I have been the one to approach the men that fascinate me! Ladies, why wait. Sometimes men like a bold forthright woman. If you like someone, tell him! Just saying - you have nothing to lose! Good luck
Well said Lily flowers, something makes me feel women who lack the confidence to approach are the same type that think man must by all means provide for a woman.
I think this is only an illusion... I'd advise you conduct actual statistics and follow through to be sure your assertion is consistent after a while. Because even though we find it fascinating at first, it, more often than not, doesn't go beyond that. I'm not generalizing but there is something about men that wants to do the hardwork of "chasing". I like your courage when you come but I feel fulfilled when I go for and eventually get the one who seemed too hard for me to get. You get?
@@solarspeaks5452 women will take advantage of you if you like chasing them bro. The ones that can approach are the ones that mostly bring something to the table as well. Keep chasing bro and Goodluck on getting them after going through he'll and fire lol.
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf.............
For me it's the way you mix professionalism with really insightful knowledge in your area of expertise. Learnt so much watching your videos. Thank you. You are an excellent brand. I promise.
My girl actually told me to ask her out. That was years earlier. I did three years later and we're 2 years into the relationship - she's now my fiancée. 🥰🥰🥰
I like this style of straight talk by Jessica. I just want to say I asked for a number after a dance class and she deflected the question so I took it as no. 6 Months later we are joking and I reminded her how she never gave her number. She replied she can't remember and gave me her number . Bottom line Guys - dont try to figure out the right and wrong because the woman doesnt know herself so you are 100% safe.
Hi Jess I am in my early 60's and you may not believe that I am learning things from you,I was married for 20 years my wife passed away 6 years ago and I find it very difficult to approach women I really don't know what to say to most women I meet because they are always younger than my self but after listening to some of your advice I think I am getting there. By the way your English and accent is very good,I will continue listening to your other videos. Once again thank you from the Caribbean.
I understand being present and having awareness of another person. What i am not, is telepathic. Good communication (verbal) must be conducted by both individuals.
I’ve followed on many of your videos. They are very educative, informative and interesting. It’s the first time I’ve heard from a woman’s perspective. Kudos to you. Thank you for sharing
OK--my thoughts!! 1) If you don't tell me--how can I know and how can I use this awareness to give you greater happiness? I'm not a mind-reader--I like people (men, women, and children) who speak their minds and are direct. If you play bullshit mind games I don't want any part of you, period!! 2) How about the things we men want YOU to do? If it's not a two-way street 50/50 keep stepping. I truly love women who communicate honestly every moment--not mind-game bullshitters!!
Women are so hard wired not to take initiative of approaching men and always are living in the fancy notion that men should chase them that they have completely forgotten to atleast take a first step, let alone making a move. They need not be brazen but why not do it subtly? Men do love it.
@ F J - Looks like you have joined a fairly large club. This young lady even ADMITS how the "games" are endless and unavoidable . . .there are STILL guys who want to put up with this . . . . subtle ques . . .?
I feel comfortable listening to you and the points you give to us. I've listened to a lot of people advising about how to treat a lady but some I didn't sit too well with. Thank you for these videos. It has been very educating for me as a young man. Thank you very much.🙇 🙇 🙇
Stop sim...ng! You are among the ego booster of the modern woman! Really, just be relaxed and even if she isn't attracted to you as you are she will be flattered, text book ego booster, free validation with nothing in return for you. Listen but don't follow advices from a woman on how to approach a woman, straight women don't have to approach or date women they wouldn't know. And they are just delusional anyway most of the time.
One thing about Jess' advice is that it doesn't serve to please just the women. I notice that a lot of female relationship advicers tend to say things that serve the interests of the ladies but Jess balances things up from a realistic POV and from the man's beneficial angles
Yes Jessica all that you say in your video's are speaking to me. You are the very best at what you do for us men out here in this world. Iam ever so grateful I started to follow your video's Love from Kevin xxx
The suttles cues are borderline disrespectful mostimes and the welcoming cues are so confusing you miss them completely...I'd take a text or phone call "sorry you seem nice but this is not working" anyday over....driving 40 mins through rush hour over the GWB toll, gas, parking just to meet up over brunch to SIT there and WATCH her talk on the phone with coworkers for 30 mins on her day off 🤣 the Joy's of modern dating...🤦🏾♂️ love it!!!
“Hey ! how’s it going “ is the ice breaker.After saying that if she respond with a conversation about herself it’s a open invitation to shot your shoot.
Western Nations understand the value of education ❤️. Africans are just left behind in this type of education. Thanks Jessica for this type of education
Your tips represent the old-fashioned ways that are appropriate for practice in these times when young men, even women do not look as nice as the folks of old. I admire your style.
