Conflict and Confrontation in Marriage (Part 2) | Episode 20
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- čas přidán 26. 07. 2024
- Heart check: do you admit when you're wrong? Do you prioritize understanding someone or just the reasons why you're right?
Conflicts and confrontations can make or break our families, so we must navigate these challenges carefully and gracefully.
In this episode of At Home with the Beveres, we explore the power of embracing imperfection and apologizing.
Whether it's your marriage, children, or even grandkids, we want to equip you with practical strategies to create authentic spaces where honesty thrives.
Tune in to At Home with the Beveres and join Addison, Juli, and Lisa Bevere as they share insights, wisdom, and practical advice to help you navigate conflicts and foster meaningful connections within your family.
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Chapters:
0:00 - Episode Teaser
0:19 - Burning Question: What’s Worth Not Fighting Over?
3:20 - What Is the Purpose of Confrontation?
7:12 - Love Does Not Mean It Denies
9:28 - The Power of Confession
14:10 - Handling Sibling Conflicts
18:09 - The Pressure to Be Right
23:20 - No One Wants to Be a Villain
24:05 - Closing Prayer
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Yes, please do an episode about the theological differences between Lisa and John! I think that would be so helpful to know who the two handle those things.
These conversations are unbelievably helpful, I can tell the wisdom you all have is truly given by the Holy Spirit by the way your thoughts flow, the way you cover things in depth and how it all stems from love. The way it’s deeply rooted is to be seen both by the way you all stand, talk and by the fruit it has produced in your lives. I love the adequacy and structure of these conversations. Thank you for serving God in such natural and joyful way through these podcasts.
Thank you for such kind and encouraging words! Please post some comments on topics you would like to see us cover! We love to hear from you all!
I would really love to hear John and Lisa talk about how they deal with their theological differences and what they are. This is an issue in my home and I don't know how to navigate it!
These two women are SO beautiful. Completely stunning.
Sometimes the confrontation is because of a wound/hurt and many times we fail to do the repair work. Yes, an apology does wonders but taking a step further of asking the person we wounded/hurt what I can do to repair the and actually doing it will be more impactful and long lasting.
Only by moving through confrontation you get to truth. Truth is necessary for intimacy
Wow, "seek to understand more than being understood".
Asking others to help you understand rather than merely proving a point...
Great advice.
"We need tools if we're going to build"🎯🙌🏾
Powerful insights. Thanks for your genuineness and authenticity in sharing your struggles but also your triumphs. God bless you and your family and ministry. Halton from Jamaica
Thank you for watching and your support! ❤️
This discussion was so useful even for a single person! Great insight and knowledge 👌. Maybe do a similar discussion on how to navigate conflict with parents and slightly older children? I believe that is another beneficial discussion for a lot of folks.
Thank you for consistent/Godly/useful content once again 🙏.
I appreciate this because we don't have a proper marriage counselor around where we live and this is so vital for what we are going through.
I honestly appreciate the reality..
So thankful for y'all!!!!
Love this family.incredible content.
Thank you so much for this conversations! ❤ Learn so much from it
This blessed me so much !! ❤
Love this
Really helped!!! Thanks for the convo.
Tha k you for these contents. Nowadays thing like these are underestimated. I appreciate and like how you talk about these and that they are important, especially at home.
Thank youu!
Wow some powerful tips, im giving my conflicts to Jesus so we can really grow! Family’s in Christ 🙏🌟🌈 Thank you
Thank you for watching! Grateful that God used this conversation to speak to you.
This conversation is so valuable and encouraging to me as a married woman. Thank you🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you for watching and your support! ❤️
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Can you ask Lisa how she dealt with gender disappointment? I'm a mom of 6,5 and 3 year old boys. We got pregnant with our 4th son, it was a surprise. And we find out it's another boy. I can't seem to get over the disappointment in having a fourth boy. How did Lisa move past that if she ever was or how do I get myself to move past that. I totally love my 3 boys though. Thank you so much for this insightful podcasts
I was very surprised by my 4th pregnancy. And it took a while to get use to the idea. I look at my child now at 11 years old and cant imagine life any different. I pray you have much joy in this pregnancy ❤
@@SJD36 thank you so much. My good friend tells me the same, that I'll fall so in love with the baby once he's here that I'll forget all I'm feeling now. I keep praying for God's help. Thank you so much
@@Hanrich146 no problem🙂God bless!
New here. What are y'all's views regarding conflict and confrontation amongst spouse's that kids hear or see? Like how do you handle arguments conflicts with spouses when your kids are around.???😑🫣
Great podcast❤❤❤
Can we talk about conflicts with children
@14:15 there are conversations about it.
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This is so good.. I have a question: if the behaviour of the spouse is not changing despite of the measures, reminders you already did, what else can one do? Or when is the time to stop reminding? When is the time to let go of one's standard and just live with it?
Hi!! I’m trying to find the episodes, “How to talk to your kid about sex”. Please help 🙏🏼. TIA
Can someone find the part where she says something like: when your husband does something you dont like, start saying you like it and then you will like that part. Something like that??
I think that’s part one.