Is it WORTH IT to live alone in New York City? A guide for average people.

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  • čas přidán 5. 06. 2024
  • Finances are always a part of the conversation when it comes to taking the leap to living alone, especially in New York City. Unfortunately, it's not something that is possible for everyone, but if it's something that you really want, hopefully this guide can help give you an idea on how you can make it happen. I am not an accountant, so please don't sue me if this info isn't exactly on point lol. Subletting is also an option for living alone in NYC, but I take you down the traditional leased route in this video.
    Since this video isn't about how to get an apartment in New York City, here are some links below to videos I've made in the past addressing this. While they're older videos, they still stand :)
    Moving to New York City in 2023? Know this BEFORE moving: • Moving to New York Cit...
    Tips for finding an apartment in New York City: • TIPS FOR FINDING AN AP...
    Timestamps:
    0:00 Do you want to live alone?
    0:52 current nyc apartments
    1:39 income requirements
    3:42 BUDGET & possible expenses
    7:42 The key to sustainable living
    9:05 Doing things on your own
    10:05 Story: My transition to living alone in NYC
    12:14 Visualizing & Releasing expectations
    14:37 The safety conversation
    16:38 My hot take!
    17:39 Is it worth it?
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    how to reach me
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    ➣Business Email (business inquires ONLY please 💕): chelsea.callahan@fwbtalent.com
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    thanks for watching! xo

Komentáře • 317

  • @ChelseaCallahan
    @ChelseaCallahan  Před 10 měsíci +155

    Yes, we’re hanging out in my bathtub for this video (there was noise outside and the bathroom happened to be soundproof haha). I think it’s pretty cozy though!
    Friendly disclaimer: I would love for you to share your opinion on this video topic, of course, but please refrain from trying to poop on everyone’s party if that’s your only intention since it’s just not constructive :) We know it’s expensive here and that our rent is more than your mortgage. Also, my math in the budget section was… questionable… the whole thing is a guesstimate anyways, so plz go easy on me haha. Okay thanks I hope you enjoy the videooo!

    • @BenChanNYC
      @BenChanNYC Před 10 měsíci +10

      People can use a calculator or chatgbt if they want to figure out their budget. It's your human, lived experience that's the draw of your videos! The value of seeing a real person making it happen in NYC is ineffable.

    • @letterbox203
      @letterbox203 Před 10 měsíci +1

      No matter how you budget, somehow you usually end up breaking even at best even if you make a good salary.

    • @AngelaMaryMagick13
      @AngelaMaryMagick13 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ❤ your videos are PRICELESS! Thanks so much Chelsea

    • @amandamiller7926
      @amandamiller7926 Před 10 měsíci +1

      😮😮 omg! Lol, I don't care if there was a city that looked like heaven, I would not pay that amount for a one-bedroom or inefficiency😂 I guess it's just not my thing

    • @karinababy6557
      @karinababy6557 Před 10 měsíci +1

      I love your content.

  • @thenewbaguette
    @thenewbaguette Před 10 měsíci +226

    I'm a lifelong New Yorker, and though I went straight from living with my parents to living with my partner, I agree with everything you said about NYC life. One tip I would give about moving here alone is to join some group activities to meet new people so you feel less alone - whether it's salsa dancing, rock climbing, improv, etc. :) It's hard to make lasting relationships just drinking at bars.

  • @Sophiaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaae
    @Sophiaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaae Před 10 měsíci +245

    I am a girl that lives in the uk but still am watching this 😂 it’s interesting to see what other people live like

  • @beckyb1012
    @beckyb1012 Před 10 měsíci +75

    I have lived alone since 1999 and cannot imagine living with anyone again. My rules, my roof, my remote control!!🤣

  • @SLXD03
    @SLXD03 Před 10 měsíci +119

    I'm 28 and living in queens alone. I would say Chelsea is 100% right. It's great living alone but being financially stressed is another thing.

  • @DannyFPO5
    @DannyFPO5 Před 10 měsíci +37

    The minimum requirement of 40-times the rent is really keeping alot of hard working people from being able to afford a decent apartment in a good area. And that doesn't even include the fact that the rent increases every year make it even harder. I encourage people to get away from Manhattan and look in the southern Brooklyn area. You definitely get better apartments for the money. Your commute for the subway might be a bit longer but to me its worth it. I live alone, I'm too old to do the roommate thing. Basically its about being thrifty and changing your mindset.

