My problem is that I know what I want to say, but I can't put it into words a lot of the time. Basically, I find myself lost for words- literally. My memory with word recall is garbage as is my verbal communication. Most people around me just think I'm soft spoken and shy, but the reason why I don't talk so much is because it's too much work to keep a conversation flowing because of my 'blanks'. I have no idea what's causing this...
When asked to say something that obvious, I'll say it correctly. But I'll pause. That pause is me trying to think of how many different ways being asked what seems like an obvious question might possibly be some sort of trick or trap.
I’m a grown man. I’m sitting here ready to cry. After all these years i feel like someone understands what I’ve been suffering with. I have what seems to be a serious issue with speech. When I talk I am almost ALWAYS misunderstood.. people hear one thing when I’ve said something totally different. I need help…please.
I will give you a recipe that will cost you nothing but listen for 10 minutes to a specific sound Then we'll see what you find with you Do you want to try - its success is at least 60% Do you want to try
@@user-Alhashemi yes give it to me, I have a problem when I wanna say something I just can’t seem to process what I wanna say for some reason forgetting words sometimes.
@@shaggymofo7716 In order for the diagnosis to be made correctly, you must apply what I say so that I can tell you what you are complaining about 1. Listen to the link with headphones 2. listen to the end 3. And you write to me everything you felt while listening..even if you sneezed or coughed..or whatever you write to me 4. The link has a beautiful voice and this sound has an effect on the body and is not harmful or harmful 5. You listen while you are sitting at home and do not occupy yourself with the phone or TV while listening Link czcams.com/video/_4iB2qn8q3Q/video.html
I've had a problem with speaking extremely fast and use run on sentences all the time. It has caused me to have a great deal of anxiety when I have to talk. I was bullied alot when I was younger even in my early adult life so I am super self concious when I have to speak which seems to make everything 10x worse. Looking for some type of practice to help me slow down and pronounce the words fully. To all in the comments dealing with any type of issue or disorder, You Are Beautiful 🌻
@@Fairy-dx5sl What I started practicing, which really seems to work is 1. BREATHE/ BREATH WORK (Take a deep breath before speaking and remember its not a race there is no rate at which you need to say what you want to say. Take your time, pace yourself The more you condition your mind to respond this way eventually ot becomes habitual. Change will not come over night but you will see a difference just by changing the way and depth you breath. 2. READING Get into the habit of reading things out loud the dialog in your head I believe tends to be faster in comparison to brain signals to mouth. Reading outloud really gives you the capability to prounounce each syllable, and manage your talkin speed better 3. Self Esteem In the process of working on being a better speaker. Value Yourself. your own quirkiness. Know that you are awesome in your own right. You dont need anyones permission or validation. No need to concern yourself with peoples opinions of you, unless they are truly constuctional which is important for growth. 4. Practice, Practice, Practice With loved ones, strangers, start random convesations regardless of how uncomfortable it may be, once you crush your fears and anxieties it gets easier each time. You can just ask for the time to start off Best of Luck You got this !
I have what my siblings call baby voice. I want to say something and it comes out differently in pronunciation. Kinda stutter too. People think im nervous but i talk like that
Most heartbreaking is when friends are talking about something funny or any other discussion ..and u also want to speak about ur opinion but u can't speak ........😥😥
I have had spazmotic dysphonia for my entire adult life. It came from nowhere when i was 19. I've struggled and now am accepting of my unique voice at 57. Blessings to all who really get what it's like to have an invisible disability
My mother just recently developed this, she is 49 years old, she cries a lot about it and I feel so powerless to comfort her through this. She feels embarrassed in public and I often speak for her. She thinks she is a burden but I’m willing to adapt and accept this as her normal as she is my mother and will always love her no matter what. But I know that this is something very life changing and irreversible. Is there anything I can do or do you have any advice? It would help so much.
It's so so frustrating when you really want to say something and it wont really come out right and you keep repeating yourself trying to correct yourself and people just look at you like you're crazy I always want to cry when I'm having a conversation and I know I'm not making sense because of how they stare or how they just wait till I finish to say "what?! I didn't understand you at all" with a very mean/confused face expression 💔 when I told my doctor about my speech she did the same thing! Just stared
I know it's so hard, I know what u feel. I was bullied mostly in school when I've this mumbling and stuttering bs my whole life. I was shaking sometimes, if u can't really solve this, I just laugh it off b4. Now, I'm sad asf thinking what will happen at the future if someone will bully me again for social anxiety and speech impediments bs. My best advice is laugh off at ur own speech impediments. I've agoraphobia too damn, from now on, I'll laugh off my embarrassing symptoms and embarrassing ugly voice, speech impediments because I think everyone expects that you're perfect in speaking, good hearted, perfect in confidence. listen to me. F*** them all and what they say about u and those doctor cash grabbers😂 Enjoy your life and don't be too hard on ur self. I don't want u to be sad. Life is too short but do good in ur life too. Hope you're well
Read out loud when reading a book or read out every sentence in your mind clearly , make sure that you are reading slowly and try to pronounce every word as it is. Do the same when speaking, be very slow , it will take time, maybe years but we have already wasted so much of our time. Let's slow down now. Think before speaking , when you will gain confidence in speaking then you will automatically speak correctly and at the correct rate of speech.
I am an 18 year old in college, and I still struggle with conversions. Speech problems made me have low self-esteem. I had "speech therapy" in elementary school, but it seems like I will forever have speech problems no matter what I do. I read books, I talk to people online/in person, I practice my words, and yet I still have problems with it and not just that, but people judge me or make fun of me for that. Some people view me as a child or not smart enough. Whoever is reading this and they have speech problems, just remember you are not alone. I know it sucks having speech problems, but remind yourself that you are strong and smart. Always love yourself and that it is okay making mistakes when it comes to talking. We do not have flirters/autocorrects when we talk. Your flaws in speech are unique.
