This July, I will be 18... And It sounds extremely serious. I would love to return that 2018 summer nights. Time after Covid started to flow way too fast. I wish I could do something about this, but life goes on. I will miss you fat kid me. At least you were happy, and had dreams.
Felt this same thing when I turned 18, and again when I turned 20. Don't bury the dreams in the past my friend. Life is absolutely whatever you wanna make it, and it doesn't end with the changing of a number. I wish you a good life.
i turned 18 this january and it felt like a piece of me is gone forever. didn't have a very good teenage or a childhood for that matter but i miss her. i miss her and i love her so much. now since i am 18, i try everyday to make her proud and trust me its only been a few months but i am so much closer to my goals. it does get better. don't give up on any of your dreams because that would be like stealing your younger self's happiness. you can do this and you are most definitely not alone! sending u love 💗🫂
I can't say what life is like after 20 but I was so sad that I'd never be a teenager again the night before my 20th birthday. Becoming an adult is hard. Hold onto every day. You're a day younger than you will be tomorrow, just enjoy being a teen. As Jonny Yerrell says "live everyday like it's a festival" Take care :)
Valid. Nothing prepares you for how shallow capitalism can be. The work is hard. Less time to enjoy yourself. Nice to have money and more say in your life though. Mourn, but also know that life won't stop being good after that phase in your life.
please, enjoy being 12. enjoy it thoroughly. Im 17 and have horrible memories when I was your age. do everything you want to do and don't mind the other non-believers in this world.
Hey reading your comment makes me realize two things 1)I’m not 12 anymore which sounds dumb but would me makes more sense after point two 2) now 15 and I never take the time to live, I was a suicidal kid with suicidal friends and it’s only been like six months that I don’t want to die and sometimes life sucks but you’re only twelve you’re a « baby » but at the same time you could die tomorrow so live, eat candies, go walk, read, learn to cook with your friends ( it’s really funny I swear) and do stupid stuff, life might be hard sometimes but the sun is always in sky which means there would be a tomorrow so it’s not that bad if you have a bad note to this test you gonna have more to the next and sometimes family sucks so makes sure to have a good comforting thing like music, tv shows or friends and I swear the stupid things you hate about yourself gonna change so laugh have fun ! And keep listening good music ;)
0:00- Blondie by Current Joys 3:05- Where'd All the Time Go by Dr Dog 6:58- Lover's Rock by TV GIRL 10:27- 505 by Arctic Monkeys 14:37- Space Song by Beach House 19:55- End of Beginning by Djo 22:35- Telephones by Vacations 26:00- Kids by MGMT 31:03- Apocalypse by Cigarettes After Sex 35:49- Yugoslavskiy Groove
me too bro, im also 13. we most likely have completely different lives, locations, expiriences, wishes, life styles, and can't relate on many things. im not sure whether you have mental illness or you feel like it, but if no huge events happened in your life or recently (war, divorce, traumatic event, diagnosed mental illness, chronic/terminal ilness) you should really be much happier than you think. rotting in your bedroom is bad, yes, but i find simple things like spending time outside your room or on a balcony or just not in your room 24/7 really helps. i sound like every other person ever but it makes sense, if you change your ways, you will no longer have that "rotting" feeling. you dont need to pick up a book or start a business. working out is definitely a great idea if you have the capacity to do it. start with bodyweight exercises, if you and your parent(s)/ guardian(s) think its good for you, get dumbells or join a gym or sport. theres many ways to imrpove especially when you are stuck in your room all day. Im not sure about you, but after russia invaded my country for the second time in 2022, i went from a happy kid to someone i cant recognize or explain. it was the biggest shift of my life, no family, different country, going from a big house to a tiny apartment, legal issues, new school, hightened responsibilites, and so much more. life was perfect, i was a happy happy kid with no isseus whatsoever, sure its cringe now, but i was happy. instead of rotting here in my new life, i choose to go outside, walk my dog, go to school events, talk to friends, read books, workout, try new things daily, focus on studies and get ahead of everyone else. ive never felt worse but the constant imrpovements to mental and physical help are going to pay off soon. the past has happened and theres nothing i can do about that. the only thing i can do is shape my future by working hard. no reason to be a cry baby. слава україні, and i hope i will come back to this comment with your response and see if i have any noticble gym gains. hope i can get back into learning languages, see you.
in less than a month i turn twenty. i won’t be a teenager anymore, and i feel like i never really have been, and i won’t have the chance to be ever again. there won’t be any parties, there won’t be any sneaking out, there won’t be any memories of secretly breaking parents’ rules to reminisce about with friends. i’m never going to get a “teen movie moment” i spent more time in hospitals or doctors offices than i did with my friends doing “teen” things. i guess the lack of the experiences doesn’t hurt as much as the chance being taken away you know? anyway, if you’re not a teen yet, it’s not going to be anything like the movies, but that’s not a bad thing. if you’re a teen right now, don’t grow up too fast alright?
i hope you find your moments to be a teen once again for at least a 100 more times in different aspects and get to do the things you couldn't do while there was still time. i turned 18 this January and i feel this so much. like i am not allowed to have fun anymore because you are just magically expected to become an adult the second clock strikes 12. i have responsibilities now and i will soon move out and finally be independent but i will not stop being a teen for the last two years i have got because i agree with you. i hope u find the closure u need. sending love to you 💗💗💗
I wasted 2 or so years, but I’m trying to get out and enjoy the time I have left as a teen, i want to have memories to reminisce on and talk about with friends, I want to feel like I’m actually living. So far I’ve just been bed rotting and giving up on my life, but I reconnected with someone I really love, and I hope to change and truly live.
Please enjoy, don’t care about other people opinions. Do what you like, be yourself. I struggled a lot trying to fit in but if you are yourself worthy people will come. People will always critique but that doesn’t have to change you at all, I know it’s hard but what’s the worst thing that can happen? Please, focus on yourself, find a good and healthy group of people. Popular kids are cool, but they are not worthy. You are on time to change things, trust me or else you will regret it. You will feel so good when you finally find people you can be yourself with, people where you actually feel happy with. Thank you for reading until this point, good luck. (sorry if my English is bad, it’s not my first language)
в этом тексте все так прекрасно описано спасибо что дали мне надежду двигаться дальше единственное что заставляет мне жить ето надежда на что то хрошое после вашего текста я много что поняла и я благодарна вам что вы написали ето и я уверена что многие поймут многое из этого текста
I’m sitting in this classroom listening to this at the age 14 and wearing baggy outfit wondering how I would think about this place when I grow up, wondering how I would tell my children about this feeling
I have a friend who's scared of how old we're turning. The mention of our age or the hypothetical impending doom that comes with graduation will have her yelling at you to just shut up because she gets so overwhelmed. She joins me when I go out tagging, and sometimes we'll have some deep talks. She really likes existentialist films, and I really like existentialist literature, but I can't sit still for movies and she can't muster up the patience to read, so we sort of co-exist knowing we understand one another but cannot communicate it. Recently, though, she's been reading my books and I've been watching her movies. She got through The Metamorphosis (Kafka) and is holding on to my most favourite piece of literature, my dearest "White Nights" by Dostoevsky as of now. And I watched Black Swan. But I think her and I will always be worlds apart, even though when we hang out in groups she sticks by my side and I want her to seek me out. I'm going into art as a major, and my future is an exciting one, but I'll miss my friends so much and I'll get so misty eyed at the thought of them living their own lives in another city. She's staying in the home and neighbourhoods that she's photographed to keep close to her since she was fourteen, and I'm leaving this stupid town that I've covered in graffiti tags and stickers throughout the years. She doesn't know what she wants, and I know bulls-eye where I'm headed. I don't want new people, new personalities and strange memories. I want new experiences with the people I adore right now. I don't want to leave them. I don't want to leave her.
