Mother-in-Law Wants to Wear White to Wedding
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- čas přidán 2. 04. 2018
- The ladies have varying opinions on this wedding day dilemma for a bride whose mother-in-law wants to wear white to her wedding.
What would you do if someone wore white to your wedding? Tell us in the comments!
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If any of those bridesmaids are a true friend, they'll spill their morning coffee on the front of the mother-in-law's white dress. Problem solved!
blackcdnguy 😂😂😂 savage at its best
blackcdnguy - Or red wine! Oops 😆
Hahahaha I love it , that's real friendship.
#truth #bestfriendsrule
ha ha ha ...love i it
The groom needs to get his mother in check
Madison McDougal - Yep! If he doesn’t NOW, he won’t when it REALLLLLLY counts. Like child raising 🤦🏻♀️
Madison McDougal: The groom can't "get the mother in check" because his mother is the lady who raised him well enough to marry the bride. Bride wouldn't be marring her son had it not been for the mother you think he needs to check. Here's some inside info newly married husband's don't tell their wives. MOTHER'S are still the number 1 lady in his life until they've been married about 5 years. Men live in the moment and they don't know if they'll be married 2-3 years later. Men (these days) don't expect to be married to the same woman FOREVER, that's fantasy comes from women. New husband's don't toss their mothers to the side for uncertainties.
Estella Butler Let me guess, your a monster in law.. i mean mother in law yourself? You seem to have some really odd views surrounding marriage. Marriage is supposed to be holy and last a lifetime. Both men and women think this way, which is why most men wait so long to propose because they want to be certain in their choice. So if they want to marry a woman it means they see it for LIFE and plan on making their own family with this woman. You spouse and children come first once you are married, your parents second. Sorry to break it to you.
Alyssa: Don't be "sorry", be a REAList instead. Marriages are supposed to be HOLY and last a lifetime, but the REALness is MOST marriages these days don't. Couples get married in church, but God is no where to be found in them or marriages they put together. Men will shack up and ride your booty until it falls off before he get married because truth is they don't want to be tied down and accountable to one woman. It's not because they're waiting for the "right" woman. Marriage to women mean Love. Marriage to men is Free Booty, Home Cooked Meals, Free Booty, He has an emotional pillow, Free Booty, 24 Hour maid service and Free Booty.
By the way, spouse and children aren't first in a marriage. God comes first.
Estella Butler There’s plenty of places a man can get “free booty” these days so to a certain degree it’s outrageous to think that’s the reason most men get married today. At the end of the day though this man has made a promise to this woman that they’ll spend their lives together and if he can’t handle telling his mother to wear a different color he won’t be able to handle any other marital issues.
They start bad already. It's clear that mom in law is asking for it.
Don't wear anything white or close to white to my wedding. Rude as hell
Why? Because society tells u so? If u actually think about it, why is it rude to you? We all gon know who the bride is regardless
SupernaturalLove100 Yes the tradition is silly but it’s the principle. It’s odd the MIL announced she’s wearing white....sounds like it’s coming from a place of malice and she’s just trying to ruffle the brides feathers.
But if you were a tux and your shirt is white can somebody do that?
I actually didn’t this was a thing so ...
cartoon freak yes that's fine. It's more about wearing an all white dress and possibly upstaging the bride
Depends on the culture. Asian/ Arab (edit: and African of course!) weddings you can wear almost any colour, it's still gonna be hard to upstage the bride because our dresses are blinged out to the max! You'll _KNOW_ who the bride is!!
jami s ..deff agree with you depends on the culture bc albanians too same thing the dresses the wedding gowns I shoukd say are the most amazing gowns ever ...
I personally think an all white wedding is stunningly gorgeous
jami s yes, same as African culture.
in Afghan culture, the bride wears more than 3 different dresses.. lol
YESSS tell'em ! In arab wedding we're supposed to change 7 times and our dresses especially moroccan dresses are blinged to the max as you said lol I feel like south asians and arabs have a lot of similarities in both cultures !
I agree with Adrienne! And she didn’t change her opinion she said the same thing at the end omg
Which version of Adrienne do you agree with?😂
At the end Adrienne said the mother inlaw could wear whatever she wants if she paid for the we wedding.