I'm glad I found this vid cuz I've realized lately that my stutter may just be apraxia of speech (or idk if they're the same thing I'm just learning) as it is in fact "knowing what I want to say" but my mouth saying otherwise. Which have become pretty funny moments with my friends when I talk sometimes and I laugh with them but am actually kinda worried about it now. Thanks for the info though!
I don’t have any type of speech impediment but my best friend that I I have know since the age of 4 years old and have grown up with has one and he overcame it by the age of 14 and he is now working in his doctrine in college. Never give up y’all
@@alimatahir8495 they basically put you in a trans.. i dunno how else to describe it, but its like you are awake and sleeping at the same time.. your inner brain gets accessed.. maybe im a bit far off.. but you should try research it.. just to clarify.
After I had a subacanoid hemorage stroke I get headaches and that's when I can't get my words out. It's like it's on tip of my tounge but I have problem getting them out, it's very frustrating.
My biggest struggle is the word “everything” it’s like my tongue swells up and my teeth get bigger I always say “erything” or “erevyfing” and I honestly get so frustrated
I have this problem. I can't speak properly. When I start to speak l feel l have no more oxygen in my inside. I have to put more energy but also I cant talk properly
My oldest brother has this, he’s mumbled since he was a kid and I’ve never really heard him speak much, he seems to have mental issues as well but I won’t get into that, common words he says are “no” “what the hell” and “I don’t know”. I would try to make convo with him as a kid and ask things like “what’s your favorite color ?” And he would mumble “I don’t know”. Well actually he’s never been diagnosed with anything but it’s pretty obvious he has a speech impediment and I asked my mom if he started speaking quickly and she said yes but I think maybe she just doesn’t remember
Is it possible to acquire a speech disorder from simply the lack of talking? If someone were to stop talking for an extended time, years say, would it be possible for them to develop a speech disorder? Use it or lose it? I'm curious because I find it harder and harder to articulate my thoughts after long periods of silentness.
I am not a speech pathologist, but I am studying Linguistic and cognitive in Vienna. And as much as I know it is not possible to acquire a speech disorder just by the lack of talking. A speech disorder involves always an injury within the brain like stroke, trauma, tumor or head injury.
What about when you jaw is quite seized up and moves around involuntarily due to medication side effects and my speech sounds very forced/pressured (not in pace, just in effort/adrenaline) kinda like my voice is rigid and I can’t force the words out hard enough. But my brain gets so overwhelmed so easily I sort of stutter and can’t remember any words and sometimes I just suddenly completely forget what the entire conversation is about (but that not have anything to about speech therapy, I’m just trying to learn heaps)
3 weeks ago i suddenly made a weird movement with my jaw and it really hurt for a second and now i have a problem with my speech, i can't speak freally like i did before and certain words get mixed up and my jaws and tongue get tired real quick.
I hate when I’m thinking of something and I’m like “ok ima say this.” But when im about to say it it comes out stuttering or I can’t speak it or start forgetting and start mumbling I hate it
My problem is i'm having difficulties speaking my main languange just feel a huge stress and anxienty speaking it, I can talk in english or german just fine but not in slovak :( a lot of people judge me for it And i feel super ashamed of myself.
Don’t. I’m born and raised in England and I don’t have a perfect speech. This is really embarrassing for me. Haha but when I play games online it helps me a lot. Maybe try playing video games and try speaking to others.
Omg this so me. I'm 35 now but this problem has affected me since i was a teen. Recently on my birthday some random person wished me "Happy Birthday!" and my response wasn't thank you, I said "Happy Birthday". I'm not a freakin parrot, why did my brain do that? I've definitely have had many past experiences like that tbh. It has given me anxiety, and anxiety does make it worse. I'm on an ssri, but it happens regardless.
Hi there. I tried to talk to my neurologist about the nmes system you mentioned at the end and she said it was still clinical trials stage. Look I been to speech therapy for 6 years I got a new neurologist lol
Does Neuromuscular stimulation work? My son has dysarthria due to traumatic brain injury caused by West Syndrome. He went non-verbal after taking Topamax and Onfi.
The problem i got whit my speech is that it either Get to low in volume or to high and to fast/slow while i talk and that annoys the heck out of me mostly due to that it´s quite difficult for people to Clearly understand me while i am speaking to them
I don’t know what I have because when I make s sounds the top right corner of my lip goes up and it makes the s sound slurred and muffled. But I’ve never had a stroke before or anything like that.
i am also experiencing problem with the formulation of sentences and to articulate the words. The problem become worse and worse with the time . it seems my brain become blank during the speech . what would have cause me with this problem ? will the prolong tonsil that i experience worsen speech problem. Please help!
What about when I dont know what to say AND think? I just cant think of words and sometimes I'll stutter over my words and have horrible grammer (I was fluent in both english and spanish but now I have problems with both)
Could someone please help me. So, whenever I try whispering my voice sounds clear. When I talk without whispering in a normal voice I sound weird and my voice always sounds so weird its most definitely the opposite of smooth. Even when I try talking in a normal voice its hard to sound clear I always talk in a high pitch voice instead so I would not sound weird with a voice which sounds like its vibrating and unclear. I wish for someones help if you could help please try so. I am a boy and is 14 years old. I also tried researching a lot and I cant find much I drink a lot of water and I do not shout so this could help but I can not see a difference. My voice has been like this for a year.
I have a rare condition pertaining my speech. My voice is inside, i only release sound. Sound comes from my mouth, however i have tone but its weak. I would like an advice about it.
My problem is that i can't pronounce some words properly.for example, when i want to speak 'cake' then instead of cake i pronounce 'cate'.And when i want to speak 'group' then instead of group i pronounce 'drup'. And there are many words like this...... I am disgusted and i feel very shyness to speak in public. Please tell me what is solution for this🙏🙏
I am noticing I have a speech problem because my word are mixed when speaking and I studder. Is there any way I could speak with you through zoom just to get small advice
I have a problem where when I talk I tend to jump again. So sometimes instead of saying the dog is running around the park. I would say the dogging is park around the run. I can constantly mixing up words and slurring them together. It’s a huge jumbles mess. Even when writing I do the same thing. I always jumping ahead in what I am saying or say it in the wrong order. I often repeat myself to in a different way without realizing I essentially said the same thing. Any ideas?