I really recommend keeping touch with her as much as you can. Let her know that you aren't moving away to get away from her. Even if it's difficult taking initiative, I really cannot recommend it enough. Long-distance friendships take a bit more work to keep up if you're used to being around each other irl, but judging by what you've said, it's worth it. This sounds like a fantastic friendship. Just because you're moving into the future doesn't mean that you have to leave her behind ❤
Note: Time spent not socializing or being a teen isn't wasted if you're spending that time healing from what's happened to you. Your health - emotional, mental, physical and otherwise - isn't a waste of time ❤
I wanna be a true teenager with the most fun experience, but cuz of my parents divorcing, siblings fighting and having to watch them while I don’t ever get a say in anything just hurts
bro i WISH my parents divorce, they didn't even love each other when they were married, they were about to divorce so many times but each time someone from my family tells them i will be hurt if they does it, and i'm like PLEAZE JUST FRIKING DIVORCE AND LET ME LIVE MMY LIFE AND BE HAPPY AGAIN (i'm 13 and i feel like i'm 80, maybe i just need to be 6 again)
little man sitting behind the phone, I understand you, my father cheated on his mother for 8 months, they also had to get a divorce, but my mother loves my father very much and that’s why they fought every day for a year, I saw and participated, I also quarreled with friends, I used to love my father as a child, but now I don’t even after that, it would be better for me if they divorced, by the way, my grandmother also participated in these disputes, she tells my father, who is 44 years old, what to do, buy flowers and so on, I I'm amazed by them, it's so disgusting (sorry if the translator did something, I don't speak English haha) hold on
@@limbogt747 even if there was blood everytime and i had to go to school and act like nothing happened, even if i got beaten up when i was tryna help(i get beaten up for everything), even if i had to be the one fixing their relationship because i'm the only one affected by their actions :o ?
Take it easy, breathe. Shit is so hard on everyone right now, especially you younger ones. You're still experiencing something from all of your internet escapades. Try to connect with people, don't fall into bad communities. Aside from that, its not a waste. You're okay.
I do not know English (I should learn it!) and I type with the help of a translator. Life can be difficult and amazing at the same time. In one day, you can break down and soar skyward. And I sincerely want to thank each of you who are reading this. Do you translate my comment using the built-in translator function, do you read it as in your native language (I understand that it will obviously be unreadable), or are you just learning English on your own. Whatever languages you speak and wherever you are, thank you for being there and for staying in this world. Thank you for continuing your journey under the name "life". Every scar, every smile, every tear, every wrinkle on your forehead when you frown, every glazed or shining look, every image change or holding it in one place, every wheeze from screaming, from sobbing, from laughing, from singing, every movement of the body to the beat of the music, every stimming, every breath you take (the aroma of baking, fresh air after the rain, a sobering stream of wind, an unnoticed breath on autopilot), every breath you hold (from surprise? from fright? before diving? or, if necessary, escape from a burning building? leaving a smoky room? from the overpowering unpleasant smell? or maybe when you forget how to breathe from overflowing joy?), every sigh (in training? from disappointment? from fatigue? in an attempt to regain his composure? how is theatrical gesture?), every time you get bags under your eyes (because of a sleepless night? or is it a conscious decision to delay the moment of going to bed?), each of your drawings with your finger or with paints for painting glass on a fogged window, each drawing on water, each drawing in a notebook with a pen / pencils, each drawing on asphalt with crayons, each oil drawing in an album or on an easel, each of your graffiti, every acquaintance and every breakup, every failure and success, every trauma and every overcoming, every happiness and every pain.. All that... All that. All this! All of the above and not listed below, as far as your existence is concerned, shapes our Universe. There would be no Life without each of us. Not life, it continues and will continue, shaping humanity in the future, namely Life. All your actions or inaction affect reality in one way or another and affect the surrounding reality more than you think. You are significant, even if, alas, not everyone of you has been told about it. In that case, I dare to do it - you are significant! Many will react with skepticism, saying that we don't know you and you don't know us. But that's the point. I don't need to know you to realize your pricelessness. You are not a commodity or a product to be sorted by quality and shelf life. You are something more. You are a Life within a life. You are a spacious and individual world. The only thing I don't want to regret and what I'm really proud of is that I live parallel to You and share this world with You - so different and truly amazing personalities. Reality can be hard, unfair, and frustrating. But I believe in you. And I respect your choice to be or not to be. But with hope in my heart, I hope that most of us will be able to "be". Thanks to those who read this comment to the end and gave it their time! Keep listening to this amazing playlist! And hug yourself. You are truly cool!♡
wow. I needed this so much. this text you wrote is so beautiful and made me realise how beautiful life is. you should become a poet. your translator did an amazing job, by the way
I turned 18 and graduated high school about 3-5 months ago…here’s my advice Enjoy being a kid still. I now work 40 hour weeks with little to no free time. I wish I had explored and lived more when I had the chance. Life changes and so do you, embrace change but don’t forgot the past.
will be 16 in november. feels pretty odd to almost be 16; I feel like I was 13 and 14 just two weeks ago. :( maybe that's why I act so childish for my age.
Don’t worry, I also turn 16 this November and I also felt that I was really childish, but if you start to prioritize yourself over others and start getting more into your interests then maybe it might get better, or at least it did for me.
@@user-qj2sd6qv3mthis is exactly how I feel. I want to change it so bad but rotting in my bed is the only thing I know how to do. the time where I should‘ve started building my identify and interests, I spent in my room watching tiktok because of covid. I feel like I just skipped the last 4 years
im currently 14 and summer just started. im dreading the future. a future with out some of my best friends. highschool is going to bring new ones, but i will never forget the friends i made in middle school. i cried my eyes out the last day of middle school because of the family i made. i sound corny but i mean it. you hate something until its gone and then you miss it. if anyone is looking for advice while reading this ill say this, dont hate. dont hate school, dont hate teachers, dont hate people. i mean theres no point. your gonna miss them. okay my hands hurt
Dude, sometimes I just want to leave and go to somewhere more rural, somewhere where I can find abandoned places. I love urban exploration, and me and my friends have been wanting to for the longest time, but there is nowhere in the area. Me and my friends love to do stupid shit, and sometimes we're on the receiving end of some bad things. But it's fun, I'm only 14 and there's so much I want to do. I don't want to be confined to a job when I grow up, I want to live in a van, driving up mountains or around lakes, exploring ghost towns or abandoned factories, Be in San Francisco one day, and then Washington the next. I want to take pictures of everything on the way, and I want to have stories to tell my children. The thrill of the exploration is enticing, and the risk of being caught is thrilling to me. I don't want to waste my summer, and I want to make memories to reminisce about when I'm older. But after Covid that doesn't seem very easy. And since the world became duller (in my opinion.) that's making it even harder. And because I have school, and my parents to worry about, it's making me feel trapped. That's why I love nostalgic songs like this, because those things that you love, those things that you love are a great source for nostalgia later down the line, and that really speaks to me.
Today is my seventeenth birthday. It’s only morning and I’m crying already. Seventeen sounds like a big, serious age and I’m scared and I’m sad. I still feel like I’m 13. Covid made time faster. Just the thought of me graduating next year makes me feel nauseous. I want to be a kid again…
humanity is just so beautiful, the thought of us existing and these feelings surging through our souls, stirring our whole being. life is just so beautiful I could write hundreds of poems about humans and all yet it still wouldn't be enough to capture it's whole essence.
Dawg, graduation is on June 9th and I still think of myself as a 15 y/o trying to figure out their life and fit in. I wasted my teen years sitting in my room and not going out or hanging out with my friends. This sucks. I'm not ready and frankly- I don't know what to feel at this point in time.
