He will never find another like you. You’re a good women and wife, who did everything for him! If this is the path he chooses, then god bless you both. From his perspective I believe, he rather set you free because he loves and care so much about your happiness that he rather loose you so you can go be happy. That’s a good man that he’s not selfish!
Tsis paub tias neb tsis sib haum li cas tab sis yog nyob Tsis tau ua ke lawm los hais zoo 2 li neb ko xwb nawb mog es tsis txhob ua nyuaj hos. Es koj nyob los ua siab loj vajtswv yeej muaj lub hom phiaj rau neb mog tam sim no ntsib qhov phem tag kis qhov zoo yuav tshwm sim tuaj hos nawb. Zoo tshaj tsis txhob sib foob es yuavpoob nyiaj txiag nawb es hais zoo 2 li ko xwb mog me ntxhais. Thov vajtswv nrog nraim neb 2b leeg kom neb nyiaj dhau qhov kev nyuaj siab no mog. Neb 2 leeg yeej siab zoo 2 kawg nawb. Vajtswv hlub neb mog
It seems that people are over analyzing the situation. It’s obvious that their fertility journey has brought a lot of things to light. Nathan knows that he can’t give her children. He loves her so deeply, that he is willing to leave and let her find someone who can. A true man who truly loves her. He’s not stupid and being manipulated. He’s a very smart and considerate man.
I am very happy about Nathan's decisions 👏 😄🎉. When You cry for not getting pregnant that second it harder for him to be alive. Good things he leave you.
How do we know it’s Nathan that can’t give her a baby? Did Pa say it was him? This video seems to be very one sided. I’ve watched a lot pa’s videos and although she is very independent and seems to “love” him very much by the way she takes care of him, she does a lot of shaming him on social media and in front of their relatives as well… He could be tired of that too, since he can’t understand. Then to add her mom living with them. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ We’ll never know unless Nathan comes on and gives his side 🤷🏻♀️
Seems like a mutual divorce. When two people's goals no longer aligned, the best thing to do is depart. Being together will only torture and deteriorate as time pass. Rather it's her or Nathan's decisions, do what makes you happy.
@Codewithsue even if there were some outside influences, if staying with him for 17 years meant nothing to her, then there was never love to begin with. So she should still leave. Some people want kids, and some just don't. Some are comfortable with their life and want to be stagnant, and some dont. Just to respect each other's decisions.
I wish Hmong women are more like you. Once we no longer share the same common goal, it's time to get a divorce. Stop getting all the parents, brothers, uncle, sisters and relatives involved. Just let it go.
Seems like getting a divorce is the trend now….dont you think? the rates are so high compared to the 50s or 60s. There is something behind this phenomenon….maybe social media and the internet could be a huge factor
Paj, ive watched you’re video since day one in you’re old house . & let me tell you this you’re a good women, you cook, take care of him & do everything he wants you to . if a man leaves you because you can’t give him kids, HE IS NOT FOR YOU!!! Sister it’s time for you to heal & love yourself❤️ you give so much love to Nathan all these past 17 years of loving him & look what he has done for you in return . Btw, Nathan needs to look at himself too . He needs to be healthy himself to even have kids . Wish yall the best sister ❤️❤️
As unfortunate as it is, you will be thankful later. He is super lazy - I have been watching this channel from the beginning. He cannot and does not do anything at all. She takes care of him, and she has to do everything on her own. He is basically just there as a friend and roommate that she takes care of. He also has a lot of health issues due to his own choices. It is and will only keep catching up with him. If they stayed together, she would soon quit her job and become his full time caretaker. It is a blessing in disguise. Just being honest.
Paj twb tsis muaj good relationship nrog Nathan niam thiab txiv lawv li es yuav ua cas ua neej nas. Pojniam yuav yus thiab zoo rau yus xwb ces muab nrauj mus zoo dua. Paj los tos tau niam tuaj ces muab Nathan cais kiag tsis noj mov ua ke lawm thiab nws hais dab tsi rau Nathan los nws nthe lawm xwb. Kuv yog Nathan los kuv yeej nrauj paj thiab nawb.
I consider him a real man. He’s true enough to part ways civilly and not some coward hanging on just to hang on. Regardless of the situation, chin up and shoulders high. Situations like this suck but there will be better and brighter days!
A real man doesn't run away from problems, and will always find a way to make the marriage work! Pa loves him, but he's hurting her and leaving her nicely? Lol. Not a real man in my book! A coward running away nicely, he can't run cause he's fat...but slowly walking away.
Paj, I’m so sorry to hear the news. You are such a strong independent woman. With limited English you have so much courage. So much more than some women who are educated. I’m proud of you and whatever the reason is I’m happy that you both realize it now than later. You are still young and you can find someone who shares the same dream as you. Good luck to you and Nathan.
Don't want to sound rude but we are only hearing one side of the story. Nathan seems like a gentle and nice guy. I honestly don't think he would ever leave Pa. He's probably only doing it so Pa can go be happy with her life. ( have children) Until we hear from Nathan, then this is what I assumed happened.
@leevue1920 I agree. She has him right there to say what he wanted to if he chose. Why isn't he speaking up if he doesn't want the divorce. Divorce is hard. I think they are both very good people, that is why they are both amicable. So sad.
Divorce is never easy. If one party decides to divorce then there is no longer any valid reason to hold on anymore. There was no cheating involved but just a mutual agreement. The first stage will always be hard but when she relearns all about the self love she deserves, she will be okay.
Maybe the reason is she want kids and he couldn't give her that so he rather let her go so she can find her happiness who know what reall happens. Best of luck to sister Pa and Nathan on their journey it also sad to see her crying.
@@ashton8878 Agree, he's so dependent on her that it makes zero sense that he would be the one to instigate the divorce. I suspect she's the one that asked for the divorce because of the baby thing. Her sadness may be real, but she probably is done with the marriage.
Hmong people need to learn from them…part way amicably so they can still be friends. It takes strength to say openly and with one another in front of people (we CZcamsr followers). Kudos to both of them.
lykaojalao, agree. This is a very healthy ending. Just like me and my GF in Xiengkhouang, Laos. When COVID 19 came, we were not allowed to return to Laos like before so we decided to say Goodbye peacefully on the phone. When she got married I still sent her a little gift for her to keep it as memory. We still talk on the phone as friend today because her hubby is Laotian, LOL.
@@blasblasblas2094 Good. I am an OG and I am very sad to see our Hmong couple destroyed themselves once theirs relationships go south. Some to the point to kill each other leaving kids with no loves. I hope that this couple will open up our eyes and learn from them. I believe being a couple for so many years, the positive has to overcome the negative. A couple who part way can still be friends. I applaud you for telling your story too.
You don't understand. This guy loves his wife so much that he lets her go because he can't be a real husband to her. You all should learn from this guy.
Puas yog li lawv hais ma paj, puas yog tias koj ntshaw2 minyuam es nws thiaj tso koj mus os? Nws zoo heev li vim nws twb take care tsis tau nws tus kheej los nws tseem ua siab tso koj mus. Thov Vaj tswv yawm saub tsim kwm neb 2 leeg mog.
Sister, be strong and happy. I know it’s hard especially you still want to be with him and want to start a family having kids but he changed his mind and heart. Maybe it’s better to go separate ways. Hope your mom still in the USA, so she could comfort you during this difficult time. You’ll find another man that loves who you are….
Sister in this country divorce is not a bad thing anymore. Nobody works for you or pays your bills, so no one should have a say in how you live your life.
People are so quick to judge. But their relationship seemed to be more mature and healthier than most relationships. The transparency, mutual respect and understanding between them shows that do they care for one another. You both deserve to find happiness and peace.