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  Před 10 měsíci +3

      Totally agree. This is solid advice

    • @deloresredman4792
      @deloresredman4792 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Yea me too. I need my own space now it allows me to regroup and be raw without without worrying about bothering anyone

  • @pennypie923
    @pennypie923 Před 10 měsíci +44

    I moved to NYC in my early 20s, and now I’m in my 40s. I started with roommates and then lived alone. In my late 20s I put aside a percentage of my paycheck into a separate account that I ignored. Eventually that money grew to invest into a stock market portfolio. And when the real estate market was right I used that money for a down payment to buy my own place. Sold my first place and made over $100k, to then upgrade to a larger space. So my advice is to save and keep your eye on the market.

    • @Jccke
      @Jccke Před 9 měsíci +1

      Where did you got lots of money to buy something? What you’re doing for living?

  • @smargrave
    @smargrave Před 10 měsíci +43

    In short it costs a lot of money to be alive. You have to work a lot to just survive and then if you’re lucky enough to have a really good job that pays a lot then you can truly live life the way its meant to be. You have to admit that its really sad that even if you do have a full time job, the odds of being able to live without roommates is really low and thats not just in NYC, but in any major city in the US. This stuff should really be taught in high school and college. No one really knows this stuff when they should be learning it and when it would be most beneficial to learn it.

    • @atesah
      @atesah Před 8 měsíci

      so true, capitalism formation of the economy has made living and getting by so difficult! Let alone having dreams and wanting more than just “getting by”

  • @af8604
    @af8604 Před 10 měsíci +41

    Hi Chelsea! I’ve lived alone in L.A. for 8 years now. A lot of similarities with your experience in NYC-tough to find a good apartment, rents are crazy, etc. But I’ll never go back to sharing space. Thanks for your video!

  • @rees6224
    @rees6224 Před 10 měsíci +70

    I live in rural prairie Canada and was absolutely riveted by this video! I have no desire to move away, but this was such a well organized and thought out video and it shed a light on a life that is so foreign to me, that I couldn't help but be captivated. Well done Chelsea for tackling such a complex topic in such an accessible way!

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Wow thank you so much!

    • @ednavr9904
      @ednavr9904 Před 6 měsíci

      Totally agree! i live with my partner in SF, and this video does not pertain to me whatsoever, but somehow your video just completely drew me in!

  • @XxEllina
    @XxEllina Před 10 měsíci +26

    I'm German and have zero intention in moving to the US, I just find your content very interesting :-) It really puts my daily life into perspective when I compare my budget with someone living in NY

    • @mp7939
      @mp7939 Před 10 měsíci +4

      Genau das dachte ich mir auch. Auch wenn man es umrechnet (was natürlich nicht zu 100% akkurat ist) ist es immer noch super viel Geld in Euro😮

  • @stephb3321
    @stephb3321 Před 10 měsíci +27

    I lived alone for a few years in the Seattle area before I got married. I love my husband dearly, but I sometimes miss having my own space. Getting to do what you want when you want, keeping your space to your own style, I think everyone should experience it once in their life. It builds character!

  • @kittybudget5579
    @kittybudget5579 Před 10 měsíci +27

    I was born and lived in NYC my whole life. When I see something that's not expensive it's shocking for me and hard to believe

  • @fabulous235
    @fabulous235 Před 10 měsíci +11

    Living alone anywhere for even a short time is a critical part of personal self-growth and is worth the extra cost.

  • @DomoinaYoga1976
    @DomoinaYoga1976 Před 10 měsíci +45

    Living alone (and having the means to) is such a privilege, regardless of whatever city/town you're in. I've lived alone since the age of 17 (early 1990s) with the exception of when I had roommates, lived with boyfriends, or when I was married. Living alone helps to build character - like you said, to know that you can provide for yourself - is something to be cherished. It helps you to learn about yourself through financial stress, loneliness, anxiety... Women really have only lived alone (with social acceptance) for not even 100 yrs, but if it's something your heart yearns for - do your research, prepare, and go for it! Thank you so much for sharing your experience and helping other young people navigate their way around their choices and decision making! I wish I had your CZcams video to watch when I was first moving out on my own .... but we didn't have CZcams in the 1990s!🤣

  • @intersstella
    @intersstella Před 9 měsíci +14

    LOVE the discussion regarding safety. People often forget it is a personal metric and that many of the "dangerous neighborhoods" aren't actually inherently super dangerous- how you carry yourself and how you take precautions can make a big difference. I am moving to my own big city soon, Toronto, and I have found your videos very comforting. Thank you for this channel, Chelsea.