I turned 17 last Feb, and and it just feels so different now. Only 3 more years and i wont be a teen gurl no more. I never had much of a friends that i could hang out with. I feel so done being at home, under the observation of my strict parents. I know whatever it is, is for my good. But is that all gonna be worth it? I guess, after the age of 12, i never really was a kid anymore. The teen years began and i started tuning into an anxious girl, overthinking literally EVERYTHING. But, now im 17 and i feel like i can only peacefully talk to people that are over 60+ lol. I feel nostalgic about something i never really had. Or i was never really "allowed" to have. For those who are yet to turn a teen, here's a lil piece of advice from you elder sis k ( i luv givin ppl thoughtful lessons learned from my own mistakes) , so yeah, always listen to your gut feeling. Be yourself. And stay healthy and fit. There's srsly NO NEED to force fit yourself to those toxic beauty standards or whatsoever "IT GURL" persona. Even if you get acne, DO NOT be ashamed, take care of your gentle skin baby gurl. Cmon. DOnt let NO dude embarass you cuz of your natural bodily issues, cuz hun, the right ones will always love you for you and will not care how you " look like" . And for boys, just learn to be responsible, let the girls around you feel safe being with you. Take care of your parents. And also, look after yourself. Trust in God. I just hope i had someone to tell me all these when i needed it the most, but now all i got is Me & Myself. Wow, ive written so much. Ig imma cry too. Had a very toxic relationship before. Since then i never really opened up to anyone about what i be going thru cuz it feels like ppl are just too unpredictable to trust. Anyways, those who've read till here, really it means a lot to me. I love you. God bless you all.
nostalgia is way too surreal. nostalgia is mixed with many different emotions, such as happiness, glee and joy while remembering the good memories, but also grief, sadness and pain when knowing you’ll never experience that kind of happiness ever again. Nostalgia has got to be the most complex emotion that we could ever experience. It comforts me while scratching into my skin. when heaps of nostalgia hit me, its impossible not to cry.
I didnt want to leave it but it was taken away from me, too soon. I mourn the loss of a part of myself. I still want to be that child, i wish i got to be a teenager
I know you‘ve probably heard this many times before but it actually gets better. When I was about 12-13 I felt the same. I was thinking of giving up everyday, such horrible thoughts were in my head. Now, I am soon turning 16. I am still not completely healed, but it truly got so much better. I am at a point where giving up is no option for me and I know that you can achieve this too. Everyone reading this can. I know how unrealistic it sounds, back then I couldn‘t believe I‘d ever make it to 14 and now I am here. Everyone telling you to hold on because there are so many beautiful things left to experience is right. You are in a very difficult phase right now but a phase is a phase and will always come to an end. You just need to get through it but someday you will get to a point where you will be so grateful for not giving up. It can take a lot of time but like I said, it is so so so worth it, I promise. So please, no matter how hard it is, do not give up. If you can, get a therapist. If you need someone to talk to, I can give you my instagram or whatever platform you have. I am serious, I‘d be so happy to help you, you can always vent to me and ask me for advice. I can‘t promise that I will always have an answer but I will listen and take your feelings seriously.
sorry, my english is bad, so i’m writing it in russian. этот плейлист очень меня вдохновил не гнить этим летом в комнате. я прямо сейчас даю себе обещание найти компанию друзей с которой я смогу гулять хоть под дождем. спасибо большое за этот плейлист. я хочу ПРОЖИТЬ подростковый период, а не существовать.
I turned 18 in January, I'm currently sitting exams that decide my future, and I long for the days of no responsibility, hell I even miss covid, being on call with friends or meeting up to go on adventures in the pouring rain, I miss it all and want time to stop, but yet I am ecstatic for the next few years of my life, despite the people and stuff I'll miss, I'm eagerly anticipating and dreading it simultaneously and it's terrifying.
I am also becoming a teen in the days of august and all i can say to you is… We go through a lot of thing (A loss, a fail, not having motivation, society) Whether any of them were as bad as the other each one has happened for a reason. What’s that reason you ask? Whether to make you stronger to overcome to get your head out the clouds and to have a purpose in life. Everything is here for you for people for life. Without bad things happening most people wouldn’t be where they are today and we wouldn’t have most things we do today. For instance If an apple wouldn’t have fallen we wouldn’t know about gravity. Think of the everything you’ve been through everything and use that AND I MEAN USE IT to do something you love to inspire you to do something with it make something out of it use it have it own it and make yourself an inspiration to as much people as you can even one inspiring one person can change the world and the perspective we see through. And know it’s ok to not fully be able to forget or move on from something whether traumatic or not but use everything everything you’ve seen been through ran through and everyone you’ve talked to and use that as your inspiration your advantage and your on personal upgrade. You will get through this and you can make things better if YOU yourself chooses to. Someone will always love you no matter what if not now then later if not then why not now so give people love and inspire them as much as you can.
me da um peso na consciencia saber q daqui uns 6 anos nn vou ser mais um adolescente e sim uma adulta com responsabilidades e problemas maiores para lidar , tento aproveitar o maximo possivel pois sei q so tenho mais este tempo restante e nn volta mais .
8th grade I met up with so many cool people I really hope I don't lose them if I do I might just not want to live anymore their the only thing keeping me from bed rotting I wake up and think about them into to bed thinking Abt them their all I want in my life I don't care about any one else everyone else could hate me and I'd still be happy as long as they are with me.
I remember as if i were 12 and in a blink of an eye i'm already 16, also realized i had never done anything really outrageous in my teenage years. never had a teen romance, hung out casually but never til late cuz of my parents plus wasted some years worrying about many things and i'm scared of regretting my teenage years moreover i'm scared of growing up
the way that i just spend my time wasting in my room bcuz i have strict parents and cant go anywhere without them worrying ab me just bc im the youngest (youngest sibling problems and my parents are divorced)
honestly idk what i am. tween? pre-teen? just not a teen. im on summer break and i need to escape my room. my house. it's like being suffocated so i go out and bike. my brother hasnt left the house at all and it infuriates me, but who cares. i want memories that i can tell my kids, then my grandkids, and possibly great-grandkids. i love to bike, i love the wind in my hair, i love all of it. bug bites? it's okay i'm having an amazing summer already. 🌸
its crazy how long ago highschool was for me yet all the highschoolers still listen to the same tunes, i know how yall are feeling ive been there and it will get easier it will be better you just have to work for it
After quarentine my first love assaulted me at age 15 (I'll be 18 in December of this year), which causes me to stay inside and avoid people to this day (since it happened in March 2022) and I've missed out on my teenage years, so this playlist hits hard.
About to be 17 and a senior in high school. My future self’s gonna be reminded of the time I walked up and down the street listening to a sad smiths playlist that included one of these songs, blondie, feeling confused about my bisexuality and sad about the fact my girl and I would probably not end up together due to some major differences that we couldn’t seem to overcome in almost a year of knowing each other. O to be human. Shan’t completely lose hope tho
im turning 16 in less than 2 weeks and its so overwhelming like ive never rlly had friends that I love or would make an effort to hang out with out of school and its like i have no one and Im just wasting my teenage years with people i dont even like. Im thinking of moving schools or maybe even trying to move house, yk just to see if i find anyone to make me happy but im scared cause what if i move and its worse? I probably wont tho, im at the age where everyone is telling me to study and focus on my work so ill probably keep my head down till i graduate thanks for listening to my little rant lol
I am 17, and all I can say is that I feel a mix of emotions every time thinking about my teen years and that in a few months i will be eighteen. But gosh, how i lived even in the darkest moments, even when i didnt went out, just existing. pd: btw sorry for my bad english jajkshdhlhd :(
i am here to say it does get easier it does get better, you wont feel this forever, make sure you take care of yourself through everything, you are cared about, your presence is known and appreciated, drink some water do some meditation it really does help. just put forth effort into learning yourself and who you are you will be okay :) ~sincerely a 21 year old who has been there (side note kinda cute that these songs have stayed since i was in highschool and are still go tos for highschoolers now)
Today I had my final bell.. Officially the end of school and man I feel just.. empty.. Knowing I won't be making any new memories with friends at school really makes me sad, but this playlist let's me remember the earlier days when we weren't even thinking about the end that much..
I may have just started being a teenager, and sometimes it's hard being one, especially kids my age. they judge others a lot, but I'm glad I made friends who made me feel safe and comfortable and asked me to be myself. Without them, I'd just waste my teenage years trying to fit in. This playlist makes me smile :).
im going to high school this year, and im getting worried about my future already. The thoughts of studying aboard and have to start a new life on my own it's scary, sometimes i just wish i could go back to those days when there's nothing to be anxious with
Turned 18 a few months ago, just graduated high school, and now just trying to save enough money to move out. My life was an absolute hell-hole up until my Junior year. Im doing better, but holy sh*t I've missed these songs
I’m listening to this while reading Radio Silence by Alice Oseman and for some reason this playlist goes so good with the book I just feel like every word character and chapter is alive with these songs each passing second and I love it! (Btw please read radio silence it’s really good)
The first song felt like something jab me in the spiritual me, in my emotions and memories. Anyway, i'm studying for my polish lessons exams, if you're reading this and also trying to study - doesn't matter if it's for exam, test or just homework... work hard and you'll do it, believe in yourself, it's the key for succes; good luck for you!!