It’s ok to say that you want a divorce. Just don’t blame it on him. If it was mutual then just say it was mutual but to ask him questions and see how his actions didn’t match what you were saying is what confuses everyone.
Pa it’s okay. You have always been a strong woman. You have always done EVERYTHING on your own. You can get through this too. Keep doing your CZcams videos. We all love you and will still support you. We watch your videos bc of you not the both of you.
Wow all these comment saying that she is better then him. Sounds like the friend who gives bad advice. Her husband and her seemed to have a mutual understanding and respect. Why belittle one over the other.
Paj! Sorry to hear about you and Nathan, I’ve been following you since day one, you will do just fine by yourself, you’ve been doing it for way too long. Nathan was just a figure husband, you were the one doing everything. You cook, you clean inside and outside, you take him to all his doctors appt and pick up medicine. You drive him everywhere. He’s going to miss pho, kapoon and your hot peppers. Don’t read the negative comment. I don’t need to hear his side, you don’t owe anyone and explanation. It’s your life and your choice. Please continue to make videos. Stay strong
I think it’s the best for them both. We shouldn’t be too quick to judge. At the end of the day, they both decided to separate. We are not them. It’s their life. We cannot judge them for their decisions. We should be supportive and be happy for them both. Regardless of who wanted to separate first or not, we shouldn’t be quick to judge. We don’t live in their shoes. But again, it’s their happiness that they want for each other.
They both have to thanks each other for their love and struggles. I hope he finds happiness and she will find her true soulmate. Don’t be sad sister. You are a good person God will always be with you 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Its okay Paj. We all go through things in life. You’re sad now but you will overcome it. It takes time to heal. Take time to heal and care for yourself. Love yourself. Stay strong and we will continue to support you and every way possible. You will find your person. ♥️♥️
Txhob tu siab os twb tsi muaj tej me nyuam los ua chaw tshuav li peb os nb.kv nim twb khiav mus yuav ib nim pog meb cab tim nplog lawm thb es kv twb tsi tu siab lawm os kj yeej yuav nyb tau kaj siab os nawb
Koj hais yog kawg os es tus mi Viv nraus paj aw yeej tsis muaj leej twg xav tau txoj kev tau zoo li no txawm li Cas Los ua siab kom loj nawb mog neb 2 leeg ntxhim hlub heev li os muaj dab tsis los ua zoo Hai kom zoo siab mam sib faib txoj kev taug nawb mog es txhob txob qua os
Hmoob lub los ham tsis ib yam thiab xwb os. Koj tsis pom Hmoob sib nrauj coob ua luaj li los. Hmoob mas yuav sib nrauj ces lauj kaub tais diav tawg tag mam nrauj os
Regardless if it’s hmoob, mekas, dub, mev los lwm haiv neeg…it only takes 1 person to break a marriage. Hmoob marriages are in the same boat…broken marriages & families everywhere.
This is the dumbest opinion one can have. Hmoob ma tseem ua haib tshaj lawm os. Ntshe mag ntau hniav lov tag los kwv tij neej tsa tseem hais tias “me maiv aws ua siab ntev es rov qab mus yuav nws os mog”. Rov qab mus hniav lov ob, peb tug ntxiv xwb. I’d rather someone tell me that they’re leaving because things aren’t working out. Better than feeling hopeless and wanting to leave but your relatives keep telling you to “make it work” to save face.
I have been watching you both since Day 1 and although I’m sad to hear the news, I am proud of you both for being honest with one another. It’s a tough decision for both parties. I can tell you’re both hurting but only you guys know what’s best for your marriage. Peb tsis koom ib lub txaj nrog neb, peb tsis paub neb li teebmeem. Tiamsi, ua siab loj os niam laus. Txawm li cas los, kav tsij rau rau siab ntso khwv rau yus tus kheej kom rov muaj zog tuaj xwb. Txoj kev txij nkawm mas paub hnub no xwb tsis paub tagkis li os. Txhob xav ntau ntau nawb. Tsis muaj leej twg xav taug txoj kev no li. Thov kom neb tsuas noj qab nyob zoo xwb os. We will miss you both! You both do not owe anyone an explanation. Stay positive, stay strong. Thank you for sharing your life with us viewers. Take care Pa and Nathan❤
So sudden, that it’s kind of hard to believe you both are separating. You both seem to love each other very much over the years based on what we’ve seen. Of course people & circumstances can always change overtime due to different goals, values etc. Regardless, I wish you both the best
That’s why I don’t believe anything people put out on social media, truth is they only let you see what they want you to see, some of the parts, not the whole part. Lo lus “I love you” is easy for the mouth to utter but hard to deliver in action. Paj wants to start a family and he’s indifferent and just goes along with whatever she says. And when that plan fouls, it’s a rude awakening for her. But I think this has been long in the making and it was the failed IUI that broke the camel’s back.
I think the baby journey was stressful and it also puts a lot of pressure on people. I hope the best for both you and Nathan with success in your future endeavors. You both deserve to be happy even if that means a divorce. You never know, maybe you two would make the best of friends who support each other best in the future but just not together as a couple. Txhob tus siab os mog. Tsuav nws lo hais zoo zoo rau koj xwb ces kav liam nyias mus nyias. Qhov ntawv zoo dua kev sib ntau sib ceg, sib ntxub os.
What I see is he love u a lot pa to let u go find your happiness, he can’t give u what u want so he wants u to be happy and go find your happiness. Your videos now and in the future won’t be the same without your husband. We are so use to seeing you both together. Stay strong pa!!!
Don't be sad. He loves you enough to know what makes you happy and enough to let you go find your happiness. You are a strong woman, you will get through this. Sending you prayers for emotional strength.
This is why you don’t trust anyone else and don’t marry someone who doesn’t know how much you love him or her…..I have three sisters cousins and one auntie…..all of my sisters and auntie were married to different types of men and now they are divorced……yeah every single person of my auntie and three sisters were widows right now….. I feel you and your pain inside your heart sister….I’m a yang too…..I’m so sorry for your life that it didn’t go the way you thought or wishes for it😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I’m soo sad! Nathan has a good heart. When someone loves you, they let you go to chase your dreams. I can tell he loves Pa very much but, he’s not a talkative person, so I know it’s hard for him. We love you Nathan!!! Be strong!!
Although it’s a sad parting but it’s also a good example to shows other people that when love is not there anymore, let it be free and respect each other decisions. Never force anybody to stay if they don’t want to stay anymore. Hoping for the best for both parties. Let it go. A more brighter day will come.
Ya need to listen carefully. It seems like she wants the divorce but making it seem like he wants the divorce. He still loves her; him wanting to squeeze her cheek and she shut him down. This isn’t the first time either. She seems short with him. Also his health is deteriorating so she prob wants to leave so she doesn’t become the sole caretaker for him.
You know what? You're so right. She manipulate him. He needs her. He married her from overseas and now she got green card she say byebye. He have saying in this. It's all her saying. She wanted to find a new to see if she can get pregnant since she couldn't with this meka guy.