My problem is that i can't control my tongue, it's like... When i speak, my tounge feels so heavy to move, and that's make my voice sounds weird, like kinda faster, or change R to L, and stuff like that. But the main problem is I can't control my speak speed (or how do you called it) it feels so annoying when i try to talk, i know what I'm going to say but my mouth can't spell it correctly, i need a self therapy :(
can I have a session with you? it's very hard as an adult to find solutions for this. even a video or phone call, I would be willing to pay. how can I contact you privately?
i noticed my speech has been getting worse over the past few years. Im only 26 but i havent had any injuries or health problems. I just find myself mispronouncing simple words or unable to speak clear sentences. I wonder what this could be a result of those two speech problems.
What was ur problem ?? Mine Lingual tonsil swollen very badly, like a hypertrophy, & Circumvallate Papillae are also swollen very badly .. I dont know if it is the cause ... I am freaked out too, thinking af neurological issues ...
Always have trouble finishing a sentence smoothly. I always have trouble reading a medium long sentences and I really hate it. Even some of my friends had notice something strange with my voices
I can speak loud and clear but my face becomes wierd while talking and i make long eye contacts ( so that i don't appear weak) but that makes my conversation more awkward, i dont what it is plz lemme know
I have a sudden twitch of the face, it’s like my muscles have a jerk reaction and it affects the flow of my words. I do not even know if this is a reasonable diagnosis. I am seeking answers as this has not always been a problem. I have just encountered this the last few years. Help!
I hate it it makes me feel like im stupid or sound stupid ots like ik my speech but theres times where like im talkin n i end up saying words that dont come out well like I expected it to be or I might be over thinkin n speaking too fast because when i get into a argument i end up sounding stupid by not knowin how to keep my words straight or like havin a hard time to fix my words please lmk if u kno what this is ab what i have.😐
Bro, me too! Do you ever get like where it feels like you have no control of your brain and you know it's just about to give up when you're trying to talk? Idk, but that's the best way I can describe it
I have speech problems that seem to come and go in phases. Like I might have a few months where I absolutely cannot articulate “str” or “tw” sounds. What’s even worse (or maybe the cause) is I have issues with these sounds when even thinking about saying them (i.e., I stumble in my head). What gives?
@@lhp555 Wish I could say for sure, but I know I help my fluency a ton if I'm well-rested and with a low stress level. But I've also been able to speak publicly with 100% fluency, while also having problems talking to myself when I'm alone. I think it's all a matter of mental state - expecting to speak well produces fluency; expecting to stutter or hesitant produces disfluency. That would explain the 'internal monologue' speech problems in my head, when not even speaking at all 😂
I have a problem with my voice and saying words in a sequence. Like I can say words one at a time, but if I try to put them in a sentence they don't come out right. Like if I say thesaurus without putting it in a sentence I can pronounce it correctly, but if I put it in a sentence it comes out as "dtasarus". It's stressful in a professional setting.
Basically my speech is fine in the morning but as the day goes on I notice it being harder and harder to speak clear. Toward the end of my work days it's impossible to speak a sentence without messing up pronunciations. I wish I could find a permanent solution. I noticed more sleep, less caffeine helps a lot and exercise seems to really help me feel normal but only for a day or a so. I think I hit my head too many times in surfing and I'm lacking blood flow to certain areas of my brain. The funny thing is that my cognitive ability is 100%. I'm getting straight A's at a top tier university.
When ever I speak at a typical rate my speech doesn’t sound so fixed but it wasn’t always that way it was just recently, like what I mean is that I keep saying stuff I didn’t even think out and end up correcting it my speech sounds so messy and disorganized also when I said course I skipped the “o” part
I have got concussion several times but the last time was the worst and my family without knowing that I had concussion have started asking me why my speech sounds different? I went to the hospital and I got a magnetic resonance image and the doctor told me it's fine and I don't have clot in my brain. I would like to know how long it takes for me to speak again normal ? And do I need a therapy? I had the concussion 6 days ago.
My husband was born unable to latch on or drink a bottle he had to be spoon fed, he hasn’t been diagnosed drs are stumped, he can’t move his tongue, he speaks but is hard to understand although he says when he hears himself he said he hears his sounds to be the same as everyone else so said it’s hard to fix his speech when he sounds so able
I've start to slowly realize that I having an issue with my speech as well. I'm not sure what it is but when I speak to someone, I either speak too fast which causes me to trip over my words. Idk if that's what slurring mean but my tongue is like going through a tremor and now i have to put effort into speaking. I repeat what I want to say in my head so I dont mess up. I also blank out a lot or just brain fart while mid conversation or sometimes I have to think for a slight second to say what i was going to say. Idk if its short term memory. I hope this isn't some brain tumor. I use to have like a 3 month of head hypertension like experience a year ago. Anyone having the same problem though? I do have a second language which is Korean if that has to do with anything.
It's so hard for myself to speak, I blank out a lot and even stutter. No words would pop up inside my head. It would take me seconds to respond to someone
My daughter aged 5 but she can't speak words clear some clear and some confusing words like she call me papa but some time she call mapa what is this help me pls
Can someone help me when i sing or talkmyself i talk very good but why when i talk to my familly or person or friend i can't use some words out of my mouth it stops my what is that brain injury or dysathrya or what ? From 12 year to 24 years i still have it i was talking good before 12 years
When I start to talk there are different ways for me to say, but I don’t what to choose. Also I can’t concentrate on what I am saying, cause I’m thinking how am I sounding. I start to feel anxious, and start sound worse. Anybody can relate?
