Health Update: Tough Decision? Drive or Fly Back to "Home Hospital"?"

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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
  • Do we drive the Rv back to Florida or do we fly back and someone else drive it back? Stay in hotel? Stay in Portland, Oregon? Go 3,000 miles back to Florida for UF Health Shands hospital?
    Diagnosis? Surgery? Has he lost even more weight?
    What did FMCA say?
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Komentáře • 317

  • @DownsizingMakesCents
    @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

    See our playlist - traveling despite chronic health issues
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  • @silverblue233131
    @silverblue233131 Před měsícem +19

    My wife and I are in Gainesville, Fl as we speak. Our grandson was born early at 29 weeks. We are in Santa Fe RV Resort, about 9 miles from Shands. We will be here for next 6-8 weeks or so. If there is anything we can do to help, please let us know. We have a 2023 F350 Diesel so can move your RV or drive your rig for you, help with rides or whatever. Just let us know.

    • @johnmacias971
      @johnmacias971 Před měsícem +3

      Let me know if you need anything Matt if they reach out to you.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      @@silverblue233131 Hope all the best for your grandson and your family.
      And thanks for the offer. 🤗
      Alice

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      @@johnmacias971 really appreciate you both 🤗
      Alice

  • @karinwest919
    @karinwest919 Před měsícem +9

    Another reason why there should always be a second person who is able to drive the rig, set up, break camp, etc. , especially with us older folks. Yes, heading home is what you need to do. Wish someone in your family could fly out to you guys and help with the drive home. Prayers!

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Karin, I explained this in a video the first medical emergency he had - even if I knew how, I’m so stressed, I wouldn’t feel safe doing it. Larry would be asleep while I drove and of no help.
      This way, I’m constantly assisting. Larry only concentrates on driving.
      Every one is different and won’t know how they will respond until it happens.
      Others? Yes. Share driving.
      Yes. Another driver would be great. But Larry prefers taking care of it himself
      Alice

    • @karinwest919
      @karinwest919 Před měsícem

      ​@@DownsizingMakesCents, did not mean to stress you out at all, sorry!! But the issue is part of the thought process for buying our next RV as we have health issues as well and I want to be able to feel comfortable with driving the rig. So please do not take it personally! Praying you guys make it home safe and as fast as Larrys health allows!!

  • @rvnut1133
    @rvnut1133 Před měsícem +6

    I think this is the best decision for you, nothing like being home and with your own health care team and family. It will reduce the additional unnecessary stress. Get better soon Larry.

  • @AWOLlcdrpeterson
    @AWOLlcdrpeterson Před měsícem +2

    Hope this helps with the unexpected Larry expenses. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. All the Best, Nick & Peggy

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@AWOLlcdrpeterson Nick & Peggy, I saw this and was so shocked. I showed Larry. We don’t know what to say.
      Perfect timing - it will cover Scruffy’s emergency vet bill
      Please email me 🤗
      Alice

  • @debyarger3084
    @debyarger3084 Před měsícem +6

    Getting back to your home hospital where you have confidence in your care is a smart decision. You'll have family support to help get through whatever is ahead of you. I'm praying you get there with no issues,that you settle answers and care you need so that healing comes quickly and your back on the road. I do agree that sharing your story is a good thing!

  • @glendalab7567
    @glendalab7567 Před měsícem +10

    You're making the best decision you can with the information you have right now. Hopefully your trip back home will be quick and uneventful!

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      @@glendalab7567 Glenda, so far so good. Driving through Missouri now 🤗
      Alice

  • @molynn5244
    @molynn5244 Před měsícem +5

    Praying for you all! Have a safe, quick, easy trip back to Florida! Hope the home hospital doctors help Larry ASAP!
    Thank you for taking the time to update us even with all this stress and craziness.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      We have gone through a lot. But sharing actually helps. It’s almost a catharsis 😉
      Plus, we are always thinking of ways to help other RVers
      Thank you 🤗
      Alice

  • @g-man2045
    @g-man2045 Před měsícem +5

    Wishing both of you the best. Only you know what's right for you. Dont be afraid to ask for help. It was good to see Larry smile and still have a sense of humor.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@g-man2045 Having made a decision and on our way to Florida has helped.
      And thanks 🤗
      Alice