@Iyoha Praise I have not heard nor read of "baba." "baba" reads as though it is suspicious. I do know that "Gracious Great" God helps people even though they cannot see Him in their presence. Anyway, He is the real God, Creator and Maker of everything, including life.
@Iyoha Praise No, thank you. The One man I need to reach out to is Jesus Christ. He is real, alive and living. Also, unlike your man whom you mentioned in your previous comment, Jesus Christ is perfect and does not make mistakes, as do people.
Nigeria ladies will never call (dey get coconut head). Giving her your number is going to be a waste. Rather ask for her number, if she drops it, good if she doesn't we move....
Hi Jess, I ve around your contents for just a couple of months now but finally subscribed today. I live in the states and am in this deep crazy position that makes feel like asking myself if am alright, lol. What would be the best platform to reach you privately?
Jessica thank you for your videos they are very informative, would you think about doing a video about younger women liking older men my girlfriend is 29 years younger than me I struggle having conversations with her and I have lived a life before we met so if you have any ideas I'm watching and listening....
Hi Jessica! You’re totally right on all points. Now I understand why a man is master of the house! He has to take all the steps…As for those women who think they will marry the top high value man in the hood because those women got beauty and career, I believe they need your help.
I learned alot of these tactics over time and i use them giving a woman my number naturally came to me and it absolutely work i still will keep learning and growing tho
Wish I'd subscribed your channel before falling in love. Countless how much I've learned you from your beneficial and fruitful contents. Props you Queen Jessa.
Jessica, I'm laughing so hard right now. You said 'pick your ego up off the floor and move on.' and just glossed over that. It's a classic image. I'm going to use that when I'm having a promising conversation! Love from West Virginia
always give your number... cuz like she said it puts the ball in her court. you approaching her lets her know u are interested now if she takes your number that will let u know if she is really interested.
Wooow! this 4 tricky got me smilling honest. It happened to me before, like I was there thinking, should I ask her for her # or give her mine and I got my eyes glued on her, without saying anything. thanks for sharing these wonderful comment. from here in Namibia.
Jessica my sister you are great. You are doing an excellent job. You are true and uncut. I really appreciate you with the knowledge you give men and women. Thank You and keep up the great work my Nubian Queen. I respect you to the Up most for your honesty.
Good points!! But this information is for rookies.. Over the years I've learned this with women and there is still more to it. Depending on where the women is/who she's around etc... All play a role. You need to learn to read your atmosphere(men and women).... That's in any situation.
@Joyce Collins that's a blessing May the Most High continue to give you'll strength healing protection peace prosperity and provide for you'll in his holy name amen 🙏❤️
Jess, I a big fan of your channel but and you're doing a great job. i get that you're a lady and should it always be about what women want and how to get/keep them? i think you should look at the other way around too - how the female viewers should treat their male partners too. cheers!
She is a lady and tries to let men understand the standing views of women in general. I find it very nice the way she does it. She may not be able to tell ladies what men desire from men. She is not a man to correctly understand the stand views of men
So basically... Subject: "aproaching woman" 1. Do it. 2. Do it correctly. 3. Know when to step back and stop doing it. 4. Know when to step forward and finish the objective (asking her number) Bruh, I know that's important, but what if I already have a wife, I wanted tips for that.
Dear Jessica once more I wanna thank you for your lovely and full of hints readings that are always so good for our behaviour especially with the opposite sex. Please feel happy and full of pride for giving us such interesting topics and advice. Cosmic blessings and lots of love and light to you always.🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I have been the one to approach the men that fascinate me! Ladies, why wait. Sometimes men like a bold forthright woman. If you like someone, tell him! Just saying - you have nothing to lose! Good luck
Very true
Well said Lily flowers, something makes me feel women who lack the confidence to approach are the same type that think man must by all means provide for a woman.
I think this is only an illusion... I'd advise you conduct actual statistics and follow through to be sure your assertion is consistent after a while. Because even though we find it fascinating at first, it, more often than not, doesn't go beyond that. I'm not generalizing but there is something about men that wants to do the hardwork of "chasing". I like your courage when you come but I feel fulfilled when I go for and eventually get the one who seemed too hard for me to get. You get?
That is me
@@solarspeaks5452 women will take advantage of you if you like chasing them bro. The ones that can approach are the ones that mostly bring something to the table as well. Keep chasing bro and Goodluck on getting them after going through he'll and fire lol.
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions
2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue
3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman
4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man
5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger
6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge
7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP
8. Stay away from single mothers
9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s
10. Never fully commit
11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut
12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you
13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment
14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust
15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf.............
