Was Will Smith's Apology a Slap in the Face? | Will Smith Apology Analysis
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- This video answers the question: Can I analyze the Will Smith apology video released on July 29, 2022?
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Chris is doing the right thing by moving on and not giving them his time. The way Chris handled that was admirable. He didn't escalate the situation or go along with the direction Will was trying to take things, just tried to find a way to make it funny (despite his head surely spinning from being struck) and tried to keep the show moving forward. What a professional.
ok, he is moving on? So if Will apologizes is bad, and if he doesn't is also bad. BTW, Chris has not moved from it, he is riding it and capitalizing on it. Don't be fooled.
I agree. Chris was admirable at the time and still is.
Agreed. I would have pressed charges and possibly sued Will Smith, but I can respect Chris Rock for being a consummate professional
@@yusefendure why would he, he is already making tones of money with it.
@@racharina so what if he is? He was the victim. Will knows the media game and was trying to maneuver the situation to something his PR team could handle and it didn’t work. He showed who he was and people didn’t like him.
This guy just won an academy award for acting, so it's difficult to believe his sincerity.
That's uncharitable
Hahaha, well said.
@@bobpolo2964 too bad for him hey
I need you to plead my case!😂
That phony slap was an act and gullible celebrity worshippers are eating that fakery up!
I want him to answer why he was laughing at the joke if it made him that mad?! He literally went through all the emotions in 2 seconds and landed on being infuriated.
Because he’s such a huge celebrity, I firmly believe he didn’t think there would be any fall out from his behavior due to his status and that people would commend his actions for ‘defending’ his wife. His career has definitely taken a blow. Part way through, he began smirking and smiling, this alone made the so called apology disingenuous.
I think he had been driving a little crazy by a very toxic wife and I also think he's had this discussion with Chris more than once before.
I agree that he probably thought his behaviour was warranted based on him 'defending' his wife and there wouldn't be much blowback. I believe the smirking and smiling was discomfort, we all have "tells" when we're in uncomfortable or difficult situations (eg: smiling when you tell a lie).
I think Will was being manipulative when he said 'disappointing people is my central trauma' because it sounded like a beauty pageant that says 'my biggest flaw is that I care too much', he was trying to portray himself as the good guy and hopefully save his career. If he cared about Chris Rock so much, he wouldn't have waited three months.
It speaks more of an oblique reference to a deep-seated desperation at the unhealthy dynamics of his relationship vis-a-vis his manipulative wife and how his failure to break the cycle leaves him with a sense of impotence while having to put up a facade to the contrary.
I can't stand him. He's a manipulator. Probably taught to perfect that trail in Scientology training.
@@Khaleesi_Of_Kittens he is
To be fair, he publicly apologized a few days after the incident, just not in video
Nailed it!
I seen so much anger and rage in Will face it was horrific and how he yelled after he hit Rock was very disturbing 😳
Exactly
Same.
he knew he would have pretty much no reprecussions for it...he knew he could "get away" with whatever he wants...now can you imagine what we have NOT seen
Exactly. The slap was bad, but the yelling was insane and disturbing!
Chris should stay well away from him.
Will Smith was really yelling and screaming at Jada. This guy's whipped, and he's a coward.
This apology was mainly for Jada's benefit as most people know darn well why he did what he did and saw him laughing at the jokes until she gave him "the look". Anyone who has dealt with abusive female partner knows what "the look" means, and what will happen to you if you later at home if you don't do what is expected. The most telling thing was how Jada looked very smug and pleased after the slap, and not shocked or upset as would be normal.
Jada is like amber heard. Not off making up wild tales about being abused. But being controlling and emotionally and mentally abusive.
Bang on Jamie! I hope you haven't been with these toxic people however, your insights tells me otherwise. Jaida did not like the fact the focus would be on Will that evening. Narcissist do anything in their power to disrupt great moments for others, ie, birthdays , awards, weddings etc. This behavior is well documented. Will knew the wrath he would encounter when he got home behind closed doors. Unless you have lived it, one has no idea of what it's like being with these toxic , insecure, selfish , predators.
She’s deeply toxic. Should’ve been upgraded.
I also think she DEF said something to him💯💯
No it wasn’t. You are pushing it now
He did it to return to Hollywood to be “sellable” again, to get the perks back he once had. Now Did she want him too sure but so did everyone else that Benefits from his celebrity and money. But doing that FOR her.. Nope
And Man..if that’s an “abusive female partner” I’ll take that any day over an abusive male partner.
Men are afraid women will laugh at them
Women are afraid men will KILL them
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Me too. 😊
He’s legit fucking hilarious how subtle he is. Like he says it like its nothing.
(paraphrased) ... "It's not hard to imagine Will's apology being forced by Jada standing in the background with a look of disapproval. Of course there's no way to know if this is true, she could have been sitting down." LOL 🤣🤣
That’s why I watch his videos, he’s too legit to quit.
@@slconley that and he has insight like no other. Clearly he is very intelligent.
He exposed himself as the jerk that he is. I think what bothered me most about the whole slap thing was that smug little look on his face as he strutted back to his seat.
Exactly my thoughts as well. The smug look on his face and the way he strutted back to his seat, like he was playing out a role in a movie, is what grinds my gears the most. More than the slap itself even.
He always seems a bit smug
You can’t take ‘em nowhere. tS’aways da same sheeit.
I thought the same thing! He looked proud of himself. I think he only apologized because no one wants him in their films.
Most people have negative characteristics for example,
I like Dr. Grande but he is a bit smug(and funny) .
It's not just Will Smith who needed to apologize.
EVERY single person who participated in that disgusting, ill-timed, misjudged standing ovation AFTER the violent attack now needs to do the same!
Best wishes from an Englishman in a French forest, who values honour above ALL else. 🇬🇧⚔️🇺🇲
Off with their heads!
Is that so? But my grand-papa was in that crowd. I challenge you to a duel my good sir, I shall await you in that French forest, have your pistols loaded, for I, too, value honour above all else.🔫
You're being dramatic. There is much more in this world to be outraged about and demand action and accountability from famous and powerful. This is not it😏🤷🏾♀️
@@wakandavibranium5053 they're role models on tv. It's the least they can do for their money.
