Scapegoat Reality In A Narcissistic Family

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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2024

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  • @user-qb2qo2sk1t
    @user-qb2qo2sk1t Před rokem +43

    They are jealous of your inner light.😢

  • @dwlsn93
    @dwlsn93 Před rokem +24

    It’s an honor to be the scapegoat!
    Yeah, I got beat for it (yeah, really), but my “defiance” kept me sane. I cut myself off from the whole lot of them. So, I’m the “crazy one.”

    • @Gyle.3559
      @Gyle.3559 Před rokem +2

      Happy for you

    • @KimmyHicks2024
      @KimmyHicks2024 Před rokem +3

      If family members want to be bad people on the wrong side of history that’s their choice and I’m not driving off the cliff with them, duh, I’m having a good happy high vibe life, ha!!! ♥️

    • @mac0219
      @mac0219 Před rokem +3

      Me too!! I’d rather be “crazy” than delusional

    • @user-pp7rf9wq1y
      @user-pp7rf9wq1y Před 7 měsíci

      I do relate..

  • @fionam3735
    @fionam3735 Před rokem +33

    They know you could blow there cover so they make you out to be the spoiled one, the one with issues etc

  • @Lyrielonwind
    @Lyrielonwind Před rokem +16

    And fear that roles change and they become the scapegoat 😱

  • @PassionateFlower
    @PassionateFlower Před rokem +24

    I called them out, and got KICKED OUT.

    • @r.m1447
      @r.m1447 Před rokem +11

      That would probably be the best thing for you

    • @pargm9543
      @pargm9543 Před rokem +8

      Same here and that was the best day of my life

    • @privateprivate8366
      @privateprivate8366 Před rokem +2

      I dumped them.

    • @mac0219
      @mac0219 Před rokem +2

      Me too - I still have my bad days but they are MUCH better than when I had to live in that bullshit every single day

    • @prophet1782
      @prophet1782 Před 9 měsíci

      You can say that Again. I'm the proof. I kicked them back. Took all privileges i was giving them. They are cold and candled. Match stick in time.@@r.m1447

  • @foxiefair123
    @foxiefair123 Před rokem +27

    It’s most of my “family”. My adoptive family, that is. It’s extremely dysfunctional and they don’t see it. They’re just spinning around on this merry go round like “weeeee”! I’m just standing there on the outside like, “no.”😂I actually went no contact with them and the peace is indescribable.😂

  • @mariannekoroleva6495
    @mariannekoroleva6495 Před rokem +22

    My narc "father" was laughing joyful every time my life was breaking apart, the more if he was involved. Thank You!!👍🍀💐💎🌺😊🌈⚓!!

    • @whygohome172
      @whygohome172 Před 8 měsíci

      That was his cocaine 😜

    • @user-pp7rf9wq1y
      @user-pp7rf9wq1y Před 7 měsíci

      That’s sickening .. I wouldn’t call him a father..

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 Před rokem +17

    Spot on. Exactly the case.

  • @zeinmohamedali1976
    @zeinmohamedali1976 Před rokem +12

    My brother is a narc😢 today my sister involved with another narc it's a nightmare. She has become an enabler and at times is even more cruel than brother. At the same time they all think they are perfect and I am the idiot

  • @terridillon3053
    @terridillon3053 Před rokem +15

    My family is headed straight to hell.
    Tragic

    • @Sa-od9ke
      @Sa-od9ke Před rokem +2

      😂mine too

    • @snowqueen24
      @snowqueen24 Před 8 měsíci

      My family is also headed for Hell, and my narcissistic uncle died last year.

  • @pargm9543
    @pargm9543 Před rokem +17

    Truthteller ➡️ scapegoat ➡️blacksheep ➡️ lone wolf ➡️ sigma male

    • @Sa-od9ke
      @Sa-od9ke Před rokem +3

      You re not alone angels are with you. You have your thoughts & goals. Don't hurt or harm yourself or others. Keep praying & doing gratitude's. Be grateful for every blessings. Always be honest with yourself.

    • @Joshdifferent
      @Joshdifferent Před rokem +1

      Yup

  • @realnush
    @realnush Před rokem +3

    Scapegoats and truth tellers unite ✊🏽

  • @chrisg7795
    @chrisg7795 Před rokem +4

    I needed to hear this today. My brother has been bullying me so badly these past two days that I woke up with anxiety. I will not allow their bs 💀!

  • @leticiamilo4387
    @leticiamilo4387 Před rokem +6

    Thanks Danish for sharing this video!❤⚘
    So true!!

  • @gracegrace869
    @gracegrace869 Před rokem +4

    So glad that u n others are teaching us. Certainly important sunject.

  • @rebeccagrace1509
    @rebeccagrace1509 Před rokem +6

    on a lighter side... just want to say, love your accent and the way you say Bullshit😁... makes this tragedy feel a little better. Excellent work and I appreciate your fresh unique delivery😇

  • @TheHokuloa
    @TheHokuloa Před 8 měsíci

    This is a term I've recently learned and suddenly everything is making sense now

  • @aidahartono8414
    @aidahartono8414 Před rokem +25

    They bully over and over, they have no feeling, lack of empathy, and really so cruel. They don't own me.

    • @aidahartono8414
      @aidahartono8414 Před rokem +2

      My own parent are so loving and care but they already died

  • @lipstickprincess1
    @lipstickprincess1 Před rokem

    Hell ya I can see right through their lies and bull shit!!!
    I wear my scapegoat badge proud!!!😂😂

  • @gracegrace869
    @gracegrace869 Před rokem +3

    Important subject.