💯
Thanks
Am intrigued by idea no.15...makes a lot of sense
I've liked no.8
Here's the manger making the field small😭😂
For me it's the way you mix professionalism with really insightful knowledge in your area of expertise. Learnt so much watching your videos.
Thank you.
You are an excellent brand.
I promise.
My girl actually told me to ask her out.
That was years earlier. I did three years later and we're 2 years into the relationship - she's now my fiancée. 🥰🥰🥰
I like this style of straight talk by Jessica. I just want to say I asked for a number after a dance class and she deflected the question so I took it as no. 6 Months later we are joking and I reminded her how she never gave her number. She replied she can't remember and gave me her number . Bottom line Guys - dont try to figure out the right and wrong because the woman doesnt know herself so you are 100% safe.
Hi Jess I am in my early 60's and you may not believe that I am learning things from you,I was married for 20 years my wife passed away 6 years ago and I find it very difficult to approach women I really don't know what to say to most women I meet because they are always younger than my self but after listening to some of your advice I think I am getting there. By the way your English and accent is very good,I will continue listening to your other videos. Once again thank you from the Caribbean.
The Ad for Caveman is the top class. Great content Jess😉.
Thank you
Why not also make a video For things men want you to do but we never tell you.I guess we also deserve love and care and happiness.
Yeah the caveman cinematography was nice!
@@Fn7_ACTUAL 😎 well noted
Jessica,you re a genius. A blessing to this generation. You say it with so much accuracy and class. Pls keep doing the great job
I admire how you don't linger when you explain, instead you are straight to the point ‼️ subscribed 🤝🏼
Thanks
Jessica is the best African CZcamsr for sure. she's a voice and vibe for Radio Host. It's unfortunate that I just get attracted to a Married Women.
Thank you Jess. Your comments are all wonderful for us man. You are such a lady who knows better for us man. keep it up.
I understand being present and having awareness of another person. What i am not, is telepathic. Good communication (verbal) must be conducted by both individuals.
As helpful as Jess's advice is for men, I feel most young ladies today can also learn immensely about relationships from her words
These new young hos don’t even know what they like they like bisexual niggas 🤦🏾♂️
I’ve followed on many of your videos. They are very educative, informative and interesting. It’s the first time I’ve heard from a woman’s perspective. Kudos to you. Thank you for sharing
I wish to see this video after my class. This is something I have always been curious about
I am single and I am learning a lot from this woman
If you tell a woman " I love " and her response is thank you should you take it positive?
If women value communication as much as they claim they do, then they wouldn't waste their time and ours with their little subtle clues...
This woman is marvelous. Thank you, Jess.
OK--my thoughts!! 1) If you don't tell me--how can I know and how can I use this awareness to give you greater happiness? I'm not a mind-reader--I like people (men, women, and children) who speak their minds and are direct. If you play bullshit mind games I don't want any part of you, period!! 2) How about the things we men want YOU to do? If it's not a two-way street 50/50 keep stepping. I truly love women who communicate honestly every moment--not mind-game bullshitters!!
I discovered your channel some days ago and I really appreciate what you are doing.
Women are so hard wired not to take initiative of approaching men and always are living in the fancy notion that men should chase them that they have completely forgotten to atleast take a first step, let alone making a move. They need not be brazen but why not do it subtly? Men do love it.
Guys just make money and love your self gals don't appreciate even if u buy her a range rover
In your country u mean ? Not everywhere.
I think you missed a pretty significant clue if a woman wants you to approach her. She'll put herself in proximity to be approached.
Hello, That looks like a Nigeria number.
@@judechukwuemeka5150: Nice reply: Selassie. Bless.
I gave up on looking for love, I decided its much easier for me to don't even look and just live life day to day!
@ F J - Looks like you have joined a fairly large club. This young lady even ADMITS how the "games" are endless and unavoidable . . .there are STILL guys who want to put up with this . . . . subtle ques . . .?
I feel comfortable listening to you and the points you give to us. I've listened to a lot of people advising about how to treat a lady but some I didn't sit too well with. Thank you for these videos. It has been very educating for me as a young man. Thank you very much.🙇 🙇 🙇
You're most welcome
To Montero AM: Which advice did you not sit too well with? Refer to the video's timeline.
Stop sim...ng! You are among the ego booster of the modern woman! Really, just be relaxed and even if she isn't attracted to you as you are she will be flattered, text book ego booster, free validation with nothing in return for you. Listen but don't follow advices from a woman on how to approach a woman, straight women don't have to approach or date women they wouldn't know. And they are just delusional anyway most of the time.