@@We_Are_All_Vultures They should not be, that's the problem. Everyday people need to role model, parents, friends,teachers,etc.. and people need to stop believing that these actors are real. No wonder society is going to blazes. Switching off from these people will help people not be so invested in every minute movement in their lives.
Says "I apologize" to Chris and Chris's mother, but says "I'm sorry" to his own family and friends.
Interesting.
Apologize is not as personal as a heartfelt “I’m sorry”. Im glad someone else caught that.
Very interesting
Dr. what stood out in my mind that night, was the expression on Will's, face immediately, following the slap. When Will, turned away from Chris, did you catch it? The smirk, expression, of entitlement, and great, pride, for what he'd just done. To me, that moment, was more telling, than that slap itself. His mind, wasn't too foggy to receive his Award.🧠🏆🤣
All the people who clapped and cheered that appallingly self-aggrandising speech at the Oscars are partially responsible for the firestorm that physical assault caused. They should never ever have validated his behaviour or his arrogance and lack of awareness or regret.
His ‘apology’ is scripted and acted and was just done for a purpose, and that purpose was not to apologise to Chris. It was just an attempt to repair his image and career.
Still thinking more about himself than his victim. It’s disgusting. I’ve lost all the respect I had for him. He had plenty of opportunities to repair this ‘mistake’ - in his speech, by leaving the Oscar’s after, by not partying, by asking his family not to defend him online…by appearing in any way to have regretted his actions.
He’s lost, he needs help and some real support, and help to repair his mind and self-awareness.
Just my thoughts and opinions
I agree....it seems like He thinks it was just a mistake. Yelling from his seat afterwards, shows how aware he can get away with anything. No remorse
I was pissed. The same people who laughed at Chris's joke, watched when Will assaulted him, and then gave him a standing ovation at the end of his speech! Will have been going through a lot but he can afford a therapist!
Your personal thoughts and opinions are pretty spot on, if you ask me.
It was going to the after parties and dancing his own music that showed me he had no remorse then, and I don’t believe he has any now. I’m not saying he can’t get there, but I feel really sad that this is all he can come up with after months of “working on it”.
@@ddot9566 l agree with you, but it doesn't make me sad. You can expect this kind of behaviour from the vile sorts of narcissists that seem to abound in Hollywood. They are actually not on my planet. Apologies are for humans with real feelings, and not for arrogant, self-serving 'twits' who think they're 'above' everything. So Will smacked Chris at the Oscar ceremony and gave the world a laugh - in the eyes of 'nirmal' human beings, he just made himself a figure of ridicule, and who cares if he apologised to Chris Rock or not - l'm sure these two 'Titans' can live without each other.
“She may have been sitting down.” Priceless.
Exactly
Had to rewind that part lol
I think that comment says everything you need to know about how Doc perceives their relationship. Subtle and brutal at the same time.
The sarcasm in this is brilliant
No doubt sitting in a director’s chair
"There's no way to know if this is true. She may have been sitting down."
You are hilarious! I love the deadpan delivery.
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I laughed so hard at this. Especially because of the delivery, didn't see it coming.
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Here is a proper apology: "What I did was absolutely wrong and I apologize unreservedly to Chris Rock for my unjustified violence and subsequent behavior and to anyone else affected by what I did."
Perfect...!
I would substitute “everyone” or “all” for anyone.
Imagine getting upset at a joke but being fine with your wife sleeping with your son's friend...
He's probably acting out because he's being manipulating by psychological abuse. He wife seems highly manipulative and toxic.
Yes, it’s totally bazaar.
It's this society, men are basically taught to be little B's and actually need women's validation.
Lol! 😂
You're confused. Will Smith wasn't mad at the joke. He was laughing at the joke until Jada took away his permission to laugh. Will Smith actually wanted to slap Jada for ruining his good mood, but he knows he can't, so he took out his feelings of frustration powerlessness in his relationship on Chris Rock. Jada has all the power in the relationship. She can do whatever she wants and Will Smith will just keep simping. Will Smith is the kind of person who kicks the dog because his wife sleeps around.
I believe he is more sorry about his career going downward than the slap.
Wouldn’t you be? Let’s be honest. It’s his life’s work and he was making $20 million dollars a film.
I agree 👍 totally. Will is all about his career.
@@kenyafromcali
I don't think I would feel entitled if I was making 20 million a film and do what he did in front of millions. I understand what he is doing I just think it is 4 months late and insincere.
Bullseye Steve. This smacks of mending his own career fence
Agreed
"She may have been sitting down". Dr. Grande NEVER fails to incorporate hilarious unexpected digs and I freaking love it.
I thought it was BS, designed only to make himself look like he is on the moral high ground while Rock is inferior for not 'reaching out' (puke!) in return. These kinds of apologies that implicitly create an obligation on the other party to respond are an arrogant display of dominance. We already see what Smith is. His actions showed us clearly. He has learned nothing, he is just continuing as before.
I always say that a real apology has three parts. A. You apologize sincerely in a way that makes the other believe you. B. You break down exactly what you did wrong and how you hurt the other party. C. You ask how to make amends.
Pussy is 3 syllables right?
A real apology needs two words, I'm sorry. You can accept it or not thats up to you. Only a narcissist would demand all these parts to be included in someone's apology just to forgive them.
I agree Nickos
He should not apologise and no one should expect an apology. These public performances are done to minimise damage or to secure social acceptance. There should not be any reward for an apology or punishment for lack of. This produces the wrong incentive. It encourages hypocrisy and I am not one to encourage hypocrisy. As for "apologise sincerely in a way that makes the other believe you" well that's what actors are for.
Besides the three parts of an apology that you correctly state, I would also add that an apology must be delivered in a timely fashion. What do I mean by “timely?” I mean: immediate, or pretty close to immediate. Certainly, four months is NOT timely. The perpetrator needs to recognize their transgression, go to their victim in person, look them directly in the eye, take their hand in their own, and say to them: “I am sorry.” Also, a handwritten letter to their victim is appropriate. All of this must be done not only in a timely fashion, but privately as well. The victim must be able to believe as you correctly say here, that the perpetrator is sincere before they can utter these three important and necessary words: “I forgive you.”
When you hurt someone, especially so publicly, you do not say, "I'm here when you're ready". No. You get off your ass, go to them, and beg their forgiveness. Telling Chris that he was there when Chris was ready to talk, is him controlling the situation and not at all humbling himself after assaulting Chris. Period.