  • @myrnaedelen8385
    @myrnaedelen8385 Před měsícem +5

    Home hospital is best. ASAP! You are blessed to have offers of help. Good folks will step up and be there for you when needed. You could even get part way home & find a good place to park your rig temporarily, then fly home. Health is paramount & sometimes time sensitive. Go with care & blessings.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@myrnaedelen8385 Myrna,
      We do know we could get help if we need it. 🤗
      Alice

  • @SevenBears1
    @SevenBears1 Před měsícem +6

    I was waiting for this video. I assumed you would still be in Portland and I would offer to come up and drive you at least to Denver where another of your loving fans could take over and I could fly back home. I'm sure you have enough qualified friends that could do a relay to Florida.. Good luck DMC

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      @@SevenBears1 Sorry. Looking forward to meeting you. Maybe next summer 🤗
      Alice

    • @SevenBears1
      @SevenBears1 Před měsícem

      @@DownsizingMakesCents I knew your CAAT was bringing you out west so I hoped for a meet and greet. Next time when Larry is back to 100% we'll have lunch

  • @BrazenBrits
    @BrazenBrits Před měsícem +3

    Interesting update. I hope you have more success in Gainesville. On the flip side when I’m there for chemo on Mondays I can swing by and say hello 😂

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@BrazenBrits Thanks. Hope all goes well. UF Vet will take good care of your fur baby.
      And definitely would love to see our friends from across the pond
      Alice

  • @JonnyDIY
    @JonnyDIY Před měsícem +4

    Thanks for the update. I woke up and was praying for you two last nite 💕🙏

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      Awww. Thanks, Jonny. Sorry we were worrying you.
      In Florida today 🌴 ❤
      Alice

  • @angelaklinger2951
    @angelaklinger2951 Před měsícem +6

    I’ve been thinking of you since learning of your health issues. I will continue praying and keeping you in my prayers and thoughts ❤️🙏

  • @timf6916
    @timf6916 Před měsícem +3

    Yes, give it a try. You need to fell comfortable with your situation. Do want you want. And yes, YOUR bed is your comfort zone. You the man Larry,

  • @kevinherm3036
    @kevinherm3036 Před měsícem +4

    Offer still stands! We're in Farmersville, Texas off of US HWY 380 so if you need an overnight stop, we have a long flat concrete driveway and a 50amp rv plug if that helps.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      @@kevinherm3036 Appreciate it but our route didn’t go through Texas. Maybe next summer 😉
      Alice

  • @andreemorel2248
    @andreemorel2248 Před měsícem +3

    We appreciate that you are taking the time to update us. Make sure to ask for help if you need it. Alice put your foot down if you feel you need help. Stay strong.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@andreemorel2248 Andree, Larry even sick has a strong will, but if we need it, I will definitely ask for help. Thanks
      Alice

  • @cecileb.2207
    @cecileb.2207 Před měsícem +3

    Thank you for sharing so much of your journey with us. Praying for safe travels and arrival at your home hospital. Stay positive! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🌷

  • @tamiestevespaulding4016
    @tamiestevespaulding4016 Před měsícem +2

    Praying for safe travels. We settled in Chiefland Florida after finding Orthopedic institute to fix my back problems.

  • @geemoe3064
    @geemoe3064 Před měsícem +1

    I'm sure right now is not the time due to all the stress but maybe Alice could take the wheel between rest areas in the rural parts of the interstate. She would only need to get on and off the interstate without dealing with a lot of traffic. Once we get another rig, I will be relearning to drive again. It's kind of scary to think to do it but if Alice can be married to Larry, she can tackle anything! Larry... you are wonderful too.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Funny. You would think so dealing with Larry 😆
      But all my strength is used for helping Larry - none left for driving.
      I was so stressed just driving the dually.
      Maybe once we have a homebase, we will get a small drivable since we won’t be full time
      Alice

  • @kcwerv
    @kcwerv Před měsícem

    Get well soon Larry! I hope everything works out for you two.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@kcwerv unfortunately, it’s become more complicated
      Update on our community tab
      Alice

    • @kcwerv
      @kcwerv Před měsícem

      @@DownsizingMakesCents I am so sorry to hear that!