Yes! When I stumble on a word that I have trouble saying, I find a similar word that I can actually say, but I get frustrated bc I want to say the word I originally wanted to say! And when I speak, I feel nervous & rushed & it’s all I can think about so then I lose my train of thought &... ugh, it’s such a struggle to do what *should* be a normal, easy human function.
My problem is I can't even communicate to anyone anymore. I have no self esteem and every time I try to voice out my opinion and share it to the one I'm talking to it always end up forgetting what I am about to say. Also I have a problem opening my mouth when I speak and trouble pronouncing words. I can't even have a simple conversation with my family or friends. I pity myself. This started when I was sick and was coughing heavily, my jaws locked and I had to use my hands to get it back where its supposed to.
Looking for a good speach therapist who can help my husband speak and swallow again and in the meantime find other ways to communicate. What’s the best way to find a qualified therapist. I have found it difficult to find one that works with his situation.
I need help! I can't pronounce some words correctly. My family and friends had noticed this! I feel embarrassed each time I talk. It just started back then in secondary school without any cause or trace. Please help me I need to talk well again
Here's one. I have an acquaintance, about 22, whose normal speech is a jumble of half-thoughts and sentences interspersed with chortles or chuckles, but always in a congenial way. But get him on the stage and he is spot-on with his lines, delivery and timing. He is somewhat socially stilted; I would bet money he is a virgin and never had a steady relationship. A conundrum. Thoughts, cigarettes, tiparillos?
I need speech therapy for my son. We dont understand him when he is tryin to have a conversation. Words dont come in the right order. He is 7. What should I do?
bring him to a speech therapist, thats what my parents did, till this day my voice isnt 100% but it could be worse if I would have never went to the therapist.
I was born with mild cerebral palsey and sometimes the brain doesn't tell me to talk but when it does my words come out fluent when relaxed the hardest thing I have a hard time saying is my own name because sometimes I have to think about what I want to say but if anybody have any tips or techniques they can teach me send me a reply
Gabriel Reyes wow and I thought I was the only the only one who had this problem but you might want to start practice reading a book when your by self...you know know, it might help strength your speech but I wish you the best of good luck with that
My problem is I speak so fast. Its like in my mind I separate all the sound but when I communicate I am not able to say slow like what I planned in mind. I can sing normally, but sometimes i read things fast. Its really embarassing when someone imitate my way of speaking 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ Anyone know what is this?
got a heatstroke that ofc made me collapse causing a concussion that i slept on after a cold shower. now i talk in complete slang so people cant figureout that its really hard for me to speak fluently. but i do sound normal when im full of adrenaline for some reason
My problem is that I know what I want to say, but I can't put it into words a lot of the time. Basically, I find myself lost for words- literally. My memory with word recall is garbage as is my verbal communication. Most people around me just think I'm soft spoken and shy, but the reason why I don't talk so much is because it's too much work to keep a conversation flowing because of my 'blanks'. I have no idea what's causing this...
A thats called dyslexia
Or Brain Fog, typical of thyroid problems, adrenal problems, and a lot of disorders.
Same here
Broca aphasia- expressive aphasia (effortful speech); able to understand speech
Trying so hard to speak but can’t get it out, ability to express gone
A this is literally my life :(
Speaking verbally: ❌
Speaking mentally:✔️
same here :(
The sentence in my brain: ABCD
The sentence when I speak:AGKD
True
Same here
Yep
When asked to say something that obvious, I'll say it correctly. But I'll pause. That pause is me trying to think of how many different ways being asked what seems like an obvious question might possibly be some sort of trick or trap.
Same, I'm a bit sad because it, people on discord mute me because of it.
I can read a book fluently,can sing too but i stuck the first word whenever i start to communicate.
I in the lower voiced middle one's
same here! I just forget what to say.
Legit me 100%
Same here
exactly this gave me anxiety man i cant even say my last name 😢💔
I’m a grown man. I’m sitting here ready to cry. After all these years i feel like someone understands what I’ve been suffering with. I have what seems to be a serious issue with speech. When I talk I am almost ALWAYS misunderstood.. people hear one thing when I’ve said something totally different. I need help…please.
I will give you a recipe that will cost you nothing but listen for 10 minutes to a specific sound
Then we'll see what you find with you
Do you want to try - its success is at least 60%
Do you want to try
@@user-Alhashemi yes give it to me, I have a problem when I wanna say something I just can’t seem to process what I wanna say for some reason forgetting words sometimes.
@@shaggymofo7716 In order for the diagnosis to be made correctly, you must apply what I say so that I can tell you what you are complaining about 1. Listen to the link with headphones 2. listen to the end 3. And you write to me everything you felt while listening..even if you sneezed or coughed..or whatever you write to me 4. The link has a beautiful voice and this sound has an effect on the body and is not harmful or harmful 5. You listen while you are sitting at home and do not occupy yourself with the phone or TV while listening Link czcams.com/video/_4iB2qn8q3Q/video.html
Me too
Im here for you :)
I've found my people in these comments!
I've had a problem with speaking extremely fast and use run on sentences all the time. It has caused me to have a great deal of anxiety when I have to talk. I was bullied alot when I was younger even in my early adult life so I am super self concious when I have to speak which seems to make everything 10x worse. Looking for some type of practice to help me slow down and pronounce the words fully. To all in the comments dealing with any type of issue or disorder, You Are Beautiful 🌻
Same here i am suffering from this it's so embarassing when someone imitate my way of speaking. Do u know any remedies or practises for this disorder
@@Fairy-dx5sl What I started practicing, which really seems to work is
1. BREATHE/ BREATH WORK (Take a deep breath before speaking and remember its not a race there is no rate at which you need to say what you want to say. Take your time, pace yourself
The more you condition your mind to respond this way eventually ot becomes habitual. Change will not come over night but you will see a difference just by changing the way and depth you breath.