@Mama Marianovits - Exactly! It's putting the onus on Chris as if he's the one who needs to change his behaviour after this incident.
Excellent point.
Well said
This might be the most important point made among all the comments regarding Will's apology. To some extent he needed to make a public apology, as his transgression was made in a highly publicized situation, but as far as an apology directly towards Chris goes, that should be done in an extremely personal, private, and genuine way. I completely agree that it is Will's responsibility to handle that, sooner rather than later, regardless of how much begging or groveling it may take. To simply say that "he's here when Chris is ready", not only puts the oneness on Chris to "come and get his apology", it implies that Will doesn't find it important enough, or is not stressed enough, to do whatever it takes to personally right this wrong directly to the one person most effected by his actions. As a side note, in my never to be humble opinion, this is not a moment that should involve social media is any way, shape or form. that would only cheapen an apology, it would immediately leave room for questions as to motive. Just handle it Will, and stop worrying about what other people think!
Forgiveness, that is the main thing: asking for forgiveness, not just “I’m sorry for my behavior.”
Forgive me for walking on stage, in the middle of your thing, interrupting you, and hitting you in the face in front of billions of people, humiliating you and completely sucking the air out of what was a great event. Forgive me for being insecure insensitive unkind, a bully, self centered, selfish, disrespectful to you and everyone in that room..
“
Forgive me.
Say that Will
I feel like there is one major contributing factor being ignored here - Jada. She is an abusive partner. That does not excuse the behaviour, but I believe that it does provide a better explanation and makes the action more forgivable.
Unfortunately he is so heavily under her thumb that he can never really explain his behaviour through the lens of an abuse victim, because he does not see himself as one.
I wish the public discourse would focus more on that, as I believe would be the case if we flipped all the genders.
Absolutely.
I could not agree more on the lack of insight; his apology had the emotional intelligence commonly found in high school students.
*Two things not mentioned: 1) He categorized it as an "insult" rather than a joke. 2) He failed to acknowledge the negative impact his actions will have on all comedians.*
Comedians everywhere are suffering because we've become so sensitive. Comedy is supposed to push boundaries. Imagine if George Carlin were still performing. Or Richard Pryor. They would be immediate victims of cancel culture and societal censorship. Dave Chappelle is a good example. Good comedy makes people uncomfortable and makes them think about issues that make them uncomfortable or maybe they don't agree with.
Because he doesn't care. He thinks he did the right thing but is sorry for his career taking a blow and he wished he didn't. If his career and image wouldn't be affected, he would do it again.
What is this late night treat? Nothing like listening to Dr. Grande speculate but never diagnose before bed!
I speculate you are deriving pleasure from these videos.
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@@cameronmiller6240 🤣😅
Personally, I've always found it disingenuous when people say "I apologize" instead of I'm sorry.
My analysis: the “apology”was buii$hit. Unacceptable is minimizing.
“ She may have been sitting down.” This is the best dry delivery you have ever done! Just keeps getting better! Thank you Dr. Grande as it’s only just after 7 AM and I was laughing my ass off!
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I almost couldn't believe Dr. G said that ! 😯
nails it, calls it- no doubt Jada is always within the sphere of influence -- whether it's intuitive at this point on Will's part because he's been her partner for so long, or more explicit, I don't doubt that she 'colors' everything he does
I was a lousy Father, so twice when my Son was accosted, once by an older boy, and once accidently by an adult, I went ballistic to show my Son and every one else what a good father I was . It wasn't planned, it just happened. Years later I came to that understanding . Low self esteem combined with a big ego. The cause of much violence.
Kudos to you for recognizing it and addressing it. Most would hide behind the "good father," rationalization.
How can you have low self-esteem and a big ego? That just sounds like you had low self-esteem.
It's like how narcissists can't see that they're narcissists because the idea that we all have of narcissists is that they love themselves, when the truth is that most of them hate themselves and try to hide it. Sort of a "I'm not a pathetic loser, look at my new car," kind of thing, but in this case "I'm not a bad father, look at me threatening this guy who wronged my son!"
@@qty1315 Ego identity and self-esteem are related but they are not the same thing, although the second paragraph of your comment seems to address that (I think).
@@qty1315 Those two things are not mutually exclusive, at least in my opinion (i.e. you can definitely have both of them simultaneously). As a matter of fact, I'm willing to bet that many (if not most) of those whom we consider to have a ''big ego'' (or perhaps even label them as narcissists), developped those traits as a defense mechanism to cover-up for their lack of true self-worth, as you've pointed out yourself. I think the main difference between having a [big] ego vs. having a healthy dose of self-esteem, is that the former is mainly performative (''Hey, come check out my new ride, and just watch me score a ton of chicks with it''), whereas the latter might be mainly focused on your internal dialogue every second of every day, and just how much you allow for your destructive emotions to take you over and run with you.
Wow. Good on you. The ability to learn and change teaches your son what a good man is. P.s. I too can be an asshole. But I am learning.
I believe Jada forced him to apologise, wrote the apology and coached him through it, for the sake of Will not losing his career and therefore, losing her megamillions lifestyle.
This reminded me very much of Jada at the Red Table addressing the cheating scandal. The same minimising, fake and shallow responsibility taken, and the fact that it's being publicised as a PR stunt to stop the public disapproval of their actions.
I think Jada made Will do this to take the focus off what an awful wife she is to Will. That's why she ensured he had to apologise to her aswell, to put distance between her and his actions, when we all know she is the motivating influence for that slap. She is not only unsupportive and ungrateful to Will, and has not only jeopardised his reputation in the past, but now she has finally jeopardised his career.
This apology was weak and lacked substance. I bet it was the best apology Jada was capable of, and just like all her other behaviour, it was just not good enough.
The best thing Will can do for his career is leave Jada in the past, apologise to the world and admit we were right that he was in an emotionally and psychologically abusive relationship, and move on with his life. He would get my sympathy and understanding. For as long as he continues to defend Jada, I will not support him.
Key word: Think.
I especially like the, "We were right part."
It feels like a nice Bully’s Apology to me. Although I appreciate this effort and genuinely like Will Smith as an actor, I feel he is trying to move the issue to a close quicker than the victim is ready to accept. His wife is ready to be in the public eye again. Will is ready to be that cool guy again. The fact that he included her in this apology speaks volumes. He needs to apologize to each person face to face. Then come talk to the world. She was not the victim here. I believe in redemption and he has the right to speak his mind. We have the right to make him serve more than a 3 month comfy trip to find himself for assault.