  • @TheBuddy1939
    @TheBuddy1939 Před měsícem +2

    I’m disappointed in Oregons health. The doctors in Portland diagnosed my son’s wife that she would never be able to have children after her accident, period. She has three kids since

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      @@TheBuddy1939 a time you are glad hospital was wrong. Happy for you but sorry she went through initial bad news
      Alice

  • @allanwarmflash4440
    @allanwarmflash4440 Před měsícem

    be safe your in our prayers we have had crazy health issues while full timing and have recovered in our rv it can be done speedy recovery

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@allanwarmflash4440 Thanks, Allan. We have a very private spot in Florida so we can all recover 🤗
      Alice

  • @hrdakerwd
    @hrdakerwd Před měsícem +1

    Prayers for your travels. I understand Alice’s anxiety about Portland driving. My husband was DX with pancreatic cancer 12/2023. Our home state at that time was Oregon. He received treatment at OHSU and I would have to drive our stick shift car back and forth from an RV park in Wilsonville. Don’t get me started on driving to appointments on the hill or their parking garages and trying not to roll into people when leaving. 😂 We got great care at OHSU but it has always been our dream to live in Florida. We did get my brother to move our Class A because my husband is too sick to drive. We live in Bushnell, FL at Blueberry Hill RV Park. It is a nice park. It’s right off of 75. I looked and it’s only 1.5 hrs from Gainesville. We drive to Moffitt in Tampa for his care. The rates here are reasonable. I will keep praying for both of you.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@hrdakerwd wow. I thought driving the dually was bad 😁
      Thanks for info.
      We have a couple places less than an hour from hospital- closer the better
      Alice

  • @arlenesterling6782
    @arlenesterling6782 Před měsícem +4

    I love you both!!
    Maybe downsize to something smaller that Alice can drive

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@arlenesterling6782 Arlene, I’d like that. Hard to get the dually aware from Larry 😁
      Alice

  • @pamelaschilling9464
    @pamelaschilling9464 Před měsícem

    Hope Larry gets better soon.

  • @dougdoris8622
    @dougdoris8622 Před měsícem +1

    We live in St Louis near I-70. We are on your route home. If you need anything like a place to stay we can help. If you want to fly home I could help get your rig in storage near here. I am so sorry you are having such a difficult time.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +2

      @@dougdoris8622 Hey, guys. Like to see how close you are route. We had a bad long day because we couldn’t find a place to stop.
      Can you email me?
      Thanks 🤗
      Alice

    • @chhook949
      @chhook949 Před měsícem

      Awesome offer hope things work out D&D Your Amazing

  • @tammyduffy6554
    @tammyduffy6554 Před měsícem

    I just found your channel!! I love you guys. ❤ It's been a joy watching your trip from Portland to Gainesville, FL. I'm so sorry your baby got attacked! I'm going to add you to my prayer journal, praying for wisdom for the Dr's and peace for you both. Thank you for sharing your life with me ❤❤❤

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      @@tammyduffy6554 Tammy, love seeing new people here. And thank you 🤗
      Alice

  • @texasmamaw6555
    @texasmamaw6555 Před měsícem

    Safe travels. Godspeed Larry! Hang in there Alice. 💖💖💖 thanks for sharing,,,,,y’all are doing the right thing. Hope to hear updates from y’all …..

  • @karinhart489
    @karinhart489 Před měsícem

    Wishing you safe travels back to FL. Had a medical emergency 2+ years ago. Always a tough question: go where you are or back back to what you know.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +2

      @@karinhart489 Karin, it was tough. But we made the right call for us.
      Larry already sees his primary dr on Monday
      Alice

  • @chhook949
    @chhook949 Před měsícem

    Time Frame They Were Talking Didn’t Make Cents I Gotta Go Good For You! Happy & Safe Travels! All the Best & Stay Blessed.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@chhook949 Yes. Weeks. Months. Crazy.
      In Georgia. 🌴 tomorrow 🤗
      Alice

  • @casitacindy461
    @casitacindy461 Před měsícem

    as we age this is the very thing we worried about when we decided to downsize our rig. it was vital to us that both of us could completely handle the rv in the case one of us gets ill or out of commission. i am glad everything worked out but, in our opinion, its essential that both of you need to have confidence and the ability to handle the rig.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@casitacindy461 Casita, I understand
      But until we get a homebase, we don’t want to go smaller.
      Plus, with my anxiety, I wouldn’t want to tow. Maybe one day we will get a drivable.
      Until it happens to you, you don’t really know how you will handle it
      Thanks for sharing your opinion
      Alice

  • @staceycarroll7973
    @staceycarroll7973 Před měsícem

    This is absolutely important. One of the biggest questions out there is - What do you do in a health emergency. You are showing options and explaining your thought processes. Feel better soon!