I feel like the lady wants this. Its her idea. Ever since they moved out ive noticed the tone and the yelling in her voice to him on every vid. I know hes lazy and overweight but he is overweight. Why did she let him get to that size too then? Miarriage is suppose to be the good, the bad and the ugly thru thick and thin. I feel like she slowly got tired of him and he realizes it and rather let her go now than later. He was patience to her when he brought her over and taught her to adapt and live the american life. Now she cant be patience for him. Good luck to them 2
😂😂😂 you make it sound like Pa is the main reason he blew up ... he's an adult ... he could have cooked his own food... he could have got up and get some exercises in... oh wait, it's all Pa's fault. 🤦♀️
I have been a big fan of you 2. It's probably a good decision for you both. You got this PA. You have always been so independent on your own, to be honest. You just keep making content for us all. We are here to support you ❤️
Don’t cry Paj, better days are ahead. A year from now you’re going to thank your lucky star. He did he’s job of bringing you and your mom to this beautiful country, so now it’s time to go back to where he came from. You’ll smile and laugh again soon.❤❤🥰🥰
Pa, you can refinance the house and remove his name per his request. Its better than you paying him every month because it way be issue in the long wrong. Stay strong! Love yourself Things happen for the better! Wishing both of you two the best.
Don’t cry. I’ve been there. My ex and I bought a beautiful big house. We poured our sweat heart and soul into the home and when it ended I bagged up everything for him and made sure I split everything 50/50 so I feel ur pain. It will get better I promise. Good luck
Wow, cas tsis txaus ntseeg kiag li os. Txhob tu siab mog, tejzaum neb txoj hmoo yeej los txog li no xwb. Lub neej tseem tshuav ntev heev, mam nrhiav tus hlub yus thiab muaj lub hom phiaj zoo li u lub os..
It's sad to hear about this news 😢. Sometimes when the two people in a relationship have different goals in life, it just can't be helped. Tsis txhob tu siab heev os Paj, ua nws tsaug xwb tias nws pab koj tuaj rau tebchaws vammeej lawm es koj lub neej thiaj tsua muaj qhov zoo mus lawm xwb. Hais txog ntawm kev ua pojnrauj ces tsis txhob muab xav ntau ntau rau qhov koj yeej muaj haujlwm khovkho lawm ces koj yeej yuav tsis txomnyem. It's good that you two can still remain friends.
Hey Paj, I’ve been watching your video and have seen a lot on how you’ve suffer and been a strong women. This is what we all women scared the most, you will find someone better in life, able to help you out, and give you a family you dream of. Supporting you all the way❤️
Don’t feel bad we all know that he is not your type of guy but you have no choice coming to America. I know is going to be hard now but you will feel better in the future with someone who will love you and you will love them to start a family.
just look at him, you must be delusional to think this big baby is fit to be a husband. who care who wanted the divorce, its better for both. she can find another white dude and he can go back to his mama..maybe his mama didnt wanted this asian women to take advantage of her son in the long run. who know but going there separate way is best..
Me sister aw hlub2 kj kawg li os. Txob tusiab mog mam nrhiav dua tus tshiab mog. Kj zoo2 kawg koj yeej tseem yuav nrhiav tau tus zoo2 phim kj mog. Ua siab loj2 nawb. Hlub2 koj kawg li os
Sis, there will be better days in your future. This is a blessing in disguise. You are still young and there is so much more to life than what u've been shown in your marriage. This only opens many more doors for you. Take care and take this time to heal and move forward. We all support you!
Sister, you got this. If he wants to go, you can’t change his mind. People come and go in our lives, they are all here to teach us something about ourselves. I know it’s a difficult time but don’t isolate yourself. Allow help from family and friends, make new friends, keep doing what you love. You may not see the point now but 5, 10 years from now you will look back and see how you grew in spirit. Best wishes.
You will be ok. Just make sure you take care of yourself. You're the only one that can make yourself better. Don't worry, this may be a blessing in a disguise. Just know that you were and are a good wife. You did A LOT for that man. He could have done more for you. Again, best of luck to you Pa.
@@HlobHlobHlob right… if Nate doesn’t want to be with her, I’m sure he won’t say she’s cute and want to pinch her cheeks. I have a feeling that once her mom is here and the house was bought, that was enough for her to pull the trigger…. I honestly feel bad for Nate…
He's very considerate and walk away because he can't make babies with Pa. He took the initiative to walk away and let her find someone who could give her children. He is a good guy and think of her happiness.
I think you’re too good for your husband anyways. This isn’t the end, it’s the beginning of a new beginning for you. Don’t be sad. You’re now in the land of opportunities!
That’s what I’m saying. No time to kill. Just hive youself some real self love and everything will be okay. Love is coming your way so be patient sister Pa. We love you and will always be your number one fan. Txhob quav quav ntsej lawv tej niag comment phem ntawd. Tshoob quav rau xwb os me sister Pa. Thiv vajtswv hlub koj thiab coj koj txoj hauv kev ua neej mus ntsib tus zoo tshaj thaub mekas rog kod os. Good luck and god bless you!!! ❤❤
I couldn't leave my husband of 17 years with or without babies. He looks too cuddly ..I'll just adopt or get a lot dogs 😅. I would definitely join the gym together and encourage each other.
I'm sorry that he wants to divorce you. It's happen for the best. You'll be happier. You deserve better. You deserve a person that contribute equally in all aspects.
Pa u deserve better, let him go, u will find someone better os, , dont cry, look for your own new happiness and new chapter! May god watches over you and guide you!
Me naib koj yog ib tug ntxhais hmoob zoo ncauj zoo lus thiab ntse ntsuav . Peb yeej khuv xim koj kawg li ua cas koj hoi mus yuav lwm haiv neeg lawm, yog tias tsis work ces kav tsij rov qab los seb hmoob pus muaj txoj hmoo tau koj rov qab los hlub nawv mog.
Nkawv zaj dab neeg thaum pib yog mus Meka no mus yuav nws tim Plog tuaj xwb, tsam no nkawv nyob ntev tsi muaj me nyuam, tus poj niam ntshaw thiab xav tau me nyuam heev kuv ntsheeg tau tias thaub yeej tsi xav nrauj nws poj niam tab sis qhov zoo zam kev rau nws mus muaj lwm tus seb lub neej puas hloov xwb. Muaj me nyuam los yuav sib nrauj tsi muaj los yuav sib nrauj yog 1 qho nyuaj kawg li.
Somehow I feel like it may not be Nathan’s decision to leave. Clearly it seems she’s trying to justify herself, when she asked him “ are you sure you really leaving me?” His response is“ Uuhh” I understand she does a lot for him and with the pregnancy not being successful she probably wants out!
Seems to me that she's the one who decided to leave, but just shifts the decision to Nathan. I mean she wears the pants in the relationship, whatever she says thats how it goes. Pa yeej heev2 but we just dont see what goes on before the camera rolls.
It could also be that he doesn’t want to be with her anymore because her mom now live with them. He wants to be taken care of but with her mom there, he can’t be lazy 🤷🏻♀️
Or could be that he doesn’t want any responsibility if or when they have a baby so he decided to run. The way she explained is he doesn’t want to be with her anymore
Sorry to hear of your divorce. It must be very hard for you. Sounds like you loved him a lot but things just didnt work out and thats ok. Things will get better over time. Stay strong.
So many speculations, different angles, different perspectives … just tell us the truth so we can stop the speculations. It’s killing me… bc I love this channel. Pa, you and Nathan are a cute couple. Pa, you are an independent girl. Sending you both prayers and hugs. May you guys find happiness.
Sister aw ua cas nejmpheej hais lus li txiv neej hmoob mas zoo2 tsis nrauj pojniam li na. Nraug nrab hmoob puv ntiaj teb. Thaum lawv mus pom tus tshiab lawm mas lawv Haj yam los ua phem rau tus hauv tsev os. Nws tus txiv nrauj nws los twb ua ncaj nruab nrab tsis ua kub ua tsiv.
@@christinamua6939 Nws tsis tau pom txiv neej Hmoob muab poj niam pav qhov ncauj ntaus tsuj ntshav ncauj ntshav ntswj los liab vog los tseem nyiag nyiaj tag nqa khiav mus Nplog teb lawm nas. Paj es niaj hnub muab Nathan coj tuaj rhuav rau Hmoob txhua hnub es cov cem Nathan li cas los muaj tag los Nathan twb tsis tau cem paj ib los li.
