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DO RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGES GET BETTER OR WORSE OVER TIME?|| PART 2 || FT Abel Mutua & Judy Nyawira
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- čas přidán 3. 11. 2022
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Tufanyeni ingine!!! 😂😂😂😂
Kabisa kabisa Mkurugenzi,we need more of you😍😍😍
Yeees you guys are a vibe 👏
Kabisa👌
Teketeke
Abel, there are definitely ways to slow down and / or even improve conditions. Please have a look at guy health and mushrooms (reishi, lions mane, turkey tail, chaga, cordycepts etc). Check it out, you’ve got nothing to lose.
Here to campaign to have Wakuruu on the panel of the live show in Dec. By show of hand please....🤚🏾
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Yes, strong yes please
@@joycekimachia6283 job has j
Yes yes
Yes please!
Is there a way wakuru Wanaeza acha Kua guest kwa joyride with friends watuangushie io wisdom together with Kina Nyawira and Eli and moji.. Wamekill hii episode vibaya sana
Right???? My best episode yet!
Yaaaaaaaaaaaaassssss!!! Manze! Do de ting guys!
At this rate I feel like Judy should start a show on marriage (Do's and Don'ts)
You don't know what to do with your marriage?
@@Izzoh22 😂
@@Izzoh22 your ignorant comment says alot about you! It screams stpid in CAPS
@@Habibtay you continue acting adult films if you don't understand what to do with your marriage.
Alafu Judy is so so wise ..We really need them back
Right😀!?
Exactly. I loved the whole show
Mimi kama Mimi- as a single young lady😂. I'm keeping my spark alive by learning to do things by myself - movies, solo dates, journaling to heal this stubborn wounded inner child. Basically I'm on my way home to myself
😂😂😂
Me too sis😂💯
@@leekwamboka 🤣🤣
@@peacemutua1892 🤣🤣
Siiiis😂 I definitely feel yah😂
Abel remember you are a creative, the devil is attacking your area of income. We come against this attack in Jesus name. Even as you pray, change your diet. Eliminate sugar and foods that are not helpful, include more healthy foods in your diet and also consult a physician who will not give you Madawa tu but one who will walk with you towards reversing this and eventually living a healthy lifestyle..Lastly, avoid saying things like ' I forget a lot' or ' I have dementia' don't empower the spiritual realm with negative decrees. Start saying 'I can remember ' 'Dementia is not my portion' All the best Mkuru.
Abel shika hii word umeambiwa.
1. God Can.
2. He is Mighty to save.
Incidentlly, these are song titles. Look for these songs and have them in your head always, you'll testify for sure.
Ati Abel at your age you're conceding defeat easily tu hivyo? Never! My prayers are with you and you will testify! Who knows, this platform that came with corona is the help God is opening your eyes to! Mshike Yesu and you'll never look back. Bi Mkurugenzi, join in with other mothers and pray. There's power in a Mother's prayer. Na vile Abel talks about his mother! Hapo kuna kitu.
Judy is the only woman who doesn't know how to be petty.God I want to be like when I get married
Start now
Hujaskia akisema mkuru anamrespect?
Start now
Abel hasn’t given her a reason to be..there is respect and friendship between them
Be a man like Abel then
Next time bring cele and Njugush,,ik it's gonna be amazing ngl!!
This is the first time Wanjiru is doing kiswahili mfulilizo😁😁so fluent aki.....
#WanjiruNjiru all the way...
If there's an episode I've had the greatest fun ni hii
I love the part where Abel says uweke Wanjiru, Jude na Philip there'll be order,afu kando uweke Abel,Ben na Njugush kwisha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is a Mega episode for real, I think we also need Njugush and Celestine here sometime too
Kudos guys
Definitely Njugush and Cele should come here...
Consider this manze njugush and celee
And cate...
Abel and Judy are a match made in Heaven ❣️❣️
Mkuru, anything can be reversed. Research diet for memory loss. I have diabetes type 2 and I believe nitaireverse. As a Mkuru gang gang!!!! Nakuombea DEADLY Alzheimer’s sio your portion ❤️❤️❤️
I forget too. Like there are times I even forget to pay kwa supa.. so hilarious.. happens when I'm preoccupied with other things and not being present. I pray his is not a disease coz dementia is really bad
Which ways do you use to reverse it we are on the same boat ready to reverse mine
Y'all can tell.how Wanjiru is happy and open on this episode😂like she is very interactive and is asking all those questions,,, happy to see you naona umefrahia😂.
Meeehhn😂🙌🏼thanks for bringing these two mehn😂🙌🏼.