  • @ghettoarcade
    @ghettoarcade Před 10 měsíci +8

    watching this living in rural Canada w/ no intention to move but always enchanted by the prospect

  • @heyannskii
    @heyannskii Před 10 měsíci +2

    I’m 30 something, mother of two, married and living in Australia snd still watching this😆. NYC is so fascinating to me

  • @delilah8476
    @delilah8476 Před 10 měsíci +8

    I've never had any interest in NYC, i'm just here for you Chelsea!!! Love you and your content!❤❤

  • @MyKeturah
    @MyKeturah Před 9 měsíci +4

    Ive lived alone most of my adult life and i wish i had more friends that dont have kiddos so we can explore and hang together. I definitely love living alone. It gives an element of peace. When i was younger i didnt mind roommates but essentially nothing compares to peace of mind and having your own space

  • @summerlomba2525
    @summerlomba2525 Před 10 měsíci +13

    This was extremely helpful and realistic. I'm in my mid twenties and I related so much to your thoughts about the logistics of moving and paying attention to the details of how you feel in a new space. I definitely feel more inspired to make the leap I've been dreaming about for years.

  • @iivajin
    @iivajin Před 10 měsíci +6

    I'm watching this even though I have no plans moving to New York. I really just enjoy your content! 💙

  • @olar.7903
    @olar.7903 Před 10 měsíci +4

    I live near London, UK. Av salary here in the UK is 27k per year which is around £1,800 per month (after tax). Flats in and around London are extremely expensive (ranging from £1000 to 2-3000 per month) plus cost of water, gas etc . Young people here rent rooms because no one can afford a place on their own

  • @theblonderthanthou
    @theblonderthanthou Před 10 měsíci

    ugh, I love your channel!! Thank you for sharing with us xxx

  • @jeannea9406
    @jeannea9406 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I love how transparent you are! Thank you

  • @beezarelee179
    @beezarelee179 Před 10 měsíci

    This was a great video! So informed! I feel this applies to anyone from anywhere trying to move out on your own. I really appreciated this!

  • @Anton0915
    @Anton0915 Před 10 měsíci

    I can relate to this so much as a NYer . Thank you for all the sound advice for those considering moving here in 2023, and your personal testimonial. You’re an amazing person.

  • @stefaniegoettingen
    @stefaniegoettingen Před 10 měsíci +2

    I lived alone for two years in Berlin/Germany and everything you mention seems to be the same in those big cities. I was never afraid (I avoided the night life), but I felt lonely sometimes. Not to share my daily impressions at work and in the city made me sad some days. But the I took my bike, cruised around, had a coffee and watched people on the streets. I collected business cards of shops and restaurants, started scrappbooks and made my own city map (this was before iPads and Google maps😂)…one day I felt like I owned Berlin. This city was always good to me. After two years I moved back to my small hometown because of my job. But I remember those two years with pride, I wenn out of my comfort zone and I made it.

  • @ayaathefnawie6763
    @ayaathefnawie6763 Před 10 měsíci

    great video !, real authentic and your take on living alone was spot on .... sending yo much love and wishing you al the luck in your apt hunt

  • @Jim-nt7xy
    @Jim-nt7xy Před 10 měsíci

    Nice to watch your video again. Good luck with new apartment search

  • @GeorgieGirl3
    @GeorgieGirl3 Před 10 měsíci

    This was SUCH an interesting video, thanks for sharing these insights! As an Aussie, it was super interesting to get a peek into what it's like living over in your part of the world. Best of luck with hunting for your new place and your move x

  • @melaniegriesemer
    @melaniegriesemer Před 10 měsíci

    This is so inspiring!! I love that having extra financial pressure made you even more motivated to be more successful 🎉 congrats this is truly the dream! To have a little corner of NYC ❤️

  • @Lovinled
    @Lovinled Před 10 měsíci

    I’m in my late 30’s living in rural Alaska near Denali National Park and I love your videos. I’ve always had a love for NYC and it’s so cool to live vicariously through you 😊

  • @dorianrodriguezspicer7261
    @dorianrodriguezspicer7261 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I do love your video's Chelsea. You truely are very honest and forth coming about what is going on in your life. You are a beacon of fresh air. Thanks for your candor😊

  • @louisethomas2948
    @louisethomas2948 Před 9 měsíci

    Fantastic news. So happy for you and so excited for you as well. What a great next step 🎉

  • @briansample1364
    @briansample1364 Před 10 měsíci

    Love your videos, always interesting. Can't wait to visit New York in September with my friend. First time ever, going to be great fun.

