"you can make anything happen"
She's right. I can order this exact engraving on a bracelet I actually like
As an infp guy who wears those hippy bead bracelets, I was personally offended by this title
You infps are funny people. I get to laugh just by looking at your faces. You got very nice humor.
Well it is good when INFPs are this passionate for something ..
It is either this or low key depression..
There is no middle ground, we are either inspired and optimistic or depressed.
So it is great that she found her passion and works really hard. An inspiration to most INFPs
It is possible to achieve and be successful :D
Agreed. I'm happy she's found success in something she's so passionate about. I like the bracelets. Big chunky jewellery is not my style and delicate/intricate jewellery is more subtle which goes with everything. I feel like I need something like this to keep me going through the difficult times, especially when I doubt myself at work. Also, bracelets are easy to clasp one handed if you lay it flat with one side on your wrist and just hook it on.
I agree. Also, cool to see her do a little business, which isn't the typical INFP thing to do, so it makes sense IF an INFP tailor makes the business their way. I had a filigree jewelry business but it didn't last after four years for Te reasons but mainly because I felt I didn't put my spin on it. -INFP guy
So thinker decisions pro is that they are far more accurate and precise because of logic
But feeler decisions pro is that they have a stronger drive
To me, it seems like being 'driven' for whatever the identity is attached to is an IxxP thing to do, not just feelers.
@@anonymouslearner2454 of course all the deciding functions have drive, but Dave has mentioned before that a pro to feeling functions is they have more drive
So Fi has a stronger drive than Ti
@@J11_boohoo I see.. I didn't know about that
Thank you for sharing
She probably wasn’t totally a pioneer; she’s likely failing to acknowledge a precursor of some sort because she prefers to think of herself as a pioneer.
The MBTI community would say this is SF stuff, but I think it’s much more accurate to say it is feminine Si in any position. Totally agree with this as a generalization.
agreed that this would be taken as SF, but it's likely just Fi-Si. how would you define feminine Si in this case?
When they said that “I understand what works for the tribe, but this is what works for me” is Masculine Fi, i thought it was Ti. I’m confused
@@cancervenusedits5689Thanks for this. I'm an INFP guy, and I could never figure out if I have masculine Fi. I do!
Are we sure she's an INFP? Because I'm an INFP and she annoys me. The bracelet seems like a stupid, contrived, soulless gimmick. I just can't imagine that in her heart of INFP hearts, she is genuinely moved/inspired by it. Wouldn't it be pretty uncharacteristic of an INFP to make a business out of selling something they didn't genuinely believe in the value of? I guess unless they're in survival/sell your soul to the devil to stay alive mode, which could be. But most INFPs would rather die than "sell their souls". Yeah, we're silly like that.
Maybe it's just a case of bad taste and she really does believe in it. Tastes are diverse🤷♀️
Easy ways to put on a bracelet one handed, at least for me, is to use a flat surface as an aide, like your chest or a table, or do the dangle method where you dangle the bracelet over your wrist and swing and hook.
Also, I'm confused on how 3 payments of 6.66 equals 200 dollars, I did the math and it's $19.98
This video was great, I learned something new.
"Don't get me this."
Translation: I will not tolerate wasting good money on something I will conveniently misplace 6 months from now.
ofc the NFP gotta throw in the Fi-Ne Moral: If you stay passionate and open-minded to new ideas and opportunities good things will happen🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes, I kind of envy the INFPs for that (although I hate where many of them go with it.)
ISFPs are so much more grim, like "Stay yourself, eyes open, maybe you'll eventually see a path."
I'm SiTe and I don't wear bracelets. It's awkward and uncomfortable to have something dangling from my wrist.
Ooooh, this is interesting. I’ve got feminine Si (I’m ENFP) and I love tiny, minimalistic jewelry.
However, I also love the Mister T bling jewelry but only on others. I feel like it doesn’t work on me personally.
Hi guys,
Would you kindly do an episode on age anxiety and the fear of time passing by, and realising you'd never be able to create that impact you so wanted by age 40? Or may be you can, but it's going to be bit late, haha. Specially from a fragile INFP perspective.
Thank you and you know you're doing a fantastic job. Please keep at it.
To motivate you ..
JK Rowling finished writing Harry Potter when she was 42!
In Portugal we have a genious writer (José Saramago) who only wrote his first book in his 50s...
There is no age limit to inspire others...
No matter how much time it takes, just get there
@@dianadias3 Thank you for those words, Diana 🙏🏾 Is JKR an INFP? Din't know. Even Diana, my childhood crush, was one I hear. Haha
As you can guess by my type, am a bit of an emotional person. Being an infp and not knowing, have lost much time in life wondering why am I different and don't behave the way others do and expect. Even though I was quite good with grades (individual contribution and not boasting), fell apart later and found it quite difficult navigating the corporate life and tact / sucking up (just my opinion, not to offend anyone please) associated with it. Even if I was good with people (and subordinates), I was rather poor in managing up. Infact, one constant complaint from my bosses remained I was too accessible to everyone, incl reportees. I was always blaming myself and trying to behave. I was tired, I was not myself
May rest of 30s and early 40s bring a new perspective to life and let me be myself. Let all misunderstood INFPs do some epic shit together, whatever our ages be. Thank you Diana, have a great time ahead 🌻 That was so short a reply, typical INFP 🙄
That would a great idea. I'm not an INFP but I think it would be relevant to alot of types.