Until next time,PEACE 🙌🏼
😂😂😂nimeonavile umefanyia wewe..makosa sio Yako😂
THIS IS BY FAR THE BEST EPISODE THAT HAS BEEN RECORDED IN THIS NEW SEASON!!!!!! SO REAL! SO HELPFUL! AND AT THE SAME TIME, I LAUGHED THROUGH THE ENTIRE RISE!!!! LET US HAVE MORE OF THESE REAL CONVERSATIONS!
Judy's body😍😍😍😍
Tuthuri twa muranga wacha tu ata fee inaeza lipwa na installment juu ataki mjue ako na pesa😂😂😂
Mkuru and story telling cannot separate the two!!! Fantastic episode as always ❤️❤️❤️😌
By the way Ben &Wanjiru just do another episode with them ama basi wakuje live experience cha lazma cause these guys are a vibe your conversation inaflow naturally this podcast I'll forever advocate for ❤️
Let me tell you!!!!My most favorite episode ever!!! I loved the nuggets about bringing finances together and having shared goals you're working towards. I seriously need to implement that. Coming to think about it, growth in a relationship needs a lot of vulnerability and openness
Please bring Njugush and Cele..
Hit like if you agree 😍😍
Judy is a lady full of wisdom ,soo humble and calm ,i was taking some notes juu marriage ain't ajoke but amenifunza sana manze ntaacha kuwa petty ,she should start a campaign to educate young girls
On pettiness after 20yrs in marriage the other day husband unhungs his clothes only. Ben you are many. More Blessings 😊😊😊😊
Watu single wana-qualify hamper kweli? The only spark some of us know ni ya kuwasha kiberiti 😂😂😂, so I keep the spark alive by keeping the matchbox handy, also known as cooking 😂😂😂
As a single person.... 😂Am keeping my spark alive by doing what I love😊... And putting my trust in God
Though very single, , , i have really enjoyed this session😊
Mimi na bae how we keep our spark alive is through communication. We have made it our mission to speak out our problems respectfully and also we now have a day in a week ... Thursdays where we revisit our week and talk about anything, be it our worries, concerns even happy staff. Our communication has come a long way, it never used to be like this...kwanza to him he didn't buy it at first 'ati revisiting what?' men na communication...but I'm glad he eased into it. Kwanza ni yeye huwa ndio nampata akiningojea kwa couch Thursdays we talk. Thank you for this episode... I love it here.
Waooh....il buy this and have patience on implementing it because my hubby don't really like recap especially on issues
Here no communication especially when an issue arises.You will be shut down like a small baby.😔
keeping my spark alive as a single mum when my baby naps on the weekend self care kidogo- washing and treating my hair, face mask, watching podcasts or reading a book the small things make me happy and playing with baby when she is up my baby girl has long hair the tcb hamper would come in handy for us
What a beautiful episode? love it!
Abel you are not sick.
About forgetting,that is a spirit of forgetfulness. It is meant to steal from you.
I need you to understand that life is SPIRITUAL.
Judy start praying against that spirit.
Do not come to an agreement with it because it will build a stronghold and that will become a reality.
Do not be anxious about anything and to God bring your petition in prayer.
This part was heavy than part1.. Bwana na Bi mkuru warudi tena.. Haikufeel kama a recorded thing it's like you were having a natural conversation and decided you know what acha turecord hii kitu... Sooo natural
So last year I really got out of a bad relationship that drained me mentally, physically and spiritually and i just took a break this year to just rediscover and know myself better , being single I am keeping the spark alive by being intentional with making myself happy by putting myself first and taking better care of myself.
Same to me last year feh
Actually Abel there are medications you can take to prolong the disease progression.
This is awesome!
Having said that, we pray for Abel that Dementia or Alzheimers will not come to pass in your life, in Jesus mighty name AMEN 🙏🏽
We keep the spark alive by random texting during the day so that by evening we carry on with the dialogues. And sometimes we keep time aside just to appreciate each other.
I honestly didn't want this to end!!! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your lives with us, all four of you AWESOME! FIRE! INSPIRING! FUN!
That dementia part tore my heart. Reminded me the Notebook 2004, movie (he had alzheimer's but you gerrit).
Praying for divine healing for you Abel
These two episodes are my favourite so far in the season 2 !!🥰🥰 Keeping the spark alive by going for dates and holding not only deep but also meaningful conversations. Bring Abel and Judy again please 🥺🤗 Love you guys so much ❣️
Here is how I keep the spark going.... When he doesn't take me out, I decided to prepare his favourite meal and set up a candle lit dinner.
