I’m with Joyce .Let’s be real . GBV is centered around the systems that benefit men . You report to the police you barely get any help they tell you mambo ya watu wawili hatuingili. Your parents tell you baki huko vumilia mahari imelipwa . Women are 4 times more likely to die Kenyan women being killed by their spouses is the 3rd highest in Africa .
Lemme add my two cents. I think feminism is not exclusively women's thing. It is wrong to say "feminists on this side and men on the other side". No. A feminist is anyone advocating for equal chances for both girls and boys. Ata the way you explained your opinion, you are a well articulated feminist. You believe in equal treatment for all. You understand that women can be as bad as men and that should not be overlooked. The issues should be looked at from both perspectives. I am glad to be part of boxpoders, always learning, beautiful souls with brilliant minds!!
i love how Kwambox dealt with The GBV issue , she gave it time so it wasnt in bad taste to profit over misery , it was mindful of ALL the victims and actual solution geared discussions were had .👍👍 goodoo
Interesting conversation. Definitely asking the right questions. 1. I think feminism needs to be taught and understood well because it's an evolving theory, evolved from political rights to Labour rights to property rights to equality e.t.c society has influenced and informed these evolutionary curves based on needs at particular times and spaces. This like any other theory has had critics both men and women and thus rose the Radical Feminist Theorists that more often than not take a more combative stance. This is what is mostly what stands out and has played a role in changing history though that's not to say the less Radical Feminist didn't contribute to anything. 2. Feminism is a collective approach to women's 'problems' and surprisingly, world over, there have been immense similarities. Why you ask? Culture and religion have played a huge role to propel a patriarchal society. Funny how in Victorian era, it was okay to 'discipline' a woman just as long as the thickness stick used was not bigger than the thumb! Remember this is at the height of slavery ('ending'), colonialism and missionaries a big influence to many cultures. 3. The Native African Woman's story is never told or documented in its raw, wholesome and undiluted truth. Perhaps that's where the truth is, perhaps it will inform the foundation of the problem and find an African Woman's solution that works for us. Why is it that the more educated we are as a society and the more representation we have as women in Kenya, the more this issue feels helpless? Is it that women are still 'checked', is it that some want to maintain a status quo, is it that men have been left out of the conversation too long? 4. This is not a new issue we are dealing with, it's has been here with us for long. We might need to go back to the drawing board and re-evaluate because now the intersections to the GBV are too complex to deal with them at face value.
this episode took a whole u-turn but i love it. the more we talk about all these things the more we get to make change. thank you guys for using your positions in the society to create awareness. i hope this episode gets to more peoples' eyes ndio maybe it'll change alot of POVs
Joyce was the only one who made sense the rest just tried to make excuses when women die coz of these issues. The gaslighting that was this episode is alarming
I like Kwambox but her view here is warped. I like that Joyce stood up for herself, Also funny that she decided to have this conversation today while wearing a dress, while most of the time her energy is more masc... just saying.
I'm a paralegal and I believe we as we women we have our rights ..uwe mama fua uwe nani...u shouldn't be forced to have any sexual offence aaaiii ....I'm here a feminist and we as ladies as females banaa we deserve the best😊😍😍😍
Kwambox, Thankyou!!. That was my exact view from the get go but i would explain it to people and they'd get triggered. You explained it very well. And you look amazing btw
Now this is the reason I'm an old subscriber and I'm referring people here😂😂😂....today's topic of GBV is what people doge and y'all just tackled it in an educated manner!! This gender Olympics is not helping at all,let's have such forums and talk about it !! I like how shilla talked about it,shout out going to her !! She was so keen in listen and talking fax. I need more of this ❤❤❤❤.
please if you decide to come to the comment section, Kindly just copy link of this episode and share as much as you possibly can, Don't forget to subscribe!!! Sheila this was so insightful
Many families choose to keep issues for them selves for example domestic violence hidden from the public eye to avoid shame thus they inadvertently allow these harmful behaviors to continue without consequence."