Don't know if you saw this already, but this other video they did called " Blast Low: Getting Started " touched upon people who got their big milestones started later on in life, and I found it to be very inspirational. Hope you are doing well.
Yeah M-Fi dgaf attitide is great on a team with savior Ti’s for when they get self conscious, and the F-Si tiny jewlery is such a thing 😆 I also used to think the F-Si jewelry was kind of silly - until I grew into my full adult body and gained enough demon sensory awareness to realize that my little FF body looks ridiculous in mostly anything else except F-Si tiny jewelry. 🤦🏻♀️ Medium sized jewels on a long NF hippie crystal necklace is the biggest I can get away with before I start to look like a little girl playing dress up with her parents clothes.
That was hilarious! I'm not her type at all, so maybe that's why I only wear earrings. I can't stand necklaces or.bracelets. Dave saying, "Oh you broke it!" when she dropped it🤣
I feel I got caught, discovered..
I feel attacked
Well she is a successful woman, she must have done something right :D
Infp we want to do it our way 😎🤫 That is how we feel ALIVE 💓 ✨
Si is introverted sensory, we don’t like the clanging of big bells and whistles shaking around our wrists. The sensations need to be toned down.
Yeah the sensory, but also the attention. I don't exactly want to be walking around in neon shoes and chunky jewelry because they tend to draw the eye. I'd rather blend in a bit more while also staying true to my own aesthetic.
@@BlueHazyDreams yes, the bright colors are loud and extroverted- maybe Se?
Practicality over aesthetic please, I don't find having a piece of conductive metal dangling from around my wrist useful, especially when I go to plug in the tv and the chain touches the pins and I get electrocuted and die.
I'm an INFP who's obsessed with jewelry and gemology, and I will always choose big jewelry over small. Haha I want you to see me from space. 😁😁😁😁 And most gem shopping networks are scams.
A common thing I have noticed on some people, that I also saw from the INFP in the video. And I am not claiming this is an Fi problem, I do not know.
But often when I make Ti statements, and or someone else makes just an statement that doesn't fully align with themselves they will completely misunderstand what was even said. As if they were not even listening, but will contradict you with a lot of certainty and passion. And here I will be like, "did you even listened to what was said?"
She is like, "Well no because I did it"... well yeah, but no one said you can't make it that way. They said it was more difficult or less likely.
It is like saying "In a game of poker, getting a four of a kind is difficult" And then here comes the INFP and says "Actually no, because I got one". But also the opposite can happen, somone says "getting a pair of fours is quite easy, statistically speaking" and then the INFP comes and says "Nu-uh, because I haven't gotten one myself". That is not how probability works, one single person might just be the exception not the rule.
To me, everytime I have seen that I find it quite odd. And to me it seems as if the person is so self absorbed they think that they themselves tip the scales on statistics. Not that I care that much about statistics tho, I am an ENTP afterall. Just that it bothers me when people not only get an illogical take on something, but also are so determined to show it. Like here comes this person making an informed comment, and she just goes "nu-uh because me". I can understand people having an illogical take, or not understanding what someone else said, it happens to all of us. But the level of arrogance and confidence in which they say "You are wrong because of my experience" Instead of saying something like "That might be true, but in my experience".
Not trying to offend, Ti has many many shortcomings as well, we all have... maybe an Fi user could ellaborate and explain their perspective. Or maybe make a case for why it isn't an Fi rule. It is just that it always bothers me when people show so much confidence on something, yet have no logical reason for it. And that is not an Fi only problem. I only mentioned Fi because of the video.
I’m not sure if it’s Fi only or if it’s IxxPs, my friend’s mom doesn’t like to walk my friend’s dog with a leash since she doesn’t walk her own dog with a leash and it’s always been fine but my friend gets mad (fairly) because they want their dog to be safe and be on a leash just in case they try to run into the road or something but she’s stuck on the fact that nothing bad has ever happened for her not using a leash therefore it never will instead of understanding that she’s just lucky
I'm quite confident this is a sign of not listening properly, or more precisely, a habit of hearing things at more of a surface level and not digging in too much before replying with conviction.
HAH I feel like i do this a lot around friends. I have Fi third plus consume last though so I'm never really listening and then I just throw in some fi experience bs.
Interesting thought. I know I have done this (I'm an INFP) but everybody does it if you think about it. When it comes to things that matter to us we get agitated, don't really listen anymore until we finish speaking. It's a recipy for disaster.