As an almost teen, I've been experiencing abus3,r4pe,s3xual h4rassm3nt,etc. I've seen the teenagers dealing with so much worse stuff.. And there's little me, thinking being a teenager would be fun, but realizing the fact my troubles and problems would grow bigger and bigger until I float..
I am also becoming a teen in the days of august and all i can say to you is… We go through a lot of thing (A loss, a fail, not having motivation, society) Whether any of them were as bad as the other each one has happened for a reason. What’s that reason you ask? Whether to make you stronger to overcome to get your head out the clouds and to have a purpose in life. Everything is here for you for people for life. Without bad things happening most people wouldn’t be where they are today and we wouldn’t have most things we do today. For instance If an apple wouldn’t have fallen we wouldn’t know about gravity. Think of the everything you’ve been through everything and use that AND I MEAN USE IT to do something you love to inspire you to do something with it make something out of it use it have it own it and make yourself an inspiration to as much people as you can even one inspiring one person can change the world and the perspective we see through. And know it’s ok to not fully be able to forget or move on from something whether traumatic or not but use everything everything you’ve seen been through ran through and everyone you’ve talked to and use that as your inspiration your advantage and your on personal upgrade. You will get through this and you can make things better if YOU yourself chooses to.
about to grad hs in may 30 and i dont even know if im gonna make it lifes been hard n shi i lost focus of school and got really mentally drained and tired
Im only 14 but I feel so much older. Im currently sitting in a house rotting my teenage years away. Im constantly mentally exhausted and I live with my father who is in pain all the time from stomach issues that he can't get fixed, slowly fading away. I used to live with my aunt and uncle who were very wealthy and well liked, but they were very verbally abusive to me, and severe alcoholics. They pushed me to my limit and a bit over a year ago I packed my bags and ran away, walking miles and miles until I finally reached my dad's house. I felt so free, for a little while at least. My uncle threatened to press charges if I didn't finish the school year at the school I was already going to (I ran away on the first day of spring break) so my dad drove over 80 miles every day to school just so he could keep me. The only problem is, the first day I had to go back to school was the day he was supposed to have his surgery. I blame myself knowing every day that If I would have waited one more week he probably would have never had to go through this. I feel like it's my fault and now he is here, staying in bed all day and night, suffering basically on his death bed, he hasn't been able to eat barely anything in 6 days, he coughs up blood, and I hear him crying all the time. I just wish I could've waited one more week.
I really would have liked to live my adolescence, but the change of country, covid, my parents' divorce plus passive-aggressive protection, my mother's dependence and humiliation made me more affected by my dad's bipolarity and the fact of not being valued by my little brother makes me so miserable. I'm supposed to go to university this year but I don't even know what I want, I'm just a passive reflection of what my mother is. She has told me since we arrived in this country that she will abandon me and my brother but she always comes back crying to me, but then they say that I have no value and I am good for nothing, I would like to escape, breathe, finally feel alive without having to everyone on top of me making me feel useless and horrible and then forget her mistakes, but I'm so afraid of her...when she told me that I disappointed her so much I didn't even react, not out of shock, simply because I already knew. She broke her cell phone while drunk and she took over mine as her own, when I tell her that I would like to become independent at 16 or 17 and live alone in a nice apartment with a balcony with a great view, pink dishes and pots, lots of air fresheners and all the lights Be neutral, she got angry with me for think about it and tell me that if I leave she will keep all my things because I am still a minor and everything mine is hers. I don't know what I want...and she already hit me for it. Plus, she's the teenager, not me, I guess.
I am turning 15 on June 4th and I cant believe it I also saw 15/16 year olds as like so mature and old and I. ant believe I am going to be that age I am a lil scared but excited
these artists are defo on the right track for this playlist, but i think you could've chosen some different songs for this playlist! i feel like these are all a little bit of basic picks. well done playlist though!! :D
Getting older can be scary. You might think you're wasting or have wasted your kid or teenage years, but that is not the case. Childhood and teen-hood are NOT like the movies. I was always told that my teenage years were going to be my best years and that I needed to savor them. Now that I'm an adult, I realize, that was bullshit. Now that I'm older and my hormones aren't going haywire, life is so much better, so much more enjoyable. I'm not struggling with depression and constant anxiety anymore. Life doesn't end when you grow up, it seems like it begins once you grow up. I reminisce on the old times sometimes, on old friendships, even on old bad times, but I am happier now. Savor the years that you are happy, push through the years that you are struggling. There is no age restriction on happy years. There is no age cut-off for adventure, for new experiences. Breathe. You are where you are meant to be right now, and you will be okay.
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Idk dude im wasting my teenage years rotting in a room
Same same
Same
twin
same. im 16 and i havent really left the house since i was 12
you can easily change that, though!! just go run around outside or go for a walk or take your friends on an outing :)) don't live with regret
This July, I will be 18... And It sounds extremely serious. I would love to return that 2018 summer nights. Time after Covid started to flow way too fast. I wish I could do something about this, but life goes on. I will miss you fat kid me. At least you were happy, and had dreams.
Felt this same thing when I turned 18, and again when I turned 20. Don't bury the dreams in the past my friend. Life is absolutely whatever you wanna make it, and it doesn't end with the changing of a number. I wish you a good life.
i turned 18 this january and it felt like a piece of me is gone forever. didn't have a very good teenage or a childhood for that matter but i miss her. i miss her and i love her so much. now since i am 18, i try everyday to make her proud and trust me its only been a few months but i am so much closer to my goals. it does get better. don't give up on any of your dreams because that would be like stealing your younger self's happiness. you can do this and you are most definitely not alone! sending u love 💗🫂
I can't say what life is like after 20 but I was so sad that I'd never be a teenager again the night before my 20th birthday. Becoming an adult is hard. Hold onto every day. You're a day younger than you will be tomorrow, just enjoy being a teen. As Jonny Yerrell says "live everyday like it's a festival"
Take care :)
2018 rainbow 6 with the homies,playing dnd and eating pizza rolls going out and holding brawls in the woods man I miss it
I wanna be a silly teenager forever i don't wanna grow up
Then dont grow up
@@smoggy8705 thanks for the advice smoggy8705
Valid. Nothing prepares you for how shallow capitalism can be. The work is hard. Less time to enjoy yourself.
Nice to have money and more say in your life though.
Mourn, but also know that life won't stop being good after that phase in your life.
I may only be 12, but these songs hit hard.
Age doesnt matter in this case, nostalgia is universal
im twelve too and was about to comment this exact thing
please, enjoy being 12. enjoy it thoroughly. Im 17 and have horrible memories when I was your age. do everything you want to do and don't mind the other non-believers in this world.
Hey reading your comment makes me realize two things 1)I’m not 12 anymore which sounds dumb but would me makes more sense after point two 2) now 15 and I never take the time to live, I was a suicidal kid with suicidal friends and it’s only been like six months that I don’t want to die and sometimes life sucks but you’re only twelve you’re a « baby » but at the same time you could die tomorrow so live, eat candies, go walk, read, learn to cook with your friends ( it’s really funny I swear) and do stupid stuff, life might be hard sometimes but the sun is always in sky which means there would be a tomorrow so it’s not that bad if you have a bad note to this test you gonna have more to the next and sometimes family sucks so makes sure to have a good comforting thing like music, tv shows or friends and I swear the stupid things you hate about yourself gonna change so laugh have fun ! And keep listening good music ;)
Same, for some reason these songs actually make me feel something
0:00- Blondie by Current Joys
3:05- Where'd All the Time Go by Dr Dog
6:58- Lover's Rock by TV GIRL
10:27- 505 by Arctic Monkeys
14:37- Space Song by Beach House
19:55- End of Beginning by Djo
22:35- Telephones by Vacations
26:00- Kids by MGMT
31:03- Apocalypse by Cigarettes After Sex
35:49- Yugoslavskiy Groove
last song: yugoslavskiy groove - золотые кресты
TV GIRL
19:55 is chicago
@@sandra_eliz softblade - Yugoslavskiy Groove
@@olivesarecutethe name of the song is end of beginning 💀
shi hit hard when you spend all your teenage year rotting in bed
then dont
@@sodacool6018 underrated advice right here
wish i had friends... i feel like i'm wasting my teenage years.