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Stacey, 💯
      Even if you don’t agree with our choice, we show the options. Thank you 🙏
      Alice

  • @01AceAlpha
    @01AceAlpha Před měsícem

    Good decision. Wish you a safe comfortable journey home.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@01AceAlpha unfortunately, on our way to next stop, Scruffy was attached by 2 big dogs - emergency vet this morning 😔 but she’s ok
      Alice

  • @TSchra37
    @TSchra37 Před měsícem

    Praying you two have a safe trip home and God provides appropriate medical care back home in Florida.

  • @sharladetrow9355
    @sharladetrow9355 Před měsícem +2

    Safe travels. Keeping you both in our thoughts and prayers.

  • @mazie65
    @mazie65 Před měsícem

    Safe travels, thank you for updating your subscribers. Try drinking protein drinks. They do make clear ensure type drinks if that would go down easier.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@mazie65 Appreciate it, Mazie. Larry is seeing he’s primary on Monday.
      Once in Florida, we will try different things and see a nutritionist
      Alice

  • @carrolcallahan3402
    @carrolcallahan3402 Před měsícem

    Safe travels and good luck at your hometown doctor.🙏🏻

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@carrolcallahan3402 Carole, hoping for help getting referrals and cutting back though red tape 🤗
      Alice

  • @donaldlajeunesse1455
    @donaldlajeunesse1455 Před měsícem

    I think you are making the right decision. Having two drivers is not necessary or logical for everyone owning an RV. You will know when to hold them or when to fold them. Stay safe.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@donaldlajeunesse1455 Donald, ❤️ Kenny Rodger
      Thanks for understanding- I’m a great copilot 😉
      And thanks 🤗
      Alice

  • @williamtuttle7285
    @williamtuttle7285 Před měsícem

    Really hope everything works out for both of you.

  • @ralphp3057
    @ralphp3057 Před měsícem

    You guys are making the correct decision! UF Shands is the place for sure ! I live 32 miles SE of Gainesville . Prayers for your safe return and Larry’s health ! 🙏🙏

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Ralph, got some land to sell us 😅
      Can’t wait to be “home” again
      Alice

    • @ralphp3057
      @ralphp3057 Před měsícem

      @@DownsizingMakesCents
      I don’t have any land to sell . But , Is land for sale in my area . I’m actually the farthest north you can get in Marion County. I’m thirty miles from downtown Ocala . Safe travels you guys ! 🙏😁

  • @lisamcgrath3132
    @lisamcgrath3132 Před měsícem

    So glad you guys are heading back to Florida and Larry’s regular doctors and hospital who all know him. It’s still stressful but being somewhere that your more familiar, have family & a hospital & doctors that know you & your health conditions is just a little more of a comfort for both of you. Praying for safe travels on your way back to Florida, that you both do well on the trip and you find a nice safe place to park and stay in your home🙏🏻❤️

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      Lisa, we appreciate all the support in this decision- thought we would be given a hard time for not flying 😁
      Already have an appointment on Monday to see his primary care 🤗
      Alice

  • @johndrenning5453
    @johndrenning5453 Před měsícem

    My wife and I are currently campground host at Gold Head Branch State Park. We have plenty of open sites here at the moment. The park is in Keystone Heights about 45 minutes from Shands.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      John, we have gone there many times.
      Our site by site tour video is one of our firsts 🤗
      Thanks but we need long term - just booked a month somewhere- because we don’t know how long this will take.
      Enjoy Mike Ross 🤗
      Alice

  • @annettemills3840
    @annettemills3840 Před měsícem

    You have lost to much weight. You do what you need to do. We are praying for you both.

  • @kathyjoslin1361
    @kathyjoslin1361 Před měsícem

    Continuing to keep you in my prayers 🙏

  • @daydreamer0923
    @daydreamer0923 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for sharing this with all of us. This matters and you both matter. Your awesome, thank you.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      @@daydreamer0923 Lin, that’s sweet. Thank you.
      And this is an important subject hug
      Alice

  • @ruthanderson1758
    @ruthanderson1758 Před měsícem

    Scary stuff. I knew Larry had issues but didn't realize it was MS - this new diagnosis just adds to his problem. I sure hope things go well on your trip "home" and that Larry gets the care he needs and is on the road to recovery a.s.a.p. Nothing like being in your own bed to help with the healing process.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Ruth,
      His MOGAD is a rare form of MS. It’s “controlled” but not curable.
      At least this sounds like it’s fixed with surgery.
      Thanks so much for checking on us 🤗
      Alice

  • @MackenzieWingfield
    @MackenzieWingfield Před měsícem

    Glad to see that smile Larry! [your truly an inspiration!] Thanks so much guys! #Praying-4-A-blessing!