I agree with her too she didnt switch up lol she was giving advice since the bride was so bothered n then she gave her personal opinion if it were her
Liliana Betancourt she did switch. "Everyone knows the rule is only the bride wears white", then said it shouldn't be a big deal...wtf?
Tanisha W that is the rule lol but she says PERSONALLY she doesnt think its a big deal..again, shes giving advice and understands why the bride to be feels some type of way
It is not about the color of the dress, it is about a lack of boundaries. Something about that just seems off. I would tell the future bride to have a conversation with her mother in law about it because you don't want any issues coming up down the line. Seems like the mother-in-law is not comfortable with no longer coming first in her son's life.
THIS! Adrienne is right, this woman doesn't care about her daughter in law. Tell her the truth.
Hahahaha so true. If the mother in law is acting like this for the wedding, better get things straight so she knows where she stands for the rest of the marriage
i feel like this was too deep lol yall dont evem know the lady
HOW? Listen people if the bridesmaid didnt state it on her invations that she doesnt want anyone wearing white they you can wear whatever colour you want. like say you gonna look the same anyway
Exactly
Adrienne changed her entire POV as soon as the other girls said theirs....annoying. I agreed with Adrienne at first too!
Haha true! I noticed that!
TheElsaAlvarado She tends to do that though lol 😂
TheElsaAlvarado I agree! Even if all the girls have a different opinion to her she should still stick to her true feelings because at least she’d be respected for knowing her own mind. Right or wrong 🤷🏽♀️
I thought I was the only one that peeped that 😂
yes no sense of mind
Adrienne lowkey does care lol she only shifted her opinion when the others disagreed with her. Im in two minds tho I always did think like adrienne that youre not supposed to wear white (an unwritten rule) because that is obviously the brides colour but at the same time you should be allowed to wear what you want given that is not an over the top outfit which looks like you are trying to overshine the bride. Having said that given that this is the mother in law and not a regular guest, she should know better and let the bride have her shine.
Tianna Miller I was just about to comment this...Adrienne always needs validation to have an opinion of her own.
Adrienne didn't change her point of view she was giving advice based on the question. The other girls put too much of their own opinion into it.
Tianna Miller 😂 I just said this before I got to ur comment 😂
Tianna Miller I
Chico Jude she low-key did when she was telling Loni its not a regular thursday with the eye roll, then stated the bride was getting married for the wrong reasons if she was worried about a dress colour. Come on nah.
nah, I dont care what theyre saying... NO ONE IS WEARING WHITE AT MY WEDDING BUT ME.
Same!
You will be surprised though!!! My mother in law AND 3 of my nieces all wore white!!! Not done out of spite or malice. They just didn't know.. from the Philippines. But believe me, when you are in your moment and just married your true love and beaming with joy, their dresses are the LAST thing you will care about.
You people are so stupid. It a color of a dress. Weddings are made up by society and not by God Almighty! The person probably couldn't afford to buy something else
It's stupid to get mad about a white dress. The white dress was made up by society. And was ment for purity! If the girl isnt a virgin then she shouldn't wear a white dress. Marriage license was created a business! All this drama over a made up tradition that has nothing to do with God Almighty
@She’s so Lucky O Lord it's not that serious! Weddings are like Christmas tradition made up for profit. Its 2019 everyone knows that Jesus was born in the springs time and even pastors are telling the truth. People just don't care! Females just want to waste a lot of money on napkins, flowers that will die in 2 days, a dress they will only wear once, and expensive cake just off. Thank God I have a father, mother and 5 brothers to teach me the truth
Adrienne switched up because everybody was like it’s not that big of a deal
mkhui ogrgingid she always does that she doesn't stay solid in everything LOL
Or she changed her mind
well i attended a wedding and a guest was wearing her wedding dress.....i felt sooo embarassed for that attention seeker....and sooo sorry for the actual bride..
Jeez, I don't think I'd kick someone out for wearing whit but the dress itself? NAH. out.
Okay what is the story behind that? Lol did you find out why she did that?