Same I sometimes like being alone but most of the time its just sad
I'll be ur friend
This might sound weird but I’ll be your friend I feel the same way cause all of mine are fake
I’m only 13, but I feel like I’m wasting my teenage years rotting in my bedroom with mental illness
damn thars 2011 2010
frogs
me too bro, im also 13. we most likely have completely different lives, locations, expiriences, wishes, life styles, and can't relate on many things. im not sure whether you have mental illness or you feel like it, but if no huge events happened in your life or recently (war, divorce, traumatic event, diagnosed mental illness, chronic/terminal ilness) you should really be much happier than you think. rotting in your bedroom is bad, yes, but i find simple things like spending time outside your room or on a balcony or just not in your room 24/7 really helps. i sound like every other person ever but it makes sense, if you change your ways, you will no longer have that "rotting" feeling. you dont need to pick up a book or start a business. working out is definitely a great idea if you have the capacity to do it. start with bodyweight exercises, if you and your parent(s)/ guardian(s) think its good for you, get dumbells or join a gym or sport. theres many ways to imrpove especially when you are stuck in your room all day. Im not sure about you, but after russia invaded my country for the second time in 2022, i went from a happy kid to someone i cant recognize or explain. it was the biggest shift of my life, no family, different country, going from a big house to a tiny apartment, legal issues, new school, hightened responsibilites, and so much more. life was perfect, i was a happy happy kid with no isseus whatsoever, sure its cringe now, but i was happy. instead of rotting here in my new life, i choose to go outside, walk my dog, go to school events, talk to friends, read books, workout, try new things daily, focus on studies and get ahead of everyone else. ive never felt worse but the constant imrpovements to mental and physical help are going to pay off soon. the past has happened and theres nothing i can do about that. the only thing i can do is shape my future by working hard. no reason to be a cry baby. слава україні, and i hope i will come back to this comment with your response and see if i have any noticble gym gains. hope i can get back into learning languages, see you.
in less than a month i turn twenty. i won’t be a teenager anymore, and i feel like i never really have been, and i won’t have the chance to be ever again. there won’t be any parties, there won’t be any sneaking out, there won’t be any memories of secretly breaking parents’ rules to reminisce about with friends. i’m never going to get a “teen movie moment” i spent more time in hospitals or doctors offices than i did with my friends doing “teen” things. i guess the lack of the experiences doesn’t hurt as much as the chance being taken away you know? anyway, if you’re not a teen yet, it’s not going to be anything like the movies, but that’s not a bad thing. if you’re a teen right now, don’t grow up too fast alright?
I'm 15 but man it feels like i was 12 yesterday
i hope you find your moments to be a teen once again for at least a 100 more times in different aspects and get to do the things you couldn't do while there was still time. i turned 18 this January and i feel this so much. like i am not allowed to have fun anymore because you are just magically expected to become an adult the second clock strikes 12. i have responsibilities now and i will soon move out and finally be independent but i will not stop being a teen for the last two years i have got because i agree with you. i hope u find the closure u need. sending love to you 💗💗💗
teenage years are not always between 13 and 19, they can be whenever you enjoy your life
I wasted 2 or so years, but I’m trying to get out and enjoy the time I have left as a teen, i want to have memories to reminisce on and talk about with friends, I want to feel like I’m actually living. So far I’ve just been bed rotting and giving up on my life, but I reconnected with someone I really love, and I hope to change and truly live.
I just turned 18 earlier this month, but I’ve felt like a teenager but, haven’t….y’know?
Please enjoy, don’t care about other people opinions. Do what you like, be yourself. I struggled a lot trying to fit in but if you are yourself worthy people will come. People will always critique but that doesn’t have to change you at all, I know it’s hard but what’s the worst thing that can happen? Please, focus on yourself, find a good and healthy group of people. Popular kids are cool, but they are not worthy. You are on time to change things, trust me or else you will regret it. You will feel so good when you finally find people you can be yourself with, people where you actually feel happy with. Thank you for reading until this point, good luck. (sorry if my English is bad, it’s not my first language)
I hope every teenager will read this!!
@@itgirlsplaylists_ ❤️🩹❤️🩹
you are a so cute 🤕🤕
в этом тексте все так прекрасно описано спасибо что дали мне надежду двигаться дальше единственное что заставляет мне жить ето надежда на что то хрошое после вашего текста я много что поняла и я благодарна вам что вы написали ето и я уверена что многие поймут многое из этого текста
I just meet you now, but i can say you are the best person on this fuckin world
I’m sitting in this classroom listening to this at the age 14 and wearing baggy outfit wondering how I would think about this place when I grow up, wondering how I would tell my children about this feeling
I have a friend who's scared of how old we're turning. The mention of our age or the hypothetical impending doom that comes with graduation will have her yelling at you to just shut up because she gets so overwhelmed. She joins me when I go out tagging, and sometimes we'll have some deep talks. She really likes existentialist films, and I really like existentialist literature, but I can't sit still for movies and she can't muster up the patience to read, so we sort of co-exist knowing we understand one another but cannot communicate it. Recently, though, she's been reading my books and I've been watching her movies. She got through The Metamorphosis (Kafka) and is holding on to my most favourite piece of literature, my dearest "White Nights" by Dostoevsky as of now. And I watched Black Swan. But I think her and I will always be worlds apart, even though when we hang out in groups she sticks by my side and I want her to seek me out.
I'm going into art as a major, and my future is an exciting one, but I'll miss my friends so much and I'll get so misty eyed at the thought of them living their own lives in another city. She's staying in the home and neighbourhoods that she's photographed to keep close to her since she was fourteen, and I'm leaving this stupid town that I've covered in graffiti tags and stickers throughout the years. She doesn't know what she wants, and I know bulls-eye where I'm headed.
I don't want new people, new personalities and strange memories. I want new experiences with the people I adore right now. I don't want to leave them. I don't want to leave her.
I really recommend keeping touch with her as much as you can. Let her know that you aren't moving away to get away from her. Even if it's difficult taking initiative, I really cannot recommend it enough. Long-distance friendships take a bit more work to keep up if you're used to being around each other irl, but judging by what you've said, it's worth it. This sounds like a fantastic friendship. Just because you're moving into the future doesn't mean that you have to leave her behind ❤
I will read this book just because its your favorit.
Note: Time spent not socializing or being a teen isn't wasted if you're spending that time healing from what's happened to you. Your health - emotional, mental, physical and otherwise - isn't a waste of time ❤
I wanna be a true teenager with the most fun experience, but cuz of my parents divorcing, siblings fighting and having to watch them while I don’t ever get a say in anything just hurts
bro i WISH my parents divorce, they didn't even love each other when they were married, they were about to divorce so many times but each time someone from my family tells them i will be hurt if they does it, and i'm like PLEAZE JUST FRIKING DIVORCE AND LET ME LIVE MMY LIFE AND BE HAPPY AGAIN (i'm 13 and i feel like i'm 80, maybe i just need to be 6 again)
Believe it or not bro that’s normal happens everywhere every city every country ever life time keep your head up bro
little man sitting behind the phone, I understand you, my father cheated on his mother for 8 months, they also had to get a divorce, but my mother loves my father very much and that’s why they fought every day for a year, I saw and participated, I also quarreled with friends, I used to love my father as a child, but now I don’t even after that, it would be better for me if they divorced, by the way, my grandmother also participated in these disputes, she tells my father, who is 44 years old, what to do, buy flowers and so on, I I'm amazed by them, it's so disgusting (sorry if the translator did something, I don't speak English haha) hold on
@@limbogt747 even if there was blood everytime and i had to go to school and act like nothing happened, even if i got beaten up when i was tryna help(i get beaten up for everything), even if i had to be the one fixing their relationship because i'm the only one affected by their actions :o ?
I started crying when I seen this comment. I've never related to something so much before
turning 17 in 11 days... how did time go by so fast? yet im wasting my life sitting infront of this screen... rotting away my years in my room
Take it easy, breathe. Shit is so hard on everyone right now, especially you younger ones.