I think the Smith’s are both arrogant. They are ready to say “we did our part and you all be ready for us with open arms now.” I’m not buying what they are selling. I’m sure the Red Table is next. Because they are experts on how to live for other people. Nope! Not buying it. I’m not going to be played by these people.
That was an excellent smackdown of his fake apology, no pun intended.
It wasn't an apology for Chris' forgiveness. This was a plea to us to like him again so he can get more movies.
Do you think he would have apologised if there were no repercussions?
I don't think this was for Chris. This was for himself only.
Totally! he ain't really sorry
nailed IT
I said the same thing if he wanted to apologize sincerely he would have reached out to Chris
The "apology" in a nutshell: "Hey, everyone! Chris won't talk to me!! Make him talk to me so I can get my career back!! Make my victim talk to meeeeee!!!! Peer pressure him!! Aren't I sweet and humble?? Now make Chris answer my calls!! I'm a NICE GUY!!! I have tRaUmaS too!!"
Girls know this "nice guy" behavior a mile away. He's a creep. Leave Chris alone, Will. You've done enough.
Very good point.
When I heard the apology the first word that came to my mind was "uneventful." I found myself wondering "What was the point of it? It seemed rather mechanical to me without feel or emotion. Almost as if he memorized a monotone speech. It left me in neutral. The emotion just wasn't there.
PR move.
@@merricat3025 I agree.
Will Smith is a punk
I like how you called it “loss of hair” & not “alopecia.” Makes me think you are not convinced Jada has it & does not want to enable that victim card. Just me speculating & I enjoyed it 😊
That's because Jada does not have Alopecia. She just lost the front part of her hair. Thought everyone knew this by now. Guess there's some who still in the dark.
@@matttasby1186 OK great job?
The explanation of guilt vs shame was very interesting. I would love further videos on this topic. Especially healthy shame vs toxic shame. Thanks Dr. G
All shame is toxic. Some of it has shallow benefits, but overall it makes people worse conformists for every bit of it we accept.
@@jumpinjohnnyruss dictating doesn't make it so. That is your opinion based on your understanding. Shame has very practical uses.
@@notinterested8452 It’s actually not an opinion. Studies have shown a 7:1 correlation to the feeling of “shame” leading to addiction. It’s NEVER a healthy feeling. Look it up. ✨✨✨✨
@@jumpinjohnnyruss People don’t understand how internally corrosive and externally harmful feeling shame can be.
@@kenyafromcali based on the language you have used to assert your authority over me there's zero chance in hell that I'll be looking up a damn thing.
He put the ball in Chris Rock’s court by telling him to contact him when Chris is ready to talk. In my opinion Chris will never contact Will because Chris is done with him. There is nothing to talk about, it’s irreparable. That slap in front of the world was demeaning and damaged Will’s reputation permanently. Chris just wants to get on with his life and to me Will has still not come to terms with his impulsive bad behavior.
Feels a bit entitled to say when. Should be if.
it's like he expects to be forgiven.
I agree, I also feel that if Chris does not contact Will (and why would he) Will can say "Well I offered an olive branch, but Chris did not accept it!". Therefore Will can pretend that he is the good guy.
Likely. He wont work on himself. He assumes his apology will be accepted. Disgusting. These people are creepy af
@@gloriahooper5023 Give Will a break. You people are really showing how un-Christian America really is
@@gloriahooper5023 in Will's ugly speech he had the nerve to call Chris immature and so he made things worse again
I was at a Chris Rock show three weeks ago. About 30 minutes into his show, he said something like “I know you’re all waiting to hear about it….yes, I forgive him”. That was all that was said and then he continued on with the show. He is indeed a class act.
Thank you for sharing...!
Clear case of emotional instability, I assume more has been ongoing with Will behind the scenes. But rather distasteful joke from Chris, I wouldn't call it a class act to laugh with female hair loss if you don't know the story.
@@kimgysen10 - Chris's joke was not distasteful whatsoever. I laughed at it because it was hilarious. Moreover, if Will thought it was so distasteful, he wouldn't have cracked-up laughing at Chris's joke in the first place.
He didn't assault Chris because he didn't like the joke. It was because his petty, silly-minded, toxic wife gave Will a look when he laughed at Chris's joke.
I wish you guys knew the facts of this incident.
@@matttasby1186 Women care about their hair, it's rather offensive. If some disease takes that away, it's pretty tough for them. I'm not a woman but even I can see that. Of course Will was getting out of bounds, I can see that too. But oh well not everyone needs to share the same opinion. To each their own.
@@kimgysen10 - Yep, because Chris's joke was priceless. I thought it was hella funny,
I loved it. Apparently, Will thought it was funny, too. He cracked-up laughing at his joke until his wife gave him the death stare. It was obvious he got in trouble. You could see it in his face. Then, he goes up on stage and assaults Chris, just because he got caught laughing.
So no, I don't see anybody getting out of bounds to make up for laughing at a benign joke that was funny anyway. Chris got hit because of their toxic relationship.
If you think that's okay, then you must be toxic yourself.
Thank you for this objective analysis, Dr Grande. This is the 4th time Will has apologized for the physical assault of Chris Rock. Each is better than the previous apology but still lacks something. I think you hit the nail on the head - Will still doesn’t know/understand why he hit Chris.
If anything, this apology makes things worse. It feels very insincere.
This is intentional. Doubling down.
Way worse! I've lost so much respect for him. He already apologized and was punished by the academy. His apology should have been private between he and Chris if he felt the need to apologize again. He's to hungry for approval, which caused him to bring the whole thing back to the surface of everyone's minds. Poor guy should just lay low for awhile.
An apology is only sincere if you take full responsibility for your actions and demonstrate changed behaviour
I see the same thing.
@@notinterested8452 Give Will a break.
Dr. Grande nailed it. I thought that the apology sounded like a little kid whose parents make him say he is sorry for something. I 100% think he is trying to please Jada because she wants her pre-slap world back. The best thing Will can do to heal is end his relationship with his emotional abuser. She's cold as ice and I do believe that she is poison for him.
Thank you!
too weak to leave. jada reminds me of robin givens.
@Pam Bennett - Well said!