2. READING
Get into the habit of reading things out loud the dialog in your head I believe tends to be faster in comparison to brain signals to mouth. Reading outloud really gives you the capability to prounounce each syllable, and manage your talkin speed better
3. Self Esteem
In the process of working on being a better speaker. Value Yourself. your own quirkiness. Know that you are awesome in your own right. You dont need anyones permission or validation.
No need to concern yourself with peoples opinions of you, unless they are truly constuctional which is important for growth.
4. Practice, Practice, Practice
With loved ones, strangers, start random convesations regardless of how uncomfortable it may be, once you crush your fears and anxieties it gets easier each time.
You can just ask for the time to start off
Best of Luck
You got this !
@@noahking2451 thank you 💝
I have what my siblings call baby voice. I want to say something and it comes out differently in pronunciation. Kinda stutter too. People think im nervous but i talk like that
Most heartbreaking is when friends are talking about something funny or any other discussion ..and u also want to speak about ur opinion but u can't speak ........😥😥
I have had spazmotic dysphonia for my entire adult life. It came from nowhere when i was 19. I've struggled and now am accepting of my unique voice at 57. Blessings to all who really get what it's like to have an invisible disability
My mother just recently developed this, she is 49 years old, she cries a lot about it and I feel so powerless to comfort her through this. She feels embarrassed in public and I often speak for her. She thinks she is a burden but I’m willing to adapt and accept this as her normal as she is my mother and will always love her no matter what. But I know that this is something very life changing and irreversible. Is there anything I can do or do you have any advice? It would help so much.
Just take a breath.
Spazmotic dysphonia
It's so so frustrating when you really want to say something and it wont really come out right and you keep repeating yourself trying to correct yourself and people just look at you like you're crazy I always want to cry when I'm having a conversation and I know I'm not making sense because of how they stare or how they just wait till I finish to say "what?! I didn't understand you at all" with a very mean/confused face expression 💔 when I told my doctor about my speech she did the same thing! Just stared
I understand how you feel.
I know it's so hard, I know what u feel. I was bullied mostly in school when I've this mumbling and stuttering bs my whole life. I was shaking sometimes, if u can't really solve this, I just laugh it off b4. Now, I'm sad asf thinking what will happen at the future if someone will bully me again for social anxiety and speech impediments bs. My best advice is laugh off at ur own speech impediments. I've agoraphobia too damn, from now on, I'll laugh off my embarrassing symptoms and embarrassing ugly voice, speech impediments because I think everyone expects that you're perfect in speaking, good hearted, perfect in confidence. listen to me. F*** them all and what they say about u and those doctor cash grabbers😂 Enjoy your life and don't be too hard on ur self. I don't want u to be sad. Life is too short but do good in ur life too. Hope you're well
Read out loud when reading a book or read out every sentence in your mind clearly , make sure that you are reading slowly and try to pronounce every word as it is. Do the same when speaking, be very slow , it will take time, maybe years but we have already wasted so much of our time. Let's slow down now. Think before speaking , when you will gain confidence in speaking then you will automatically speak correctly and at the correct rate of speech.
I am an 18 year old in college, and I still struggle with conversions. Speech problems made me have low self-esteem. I had "speech therapy" in elementary school, but it seems like I will forever have speech problems no matter what I do. I read books, I talk to people online/in person, I practice my words, and yet I still have problems with it and not just that, but people judge me or make fun of me for that. Some people view me as a child or not smart enough. Whoever is reading this and they have speech problems, just remember you are not alone. I know it sucks having speech problems, but remind yourself that you are strong and smart. Always love yourself and that it is okay making mistakes when it comes to talking. We do not have flirters/autocorrects when we talk. Your flaws in speech are unique.
appreciate what u r doing..btw ur speech is very clear and nice
vahi toh jiska problem hai vo batayen to achha hai
I'm glad I found this vid cuz I've realized lately that my stutter may just be apraxia of speech (or idk if they're the same thing I'm just learning) as it is in fact "knowing what I want to say" but my mouth saying otherwise. Which have become pretty funny moments with my friends when I talk sometimes and I laugh with them but am actually kinda worried about it now. Thanks for the info though!
That's normal try talking slower
please help me i have the same .
Very clear and helpful explanation. Thank you!
I find myself swallowing words, because it seems as if my tongue is heavy or has swollen
Swollen tongue is an accurate description. I have to pause, swallow and start again
I don’t have any type of speech impediment but my best friend that I I have know since the age of 4 years old and have grown up with has one and he overcame it by the age of 14 and he is now working in his doctrine in college. Never give up y’all
Well said I need to look into that as I suffer it many times .often people think it's not correct english but it's what you said .
My problem is I know my speech but I can't say :(
Use hypnosis it worked for me
Horrian Fatima what is hypnosis?
Same 😔
@@alimatahir8495 they basically put you in a trans.. i dunno how else to describe it, but its like you are awake and sleeping at the same time.. your inner brain gets accessed.. maybe im a bit far off.. but you should try research it.. just to clarify.
After I had a subacanoid hemorage stroke I get headaches and that's when I can't get my words out. It's like it's on tip of my tounge but I have problem getting them out, it's very frustrating.
My biggest struggle is the word “everything” it’s like my tongue swells up and my teeth get bigger I always say “erything” or “erevyfing” and I honestly get so frustrated
I can't even say vegetable and pandamenic right sometimes :
even i suffer from such a problem. what is it called exactly?
I have this problem. I can't speak properly. When I start to speak l feel l have no more oxygen in my inside. I have to put more energy but also I cant talk properly
What I should do. It has any treatment
Daljit singh , i have same problem
Yar iska koi ilaj he to batao pls
Hmm I don’t mean to scare you but this could be symptom of mini stroke?..
@@Lil_Stanker which type of mini stroke
Great work sister
Thank you. Very helpful.
Very good video and information thank you. God 🙏 bless you
Very clear !!