Bad Teacher 01 hmm spill the tea 🍵
Commenting cause I want the full story lol
Yes, I want to know as well lol
If you really feel some typa way then say something! If you don't want or want something, then speak up or forever hold your peace. With that being said, I'm with Jeannie. I don't care if someone else wears white to my wedding. I'm still gonna look the best.
I feel this show is starting to get stale, and predictable. Adrienne be in her feelings, Tamera always agrees with A, Jeannie has an alternate opinion , followed by Loni's punchline that has nothing to do with the question.
Ali Amer: Yep, nailed it 100%
They need Tamar back in my opinion.
Omg that was spot on
Taylor McFrazier girl shut up she’s dead and buried get over it
Taylor McFrazier oh not at all. she would have ruined that show if she stayed.
Adrienne, have an opinion and stick by it
Maria Belayadi exactly
🐸☕️yup
have you noticed that when all the girls said it doesnt bother them she quickly changed her opinion and the beginning she was against it. adrienne is so fake im done get rid of her plz
Gurl A-men!
Maria Belayadi seriously.
First of all- like Adrienne said before she back-pedalled, it's not just an average thursday, or a dinner party or whatever, it's her wedding day! Possibly her only wedding day. The future mother-in-law is acting obnoxious
Secondly- the vast majority of wedding dresses these days are actually off-white or ivory, so yeah I'd have a huge issue with anyone else wearing anything within the shade palette. Like, nah boo don't even wear beige
Thirdly- if the future mother in law is paying for all or part of the wedding, then I think she can afford to buy a different coloured dress
Keyla Pacheco yesss
Adrienne definitely shifted lol.
shes fake girl how can you switch your opinion in a couple of seconds because no one else agreed with you
ayesha t she is the youngest so im guessing they made her feel immature again, so she had to rephrase it real quick.
nah you dont have to make excuses she's been guilty of this for a lot of episodes now i watch the real every since it came out lol she's fake they need to get rid of her
Ive seen her switch up alot, i find that she always tries to say what she thinks the audience will clap for. No excuses though i just think her maturity is on a different level.
well she aint being real if she tells us what she thinks we wanna hear then saying what your opinion is, i hardly tune in the show now cause of her she just ruins it
My mother-in-law showed up in a off white dress, and honestly I didn't even notice until we were looking at our wedding photos. I was to busy marrying the man of my dreams and celebrating the happiest day of my life. People were to busy celebrating us and complimenting how we looked that no one else noticed either. Married Aug 12th, 2017 to my high school sweetheart of 7 years
Love the video ☺️ Sometimes it’s hard to confront someone’s mom! His mom would probably get offended.
True, but then the mom shouldn't go out of her way to offend her. She should've had the convo with the bride and asked her how she would feel about it. This clearly didn't happen or she wouldn't be asking advice out here. There should be mutual respect.
Cathleen G but again we don't know what type of person she is like tamera said she probably was a nice woman and just didn't have anything else to wear and she saw that one dress that made her feel pretty plus its off white I guess?(just saying)
If it’s going to continue to bother the bride, then she should address the issue with the mother in law. Otherwise, that tension could resurface stronger in the future during another conflict.
Prettygirlcn5 exactly ! For the years to come she would always bring that up in any argument. So adrienne is right, she has to adress it
Prettygirlcn5 TRUE
The white dress tradition was created meaning purity. The bride suppose to be a virgin.
"we all know only the bride should wear white" "it a known thing" "it's rude".... THEN they go on to say the bride is being extra for being upset about it. Huh?, 🤔
Tanisha W Until I saw this clip I didn't know that this was an unwritten rule for the guests.
There are so many colors in the world . Why do you want to wear white on my wedding day? Tell her it bothers you!
white is a classy colour plus is off white it aint a big deal
ayesha t I agree. My concern is why is the bride focused on her what her future mother in law is wearing to the wedding instead of focusing on the man she is about to marry.
I almost wore cream/off white to a friend’s wedding. I was really young and hadn’t really been to many or any weddings before. And she was much older than me. I just so happened to send her a pic of what I planned to wear. She was kind enough to let me know it was not okay. I honestly didn’t know better and I feel terrible and completely embarrassed that she had to tell. I truly didn’t know, but I am glad she told me!