@@justinjohnson8551 who is that
Well said Pam
My biggest thing was for that entire night, it seemed like himself and other family members celebrated what he did. He was upset and at the time showed that he felt justified. Yes, he could realize now that being happy about his response was wrong, but why not say that if you are truly sorry and just admit that’s what you felt in the moment? The simple, I was “fuzzy” comment threw me off a little, but at the same time I don’t have all the facts, just my initial thoughts …
True - he was clearly delighted with himself: it's only after he saw the reaction of normal people outside the hollyweird bubble that it began to dawn on him.
He must be a great actor because he had everyone fooled that he is this amazing chill philosophical together human. My mother always said no matter the timeframe eventually people will always end up showing their true colours. He definitely has shown his. It’s such a shame really but it is what it is. Who knew he would implode on a world stage. Children have more self control & sense than he displayed…Yikes.
I hope you're doing well Dr G! I have no plans on watching the apology video directly because I don't want to give oxygen to his violence. I no longer see Smith the same way. Chris Rock who I love as a performer earned my utmost respect as a man for the way he handled it.
Good analysis.
I'm sorry WS is going to be alright also CR but I agree I don't respect WS as an adult I see him as a juvenile if I need to turn to black excellence I will research Barack Obama , Colin Powell, Mike Tyson, Sam Jackson, Waynan Bros. Trevor, Chadwick Bosman Idris Elba, thank God for Black Hollywood black excellence Steve Harvey, DL Bernie Mac Chapelle we can go on and on Sidney Poitier we have many classy black mentors not 10 year old juveniles
@@mariapowell8450 you speak for yourself with that comment.
I never heard him say "I'm sorry." Saying he apologizes is not the same thing.
It's not?
Good point!
He slapped Chris in front of the entire audience, strutted back to his seat and then cursed Chris out. To add insult to injury, Will stuck around to accept his award and partied on into the night. Strange
Didn't his daughter come out the next day and say something to the affect of "this is how we do it"? It's kind of hard to say it was an accident if your own child says that's how the family rolls.
And secondly he said no part of him thought that was the right action to be taking. Well he might want to have a serious talk with his legs and arms because they sure teamed up together to pull this off no matter how hard Will tried to stop them.
☠️🤣🤣 great comment!
Will Smith robbed every winner of their moment in the spotlight last night. I have no idea who won an award, but I know what Will did to Chris. Wills slap hurt a lot of people and destroyed a very special moment for a lot of people who worked very hard to win that night.
Unacceptable Behavior . Totally lost any respect for will . Tough times bring out the real personality of any one . Chris is the real man here .
I agree. I didn’t know he was like this. He had me fooled!
@@kimberlyrobinson1978 Give Will a break.
@@suzygirl1843 Why? He's a thug.
Agree. We saw the real Will slap Chris and maybe worse the yelling afterward, like a 3 yr old
For human being?
Really well done.
Glad to see a thoughtful review of a tragic moment that was brought to the level of our national psyche due to the venue and individuals involved.
My first question after an event such as the great Oscar slap is "where in my own life do I mistake feelings of insufficiency for the need to protect honor?" and "how do I respond under pressure when I fall out of my center?"
One element of the Oscar slap I have wondered about but have heard no one bring up: did Will Smith, about to win an award for playing the role of a sociopathic father, conflate his own response with that of "king" Richard in that moment? In other words, was he still vested in the role to the extent that it affected his daily life?
Did he (in effect) ask "what would Richard do?" when Jada rolled her eyes?
Your professional insight is amazing! Your awesome, dry sense of humour is equally fabulous!
😂🤣🤣🤣"It's not hard to imagine Jada with a look of disapproval on her face, standing just outside the view of the camera, ... now, of course, there's no way of knowing if this is true, SHE MAY HAVE BEEN SITTING DOWN"
Best line of the analysis
OK thank you, I finally got it!!!
Hahaha, yes, hilarious.
Yes, classic Dr. Grande.
Great analysis as usual, Dr. Grande. He did not just “disappoint” people, he hurt them. He needs to own that. Also, not leaving the ceremony demonstrates a haughty disregard of others.
Guilt vs. Shame was a good point that I never took into consideration or thought about prior to watching this video. I would love to hear more on this topic
This is one of your best videos! It ought to be required viewing by professionals who support Celebs in making an apology. I especially enjoyed your comment on the issue of guilt vs shame. Healthy shame would have precluded Will Smith from acting the way he did in the first place. Toxic Shame in the dynamic between Jada and Will may have contributed to Will acting out as he did. You are right that a lack of insight on Will's part makes this apology less than complete. The question is then, how Will Smith will gain such insight? Any more thoughts or perhaps a follow-up video would be appreciated!
Will’s apology to his own family was ridiculous-he could have done that in the privacy of his own home. The apology to his family seems like a PR move to cover Jada and his kids. Will sounded like he’s so bitter and angry towards Chris still.
Did he embarrass his family privately, Gavi...?
Because I'm pretty sure he did so PUBLICLY, which makes his apology to them befitting.
The whole apology could have been private. Most people are ready to move on but Will needs attention.
@@kristineshepherd7200 By now he's grasping at whatever straws he can to try and salvage whatever remains of his career, if any.
@@rigelb9025 You guys aren't being very realistic if you think WS only apologized publicly to save his career, when his career was never in any real danger. Did John Wayne's career end after his unchecked r@cism compelled him to rush a Native American woman on the Oscar stage & did he ever apologize sincerely? Likely not, since he died a flaming unrepentant r@cist😒
Will Smith's slap, though definitely a horrible loss of self control on his part, & very humiliating for the person on the receiving end of it, was not the end of the world.
He still has a great deal of support worldwide, with many people rooting for him to work on his mental health, to learn from his actions, rehabilitate & to recover from whatever got him into such a dark place.
If you are hoping another human being fails that part of their journey simply because they've shattered your manufactured image of them, then perhaps you should examine yourselves about why.
His wife controls him, he made sure he pointed that out in this video about the "heat"
Will Smith was liked by the world. He did act entitled and arrogant after taking a seat and still going after Chris verbally. I'd support Chris if he sued him for 50M.
I always thought that Cris Rock should sue him. Even Jim Carrey believed that Will Smith should be sued. Jim Carrey essentially said that if that was him getting slapped, Will Smith would be in a lawsuit for 50 million dollars.
