Hi, Whats Your Name? | Adaobi Adibe | TEDxPeckham

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  • čas přidán 31. 07. 2017
  • Let's just say by the end of this talk I guarantee, you will remember her name.
    Adaobi Adibe is a first year Electrical and Electronic Engineering student at the University of Manchester.
    Co-founder of the ‘The Sisterhood Movement’, a network for women of colour that encourages career development and personal development by utilising the power of sisterhood. She co-founded B4BME, a project which aims to increase the number of BME blood donors. Currently, she is working with the UN as part of the merit 360 program to solve sustainable development goal 7 - cleaner and more affordable energy. She is also a student Venture Capitalist at Campus Capital, working with a £2 million-fund, meeting founders and investing in technology companies.
    Passionate about technology, Adaobi was selected as an ‘outstanding student’ and will intern with Huawei in china as part of the ‘seeds for future’ program. She aspires to become a venture capitalist and start her own fund with hopes of seeing more diversity in the start-up world.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 47

  • @lilmindless28
    @lilmindless28 Před 7 lety +64

    My name is Fanta people always say 'oh like the soda?' But no it's a west African name that existed years before the soda company

    • @gunnaryoung
      @gunnaryoung Před 6 lety +6

      To be fair, they're saying "like"the soda, not "after" the soda...

  • @ijeleanozie26
    @ijeleanozie26 Před 7 lety +30

    Adaobi, Adanma, Adaora, Adada; your name embodies every energy in a woman. My husband and I are just like your parents; both of our children have only igbo names. It also made sense for me when I dropped off my own english name.
    In being different you celebrate yourself, and connect to your culture, especially if you are overseas, where everyone is separated by color.
    We are so proud of you and your achievement.
    Congratulations Nnwam!!!!!!
    Ijele, Dallas,Tx.

  • @adannenna6906
    @adannenna6906 Před 6 lety +15

    Wow!!! I'm Igbo too... I had this same problem....I didn't like my name....and I asked my dad why didn't he give me an English name when I was a teenager and his answer was.....if I had named you rice or beans would you have been happy? And that was the end of the conversation.....I slowly began to love my name because it made me feel unique and I didn't come to fully love my name untill I started applying for jobs....my name always stands out and contrary to how adaobi was feeling...I usually felt pretty confident when applying for jobs because I knew my name stood out.thank you Adaobi for this wonderful presentation....and I'm the Ada of the compound too 😀☺️😍🤗

  • @WitchyLady21
    @WitchyLady21 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Every individual is a star. If we can't honor someone's name, that says more about us than it does about them. Every person deserves to be respected and loved for who they are. Their name is part of that.

  • @mrcolemore5831
    @mrcolemore5831 Před 7 lety +31

    Self love over self loathe anytime. As Africans, we have to love ourselves first. If others choose to follow cause, it is a secondary benefit but if not, Our love for ourselves and our culture should be sufficient enough.

  • @foreverMelloYT
    @foreverMelloYT Před 7 lety +25

    This was good Ms. Adibe. Now I feel the urge to share my Nigerian name, although its listed as my middle name. Its Boma and it means 'God's blessing.'

    • @brunoloverxx
      @brunoloverxx Před 6 lety +1

      forever Mello what tribe is that name from

    • @foreverMelloYT
      @foreverMelloYT Před 6 lety +4

      Simba Kalabari tribe from Rivers State, Nigeria.

  • @MargaretBelle
    @MargaretBelle Před 7 lety +14

    'Challenge your narrative.' Love it.

  • @adeogilvyprcontent3534
    @adeogilvyprcontent3534 Před 7 lety +12

    My name is Adémiluyi, Shortened to Adé in social circles and Aday when at work and applying for jobs. I created Aday to get my employers and colleagues to pronounce my name the way I wanted. Getting English people or People born in England to pronounce my name the way I would like has been a challenge since I started primary school. It still continues today.

    • @WitchyLady21
      @WitchyLady21 Před 7 měsíci

      As someone who was raised speaking English, I can understand this. I can't for the life of me, roll my "r's", and not for lack of trying. LOL. My advice is to be patient with people who come from different ethnic backgrounds. It's not that we're not willing to try or that we don't care. Sometimes, it's just a physical limitation.

  • @victorclement3446
    @victorclement3446 Před 2 lety +2

    Beautiful.
    God bless you adaobi.