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Mackenzie, you are so sweet.
      We just hope other people that travel far from consider this 🤗
      Alice

  • @johnslavin4425
    @johnslavin4425 Před měsícem +1

    Don't know what your route is, but I live on a farm in northeast Missouri and I'm sure you could park up for the night there.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      @@johnslavin4425 so sweet to offer. Can you email so we can see if you are close? 🤗
      Alice

    • @chhook949
      @chhook949 Před měsícem

      What a Strong & Amazing Couple Also What an Amazing Community the Rv Sector has, You Got This! AllThe Best Safe Travels.Stay Blessed.

  • @CounselorSue
    @CounselorSue Před měsícem

    Honestly, I watch your channel because I like seeing the two of you. Doesn’t matter what you’re doing, travelling, sorting things out, information you share, health issues and decisions, it doesn’t matter. I just like to watch the two of you. “Trusting for the Best for you both” Sue (in Orangeville, Ontario, Canada)

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Thats so sweet. Reality appreciate it.
      Larry grew up in Oakville 🇨🇦 ❤️
      Alice

  • @richarddeacon6061
    @richarddeacon6061 Před měsícem

    Fly back please Its a long drive and not eating is dangerous !!!

  • @rene-ro6oe
    @rene-ro6oe Před měsícem

    Thanks for updating us. I think you’re making the best decision for you guys. You will have your home with you. Hoping Shands gets you fixed quick. I think the Oregon Hospital let you down. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@rene-ro6oe Rene,
      We feel very confident in our choice in driving and getting to UF
      Thanks 🤗
      Alice

  • @TilFurtherNotice
    @TilFurtherNotice Před měsícem

    Thanks for the update! You two travel safe! Get back here and all will be well. We’d try to do the same thing too. If you need anything when you get back give us a holler! Be safe ❤❤❤

  • @marlenepineda1079
    @marlenepineda1079 Před měsícem

    HI Alice, I'm wondering you are comfortable driving the 5th wheel? Praying you have a safe travel back to Florida.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      So stressed - I could barely handle long bed crew cab dually I’ve been driving for years.
      Better to be copilot and Larry only need to concentrate on driving.
      He’d sleep if I was towing and I’d have no help

  • @penneemw
    @penneemw Před měsícem

    Praying for you both and for a safe trip to Florida. I think it’s important that you are sharing this experience because any of us could find ourselves in a similar situation. When I think it through I’m pretty certain Jim and I would make the same decision you’ve made. May God bless and keep you.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@penneemw Thanks for the support. It was a tough decision. 🤗
      Alice

  • @ceritapenman6112
    @ceritapenman6112 Před měsícem

    Sorry, Portland didn't work out for you. I hope you make it safely back to Florida. Be sure you get plenty of rest. I hope since Florida knows you, you can get help fast. What's wrong, sounds pretty serious. I love watching your videos. Be safe!🥰🙏🙏

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Cerita, it is very serious - the weight loss I’m mostly concerned with.
      We already have an appointment with his primary in Florida 🤗
      Alice

  • @walterrafolski5662
    @walterrafolski5662 Před měsícem

    It’s great to see you both and I agree Larry doesn’t look sick but you can definitely tell he’s lost weight. I’ve been praying for you both and glad to know to watch the community tab to stay up to date! Alice, you can drive just take a deep breath and roll along whenever you’re on the road.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      Walter, knowing we are going to”home” has really helped Larry’s emotional state
      As for me driving? When I’m this worried about Larry - even if I had years driving it like the dually - it’s safer to let Larry drive and take breaks when he needs it 🤗
      Alice

  • @dogggdad
    @dogggdad Před měsícem

    I’m sure when you get to Gainesville, they’ll be able to figure out how to fix him. Safe travels. Keep us posted.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@dogggdad Dale, we are confident we will get great care.
      Thanks
      Alice

  • @messengersinsearch
    @messengersinsearch Před měsícem

    We think that’s what we would try to do if we were in your shoes but like you said only both of you can make that decision. Trust in the Lord guys and we are all praying for healing and a safe trip home❤️

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Thanks for understanding- you really don’t know until you are faced with it. 🤗
      Alice

  • @greggwoods7173
    @greggwoods7173 Před měsícem

    Good choice! We'll keep praying for you. Keep going. Get home.

