Gok Helps Blind Bride Lucy Find Her Confidence | Say Yes To The Dress: Lancashire

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  • čas přidán 29. 03. 2019
  • Bride Lucy lost her vision 5 years ago, and now she needs to find the perfect wedding dress to make her feel confident on her big day.
    Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
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  • @riannamarie7552
    @riannamarie7552 Před 4 lety +5216

    The moment she said "fox in the snow" you could see gok realizing that the words he said to her will effect her positively for the rest of her life

    • @MixyMixerton
      @MixyMixerton Před 3 lety +155

      I never gave this show a chance because it seemed like trashy reality TV. But damn, this is one of the sweetest, most genuine moments I've ever seen. I'm so happy for her, and I hope Gok remembers his impact on this client if he ever feels low.

    • @SamiBabi06
      @SamiBabi06 Před 3 lety +47

      @@MixyMixerton alot of it is more of a guilty pleasure for trash tv. But anything with Gok is GOLD. I basically look for Gok and then I click 🤷‍♀️

    • @Mimi-yo1hq
      @Mimi-yo1hq Před 3 lety +29

      @@MixyMixerton The US versions are a lot like trashy reality TV, but the UK versions are pure and wholesome. Both Gok, and Jo and Al from Curvy Brides are phenomenal.

    • @tanr9104
      @tanr9104 Před 3 lety

      @@SamiBabi06 Same here!!!

    • @WorldCup-fr4jt
      @WorldCup-fr4jt Před 3 lety +1

      How are you doing Rihanna

  • @kalayne6713
    @kalayne6713 Před 3 lety +11332

    Gok is one of the few men in fashion who actually likes women, and genuinely wants them to look their best. Describing her like a fox in the snow was inspired. More power to him.

    • @jessicaellina3878
      @jessicaellina3878 Před 3 lety +252

      Absolutely! A wonderful genuine human being.. so kind to Lucy and his description was so spot on!!

    • @doralevitt2879
      @doralevitt2879 Před 3 lety +128

      Him and Randy Fenoli 🤗💚💜

    • @roosderuiter7587
      @roosderuiter7587 Před 3 lety +124

      I couldn't agree more! The way he calmly talks to her and let's her feel the dress.. So much respect for him!

    • @MellowFrog00
      @MellowFrog00 Před 3 lety +121

      Yesss! I love it when men don’t feel like they need to act “masculine” and don’t get embarrassed when they have to do “feminine” things
      I actually find it very attractive

    • @denisederosa1550
      @denisederosa1550 Před 3 lety +61

      Randy Fani and Gok go out of their way for their Brides

  • @rebeccagibby6019
    @rebeccagibby6019 Před 2 lety +2954

    When she said “I did actually get the chance to see him” in reference to getting to see her future husband before she lost her sight I actually started crying that’s so sweet and amazing

  • @hilarytaber6138
    @hilarytaber6138 Před 2 lety +3807

    The moment Lucy described herself as a fox in the snow, you could see how much it meant to Gok. He looked like he was about to cry. I love this man. He's so amazing as a consultant and as a person!

    • @mindys5555
      @mindys5555 Před 2 lety +75

      That's exactly what I was thinking! There were a few times it looked like he was holding back tears

    • @itac.2280
      @itac.2280 Před 2 lety +66

      I think it made him realise just how much he helped her love putting on dresses, she really took what he said to heart.

    • @cbisme6414
      @cbisme6414 Před 2 lety +37

      Yes, I saw that too Hilary, and he slipped in behind the female consultant and the emotion on his face.... He deserved that moment, he gave her an amazing gift, she will forever have of herself, a fox in the snow, just beautiful.

    • @soulstrength
      @soulstrength Před rokem +20

      That meant so much to me as well. I really love him. He really wants the best for everyone. I can just feel his heart! ❤️

    • @LdyEnigma84
      @LdyEnigma84 Před rokem +21

      I started crying when she said that because I knew how much that imagery he helped her create meant to her. This one was so touching

  • @JoyCroissant
    @JoyCroissant Před 3 lety +4739

    “How does a blind girl pick her wedding dress? Lets find out...”
    i clicked cause on the thumbnail, I was 100% sure shes that tiktok girl

    • @shampoo6771
      @shampoo6771 Před 3 lety +34

      Brooo, samee

    • @xyukix31
      @xyukix31 Před 3 lety +40

      She is isn't she

    • @cocomontresebeast2210
      @cocomontresebeast2210 Před 3 lety +63

      It is as on her “How does a blind girl know what’s in a jar?” She says she has a fiancé called Ollie and Ollie is her fiancé here.

    • @rxseqvartz5679
      @rxseqvartz5679 Před 3 lety +8

      Same she’s so beautiful and inspiring to me!

    • @ADom0
      @ADom0 Před 3 lety +18

      She has a CZcams channel

  • @carolinemanley9216
    @carolinemanley9216 Před 3 lety +7852

    He treats her so gently but doesn’t infantilize her. She helps her own this experience in her special way and it’s just beautiful!

    • @personwithaquestion1800
      @personwithaquestion1800 Před 3 lety +122

      Yeah he's a very kind, special human being. We need more of that.

    • @JulieSaldanaKaty
      @JulieSaldanaKaty Před 2 lety +26

      @@penny.222 feel so sorry for you. Hope eventually you are able to appreciate goodness.

    • @sylviamartin9100
      @sylviamartin9100 Před 2 lety +20

      @@penny.222 did we really need that comment

    • @Skatejock21
      @Skatejock21 Před 2 lety +7

      A big part is receiving what we are getting. Today, a lot of people would take offense to this and think he is asking too many questions or making assumptions. You can treat someone with kindness today and they will take it the wrong way

  • @lieflaible8332
    @lieflaible8332 Před 2 lety +1898

    I like how Gok immediately thought to prioritize a dress that had interesting details for her to feel so it was a good sensory experience. Something that would be beautiful for her and not just for the people who can see her.

