I Don't Know How To Choose A Career
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I'd say not knowing which career to choose is the number one cause of the student loan epidemic đ€·ââïž
Chris Invests doesnât help that people and parents pressure kids to go to college before they even know what they want to do for a living.
@@dinospumoni8860 "just go and you'll figure it out" after $50,000 in loans
I'd say government backed student loans is the number one cause
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That's why my parents preferred that I learn a trade and a few skills first through high school.
They also told me before I was in high school they did not have the money for any education beyond 12th grade and to save and/or get a scholarship.
I was raised to know my financial limitations and just borrowed what I could afford to pay off....work full time, seek other sources like my personal savings/investments and the Air Force which paid most of my tuition.
Growing up watching scifi pointed me in the direction of aerospace working around aircraft and spacecraft.
I met quite a few at NASA that were influenced by watching "Lost in Space" as kids.
@@blackworldtraveler3711 Never Fear, Smith Is Here! đ€Ł
He is 21 and here I am 30 years old still have no idea what I am doing with my life.
Have you tried job shadowing? Make a list of things that might interest you and start contacting people to experience more about their careers. This helps you find out if you would like that or not or it would even make you meet new people and new ideas. I hope you try it out i really love it!!
I'm 49 and don't know what to do next....
No worries ms crawford, here I am 59 years old and I still don't have any direction
I'm 59 and have a BA in Econ. My job is not numbers oriented* enough for me. I have some accounting classes too.
Same. Same.
"It's hard to be excited about the trip when you don't know what the destination is." That hit me hard. That explains my existential college depression. I've always known the types of things I'm interested in, but I've never had a "dream career" or anything even close to that, so it's hard feel secure in the path.
How is it going now? Hope you got some clarity on what to do next
I feel you currently at uni and the anxiety of not knowing what I want to do in the future drives me crazy
@@alwaysbefifi well that's easy to solve, You just focus on the present because you have a path for short term.
Worrying about the future and getting sad over the past are the 2 biggest causes of emotional pain.
@@alwaysbefifi fr but i have a couple of careers in mind for me, Airline Pilot, Firefighter, Actor, Poilice, landlord- Real Estate, etc I feel like people need to understand you can do more than one thing at a time. Like you can act on the side and work on it till it makes as much as your other job. GOOD LUCK EVERYONE AND GOOGLE, talk with people in the career/ fields and figure out what you want to do!
@@alwaysbefifi what major are you doing bye the way?
"You feel like you're a rat in a wheel... because you're a rat in a wheel."
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Killed me lol
I personally feel attacked
rat in the *Äoil*
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Should be mandatory students take a career class
Ya, everything should be mandatory. Me love force.
@@Geletin911 did you go to high school with all its mandatory classes?
If only Cain were Abel, yes, unfortunately I had horrible parents and went to a State enforced school. Your point?
@@Geletin911 ok just wondering if you at least experienced it.
@@ifonlycainwereabel2110 ok...pretty random inquiry, but ok...
My 2 oldest granddaughters didn't go to college, they started taking entry level jobs in different business to see if they liked the atmosphere. One started out thinking she want to be a Veterinarian, just working for a Vet was enough for to realize she didn't like it and switched to retail in pet stores. The other one worked in several jobs, thought she would see what an attorney's office would be like, so she got a job as a receptionist in an attorney's office, decided she really liked most of it. Right now she is a Paralegal and thinking as soon as she is bored maybe going to school to get a law degree, maybe not.
I feel sorry for teenagers who are supposed to plan their life when they have no experience in life.
Honestly this is the way to do it! Many young people think they can only get hired in fast food or retail but that's not true! Put in your application and see what happens. Testing out a career before spending thousands is smart not "wasting time"!!!!
@@stephlyndsey3932 Not only that but there are the building trades. My Grandson is going to Jr. College and taking welding along with core classes. The Operating Engineers Local #12 is accepting Apprenticeship applications now. The Journeymen in this union make over $60.00 an hour. In case you don't know what they do, they operate heavy equipment like cranes, earthmovers (scrapers), dozers, backhoes, etc.