You're still experiencing something from all of your internet escapades. Try to connect with people, don't fall into bad communities.
Aside from that, its not a waste. You're okay.
@@eveleene3613 i know that the message its not for me, but yes tysm its really hard to live
happy 17th bro
Happy Birthday
reading these comments really makes my eye fill with tears of happiness and sorrow
I do not know English (I should learn it!) and I type with the help of a translator. Life can be difficult and amazing at the same time. In one day, you can break down and soar skyward. And I sincerely want to thank each of you who are reading this. Do you translate my comment using the built-in translator function, do you read it as in your native language (I understand that it will obviously be unreadable), or are you just learning English on your own. Whatever languages you speak and wherever you are, thank you for being there and for staying in this world. Thank you for continuing your journey under the name "life". Every scar, every smile, every tear, every wrinkle on your forehead when you frown, every glazed or shining look, every image change or holding it in one place, every wheeze from screaming, from sobbing, from laughing, from singing, every movement of the body to the beat of the music, every stimming, every breath you take (the aroma of baking, fresh air after the rain, a sobering stream of wind, an unnoticed breath on autopilot), every breath you hold (from surprise? from fright? before diving? or, if necessary, escape from a burning building? leaving a smoky room? from the overpowering unpleasant smell? or maybe when you forget how to breathe from overflowing joy?), every sigh (in training? from disappointment? from fatigue? in an attempt to regain his composure? how is theatrical gesture?), every time you get bags under your eyes (because of a sleepless night? or is it a conscious decision to delay the moment of going to bed?), each of your drawings with your finger or with paints for painting glass on a fogged window, each drawing on water, each drawing in a notebook with a pen / pencils, each drawing on asphalt with crayons, each oil drawing in an album or on an easel, each of your graffiti, every acquaintance and every breakup, every failure and success, every trauma and every overcoming, every happiness and every pain.. All that... All that. All this!
All of the above and not listed below, as far as your existence is concerned, shapes our Universe. There would be no Life without each of us. Not life, it continues and will continue, shaping humanity in the future, namely Life. All your actions or inaction affect reality in one way or another and affect the surrounding reality more than you think. You are significant, even if, alas, not everyone of you has been told about it. In that case, I dare to do it - you are significant! Many will react with skepticism, saying that we don't know you and you don't know us. But that's the point. I don't need to know you to realize your pricelessness. You are not a commodity or a product to be sorted by quality and shelf life. You are something more. You are a Life within a life. You are a spacious and individual world.
The only thing I don't want to regret and what I'm really proud of is that I live parallel to You and share this world with You - so different and truly amazing personalities.
Reality can be hard, unfair, and frustrating. But I believe in you. And I respect your choice to be or not to be. But with hope in my heart, I hope that most of us will be able to "be".
Thanks to those who read this comment to the end and gave it their time! Keep listening to this amazing playlist! And hug yourself. You are truly cool!♡
Sogl s toboy dorogaya
Tu mensaje es precioso, gracias, también estoy agradecido de vivir de una forma parelela extraño no tan extraño.
wow. I needed this so much. this text you wrote is so beautiful and made me realise how beautiful life is. you should become a poet.
your translator did an amazing job, by the way
Man im really wasting these years arent i?
I feel you man...
same bro
I ask my self that a lot and for me I just push people alway because I'm scared to get hurt again
Especially when us therians live in citys 😿
I turned 18 and graduated high school about 3-5 months ago…here’s my advice
Enjoy being a kid still. I now work 40 hour weeks with little to no free time. I wish I had explored and lived more when I had the chance. Life changes and so do you, embrace change but don’t forgot the past.
I hope you get some free time to still enjoy being a teenager regardless of your age, coming from a 20 year old who also works❤
will be 16 in november. feels pretty odd to almost be 16; I feel like I was 13 and 14 just two weeks ago. :( maybe that's why I act so childish for my age.
I'm 15 it feels like I should still be 12 I guess I just rotted in my room for 3yrs
Don’t worry, I also turn 16 this November and I also felt that I was really childish, but if you start to prioritize yourself over others and start getting more into your interests then maybe it might get better, or at least it did for me.
@@user-qj2sd6qv3mthis is exactly how I feel. I want to change it so bad but rotting in my bed is the only thing I know how to do. the time where I should‘ve started building my identify and interests, I spent in my room watching tiktok because of covid. I feel like I just skipped the last 4 years
Same..I turn 16 in October and the age sounds kinda way too serious tbh
Ill be 16 in july
Hearing music that sounds really nastolgic just really hits different, even if your really young.
im currently 14 and summer just started. im dreading the future. a future with out some of my best friends. highschool is going to bring new ones, but i will never forget the friends i made in middle school. i cried my eyes out the last day of middle school because of the family i made. i sound corny but i mean it. you hate something until its gone and then you miss it. if anyone is looking for advice while reading this ill say this, dont hate. dont hate school, dont hate teachers, dont hate people. i mean theres no point. your gonna miss them. okay my hands hurt
these songs bring out a side of me no one can.
Dude, sometimes I just want to leave and go to somewhere more rural, somewhere where I can find abandoned places. I love urban exploration, and me and my friends have been wanting to for the longest time, but there is nowhere in the area. Me and my friends love to do stupid shit, and sometimes we're on the receiving end of some bad things. But it's fun, I'm only 14 and there's so much I want to do. I don't want to be confined to a job when I grow up, I want to live in a van, driving up mountains or around lakes, exploring ghost towns or abandoned factories, Be in San Francisco one day, and then Washington the next. I want to take pictures of everything on the way, and I want to have stories to tell my children. The thrill of the exploration is enticing, and the risk of being caught is thrilling to me. I don't want to waste my summer, and I want to make memories to reminisce about when I'm older. But after Covid that doesn't seem very easy. And since the world became duller (in my opinion.) that's making it even harder. And because I have school, and my parents to worry about, it's making me feel trapped. That's why I love nostalgic songs like this, because those things that you love, those things that you love are a great source for nostalgia later down the line, and that really speaks to me.
Today is my seventeenth birthday. It’s only morning and I’m crying already. Seventeen sounds like a big, serious age and I’m scared and I’m sad. I still feel like I’m 13. Covid made time faster. Just the thought of me graduating next year makes me feel nauseous. I want to be a kid again…
humanity is just so beautiful, the thought of us existing and these feelings surging through our souls, stirring our whole being. life is just so beautiful I could write hundreds of poems about humans and all yet it still wouldn't be enough to capture it's whole essence.
I'd actually love to read those poems, seriously. would you like to share them?
Dawg, graduation is on June 9th and I still think of myself as a 15 y/o trying to figure out their life and fit in. I wasted my teen years sitting in my room and not going out or hanging out with my friends. This sucks. I'm not ready and frankly- I don't know what to feel at this point in time.
I turned 17 last Feb, and and it just feels so different now. Only 3 more years and i wont be a teen gurl no more. I never had much of a friends that i could hang out with. I feel so done being at home, under the observation of my strict parents. I know whatever it is, is for my good. But is that all gonna be worth it? I guess, after the age of 12, i never really was a kid anymore. The teen years began and i started tuning into an anxious girl, overthinking literally EVERYTHING. But, now im 17 and i feel like i can only peacefully talk to people that are over 60+ lol. I feel nostalgic about something i never really had. Or i was never really "allowed" to have.
For those who are yet to turn a teen, here's a lil piece of advice from you elder sis k ( i luv givin ppl thoughtful lessons learned from my own mistakes) , so yeah, always listen to your gut feeling. Be yourself. And stay healthy and fit. There's srsly NO NEED to force fit yourself to those toxic beauty standards or whatsoever "IT GURL" persona. Even if you get acne, DO NOT be ashamed, take care of your gentle skin baby gurl. Cmon. DOnt let NO dude embarass you cuz of your natural bodily issues, cuz hun, the right ones will always love you for you and will not care how you " look like" . And for boys, just learn to be responsible, let the girls around you feel safe being with you. Take care of your parents. And also, look after yourself. Trust in God.
I just hope i had someone to tell me all these when i needed it the most, but now all i got is Me & Myself.