Hehehe. That bit of giving the fella the cash chini ya maji alipe does end with time. Though for some of us it was never there... if you come from a home with both genders (siblings/wazazi) and where everyone huokoleana kimfuko waziwazi, then the issue of who pays is a non-issue. 😂 You do it publicly bila any uneasiness. Also, waiters serve so many people bana, the much they care for is that the bill is cleared, regardless of which gender clears. That aside, episode mufti. 🔥
Just leaving this comment here....hopefully the joyride exists forever one day wanjiru and Ben will be the older couple and my boyfriend and I will be the younger couple😍can't wait to be hosted!!!
My two favorite CZcams couples please bring them again. Can’t get enough of all of you.❤❤
"Straight from the UN" 😅 ben your humour is natural. .....love you guys!
All of you guys make marriage look so beautiful.
Forgetfulness, and absent mindedness is very common trait with creative people
Judy ni kacute❤️ amazing people
Aiyaaa,,,Huyo ni bibi ya wenyewe😂😂😂😂
@@xidaimojo176 kwani umeskia namdai.. village mentality
Am I the only one who felt sad when he talked about early onset Dementia/Alzheimer 😢...He should get a proper diagnosis aki.....
Otherwise This episode was very informative,the way I go responding to every post in fb for people to watch you would think am being paid🤣🤣
Can't wait for Kabarak Campus Tour😩😩😍😍
Mann, If there's only a part 3😭 Loved every single bit of it.
See you in the live experience 💃(yet again)
Greetings from Uganda😊 This episode had a lot of Swahili, wow. Would you guys consider adding subtitles so that we can follow closely too?
Judy is always so calm and collected
Judy needs to start a pre-marital ladies counseling.
We keep our spark alive by having a music and dance session in our house every Friday.mimi na hubby.also on Sunday we stay in our bedroom until 1 pm just talking and cuddling.we rarely go for dates but I feel my hubby's presense alot.
Kindly consider subtitles or doing the show in English. You leave the international community out.
This was such a beautiful episode...Gives you hope for a healthy marriage 😍😍
Judy is so wise ......Abel is another top notch guy .....wanjiru is a nice lady,,,Ben you always do well,very wisdomic...........you guys makes me believe that true love exists
This was an amazing episode ❤️❤️❤️can one request on a couple they'd love to see you Collab with? Mitchell Ngoje and Ian 😊😊
I resonate much with Abel's forgetfulness "disease" but you don't have to confess it will be so in your future,
God is willing to help you on that, just subject it to Him.
Great show, I really love what you're doing guys...
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Best episode yet, you guys really connected and it brought out the best of Ben and Wanjiru (I loved to see it)...Please keep bringing guests who are pure in heart and Spirit, it transcends through the screen! This was great!! We keep the spark alive by buying Maryland cookies(my fav...you must know where to get them so Acts of Service check) and hiding them from the kids, sending them to bed early and eating them together with a movie before he falls asleep on minute 10. 4 years in a few weeks...yeeey!
great episode! btw for abel’s forgetfulness, it could also be ADHD, i recently got diagnosed and i’m also very forgetful; keys, phone, water bottle, change. the way it’s explained is that it’s due to a short attention span. i’m constantly distracted and my mind is chaotic so leads to forgetting easily and having an out of sight out of mind perspective.
It's more of Executive Functions (EF) as opposed to ADHD
I love this discussion. It's so honest and relatable.
This was my favorite episode and the Murang'a story is indeed a sad one
Waah very sad gai
My partner and I maintain the spark in our relationship by going for study dates where we study our different courses together.Schoolwork piles up na without the study dates hatungekuwa tukionana
A healthy marriage can last if only you both positive towards it.Accept to sit down,discuss things out abt how you want to grow together but if one is so full,proud or have got ego, nothing much a partner can do than to let it slide.This breaks many marriages because you not sailing in the same boat. You dont understand each other.Sorry just known this you guyz today.
Marriage is the only Activity you are given a Certificate before even the task...I guess this is to prepare you no matter how things will fuck you up you guyz need to sit down talk and work it out cause you are already certified.
Abel I do remember dates, time and every thing.
what happens is your mind has alot that’s thinking about you forget small details.
What helps is noting down stuff na ukieka place hutasahau ama reminders..,
I didn’t know it was a disease. I forget and loose stuff ivyo tu..
Sasa my person atalearn..
Judy that’s priceless on how to handle iyo kusahau.
people who are very much focused on certain things, their memory is committed to them until they dont focus on the rest. I'm a medical student, i can remember very heavy chemical structures but i can also forget my phone at a restaurant. it happens with people who think deep into what they do and are always making plans with things anywhere they are. so they remember what matters alot to them only.
Amazing people.
I think love and marriage is a beautiful thing, if done intentionally and with the right person.