  • @raoulroberts2024
    @raoulroberts2024 Před měsícem

    I fully support your decision. You thought through the options you had and chose tue best for you. I was never happier seeing Larry's smile given the understandle somberness of your last video. May God bless and keep you safe all the way to FL, and may Larry receive the requisite care and healing for both dreaded "m" maladies. Strength and love to you both and to Scruffy. ❤👍🏾🙏🏾

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Raoul, appreciate the support of our decision. It’s what right for us.
      He already has an appointment Monday with his primary care
      We both felt a weight off of us once we made the decision to get to Florida 🤗
      Alice

  • @TOLOW1962
    @TOLOW1962 Před měsícem

    I pray for you BOTH , My first experience with Shands was june 14, heart dept. awesome place THEY ARE ON TOP OF IT,BEST OF LUCK I feel you , home with family is great BSAFE

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@TOLOW1962 Hope all is well with you now.
      Yes. Shands is amazing 🤗
      Alice

    • @TOLOW1962
      @TOLOW1962 Před měsícem

      There ar still trying to get me regulated, but thank you for asking, I'm in the Daytona Beach area if there's anything that I can help you with please reach out, about 5 mi from interstate 95 ,6 me to the beach

  • @lauraurquhart7421
    @lauraurquhart7421 Před měsícem

    We enjoy you guys hope things get better. Is he able to drink if so try those drinks with some nutrients. I guess something that would slide down 😊. Safe travels

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Still only Ensure Clears. Can’t find Boost Clear on the road
      Thanks 🤗
      Alice

  • @JJs-ClassC-Adventures
    @JJs-ClassC-Adventures Před měsícem

    I know you have already made your decision concerning the hospital but Baylor Scott and White hospital in Temple tx is an excellent teaching hospital and has an rv park on-site. Good luck and safe travels.

  • @Jarheadcampingjunkies
    @Jarheadcampingjunkies Před měsícem

    Praying for you both, Larry for you health issues and Alice for you too because you can see in your videos how worried you are. I pray that you feel your anxiety decrease and feel Gods peace. Also praying for safe travels. 🥰

  • @thelonestarranger
    @thelonestarranger Před měsícem

    Safe travels and best wishes. I hope you can get the surgery sooner than later so you can start eating again. My prayers are with both of you. Stay strong and our Lord will take care of you!

  • @Bunny-cz5wo
    @Bunny-cz5wo Před měsícem

    You two are amazing❤ safe travels Best Wishes God Bless

  • @jimstamm9643
    @jimstamm9643 Před měsícem

    I would thing you are making the right decision!!! Best of luck to you both, and prayers be with you…..

  • @karenfromil
    @karenfromil Před měsícem

    I'm so glad to get a update! Larry you look great but we want you to be healthy. Keep making videos so others can see what's going on and hopefully someone can help with the rv. Be safe and hope to hear good things soon.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      We appreciate all the support and positive wishes 🤗
      Check Community Tab
      Alice

  • @staciesstuff2
    @staciesstuff2 Před měsícem

    I’m worried about you guys driving across county Praying for a safe trip and speedy recovery ❤️‍🩹

  • @rvyourway
    @rvyourway Před měsícem

    Wishing you both the very best in your travels back to Florida and hope Larry can get the care he needs quickly. ❤‍🩹

  • @Pinky121971
    @Pinky121971 Před měsícem

    Thank you for sharing,Hope you get the best treatment possible. Get well soon..