To answer your question on logic, I agree that she completely disregarded the statistical view (more people are successful as 2nd wave businesses) and went from personal experience (you might make it despite the odds). But does disregarding the stats mean she's necessarily illogical/wrong? Instead of replying to the full question she replies to part of it, and it's not as infuriating if you realise the question was badly framed, nowhere is it implied that this is statistically speaking/financial advice...
I'm a infp 4w3 and personally I really do not like seeing jewellery on people. I guess it's kosmemophobia, I find most jewellery cringey and tacky and unhygienic especially if it's something a person wears everyday. I'm embarrassed about this since most people don't have this opinion and are totally fine with seeing it. I even would tend to dislike movie characters for wearing jewellery 😂 and I'd rule out dating any guys that wear jewellery ... I really don't like necklaces especially unless its pearls like what Audrey Hepburn or Jacky O wore. I like and am fine with earrings as well. But anyways, I really feel that most people don't really add much to their look with their choices in bracelets/necklaces.
This explains my Masc Fi so well.
Lmao. Minute I saw this in my sub box I felt called out. Nice to know my Si is feminine, though at least compared to her my Fi is also more feminine. And yeah, anecdotes, but I don't get the ST putting on the bracelet thing. Things are frustrating, but it isn't that hard when you practice. I only let other people put things on me when I genuinely can't, otherwise I'm losing the opportunity to practice putting it on myself. I live alone; I kinda need that skill. But I constantly had to help put my mom's bracelets and necklaces on her.
Dunno if I just have better skill with ST for an NF or I am an ST/SF, but what else is new.
Some folks equate delicate, fine jewelry to expensive, higher quality. Rarity, something special, you know like INFPs. 😂😂😂
"cancel my three easy payments of 6.66" that got me hard bro
what functions correlate with losing all of your jewelry or else forgetting you have any?
My ENFJ mother loves that BIG masculine Se jewelry.
The blurbs are back! 😏😏😏
can somebody tell me how to figure out your second and third animal? the first and last are obvious but I didn´t find an answer yet for the other ones.
Man, this kind of Fi on pidiliwink stuff like a bracelet is exhausting. So much meaning and effort and emotion put into a dumb piece of metal. I knew someone (many) like this that would drag people by the hair just to get them on board with their Fi. Can't tell them any different. They know what's best not you or 500 people who do the same thing.
hmm. I got nothing. A bracelet isn’t going to change your life-you change your life
dave rants > all other content on the internet
I'm blast-last. I need a bracelet that says "I can't make anything happen".
Im infp and dont like jewelry at all. Only wore a wedding ring when I was married
So the point is that Fi savior outsources the inferior Te? Do other types generally do this with their inferior too?
But the bracelet was $20..
Are masculine Sensory more brand-conscious than fem S?
Hmm, I don't like small shiny things.
Maybe I'm not feminine Si.
omg please tell me we're not all like that
only if it's real gold. but with that engraving, and if it's only plated... no freaking way I'd waste my money on that. 🤷
Idk what my type is. I just like to wear a watch which tell accurate time. Idk about bracelets.
And as a lead Ti Im sitting here thinking "Why would anyone want to buy such a dumb thing?"
Wait, I like simple minimal jewelry as an INFJ. HUH?!
Could this guy from the beginning of the video speak any faster? 😂 I noticed it’s x2 but really
man i hate that the font on her $200 bracelet is in all caps and in some kind of serif Times New Roman font.. and you can barely read it irl on a person.
freaking put it in a pretty scroll feminine font that goes with the dainty bracelet lol.
Se be like "It's gotta be blunt, it's gotta be in your face, or it's like it's not even there" ahahahahah
I was wondering if you could type Jensen Ackles?
"...but this is what works for me" isn't it Ti according to your own videos?
Fi is always more like, "...but this is what I like", which is more akin to the situation, because it's bracelet, you wear it because you/tribe like it, not because it's supposed to work for anything.
🤣🤣🤣
We wouldn't have iPhones and smart phones ye Te-Ni peeps if everyone was the second guy.
I hate jewelry. It literally makes me think less of a person.
Its just pointless
Hmmm, I love small jewellry but I always thought that was because I'm a tiny person but maybe it is just my femine Si. I have a feeling I'm rather similar to the Lori person and I find her as annoying as f**k which is depressing
OOOOOOHHH so the reason why my INTP ass is lazy as fuck is because I don't have the "endless energy Fi" as it's my lowest function.
Wait, that’s not Mariah Carey? Face palm. My bad. Guess long as she can still run up somebody’s AMEX immediately before dumping ’em she prolly don’t need to do QVC.
The guy is cussing so much. It feels so weird like he´s trying to be cool. It´s not. Please stop or I can´t watch your videos.
Firsto
as someone with Fi and Si it's a constant battle to keep all the Daves away from my stuff
Underrated comment.