Hi I have a speech that when I say something it doesn’t come out like I thought it would and when I say something it come out fast
SAME and then the person i’m talking to like stares at me with a blank face then i get so embarrassed
@@buhbbhclaus3958 same. thats why i dont talk to people much cuz they dont say anything back 😭
Story of my life
My oldest brother has this, he’s mumbled since he was a kid and I’ve never really heard him speak much, he seems to have mental issues as well but I won’t get into that, common words he says are “no” “what the hell” and “I don’t know”. I would try to make convo with him as a kid and ask things like “what’s your favorite color ?” And he would mumble “I don’t know”. Well actually he’s never been diagnosed with anything but it’s pretty obvious he has a speech impediment and I asked my mom if he started speaking quickly and she said yes but I think maybe she just doesn’t remember
I have trouble saying words that start with Cs and Ks, I only had a month of speech therapy after my surgery when I was 16.
Is it possible to acquire a speech disorder from simply the lack of talking?
If someone were to stop talking for an extended time, years say, would it be possible for them to develop a speech disorder?
Use it or lose it?
I'm curious because I find it harder and harder to articulate my thoughts after long periods of silentness.
Me too
I am not a speech pathologist, but I am studying Linguistic and cognitive in Vienna. And as much as I know it is not possible to acquire a speech disorder just by the lack of talking. A speech disorder involves always an injury within the brain like stroke, trauma, tumor or head injury.
@@kathymar412 ty
Lol I literally just asked myself this question and you’re the first comment I saw after thinking of this.
I think it’s harder but you don’t lost it. It’s just like rusty cogs
What about when you jaw is quite seized up and moves around involuntarily due to medication side effects and my speech sounds very forced/pressured (not in pace, just in effort/adrenaline) kinda like my voice is rigid and I can’t force the words out hard enough. But my brain gets so overwhelmed so easily I sort of stutter and can’t remember any words and sometimes I just suddenly completely forget what the entire conversation is about (but that not have anything to about speech therapy, I’m just trying to learn heaps)
3 weeks ago i suddenly made a weird movement with my jaw and it really hurt for a second and now i have a problem with my speech, i can't speak freally like i did before and certain words get mixed up and my jaws and tongue get tired real quick.
I hate when I’m thinking of something and I’m like “ok ima say this.” But when im about to say it it comes out stuttering or I can’t speak it or start forgetting and start mumbling I hate it
My problem is i'm having difficulties speaking my main languange just feel a huge stress and anxienty speaking it, I can talk in english or german just fine but not in slovak :( a lot of people judge me for it And i feel super ashamed of myself.
Don’t. I’m born and raised in England and I don’t have a perfect speech. This is really embarrassing for me. Haha but when I play games online it helps me a lot. Maybe try playing video games and try speaking to others.
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@@dawidtan8 red is imposter vote him out
Hey valfram is ur upper lip small in width?
Omg this so me. I'm 35 now but this problem has affected me since i was a teen. Recently on my birthday some random person wished me "Happy Birthday!" and my response wasn't thank you, I said "Happy Birthday". I'm not a freakin parrot, why did my brain do that? I've definitely have had many past experiences like that tbh. It has given me anxiety, and anxiety does make it worse. I'm on an ssri, but it happens regardless.
Hi there. I tried to talk to my neurologist about the nmes system you mentioned at the end and she said it was still clinical trials stage. Look I been to speech therapy for 6 years I got a new neurologist lol
Does Neuromuscular stimulation work? My son has dysarthria due to traumatic brain injury caused by West Syndrome. He went non-verbal after taking Topamax and Onfi.
what are some assessments on Hyperkinetic dysarthria?
For some reason I have trouble actually spitting out the words. It’s almost like my brain thinks faster than it’s supposed to.
The problem i got whit my speech is that it either Get to low in volume or to high and to fast/slow while i talk and that annoys the heck out of me mostly due to that it´s quite difficult for people to Clearly understand me while i am speaking to them
I don’t know what I have because when I make s sounds the top right corner of my lip goes up and it makes the s sound slurred and muffled. But I’ve never had a stroke before or anything like that.
i am also experiencing problem with the formulation of sentences and to articulate the words. The problem become worse and worse with the time . it seems my brain become blank during the speech . what would have cause me with this problem ? will the prolong tonsil that i experience worsen speech problem. Please help!
Exactly my Problem 😞
What about when I dont know what to say AND think? I just cant think of words and sometimes I'll stutter over my words and have horrible grammer (I was fluent in both english and spanish but now I have problems with both)
Could someone please help me. So, whenever I try whispering my voice sounds clear. When I talk without whispering in a normal voice I sound weird and my voice always sounds so weird its most definitely the opposite of smooth. Even when I try talking in a normal voice its hard to sound clear I always talk in a high pitch voice instead so I would not sound weird with a voice which sounds like its vibrating and unclear. I wish for someones help if you could help please try so. I am a boy and is 14 years old. I also tried researching a lot and I cant find much I drink a lot of water and I do not shout so this could help but I can not see a difference. My voice has been like this for a year.
I have a rare condition pertaining my speech. My voice is inside, i only release sound. Sound comes from my mouth, however i have tone but its weak. I would like an advice about it.
My problem is that i can't pronounce some words properly.for example, when i want to speak 'cake' then instead of cake i pronounce 'cate'.And when i want to speak 'group' then instead of group i pronounce 'drup'. And there are many words like this......
I am disgusted and i feel very shyness to speak in public.
Please tell me what is solution for this🙏🙏
Same here just watch some videos how to pronounce.
@@Toafy hey what's the name of this disorder? I have same problem
@@alzoha1267 ehm im not quite sure but What i reccomend is watching some videos that teach you how to speak clearly.
I am noticing I have a speech problem because my word are mixed when speaking and I studder. Is there any way I could speak with you through zoom just to get small advice
What, if you have previously had Meningitis? What type of Apraxia and Dsyarthia would that be?