This is why I just pay for everything my damn self. I hate that people think just cause they helped pay for an experience that's supposed to be your's and YOUR'S ONLY, they now have the right to do whatever it is they want and they can walk all over your special moment/day. No thank you. I'll pay by my damn self thank you very much.
and thats on period
Adrienne I love you and everything but don’t come in here acting like you’d be fine with it. You wouldn’t. And you said it at the beginning before the other girls were “cool” with it. I get it that the bride will outshine either way but Adrienne you’re allowed to have your opinion lmaoooo don’t be changing it because of the other girls. I’m just saying. 😒☕️
adrienne is fake af im done with her she is just contradicting herself. hope they get rid of her and bring someone new in
I dont think the mother in law should wear white, I mean she Has so many other colors to choose From, why white on her day? Even the fact that she chose "off white" already suggests that she knows that It could upset the bride, just choose another color and let the couple have their moment 😂😊😊
Traditional white dress ment for purity! The bride has to be a virgin.
I agreed with Adrienne, before she started back peddling. It just something you don’t do. It’s the same with wearing red. Unless you’re a bridesmaid and that’s the colour the bride picked I don’t think women should show up in an “off white/white” dress or a red dress. Or a short skirt/mini dress for that matter. It’s supposed to be a respectable occasion and it’s not about you as a guest. It’s about the bride and groom.
Flutterby 84 wait I never heard this rule about red your not supposed to wear red to a wedding either?
nordette well I wouldn’t. A women attended my friends wedding in a tight red dress and it was heavily frowned upon by a lot of people. Talking about her took the attention away from the bride and the couple in general which was a shame. I’m in England though not sure what it’s like in other countries?
But that's probably the only thing they had to wear
nordette in desi cultures (Indian, Pakistani, Bengali) the bride wears red so don’t wear red
There is no rule about red bridezilla, where did you get that from
I'm dissapointed that Ade changed her opinion because i agree with her.If you decide to wear white at my wedding its gonna feel to me like you are being disrespectful
This shouldnt even be a discussion. The bride needs to tell her mother in law how she feels instead of taking it to social media
People need to learn how to have a back bone.
Loni and jeannie dont care because they both didnt wear a traditional dress. Well jeannie dress was blue and loni got married in a tshirt if i am correct. So of course they dont care. I actually think that this bride should adress it because even its not that big of a deal ( for us) , it can become one in the future if the bride feels upstaged or shaded by her in law.
literally is just stupid so your saying they cant speak on it because they didnt wear a traditional white dress, it doesnt matter if someone wears white to a wedding they wont be looking like the bridesmaid. honestly is just a stupid topic to get into an argument with before the wedding is just negative vibes
ayesha t did i say they cant speak on or did I say of course they dont care? Reading in fundamental lol
dont trip if you cant read what im saying to you lol you said they dont care im saying is so because they dont care they cant speak on it???
ayesha t i read you girl, literally unlike you. You are the one looking for another meaning behind a simple combination of words. They don't care about traditional weddings dress etiquette. That doesn't disqualify them to have an opinion. You can not care about sthg and still have an opinion on it, those are two completely different things that can coexist, having no interest on sthg but a POV on it. Geez
The traditiona behind the white dress mean purity. Its ment for a virgin. Society made this tradition up! It has nothing to do with God
I love Adrienne’s hair so much LOVE THE CURLS
The mother in law definitely knows the unwritten rule...I would speak to her
Adrienne is flip flopping af
She didn't at all. She said if the bride was bothered she should confront her mother in law, but that PERSONALLY it wouldn't bother her. Nowhere in here did she flip her opinion.
Uhmmaah....who made these rules?? I don't care what color you wear just dont come in a wedding gown🤣🤣
exactly like say you gonna look the same, people are dumb doesnt matter what they wear they aint gonna look like you in a wedding dress
It depends on how the bride and groom want their wedding to be
I just love Adriene's curly hair!!
I live in England and I never knew you aren’t supposed to wear white to somebody else’s wedding🤷🏼♀️😂
Calista Hennessey I live in the USA and I didn't know this either.