What the manila paper said was right though because as a social society if we educate within bour gender roles about responsibility as men to protect and defend ladies that's within a correct scope to teach those weird wildcards within our numbers that these things are wrong and unacceptable, and on kids feeling targeted by the narrative that they are the problem the environment should be healthy and they should understand that certain behavior pushes one towards that final path and result as a dude yes some negativity did hit me but when its subdivided into each microcosm that certain traits and behaviors predispose one as a man or lady to becoming this undesirable individual ,in that they are not bad but they should have a healthy caution about their behavior so as to not become that , not to have a self persecution complex but a healthy caution of themselves.
hello guys am on the point of GBV, you see the way the gov passed the rule for beating or rather mistreating dogs there should be a rule for GBV to avoid having to blame the man all the time , make it easier to report marital fights and it should be investigated both ways coz no one wakes up and wants to beat up someone he/she married it must have triggers , the man may not always be the problem we have an f-up society we need to reset ourselves.
kambox was explaining something about Gen Z I WISH guys could understand her well. cause she has a valid point and delivery was well but I know the team couldn't see it
I think sometimes we forget that we need each other and feminism and misogyny drives the point ;to create a divide between us. I wish we stopped finger pointing and each gender plays their role to create harmony in the society. Anyways whatever Kwambox said about GBV is food for thought about how we should stop generalising .
when I was young we had neighbors who fought daily but to this day they're still together and still fight...I'm starting to think there's levels to bdsm coz at this point such women enjoy being violated
Great content Kwambox, you did your homework well, and thanks for addressing this even though we still have a long way to go as a country. About Gen_Z's boy child not giving a f**k about the girl child, again totally my view. I think it is because they feel they have been excluded and not appreciated. For the last two decades, it has been about empowering & supporting the girl child. Also looking at most organizations and government programs, have mainly focused on girl child issues and problems. So here you have empowered ladies who feel they are equal to the men and believe they deserve better and at the same time you have men who feel that ladies have had it easy and at the same time these men aren't educated on how to handle these empowered ladies.
Joyce didn't kill ivy😂😂😂 on a serious note though,kwambox I feel you and I understand what you are saying this is a community issue not a women's issue
I like the podcast. It is lit BUT Joyce, please change the way you argue your opinion out. I feel some aggressive energy from your side. (My opinion) I love y'all
I’m with Joyce .Let’s be real . GBV is centered around the systems that benefit men . You report to the police you barely get any help they tell you mambo ya watu wawili hatuingili. Your parents tell you baki huko vumilia mahari imelipwa . Women are 4 times more likely to die Kenyan women being killed by their spouses is the 3rd highest in Africa .
Lemme add my two cents. I think feminism is not exclusively women's thing. It is wrong to say "feminists on this side and men on the other side". No. A feminist is anyone advocating for equal chances for both girls and boys. Ata the way you explained your opinion, you are a well articulated feminist. You believe in equal treatment for all. You understand that women can be as bad as men and that should not be overlooked. The issues should be looked at from both perspectives. I am glad to be part of boxpoders, always learning, beautiful souls with brilliant minds!!
I honestly love Kwambox analogies on gender and victim play. Smart!
This was a really deep conversation, I loved every minute.
I actually got late for my class ....cause am like 5 last mins😢
i love how Kwambox dealt with The GBV issue , she gave it time so it wasnt in bad taste to profit over misery , it was mindful of ALL the victims and actual solution geared discussions were had .👍👍 goodoo
Agree.
Like how she usually think outside outside the box is and even leave room for more thoughts
Kwamboxx looks so goood in that dress❤. Please do it more. Interesting episodes, laughs, belly aches as always😂😂😂
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Y'all are the reason I open my CZcams app🥰always looking forward to your honest conversations
The ladies look stunning in their dresses❤.
Our gentleman, handsome as always. Hi Keri
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yaani Joyce ni kadudu , wengine wakikanyaga chini yeye anafloat kwa hewa😂😂
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The B-rolls are on another level 🙌😂😂 Reinforcing the message pretty well.
You know the vibe😂
Guys, I love your outfits.❤ Always here for a new episode.