I have a problem where when I talk I tend to jump again. So sometimes instead of saying the dog is running around the park. I would say the dogging is park around the run. I can constantly mixing up words and slurring them together. It’s a huge jumbles mess. Even when writing I do the same thing. I always jumping ahead in what I am saying or say it in the wrong order. I often repeat myself to in a different way without realizing I essentially said the same thing. Any ideas?
I have the same problem 😭
did u know anything about this disorder???
i have the same problem🥲 apparently, i tthink it's called aphasia
My problem is that i can't control my tongue, it's like... When i speak, my tounge feels so heavy to move, and that's make my voice sounds weird, like kinda faster, or change R to L, and stuff like that. But the main problem is I can't control my speak speed (or how do you called it) it feels so annoying when i try to talk, i know what I'm going to say but my mouth can't spell it correctly, i need a self therapy :(
yes! i will start off too fast and my mouth takes off. then i try to slow down and it completely stops and i freeze up and get nervous.
can I have a session with you? it's very hard as an adult to find solutions for this. even a video or phone call, I would be willing to pay. how can I contact you privately?
Hello, my brother have this issue very severely and his focus points are B,P,M,V,N and K... He is fighting with it but is not succeeding at all...
i noticed my speech has been getting worse over the past few years. Im only 26 but i havent had any injuries or health problems. I just find myself mispronouncing simple words or unable to speak clear sentences. I wonder what this could be a result of those two speech problems.
What was ur problem ?? Mine Lingual tonsil swollen very badly, like a hypertrophy, & Circumvallate Papillae are also swollen very badly .. I dont know if it is the cause ... I am freaked out too, thinking af neurological issues ...
Always have trouble finishing a sentence smoothly. I always have trouble reading a medium long sentences and I really hate it. Even some of my friends had notice something strange with my voices
I can speak loud and clear but my face becomes wierd while talking and i make long eye contacts ( so that i don't appear weak) but that makes my conversation more awkward, i dont what it is plz lemme know
I have a sudden twitch of the face, it’s like my muscles have a jerk reaction and it affects the flow of my words. I do not even know if this is a reasonable diagnosis. I am seeking answers as this has not always been a problem. I have just encountered this the last few years. Help!
I hate it it makes me feel like im stupid or sound stupid ots like ik my speech but theres times where like im talkin n i end up saying words that dont come out well like I expected it to be or I might be over thinkin n speaking too fast because when i get into a argument i end up sounding stupid by not knowin how to keep my words straight or like havin a hard time to fix my words please lmk if u kno what this is ab what i have.😐
You are not alone mate😊
The more pressure you are under the more worsen it gets.
I have an idea to improve it.
which speech impediment do you exactly have that it sounds like that?
@@FaizanKhan-vv4hh wwhat idea
Bro, me too! Do you ever get like where it feels like you have no control of your brain and you know it's just about to give up when you're trying to talk? Idk, but that's the best way I can describe it
Yea same bro I can’t say my r’s and it makes me sound like a idiot. I try not to talk much, I am very socially awkward :(
I have speech problems that seem to come and go in phases. Like I might have a few months where I absolutely cannot articulate “str” or “tw” sounds. What’s even worse (or maybe the cause) is I have issues with these sounds when even thinking about saying them (i.e., I stumble in my head). What gives?
Me too . is there an update on your problem? Did you find a solution?
@@lhp555 Wish I could say for sure, but I know I help my fluency a ton if I'm well-rested and with a low stress level. But I've also been able to speak publicly with 100% fluency, while also having problems talking to myself when I'm alone. I think it's all a matter of mental state - expecting to speak well produces fluency; expecting to stutter or hesitant produces disfluency. That would explain the 'internal monologue' speech problems in my head, when not even speaking at all 😂
I’ve got one from a head injury 🤕
I have a problem with my voice and saying words in a sequence. Like I can say words one at a time, but if I try to put them in a sentence they don't come out right. Like if I say thesaurus without putting it in a sentence I can pronounce it correctly, but if I put it in a sentence it comes out as "dtasarus". It's stressful in a professional setting.
same
can anyone tell me what problem i have? i cannot construct a sentence properly which is understandable and the way i speak is very slow.
Basically my speech is fine in the morning but as the day goes on I notice it being harder and harder to speak clear. Toward the end of my work days it's impossible to speak a sentence without messing up pronunciations. I wish I could find a permanent solution. I noticed more sleep, less caffeine helps a lot and exercise seems to really help me feel normal but only for a day or a so. I think I hit my head too many times in surfing and I'm lacking blood flow to certain areas of my brain. The funny thing is that my cognitive ability is 100%. I'm getting straight A's at a top tier university.
hello, I have the exact condition as you have, may I ask if you got the solution to your problem?
When ever I speak at a typical rate my speech doesn’t sound so fixed but it wasn’t always that way it was just recently, like what I mean is that I keep saying stuff I didn’t even think out and end up correcting it my speech sounds so messy and disorganized also when I said course I skipped the “o” part
I have got concussion several times but the last time was the worst and my family without knowing that I had concussion have started asking me why my speech sounds different?
I went to the hospital and I got a magnetic resonance image and the doctor told me it's fine and I don't have clot in my brain. I would like to know how long it takes for me to speak again normal ? And do I need a therapy? I had the concussion 6 days ago.
How is your speech now?
Hi my daughter's voice on her throat when she's talking , what I can to do ?
this was very helpful
Will you marry me?
Naldo Bolanos yes
I can’t get into clubs cause I have speech impediment it’s so dumb
That's one of the dumbest things I've ever heard, and I hope things change for you. ❤️
please elaborate? How does your speech affect your entry into a club?????
@@pinkitydrinkity2809 People assume he's drunk.
I have a stutter /stammer I also work in a restaurant i would love some tips if you can
do you stutter a lot?
