and recently had a paranoid moment where she thought I was was threatening her and had me arrested even though I never said anything or acted in anyway to threaten her. Now I'm out of the house and still paying for the mortgage, phones etc..please pray for me that the Lord goes before me to get my daughters back and my house and hopefully my wife.
Praying for you Matthew.
God bless you, brother. Stay strong and trust in the Lord. He will bring you through this and will restore your family to you. You're going through the fire right now and it's going to be tough, but if you put your faith in God, He will bless you richly and take care of all that troubles you. He brings all things to a perfect resolution for those who have faith and honor Him with their lives. Stay in the word and stay in prayer. Victory is on the horizon!
Jesus is the cure. I had PTSD, bi-polar depression, OCD, an anxiety disorder and BPD. HAD. I suffered for 17 years before I let Jesus in to my life. Prayer works. Praying for all of you.
I’m sorry Matthew praying for you! I was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder about 12 years ago, I’m 33 now. Jesus was the only thing that delivered me and it wasn’t instant I progressively got better with understanding my authority in Christ and surrendering to him. When you’re on fire for Christ it causes these manifestations in others to come out because they are territorial.
What a mess.
Your wife is not the enemy. The devil and his minions in the courts are the enemy
❤❤❤❤ keep teaching please it's so useful! I'm a woman but these sermons are AMAZING. It helps me to know what kind of man to look for!!! these guidelines to raise kids works for mothers too 😊
It would seem to me that public school teachers could not be Christians and teach the curriculum required by the government today. Best solution is too get kids out of government schools.
If you had Christians in the public school and they taught the curriculum they would not be living the way Daniel did
I am having such a problem with this right now. My husband and I don’t agree and it’s a bit stained. He is on the BOE so I feel better but ugh. The other children there are the problem.
This is exactly what we have down, don't think it will be easy because it is not, just remember that it is what God wants for your life and he will never leave or forsake you
Just don’t send them to Catholic schools for obvious reasons.
What about poor Christians like me who has to send my children to public school because I don’t have money for private school
Pastor Mark Thank you for obeying GOD JESUS JUDGE AND SAVIOR
This was incredible. Good job Pastor Mark. Every man should hear this.
I have gone to church over 20 years and this is the first message I heard about how to raise godly children.
Thank you Pastor Mark! This is much needed. Please publish a book about this!
My husband and I both watch these teachings! Love learning about the Bible!
Pastor Driskoll. Thank you. All your teachings apply to females also. BRILLIANT!! I am a woman. GOD THE FATHER has truly blessed you with the gift of teaching. We are thankful to JESUS CHRIST for bold teachers of the TRUTH. I pray for all of the wonderful BIBLE Teachers and Pastors GOD is using in this social media platform, for I would never have had the wonderful opportunity to learn from the best, for the HOLY SPIRIT clearly works through all those who share GODS TRUTH. GOD Bless you,your family, and your ministry .
The best part of the internet is quality teachers like this.thank you jesus,so simple and effective.i could watch this over and over 🙌
Thank you to Pastor Mark and team on this Real Men message! This was exactly what I needed after a tough week with my twin boys. It reaffirmed what I'm doing right and guided me where I'm doing wrong. Thank you!
As a husband and a father….. this made me cry. Great sermon! 💯
same
Barking dad, punishment on mistakes, hammer on everything….ouch. Good. Thank you.
public teachers are amazing. They spend so much of their money on their classrooms. They spend all day and night thinking about their students. School teachers deserve everything great in this world for how much they give. 💗
Yeah no, not all of them are. I also guarantee that they wouldn't pay their supplies for their students if they didn't have to.
obviously....having one person who makes 40K a year buying 30 students supplies is insane.@@freakinnuclearfantasy2511
So many teachers are mind warpers. My ex wife loved to be in control of her students. Luckily she seemed to be Christian (I honestly don’t know, she was a good deceiver) but if she were to let her liberal side take over, she’d be a complete monster.
I forgive her. But people can be awful.
Some of them are mind warpers. My ex wife is a teacher and she pretty much thought she owned her students. She tried it with me and I got tired of it pretty quickly. She’s all about rainbows and equality now, looks like I dodged a bullet
Yesssss Antivaxer Halleluja 🙌🙌🙌🙌 Thank you Jesus 🙏🙏🙏
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. Thank you for challenging Christians to think about what happens in their baby’s first 1-60 minutes of life. I’m so grateful for what you’re saying lately. Calling out the men to workout and be healthy last week. There are so many subjects that Pastor’s won’t touch. I’m so thankful for you.
Yes...not many even question what's going on or why. Let alone stand up to it.
This video really helped me out learned a lot of Great Jewels on Fatherhood.
I’m currently 20 years old with a 1 year and 4 month old I’ve had him out of weblock and me and the mother are not together, and I was scared and nervous don’t know what I’m doing. Im under the dominion of God so I can be a great father like God is to me.
This video helped
At 36, I’m realizing that a father who belittles and shames you into obedience and a mother who abandons you to raise yourself “because the world won’t cut you any breaks” was actually not normal. I had no idea why I had so many anger issues stemming from nowhere as an adult and can’t control my emotions. I’ve been through probably 40 jobs in my adult life and am currently jobless. I have a lifelong pile of failures to prove the enemy right when he whispers in my ear that I’m absolutely worthless.