Wow, ive written so much. Ig imma cry too. Had a very toxic relationship before. Since then i never really opened up to anyone about what i be going thru cuz it feels like ppl are just too unpredictable to trust.
Anyways, those who've read till here, really it means a lot to me. I love you. God bless you all.
wow girly, you sound like a sweetheart been broken by some devil ?!
❤❤❤ thanks a lot for all you've written
Being 14, I have a few years left as a teenager, but I wanna make it last forever. 😭
nostalgia is way too surreal. nostalgia is mixed with many different emotions, such as happiness, glee and joy while remembering the good memories, but also grief, sadness and pain when knowing you’ll never experience that kind of happiness ever again. Nostalgia has got to be the most complex emotion that we could ever experience. It comforts me while scratching into my skin. when heaps of nostalgia hit me, its impossible not to cry.
the one thing i ever wanna experience. just once is enough.
i want to be a kid again. growing up sucks ass
Real but gotta love life. Cant suicide or I'll go to hell 😂
I miss being a kid Not getting judged for whatever i do. I only cared being happy not like now
I didnt want to leave it but it was taken away from me, too soon. I mourn the loss of a part of myself. I still want to be that child, i wish i got to be a teenager
It’s feels like just yesterday I was in my “indie” phase now I’m just all underground rock and anime openings
i cant even begin to describe how these songs make me feel
no friends, nowhere to go, and socially awkward.
Same :') I wish i wasn't socially awkward
@@saron0.091 we’ll figure it out sooner or later 😭
I felt this! I wish I could just stop being so shy lol
@@nellielabella take baby steps, sometimes I tell myself to talk to the person like I know them, it helps a little bit ((:
as a 14 year old person, turning 15 this may, this uncovered some memories i had back then :))
turning 13.. Yes I'm young bit I've gone through a lot honestly. I feel like giving up. Mentally on 2021.
I know you‘ve probably heard this many times before but it actually gets better. When I was about 12-13 I felt the same. I was thinking of giving up everyday, such horrible thoughts were in my head. Now, I am soon turning 16. I am still not completely healed, but it truly got so much better. I am at a point where giving up is no option for me and I know that you can achieve this too. Everyone reading this can. I know how unrealistic it sounds, back then I couldn‘t believe I‘d ever make it to 14 and now I am here.
Everyone telling you to hold on because there are so many beautiful things left to experience is right. You are in a very difficult phase right now but a phase is a phase and will always come to an end. You just need to get through it but someday you will get to a point where you will be so grateful for not giving up. It can take a lot of time but like I said, it is so so so worth it, I promise.
So please, no matter how hard it is, do not give up. If you can, get a therapist.
If you need someone to talk to, I can give you my instagram or whatever platform you have. I am serious, I‘d be so happy to help you, you can always vent to me and ask me for advice. I can‘t promise that I will always have an answer but I will listen and take your feelings seriously.
You still got time to make a change, just don’t wait to long
sorry, my english is bad, so i’m writing it in russian.
этот плейлист очень меня вдохновил не гнить этим летом в комнате.
я прямо сейчас даю себе обещание найти компанию друзей с которой я смогу гулять хоть под дождем.
спасибо большое за этот плейлист. я хочу ПРОЖИТЬ подростковый период, а не существовать.
that was beautiful
I turned 18 in January, I'm currently sitting exams that decide my future, and I long for the days of no responsibility, hell I even miss covid, being on call with friends or meeting up to go on adventures in the pouring rain, I miss it all and want time to stop, but yet I am ecstatic for the next few years of my life, despite the people and stuff I'll miss, I'm eagerly anticipating and dreading it simultaneously and it's terrifying.
thinking about teenage live i've never got
years go by fast.. scared to grow up and be on my own but ig its apart of life, i dont want to grow up i wanna stay 15 forever
i'm just 14 and i feel like i already can't have those tipic teenage memories...
I am also becoming a teen in the days of august and all i can say to you is… We go through a lot of thing (A loss, a fail, not having motivation, society) Whether any of them were as bad as the other each one has happened for a reason. What’s that reason you ask?
Whether to make you stronger to overcome to get your head out the clouds and to have a purpose in life. Everything is here for you for people for life. Without bad things happening most people wouldn’t be where they are today and we wouldn’t have most things we do today. For instance If an apple wouldn’t have fallen we wouldn’t know about gravity. Think of the everything you’ve been through everything and use that AND I MEAN USE IT to do something you love to inspire you to do something with it make something out of it use it have it own it and make yourself an inspiration to as much people as you can even one inspiring one person can change the world and the perspective we see through.
And know it’s ok to not fully be able to forget or move on from something whether traumatic or not but use everything everything you’ve seen been through ran through and everyone you’ve talked to and use that as your inspiration your advantage and your on personal upgrade.
You will get through this and you can make things better if YOU yourself chooses to.
Someone will always love you no matter what if not now then later if not then why not now so give people love and inspire them as much as you can.
i jus want to be loved
me da um peso na consciencia saber q daqui uns 6 anos nn vou ser mais um adolescente e sim uma adulta com responsabilidades e problemas maiores para lidar , tento aproveitar o maximo possivel pois sei q so tenho mais este tempo restante e nn volta mais .
this is so ethereal, thank u sm for creating this playlist
8th grade I met up with so many cool people I really hope I don't lose them if I do I might just not want to live anymore their the only thing keeping me from bed rotting I wake up and think about them into to bed thinking Abt them their all I want in my life I don't care about any one else everyone else could hate me and I'd still be happy as long as they are with me.
Me: oh okay, its just songs that i kinda li- (6:58) OH MY GOD TV GIRL
Who doesn't love TV girl girl?
@@Intyaraa FOR REALLL AHH
TV GIRL IS SO FRICKIN AMAZING DUDE THE WAY I GOT SO HAPPY WHEN I SAW IT ON THERE-
@@Teddiiiii FRRR
@@julia3-mt2zyTV GIRL HITS SO HARD ISTG
I remember as if i were 12 and in a blink of an eye i'm already 16, also realized i had never done anything really outrageous in my teenage years. never had a teen romance, hung out casually but never til late cuz of my parents plus wasted some years worrying about many things and i'm scared of regretting my teenage years moreover i'm scared of growing up
Loving these songs every day
the way that i just spend my time wasting in my room bcuz i have strict parents and cant go anywhere without them worrying ab me just bc im the youngest (youngest sibling problems and my parents are divorced)
honestly idk what i am. tween? pre-teen? just not a teen. im on summer break and i need to escape my room. my house. it's like being suffocated so i go out and bike. my brother hasnt left the house at all and it infuriates me, but who cares.
i want memories that i can tell my kids, then my grandkids, and possibly great-grandkids. i love to bike, i love the wind in my hair, i love all of it. bug bites? it's okay i'm having an amazing summer already. 🌸
Litterally decided to do my school at 11:45pm, I'll probably finish some of it around 1:00-2:00Am, this playlist is giving such a vibe for it!
gonna cry with it on my birthday ;)
Happy late birthday mijo
С прошедшим днем рождения тебя!! не грусти!🥳🥳🥳
these songs are just making me feel safe.
its crazy how long ago highschool was for me yet all the highschoolers still listen to the same tunes, i know how yall are feeling ive been there and it will get easier it will be better you just have to work for it
After quarentine my first love assaulted me at age 15 (I'll be 18 in December of this year), which causes me to stay inside and avoid people to this day (since it happened in March 2022) and I've missed out on my teenage years, so this playlist hits hard.
you are loved, and you are so special. i will be praying for you, beautiful.
aww I hope ur ok and doing good u didnt desrve that xx
About to be 17 and a senior in high school. My future self’s gonna be reminded of the time I walked up and down the street listening to a sad smiths playlist that included one of these songs, blondie, feeling confused about my bisexuality and sad about the fact my girl and I would probably not end up together due to some major differences that we couldn’t seem to overcome in almost a year of knowing each other. O to be human. Shan’t completely lose hope tho
im turning 16 in less than 2 weeks and its so overwhelming like ive never rlly had friends that I love or would make an effort to hang out with out of school and its like i have no one and Im just wasting my teenage years with people i dont even like.
Im thinking of moving schools or maybe even trying to move house, yk just to see if i find anyone to make me happy but im scared cause what if i move and its worse?