  • @Pawoodsman
    @Pawoodsman Před měsícem

    No easy decision across the board. Be safe on your travels Prayers 🙏 continue for a speedy recovery. God Bless you both.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      You are right. We kind of did a pros and cons list 😁
      Thanks 🤗
      Alice

  • @RetiredClay
    @RetiredClay Před měsícem

    Safe travels. God will watch over you guys Praying from Florida Come home 👍🇺🇸🍻

  • @davesnothere3495
    @davesnothere3495 Před měsícem

    good you've got it figured out. as far as Larry's tummy goes. sorry about the whole waiting game. it took 6 months from start to finish to get my gallbladder out. boy was that fun. i.e. I feel your pain. I think your doing the right thing. if you can get the docs "back home" on board that's the best way to go. hopefully they will be ready to get to work on him when you get there. safe travels, hug Scruffy and take care.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      Wow. 6 months? Hope THAT doesn’t help.
      Larry had his gallbladder out over 10 years ago.
      And thanks 🤗
      Alice

    • @davesnothere3495
      @davesnothere3495 Před měsícem

      @@DownsizingMakesCents yes it was not fun. the delay was due to back up from covid. and just all the b.s. there from. I had so many covid tests at that time it was crazy. I hope they get Larry in as soon as you are all set up in a park and ready to go. waiting for this stuff is the worst.

  • @daydreamer0923
    @daydreamer0923 Před měsícem

    Take care of yourselves ❣️

  • @sherriweber7105
    @sherriweber7105 Před měsícem

    Larry and Alice thank you for the update. I love for you to let us all know about what’s going on with Larry. And you on getting back your Florida. I will say some prayers. Glad FMCA is willing to help. I care about you both. I have known you both for a long time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I’ll check community to see anything you’ve put there. Love you and keep us all informed what’s going on. I sent you an email I hope you got it. See you both soon! Love you! ❤❤🤗😘💙🩵💚🩷🧡💜

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      We our old friends 🤗
      Didn’t see email. I’ll check later.
      We appreciate all the love 💕
      Alice

    • @sherriweber7105
      @sherriweber7105 Před měsícem

      @@DownsizingMakesCents
      For some reason it got sent back to me. With what I wrote. Don’t know why. I’ll figure it out

    • @sherriweber7105
      @sherriweber7105 Před měsícem

      @@DownsizingMakesCents
      Let me know if you get the email.

  • @johanstrieter-bh2wq
    @johanstrieter-bh2wq Před měsícem

    Well, I really hope you guys are successful and don’t run into any more problems. My hopes and prayers go with you. As a nurse, it is my recommendation that Larry starts drinking high protein shakes or anything that has protein liquid in it and as many of them as he can handle a day, I know this is difficult, but it’ll help with the trip

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@johanstrieter-bh2wq Johan, unfortunately he can’t tolerate much right now
      But thank you
      Alice

  • @kdsailorgirl
    @kdsailorgirl Před měsícem

    Sounds like you’ve made the decision to come back. Great! Good choice. Hope you get to see a vascular surgeon speedily ❤. Don’t be too concerned about the weight loss right now. Just keep pain level down and look into high calorie drinks.

  • @bobbihanratty8792
    @bobbihanratty8792 Před měsícem

    I've been waiting for an update. Prayer to you both. Safe travels and will wait for an update.

  • @Cathy-hg9xw
    @Cathy-hg9xw Před měsícem

    You are in a bad situation and doing the best you can. Thank you for the update and all the best take care and safe travels. It sure gives us something to think about if this should happen to us as I don’t drive the trailer either.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@Cathy-hg9xw Cathy, FMCA is an option.
      Or if we got a small drivable - I’d leave the towed behind and just not back in anywhere 😁
      Alice

  • @jimmymcclosky3786
    @jimmymcclosky3786 Před měsícem

    Prayers for both of you on this journey.

  • @user-vy9ht4ok2h
    @user-vy9ht4ok2h Před měsícem

    Take care - all the very best - fingers crossed all is well ❤

  • @audreye775
    @audreye775 Před měsícem

    God bless. Thanks for sharing I'm going through illness with my husband now

  • @sandymoseley
    @sandymoseley Před měsícem

    I can tell you Floridian is nearly empty, and you seemed to enjoy your stays there. 🙂

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Sandy, it’s almost empty because it was sold - no longer a campground 😔
      Alice

    • @sandymoseley
      @sandymoseley Před měsícem

      @@DownsizingMakesCents Omg, what? When did that happen?

  • @carolmcdaniel7693
    @carolmcdaniel7693 Před měsícem

    Safe travels. Can Larry drink boost or another nutritional supplement? Sending prayers.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@carolmcdaniel7693 Carole, all he can tolerate right now is Clear - only able to find Ensure Clear on the road 😔
      Thanks 🤗
      Alice

  • @motosteve6127
    @motosteve6127 Před měsícem

    Good luck guys! Whatever you decide is the the best decision. I don't blame you for wanting to get back to familiar health care and family. I would probably do the same. If you are forced to sit around for weeks waiting for the next step in the process, why not spend that time getting to a better situation?