    • @xrzqq
      @xrzqq Před rokem +6

      1.2k likes no replys?
      Letme change that

    • @haplessasshole9615
      @haplessasshole9615 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Yes, Auntie Gok came through once again. Instead of just finding something to please the eyes of Lucy's guests no end (which he most emphatically accomplished), he sat down with her, gave her a tactile tour of the dress, and helped her visualize the gown. I loved Lucy's expression of wonder and joy as she delicately traced the scrolls and flowers in the lace. I suspect she'll remember her appointment with Gok almost as fondly as she'll remember her actual wedding day.

  • @firefly-fez
    @firefly-fez Před 2 lety +770

    I feel like when she said “I’m a fox in the snow” was the highlight of Gok’s whole career. He handled her disability with so much elegance and grace. Absolute gentleman. ❤️

    • @nikkiisrael2708
      @nikkiisrael2708 Před rokem +10

      I agree with you. I am blind also, and I have been very inspired by this video.
      It has given me ideas for my own bridal gown when I get to choose it.
      I presume Lucy has red hair?
      She sounds very beautiful to me. 🥲
      I think she has a beautiful personality, and I love her videos.
      Do you know if they are married yet? I’d love to see the wedding video

    • @Camii0496
      @Camii0496 Před rokem +6

      She does, fiery red hair 🔥

    • @giuliagiannini15
      @giuliagiannini15 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@nikkiisrael2708 she does! It's exactly how gok described it. Vibrant orangy rusty red, like a fox. It truly creates the vision of the fox in the snow because the dress is so white! :) I hope you find someone that can help you create your own image in your head for your own wedding gown!!

  • @fairyfairiefaerie
    @fairyfairiefaerie Před 3 lety +6216

    god when gok said “you can create whatever lace you want inside your brain” and the bride said “i never thought of it that way before...i have control...and I’m not usually in control” and started crying god i wanted to hug her so much. Gok is such a genuinely good person i’m crying so hard.

    • @Icebluegel11
      @Icebluegel11 Před 3 lety +62

      Me too felt that. You would absolutely feel so out of control to stop seeing the world so suddenly and to never see again

    • @margaritatellez6433
      @margaritatellez6433 Před 3 lety +12

      I cried too so beautiful 🙏❤️

    • @michelealaurindo8764
      @michelealaurindo8764 Před 3 lety +22

      What am amazing experience for this young lady and Gok is just such a special human being

    • @carolmetzler1476
      @carolmetzler1476 Před 3 lety +18

      I absolutely adore auntie Gok! He is and incredible human being ! He changes lives !

    • @lauryngillion
      @lauryngillion Před 3 lety +2

      God*

  • @pippiecarr9378
    @pippiecarr9378 Před 3 lety +7604

    The difference between this and the American version is huge.

    • @madelinea5133
      @madelinea5133 Před 3 lety +809

      im American and obsessed with both, but for different reasons. the uk version is more touching in my opinion, while the American is more reality-showy and dramatic with families. Both equally addictive, but yeah, very different

    • @KeenanSophieLarafan
      @KeenanSophieLarafan Před 3 lety +104

      @@madelinea5133 Well said.

    • @lauraclaire
      @lauraclaire Před 3 lety +173

      I agree the British version is more meaningful this episode is a good example.

    • @origamiandcats6873
      @origamiandcats6873 Před 3 lety +106

      The difference between the two shows is very much on purpose. It's a reflection of the culture and audience for sure. I'm not sure where the show originated but a lot of thought went into the importation.

    • @summersevening
      @summersevening Před 3 lety +81

      Think the difference is Gok - not a fan of the other UK version but this one I love

  • @carmenhaworth2695
    @carmenhaworth2695 Před 2 lety +1697

    Wow... Just to see Gok's face when she said" I am a fox in the snow"... He hold his tears back! He did amazing! Like always. But this time was extra special. He was Lucy' s eyes.... God bless this man

  • @sdd1563
    @sdd1563 Před 2 lety +722

    For someone who has had darkness as her constant companion for so many years, to make her imagine herself as a fox with fiery russet fur standing against a brilliantly white crisp snow field...Man! Gok is something else. He's not selling a dress to a customer. He is helping a woman feel like a bride! This is such a poetically beautiful episode of SYTD!

  • @simpleyllesx3952
    @simpleyllesx3952 Před 4 lety +23504

    He actually gave her a therapy with that beautiful mindset. He is the man that you need when searching for a wedding dress! Who else is crying?

  • @ashleyyelsha366
    @ashleyyelsha366 Před 3 lety +5618

    I’ve never seen anybody do their job better than this man does his.

  • @SarahWilder93
    @SarahWilder93 Před 2 lety +1121

    This version of SYTTD is so therapeutic not only for the clients but the viewer as well. Gok shows us how we can look, think and feel like our best self. The use of imagery and feeling of texture had me emotional. 😢

    • @mariajw4803
      @mariajw4803 Před 2 lety +4

      Yes. And how we could treat each other.

    • @JessConstantino
      @JessConstantino Před rokem +2

      Me too I was crying like a baby!

    • @cbisme6414
      @cbisme6414 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@JessConstantino PINK, GLITTER, BIG... Is another one which is very special too. I watched it tonight and "cried like a baby" again, as I did warching this FOX IN THE SNOW one. Both girls with exceptional circumstances, and outcomes.

  • @Samantha-qj9wq
    @Samantha-qj9wq Před 2 lety +297

    I watch Lucy's video's ALL OF THE TIME, and there could NOT have been ANYONE better suited for Lucy than Gok. He gave her power back that she didn't realize she lost hold of.