God blessed you and Nathan to find each other. Praying for you both to find a way to resolve rebuild and make your marriage stronger. If having children is the issue there are plenty of kids that want to be loved and adopt.
Zoo siab xws os mog vim nws Nyob lo tws pab tsis tau Koj li. I think he wants you to be happy only - he knows his limits and he can’t help you get pregnant. So he’s sacrificing for you. Hlub Koj kawg li os.
Don't cry sister. He will miss you soon. I been following you and your husband for awhile now. You cook, clean, feed him and look after him so good like a child he will regret leaving you. He will never find another woman who will love him and cook for him. But I am happy that you and your husband will still be good friends. He will still be there if you need him.
Zoo li neb twb sib hlub kawg nev lov thov qhias seb vim li ca nw ho g yuav kj o thov qhias tiagtiag nawd .thiab txhob tu siab o viv ncau cias nw ua rau kj xb e thiaj li o❤
Either he found someone new or his family and friends put thoughts into his head but it seem he was confuse about the whole situation in the beginning. Im so confuse how she was trying to get pregnant and then found out she wasnt then now divorce. Either way we dont know what going on i hope the best for paj and her soon to be ex 😢
@@babyly9123 yeah but the real conversation between them before the video would be more of the honest conversation we just getting the end result of their conversation about splitting and we never see pa in the video asking him to change his mind I mean if you really want it to work out I think you would be more convincing and emotional seems like sister like ok and that’s it
That might be the case here. Thankfully I not listen to other mekas. But, he also may think she will suffer bc she not get pregnant. Forgetting that the promise of for better or for worse, is in play. They could easily find other options if want to get pregnant so badly. But, the fact remains, he and her both have a promise to keep. Unless, it force them to want un alive. So, both should accept that not be pregnant may be nobody fault. And no reason to leave each other. That my opinion. Side note, why he not use gym equipment 🤔
Sister Maiv paj zoo. Marriage is not A Greentree for lifetime. Its ok not crying or sad because you and Nathan have done it all. May times, works will bring a healthy lifestyle for both. May God bless you.
I'm sad to hear about this. I love watching your channel. Whatever happens please keep your channel going. You will always have my support. And this can be a turning point for both of you. Just keep your head up high and do what's good for you. Life goes on. I hope for the best for you two.
Sister, sorry to hear you two are parting way. I strongly agree with both of you that when your goals and dreams do not align, it's best to part way and remain friends. Which many people in here can not do. Don't let their ugly minds destroy yourself worth.
You're dodging a bullet there. Nathan will be gone in a decade or less. Lose him, hit the gym, and stop eating so much rice and noodles (carbohydrates). You will get skinny in 3 months. Get a productive Hmong man, start a family and start enjoying life! Know your worth! You'll get over this.
He will never find another like you. You’re a good women and wife, who did everything for him! If this is the path he chooses, then god bless you both. From his perspective I believe, he rather set you free because he loves and care so much about your happiness that he rather loose you so you can go be happy. That’s a good man that he’s not selfish!
I agree. You can tell pa is so heart broken but he’s doing her a favor.
Quit assuming things. It might not even be like that.
I agreed.
I think it’s also because he KNOWS Pa wants a family and he wasn’t able to govern her that. 😢
Tsis paub tias neb tsis sib haum li cas tab sis yog nyob Tsis tau ua ke lawm los hais zoo 2 li neb ko xwb nawb mog es tsis txhob ua nyuaj hos. Es koj nyob los ua siab loj vajtswv yeej muaj lub hom phiaj rau neb mog tam sim no ntsib qhov phem tag kis qhov zoo yuav tshwm sim tuaj hos nawb. Zoo tshaj tsis txhob sib foob es yuavpoob nyiaj txiag nawb es hais zoo 2 li ko xwb mog me ntxhais. Thov vajtswv nrog nraim neb 2b leeg kom neb nyiaj dhau qhov kev nyuaj siab no mog. Neb 2 leeg yeej siab zoo 2 kawg nawb. Vajtswv hlub neb mog
It seems that people are over analyzing the situation.
It’s obvious that their fertility journey has brought a lot of things to light. Nathan knows that he can’t give her children. He loves her so deeply, that he is willing to leave and let her find someone who can. A true man who truly loves her. He’s not stupid and being manipulated. He’s a very smart and considerate man.
I am very happy about Nathan's decisions 👏 😄🎉.
When You cry for not getting pregnant that second it harder for him to be alive.
Good things he leave you.
How do you know he can’t give her children?
How do we know it’s Nathan that can’t give her a baby? Did Pa say it was him? This video seems to be very one sided.
I’ve watched a lot pa’s videos and although she is very independent and seems to “love” him very much by the way she takes care of him, she does a lot of shaming him on social media and in front of their relatives as well… He could be tired of that too, since he can’t understand. Then to add her mom living with them. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ We’ll never know unless Nathan comes on and gives his side 🤷🏻♀️
I agree!
Seems like a mutual divorce. When two people's goals no longer aligned, the best thing to do is depart. Being together will only torture and deteriorate as time pass. Rather it's her or Nathan's decisions, do what makes you happy.
I really hope this is the case! I enjoy watching them together 😢and would hate to know that her mother influenced her now that she’s in the US.
@Codewithsue even if there were some outside influences, if staying with him for 17 years meant nothing to her, then there was never love to begin with. So she should still leave. Some people want kids, and some just don't. Some are comfortable with their life and want to be stagnant, and some dont. Just to respect each other's decisions.
I wish Hmong women are more like you. Once we no longer share the same common goal, it's time to get a divorce. Stop getting all the parents, brothers, uncle, sisters and relatives involved. Just let it go.
@@Miababe93 She decided to leave maybe because he is a Thaub laus Meskas dawb who probably can't do " Ais Lauv Yus" at night that much, LOL.
Seems like getting a divorce is the trend now….dont you think? the rates are so high compared to the 50s or 60s. There is something behind this phenomenon….maybe social media and the internet could be a huge factor
Paj, ive watched you’re video since day one in you’re old house . & let me tell you this you’re a good women, you cook, take care of him & do everything he wants you to . if a man leaves you because you can’t give him kids, HE IS NOT FOR YOU!!! Sister it’s time for you to heal & love yourself❤️ you give so much love to Nathan all these past 17 years of loving him & look what he has done for you in return .
Btw, Nathan needs to look at himself too . He needs to be healthy himself to even have kids . Wish yall the best sister ❤️❤️
It's a blessing in disguise. He came into ur life to prepare you for the a life without him. Be thankful that it not a messy separation/ divorce.
As unfortunate as it is, you will be thankful later. He is super lazy - I have been watching this channel from the beginning. He cannot and does not do anything at all. She takes care of him, and she has to do everything on her own. He is basically just there as a friend and roommate that she takes care of. He also has a lot of health issues due to his own choices. It is and will only keep catching up with him. If they stayed together, she would soon quit her job and become his full time caretaker. It is a blessing in disguise. Just being honest.
Mus yuav txiv Hmoob es thiaj li muaj nkauj muaj muam, muaj kwv tij hlub yus es ua neej thiaj li sov siab os.
Paj twb tsis muaj good relationship nrog Nathan niam thiab txiv lawv li es yuav ua cas ua neej nas. Pojniam yuav yus thiab zoo rau yus xwb ces muab nrauj mus zoo dua. Paj los tos tau niam tuaj ces muab Nathan cais kiag tsis noj mov ua ke lawm thiab nws hais dab tsi rau Nathan los nws nthe lawm xwb. Kuv yog Nathan los kuv yeej nrauj paj thiab nawb.