  • @henryoliverduff
    @henryoliverduff Před 10 měsíci

    I’m an expat about to come to NYC and I’m super happy I stumbled upon your channel! I love your attitude and realistic but also POSITIVE view of the city. I’m a runner as well so hopefully that will keep my mindset as optimistic as yours :)

  • @geek-jenn
    @geek-jenn Před 10 měsíci +2

    Another great video! Thanks for sharing this. I'm currently debating on moving again AND relocating to a new area (NYC is on that list). Appreciate your realistic / insightful thoughts on it all. Can't wait to see how the apartment hunting goes!

  • @rubenbarrientos8171
    @rubenbarrientos8171 Před 10 měsíci

    Hi Chelsea! You are awesome. Thanks for sharing this valuable information

  • @AngelaMaryMagick13
    @AngelaMaryMagick13 Před 10 měsíci +8

    You’re clearly leveling up and we are LOVING to see it Chelsea. Proud of you and super inspired ❤

  • @YungConundrumForever
    @YungConundrumForever Před 10 měsíci +6

    Your videos are my comfort ❤😊I seriously relate to so much of what you go through. Anxiety, being alone, figuring life out….I suffer from all of that. Thank you for being such a beacon of hope for us that thought we were alone.

  • @laurenallen4057
    @laurenallen4057 Před 10 měsíci

    This was such a great video. I have no desire whatsoever to live in NYC. BUT the advice was solid and helpful for many other situations and places! Thanks for the time you spent on this Chelsea!

  • @letterbox203
    @letterbox203 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Life in the city can be quite a struggle to make ends meet. That financial fact resonates with me. You're providing much needed info that is not readily available out there. This is good encouragement for others. Thank you for being so transparent.

  • @christinakcover
    @christinakcover Před 10 měsíci

    Loved this video!!! Gave me a lot to reflect on! Thank you for this!

  • @violettena
    @violettena Před 10 měsíci +8

    I had to drop everything to see a notification of a new video from you. I love your videos sooo much! You bring so much realistic insights that I think anyone considering moving to nyc would much appreciate-me. Keep up the great content ❤❤❤

  • @ExploreEvolveExecute
    @ExploreEvolveExecute Před 10 měsíci

    I'm a Canadian 🇨🇦 and just find you so relatable and down to earth! No desire to move to NYC but super cool to see your journey! I've been considering starting my own YT from a Canadian view but kind of intimidated! Keep doing what you are doing!

  • @snamorsixteen
    @snamorsixteen Před 10 měsíci

    I already live alone in my own country but have been thinking of moving abroad for fellowship. This is so helpful! Thank you Chelsea!

  • @cloudiejobi
    @cloudiejobi Před 8 měsíci

    I watched your videos before I moved to nyc for the first time and it really helped. I lived in a shared space with roommates and it was really nice to have my own room and space but roommates really stressed me out not having a safe space to cook, clean, unwind is really important to me. I’m now exploring the reality of me living alone and i really enjoy these videos they are very encouraging and real! Looking forward to what you share next! ❤

  • @merlejune
    @merlejune Před 10 měsíci

    what a great video! I loved the bathroom vibe :)

  • @moshem3530
    @moshem3530 Před 10 měsíci

    Living alone in nyc is the best thing I’ve done as well. Although, it can be tough, not being able to split the expenses, the independent feeling is priceless! Great video as usual.

  • @victoriadelbando3283
    @victoriadelbando3283 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Great video! I love watching you Chelsea living alone I’ve never lived alone myself so maybe that’s why. I remember taking a trip to LA by myself (stayed at a hotel) to see my mom and it was awesome! New York is tough but you’ve shown it’s possible! Proud of you!🤗🥰🌷💗

  • @JaneLove-yf8on
    @JaneLove-yf8on Před 10 měsíci +1

    I can still remember the first night in my first apartment that I owned (Australia). Shutting the door and knowing that everything inside was mine and mine alone was so exciting. Best of luck with the new apartment search.