  • @butterfly6721
    @butterfly6721 Před 3 lety +7080

    When she repeated the “fox in the snow” I bursted into tears, Gok is literally the most amazing person in this show

    • @bhargavibala2449
      @bhargavibala2449 Před 3 lety +16

      Same!!! 😢😢

    • @butterfly6721
      @butterfly6721 Před 3 lety +21

      @@bhargavibala2449 he is the sweetest🥺

    • @zohabaig6426
      @zohabaig6426 Před 2 lety +141

      It’s so lovely because you can see him tearing up when he realizes his description has a real impact on her

    • @butterfly6721
      @butterfly6721 Před 2 lety +5

      @@zohabaig6426 YESSSS🥺🥺🥺

    • @butterfly6721
      @butterfly6721 Před 2 lety +8

      @Anya R France always!! He really cares for what the bride feels

  • @MsLovinDMutts
    @MsLovinDMutts Před 2 lety +4861

    After watching the narcissistic American moms, this is so refreshing to see a mom who just loves her daughter and wants her baby girl to be beautiful and happy!

    • @lauracoyle3556
      @lauracoyle3556 Před 2 lety +137

      the energy on lancashire syttd is completely different. they’re always mindful of budget, so sweet to the brides, entourage is almost always open to whatever the bride wants and if not gok usually talks them down. like the american one is a whole mess in comparison.

    • @mangamama9881
      @mangamama9881 Před 2 lety +38

      I agree. He was ambitioned to make her feel beautiful and amazing and he made sure to describe it in a way she could use to imagine it. It's lovely

    • @lindap8101
      @lindap8101 Před 2 lety +33

      To be fair to the American moms, that version of the show thinks of a dramatic theme and gets the families to play along. “You don’t quite like her dress? Tell her you absolutely hate the dress.”

    • @ittibittinurse
      @ittibittinurse Před 2 lety +3

      Bitter much!

    • @JB-et7zs
      @JB-et7zs Před 2 lety

      Wow, none of you people can go a day without trying to make yourselves feel better by bashing America when they aren't even involved. Obsessed much?

  • @suzannecoffman5741
    @suzannecoffman5741 Před 2 lety +294

    Gok is amazing. He always impresses me, but he outdid himself this time. "Fox in the snow." "Your story." Brilliant. Compassionate. Just right.

  • @jimmy-stevenbiemans1486
    @jimmy-stevenbiemans1486 Před 2 lety +168

    The camera crew did an amazing job. When you film something, it obviously shows you from the perspective of sight, you film what you would see if you were there. This camera crew filmed from the perspective of touch, they filmed what you would feel if you would be there and touch the dress. Also, the imagery Gok used to describe what shapes and colors she would see was beautiful and vivid, and he even stated it abstract enough to give her full autonomy how to visualize it. He gave her the painting tools for her to paint the mental picture herself. Gok, you are an empathetic soul, this was wonderful. I have a lot of appreciation for how you handled this 🙏🏻💝💖

    • @andieluke1366
      @andieluke1366 Před rokem +8

      My God, you're right! He kept it abstract enough so she could imagine it how *she* would! I didn't even realize that deeper nuance! Thank you for pointing it out.

  • @orianna4511
    @orianna4511 Před 3 lety +4217

    When he was describing the imagery of her in the dress, from being a fox in the snow to describing the lace and everything, it just brought me to tears. He really meant it when he said "we're going to bring back her sight today"

    • @curious1366
      @curious1366 Před 3 lety +52

      I am so surprised that you have so few likes compared to all the others.
      When Gok said "we're going to bring back her sight today" --- that was so inspired! And then he really delivered.
      That was really powerful to me , to @Orianna pls, and the few others who liked her comment!

    • @orianna4511
      @orianna4511 Před 3 lety +19

      @@curious1366 I'm glad you liked my comment, thank you! I also resonated with him saying this and I'm glad some people agree too!

    • @tiararoxeanne1318
      @tiararoxeanne1318 Před 2 lety +3

      She has beautiful red hair! I think that's inspired the fox in the snow imagery. Her hair is shimmering in the light. So lovely😍

    • @orianna4511
      @orianna4511 Před 2 lety +1

      @@tiararoxeanne1318 Absolutely! I think that's what he meant too

  • @MsBELLE7
    @MsBELLE7 Před 4 lety +12461

    "Im a fox in the snow" her saying it, then Goks face...im crying. This is the most beautiful episode ive ever seen. Gok is so wonderful, i wish i could have him help me pick a dress!

    • @condiments4326
      @condiments4326 Před 4 lety +3

      ok

    • @otakuanimeworld8228
      @otakuanimeworld8228 Před 4 lety +168

      For some reason I imagined a fox the same as her hair color running freely in this big beautifully white snow field and now I cant stop crying

    • @feisamurai982
      @feisamurai982 Před 4 lety +5

      Otaku AnimeWorld omg same 😭

    • @May04bwu
      @May04bwu Před 4 lety +15

      Right?? Me too! I had to look at the comments to find out if that made anyone else cry as well.

    • @akagrimreaper6702
      @akagrimreaper6702 Před 4 lety +4

      He can still pick your wedding dress

  • @abigailrogers7518
    @abigailrogers7518 Před 2 lety +213

    I don't normally cry watching these videos but Gok's kindness, love and compassion so strongly displayed and his gentleness with this bride has me in tears.

  • @Noor-ns1vj
    @Noor-ns1vj Před 2 lety +81

    I can see why people say they only like watching Gok's episodes and omg the wholesomeness of it all is unparalleled. I was tearing up with the bride

  • @abiandshandy
    @abiandshandy Před 3 lety +3690

    The way he describes it to her but he is letting her make it up in her brain just makes me feel so happy inside.

  • @spagetd1526
    @spagetd1526 Před 3 lety +4432

    _”i’m in a brilliant white dress, and i’m a fox in the snow”_
    *i have chills*

    • @nephtys369
      @nephtys369 Před 2 lety +118

      His analogy was not only perfectly effective, but also outrageously inspirational.