@@tswvxyastswvyeej5510 Koj hais tsis yog lawm os kwv tij aw. Ua ib tug txiv tsev tsis hais neeg Hmoob los yog neeg tawv dawb li, yog coj li Nathan xwb ces twb yog Paj kawg thiaj nyob txog tav no os. Yog lwm tus ces twb ntsib lub " bye bye, sayonara " los ntev lawm os, LOL
I consider him a real man. He’s true enough to part ways civilly and not some coward hanging on just to hang on. Regardless of the situation, chin up and shoulders high. Situations like this suck but there will be better and brighter days!
A real man doesn't run away from problems, and will always find a way to make the marriage work! Pa loves him, but he's hurting her and leaving her nicely? Lol. Not a real man in my book! A coward running away nicely, he can't run cause he's fat...but slowly walking away.
Dumbest shit I ever heard lol
@1PinkPanda lmao your comment got me laughing I kinda agree with you
@@2Cenery elaborate on how he’s a real man
@@1PinkPanda😭😭
Paj, I’m so sorry to hear the news. You are such a strong independent woman. With limited English you have so much courage. So much more than some women who are educated. I’m proud of you and whatever the reason is I’m happy that you both realize it now than later. You are still young and you can find someone who shares the same dream as you. Good luck to you and Nathan.
Don't want to sound rude but we are only hearing one side of the story. Nathan seems like a gentle and nice guy. I honestly don't think he would ever leave Pa. He's probably only doing it so Pa can go be happy with her life. ( have children) Until we hear from Nathan, then this is what I assumed happened.
Totally agree
I dont belive her it look like she the one don't want to be with her husband
Try to look innocent
@@niamtsev5104she was literally speaking English to him saying she don't want to let him go but he's the one who wants to leave. Stop speculating.
@leevue1920 I agree. She has him right there to say what he wanted to if he chose. Why isn't he speaking up if he doesn't want the divorce. Divorce is hard. I think they are both very good people, that is why they are both amicable. So sad.
@@niamtsev5104 yeah she's happy that he will be gone. She just pretended to be sad.
Divorce is never easy. If one party decides to divorce then there is no longer any valid reason to hold on anymore. There was no cheating involved but just a mutual agreement. The first stage will always be hard but when she relearns all about the self love she deserves, she will be okay.
Sister, never be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to be with you. You are worth more than you think.
We don't know that. Nathan hasn't said anything and can't defend himself.
More like she doesn't want to be with him anymore
Maybe the reason is she want kids and he couldn't give her that so he rather let her go so she can find her happiness who know what reall happens. Best of luck to sister Pa and Nathan on their journey it also sad to see her crying.
Have you watch this channel at all???!! If anything, he wants to be with her!
@@ashton8878 Agree, he's so dependent on her that it makes zero sense that he would be the one to instigate the divorce. I suspect she's the one that asked for the divorce because of the baby thing. Her sadness may be real, but she probably is done with the marriage.
Hmong people need to learn from them…part way amicably so they can still be friends.
It takes strength to say openly and with one another in front of people (we CZcamsr followers).
Kudos to both of them.
lykaojalao, agree. This is a very healthy ending. Just like me and my GF in Xiengkhouang, Laos. When COVID 19 came, we were not allowed to return to Laos like before so we decided to say Goodbye peacefully on the phone. When she got married I still sent her a little gift for her to keep it as memory. We still talk on the phone as friend today because her hubby is Laotian, LOL.
@@blasblasblas2094
Good.
I am an OG and I am very sad to see our Hmong couple destroyed themselves once theirs relationships go south.
Some to the point to kill each other leaving kids with no loves.
I hope that this couple will open up our eyes and learn from them.
I believe being a couple for so many years, the positive has to overcome the negative.
A couple who part way can still be friends.
I applaud you for telling your story too.
@@lykaojalao2733 Thank you and nice chatting with you my friend. 🙏🙏👍👍
You don't understand. This guy loves his wife so much that he lets her go because he can't be a real husband to her. You all should learn from this guy.
Puas yog li lawv hais ma paj, puas yog tias koj ntshaw2 minyuam es nws thiaj tso koj mus os? Nws zoo heev li vim nws twb take care tsis tau nws tus kheej los nws tseem ua siab tso koj mus. Thov Vaj tswv yawm saub tsim kwm neb 2 leeg mog.
Sister, be strong and happy. I know it’s hard especially you still want to be with him and want to start a family having kids but he changed his mind and heart. Maybe it’s better to go
separate ways. Hope your mom still in the USA, so she could comfort you during this difficult time. You’ll find another man that loves who you are….
Sister in this country divorce is not a bad thing anymore. Nobody works for you or pays your bills, so no one should have a say in how you live your life.
Don't be sad. Maybe it's a blessing in disguise. You'll find someone better. You deserve someone better.
People are so quick to judge. But their relationship seemed to be more mature and healthier than most relationships. The transparency, mutual respect and understanding between them shows that do they care for one another. You both deserve to find happiness and peace.
So true that is why I enjoyed watching them. Nothing toxic.
Yog nws twb txiav txim siab mus lawm ces ua ib siab es ho txhob quaj2 thiab xav tias Vajtswv tseem hlub koj.
@@rosexiong-mv5xy Vaj tswv thiab Vaj Pov lawv txawm yuav hlub npaum twg los yog nws tus txiv twb tsis hlub thiab tsis hais " Ais Lauv Yus " hmo ntuj lawm ces kawg tu siab xwb mas, LOL
It’s ok to say that you want a divorce. Just don’t blame it on him. If it was mutual then just say it was mutual but to ask him questions and see how his actions didn’t match what you were saying is what confuses everyone.
Pa it’s okay. You have always been a strong woman. You have always done EVERYTHING on your own. You can get through this too. Keep doing your CZcams videos. We all love you and will still support you. We watch your videos bc of you not the both of you.
He is useless
Wow all these comment saying that she is better then him. Sounds like the friend who gives bad advice. Her husband and her seemed to have a mutual understanding and respect. Why belittle one over the other.
No hugging, no kissing and no baby at night. I'm leaving you old man. Sayonara, LOL
Paj! Sorry to hear about you and Nathan, I’ve been following you since day one, you will do just fine by yourself, you’ve been doing it for way too long. Nathan was just a figure husband, you were the one doing everything. You cook, you clean inside and outside, you take him to all his doctors appt and pick up medicine. You drive him everywhere. He’s going to miss pho, kapoon and your hot peppers. Don’t read the negative comment. I don’t need to hear his side, you don’t owe anyone and explanation. It’s your life and your choice. Please continue to make videos. Stay strong
I think it’s the best for them both. We shouldn’t be too quick to judge. At the end of the day, they both decided to separate. We are not them. It’s their life. We cannot judge them for their decisions. We should be supportive and be happy for them both. Regardless of who wanted to separate first or not, we shouldn’t be quick to judge. We don’t live in their shoes. But again, it’s their happiness that they want for each other.
They both have to thanks each other for their love and struggles. I hope he finds happiness and she will find her true soulmate. Don’t be sad sister. You are a good person God will always be with you 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Sis u will be fine, you are such a strong woman, you are able to come here, learned English, drive and get a job! The hard part is over already. ❤
Its okay Paj. We all go through things in life. You’re sad now but you will overcome it. It takes time to heal. Take time to heal and care for yourself. Love yourself. Stay strong and we will continue to support you and every way possible.