  • @Shopsktkolsc
    @Shopsktkolsc Před měsícem

    We have been so worried about you. Thank you for taking the time to update us

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Sandi, we are so surprised so many people want updates. Glad we did it.
      It’s not the more “polished” videos I normally edit 😁
      Thank you for caring 🤗
      Alice

  • @ADONAIsays-so
    @ADONAIsays-so Před měsícem

    I'm glad your up and on the way.
    I pray your trip goes well.
    Thanks so much for sharing your experience and condition.

  • @DestinyUnknown_CA-t5c
    @DestinyUnknown_CA-t5c Před měsícem

    Larry I still think you look awesome.

  • @user-me5tk6bc5j
    @user-me5tk6bc5j Před měsícem

    Wishing you the best and hopefully you will get this figured out soon. Safe travels and our thoughts & prayers are with you

  • @collaredkeeper
    @collaredkeeper Před měsícem

    Thanks for the update, a lot of support here and elsewhere for you guys. Safe travels.

  • @BikesBoatsBivouacs
    @BikesBoatsBivouacs Před měsícem +1

    I was thinking could you fly one of your sons out to you to help with the driving. After watching your issues, I have Marie starting to drive the truck with the camper to get familiar with the process. We are learning from your situation. Hang in there.

    • @user-si6qm8jr6v
      @user-si6qm8jr6v Před měsícem +1

      I’ve told my husband the same thing!

    • @Elizabeth-rq1vi
      @Elizabeth-rq1vi Před měsícem +1

      Me too…unfortunately I don’t think it would be safe for me to drive the truck & fiver with my carpal tunnel flare up. I’m getting a cortisone shot in a couple of weeks so if that works I will be able to drive. I can drive just the truck but with a 30’ fifth wheel attached my response is unsure. I’m not afraid & if I had to I’d learn as I’m driving!

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      @@BikesBoatsBivouacs Scott, our kids are not RVers 😄 but it’s a thought.
      Once we have a homebase, I’d like to get a drivable
      It’s not the time wing, it’s the tailswing and backing in that scares me
      And thanks 🤗
      Alice

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@user-si6qm8jr6v Kim, the problem is, I’m so stressed with his illness, even if I’ve towed for years, I still trust Larry more
      Alice

  • @judyhall2680
    @judyhall2680 Před měsícem

    Praying for safe travel and a great outcome.

  • @paticherry5222
    @paticherry5222 Před měsícem

    Can you tolerate protein drinks . My husband likes Fairlife protein drinks. Ensure also is good for adding calories. Pray all goes well on your trip back to Florida.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@paticherry5222 Pati, he’s had 4 Ensure clears a day for about two weeks. Can’t tolerate much else.
      But thanks
      Alice

  • @user-nq7os9jk5l
    @user-nq7os9jk5l Před měsícem

    Don’t know which way you are heading but if you need a hospital in the middle of the country, UNMC in Omaha Nebraska is a good choice. If you are going on I 80 you will go through Omaha.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      Thanks but we are glad to be heading to his “home” hospital 🤗
      Alice

  • @rickgriffith1
    @rickgriffith1 Před měsícem

    God bless you brother. I’ll be praying for both of you. 👍🏼😎

  • @deborahmoore1111
    @deborahmoore1111 Před měsícem

    Safe travels. Continued prayers for both of you. ❤

  • @sued115
    @sued115 Před měsícem

    Alice are you helping with driving? I’m concerned that Larry could pass out while driving from weakness.

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem +1

      @@sued115 Sue, I am a very vigilant and helpful copilot. Thanks for the concern. We would never let it get that bad
      Alice

    • @sued115
      @sued115 Před měsícem

      @@DownsizingMakesCents sending prayers and hugs !

  • @daydreamer0923
    @daydreamer0923 Před měsícem

    Hey guys 👋😊,
    You both have been put through the ringer. I've been praying and hoping for both of you. I'm a bit relieved actually. I understand this has been a shit show for you both, however you are going to live. Thank you God! Yay! 💯 ❤ U man. ✌️😏

    • @DownsizingMakesCents
      @DownsizingMakesCents  Před měsícem

      @@daydreamer0923 😁 And yesterday, Scruffy was attacked by 2 big dogs so emergency vet for her 😩
      But she’s ok
      Alice