Congrats for your granddaughter!! In my opinion they did the right thing!! I remember my 17-18 year old self and i feel bad that she was supposed to know exactly what she was meant to do without having lived that much.
Mary Carricaburu so true! Experience will always go above! I feel this way. Iâve spent too many years in school and had to work small side jobs. It feels like Iâve been working just to eat crumbs sometimes
very smart!
The problem is we just dont know what kind of jobs out there. You think about the usual teacher engineer doctor etc. but theres so many jobs that kids might be interested in but just aren't educated on it.
My exact problem. Going into senior year with the only college majors that I can just generally think of are the usual business, engineering, med school etc when there are so many different subcategories in these majors
Absolutely
Car Salesman is a cool job but my parents say they make no money
exactly
@@661.julian4 you can make a ton of money as a salesman in anything. Just need to be able to sell
So hard to stop and think about what you want when you havenât been exposed to options and different lifestyles.
This !!!
Bruh. We have the internet. You could literally research and talk to people about the profession you're interested in within your fingertips.
@@frog6054 He means actually experiencing the field and work. I thought I would like my current electromechanical engineering program but I don't have much interest and I'm just trying to grad with a 2 year diploma now. It's a lot more different than what the internet shows sometimes.
@@ChicaneMedia plus, the internet makes every glamorous because theyâre âselling the dreamâ.
Look up âday in life of: â any career and they make it look like a great lifestyle.
@@ChicaneMedia Im starting this soon on a lower degree, still i ask my self " do i want to work in the technical world?" Im arent even started lol. help
So many people are stuck choosing a career..
The key is to keep working, trying, experimenting. Don't sit at home and say you don't know what to do.
Life is not about having it figuring it out. Figuring it out is the good part!
Good advice...you should've told me this 10 years ago and I would've been a lot better off...lolđ
Tired of experimenting here
CNA school(never got a job)
Truck driving school(hated the job and made no money)
Vet tech school( love the job but it's a poverty level wage)
So tired of school and wasted certifications. I don't know what to do because nothing sounds like a good idea to me.
@@NotQuiteEpic
This !
Tired of spending time and money to figure out what I don't want to be or do.
Multiple degrees and certificates.
The jobs/careers won't hire or if do they low ball pay.
this video and this comment is me. I am stuck lol
What's crazy is college doesnt allow thits
Lemme just clean my calculator and straighten these papers while this kid gives me his whole life story. lol
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Exactly my thoughts lol
Kid needed a reality check, and mom didn't help.
And breath out, loudly. Looking straight at the camera.
Lol, I think the history degree made it hard for him to concentrate, lol. A wasteful education.
I'm 26 now and feel like crying most of the time. I realized in my senior year of a business management degree that my study was broad and that I had not a single clue as to what I wanted to do with my life. May God have mercy on the confused and heavy laden.
You are okay, just finish it, you never know what is God holding for you. Donât lean on your own understanding but have faith on God
Iâm 28 an Iâm still looking in wondering what can I see myself doing for the rest of my life
Hope you found a job?
I can relate, I majored in business administration. I had a classmate ask me what kinds of jobs do we get with that. If I could do it over I would have picked something more specific that degree was too broad. I would have picked accounting major or finance. yeah that was over 20 years ago.
@@luceromoreno9081 Hey I am in the same position just a year older than you, what kind of artist are you aiming to become ?
âHow are you?â
Dave Ramsay: âBeTtEr ThAn I dEsRvEâ
Lenny Lenny I found this way too funny đ
@@bbbnnnddd woah there sally, I know it was a joke but don't laugh so hard your kidneys explode
Flawless
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Feel like a God
This is me. 33 years old and I still have no direction.
I'm sorry
You can do trades, medical, IT, business etc. But for sure trades are really in need and as well on IT too
@@leifc.6045 I don't see how someone decides to go do a job line that. No one ever said, "I want to be a welder or a pipe fitter when I grow up."
Is it just about the paycheck? I love my low income job but something has to change.