Feeling some way about your mother in law wearing a white dress does not mean shes not ready to get married. Adrienne and Jeanie are dumb as hell for agreeing about that. Its HER day and if she doesnt want someone wearing the same thing as she does, she has the right to feel that way .. that has nothing to do with the actual commitment she is making to her husband
I do agree with Jeannie that she might not be ready for marriage. If she cannot handle or overlook that white gown issue, she can't handle much bigger issues throughout her marriage. Marriage isn't a paradise. When someone is more concerned over a wedding than a marriage, it's not a good sign. A wedding is for one day. Marriage is a lifetime (unless divorced of course).
That has nothing to do with the actual marriage though. Since when does the fact that the bride does not want to have the same color dress on her wedding day as her mother in law have anything to do with the commitment shes making with her husband. Please explain. Ya'll are really reaching to try to compare a dress color difference to a commitment like marriage
DeeDanielle - we don't know the whole story, so we don't even know what the bride ended up doing. If she ever spoke up or ignored it or told her future husband to speak to his mom. I can understand that she feels some type of way about it. I do not blame her for disliking someone wearing white other than herself. However, I do believe how she copes or handle this situation would reflect on her personality and how she will be in other situations that may happen throughout her marriage. What I'm trying to say is that it does matter how she handles the situation. For example, did she lash out or give her fiance an ultimatum to get him to do something about it? Some people throw a fit and become all dramatic. Another example is, if a person doesn't handle stress well in general, it affects in both work and personal life. How we deal with situations is a reflection of our personality and yes that does affect relationships/marriage.
jyn88 I with you.
jyn88 Amen
WHAT!!!!!!!!!
I’m sorry no. That MIL is tryingggggggg it!
At this time, I miss Tamar! She would’ve told it how it is!
RIVERTHOUGHTS SAMEEE
Yall are on point
fiance needs to check his mother if this happens. i would say something too
My aunt wore White and i didnt care, literally. Im with jeannie 👍
Cristina G. my aunt wore white at my wedding, too. I didn’t care, it wasn’t comparable to a wedding dress. The attention is still on the bride 🤷🏽♀️
Cristina G. Same lol its not a big deal to me either. I know I'm going to stand out regardless.
Me too! I’m with Jeannie.
Lol I read it as "my aunt whore white"
Ot depends on the dress if it's a full lenght gown I wouldn't feel comfortable with someone wearing it at my wedding
Jeanie is so confident I love it
Tam's hair looks BOMB! i LOVE IT!!
She's not going to upstage her, but her mother in law is extraa
I thought what Jeannie thought before she said it. I don't care what everyone else is wearing. I'm gonna look GOOD and I will not be thinking about you! This is why I'm planning on going to the courthouse. No drama for me.
I agree with Tamera, it depends on who the person is and if she thought she looked really good wearing the dress.
Even though I love Adrienne I think its wrong of her to say that someone isnt getting married for the right reasons just because they dont want someone else to wear white, because people care about a big moment in their life, they want the meals to be great, they want the venue to be perfect and its okay for them to want their guests not wear white.
It’s the principle and the mom needs to be checked.
These type of things will determine the standard of what your relationship will be
madmann1000 true
I agree with Adrienne.
she had two different opinions here so what do you agree with or are just as confused as her...smh
Lonni's jacket is to much and I love it!
Jeannie's hair is looking so fresh! I love the cut and color
Tamar: Lies!! You tried it...Get your life!! I miss her!!!
Nimue Estelle yessssss I miss Tamar too
I agree with Adrienne completely!!!! & LONI looks AMAZING!!! Edit: Okay, wait...now Adrienne is changing her stance...I'm confused. Ugh. Nevermind. I agree with what she said in the beginning.
Adrienne's hair looks beautiful!
Girl, Adrienne you know you DO CARE. That’s why your taking it to heart. 🤦🏻♀️
I’ve never heard of this “don’t wear white to someone else’s wedding” thing.
ebie I think it’s one of those unspoken rules lol. Maybe
Adrienne had 2 different opinions here... which ones the real one Adrienne??
ilikemonkeys the first one since she spoke first without them changing her opinion lmaoo
I agree with love. You go ahead and change up that Color and bam you good to go.