Everyone would completely understand if Chris sued. Chris has more character in his little toenail than Will’s whole self.
Does anybody remember Will and Jada's campaign to boycott the Oscars 6 years ago .
They went there with big chips on their shoulders ... entitled , shitty , and hostile attitudes .
UGLY . This second apology is ugly in some parts , too .
@@truartist5379 Just looked at the interview again, yup!! And he had an attitude like "I wish he would have slapped me." 🤣
His line about putting, "light, love and joy" into the world is so weird and cult-like. It's like he's programmed. It ties in too with what you said at the start of your video about how prisoners of war have talked in videos.
Honestly, I wish more people would try to put more joy into the world. The world needs this now more than ever.
@E Smith The world needs less censorship and fascism more than anything now. Kindness and tolerance are overflowing now, and it's to the detriment of truth and integrity!
@@creepyrobsta5509 You can come up with a fancy political term for it like fascism, censorship, etc. It all boils down to too many groups fear or hate too many other groups or feel that other groups are taking away all their resources. They don't actually "see" each other. A mother does not fear her child is taking resources away from her because she "sees" her child. The world can never have enough love, the thing that allows us to "see" each other.
Yet another great analysis. I never fail to come away from one of your videos without a new insight or to see a situation in a new or different perspective. I had never thought about the difference between guilt and shame before. That was very interesting.
This makes me think of Will as a joke…lol! I don’t like his disingenuous apology. In my opinion, if Will is truly remorseful and if this apology is sincere, he wouldn’t go public but wait until Chris is ready and respect Chris’s wishes. To me, this speaks undeniably that the motivation to do this is purely for his own PR and ego. Him remaining at the event, not immediately apologizing and attending the after party just adds to, in my opinion, a fact that he was not bothered by his inexcusable actions. The level of hubris in this one in mind-blowing 😂
You nailed it! Succinctly and accurately! 👍
He actually f with Chris again... It's your fault but he put the apology in Chris' court - Hey man I'm ready...just waitin' on ya...
I agree the apology was to publicly out Chris for not allowing him to apologize. Gross.
His actions pale in comparison with Hollywood in general. The audience just took it, accepted it. No wonder he behaved that way, Hollywood will accept anything from top tier celebs.
Well-said.
What are the odds that his apology was well prepared and written by professional advisors, remember he is an actor who has won an Oscar for his performance.
Do we really believe he was "fuzzy"?
He just made a $35 MILLION *Up Front deal to star in a moment. The people financing that movie are the folks I'd peg as the authors of his apology. I'm also betting we'll see a lot more of him before that movie premieres, at the direction of those bankrolling that movie. PR PR PR PR PR. Gotta make people like him again. But it seems like he just keeps digging a deeper hole.
I don't think he was fuzzy. I think he was smug, arrogant and entitled, and he is still not ready to accept responsibility for what he did.
He was fuzzy and all wrapped up in an entanglement.
@KCF: What does 'fuzzy' even mean is my question.
Not hard to understand, knowing he's going to win, his arrogance prevented him from thinking properly
I would have been crying through my apology the whole time if I did something like that. That's how you know it was a legit apology to Chris Rock. My money is on Will not being sorry about hitting Chris Rock.
_the thing about regret is, It’s better to regret things you have done not the things you haven’t done_
I'm impressed by the depth and breadth of your analysis. Until Will Smith demonstrates he understands and communicates a sense of shame, I'm skeptical of the sincerity of his apology. I've seen all of his movies, but the image of Will Smith slapping Chris Rock blots out every image I have of him.
It’s a sad fact of life that when the positive interacts with the negative, the negative wins out and prevails. There can be 10 good things and one bad thing, and for some reason, the bad thing is what is remembered. That’s why the image of the slap supersedes and blots out all of the other good images of Will Smith that you have stored up in your mind. It’s like: “Other than what happened to your husband In Dallas Mrs. Kennedy,( that 6 second incident on Elm Street), I hope that you otherwise had a good time and were enjoying yourself. Hope you will come back to see us again sometime.” Sorry, she would never go back to Dallas, and you can never go back to your previous positive feelings about Will Smith’s movies. When damage is done, the damage is irreversible.
@@frederickrapp5396 That's not how I feel. There's a difference between reality and movies, and I know the difference. One is unbridled violence done to a real person in a peaceful setting and the rest is fantasy. Which is the real Will Smith, the one in movies, or the one who resorted to violence over a harmless joke by a comedian?
Completely agree- well said.
@@wilmerwalton5089 You make excellent points. Thanks for sharing.
@@wilmerwalton5089 yeah, but he's hit people before they just weren't as famous. He smacked the European journalists more than once. Then he covered it up with his PR team. He's made fun of everyone and everything with no backlash. It's caught up with him.
They asked him to leave, he wouldn't. Then proceeded to party all night.
If he was really that affected that badly , why wait 4 months? Because he's hoping people will forget. Chris rock's family hasn't, that clip is forever.
He's mad, he's angry. It's not new. He's ratings are bad, he can't have that.
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I still don’t understand how his act of violence was tolerated, if I slapped someone in public the police would intervene . He is entitled and an actor so his apology is suspect to me
Exactly. Will Slap is hollyweird royalty.
Having been a Will Smith fan for decades I did not completely buy his clean and polished persona. There was always this sliver of doubt. Will certainly removed my doubts, but not the way I expected.
The analogy between a Vietnam prisoner video with someone off-camera with an AK-47 versus Jada being off camera potentially casting a disapproving look shows great perspicacity on your part. He's in the zone for that role. Great analysis referring to stages of an apology and I learned a new word....perspicacity.
The fact that Will Smith has always been known as such a nice guy made his aggression at the Oscars even more painful and shocking. There's something about a kind person turning cruel and violent that shakes us to our core.
It’s the shock of thinking you knew someone and finding out you didn’t at all. Makes the world seem so much more scary
He gets into the “ uncanny valley”. There is something off about him and you know you can’t trust him.
That's what it is like to live with someone who has a mental health disorder. They negatively affect everything around them. The amount of frustration and stress they cause is incomprehensible. You break if you stay around too long.
I agree. There’s something about a kind person turning cruel and violent
(when completely unprovoked) that
shakes us to our core.