We appreciate you!
Interesting conversation. Definitely asking the right questions.
1. I think feminism needs to be taught and understood well because it's an evolving theory, evolved from political rights to Labour rights to property rights to equality e.t.c society has influenced and informed these evolutionary curves based on needs at particular times and spaces. This like any other theory has had critics both men and women and thus rose the Radical Feminist Theorists that more often than not take a more combative stance. This is what is mostly what stands out and has played a role in changing history though that's not to say the less Radical Feminist didn't contribute to anything.
2. Feminism is a collective approach to women's 'problems' and surprisingly, world over, there have been immense similarities. Why you ask? Culture and religion have played a huge role to propel a patriarchal society. Funny how in Victorian era, it was okay to 'discipline' a woman just as long as the thickness stick used was not bigger than the thumb! Remember this is at the height of slavery ('ending'), colonialism and missionaries a big influence to many cultures.
3. The Native African Woman's story is never told or documented in its raw, wholesome and undiluted truth. Perhaps that's where the truth is, perhaps it will inform the foundation of the problem and find an African Woman's solution that works for us. Why is it that the more educated we are as a society and the more representation we have as women in Kenya, the more this issue feels helpless? Is it that women are still 'checked', is it that some want to maintain a status quo, is it that men have been left out of the conversation too long?
4. This is not a new issue we are dealing with, it's has been here with us for long. We might need to go back to the drawing board and re-evaluate because now the intersections to the GBV are too complex to deal with them at face value.
this episode took a whole u-turn but i love it. the more we talk about all these things the more we get to make change. thank you guys for using your positions in the society to create awareness. i hope this episode gets to more peoples' eyes ndio maybe it'll change alot of POVs
Some things need to be said and people need to listen ❤
Great episode, incredible topics🎉
Always looking forward to Boxpod days💛
I love kwambox opinion about the GBV issue. Her perspective is something to Really think about.
ee kwambox you never disappoint i really loved your POV on the GBV issue was spot on couldnt agree more boxpod for life mazee😀
Joyce was the only one who made sense the rest just tried to make excuses when women die coz of these issues. The gaslighting that was this episode is alarming
I like Kwambox but her view here is warped. I like that Joyce stood up for herself, Also funny that she decided to have this conversation today while wearing a dress, while most of the time her energy is more masc... just saying.
damn finally I kept refreshing my yt 😂😂😂
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I'm a paralegal and I believe we as we women we have our rights ..uwe mama fua uwe nani...u shouldn't be forced to have any sexual offence aaaiii ....I'm here a feminist and we as ladies as females banaa we deserve the best😊😍😍😍
Hapa Kenya ,you steal we make you an mp😂😂😂😂
Kwambox, Thankyou!!. That was my exact view from the get go but i would explain it to people and they'd get triggered. You explained it very well. And you look amazing btw
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@46:00 - 46:58 Joyce speaking preaching facts
@kwambox that's a beautiful dress
She decided to match it with the couch.. it's giving sindio 😊
On the marijuana story..not all ambulances with sirens on are carrying a dying person iykyk🫡
Now this is the reason I'm an old subscriber and I'm referring people here😂😂😂....today's topic of GBV is what people doge and y'all just tackled it in an educated manner!!
This gender Olympics is not helping at all,let's have such forums and talk about it !! I like how shilla talked about it,shout out going to her !! She was so keen in listen and talking fax. I need more of this ❤❤❤❤.
We got you❤
How im addicted to this pod i have no fvckn idea❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Kwambox always informed. Insightful conversation about GBV
please if you decide to come to the comment section, Kindly just copy link of this episode and share as much as you possibly can, Don't forget to subscribe!!! Sheila this was so insightful
Kwambox necklace, please link me up with the jeweller
Another fire one 💯🔥
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Put up the link to that article, we would like to read it too
www.theguardian.com/news/audio/2024/feb/07/why-is-generation-z-so-divided-on-gender-podcast?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other
Many families choose to keep issues for them selves for example domestic violence hidden from the public eye to avoid shame thus they inadvertently allow these harmful behaviors to continue without consequence."