Nice work
Ugh can tell she's marrying a mama's boy
Adrienne needs to chill with the perfect wife vibe. Everyone knows what wedding etiquette is, MIL is kinda asking for it. No one is saying she should throw a full bridezzilla tantrum but she should definitely keep an eye out for MIL.
I am in love with Loni’s outfit. 😍
The people in my family need each other
2 for 1 special 😂😂
Jeannine Lewis was funny , but she no she lying !
Accidentally spill a dark colored drink on her 😎
Adrienne hit that perfectly
i would talk to my husband to talk to his mother and if she doesn't change it........ oh well
Itsyourgirl zee all well u would still b mad if she didn't change it n respect how u felt ...
hebrew queen I meant if she doesn't change it, oh well I WILL CONFRONT HER.
loni has been having such a hater look. I seriously cannot stand it anymore. Tamar left and she thinks it's okay for her to always have that look. ugh
@Lonnie Love, you look gorgeous. Love your outfit, makeup, hair etc.
Adrienne's hair looks so pretty today.
When my brother got married in 2016 there were no problems when it came to the dress code. My mom wore a light green dress it was gorgeous and she wanted to have a good relationship with my brother's wife. Sadly she died a month and a half after the wedding
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All the host look so cute today . But that shirt Loni have on I love it 😍😍😍😍😍😍, Tam's hair is looking so beautiful
I love jeannis hair❤️❤️ she looks so beautiful it suits her!
I had a guest wear white, had no clue until I was going around saying hello and thanking people for coming. It's such a minor detail. If this woman is getting this worked up about it, then there is more going on in the relationship that we aren't being told. Power struggle!
No, idc what they said. Dont wear white to my wedding. If you do you can leave. Call me crazy but Sorry not sorry lol
It's about respect
Tamera looks so cute! Hair and outfit! Too cute!
Get your partner to talk to her. She’s their mother, and it would be better coming from them. She really has an issue she can stay home. #sorrynotsorry
it aint that deep barely even married the guy its a small thing could make stuff worse it just pathetic i agree with jeannnie if your on point you dont care about what others wear/what colour
ayesha t it's about boundaries. Everyone knows white is the bride's colour and its her day. The mother in law DEFINITELY knows that rule. Therefore she's only doing this to be intentionally provocative and almost try to compete with the bride's new place in her sons life by wearing the bride's colour. She's probably one of those mothers that is ridiculously close to her son, has no husband and doesn't want to accept she's no longer the number one woman in his life. Plenty of mothers have that issue.
Any Habesha here, where all the guests in a wedding is kinda wearing white
LMAOOOOO YES every tifli and zuriya lol
So true, i forgot about that and im habesha too lol...everyone is literally wearing white, but it doesn't take attention from the couple.
And I wouldn't want it any other way 🙌🏾
OMG SO TRUE. but everyone knows who the couple is. THEY POP!
Facts!! But you know work the bride is.
I really love Tamera’s hair in this segment
I agree with Tamera ... 100%
Am I the only one that noticed that this clip is old?
adrienne and lonis nose contour always looks horrible please get new makeup artists like its annoying af how can a professional mua not know how to nose contour?????
Yeah Loni I was about to say same, I will wear blue or something and when you ask me, I would tell you to ask the mother...
I agree with Jeannie. It’s my wedding day, I’m gonna be the star regardless!
I agree with Jeannie❤️❤️💜💜
Lmfao loni "what if the mother n law is paying for the wedding" 😆😆😆😆😆
Adrienne is soooo beautiful but i am not feeling the extra bright under eye concealer 😒
LOL @ Adrienne and Tamera is so sweet :-)
Adrienne face in the thumbnail is my reaction.
Adrienne....you went on and on and on when talking about someone in a bridal party having a new tattoo. You said you cared...a lot!
I never knew that and I wore an off-white gown to my first wedding I attended as an adult (20). Lol I learned that lesson the hard way
when Adrienne changes her mind 😂😂 chile
Tamera, what shirt are you wearing? Where can I find. I loooove.
oh wow,ok adrienne,lol i couldnt even finish the video
I agree with Jeannie. That isn't stopping my shine... at all. Do u boo. No worries on my end.
loni i love your outfit.
Tamara is always so classy.