    • @karenf1001
      @karenf1001 Před 2 lety +82

      Even Gok was emotional when she said that 🥺😢

    • @keziahsarajohn4160
      @keziahsarajohn4160 Před 2 lety +12

      who has seen lucys youtube channel give her some love ❤

    • @jhsemoxitha3821
      @jhsemoxitha3821 Před 2 lety +13

      That line made me teaet

    • @jhsemoxitha3821
      @jhsemoxitha3821 Před 2 lety +8

      Teary*

  • @mel23os
    @mel23os Před 2 lety +234

    I absolutely love Gok! I have fallen down the rabbit hole today and watched a lot of SYTTD videos, and he is by far my favorite consultant. The others all support the brides, but also push a little bit of their own agenda. Gok really listens to his brides. I also love how went above and beyond to help her "see" her dress.

  • @anonymous.hippopotamus
    @anonymous.hippopotamus Před rokem +83

    Knowing her as a content creator now, and hearing how she explains her perspective and what helps her best, this is even more special. So beautiful! She looks amazing

  • @annapavlakis7626
    @annapavlakis7626 Před 3 lety +16017

    This man is not just a stylist, he's a healer.

  • @juliebryant-sullivan3094
    @juliebryant-sullivan3094 Před 5 lety +13684

    Goks' emotion over the vision that he helped Lucy to see, was a clear indication of his humanity. I think he is a very special person.

    • @deborahabbenante3483
      @deborahabbenante3483 Před 5 lety +18

      Julie Ann I agree

    • @lamsy1
      @lamsy1 Před 4 lety +52

      Lucy has her own youtube channel Lucy Edwards, she is a gem, and she is so happy and embarking on a new career and marriage :)

    • @ruthparada9577
      @ruthparada9577 Před 4 lety +2

      Hi

    • @suzyclops5453
      @suzyclops5453 Před 4 lety +29

      Using his personal gifts, a combination of art, compassion, and empathy was a fucking gift just to watch, truly inspiring.

    • @Tebbles07
      @Tebbles07 Před 4 lety +35

      Absolutely.
      I am moved to tears. He literally helped her see her dress. He gave her permission to imagine herself. That is beautiful, powerful and a gift.

  • @gracechakabva5014
    @gracechakabva5014 Před 2 lety +113

    Gok is the bride to be Whisperer. Makes every bride feel so deserving, good on you Gok, never change may your business grow from strength to strength.

  • @xchrysantha
    @xchrysantha Před 2 lety +45

    I think I said this in another video, but I just love and admire how deeply Gok loves people. It's like he falls in love with every human he meets. Watching him really calms my heart and kind of makes me feel like "Life will be okay."

  • @stephaniejohnson7679
    @stephaniejohnson7679 Před 3 lety +2960

    I SOBBED when she said “it’s my story so who cares”. You could hear the power that she had finally given herself permission to have.

    • @erinmakato1768
      @erinmakato1768 Před 3 lety +5

      Could I please have the time stamp? (●'◡'●)

    • @_smallfry_
      @_smallfry_ Před 3 lety +4

      I feel like everyone sjpuld have that idea because it is a powerful one

    • @user-us4lg4cu1s
      @user-us4lg4cu1s Před 3 lety +7

      @@erinmakato1768 6:48, yw

    • @erinmakato1768
      @erinmakato1768 Před 3 lety

      @@user-us4lg4cu1s ah ty ty! (^∀^●)ノシ

  • @b.walker5955
    @b.walker5955 Před 4 lety +4706

    Watching as Gok held back tears when he realized it was his words that enabled this bride to see...was exceptional. Such a word magician to have that skill. I am richer having witnessed it.

    • @AB_Evans
      @AB_Evans Před 3 lety +79

      "Richer for having witnessed it." Exceptional indeed! What a gift he has!

    • @anitav.t.2389
      @anitav.t.2389 Před 3 lety +9

      All. The. Time. When I watch him.

    • @samaeldeul572
      @samaeldeul572 Před 3 lety +1

      Yup same

    • @MyTumbleweed
      @MyTumbleweed Před 3 lety +2

      "She owned it, because of Gok!" 😭💖

  • @4bibimimi
    @4bibimimi Před 2 lety +20

    She is remarkably upbeat and Gok bonded with her artistically. He worked with her memory while describing what she would look like in the present.

  • @glassslippergourmet
    @glassslippergourmet Před rokem +26

    Watching this again after some time since it first ran, and its still just as powerful as before. By leaps and bounds this interaction was Gok's greatest SYTTD moment. "A Fox in the Snow" is the greatest gift he could have ever given this lovely lovely woman.

  • @EyeconicLaura
    @EyeconicLaura Před 4 lety +6634

    I didn’t get why everyone in the comments was saying they cried when she said “I’m a fox in the snow” but then she said it and I cried, wtf

    • @looly21
      @looly21 Před 4 lety +107

      I just started watching and I'm waiting for that part to understand what is going on😂

    • @emberfrost8322
      @emberfrost8322 Před 4 lety +15

      I know right 😭😭

    • @mariahganaway8739
      @mariahganaway8739 Před 4 lety +42

      Her hair is red and she is wearing white.

    • @notthechosenoneormaybeiam8745
      @notthechosenoneormaybeiam8745 Před 4 lety +32

      I know this comment is old but literally just happened to me and I felt what you felt just now 😭

    • @flurpurr
      @flurpurr Před 4 lety +6

      SAME like as soon as she said it

  • @xsamthingelse
    @xsamthingelse Před 2 lety +98

    This is so wholesome 🥺
    He's helping her getting confident without infantilizing her, and she looks absolutely stunning. This image of a fox in the snow fits her perfectly ❤️

  • @morgan3368
    @morgan3368 Před 2 lety +19

    She's the most purest and sweetest soul ever 🥺, she's so beautiful in that dress, it's a perfect fit!

  • @binxwaxcap7832
    @binxwaxcap7832 Před 3 lety +2831

    When she said "I'm a fox in the snow" I couldn't hold back the years anymore 😭❤️ I love Lucy so much

  • @deexooxoo6096
    @deexooxoo6096 Před 5 lety +5944

    Gok’s reaction to her saying “I’m a fox in the snow” 😭

  • @TheFlowerQueen
    @TheFlowerQueen Před 2 lety +14

    What a unique episode. Most episodes have shots that are further from the bride and focus on the drama. This one almost felt like a sensory journey, seeing her up close and feeling the different fabrics.