Because he always was faking the nice guy
You show you are sorry through actions, not words alone. He earned $35m, how about give a portion of that to Chris or a charity supporting victims of physical abuse, or something to that effect.
Thanks for the chuckle! I needed some levity today, and your straight-man delivery of your jokes plus analysis was entertaining :)
Great analysis! I really thought your POW analogy was fascinating. I've watched will over the years, and in particular the past few years noticed that he has really opened up more about his childhood and the traumas he has experienced. He said, the sense of humour he has developed was born out of necessity to protect himself from situations of physical and mental abuse he suffered at the hands of his father. This might be a reason why he was smirking after the slap of Chris. This was in essence a defense mechanism he had always used in moments of stress. Also, I thought about his theory. Maybe Will felt guilty about not being able to protect his mother and siblings from the abuse at the hands of his father. The movie he had just finished-King Richard, really centred on Richard being able to bring Venus and Serena to unheralded tennis success by protecting them in many different ways. Will spoke of the way he respected Richard for this in his acceptance speech. Is it possible, the moment Rock spoke of Jada, Will saw that look of disgust, and in a flash all his past feelings/emotions bubbled to the surface and propelled him into a quick physical response, a physical response he felt guilty and shame for his inability to protect others in the past? Bringing it back to the POW analogy. Will actually can be seen laughing in the scene just after Rock made the joke and it wasn't until he saw Jada's look that he acted. Similar to the soldier holding the gun off camera, Will felt beholden to Jada because what she thinks matters and he doesn't want to disappoint her. This combined with all those years of guilt for failing to protect his mom and siblings, he mistakenly thought physically attacking Chris could somehow win her approval (internally maybe it actually did for her) and wipe away all his past emotions of guilt and shame.
The highest and the lowest moment of his life at the same time. The very definition of bittersweet.
Accurate! I was planning on watching King Richard when I heard he was nominated, but after that night, my desire to do so faded quickly.
@@popeye5274 oh good I was thinking the same thing
Thanks for getting this out so quickly! To me....it seems like he doesn't feel it was his fault and hes just making an apology because everyone wants him to.
He has a movie coming out on Apple+. That is the one and only reason for this insincere and fake apology. Apple probably demanded it. He is still defensive and won't take full blame for his televised assault. It was half-hearted just like the first apology. It's offensive that he is trying to get Chris Rock involved in his damage control. It's over Will, your career is over!
@@LifeSucks
Exactly right.
Agree
Very interesting. Great points. One comment, I felt that Will Smith somehow attempted to put blame back on the victim by telling his viewers that Chris Rock has not yet accepted his apology. Not sure why he needed to make that statement. It is as if he is saying, "I am trying to move on from this incident BUT Chris won't let me." I also noticed that Will was smiling at various points in his statement, which I thought was very inconguent with the seriousness of the issue. One more observation, he was wearing a WS hat during the statement. Is this the best time to be promoting your clothing line? Seemed to be a possible signal of some narcissism/entitlement. I may be way off, because admittedly, I believe Will Smith should have been charged with Battery after the Oscar's. I would appreciate any feedback on these thoughts. Thanks.
Great observation...!
Feedback? Because you don't agree with, or like what he did, you're projecting onto his every move, negative intentions. It's what almost everyone in this comment thread is doing. It's not sincere. self serving. bad acting. Every possible way to construe the apology, as insufficient, is being offered. Proves only one thing. No matter what he said, or how he said it, it would still be the same. All of it, meaningless.
@@davidpetrosky Gosh David, where did you get your psychoanalyst degree? Haha. 🙂
@@JimB16 - "Google University"
@@matttasby1186 Haha...yes! Top ranked university in the U.S. 🙂
So glad we have you to break these kind of events down; greatly appreciated
Jada, Amber and Megan show us how terrible are narcissistic people to the ones that are near them.
Which Megan?
Exactly
She means Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, however, if she really is narcissistic, she is in a family where there are so many narcissists, that she is in good company.
Also, many of the accusations levelled at her were also made against Diana, in her salad days in the family. Differences? Diana died early and her private missteps have been forgotten and have disappeared; Diana was not American, a mixed-race woman considered by many in the UK media as an interloper, as well as their bread and butter as journalists who cover the Palace; Diana was not picked on by the anti-monarchist Murdoch media, the leaders of the Anglophone media who are openly racist, misogynistic, right wing, happy with nothing done by folks of color, Americans and anyone NOT bordering on their neo-fascistic point of view. As an Australian who has been exposed to the Murdochs and their meannesses up close, I've seen their MO.
Diana didn't live long enough, outside the Palace, to attract their long term venom, but she would have done if she had married Dodi F or her Pakistani heart surgeon, that would have been a Murdoch no-go.
@@ritah4713 Meghan Markel
I see your point but I feel that keep blaming his behaviour on Jada minimizes his responsibility some how and makes him more of a victim in this whole situation. I dont doubt that Jada is toxic, but WS is a grow man who has several times taken the public decision to stay in this marriage. In Amber's case, Johnny chose to get out. He's also a grown man, with his own mind, who chose to slap Chris Rock, we can all speculate on his reasons, but that's on him. Just my opinion, anyway
Too soon? He waited 4 months. He has a movie completed (Emancipation) due out next year (5 months from his apology). Three more are listed in preproduction. His "handlers" (the ones besides his wife) are probably worried about losing money, hence the insincere prisoner of war apology.
I haven't had anything respect for him for a long time. I could really careless about this entanglement couple. She was the sole reason he slapped him and not because he felt disrespect, but she did. She castrated him long ago. They are toxic and thus dragged Chris into it. Everything Will Smith does revolves around the wife that made him take responsibility for her cheating. It's pretty pathetic...
Bravo...! Exactly...Thank you...! You are spot on...!
He did not apologize to the viewers and lovers of movies for degrading the award ceremony. The slap wasn’t as bad as the disgraceful verbal assault that followed. He ruined it for millions of people. Then he receives the Best Actor Award !
That's his career defining moment, what he will be remembered for forever in the annals of Hollywood depravity.
He sure took a long time to come up with an apology.
Chris Rock did a good job, he definitely was not trying to hurt Jada.
Three things:
Will saying he thought for three months about everything like it was rocket science and not him slapping a man is hilarious.
Dude you assaulted someone it isn’t a nuclear physics experiment.
What you thought of was how to get away from it.