One thing about Jess' advice is that it doesn't serve to please just the women.
I notice that a lot of female relationship advicers tend to say things that serve the interests of the ladies but Jess balances things up from a realistic POV and from the man's beneficial angles
God bless everyone watching this video in this remaining year
Ameeen
Never expect anything from her just do what you gotta do, period and avoid regret.
Jessica you earned my subscription faster than any other ! your lethally accurate its almost scary !
Appreciate the support 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 💯
That's a nice company, we need more of this in Africa
Yes Jessica all that you say in your video's are speaking to me.
You are the very best at what you do for us men out here in this world.
Iam ever so grateful I started to follow your video's
Love from Kevin xxx
I have suffered in my dating life more than any man out there.Jess you’re truly God sent to have learned a lot from your content thank you
𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙖𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙢𝙚𝙣 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 😊
The suttles cues are borderline disrespectful mostimes and the welcoming cues are so confusing you miss them completely...I'd take a text or phone call "sorry you seem nice but this is not working" anyday over....driving 40 mins through rush hour over the GWB toll, gas, parking just to meet up over brunch to SIT there and WATCH her talk on the phone with coworkers for 30 mins on her day off 🤣 the Joy's of modern dating...🤦🏾♂️ love it!!!
Woooow👌🏽 what an intro🔥. Thank you Jesse. Much appreciated 🙏🏽
You smashed it for me Jessica
Wonderful video Iam learning alot from your video's
Thankyou Jessica
Kevin xxx
“Hey ! how’s it going “ is the ice breaker.After saying that if she respond with a conversation about herself it’s a open invitation to shot your shoot.
Western Nations understand the value of education ❤️. Africans are just left behind in this type of education. Thanks Jessica for this type of education
You are very RESOURCEFUL Ma..you always have my thumbs up!!!
Your tips represent the old-fashioned ways that are appropriate for practice in these times when young men, even women do not look as nice as the folks of old. I admire your style.
@Iyoha Praise "Who is that "great man" that helped you attract your partner to return to you?"
@Iyoha Praise I have not heard nor read of "baba." "baba" reads as though it is suspicious. I do know that "Gracious Great" God helps people even though they cannot see Him in their presence. Anyway, He is the real God, Creator and Maker of everything, including life.
@Iyoha Praise No, thank you. The One man I need to reach out to is Jesus Christ. He is real, alive and living. Also, unlike your man whom you mentioned in your previous comment, Jesus Christ is perfect and does not make mistakes, as do people.
Hi
@@chibuikemgideon2943 Hello and Seasons Greetings to you. Thank you for tapping or typing to me.
I always give my number. I never ask for the number anymore.
Thank you 😊 for the videos, your tips are to the point. Really help full.
Thanx for the tips Jessica
Nigeria ladies will never call (dey get coconut head). Giving her your number is going to be a waste. Rather ask for her number, if she drops it, good if she doesn't we move....
We are here with you my sister !! Sweet !! They will never tell us . I hope we don’t also know what they want . 👀😊
I love the advice you give. I'm using some of them now.
You are doing an awesome job dear Jessica
Good job Jessica. These are good things men should know. They are beautiful secrets like you. Keep up the good work.
God bless you. I love your topics. All things you explain it always happens to me.
You see.. Jessica
As a person, your facial features mesmerize me, truth be told ❤️
Especially your type of lip and eyes
I love your positivity on all ends thank you
Thank you Jess for another educational video.
Hi Jess, I ve around your contents for just a couple of months now but finally subscribed today.
I live in the states and am in this deep crazy position that makes feel like asking myself if am alright, lol. What would be the best platform to reach you privately?
Wow thumbs up Jess for always helping with love advice 🇿🇦
Wow that's amazing
thanks for the advice . Ever since i started watching your videos , my game has improved . lots of love Auntie Jessy😍
Jessica thank you for your videos they are very informative, would you think about doing a video about younger women liking older men my girlfriend is 29 years younger than me I struggle having conversations with her and I have lived a life before we met so if you have any ideas I'm watching and listening....
Your videos always teaches me new things
There were women who I wanted to approach and never did, they were either waiting for the approach or wanted to approach me too, but didn't.
Hi Jessica! You’re totally right on all points. Now I understand why a man is master of the house! He has to take all the steps…As for those women who think they will marry the top high value man in the hood because those women got beauty and career, I believe they need your help.
Hi Jessica,i really love the way you details things,thank you for your effort to make things perfect
I learned alot of these tactics over time and i use them giving a woman my number naturally came to me and it absolutely work i still will keep learning and growing tho
Insightful!!!
From Nigeria!
You're exceptional.