  • @annemaxwell9975
    @annemaxwell9975 Před rokem +4

    This man needs an MBE for his contribution to women's fashion. He has given this beautiful lady licence to envision her dress how she feels, and not concern herself about how it actually looks. 'Fox in the Snow', a stunning metaphor for a beautiful girl. 🙏

  • @jazzy230
    @jazzy230 Před 2 lety +2067

    4:30 i absolutely love when Gok told Lucy that her dress has lace on it, but that she can take ownership and visualize what that lace actually looks like, I teared up with Lucy in that moment

    • @melrye7350
      @melrye7350 Před 2 lety +32

      Same! I would have never thought of such a simple but touching thing.

    • @LegalVampire
      @LegalVampire Před 2 lety +24

      Absolutely, that's an amazing mindset to give her 🥲

    • @mikmik1855
      @mikmik1855 Před 2 lety +5

      Crying 🥲

    • @plsignoreme636
      @plsignoreme636 Před rokem

      6:30

  • @asmaaabdelkhalek3774
    @asmaaabdelkhalek3774 Před 4 lety +5751

    Gok is absolutely an angel, he truly put his heart into choosing her weeding dress and making her Invision it.

    • @lol_absolutelynot
      @lol_absolutelynot Před 3 lety +22

      i adore him to bits, so kind nd extremely helpful

    • @tubby264
      @tubby264 Před 3 lety +13

      He's amazing!

    • @magpie_mischief
      @magpie_mischief Před 3 lety +6

      I was going to say the same thing. Hes really is the perfect person to make the bride feel special and beautiful. Hes a kind and beautiful soul.

    • @WickedHowl
      @WickedHowl Před 3 lety +5

      I remember him from another tv show back in the day, he is such a skilled professional and has the ability to make people feel good about themselves.

  • @misssunshine6200
    @misssunshine6200 Před 2 lety +3

    I've never cried watching one of these before. Stop it. Stopppp it. God bless you for ever and ever. What a beautiful woman. ❤️❤️ I have no words...
    Gok, you're a goddess of gentleness

  • @amnocturne
    @amnocturne Před rokem +5

    I remember Gok from some other show ages ago & I really loved him then. I am blown away by his tenderness here. He’s a truely gifted man, style-wise & in his heart.❤

  • @Anonicant
    @Anonicant Před 4 lety +5360

    "I can't stay this low forever." I'm going to carry those words with me.

    • @lucyedwards
      @lucyedwards Před 4 lety +97

      defo something I still live by even after we filmed xxx

    • @Anonicant
      @Anonicant Před 4 lety +72

      @@lucyedwards I have depression and some days are just hard to even live like a regular person. I'll be telling myself this on those hard days. You are an inspiring young women and I wish you all the best, fox in the snow.

    • @Dem0nD0ll
      @Dem0nD0ll Před 4 lety +18

      I suffer from depression as well... Please know you are not alone 💖

    • @feisamurai982
      @feisamurai982 Před 4 lety +6

      Fok Julie you aren’t either, sending hugs xx

    • @wendydayz6673
      @wendydayz6673 Před 4 lety +7

      I too suffer from depression. Major depression...once I felt like I was dieing inside, but I kept telling myself, " this cant last forever" that's what got me through and prayers.

  • @ADom0
    @ADom0 Před 3 lety +2903

    She is a CZcamsr, her channel is called Lucy Edwards. Just saying because most people know her from tiktok but she also has a CZcams channel!

    • @rachelssss6092
      @rachelssss6092 Před 3 lety +27

      And Instagram too ☺️

    • @avanipanji
      @avanipanji Před 3 lety +13

      I have been subscribed to her since 5 months lol

    • @carzia_speed2235
      @carzia_speed2235 Před 3 lety +17

      Yeah I knew her from CZcams I didn’t know she had a tik tok until recently

    • @ADom0
      @ADom0 Před 3 lety +1

      @@carzia_speed2235 same

    • @chacopaco407
      @chacopaco407 Před 3 lety +3

      I just found her yesterday! And now I'm binging all of her videos!! Lol

  • @hsbvt
    @hsbvt Před 2 lety +20

    "I finally feel confident..." Love it. I wish her many years of happiness! Gok, you gave her the moment she needed!

  • @rajanyasen1914
    @rajanyasen1914 Před 2 lety +12

    "I can't stay this low forever I have to accept myself" - that hit me

  • @jillians5792
    @jillians5792 Před 3 lety +1962

    Gok's face when she says "fox in the snow!"

    • @gillianmuspic2337
      @gillianmuspic2337 Před 2 lety +42

      and she really does look like a fox in the snow

    • @100samanthamarie
      @100samanthamarie Před 2 lety +50

      I cried when I say Gok’s expression… I think he was surprised with what he accomplished. I’d take a bullet for him any day. What a sweetheart. Ay que lindo 😭

  • @venusk777
    @venusk777 Před 3 lety +1289

    When she said "I'm a fox in the snow" I cried-

  • @pearlvongpusanachai5942
    @pearlvongpusanachai5942 Před 2 lety +8

    This is the most touching episode of any Say Yes to the Dress episodes ever. Gok, your compassion and professionalism is a testament to the fact that we can all let our divinity shine in our workplace. Love this, beautiful bride and dress, just as beautiful as Gok’s heart.❤️

  • @valerieabedell86
    @valerieabedell86 Před 2 lety +25

    Omg, I'm literally crying in how he is treating her. He is making it so special for her.

  • @riakun
    @riakun Před 4 lety +4939

    Bride: "I'm a fox in the snow"
    Me: *starts crying*

  • @honeypie1486
    @honeypie1486 Před 3 lety +3073

    Wait she’s that TikToker who says, “How does a blind girl....” right?!