  • @tbryant3685
    @tbryant3685 Před 7 lety +9

    She just preached to me! I had been considering using my middle name for business purposes, feeling that people would respect me less, or not even give my services a chance based on my name. My name is Tawana and its a shame that we think about these things, even worse that they are usually true.

    • @eulerianorder6972
      @eulerianorder6972 Před 6 lety

      T Bryant are you from zim. 🇿🇼

    • @tbryant3685
      @tbryant3685 Před 6 lety

      Jamie Handitye no, unfortunately I have no rich and beautiful culture or heritage to call my own as I am an American born descendant of enslaved Africans.

    • @samuelsagwa4351
      @samuelsagwa4351 Před 4 lety

      Great video but I’m still changing my name 😘

  • @fiz8334
    @fiz8334 Před 7 lety +7

    the most powerful TED talk I've watched, ended up crying lol

  • @blase057
    @blase057 Před 7 lety +7

    One of the first TED talks that actually captivated me 👌🏼

  • @nancyturnbull2798
    @nancyturnbull2798 Před 7 lety +3

    Inspiring! Go girl!

  • @TyishaVache
    @TyishaVache Před 5 lety +3

    I think African names are beautiful, loved this TedTalk :)

  • @MrsMoyo
    @MrsMoyo Před 6 lety +3

    I totally relate. Teaching my child to accept her African-ness.

  • @happyjudas6
    @happyjudas6 Před 7 lety +1

    Good girl!!! You have made my day. 👌✊✊✊👏👏

  • @lucygborie7531
    @lucygborie7531 Před 7 lety +6

    love this

  • @ADAJ3KINGANGEL
    @ADAJ3KINGANGEL Před 7 lety +10

    It's always people with meaningful names that get fun of.

  • @johnkeithrobinson7399
    @johnkeithrobinson7399 Před 3 lety +1

    that was good keep up the good work

  • @zeekmz6958
    @zeekmz6958 Před 7 lety +1

    I relate to this so much

  • @Superanimewuver
    @Superanimewuver Před 7 lety +4

    Wow! This is amazing :)

  • @bigaluk1980
    @bigaluk1980 Před 6 lety

    Amazed

  • @Servant_of_TMH
    @Servant_of_TMH Před 5 lety

    As an Iber (Hebrew) woman of the African Diaspora, I truly understand and agree with what Adaobi Adibe is saying. My birth name is Starleigh, which in my opinion is very European! Lol although I would love to actually know what my Iber name would've been, I am also grateful that I was given a name that helped me succeed in the European country I live in. This is one of the best Ted talks I've experienced! Amazing!

  • @ta_team808
    @ta_team808 Před 5 lety +1

    My name is Te’a but ppl usually think it's tea. I got so tired of ppl mispronouncing my name eventually I just stopped correcting them especially substitutes in skool. But after leaving more about my name n where it comes from I'm a lot more proud of it.

  • @rexmelo4194
    @rexmelo4194 Před 6 lety

    Legend

  • @whitneyade5017
    @whitneyade5017 Před 7 lety

    Yes hunnay!!!

  • @eoba8488
    @eoba8488 Před 7 lety +1

    😭❤️😭❤️

  • @marcelamouofo7652
    @marcelamouofo7652 Před 7 lety

    Amen

  • @tashboog
    @tashboog Před 6 lety

    ✊🏾

  • @kaykaysway1992
    @kaykaysway1992 Před 6 lety +2

    she butchered the name Achebe smh. And she doesnt say igbo correctly. But this is a great Ted talk.

    • @adaobiadibe4597
      @adaobiadibe4597 Před 5 lety +6

      you're right I did! Sorry about that, only realised after I watched it back lol, will do better next time! I do however say igbo correctly, you just haven't accounted for my accent.

  • @harsharya545
    @harsharya545 Před 4 lety

    Harshendra , here

  • @tunjilegba
    @tunjilegba Před 6 lety +1

    I actually have Irish name in real 😕 life but I prefer an African name online

  • @kikitaughtme
    @kikitaughtme Před 2 lety +1

    Ever met an African with an African last name that not even Africans could pronounce correctly?

  • @truebut3243
    @truebut3243 Před 7 lety +2

    I can't relate. But why do Africans make fun of African names

    • @jayhey974
      @jayhey974 Před 6 lety +3

      Just by that question we can all tell you cant relate.

    • @tashboog
      @tashboog Před 6 lety +1

      Jay Hey 😂🤦🏾‍♀️