You will find your person. ♥️♥️
Txhob tu siab os twb tsi muaj tej me nyuam los ua chaw tshuav li peb os nb.kv nim twb khiav mus yuav ib nim pog meb cab tim nplog lawm thb es kv twb tsi tu siab lawm os kj yeej yuav nyb tau kaj siab os nawb
Ka Liam os. MEKAS lub neeg si yuav ces yog ua si xwb. Tsis yog yuav tiag tiag. Ua nws tsaug coj koj tau tuaj tebchaw MEKAS ces zoo lawm. 😢😢😢
Koj hais yog kawg os es tus mi Viv nraus paj aw yeej tsis muaj leej twg xav tau txoj kev tau zoo li no txawm li Cas Los ua siab kom loj nawb mog neb 2 leeg ntxhim hlub heev li os muaj dab tsis los ua zoo Hai kom zoo siab mam sib faib txoj kev taug nawb mog es txhob txob qua os
Hmoob lub los ham tsis ib yam thiab xwb os. Koj tsis pom Hmoob sib nrauj coob ua luaj li los. Hmoob mas yuav sib nrauj ces lauj kaub tais diav tawg tag mam nrauj os
Regardless if it’s hmoob, mekas, dub, mev los lwm haiv neeg…it only takes 1 person to break a marriage. Hmoob marriages are in the same boat…broken marriages & families everywhere.
Not true. Stop pulling the race card. Regardless Meeka or Hmong, when they want to leave they WILL leave.
This is the dumbest opinion one can have. Hmoob ma tseem ua haib tshaj lawm os. Ntshe mag ntau hniav lov tag los kwv tij neej tsa tseem hais tias “me maiv aws ua siab ntev es rov qab mus yuav nws os mog”. Rov qab mus hniav lov ob, peb tug ntxiv xwb. I’d rather someone tell me that they’re leaving because things aren’t working out. Better than feeling hopeless and wanting to leave but your relatives keep telling you to “make it work” to save face.
I have been watching you both since Day 1 and although I’m sad to hear the news, I am proud of you both for being honest with one another. It’s a tough decision for both parties. I can tell you’re both hurting but only you guys know what’s best for your marriage. Peb tsis koom ib lub txaj nrog neb, peb tsis paub neb li teebmeem. Tiamsi, ua siab loj os niam laus. Txawm li cas los, kav tsij rau rau siab ntso khwv rau yus tus kheej kom rov muaj zog tuaj xwb. Txoj kev txij nkawm mas paub hnub no xwb tsis paub tagkis li os. Txhob xav ntau ntau nawb. Tsis muaj leej twg xav taug txoj kev no li. Thov kom neb tsuas noj qab nyob zoo xwb os. We will miss you both! You both do not owe anyone an explanation. Stay positive, stay strong. Thank you for sharing your life with us viewers. Take care Pa and Nathan❤
So sudden, that it’s kind of hard to believe you both are separating. You both seem to love each other very much over the years based on what we’ve seen. Of course people & circumstances can always change overtime due to different goals, values etc. Regardless, I wish you both the best
I thought the same but then remember this is CZcams. You only see the pretty filter parts. 😂
That’s why I don’t believe anything people put out on social media, truth is they only let you see what they want you to see, some of the parts, not the whole part. Lo lus “I love you” is easy for the mouth to utter but hard to deliver in action. Paj wants to start a family and he’s indifferent and just goes along with whatever she says. And when that plan fouls, it’s a rude awakening for her. But I think this has been long in the making and it was the failed IUI that broke the camel’s back.
I think the baby journey was stressful and it also puts a lot of pressure on people. I hope the best for both you and Nathan with success in your future endeavors. You both deserve to be happy even if that means a divorce. You never know, maybe you two would make the best of friends who support each other best in the future but just not together as a couple. Txhob tus siab os mog. Tsuav nws lo hais zoo zoo rau koj xwb ces kav liam nyias mus nyias. Qhov ntawv zoo dua kev sib ntau sib ceg, sib ntxub os.
What I see is he love u a lot pa to let u go find your happiness, he can’t give u what u want so he wants u to be happy and go find your happiness. Your videos now and in the future won’t be the same without your husband. We are so use to seeing you both together.
Stay strong pa!!!
Right
Don't be sad. He loves you enough to know what makes you happy and enough to let you go find your happiness. You are a strong woman, you will get through this. Sending you prayers for emotional strength.
I see that too
This is why you don’t trust anyone else and don’t marry someone who doesn’t know how much you love him or her…..I have three sisters cousins and one auntie…..all of my sisters and auntie were married to different types of men and now they are divorced……yeah every single person of my auntie and three sisters were widows right now….. I feel you and your pain inside your heart sister….I’m a yang too…..I’m so sorry for your life that it didn’t go the way you thought or wishes for it😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I’m soo sad! Nathan has a good heart. When someone loves you, they let you go to chase your dreams. I can tell he loves Pa very much but, he’s not a talkative person, so I know it’s hard for him. We love you Nathan!!! Be strong!!
Although it’s a sad parting but it’s also a good example to shows other people that when love is not there anymore, let it be free and respect each other decisions. Never force anybody to stay if they don’t want to stay anymore. Hoping for the best for both parties. Let it go. A more brighter day will come.
Be strong sister. Koj yog neeg siab zoo Tswv Ntuj yeej yuav coj koj mus rau txoj kev zoo xwb vim koj twb tuaj ua zoo ntau dhau heev lawm. God Bless you.
If he doesn’t love you, then we wouldn’t have ever came to marry you in Laos. Best of luck to the both of you.
Ya need to listen carefully. It seems like she wants the divorce but making it seem like he wants the divorce. He still loves her; him wanting to squeeze her cheek and she shut him down. This isn’t the first time either. She seems short with him.
Also his health is deteriorating so she prob wants to leave so she doesn’t become the sole caretaker for him.
You know what? You're so right. She manipulate him. He needs her. He married her from overseas and now she got green card she say byebye. He have saying in this. It's all her saying. She wanted to find a new to see if she can get pregnant since she couldn't with this meka guy.
I was thinking the same. Now that her mom is in the US too. Hmm. Sounds super fishy to me.
Yea agree.. Nathan seems like a good guy.
Pa is a really good wife. It's every hmong man will want from a hmoob wife. It's his decision to leave.
Exactly. I totally agree with you.
Love you Pa! Continue to work hard and keep your eyes on God.
I feel like the lady wants this. Its her idea. Ever since they moved out ive noticed the tone and the yelling in her voice to him on every vid. I know hes lazy and overweight but he is overweight. Why did she let him get to that size too then? Miarriage is suppose to be the good, the bad and the ugly thru thick and thin. I feel like she slowly got tired of him and he realizes it and rather let her go now than later. He was patience to her when he brought her over and taught her to adapt and live the american life. Now she cant be patience for him. Good luck to them 2
Agree with everything 💯
Y’all need to have some respect here , you cannot judge you don’t live her life.
Dang people r so quick to speculate
😂😂😂 you make it sound like Pa is the main reason he blew up ... he's an adult ... he could have cooked his own food... he could have got up and get some exercises in... oh wait, it's all Pa's fault. 🤦♀️
@@m.muaslis6902 he’s a big old baby, if he doesn’t get to eat what he wants he’s going to give pa a hard time.
First of all, who gonna take his ass to work ?😂😂😂😂 he don’t drive
I have been a big fan of you 2. It's probably a good decision for you both. You got this PA. You have always been so independent on your own, to be honest. You just keep making content for us all. We are here to support you ❤️
Pa want babies and he can’t give her babies. They divorced. Case closed!