@@NotQuiteEpic not just those trades, but mainly anything with qualifications behind them. From there you can get into broad job fields with a wide amount of experience
Crime pays well....They say it doesn't, but why then do so many people risk jail to do it?
This was me 10years ago. Started off a psychology major. Then switched to nursing degree and worked 3 jobs as a caregiver, CPN nurse, and catering supervisor for a company for few years then I had a baby. Had a hard time with childcare because of my work load. I always Had a thing for business so I Started a business as a licenced child care provider at home. Fast forward 3 years I have a Bachelor's in Early Childhood Education with an emphasis in speech pathology, certified Master teacher and Site Director. I own and operate a child development center & pre school with 4 classrooms and employ a team of 8. Looking to open a second site in 2021. Sometimes life just takes you in a direction and you just have to be aware of the opportunities... Just always stay busy. You'll find your niche.
This is great , great job .
Very nice! Great job Elsa!
Iâm going for a nursing degree, I donât ever think Iâll achieve in my life what you achieved in a few years. Great job keep going
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@@therealmahagony3003 thank you. I appreciate your words.
The guy who asked the question, if youre reading this I'm in the same boat bro, same age too, same decision, I feel ya
This is the advise I gave my kids, and consider it if you wish. Since you are going to be doing this occupation for several years, it is important to find something you are passionate about first and foremost otherwise you will end up changing jobs often. You want to write down every hobby and everything you enjoy doing if you had the opportunity and the time, then after that list is complete write beside each one, what kinds of jobs are involved in those things. Cross reference at the end, and if you find you named a particular field more than once, that is your passion, and look for something in that field. The money will find you, because you will put the time, effort and passion into succeeding in what you love. Good luck
When I was 19 (in 2014) I watched 3 videos by Woodysgamertag about how to choose a career, they virtually changed my life. I found my calling thanks to those videos, best of luck to you
I feel you guys too...and i'm 21 as well,, and i've already learned bunch of things and i don't know what to dooo
@@kuhataparunks where can I find
Really, Jose?
I graduated with a degree in Music just a year ago, I'm $30,000 in debt. I'm having to wash cars just to be able to afford to move out of my parents house. Be wise about the major you choose, and the money you spend on it
Caleb Oswalt what about a degree in music business? Do you think maybe itâs possible to find something?
Zylema Cruz Iâm literally in the same situation with the guy above have a music degree and about 30k in debt about to start a internship that currently pays 8/hr. Eventually I will make 50-75k but 30k debt to make 50k annual is stupid. Very few places actually have music business degrees available that I know of. My advice is donât blindly follow your passion. Study something marketable in college without debt or go to a 2 year institution and get a skill. You can always go back to college to follow your passion when your not broke and donât have to borrow money. I was told college was something that I had to do to be successful no matter what degree. I was dumb enough to believe it. âPlay stupid games win stupid prizesâ comes to mind lol. My prize was a heap of debt and the realization that my degree is basically useless to late.
@@stephenwoods6318 Can you do some music gigs on weekends,while doing your internship?
Raymond Serpa thatâs like throwing pebbles at a mountain unfortunately. Iâm getting second job to do in evenings and paying off debt as quick as possible.
I agree. I graduated with a degree in Communication Studies, but I could not find a job with my degree. I needed to pursue a different career path. I joined the military to get training in electronics and I had different civilian jobs working as a computer operator and an electronics technician. I went back to college to get a second bachelor's degree in Computer Science and I've been working as a software developer ever since.
Choosing a career is one of the most important decisions you can make.
Still haven't at age 33.
Try 35 mate. I've worked between construction, hospitality and helping my parents business. What 'career' do I have? Every path requires education, commitment, time, discipline and you can't have it all.
Ah yes just what I needed to read to release some pressure lol
About to go into college next year and I still have no idea what to major in or what career to go into, I think my stress levels just shot up more after reading this
@@Rose-xe7ds I didnât know what to do but my advisor told me to go in business admistration probably switching it tho
Sometimes a "gap year" or two even can be very beneficial. I spent my early 20's working a WIDE variety of jobs. After a little while, I noticed that I gravitated toward bookeeping/accounting type of work. So eventually I decided to go back to college to complete my accounting degree. Sometimes experience is the best teacher. Thinking about what you want to do is different from actually doing the work and deciding whether you enjoy it or not.