I probably wont tho, im at the age where everyone is telling me to study and focus on my work so ill probably keep my head down till i graduate
thanks for listening to my little rant lol
highly underrated
I am 17, and all I can say is that I feel a mix of emotions every time thinking about my teen years and that in a few months i will be eighteen. But gosh, how i lived even in the darkest moments, even when i didnt went out, just existing.
pd: btw sorry for my bad english jajkshdhlhd :(
im a preteen but this is so up my alley i love itttt!!!1
sick playlist. gonna listen to this on my next ride 🤙🏍
just graduated highschool today def a good playlist
obsessed with this playlist❤❤
i am here to say it does get easier it does get better, you wont feel this forever, make sure you take care of yourself through everything, you are cared about, your presence is known and appreciated, drink some water do some meditation it really does help.
just put forth effort into learning yourself and who you are
you will be okay :)
~sincerely a 21 year old who has been there
(side note kinda cute that these songs have stayed since i was in highschool and are still go tos for highschoolers now)
Today I had my final bell.. Officially the end of school and man I feel just.. empty.. Knowing I won't be making any new memories with friends at school really makes me sad, but this playlist let's me remember the earlier days when we weren't even thinking about the end that much..
To the god who has always been with me,I rely on you,I trust you and im so grateful to be the one you love
UNDERRATED
ate
muita nostalgia mesmo.
I may have just started being a teenager, and sometimes it's hard being one, especially kids my age. they judge others a lot, but I'm glad I made friends who made me feel safe and comfortable and asked me to be myself. Without them, I'd just waste my teenage years trying to fit in. This playlist makes me smile :).
Don't let others ever ruin your happiness be you guys ! :D
2013 was 11 years ago
2015 was 9 years ago
2018 was 6 years ago
2019 was 5 years ago.
i was borne in 2019 haha
I just turned 18 two days ago, and... i needed this playlist
I just wanna be a kid again without getting hurt or bullied by it.
i'm wasting my adolescence lying on a bed doing nothing all day, i'm finished :(
This is like 2022-2023 nostalgia for me
I turned 20 this year, man I miss highschool, I miss those friends, life is getting to real to fast
im going to high school this year, and im getting worried about my future already. The thoughts of studying aboard and have to start a new life on my own it's scary, sometimes i just wish i could go back to those days when there's nothing to be anxious with
Turned 18 a few months ago, just graduated high school, and now just trying to save enough money to move out. My life was an absolute hell-hole up until my Junior year.
Im doing better, but holy sh*t I've missed these songs
I’m listening to this while reading Radio Silence by Alice Oseman and for some reason this playlist goes so good with the book I just feel like every word character and chapter is alive with these songs each passing second and I love it! (Btw please read radio silence it’s really good)
The first song felt like something jab me in the spiritual me, in my emotions and memories.
Anyway, i'm studying for my polish lessons exams, if you're reading this and also trying to study - doesn't matter if it's for exam, test or just homework... work hard and you'll do it, believe in yourself, it's the key for succes; good luck for you!!
Man, 19 and I feel so old. Growing up is terrifying, the things I could scarifice just to go back a couple years. :')
i just want my happiness again...
I am a teenager and i dont wanna grow up but its the life cycle :(
As an almost teen, I've been experiencing abus3,r4pe,s3xual h4rassm3nt,etc. I've seen the teenagers dealing with so much worse stuff.. And there's little me, thinking being a teenager would be fun, but realizing the fact my troubles and problems would grow bigger and bigger until I float..
I am also becoming a teen in the days of august and all i can say to you is… We go through a lot of thing (A loss, a fail, not having motivation, society) Whether any of them were as bad as the other each one has happened for a reason. What’s that reason you ask?
Whether to make you stronger to overcome to get your head out the clouds and to have a purpose in life. Everything is here for you for people for life. Without bad things happening most people wouldn’t be where they are today and we wouldn’t have most things we do today. For instance If an apple wouldn’t have fallen we wouldn’t know about gravity. Think of the everything you’ve been through everything and use that AND I MEAN USE IT to do something you love to inspire you to do something with it make something out of it use it have it own it and make yourself an inspiration to as much people as you can even one inspiring one person can change the world and the perspective we see through.
And know it’s ok to not fully be able to forget or move on from something whether traumatic or not but use everything everything you’ve seen been through ran through and everyone you’ve talked to and use that as your inspiration your advantage and your on personal upgrade.
You will get through this and you can make things better if YOU yourself chooses to.
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about to grad hs in may 30 and i dont even know if im gonna make it lifes been hard n shi i lost focus of school and got really mentally drained and tired
Im only 14 but I feel so much older. Im currently sitting in a house rotting my teenage years away. Im constantly mentally exhausted and I live with my father who is in pain all the time from stomach issues that he can't get fixed, slowly fading away. I used to live with my aunt and uncle who were very wealthy and well liked, but they were very verbally abusive to me, and severe alcoholics. They pushed me to my limit and a bit over a year ago I packed my bags and ran away, walking miles and miles until I finally reached my dad's house. I felt so free, for a little while at least. My uncle threatened to press charges if I didn't finish the school year at the school I was already going to (I ran away on the first day of spring break) so my dad drove over 80 miles every day to school just so he could keep me. The only problem is, the first day I had to go back to school was the day he was supposed to have his surgery. I blame myself knowing every day that If I would have waited one more week he probably would have never had to go through this. I feel like it's my fault and now he is here, staying in bed all day and night, suffering basically on his death bed, he hasn't been able to eat barely anything in 6 days, he coughs up blood, and I hear him crying all the time. I just wish I could've waited one more week.
my friend and i found this playlist and we love it🤍
I really would have liked to live my adolescence, but the change of country, covid, my parents' divorce plus passive-aggressive protection, my mother's dependence and humiliation made me more affected by my dad's bipolarity and the fact of not being valued by my little brother makes me so miserable. I'm supposed to go to university this year but I don't even know what I want, I'm just a passive reflection of what my mother is. She has told me since we arrived in this country that she will abandon me and my brother but she always comes back crying to me, but then they say that I have no value and I am good for nothing, I would like to escape, breathe, finally feel alive without having to everyone on top of me making me feel useless and horrible and then forget her mistakes, but I'm so afraid of her...when she told me that I disappointed her so much I didn't even react, not out of shock, simply because I already knew. She broke her cell phone while drunk and she took over mine as her own, when I tell her that I would like to become independent at 16 or 17 and live alone in a nice apartment with a balcony with a great view, pink dishes and pots, lots of air fresheners and all the lights Be neutral, she got angry with me for think about it and tell me that if I leave she will keep all my things because I am still a minor and everything mine is hers. I don't know what I want...and she already hit me for it. Plus, she's the teenager, not me, I guess.
Once again staying home from school bcs anxiety and missing then I was a kid TT
anyway it's a mood ig
❤
i have a feeling that im wasting my life on doing things that dont matter but i dont know how to do the things that matter
I am turning 15 on June 4th and I cant believe it I also saw 15/16 year olds as like so mature and old and I. ant believe I am going to be that age I am a lil scared but excited
make sure you got good friends first man, spent those years pretty much alone and it sucked
these artists are defo on the right track for this playlist, but i think you could've chosen some different songs for this playlist! i feel like these are all a little bit of basic picks. well done playlist though!! :D
this playlist hits hard when i am turning 18 in 2 months...STOPPPP
Getting older can be scary. You might think you're wasting or have wasted your kid or teenage years, but that is not the case. Childhood and teen-hood are NOT like the movies. I was always told that my teenage years were going to be my best years and that I needed to savor them. Now that I'm an adult, I realize, that was bullshit. Now that I'm older and my hormones aren't going haywire, life is so much better, so much more enjoyable. I'm not struggling with depression and constant anxiety anymore. Life doesn't end when you grow up, it seems like it begins once you grow up. I reminisce on the old times sometimes, on old friendships, even on old bad times, but I am happier now. Savor the years that you are happy, push through the years that you are struggling. There is no age restriction on happy years. There is no age cut-off for adventure, for new experiences. Breathe. You are where you are meant to be right now, and you will be okay.
İm turning 15 this august and bc of this playlist hit hard