  • @lauram4124
    @lauram4124 Před 10 měsíci

    Hey from Houston,
    I ❤. NYC!!!
    Couldn’t live there, but love to visit!!!!
    I can’t wait to see your new place! I hope things go smoothly as far as finding a place you love, and not too many surprises!
    Wishing you all the best,
    LM

  • @Karen_esque
    @Karen_esque Před 10 měsíci +2

    Never being able to get ahead with money hit me deep and I was someone who lived with roommates. I wish I could have experienced living alone in NYC but now that I've moved, it's even more impossible when I look at current rent prices. I've gotta live vicariously through you!

  • @nataliesizemore713
    @nataliesizemore713 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Finding this as someone who lives in Dallas alone and I think some of this advice is SO RELEVANT and helpful even if NYC isn’t where you’re looking to live solo.
    The quiet/stillness/peace I experience living alone is precious to me but also know that for some folks that quiet/solitude is a huge turn off. It’s good to do those thought exercises of like, ok, I’m settled, it’s 8pm, I’m alone, how do I feel? Congrats on being able to provide this for yourself. I know I am so proud (and lucky and privileged) to be able to do this for myself and don’t take if for granted for a second!!

  • @Chocolate_Galaxy
    @Chocolate_Galaxy Před 10 měsíci

    Love your videos!! Someday I’ll live there, but I love visiting NYC, every time is great!!

  • @JanelleJnewstudio
    @JanelleJnewstudio Před 10 měsíci +2

    I’ve lived in NY (Brooklyn) most of my life but never alone. My family owns property and we all have our own space so sometimes it can be like living alone but when I want to be around people, I just go upstairs.
    It’s always so interesting seeing other people’s experiences in the same place and how interesting it is that every experience can be so different. I had no idea that rent was so expensive though. I definitely don’t think I could live in my own city alone and still have a life and that’s pretty crazy.
    You expense breakdown (minus the rent for me) is pretty accurate I’d say. Love your videos!

  • @pearla4731
    @pearla4731 Před 6 měsíci

    Always appreciate CZcamsrs that are straightforward ❤

  • @UnbearabIe
    @UnbearabIe Před 9 měsíci

    While I'm a native New York; I stumbled upon this video on my feed and I'm not crazy about watching vlogs especially regarding NY. But I watched a couple of your videos and your videos are very authentic / real. So thank you for sharing your experiences and also I was considering living on my own so maybe that's how your video popped up 😅

  • @justsmile234
    @justsmile234 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you for this video! I am exactly in this situation, where i’ve lived with 10 different roommates in 4 years in NYC and am ready to live alone! My budget is tiny and i already live uptown (its great) so crossing my fingers to stay around here, but this video confirms that even though i will have to make lifestyle changes, its gonna be a worth it experience.

  • @n.arenado5571
    @n.arenado5571 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I live in DT Los Angeles, in a studio alone. It was worth it to get my own space but I relate to the being in the hole all the time.

  • @gjbaan2860
    @gjbaan2860 Před 10 měsíci

    Why you only have 40K followers is beyond me. Your videos come across as honest, truthful, personal, insightful, kind, purposeful, and inspiring. Always look forward to your next vlog. Keep 'em coming Chelsea :)

  • @jenanalleman6285
    @jenanalleman6285 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Even though I don't live in NYC and don't plan on moving, I enjoy your content. I follow several CZcamsrs who give realistic advice on the places they live such as Chris from Hello From Hawaii and Maddie from MaddieGold in Mexico. I'm glad to see realistic content becoming more frequent because I find that far more interesting and engaging than just a bunch of sugar coated imagery.

  • @SueB-wv6mg
    @SueB-wv6mg Před 10 měsíci +7

    Thanks for the awesome video, Chelsea! Although I don't live in NYC, I live in a big city and agree with a lot of the things you've said. I'm currently living with a roommate, but I sometimes do want to live alone. I know I could do so if I invested more money, but at the same time, I feel like I would get lonely without company. We may not be best friends, but we still go out for brunch or activities sometimes. Some of my roommates in the past have become my best friends too. However, I know this will not last forever. I feel like it's okay to live with roommates and live alone at some point in your life. Both experiences are different and have pros and cons, but either way will definitely help you. Good luck with your apartment hunting!