You already said it, in the first video I saw....Never chase them, let them chase you..... I regretted that I had known that when I was 20!
Wish I'd subscribed your channel before falling in love. Countless how much I've learned you from your beneficial and fruitful contents. Props you Queen Jessa.
Your messages has been very inspirational and pregnant with facts.kudos to your fluent use of the queens language
God I am grateful for all the blessings and protection in my life thank you lord Jesus Christ 🙏
I’ve watched a few of your videos n got hooked lol. I’m impressed and you’ve definitely earned my subscription 🙏🏽👍🏽
I met My darling Wife in Thailand. She's traditional, respectful and loving. We have a very happy Marriage.
Jessica, I'm laughing so hard right now.
You said 'pick your ego up off the floor and move on.' and just glossed over that.
It's a classic image.
I'm going to use that when I'm having a promising conversation!
Love from West Virginia
Lol
always give your number... cuz like she said it puts the ball in her court. you approaching her lets her know u are interested now if she takes your number that will let u know if she is really interested.
I’ve just subscribe to your Chanel because I’m second learner English language, and I just fall in love to your voice, that confidence, the tones 🥰
Wow, thank you!
Honestly Jessy i will always call my personal angel. You're my best
@Iyoha Praise please dear are you referring to me or my personal angel Jessy
Good advice keep it up. Thank you.
Well tried some of UA suggestions,and true that,they work,so u get my subscription as a sign of appreciation👍👍
Like putting together a 10,00 piece puzzle of the ocean with the corners missing and in the dark.
Wooow! this 4 tricky got me smilling honest. It happened to me before, like I was there thinking, should I ask her for her # or give her mine and I got my eyes glued on her, without saying anything. thanks for sharing these wonderful comment. from here in Namibia.
i appreciate your knowledgeto get a woman to start admiring or liking you
you are black inside but bright inside, really intelligent and honestly-open woman in the world
Jessica you Rock! Excellent video!!👏♥️
Women want a man who is confident and ACTS LIKE A MAN!!
My Mrs Jessica os thank you for your help me
God blessing you forever❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Jessica my sister you are great. You are doing an excellent job. You are true and uncut. I really appreciate you with the knowledge you give men and women. Thank You and keep up the great work my Nubian Queen. I respect you to the
Up most for your honesty.
You are a Gift , a Gift from the heavens above , Thank You , Thank You , for all that you have spoken .
I have learned a lot from you thank you so much
Your vids really teach me alot🙌
Thank you Jess, you've been great help
Thanks Jessica for your in depth informative,educative and on point discussions.
Glad to be part of your audience.
Your are very much important to me. I have subscribed. Good job keep changing me.
I'm in love with that voice💜💖
Good points!!
But this information is for rookies..
Over the years I've learned this with women and there is still more to it.
Depending on where the women is/who she's around etc... All play a role.
You need to learn to read your atmosphere(men and women).... That's in any situation.
Jessica, you are amazing. What you said about texting is edifying!
Much success to you May the Most High gives you strength healing protection peace prosperity and provide for you in his holy name amen 🙏❤️
@Joyce Collins that's a blessing May the Most High continue to give you'll strength healing protection peace prosperity and provide for you'll in his holy name amen 🙏❤️
Selassie:
Some women say men are weak now but most times will not approach men.
Jess, I a big fan of your channel but and you're doing a great job. i get that you're a lady and should it always be about what women want and how to get/keep them? i think you should look at the other way around too - how the female viewers should treat their male partners too. cheers!
No brainer, she is a woman and it wouldn't be ideal for her to speak on behalf of men.
She is a lady and tries to let men understand the standing views of women in general. I find it very nice the way she does it. She may not be able to tell ladies what men desire from men. She is not a man to correctly understand the stand views of men
Just wanna say thanks, but I wish I had come across this stuff before I got hitched. I will use it for advice.
So basically...
Subject: "aproaching woman"
1. Do it.
2. Do it correctly.
3. Know when to step back and stop doing it.
4. Know when to step forward and finish the objective (asking her number)
Bruh, I know that's important, but what if I already have a wife, I wanted tips for that.
Dear Jessica once more I wanna thank you for your lovely and full of hints readings that are always so good for our behaviour especially with the opposite sex. Please feel happy and full of pride for giving us such interesting topics and advice. Cosmic blessings and lots of love and light to you always.🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Awesome advice.. but so much from a man has to be done before even thinking about taking these 4 steps..
I don't know how to read body language I never been in a relationship before
Ma'am Jessica you are really doing a nice job on these tips you are giving out to guys.its quite good and interesting
Wonderful learning . How to ask you doubts
Man!!! That voice of yours is awesome. Good video. Great job