Ghai hii akili ya kwambox eeeeyy 👌👌. The way you have laid this down yoh 💯.
Let's not fight each other, let's come together and fight the problem
What Kwambox has done in this episode is absolutely phenomenal....she chose to be the devils advocate and opened up the real discussion. good stuff
A 30 year old is not a Gen Z
What's the name of the movie Kwambox is talking about?
What the manila paper said was right though because as a social society if we educate within bour gender roles about responsibility as men to protect and defend ladies that's within a correct scope to teach those weird wildcards within our numbers that these things are wrong and unacceptable, and on kids feeling targeted by the narrative that they are the problem the environment should be healthy and they should understand that certain behavior pushes one towards that final path and result as a dude yes some negativity did hit me but when its subdivided into each microcosm that certain traits and behaviors predispose one as a man or lady to becoming this undesirable individual ,in that they are not bad but they should have a healthy caution about their behavior so as to not become that , not to have a self persecution complex but a healthy caution of themselves.
hello guys am on the point of GBV, you see the way the gov passed the rule for beating or rather mistreating dogs there should be a rule for GBV to avoid having to blame the man all the time , make it easier to report marital fights and it should be investigated both ways coz no one wakes up and wants to beat up someone he/she married it must have triggers , the man may not always be the problem we have an f-up society we need to reset ourselves.
When it come to love joyce got no idea
Hellooo guys I missed you..One month without watching boxpod 😢si rahisi am back ..😊
Welcome backkk
You have a couple of episodes to binge😁😁
Am trying to watch all ☺️ I can't miss any episode
Peter Ouko is the guy ; Crime si poa.
I am with Kwamboks on the GBV topic
interesting topics my people
Sheila is so regal 👸🏿🌹
She really is😮💨
Kwabox ur spitting sense acha tu 💯u have really done ur research in this anyways hands down 👏
kambox was explaining something about Gen Z I WISH guys could understand her well. cause she has a valid point and delivery was well but I know the team couldn't see it
Kwambox,you look so lovely.
first time seeing kwambox on a dress
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Ladies stunning in dresses❤
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First time to see Kwambox in a dress👗
I think sometimes we forget that we need each other and feminism and misogyny drives the point ;to create a divide between us. I wish we stopped finger pointing and each gender plays their role to create harmony in the society. Anyways whatever Kwambox said about GBV is food for thought about how we should stop generalising .
y'all didnt notice that pillow...💀ooh no, joyce adi angeilalia bana
We didn't notice manze
when I was young we had neighbors who fought daily but to this day they're still together and still fight...I'm starting to think there's levels to bdsm coz at this point such women enjoy being violated
Kwambox huva dress...waaa noma.
Joyce Sasa?
Great content Kwambox, you did your homework well, and thanks for addressing this even though we still have a long way to go as a country.
About Gen_Z's boy child not giving a f**k about the girl child, again totally my view. I think it is because they feel they have been excluded and not appreciated. For the last two decades, it has been about empowering & supporting the girl child. Also looking at most organizations and government programs, have mainly focused on girl child issues and problems.
So here you have empowered ladies who feel they are equal to the men and believe they deserve better and at the same time you have men who feel that ladies have had it easy and at the same time these men aren't educated on how to handle these empowered ladies.
Joyce didn't kill ivy😂😂😂 on a serious note though,kwambox I feel you and I understand what you are saying this is a community issue not a women's issue
Exactly!!
Kwambox👏👏🤝🔥🔥
Quasi-necrophilia
Kwambox kumbe dress inakaa poà na wewe
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😂😂😂must be nice
Joyce ni kafupi lakini thighs ziko sawa
I like the podcast. It is lit BUT Joyce, please change the way you argue your opinion out. I feel some aggressive energy from your side. (My opinion) I love y'all
I Love You'all 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Kwambox stop being a pick me…..
How is she being a pick me, while she is giving her opinion
ngl that "hey ladiessss*"🤌🏽🤭