How we keep the spark alive: Intentional time spent together. We tend to have busy schedules but we are very intentional not to allow it to take time away from us. We’d chat throughout the day, create time for a phone call and just open communication hence we get to share in each other’s experience.
I wish there was a part 3
Definitely in my friendship(coz it is a relationship) we keep the spark alive by friendship dates, we have church dates, library dates and def restaurant and park dates. Each month
Thank you guys for such an extremely sober discussion. You give married people hope and appetite to the single.
Even in my singleness i have really learned a lot guys.Thank you so much
Judy is Goals 😊
We need an episode with the 6 of you. Nyawiras na Abel n Moji.
Best show that I have watched today 😂😂so inspiring 😊,a way of telling my hubby indirectly about date nights it's letting him watch the show...then pap, message delivered
Today wanjiru is speaking Swahili
Just bumped into this video and oh my goodness!! The realness, the vibes, the learning... You name it. Love love love it! ❤️❤️❤️
All my favourite people in one setting! awwwww.hii imeweza Sana.please invite Abel and Judy again.
Abel's memory loss is actually a spiritual manipulation which can be addressed in prayer
Lol
Awuoro, solution mode pap!
So unasema walimroga?😂😂
Ugonjwa ni ugonjwa maguys tusioverthink vitu sana
@@marie2955 witchcraftcy is not the only spiritual manipulation and that's you alluding to. He is under a marine manipulation. This world is spiritual,before anything becomes physical it happens in the spirit first.
Ben please do this set an alarm weekly esp on Tuesdays the set a date on a Thursday, Friday or Monday and take wanjiru out of that familiar environment known as your house. Pleeeeeasaase it's good time to talk and breath.
My dad used to do that bring on the money he made on the table 😊🙏and honestly I would want my parents relationship 🥺for me
For my relationship we keep the spark alive by having deep conversations each time we spend together to get to know how our days have been away from ech other and vibing to music together esp exploring new music and also cooking and eating together , we get comments that we are young and we shouldn’t take matters seriously but for us we believe in creating our own world together with our own rules and try not to compare ourselves to other relationships . Ps : You guys really inspire us 💕
Wow learning a lot from these 2 couples. Kudos guys.
Sorry Abel for that forgetting condition, the Word of God has something to counter it, Proverbs 10:7 (nkjv)
The memory of the righteous is blessed.
Remind God His promise concerning the condition.
As usual, I pray for you.
Thanks guys.
Abel for memory loss reduce sugar intake and take rosemary
So so true about putting money together and not caring about what people think😂😂😂😂😂
One of the most refreshing episodes yet! I love how it keeps getting better every week..
For me I cook ad serve but I don't talk.After nimemaliza naenda bed mapema ad face the wall.
Putting pressure on men is a woman s thing in any marriage, because most men are slow with actions😂😂. Loved this conversation
This episode with the Mutua's was amazing. Love love love!
Loved this episode! So many gems from you both. Abel and Judy should be regular joyriders.
We keep the spark alive by being intentional with our time together. In the simplest moments like cooking together to intentional date nights. I married my best friend. And that’s the spark for us.
Aki I just loved this two episodes with Judy and Abel next aki si tulete Terrence na Milly juu wuuehh we need more stories and insights mixed with fun
With the memory thing about Abel....is very interesting
judy is such a vibe nice couples
Hi son Abel be treated,it can be postponed through products.
Whatva wonderful episode. Very inspiring! Just a quick one. On the issue of Abel forgetting things so much, I'd recommend he get tested for ADHD. My sister and cousin both have it and the symptoms are very similar. Especially since he doesn't have memory loss issues, just forgetfulness of current tasks at hand, this can be managed and treated very well if properly diagnosed.
For Abel, trying keeping the items you forget in the same place always. It will avoid frustrations and save your items.
Pettiness rules marriage. In the morning we both prepare ready to move out for work, my wife takes her time, I just decided to leave, before I pick a tuktuk to the main stage, naona amepanda nduthi ameenda Ako Mbele yangu.
😂😂😂😂😂
Nakufa Oh my Goddd🤣🤣🤣😭😭Ati amepanda nduthi amekupita walai oh my gosh🤣🤣🤣
That story you businessmen, wueeh. Imagine carrying kiondos kwa soko every morning at 5am just because you don't want her to know.
The idea of forgetfulness is to do with your Executive Functioning. So you can read around that topic and how to improve your EF skills
Best episode yet!! Praying for Abel to get better manze. Healing is a gift we can possess.
We are keeping the spark alive by making our favorite dishes once in a while. The sport is we have different dishes. So when it's one person's turn, the other one compromises 😁