When Your Spouse Always Brings Up the Past | Paul Friedman
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
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What if you have apologized for things being done in the past, you've asked forgiveness and you're doing whatever yo make it right and they still bring up the past constantly, what do I do then?
The apologies mean little. Changing yourself so you could never err like you did before is what is needed and appreciated
I'm in the same situation, my spouse would some times bring things up again that happeneed , 10, even 15 years ago. It don't matter that I've changed, apologized multiple times, seriously regretted about it and lamented over it, changed and haven't done it again and have asked for forgiveness. My belief is that the person has not forgiven me in their heart. Even though they say it's not about that. It has to be I see no reason why u would randomly bring that stuff up when it's not even happening.
Your so beautiful would actually upset my spouse and would make them feel that I am trying to manipulate them and would actually make my situation worse.
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How wonderful life is? Does not matter to me because what my husband did in the past has damage my kids in different ways. As mom I can't forgive him
What if it often feels like the past comes up in response to a current situation to undercut my feelings about what she is doing now.
It is best for you to sidestep and put more energy into loving her...some words are not intennded to actually do anything
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I disobeyed God and married a non christian im suffering consequences. 13 years this man brings up my past always blames me for everything he thinks hes always right. He wants to take revenge on me because i did not agree with his mum i repented long back but consequences im suffering i cant leave becz of my 12 year son when will God help me i dont pray for his salvation anymore.. I pray either God make it up or break it i have lost patience and ignored him completely. Had enough of talking and making him understand best is silence 🤐 for now
You would sound more Christian if you said you understand him, forgive him, and you see God in him, as a teacher showing you your undesirable reactions, both inner and outer.
Be humble, be grateful, be in joy....you might also think about getting the course for women
@@TheMarriageFoundation 13 years I have been doing that forgiving letting go overlooking, being humbled loving kind and, Christ like but instead I get verbally abused threatening for revenge, you still think i should be humbled loving to an abuser who threatens a wife with revenge he is not a husband he is bully Its only God who can change no one else.
How many times and for how many years does the Lord forgive us? We don't set limits on morality nor on proper behavior. We are not here to change the world or our husband, only ourselves. You have freewill to do as you wish But there is a cost for our misbehaviors and a reward for our good behaviors. Your husband will reap his harvest and so will you and I.
Wow. You sound like a miserable person. Point the mirror at yourself not God
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Love you brother
Love you, too 😀
Bc it never gets dealt with
That's not the reason, although it does seem logical. The real reson is that we don't fulfil the moments of our lives with joy and love.