Don’t cry Paj, better days are ahead. A year from now you’re going to thank your lucky star. He did he’s job of bringing you and your mom to this beautiful country, so now it’s time to go back to where he came from. You’ll smile and laugh again soon.❤❤🥰🥰
Pa, you can refinance the house and remove his name per his request. Its better than you paying him every month because it way be issue in the long wrong. Stay strong! Love yourself Things happen for the better! Wishing both of you two the best.
Take care of yourself sister. Everything happens for a reason ❤️🩹
Don’t cry. I’ve been there. My ex and I bought a beautiful big house. We poured our sweat heart and soul into the home and when it ended I bagged up everything for him and made sure I split everything 50/50 so I feel ur pain. It will get better I promise. Good luck
Wow, cas tsis txaus ntseeg kiag li os. Txhob tu siab mog, tejzaum neb txoj hmoo yeej los txog li no xwb. Lub neej tseem tshuav ntev heev, mam nrhiav tus hlub yus thiab muaj lub hom phiaj zoo li u lub os..
nyob zoo os tus muam kuv tuaj caum koj lawm os koj lub neej txau ntshai heev lis koj tus txiv tsi ntseeg koj lawm uas zoo tsam nws muab koj ntau nas
It's sad to hear about this news 😢. Sometimes when the two people in a relationship have different goals in life, it just can't be helped. Tsis txhob tu siab heev os Paj, ua nws tsaug xwb tias nws pab koj tuaj rau tebchaws vammeej lawm es koj lub neej thiaj tsua muaj qhov zoo mus lawm xwb. Hais txog ntawm kev ua pojnrauj ces tsis txhob muab xav ntau ntau rau qhov koj yeej muaj haujlwm khovkho lawm ces koj yeej yuav tsis txomnyem. It's good that you two can still remain friends.
Txhob tu Siab os sister aws. Thov kom Koj muaj kev kaj siab mus lawm yam tom ntej thiab kom Koj nhriav tau ib tug los hlub2 Koj os mog. 🫂🫂
Hey Paj, I’ve been watching your video and have seen a lot on how you’ve suffer and been a strong women. This is what we all women scared the most, you will find someone better in life, able to help you out, and give you a family you dream of. Supporting you all the way❤️
Don’t feel bad we all know that he is not your type of guy but you have no choice coming to America. I know is going to be hard now but you will feel better in the future with someone who will love you and you will love them to start a family.
In my opinion: All you guy blaming her or him. We all don't know Whats behind close door. No one know What's happening between both of them.
True. Divorce is so painful. They are both very respectful to each other. Very few couples can end a marriage like this.
Agree😂😢😅
just look at him, you must be delusional to think this big baby is fit to be a husband. who care who wanted the divorce, its better for both. she can find another white dude and he can go back to his mama..maybe his mama didnt wanted this asian women to take advantage of her son in the long run. who know but going there separate way is best..
Divorce is never easy. It's ok to cry and it's ok to not be ok. Take whatever time you need to heal yourself. Love you Paj.
It’s okay Pa. You deserve a man that can help you around the house. He’s too much a baby for you.
i agree that too
agree
@@MaryMoua-rq2hn Absolutely right, he can't do anything to help.
Agree
Me sister aw hlub2 kj kawg li os. Txob tusiab mog mam nrhiav dua tus tshiab mog. Kj zoo2 kawg koj yeej tseem yuav nrhiav tau tus zoo2 phim kj mog. Ua siab loj2 nawb. Hlub2 koj kawg li os
Sis, there will be better days in your future. This is a blessing in disguise. You are still young and there is so much more to life than what u've been shown in your marriage. This only opens many more doors for you. Take care and take this time to heal and move forward. We all support you!
Sister, you got this. If he wants to go, you can’t change his mind. People come and go in our lives, they are all here to teach us something about ourselves. I know it’s a difficult time but don’t isolate yourself. Allow help from family and friends, make new friends, keep doing what you love. You may not see the point now but 5, 10 years from now you will look back and see how you grew in spirit. Best wishes.
You will be ok. Just make sure you take care of yourself. You're the only one that can make yourself better. Don't worry, this may be a blessing in a disguise. Just know that you were and are a good wife. You did A LOT for that man. He could have done more for you. Again, best of luck to you Pa.
Pa, feel free to cry. It's normal. Sometimes, crying is the only way to heal and to move on to the next chapter of your life.
We want to hear Nate story!
Agree! She’s manipulating the conversation and story. Why put the business out and be short with it? 🤦🏻♀️ Don’t put it out at all.
@@HlobHlobHlob right… if Nate doesn’t want to be with her, I’m sure he won’t say she’s cute and want to pinch her cheeks. I have a feeling that once her mom is here and the house was bought, that was enough for her to pull the trigger…. I honestly feel bad for Nate…
paj aws txhob tus siab os koj ua tsaug koj tus txiv txoj kev coj koj tuaj me kas teb tchaws nos txhob tho siab mog ov
Aww. Im so sorry. May the Lord gives you both peace.
Kav tsij ua tsaug ( apppreciate )rau qhov nws tos Paj tuaj teb chaws no.
Wow ur the best thing he's had and this was his decision? Doesn't make any sense. 😮
Sounds fake 🤔
Nrog koj tu siab os sister.
Koj yeej yuav nrhiv tau tus hlub2 koj thiab xav ua lub neej tiag2 mog.
Pa, he loves you so much and man up to decide not to torture or hurt you no more, so he's leaving... I have nothing but RESPECT for your husband.
He's very considerate and walk away because he can't make babies with Pa. He took the initiative to walk away and let her find someone who could give her children. He is a good guy and think of her happiness.
That is the best ways to share some good memories of love ❤️...
I think you’re too good for your husband anyways. This isn’t the end, it’s the beginning of a new beginning for you. Don’t be sad. You’re now in the land of opportunities!
They were perfect for each other early on. Dude got too comfortable, lacked motivation, lazy, fat and useless.
That’s what I’m saying. No time to kill. Just hive youself some real self love and everything will be okay. Love is coming your way so be patient sister Pa. We love you and will always be your number one fan. Txhob quav quav ntsej lawv tej niag comment phem ntawd. Tshoob quav rau xwb os me sister Pa. Thiv vajtswv hlub koj thiab coj koj txoj hauv kev ua neej mus ntsib tus zoo tshaj thaub mekas rog kod os. Good luck and god bless you!!! ❤❤
Koj tsis txhob quaj quaj mog me leej muam
Land of trying new D’s!!!!!
Neb sib hlub heev yog sib nrauj ceg mob siab thiab ntsha koj yuav nco2 os nrog koj tu siab os niam laug aw es yog cag thaum neb sib hlub heev cag yuav sib nrauj tau os koj hais qhov teev meem yog le cag qhia rau peb os lov hlub koj os
Tomorrow will be a brighter day for both of you. Stay strong. And don’t pay too much attention to negative comments.
I couldn't leave my husband of 17 years with or without babies. He looks too cuddly ..I'll just adopt or get a lot dogs 😅. I would definitely join the gym together and encourage each other.
I'm sorry that he wants to divorce you. It's happen for the best. You'll be happier. You deserve better. You deserve a person that contribute equally in all aspects.
Pa u deserve better, let him go, u will find someone better os, , dont cry, look for your own new happiness and new chapter! May god watches over you and guide you!
Me naib koj yog ib tug ntxhais hmoob zoo ncauj zoo lus thiab ntse ntsuav . Peb yeej khuv xim koj kawg li ua cas koj hoi mus yuav lwm haiv neeg lawm, yog tias tsis work ces kav tsij rov qab los seb hmoob pus muaj txoj hmoo tau koj rov qab los hlub nawv mog.