  • @fanniszabo3457
    @fanniszabo3457 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I'm watching this from a rural village in Hungary with about 650 residents. We live in a small house with 0.4 acre garden and I think the only thing about our lifestyle we have in common is that I too have a corporate job at a US based company. I find you videos so interesting and I'm glad I stumbled upon your channel. This is what I love about youtube, the tiny peek into someone else's life. Thank you:)💗

  • @nigj1937
    @nigj1937 Před 10 měsíci +5

    I'm a guy in Sydney and can relate to all the expenses and the financial hole that you find yourself in living alone and almost everything you said about NY life , expenses, decisions, psychology relates to life in Sydney

  • @emelyandtheuke
    @emelyandtheuke Před 9 měsíci

    Wow I moved out of my home at 19 and have lived alone since 2018, and this video (that I just happened upon by algorithm, happy it brought me here and subscribed ❤) reminded me to be grateful that a) I’m able and glad to live alone and b) born and raised in this crazy metro area where people fight to stay in. I by no means THRIVE financially but god what a reminder to be mindful of all the great, not so small things in life to appreciate. Thank you for this very real, honest, realistic view of living in the city. I get so sick (…and maybe report sometimes out of pettiness…) of those unrealistic “How I live in NYC with a $5-8k budget and high paying corporate job in addition to maintaining a healthy lifestyle!!!!” videos and this was so refreshing to watch.

  • @looknamvanitsumpan4815
    @looknamvanitsumpan4815 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Moving alone to NYC this Oct to take on an assignment for two years and currently looking for an apartment so seems like we are in the same situation! Your videos have been very helpful to me. Thank you so much Chelsea for sharing your insights. Keep them coming!

    • @DannyFPO5
      @DannyFPO5 Před 9 měsíci +4

      If you don't mind a longer commute by subway I highly recommend to anyone moving here to look further away from the city. I moved here in July and I sacrificed having a 40min commute for a quiet, safe neighborhood, a very spacious apartment with free street parking at a reasonable rent price.

  • @marchelle011
    @marchelle011 Před 10 měsíci +1

    100% agree with you. I have ALWAYS wanted to live in NYC, even for just like a year or so, but haven’t gotten the chance yet. I lived alone in San Jose CA for almost 5 years, and although the initial stress of finances got to me, I wouldn’t change that time in my life for anything.
    I will ALWAYS encourage people to live on their own and get that experience. Mind you, I was in a relationship and we were supposed to move in with each other. I had went from my parents(moved out at 24) to rooming with my cousin, and then he and I talked about living together once she decided to move out. Though he made a lot more than me and would have paid all of the bills allowing me to save, I knew I needed to get the experience of doing things on my own. And in that time I grew SO much, I traveled, I made a lot of friends, and I learned to be ALONE with myself and enjoy my own company. I found myself doing things I used to think other people we weird or “lonely” for doing. Like taking myself out to dinner, going to the movies, going on a trip.
    If your questioning it, just take the leap. Establish a safety net(friends or family) you know will take you in if something happens and go. Like, I knew I could go back home or with my brother if anything happened.
    DO IT! No “regerts”

  • @suefitz2498
    @suefitz2498 Před 10 měsíci

    You’ve got it all under control with a great sense of reality. I agree that it would be good to live in a place like NYC for a year or so just for the experience. Lots of common sense and wisdoms being shared from…the bathtub….lol.❤

  • @cecysaavedra3320
    @cecysaavedra3320 Před 10 měsíci

    Hi Chelsea :) I'm from mexico but I've been watching your videos for a while now and I really like you jajajaja like I really appreciate the honesty and transparency we get from your videos. You seem like a very down to earth woman, but I really hope you've taken the time to realize all the growth you've achieved :) it's really cool that we get to witness it. cuidateee

  • @jow9106
    @jow9106 Před 10 měsíci

    This video is fantastic! The editing etc! Really great work chelsea ❤

  • @MusicloverX88
    @MusicloverX88 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Your videos have been extremely helpful. I plan on leaving the army and starting over in NY. I grew up only 90 minutes from NYC and have family in the BX. Excited for this next chapter!