  • @Sumia.Tageldein
    @Sumia.Tageldein Před 2 lety +16

    I just can't go without saying how much I'm completely fascinated by Gok's kindness, it is truly genuine and it always bring me to tears

  • @matsunochifuyu9695
    @matsunochifuyu9695 Před 2 lety +24

    I never knew lucy was on say yes to the dress (you learn something new everyday) 😂😂

  • @christensummers9641
    @christensummers9641 Před 3 lety +1963

    I wish more people were like him when it comes to helping people with disabilities. I’m disabled, and I get so many people who don’t know how to react with it. Some baby me, and try to do everything for me even though there are many things I can do myself. Others are rude af and act like if I can’t keep up with everyone else I don’t deserve to live. This man didn’t make her feel awkward about her disability by asking her a bunch of weird questions. He didn’t baby her or treat her like it didn’t matter what dress she had since she couldn’t see it anyways. He engaged her in the experience and let her come up with her own imagery of it, so she could feel in control and confident with it. He was simply her eyes for her, and explained it in a way she could visualize it, but let her control it all and decide how she felt about it. He also kept in mind that she would be more aware of textures so picking one with good textures was important. He did an excellent job and she looks absolutely stunning!

    • @purpleprincess4134
      @purpleprincess4134 Před 3 lety +47

      Am sorry on behalf of all the ill mannered people you have had to endure.
      And we learn to be better every day

    • @curious1366
      @curious1366 Před 3 lety +27

      I totally agree!
      On a scale of 1-10, Gok earned a million!

    • @kyandaila
      @kyandaila Před 2 lety +12

      same! i’m also disabled and have a service dog (not a guide dog ), so it made me happy to see this kind of representation! the only thing i didn’t appreciate in this episode was that gok pet the dog and they didn’t show her giving permission. but this was so good!!

    • @jaderamos3598
      @jaderamos3598 Před 2 lety +1

      yessss as another blind person, I looove how they handled it all with the textures aspect.

    • @christensummers9641
      @christensummers9641 Před 2 lety +7

      @@kyandaila I have a service dog as well! And yeah, hopefully they asked before shooting the video if they were allowed to. But otherwise it was great ❤️

  • @uberfrozenglow
    @uberfrozenglow Před 4 lety +2574

    Me: Why is everyone getting emotional with “I’m a fox in the snow”? Bride: “I’m a fox in the snow” Me: 😭

  • @knequestrian93
    @knequestrian93 Před 2 lety +8

    Two beautiful things happening here.. one is the bride aiming so low when it comes to budget and Mom quickly steps in and triples it. That's refreshing to me to watch.. how many times does the other way happen and usually it ends in tears and heartbreak.
    Second off, the bride period. She is just STUNNING. Doesn't expect everyone to do anything for her, just patiently waits. She feels her way around rather than see it, oh I could go on and on. My favorite bride ever

  • @starlesspaw
    @starlesspaw Před rokem +11

    my god four minutes in and i’m already crying this is an excellent ep and gok was so lovely helping her see herself more clearly in whatever way she wanted

  • @vp9885
    @vp9885 Před 3 lety +23652

    Wait a minute . She’s the girl that makes the “ how a blind girl ... “ tik toks right ? OMG !! I love her content!!

    • @Doridgolld101
      @Doridgolld101 Před 3 lety +1237

      Thank you! i thought she lookes familiar and i just couldnt place it. Yes i think she is.

    • @YesYes-vq2bo
      @YesYes-vq2bo Před 3 lety +278

      DoridGolld101 I was thinking the same thing!

    • @LoUiLabItCh93
      @LoUiLabItCh93 Před 3 lety +206

      This is has to be her!!!

    • @Liam-yw8bv
      @Liam-yw8bv Před 3 lety +157

      It is guys!! Omg I AM sohocked

    • @jaianderson3831
      @jaianderson3831 Před 3 lety +45

      Same

  • @fatimabatool4442
    @fatimabatool4442 Před 3 lety +1449

    This stylist is how I imagined 'Cinna' would be like, when I read "The Hunger Games" for the first time:
    An extremely talented fashionista and skilled stylist, unconventional, a secret rebel with a cause, and a man of integrity and character, with such a beautiful soul and healing effect with his words, actions and craft, that it seems as if he almost belongs to another world...
    And almost out of place in this 3D material world, full of shallowness and superficiality.
    How he made Katniss not only feel beautiful but also touched her soul in a way no one had ever done before.
    The dress he put her in, made her go like ...
    "I'm not pretty. I'm not beautiful. I'm radiant as the sun!". The Girl on Fire, he made her.
    And Gok made this (absolutely wonderful) girl:
    "I'm a fox in the snow"!!!.
    *Soulgasm*.
    *Speechless*
    ❄🔥

    • @synovia421
      @synovia421 Před 3 lety +47

      I agree 1000% that’s a perfect comparison

    • @ashfvt7712
      @ashfvt7712 Před 3 lety +10

      Oh yes...that so accurate

    • @Tarathathe77wookiee
      @Tarathathe77wookiee Před 3 lety +15

      Completely Agree! Gok is the REAL Cinna!!

    • @jjsstikbotvideos4421
      @jjsstikbotvideos4421 Před 3 lety +5

      omg, yes!!

    • @ellieg.9595
      @ellieg.9595 Před 3 lety +9

      God I need to reread that series. Nostalgia. I’ll do that after I finish reading A Dance with Dragons.