As a international student and now a h1b worker I don't really have a GAP option. It is either work or go back to my home country. Now i'm researching what I like but man without trying what you hearing from other ppl is limited.
â@@tonylizzy4781 I used to be an H1B holder in the States as well. I definitely understand what you're talking about. However, the only way to figure out what you wanna do about yourself is to try different things. By the way, your H1B visa can be resumed anytime you want. You do have a GAP option.
"You are a rat in a wheel"
"Yes sir"
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People have lost idea what a career really is - it's our way to contribute to community and get taken care in return. It's not a passion or a playground, it's part of our sense of purpose - in our lifetime we try to make this world a bit better...so the best way to choose a career is to look for what needs to be better in this word and make everyhing you can to make it. Look Dave for example, he saw people need help with bad financial decisions and he tries to help them and he has become famous and wealthy in return. So, best way to choose a career is to look where you can help and serve (and you feel like you could be good at it). If you think food is bad, become organic farmer,if you think people don't smile enough become a comedian, if you think health care should be better become a nurse or doctor, if you think education is bad become a teacher. Don't think about passion, passion is like a weather, changable. Try to find a purpose, connection with your environment and with your community and you'll inevitably be rewarded with wealth and respect. (Sorry for my English)
You are absolutely right I didnât think about it like this
You are very correct. Too many people are chasing their passions when many of us can do many things because most of us have many interests. Knowing your making a difference in your community career wise is huge.
Thank you for this
Youâre right, but people tend to be better at something they would enjoy. So, for someone to produce their highest contribution to the world they need to find something they like doing.
Wow this really helped thank you :))
I started college with no real direction. I began with the declared major of political science with only vague goals. The more I got into it I started second guessing my major. I completed 2 years with all my core classes done and stopped college altogether, afraid to waste time and money headed in the wrong direction. I was interested in emergency services so I went to tech school at night for a year and became an EMT making $10/hour. After a few months of that I did some research and found that almost every college course I had taken (except one) was applicable toward a biology degree which would get me into physician assistant school. So I went back to college for 2 years, took loads of science classes, got into PA school, and now I've got work in 2 hospitals and 1 urgent care clinic. Any income problem I used to have is gone, and I actually enjoy what I do for a living.
This is Great .
Good for you!! You had the insight to hit the pause button when you realized that path wasnât right for you. Also, we change as we get older. I did know what I wanted to do in undergrad and was blessed to pursue a career in my field. Now 15 years later, Iâve grown into other interests, and I was able to pursue a doctorate that will allow me to have career options once I graduate.
Jesus! $10/hour for an EMT, why do they make such little money?
Well done young man, awesome. *hat tip
This reminded me of David Lee Roth's story of the second job he had even during Van Halen's successful and famous period - full time as a Paramedic & EMT in New York. Talk about working second jobs!! (Listen to his first Joe Rogan podcast. Amazing & inspirational guy.)
I think people go to college out of high school, because they donât want to feel behind starting late. Then when they are out and Iâm crazy amount of debt, they realize they shouldâve waited đđ€Ł
I feel like that also man Iâm graduating June 26
Precisely.
Too many people are getting this backwards: Decide what you want to do and then go to college.
Donât go to college and then decide what you want to do. Thatâs a recipe for disaster.
Begin with the end in mind.
You can thank the schools for this. Listen to more Gary Vee. He will tell you.
It was refreshing how you answered this, Dave. So often we as a society choose a path and then ask God to bless it. Weâve put the cart before the horse. But we were put in this world for a purpose. We just have to quiet the world long enough to hear His voice.
joyjamiebrady so true
joyjamiebrady yes
I went to a youth (high school-college aged )retreat. And after a seminar for deciding careers a guy raised his hand and said exactly this. Maybe it was you lol
Amen, well said!
How do you religious people do that when your god never actually says anything lol. What do you actually mean when you say hear his voice? Do you just think about it like a normal person and then attribute the thoughts that you agree with the most to your god?