Watching how Mark talks to his kids evokes anger, regret, and resentment. Because I’ve never seen that before. And a deep sadness about how my life could have been so different. I forgive my parents, I’m a good son and am always the first to call, say sorry, I love you, etc, but honestly they don’t deserve it nor do they appreciate it. I’m their only son.
Thank you, Mark and your wife,I have lost my way to God a long time ago,and now I am finding my way back home to the lord.
I remember the old days when Driscoll used to mock homeschool moms as the ones wearing long denim skirts.
Sir you’re become my one of the most favorite pastor and teacher. I can’t have enough of your sermons. Thank you for all you are doing. God bless you and your ministry 🙏
Wow very amazing I truly pray that I may be a good father like you Pastor Mark and kind wish I had a father like you. My Question to you is how can a man in his 30s grow to become a better man when his upbringing was not
Word.
I truly appreciate this message. I’ve been devastated at the statistics regarding fatherless homes. My estranged husband left a year ago after 13 years of traditional marriage roles and no longer wanted that. He’s continued chasing his paramours and living wayward which is what he decided he wanted. The Lord has led me to where we are today and opened so many doors for our children. I do worry about how I can help facilitate more of a fatherly presence for them since I truly respect this critical role that I cannot fill.
God never said He wouldnt give you more than you could handle.. He said He wouldnt let you be tempted beyond what you could bare without providing a means of escape. In this world we are told we WILL face trouble but take care because He has overcome this world. I face more than i can handle on the regular..
@@Godissogoodallthetime barely..
I feel that way too. I have a hard time with that scripture. When you have a bullet in your hand there’s only two things you can do. End it or keep going. So I just put my head down and dig in and keep tredging
Great instruction based on the true word. We did all the wrong things. Now what?
When it comes from the holy spirit i call it an INSPIRATION!!
Powerful message.
I would just like to add that there are christian teachers that love and care for children. My wife and I both teach in Illinois of all places. While we can't be as unfiltered with our faith as we'd like, we do take every opportunity to mention it to the students as well as other staff. I feel like it is a great opportunity to build relationships and show real broken children God's love. They just don't immediately know that is what it is. Yes, there are policies and some things I don't agree with or support. We feel like God has us in this school for a purpose. When the day comes that they actually force us to teach against our beliefs, we won't do it. I guess I just want those that are unable to afford a private or Christian school to know that there are good people in public schools.
Thank goodness. I live in IL and there’s not enough of you! It’s good to know that you are out there however far and few in between.
Amazing!
I’m sharing the videos on this channel with family and friends.
Thank you Pastor Mark
❤❤❤ great word. Great Advice.
Wish We found this sooner!!!
You nailed it!
OMG! Thanks for this sermon. I've been thinking about this question a lot since the shooting in Bangkok at a mall When I regularly go shopping.
Man I needed to hear this
So much helpful information here. Thank you. Is there a Bible study on this? So insightful. Iam going to practice and emulate what you mentioned.
I’ve been watching from Australia, it’s invested our schools here, not good…
Thanks
Investing the $$ in the memory. So good. It is very hard blending with someone who does not teach their children how to be thankful. Pretty soon you feel like a checkbook.
53:17 needs to be clipped.
I have emailed. We would love to have you on our podcast!
I’ll be on your podcast. What do you want to talk about? I got plenty of insight
Loved this one!! ❤ Thank you 😊
Fast forward to the 6 minute mark. You are welcome.
When is the 50 hour lecture?
39:00 oof that one hurts
The Planned Destruction of The Family…it’s a documentary written by a woman
I came across this revelation in the late 90’s after being divorced in the mid 80’s by a malignant narcissist…her and her mother destroyed their children as “men hater’s”
Bruh the hospital staff wasn’t being rude when they said “in case your wife has a venereal disease.” 🙄 She COULD even if she’s only been with you - random example, what if her mother was assaulted as a teen, and was an asymptomatic carrier for a disease, that she passed to your wife via birth, and your wife has been lucky enough to be asymptomatic and could pass it to your newborn? Or, what if her dad had a secret affair, passed it to her mom -> your wife via birth -> your newborn?
You get the idea. I DO see reasons to decline those treatments, but to scoff and act like Grace “being a stripper” is the ONLY way she could be carrying an STD is wildly ignorant.
This advice not hitting out of anger should have been understood by the Catholic Church and Nun teachers who would hit children with rulers or worse . And they wonder why people have left the Catholic faith their and church attendance is at an all time low?
Anen
Mark, if you're so against all these medical procedures, that have a ton of evidence behind them, why the hell did you go to the hospital in the first place???
He will protect you from the pestilence and the wisdom of men is foolish
I really like this guy, but did he just say "hunt for a trout?" Lol
Easier than fishin for deer
I can say this from experience strong independent woman are not good for a wife
I hope its not you mfs
My family doctor tried that with my daughter when she was 2 and he kept trying to tell me why my little girl needed the shot and I finally got so mad I got in his face and I said to him . I tell you what doc if someone does something to my little girl where she need that shot , I will have a shot for them and it’s called a bullet and then I said to him am I clear now and that was the last time any conversation like that took place and I soon after found a new doctor. I also had my daughter do her last 3 years of hs at home because I was constantly having to go to the school to direct there thinking and behavior. I think everyone involved was happy when I decided to home school her and we were traveling all over the country with her national team for women’s ice hockey so it was better for her and we lost her mom my beloved wife when my daughter was 14 and it was hard for her always seeing all the other kids doing mother daughter stuff so I was trying to reduce her suffering the best I could