  • @mahoganydrive
    @mahoganydrive Před 10 měsíci +1

    Having to face bugs all by yourself. This really hit home for me. LOL. Lived alone for 5 years (loved it) and this was a thing! But living alone was awesome. I think everyone should do it if they have the chance.

  • @kittykautz153
    @kittykautz153 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I live alone in NYC and this video is spot on. Budget was realistic; however I would shave off some of
    other areas to contribute to a retirement account. I love living alone.

  • @robertladas5691
    @robertladas5691 Před 10 měsíci

    I must thank you for sharing your life with us. And thank you for being inspiring!! 🤗

  • @richardhenry8158
    @richardhenry8158 Před 10 měsíci

    Hey Chelsea, great work, I'm actually, just visiting NYC next March 2024 so I'm frantically watching anything I can find on the City, I thought you gave a wonderful insight into what it's like to move to NYC,good for you and we'll done on your personal journey,Really enjoyed your piece fun and informative.
    Maybe you should consider some presentation work your very bubble great communication,. Best wishes for your Future Richard.😊

  • @swanson684
    @swanson684 Před 10 měsíci

    I live alone in orange county California and have seriously considered moving to Manhattan. The energy of that city is so incredible. I was just there in april and gets better every time i come back!!!

  • @private755
    @private755 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I’m a 37 year old and moved to a new to me city to live by myself that’s definitely not nyc. I don’t live in the best neighborhood but it’s the best one I’ve lived in I think. It’s nice to be on my own and structure my time and day as I see fit. It’s also really satisfying to be able to support myself financially, emotionally, whatever. I don’t think my life as it is would have been possible if I didn’t work so hard on my education and I gotta give a high five to my past self for taking that opportunity as far as I could go with it.

  • @nimah8051
    @nimah8051 Před 10 měsíci

    Never had the desire to live in NYC but still watching lol. Thankful I still live in a big city with all the perks but not as expensive. I own my condo and pretty much never budget. It’s so freeing

  • @henryjoshual1848
    @henryjoshual1848 Před 10 měsíci

    video at 8:50: the most powerful, realistic, truthful and valuable advice anyone could ask for. WELL-SAID. (and immediately following, she has the CUTEST ears I have ever seen, except maybe on bunnies and kittens.....)

  • @ritawagner1380
    @ritawagner1380 Před 10 měsíci

    I had the privilege of living alone in Chicago..it is one of the greatest experiences of my life!! City life is exciting!! I was hoping to move to NYC..pre pandemic I was getting my resume ready to become a flight attendant..now I live in Destin FL. I will never forget my Chicago life...FYI originally from Milwaukee WI. I love your content Chelsea. Thank you.

  • @mollzz
    @mollzz Před 10 měsíci

    I live upstate and have never considered moving to the city.. I just love your videos 🥰🥰🥰

  • @samuelalexander1014
    @samuelalexander1014 Před 10 měsíci

    Watching your videos from the UK is just making me want to move over desperately your life seems so cool

  • @paulhooker469
    @paulhooker469 Před 10 měsíci

    Another great vlog

  • @jayferrell4842
    @jayferrell4842 Před 9 měsíci +1

    This was very insightful AND well edited and shot! I am looking to move to New York soon and I really appreciate the messages here. I feel like a lot of the videos I watch are too tailored towards the creator's own experiences and beliefs about moving to NY. I love how you gave some examples from your experience; however, your experiences/examples you gave never took the forefront of whether or not you should live alone or not. There was always optimism and inclusivity for other people who may not have the same exp as you. Great video!

  • @michael_harren
    @michael_harren Před 10 měsíci

    I LOVE living alone in NYC. Moved to Brooklyn from Houston back in 2006, and have only had roommates for a small percentage of that time. The longer you live here and the more connected you get it gets a little bit easier to find apartments. I lucked into one of those amazing deals that I never want to leave. Was originally going to live here with a roommate, and when that arrangement imploded, I decided to make it work by myself and I am so happy. So yes, much more expensive to live here than Texas, but the opportunities here are so much more plentiful, the community feeling of neighborhoods is just beautiful, and not having to have a car is THE BEST.
    I was feeling guilty because my grocery budget is substantially higher than yours, but I am saving money by only taking the subway aside from a very rare Uber ride. Anyway, fantastic video as always and I'm crossing my fingers you find a great new apartment!