@@invaderz1919 I believe that God communicates with me through my intuition a lot. I believe that he uses other people to pass messages along to me as well. I've always been a believer, but I didn't start getting deep into my faith until recently. So up until about a year ago, I didn't get it when other religious people would say that "God spoke" to them. I completely get it now because I have that faith.
At 23, I havenât cried in 10+ years and this made me cry. Especially when he talked about quietness and quietness making things clearer. Iâm going to exercise this. Thank you sir.
How are you?
I didnât know what I wanted to do until I was 25. Once I knew where I wanted to go, I went to a trade school, knocked it out in 2 years and landed my dream job the day of graduation. Despite all that, I still want to grow. The goal now is to move up the ladder in my career.
Not knowing where youâre going is scary. Once you figure it out and put your mind to it, the future is wide open for anything and things align as they should.
The problem is finding out what you want to do. There lies the problem, we know everything is great after that. But trying to figure it out without knowing is the hard part
May I ask what trade you ended up doing? I am a little lost trying to decide what to myself.
â@@MegaPublicPranks Absolutely! I work in advertising as an Art Director. In other words, I make ads. In order to get hired in this industry, diplomas don't mean much but your thought process and skills do. So I went to an advertising school for 2 years, learned the basics of the industry and put together a website showing what I can do. As graduation was approaching, I sent out my website to agencies all over the country to showcase my skills. I was even able to negotiate my salary!
@@CapitaineDolphin Do you have a business or are u just calling yourself Art Director? Art Directors are top of the ladder not entry.
@@mopnem That's what my actual title is, I work for an Ad agency. In Advertising you start as a Junior Art Director (Sometimes as a designer too), then it goes Art Director, Sr Art Director, Assistant Creative Director, Creative Director, Group Creative Director. I'm what they consider mid-level but still have a long way to go to get up there. It's moving fast though!
I went to school for accounting. Graduated and worked in the corporate world for 5 years. I was miserable. Did well financially and gained experience, but doing something you dread eats at you. I'm going back to school to be a teacher now. It's what I wanted to do since I was in high school but I got pushed in a different direction by my parents. It's ridiculous that we expect 18 year olds to go to college, take on the debt and figure out what you want to do for the rest of your life. I'm almost 30 and I'm just figuring out my passion.
Are you still teaching?
@@tocaraindrop I am!
@@user-kc8fw6rh5r That's beautiful
"You chose the path with the least resistance" Wow, imagine how many of us have done this
That would be a BA in mass communications.
This used to be me.. I grew up being called smart and that education was the only way. I didn't have a plan either. Now I have a plan that's working and some people make fun of me. Ironic how little some peoples opinions matter. Your backbone is more helpful
Yeah my own mother is against me it suckss :((( i was considering law llb
Iâm 34 and struggle every day finding out what I want to do.
I work in IT and hate it, Iâd love something satisfying.
Hey, I thought I would like IT and am considering it. Currently, I teach. Why do you hate IT?
I'm in a similar boat. Chose nursing and still can't find a specialty/area I like. I'm 33 now and feel like I wasted my entire time at college. I want to walk away, but to where?
TheKnellBelle have you thought about pa school? This allows you to switch specialties very easily
Just try out new things, we are supposed to be fulfilled and happy. Have you tried job shadowing??
@@christynichole5437 1 year later I still hate it. But there are aspects I like
I have interests, but absolutely no faith in my ability to follow through on them. I give up after about ten minutes of trying something.
iâm the same man but you have to try things or else youâre never going to know. You donât HAVE to like it just as long as you try and say, hey i didnât like that what else can i try. Sooner or later you will find something, maybe it be something youâre trying or it might just be a random encounter with someone that peeks your interest but you canât just sit there and say i donât know what to do. Thatâs what i did and it just builds more stress. Save some money work and different jobs and just try not to worry about it. it will come, and when it does you will be passionate about it and after that the sky is the limit buddy. i hope this helped i didnât mean to be mean in anyway. Best of luck on your journey my friend:)
"If one does not know to which port one is sailing, no wind is favorable." -Lucius Annaeus Seneca.