Hmoob qau me dhau lawm na, Mekas qau thiaj loj thiab thiaj ntev na
Nkawv zaj dab neeg thaum pib yog mus Meka no mus yuav nws tim Plog tuaj xwb, tsam no nkawv nyob ntev tsi muaj me nyuam, tus poj niam ntshaw thiab xav tau me nyuam heev kuv ntsheeg tau tias thaub yeej tsi xav nrauj nws poj niam tab sis qhov zoo zam kev rau nws mus muaj lwm tus seb lub neej puas hloov xwb. Muaj me nyuam los yuav sib nrauj tsi muaj los yuav sib nrauj yog 1 qho nyuaj kawg li.
Somehow I feel like it may not be Nathan’s decision to leave. Clearly it seems she’s trying to justify herself, when she asked him “ are you sure you really leaving me?” His response is“ Uuhh” I understand she does a lot for him and with the pregnancy not being successful she probably wants out!
I agree.
Seems to me that she's the one who decided to leave, but just shifts the decision to Nathan. I mean she wears the pants in the relationship, whatever she says thats how it goes. Pa yeej heev2 but we just dont see what goes on before the camera rolls.
I agree
Agree
I agree
Thanks him for brought you here but you need a real man who can help and do things with you
I think Pa wants babies. He can not give her, so she is divorcing him. Pa, all you guys need to do is lose weight
It could also be that he doesn’t want to be with her anymore because her mom now live with them. He wants to be taken care of but with her mom there, he can’t be lazy 🤷🏻♀️
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Or could be that he doesn’t want any responsibility if or when they have a baby so he decided to run. The way she explained is he doesn’t want to be with her anymore
She think she can find someone who can give her babies
I’m so sorry paj , that you’re going through so much right now. You did your job, took care of him all these years. He’s ungrateful!!!!
😢 Lwj siab nrog koj kawg. Tsis nyob ua ke lawm lo txhob tu siab mog.
If you two are divorce very sad but sadly you two have to sale the house together Melika they’re not gonna give the house away so easily pa
Sorry to hear of your divorce. It must be very hard for you. Sounds like you loved him a lot but things just didnt work out and thats ok. Things will get better over time. Stay strong.
So many speculations, different angles, different perspectives … just tell us the truth so we can stop the speculations. It’s killing me… bc I love this channel. Pa, you and Nathan are a cute couple. Pa, you are an independent girl. Sending you both prayers and hugs. May you guys find happiness.
Same 😂
Yes
Nathan said, "Life is not for an intertainment"
Es viv ncau awv yog vim lis cas neb ho sib nrauj na thov kom koj los qhias meej os hlub koj kawg os
It’s ok sister. Yus yog hmong ces yus rov qab mus yuav yus cov hmoob. Meska ces Thaum tsis yuav yus lawm ces lawv yeej yuav mus. Tsuav nws hais zoo2 rau koj thiab neb sib hais zoo2 xwb ces li ntawv xwb.
Sister aw ua cas nejmpheej hais lus li txiv neej hmoob mas zoo2 tsis nrauj pojniam li na. Nraug nrab hmoob puv ntiaj teb. Thaum lawv mus pom tus tshiab lawm mas lawv Haj yam los ua phem rau tus hauv tsev os. Nws tus txiv nrauj nws los twb ua ncaj nruab nrab tsis ua kub ua tsiv.
@@christinamua6939 Nws tsis tau pom txiv neej Hmoob muab poj niam pav qhov ncauj ntaus tsuj ntshav ncauj ntshav ntswj los liab vog los tseem nyiag nyiaj tag nqa khiav mus Nplog teb lawm nas. Paj es niaj hnub muab Nathan coj tuaj rhuav rau Hmoob txhua hnub es cov cem Nathan li cas los muaj tag los Nathan twb tsis tau cem paj ib los li.
God blessed you and Nathan to find each other. Praying for you both to find a way to resolve rebuild and make your marriage stronger. If having children is the issue there are plenty of kids that want to be loved and adopt.
Zoo siab xws os mog vim nws Nyob lo tws pab tsis tau Koj li. I think he wants you to be happy only - he knows his limits and he can’t help you get pregnant. So he’s sacrificing for you. Hlub Koj kawg li os.
Don't cry sister. He will miss you soon. I been following you and your husband for awhile now. You cook, clean, feed him and look after him so good like a child he will regret leaving you. He will never find another woman who will love him and cook for him. But I am happy that you and your husband will still be good friends. He will still be there if you need him.
Ua siab loj os,koj yog ib tus niam tsev zoo tshaj os sister! Kuv hub koj ❤
Txhob quaj os
Zoo li neb twb sib hlub kawg nev lov thov qhias seb vim li ca nw ho g yuav kj o thov qhias tiagtiag nawd .thiab txhob tu siab o viv ncau cias nw ua rau kj xb e thiaj li o❤
Either he found someone new or his family and friends put thoughts into his head but it seem he was confuse about the whole situation in the beginning. Im so confuse how she was trying to get pregnant and then found out she wasnt then now divorce. Either way we dont know what going on i hope the best for paj and her soon to be ex 😢
How we know it’s not on her side
@pmurT4202 cus if you watch through she say he wanted the divorce he was the one that initiated it.
@@babyly9123 yeah but the real conversation between them before the video would be more of the honest conversation we just getting the end result of their conversation about splitting and we never see pa in the video asking him to change his mind I mean if you really want it to work out I think you would be more convincing and emotional seems like sister like ok and that’s it
@pmurT4202 that's the thing we just don't know what happen we just got to accept that there divorcing
That might be the case here. Thankfully I not listen to other mekas. But, he also may think she will suffer bc she not get pregnant. Forgetting that the promise of for better or for worse, is in play. They could easily find other options if want to get pregnant so badly. But, the fact remains, he and her both have a promise to keep. Unless, it force them to want un alive. So, both should accept that not be pregnant may be nobody fault. And no reason to leave each other. That my opinion. Side note, why he not use gym equipment 🤔
Sister Maiv paj zoo.
Marriage is not A Greentree for lifetime.
Its ok not crying or sad because you and Nathan have done it all.
May times, works will bring a healthy lifestyle for both.
May God bless you.
Keep doing CZcams videos okay we will watch you
Sorry for what's happening. May you both find happiness and joy on the next journey.
Can you do another video explaining why? This is so sudden and doesnt make sense. Everyone can see that he love you.
I'm sad to hear about this. I love watching your channel. Whatever happens please keep your channel going. You will always have my support. And this can be a turning point for both of you. Just keep your head up high and do what's good for you. Life goes on. I hope for the best for you two.
Oh NO! Don't be sad....he's leaving you because he loves you. He doesn't want to be a burden to you anymore.
yog yuav thaub laus meska ces lawv tsi kam yug menyuam ntxiv....no one know the future or no one know what tomorrow will be
I agreed.
Right
That's the reason I'm crying for them. I can tell he loves her whole heartily. 😢
Sister, sorry to hear you two are parting way. I strongly agree with both of you that when your goals and dreams do not align, it's best to part way and remain friends. Which many people in here can not do.
Don't let their ugly minds destroy yourself worth.
You're dodging a bullet there. Nathan will be gone in a decade or less. Lose him, hit the gym, and stop eating so much rice and noodles (carbohydrates). You will get skinny in 3 months. Get a productive Hmong man, start a family and start enjoying life! Know your worth! You'll get over this.
Aren’t you just perfect here….
Get a real Hmong man who can say " Ais Lauv Yus" at night hah, LOL
Niag thaub ko yog neeg tsis puv pua txhob tu siab yuav nws tsis Tsav Koj li os mog rov qab yuav yus cov txiv Hmoob thiaj Tsav yus lub neej ok 👍❤
We want to hear his part and y