  • @sarahroberts7374
    @sarahroberts7374 Před rokem +2

    I'm crying 😭 been watching Lucy's CZcams channel for quite a long time can't believe I've never watched this. Lucy you looked stunning and I noticed how nowadays you are so much more confident! Gok was amazing here too so compassionate and genuine- I agree with another poster who says he really cares and has empathy for the women he is styling ❤

  • @susuhere6023
    @susuhere6023 Před 2 lety +6

    I think Gok gave her more than a dress that day.
    He gave her a new outlook on life that's going to stay with her forever❤
    God bless you Gok, you're one in a million💯

  • @mevrouwroos
    @mevrouwroos Před 5 lety +4405

    I should stop watching wedding dress videos when I'm hormonal. I cried when she said Fox in te snow. Such a stunning lady

    • @seasondiy429
      @seasondiy429 Před 4 lety +9

      Roos Rommens me too

    • @soumimajumder6076
      @soumimajumder6076 Před 4 lety +29

      same here...the term hormonal is so appropriate....I started crying just after seeing her beautiful smile...She is so lively and jolly even after seeing so much in such early stage of her life.

    • @claudiabarcelo1376
      @claudiabarcelo1376 Před 4 lety

      haha amen sister!

    • @rikkatk27
      @rikkatk27 Před 4 lety

      SAME. T_T

    • @zettiehjortshoj9387
      @zettiehjortshoj9387 Před 4 lety +2

      Me too 😭😂

  • @Cherieprice
    @Cherieprice Před 5 lety +2475

    Wow! When he told her she could control her vision my heart just fluttered! That was so kind and empowering, just beautiful.

    • @taraharrison8381
      @taraharrison8381 Před 4 lety +4

      Yes that so was! 😍

    • @sometimessnarky1642
      @sometimessnarky1642 Před 4 lety +6

      I must be a horrible person. I thought that was the worst line. To me It's like he's saying "it doesn't matter how it looks. You can't see it anyway so just imagine it the way you want."

    • @evaz.3399
      @evaz.3399 Před 4 lety +9

      Shannon King I understand you cause I’m super pessimistic but I think the way he say it also matter. Judging from Gok’s overall personality, it’s positive. If it’s coming from me it may not...

  • @kimberlypaniagua6411
    @kimberlypaniagua6411 Před 2 lety +4

    She is so beautiful! She also seems like such a sweet person. And he did an amazing job working with her. His idea of a fox in the snow was perfect!

  • @catzenhouse
    @catzenhouse Před rokem +4

    Gok - what a talent, what a heart. He is a treasure- so sensitive to the needs of his clients. Both he and his assistant hit this one out of the park for Lucy. Fantastic.

  • @luciafrau125
    @luciafrau125 Před 3 lety +376

    Oh wow he telling her that she can actually control her vision because it's in her head is such a beautiful way of thinking about blindness. It brought me to tears tbh..

    • @modipadikekana5919
      @modipadikekana5919 Před 3 lety +12

      It’s actually really powerful. It gives her control which is beautiful (crying)

    • @jennifer4464
      @jennifer4464 Před 3 lety +2

      I 💕 your horse

    • @luciafrau125
      @luciafrau125 Před 3 lety +1

      @@jennifer4464 thanks!! She is a little fat because she didn't loose her baby belly, but she is soooo good!

  • @tiny_fox_
    @tiny_fox_ Před 4 lety +2832

    Gok's smile when she cried about how she could control how it looks was so beautiful, I felt like she could feel him smiling

  • @yuko273
    @yuko273 Před 2 lety +23

    Ok, i'm crying. She's so beautiful and he was so considerate and helpful to her

  • @kryskross9199
    @kryskross9199 Před 2 lety +15

    This was the sweetest most wholesome episode of say yes to the dress, I’ve ever seen. The way he helped her envision everything, the way he gave her so much reassurance and confidence was just… wonderful. I can’t even put into words how beautiful she and this episode was. 💜

  • @deadperson5237
    @deadperson5237 Před 3 lety +808

    I respect the boyfriend that stayed with her and even decided to propose! It shows he truly loves her. Sometimes there are people who will walk right out the door when his girlfriend becomes blind and don't want to give them a chance. I am not trying to say she is a burden, but he might have not wanted to try and see that she was not.

    • @tab4account128
      @tab4account128 Před 3 lety +66

      You cant exactly call them scum becuz i mean being with a blind person might make a lot of things harder so yeah but her bf is a real one since he didnt leave her

    • @janewick509
      @janewick509 Před 3 lety +2

      😢😢😢

    • @tab4account128
      @tab4account128 Před 3 lety +7

      @ThatRandomLady like i said it still in a way does not make them scum

    • @tab4account128
      @tab4account128 Před 3 lety +11

      @ThatRandomLady maybe you are right i have never been in a relationship and am too young so i wouldnt know

    • @dexa6623
      @dexa6623 Před 3 lety +45

      I understand that this was said with positive intention, bur please don't praise partners, parents, and guardians for staying with/ taking care of their partner/child -despite- their disability.
      Praising someone for coping with their partners disability is very backhanded for disabled people, even if you don't mean it in that way.
      It implies that our disabilities mean we're less worthy of love and affection, and that we are a burden to our loved ones.

  • @sbshams8947
    @sbshams8947 Před 2 lety +1581

    Lucy has a CZcams channel!!! She shows how blind people can do a lot of things!!

    • @rowenasankar
      @rowenasankar Před 2 lety +11

      What is the name

    • @CsherryPie
      @CsherryPie Před 2 lety +42

      @@rowenasankar Lucy Edwards

    • @gracie3176
      @gracie3176 Před 2 lety +28

      AND TIKTOK

    • @odditynix
      @odditynix Před 2 lety +54

      I thought that was the same girl!!! I was like “there’s no way she just looks like her”

    • @jhollybee3946
      @jhollybee3946 Před 2 lety +5

      She’s so wonderful, I love watching her videos. 💛

  • @cgarcia3614
    @cgarcia3614 Před 2 lety +14

    She looks STUNNING in that dress. So cute, it was perfect for her.

  • @Sneg404
    @Sneg404 Před rokem +6

    Gok is a soul healer. For every bride he does something amazing, it`s so heart warming.

  • @cutex24
    @cutex24 Před 3 lety +1056

    don't we all wish we had a little Gok on our shoulder to give us that bit of self-esteem?