Took me until I was 29 to find my direction. (Ironically, I even went to a trade school and that did not work out at all, economy is dried up in my area.) Turns out it was right under my nose the whole time. I've been drawing since I was 5, and everyone kept telling me my work looks like it belongs on TV. I finally looked into animation and it all clicked. Just thankful I was extremely anti-college until I knew what I wanted to commit to. If you're not sure, it might just be the very thing you're trying to avoid because it seems risky or scares you. The mind is a funny thing.
Reanne Hempsall This comment gives me inspiration.
Uuuughghgh, thatâs what Iâve been wanting to go to school for but the amount of debt scares me and the fact I canât afford a âgood art schoolâ (like SVA, SCAD, CalArts etc.) kills me :(
Reanne Hempsall please answer. I'm also an Artist and I'm 26, about to wrap up community college and I don't see myself doing anything else other than art! However I'm lost and scared of the "starving artist" that is always shoved everywhere. Did you major in graphic design and animation? How did it click for you
@@keniaalvarez5623 I'm going for concept art/ animation! As you can work in niches in these fields. (Storyboard artist/ background painter / environment designer/ character artist etc). And I am not majoring, just going for a 4 year diploma. Don't feel forced to do graphic design if you're only interested in illustration, other art fields are just as employable. I don't think it's something you decide to do, as much as you realize it's something you deeply want and you'd be unhappy doing anything else. How well do you think you can you succeed in a career you have no passion or predispositions for? The big salaries advertised for any field are reserved for the cream of the crop.
@@riannehempsall1994 thank you for replying and your feedback! You really got me thinking!! In a great way!
Got my degree in Accounting. Not a passion of mine but I like it enough and it pays the bills plus benefits though I still have a lot to learn after college. What I was really interested in while in college was Entomology. My friend asked why I didn't get my major in that. Didn't tell her it was because there are less jobs because I knew her answer would be something like "pursue your dreams". She thinks I'm obsessed with money but it's just that I have bills to pay and no one is going to pay mine for me.
Rebekah C.
Hey try going for clep exams. They are a good foundation to save a lot of money
@@cardcode8345 That's really cool but I'm afraid I already graduated. I think I'm done with higher education for the foreseeable future.
Rebekah C. Was school stressful?
Hi Rebekah, here's food for thought...use your accounting degree and work for a company or eventually freelance that specifically deals with insects. An example is an agriculture company that raises honeybees & leases them out to orchards for pollinating or working for a college entomology department. For a while I went through a zoo keeping technology associates degree. The teacher of the bird husbandry class was in his 60's. He had been in the marines for some time, got out & went to work at a zoo as a zookeeper. He decided that his body wasn't going to hold up physically as he aged to be able to stay in the role and smartly decided that it would be a good thing to get a computer science degree. Eventually he worked at the same zoo and did computer work of moving and shipping animals to & from the zoo for breeding purposes and so forth. On the side, he got to play with the animals. So if you get your foot in the door as an accountant with a company that in some way with insects to pay your bills, who knows what you can learn on the job that would fill that insect curiousity.
Iâve always wondered what the point of working for money is if you donât at least somewhat enjoy it? What kind of life is that?
âWhen it gets quiet, things get more clear.â
âIts hard to be excited about the trip when you donât know what the destination isâ is an incredible quote
I'm only 22 but this is the question that I've always been asked, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" And I've never been able to answer it, and now I'm starting to become really scared. Everyone I know around me knows what they want to do with their life and I just don't. I'm terrified that maybe I'll never know what I want to truly do with my life, I just hope I find out before it's too late.
Enlist. Use those 4 years figuring out what you want and when you get out, take advantage of that GI Bill and enjoy going to college debt free.
Are you me? I wrote something like this in my diary almost verbatim. I hope you find what you're looking for
I wanted to be a sams club worker đłđ
Absolutely the same problem here, I'm 17 and most of my friends know what they gonna do in life, and I just don't, I understand this feeling. So have you decided your career?