  • @caseteamcouture8633
    @caseteamcouture8633 Před rokem +6

    That was me

  • @privateprivate8366
    @privateprivate8366 Před rokem +1

    Thank you. I started defining it as a system, quite sometime ago.❤

  • @Seraphim7
    @Seraphim7 Před 8 měsíci

    Sees through the bullsh*t🎯

  • @fluffbabiesRcrazy
    @fluffbabiesRcrazy Před rokem +1

    Hi I'm the truth telling scapegoat... And I'm no contact 😊

  • @carriebell3566
    @carriebell3566 Před rokem +12

    Ain’t this the truth?

  • @dougstobaugh376
    @dougstobaugh376 Před rokem

    Have a nice day! GOD-BLESS.

  • @gracegrace869
    @gracegrace869 Před rokem +1

    Rebuked these devil 👿 energy narcissists. Karma in their wicked way sooner or later.

  • @gracegrace869
    @gracegrace869 Před rokem +6

    Once education is done. These demonic spirits are exposed around the world.

  • @dur334521
    @dur334521 Před 7 měsíci

    I’ve been the families scapegoat my entire life and they keep trying to mess up my life like with my job or personal life and they are extremely entitled.

  • @danthompson5797
    @danthompson5797 Před rokem +2

    Yeah I've been remaining in the safe zone within the system for far, far too long. It's time for the shit to hit the fan. As much as it's going to suck it's the only option left if i want to have a life
    Edit: btw I'm seeing a lot of narcissist info video posts lately.. Is it the revolution?? I certainly appreciate the support and encouragement

  • @raje3355
    @raje3355 Před rokem +2

    I am a scapegoat

    • @Sa-od9ke
      @Sa-od9ke Před rokem +2

      Don't be one. Move when they bully you. Be happy & positive be strong

    • @raje3355
      @raje3355 Před rokem +1

      @@Sa-od9ke S I moved...thanks

  • @aklev5745
    @aklev5745 Před rokem +1

    True

  • @carolemorales5055
    @carolemorales5055 Před rokem +3

    Can you talk about narcissistic siblings causing constant drama attention and lying to get favorite status I’m frustrated

  • @GoJojo-lv6zi
    @GoJojo-lv6zi Před rokem +4

    Yep, this was me ❤️‍🩹

  • @Elizabethpepper8
    @Elizabethpepper8 Před 8 měsíci

    I guess that explains the identified patient role purpose. Well, that snd the constant supply for makingnher "martyr mother" with a crszy, angy daughter

  • @DJSHIREEN
    @DJSHIREEN Před rokem

    yes yes yes yes yes yes yes....EXXAACCCTTTLLYYYYY

  • @symeebryant
    @symeebryant Před rokem +2

    💯❤️

  • @vivasurvivor
    @vivasurvivor Před rokem

    @NarcAbuseCoach
    ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
    #scapegoatawareness

  • @gotcha9983
    @gotcha9983 Před rokem +1

    Cults for life ❤

  • @jill4268
    @jill4268 Před rokem +4

    Because their Idiots and are narcs too who are trying to gain something from the family member at some point

    • @mac0219
      @mac0219 Před rokem

      Yep and they are all miserable, codependent losers with no lives or friends. They need each other

  • @whygohome172
    @whygohome172 Před 8 měsíci

    🙋

  • @anaisabelmollejaroldan5904
    @anaisabelmollejaroldan5904 Před 11 měsíci

    😂😂😂

  • @kavijackson868
    @kavijackson868 Před rokem

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @4Mikes4Mindset4
    @4Mikes4Mindset4 Před rokem

    Me

  • @joyful_tanya
    @joyful_tanya Před rokem

    🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @angieeissa8679
    @angieeissa8679 Před 9 měsíci

    I would like to schedule a session with you

  • @princeeugen777
    @princeeugen777 Před 7 měsíci

    The SCAPEGOAT is from the Bible and NOT from SDA but the mostly are not able to see the SCAPEGOAT representing Satan being made culprit for the sins of all repented sinners.
    Leviticus 16:8 And Aaron shall cast lots upon the TWO GOATS; one lot for the LORD, and the other lot for the SCAPEGOAT.
    Lev 16:10 But the GOAT, on which the lot fell to be the SCAPEGOAT , shall be presented “””ALIVE””” before the LORD, TO MAKE AN ATONEMENT WITH HIM, and to let him go for a SCAPEGOAT INTO THE WILDERNESS.
    In Leviticus 16:10 is clearly to see that the SCAPEGOAT representing Satan was also AS ATONEMENT BUT NOT BEING SACRIFICED ON THE ALTAR(representing the cross) because AS ALIVE was sent into the wilderness for the next 1000 years.
    We clearly read that ONLY the goat remaining ALIVE is called SCAPEGOAT.
    Lev 16:20 And when he hath made AN END of reconciling the holy place, and the tabernacle of the congregation, and the altar, he shall bring THE ALIVE GOAT(scapegoat):
    Lev 16:21 And Aaron shall lay BOTH his hands upon the head of THE ALIVE GOAT(scapegoat), and confess OVER HIM(scapegoat) ALL the iniquities of the children of Israel, and ALL their transgressions in all their sins, putting them upon the head of THE GOAT(scapegoat), and shall send him AWAY by the hand of A FIT MAN(me) into the wilderness…(for the next 1000 years).
    Lev 16:22 And THE GOAT(scapegoat) shall BEAR upon him ALL their iniquities unto a land not inhabited: and he shall let go the goat in the WILDERNESS… (for the next 1000 years).
    Revelation 20:2 And he laid hold on the dragon, that old serpent, which is the Devil, and Satan, and bound him A THOUSAND YEARS,
    Revelation 20:7 And when the THOUSAND YEARS are expired, Satan shall be loosed out of his prison,
    I cannot understand why even people having high study in theology OF THE Bible they are so much blinded by their doctrines that are NOT anymore able TO READ what is clearly written black on white paper.