Second:
Will smiths apology probably was honest. Bc he’s knows his life and career is over.
Third:
I love how you said he had “entitlement” bc he definitely does. He needs to reinvent himself and organically change himself and find the positivity in his life. We all know the root to his evils. His wife. He says he hates living up to people. Which is why he did what he did for his wife. He just showed why he has these demons and why they took him to hell
1 plus million subscribers! you earned it! Keep up the good work.
The way to know that he is really making progress is if he separates from his wife
For real.
Great analysis. Personally, this apology wasn't very heartfelt. I'm glad he finally came out and apologized, but it took too long. He was in a fog through the awards, the after parties, and months that followed? That's entitlement. It seemed as if he was trying to do damage control for his career. This reminds me of an anecdote I once read:
-- Throw the plate on the ground. -- okay -- Did it break? -- Yes. -- Now apologize to it. -- I'm sorry. -- Did it go back to the way it was? -- No. -- That's the point.
Will Smith is a coward for the way he chose to behave at the Oscars award ceremonies.
The pitch black dark humour from this man never ceases to make me smile. So happy to see him upload every day. Definitely one of my favourite channels.
Why did denzel and others help smith, after the assault, rather than see to the victim?
This is how narcissists are enabled again and again
I absolutely love Denzel but I am so disappointed in this and can't feel the same about him.
Probably to eliminate any more issues and bring him back to reality.
Exactly...if a white guy would have slapped Chris rock...he would have been taken act, lost his award, gone to jail & been sued...
Maybe it's me, but an apology like that warrants a face to face kind of approach.
he tried to contact chris rock... Chris isnt ready that's valid will Smith can't force reconciliation
@@maikubraxton yes. And I am glad that he is respecting Chris's space
@@marshapple He's not respecting his space though, the whole point of this new "apology" was to tattle tale to the public that Chris won't take his calls (which he needs in order to get his career back). He wants to peer pressure him. It's manipulative and creepy that he won't leave Chris alone. Now he's resorting to public service announcements to get his attention. Just imagine someone attacks you, then for months afterward posts to all your social media friends complaining that you won't talk to them. Stalker behavior.
@@jaxsmith1204 you have a point. From Chris's pov, I can see that.
@@marshapple Thank you for seeing both sides :)
"...there's no way to know if this is true; she may have been sitting down." This is why I watch Dr Grande.
This is the best critique I've heard yet. Thank you for the kindness and objectivity. I've heard so many people trash him. :)
The consequences of his actions has been costly, that's why this apology was rendered.
Of course, simply an attempt at damage control.
He wants people to go watch the next bad boys movie that's the reason for this apology
@@bena9221 I'm not going to watch any of his movies just like I don't want any Tom Cruise movies
His PR team know that he has to give this terrible apology in public before he attempts a comeback. I mean he reached out to Chris and Chris said he's not ready to talk. Why not just leave that behind the scenes?
How are people supposed to know Will's a good guy if he didn't publicly announce it?
@@hottuna2006 Exactly.
Supposedly there’s a movie of his that’s suppose to come out.
Just trying to save his brand.
He absolutely acted bc of Jada rolling her eyes after he laughed.
@@5877user What a coincidence!
He is "reaching out" and Chris does not want to talk and Will outing this publically is to say. I am the responsible guy owning my mistakes and Chris is the unresponsible guy juvenile guy not giving me a fair chance to make amence.
This is all about his image and not an apology at all. It stinks.
"She may have been sitting." Classic Grande! Did you study classic British subtle cut directs? Lol 🤣😂🤣
Brilliant work. Absolutely extraordinary the way you discuss shame.
Sorry I think this "apology" is a scripted, well rehearsed P.R. move. Then he turns it around and tells Chris to contact him when he's ready. Will is, after all, an actor.
Contact? As in full contact?
you can't force forgiveness. If he reached out and was curved... like he can't force reconciliation
Totally agree. He's an actor, he's acting. I'm so tired of "The Celebrity Apology", the goal is all about getting back in the game.
If Chris Rock doesn’t want to be in contact with Will Smith, then the apology Will Smith gave was to/for the public and not to/for Chris Rock. When I apologize to someone, I talk to them in person and in private. I don’t organize lights, camera and sound engineers and I don’t make a public announcement of it. The way I see things, any public announcement of an apology is purely a political move, or as others have labeled it, a PR move. There’s abother name for it, too, I think: it’s virtue signaling.
Did he embarrass all the people he apologized to privately?
Because the action was PUBLIC, which means the embarrassment was PUBLIC.
For the future, if you embarrass anyone publicly, just know that apologizing privately DOESN'T let you off the hook for also apologizing PUBLICLY. Your wrong needs to be admitted openly when you hurt someone openly.
I get what you're saying and to a large degree this has been self-serving. I don't really think he's sorry about hitting Chris, because he still thinks he was defending his wife's 'honour' or some rubbish.
But I do think a *sincere public* apology is important and for two reasons. 1 - he actually did upset people around the world by forcing them to witness his violent behaviour and his invective-laced rant (many countries around the world didn't cut the feed as soon as the slap was delivered and we saw the whole ugly incident). 2 - he needs to set an example to those who see him as a role model.
@@raindrops21_9 You make some quite valid points here, well done. I think the only place I would add a slightly new spin is this : About him ''thinking he was defending his wife's honor'' (which I think he had even stated himself), I believe that if he was actually defending anything at all, it was most probably his ever-shrinking ''Hot Celeb'' image of himself, as well as his overall sense of masculinity & general sense of grace, which I would guess all those years spent in an apparently toxic ''entaglement'' must not have helped a great deal with.
@@rigelb9025 Yes, he has absolutely been emasculated by the woman he married. But the story he's *telling himself* is that he was defending her. The reality (and I think he's having trouble facing this) is that he was trying to assert that lost sense of 'manliness' through acting out violently - and towards a physically smaller target. It's plain cowardice any way you look at it.
I don't think he's a bad guy at all, I think he's been with someone who brings out the worst in him for too damn long. I hope he gets away from her and finds himself again.
@@raindrops21_9 Precisely. It is a sad state of affairs.
The apology and the environment are cold and sterile, tragic to see a person so incapable to see what their problem is, hope he does see what he is married to and gets out.
Hey Dr Grande, great analysis 👍🏻
And you have really zoomed in on your humor..Excellent!