  • @boberrtu5715
    @boberrtu5715 Před 10 měsíci

    Thanks for the breakdown! Super helpful even if you have no intention of ever living in NYC its a good comparison to wherever you live now.
    Like you said its all about lifestyle choice what you wish to gain and conversely are willing to forego.
    I will say im super nervous for you its my personal opinion that i would have liked to see you renew your current lease at the slightly higher rate and wait and see what happens with the economic climate i think it would have given you a bit more of a safety net, but to your point living in the city for you is about progression and experience and being pushed to achieve something more i support your decision im rooting for you! i know the old place was stale and a bit toxic for you so hoping the new place breathes a new life into you. Fear is the biggest motivator and above all else you want it so no doubt in my mind you will succeed.

  • @Bella34544
    @Bella34544 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I live in Melbourne Australia. I'm 45 and lived on my own since 2010 and have now bought my own 1 bedroom unit - though to afford this I had to move out about 40km from Melbourne CBD but I mostly WFH and my office is local. I will say though if you're someone who doesn't want kids and don't follow the traditional relationship escalator once you live on your own you'll never share with anyone ever again - I know I won't I LOVE solo living but yes it's expensive and great breakdown of the budget considerations but if you can afford it it's so worth it.

  • @pattycake8272
    @pattycake8272 Před 10 měsíci

    I would be like you in the beginning and be just in my room and not getting out so ya, it is really an eye opener to see that yes having roommates would be a good idea.

  • @andreacullen770
    @andreacullen770 Před 10 měsíci +9

    What an incredible video Chelsea. It’s so conversational and well done. I would love to see you get some training and become a counsellor or therapist. Your manner, your advice, but mainly your own experiences would bring so much to something like that and can be a very good living.
    I enjoy your channel and your work. Good luck with the apt hunting!

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Wow thank you Andrea!

    • @andreacullen770
      @andreacullen770 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@ChelseaCallahan such a real and informative view of living in nyc alone… so much more real than many of the gals posting videos about living in nyc… I suspect it will open the eyes of many thinking of making the move. It also answers some questions for me about how any young people afford to live in nyc….. I’m a 62 year old Canadian woman. 😁

    • @AnaSavone
      @AnaSavone Před 10 měsíci +1

      I second counselor or therapist, if that's something you would be interested in!

  • @elizahoke2704
    @elizahoke2704 Před 9 měsíci

    I hope I find your apartment on street easy after you move out!! lines up perfectly with when I want to move to the city :)

  • @okrydia
    @okrydia Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you for this Chelsea

  • @AllNaturale11
    @AllNaturale11 Před 9 měsíci

    this was a great video

  • @noahpettersson3385
    @noahpettersson3385 Před 10 měsíci

    Love your videos Chelsea,i live alone myself in Stockholm Sweden,yes it,s also expensive,keep on smiling best wishes to you

  • @Elem70
    @Elem70 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Found your channel randomly the other day and have been binging it since! Love your content and your vibe. Do you have EDS? (Spotted you applying lotion/sunscreen to your back a couple of times - one of the benefits of joint hypermobility 😂)

    • @ChelseaCallahan
      @ChelseaCallahan  Před 10 měsíci

      I do not! I’m actually extremely stiff in every way except for that one shoulder hahaha

  • @FlowerlyF.
    @FlowerlyF. Před 8 měsíci

    Love that you mentioned marginalized groups😊 and the honesty ❤

  • @theudopantograph
    @theudopantograph Před 10 měsíci +1

    I’m 35 and lucky enough to have been able to separate from my partner and move out on my own in Brooklyn. I have in all honesty, enjoyed the experience. It’s a good enough balance of me to work my ass off but then enjoy the perks of living in NYC in my spare time. Never a dull moment

  • @melgon25
    @melgon25 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Hey! Newer subscriber. I think you’re selling yourself short on how wide your demographic truly is. I’m a mom of 5 in my 40’s. Never got to live alone. Good for you for doing it. That’s amazing. I think it’s so important for everyone to be able to take care of themselves. I’m fascinated with your content. Thanks for sharing!

  • @harryjamessmithmusic7762
    @harryjamessmithmusic7762 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Brilliant video, Chelsea! Very helpful and very interesting! It's always been my dream to live and work in NYC! (legally; I'm from the EU). But it might never happen. We'll see. (The West Village is beautiful!) ... Fantastic job! Greetings from the EU!