  • @merryland7569
    @merryland7569 Před 3 lety +1201

    The moment Gok started letting her feel the dress and explain it to her in the best way possible.. I knew his heart was gold
    Haven't seen anyone do this job better

  • @brecruz4832
    @brecruz4832 Před 2 lety +2

    Gok did an amazing job with this lovely girl! Well done. And you could see the tears of pleasure in his eyes at the end! They will never forget this story!

  • @siene1518
    @siene1518 Před 2 lety +25

    This was absolutely beautiful!
    Not only the way they talked and behaved but also the way it was shot. Lots of closeups of the texture of the lace and the gathered fabric, flowy silky-smooth lengths of fabric. It really made it more about the feel of the dress rather then the actual look and it worked so well.

  • @gabrielasz94
    @gabrielasz94 Před 3 lety +408

    Gok is so wonderful. The way he flipped the perspective for Lucy and made her realize that she could actually be in charge of the experience ...That was so powerful. I've got a physical disability myself, and I can only imagine how much that must have meant for her. What a beautiful man. I'd love to meet him one day.

  • @professionalcommenter
    @professionalcommenter Před 5 lety +2165

    I teared up at this one, it really touched my feelers. Gok is very intuitive and that is what makes him so good at this. Those who seek to bring comfort to others, feel the most pain inside.

    • @teodoravujic4265
      @teodoravujic4265 Před 5 lety +14

      Professional Commenter You are really a Professional commenter!

  • @kat4691
    @kat4691 Před 2 lety +11

    Whenever I'm running low on motivation, i watch this episode again.

  • @beccalynn917
    @beccalynn917 Před 2 lety +4

    Gok just gave her a gift so far beyond the perfect wedding dress. I have a disability myself and for someone to so completely empower you & show you a new way to basically perceive things is valuable beyond measure. She was so stylish and put together when she walked in so she obviously has wonderful people around her. I hope she lives the rest of her life knowing how beautiful she is. She is the sparkle ✨

  • @qwandary
    @qwandary Před 3 lety +1375

    Gok handled blindness so so well in this, both in terms of trying to make sure she's safe in the shop to just helping craft and shape the narrative, and making her feel empowered, beautiful and special.
    As someone who has to deal with transient blindness, I just think this was amazing. I can't speak for what it's like to be blind long term, but I know how much this would help me during my episodes of blindness.

  • @jannelledear2645
    @jannelledear2645 Před 5 lety +1723

    Gok is a treasure. We need to protect him at all costs! What he did for this bride! What a kind soul.

  • @vanessahinds8320
    @vanessahinds8320 Před rokem +2

    This has to be my favorite SYTTD Fitting ever!!!! What a stunningly lovely bride and Gok was truly an Angel helping her “see” her dress!

  • @marybaker8582
    @marybaker8582 Před 2 lety +9

    This is my all time favorite “Gok” episode. It shows his caring, his ability to connect with a bride and her vision, and how he is able to make that vision come to life.

  • @yvettejones5323
    @yvettejones5323 Před 3 lety +698

    The way he is helping her to "see" her dress is so sweet and tender. Everyone needs someone like Gok or Gok himself helping them pick their wedding dress.

  • @murkbrew
    @murkbrew Před 4 lety +1446

    It’s so crazy how less expensive this boutique’s dresses are compared to the ones in America

    • @martaleszkiewicz5115
      @martaleszkiewicz5115 Před 4 lety +116

      The prices in America for bridal dresses and other wedding-related goods and services are crazy inflated.

    • @moniquebell8191
      @moniquebell8191 Před 4 lety +58

      Yeah, the pound is worth much more than the dollar (at least it was before brexit and a few other issues which lowered the pound's value to closer to the dollar). the dollar in America has been inflated and continues to inflate with minimum wage rising and prices rising in response to minimum wage rising :/

    • @MsFreekazoid
      @MsFreekazoid Před 3 lety +21

      Monique Bell then why does Australia have a livable minimum wage but our dollar is worth shit all to the USD 😂

    • @rimasappington6217
      @rimasappington6217 Před 3 lety +14

      You have to remember it’s in pounds not dollars.

    • @awhellyeah12
      @awhellyeah12 Před 3 lety +12

      Because America is greedy

  • @bakgametsimack3131
    @bakgametsimack3131 Před 2 lety +6

    Her giggle 4:07 is everything, I replayed it couple of time. Its so genuine and child like.

  • @fortheteen
    @fortheteen Před 2 lety +5

    I only watched like 6 shows with Gok and he made me just admire and adore him so much. I would pay so much to just have a private fitting with him. He's just, a blessing.

  • @mandiekins316
    @mandiekins316 Před 4 lety +1253

    Wow. He just changed her entire perspective of her blindness by allowing herself to make her own story the way she envisions it!! That’s super powerful, what a great experience for her ❤️

  • @kaiyajones5555
    @kaiyajones5555 Před 4 lety +1602

    Lucy: I'm a fox in the snow
    Me: starts crying immediately

    • @lungimasiza9987
      @lungimasiza9987 Před 4 lety +2

      Kaiya Jones same 😭😭😭😭

    • @lucyburr5516
      @lucyburr5516 Před 3 lety +2

      Yes, ladies, we all are.

    • @shuchi003
      @shuchi003 Před 3 lety

      Thank you for saying that because I thought it's because I am on my periods.

    • @angelaa.4501
      @angelaa.4501 Před 3 lety

      We all did 😭😭😭

  • @karengummer6657
    @karengummer6657 Před 2 lety +9

    Goks' imagery was spot on and made her feel beautiful. 💕 He's not just a dresser. He is amazing.

  • @georganna7200
    @georganna7200 Před rokem +3

    This really touched my heart. He gave her a vision with his words. He made her a bride.

  • @rosmund100
    @rosmund100 Před 3 lety +634

    4:58 “thank you for making me feel good about myself, and I don’t usually” That made me tear up 😢