My husband was born unable to latch on or drink a bottle he had to be spoon fed, he hasn’t been diagnosed drs are stumped, he can’t move his tongue, he speaks but is hard to understand although he says when he hears himself he said he hears his sounds to be the same as everyone else so said it’s hard to fix his speech when he sounds so able
I've start to slowly realize that I having an issue with my speech as well. I'm not sure what it is but when I speak to someone, I either speak too fast which causes me to trip over my words. Idk if that's what slurring mean but my tongue is like going through a tremor and now i have to put effort into speaking. I repeat what I want to say in my head so I dont mess up. I also blank out a lot or just brain fart while mid conversation or sometimes I have to think for a slight second to say what i was going to say. Idk if its short term memory. I hope this isn't some brain tumor. I use to have like a 3 month of head hypertension like experience a year ago. Anyone having the same problem though? I do have a second language which is Korean if that has to do with anything.
I began to suffer this
When I began to say
Poperly instead of Properly
That’s where it shocked me
It's so hard for myself to speak, I blank out a lot and even stutter. No words would pop up inside my head. It would take me seconds to respond to someone
My daughter aged 5 but she can't speak words clear some clear and some confusing words like she call me papa but some time she call mapa what is this help me pls
Can someone help me when i sing or talkmyself i talk very good but why when i talk to my familly or person or friend i can't use some words out of my mouth it stops my what is that brain injury or dysathrya or what ? From 12 year to 24 years i still have it i was talking good before 12 years
When I start to talk there are different ways for me to say, but I don’t what to choose. Also I can’t concentrate on what I am saying, cause I’m thinking how am I sounding. I start to feel anxious, and start sound worse. Anybody can relate?
Yes! When I stumble on a word that I have trouble saying, I find a similar word that I can actually say, but I get frustrated bc I want to say the word I originally wanted to say! And when I speak, I feel nervous & rushed & it’s all I can think about so then I lose my train of thought &... ugh, it’s such a struggle to do what *should* be a normal, easy human function.
My problem is sometimes i have the word in my brain but I can't say it
Please what called of this disorder?
(Sorry for my bad English)
apraxia
My bf has it but its just so adorable when he talks like that
I have both
My problem is I can't even communicate to anyone anymore. I have no self esteem and every time I try to voice out my opinion and share it to the one I'm talking to it always end up forgetting what I am about to say. Also I have a problem opening my mouth when I speak and trouble pronouncing words. I can't even have a simple conversation with my family or friends. I pity myself. This started when I was sick and was coughing heavily, my jaws locked and I had to use my hands to get it back where its supposed to.
Looking for a good speach therapist who can help my husband speak and swallow again and in the meantime find other ways to communicate. What’s the best way to find a qualified therapist. I have found it difficult to find one that works with his situation.
I need help! I can't pronounce some words correctly. My family and friends had noticed this! I feel embarrassed each time I talk. It just started back then in secondary school without any cause or trace. Please help me I need to talk well again
i have a lot of questions how can i reach u?
And thanks
I had encephalitis when I was 8 and the doctors gave me the wrong side killing one side of my brain I can full words or sentences when I don't think
Breezy Bri damn
I just slur alot, but reading letters with adding open spaces between consonant sounds doesnt help in my workplace
Thank you so much , Lord ,
I love you , Lord , Praise your Name
Just recently I find that my speech would be terrible if there’s words with R and S.
What do I do?
Same
Use hypnosis it worked for me
@@hurainfatima2292 is there a video on CZcams you recommend?
@@caitlinl.7048 yes Michael sealy social anxiety
@@hurainfatima2292 can you I please dm you? I would love to have a convo with you about possible hypnosis....
Would tmj causes speech problems?
Here's one. I have an acquaintance, about 22, whose normal speech is a jumble of half-thoughts and sentences interspersed with chortles or chuckles, but always in a congenial way. But get him on the stage and he is spot-on with his lines, delivery and timing. He is somewhat socially stilted; I would bet money he is a virgin and never had a steady relationship. A conundrum. Thoughts, cigarettes, tiparillos?
My grandson is 4and has problem with non voiced speech
S sh c d th sounds
Can you pls guide me
How about MTD?
I need speech therapy for my son. We dont understand him when he is tryin to have a conversation. Words dont come in the right order. He is 7. What should I do?
bring him to a speech therapist, thats what my parents did, till this day my voice isnt 100% but it could be worse if I would have never went to the therapist.
I was born with mild cerebral palsey and sometimes the brain doesn't tell me to talk but when it does my words come out fluent when relaxed the hardest thing I have a hard time saying is my own name because sometimes I have to think about what I want to say but if anybody have any tips or techniques they can teach me send me a reply
Me to i cant say the words that i want to say,its like stuck on my troath
Gabriel Reyes wow and I thought I was the only the only one who had this problem but you might want to start practice reading a book when your by self...you know know, it might help strength your speech but I wish you the best of good luck with that
how did she play guitar with her mouth in the beggining
Bro I cannot believe you beat me to this comment lmao 😂
It's a condition called Guitarsia.
I had this and still have it. I said cock not clock or I say half the word or skip it altogether.
We're desame :(
Demons
@@anthonynosike lmao what the heck
@@Leoneligy demons cause this stuff
@@anthonynosike why do you think so
What about stutter?
I have these
There is a doctor I've spoken with whose voice goes high to low to high to low while talking. Is that part of any speech disorder?
Sounds like a singsongy manner of speaking. People can do it intentionally but could be a disorder.
My problem is I speak so fast. Its like in my mind I separate all the sound but when I communicate I am not able to say slow like what I planned in mind. I can sing normally, but sometimes i read things fast. Its really embarassing when someone imitate my way of speaking 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
Anyone know what is this?
got a heatstroke that ofc made me collapse causing a concussion that i slept on after a cold shower.
now i talk in complete slang so people cant figureout that its really hard for me to speak fluently.
but i do sound normal when im full of adrenaline for some reason
Ok that's propably you talking like that
@@Toafy i was fine before