Just start working entry level jobs in a bunch of fields. For example, if you want to check out the medical field, apply to a receptionist job there. You will learn a lot.
Enjoy your life, get a job that allows you to travel and experience life freely.. then when you get some experience in life under your belt, let your direction of a career guide you from there. Thereâs an old saying... people change careers at least 7 times during their lifetime. So why get yourself into student loan debt that will follow you till your grave despite what career you choose. Be yourself, and gain some common sense..... YOU DONT NEED ANY DEGREES FOR THAT! Speaking from experience!
Tell me more. Do u feel like college or a degree gavw u nothing?? I could appreacte some insight
do u have any suggestions that "allows you to travel and experience life freely"?
*Honestly though, nowadays no career is forever. People pivot and switch careers all the time. Many people take on multiple jobs, side hustles and passion projects. You're still young. Stop feeling so pressured to keep up with everyone else. You can live life at your own pace!!*
@@user-zj9kw9lh1i huh?
Goes against all i believe in considering if you invest in s&p for 49 thats 7 doubles so 1k^7=128k
Thats because society says you must go to a 4 year college after high school and then start working after that get marry and buy a house before you have kids... On the other hand time does fly and if you do things in different order that might just mean life can be harder thats all... best of luck!
@@moneygrinds4216 whats a sp investment?
âTalk to God for the weekendâ ⊠always good advice.
It gets messy when you think you know what you want, then realize you were wrong. I switched careers once now and Iâm scared to commit to another one in case Iâm wrong again.
Well, when youâre looking back at your life at the age of 60, you better have hoped you made the appropriate, necessary changes to have lived a fulfill life and followed what you wanted to do. Itâs very easy to look back at your life with regret asking yourself âwhat would my life be like now if I just went for what I loved!â Best of luck to you my man.
Fascinating advice, and definitely relevant to me as another 21 year old. Thanks Dave.
Get out there, attend events, get job shadowing opportunities, internships or volunteer. We should live more and learn more about what we like or don't like
Iâm 24 and I just went through this crisis and honestly donât know if Iâm out of it yet. First I joined the military but kept an open mind. Didnât like it and got out. Then I worked construction. Again, didnât like it and quit. I stayed at that construction job for almost 2 years longer than I planned and was miserable as hell so that I could keep money coming in while trying to figure out what I wanted to do because I was tired of starting all over. I was nearing my breaking point with that job but didnât feel any closer to figuring it out. One of my best friends from the military is a trucker and recommended I try it. Did some research and admitted up front there were things I didnât like about it based off what I read but also things I loved. I told myself itâs pretty hard to find the perfect career. One that wonât have any bad sides to it. So I figured Iâd have to sacrifice. Anyway, I got tired of sitting around wondering and just went for it. So Iâm in training now. Itâs rough but hoping itâll get better with time. Moral of the story is donât wait for it to come to you. Go immerse yourself in it. Itâs the only true way to know if itâs what youâll want. Also my mom didnât start nursing school until she was 42. Itâs never too late (but definitely better to figure it out earlier).
Im 21, just got out of the military too and i just dont see myself going to college because its a waste of time plus its getting less valued. Thinking of going into the HVAC industry.
I had no idea what I wanted to do for a career so I stayed home and went to community college. Decided to pick an associate degree and start from there. I also applied for a co-op position so that I could learn on the job which really helped me learn my likes and dislikes, strengths and weaknesses. I started out going for administrative assistant work and now, 6 years later, I am graduating this Saturday with a bachelors in business administration focused in management information systems. I also networked my way under the chief information security officer as an information security administrator. I took a lot of advice along the way and Iâm very grateful to those who cared enough to give it. I paid my way through college and will graduate without students loans to pay off and a great entry level position in a great field to get into right now.
BleedingHeartsFade 6 years for a business degree...
maybe he was going to school part time and work full time đ
It's always tough for 17 and 18 year olds that are heading off to college, they feel like they have to chose their career right then and there. It's ok to not know what you are going to do and you can always change latter!
This is a result of a broken public school system that tells students that college is necessary for everyone.
the problem is that we are forced to attend college right after graduating high school. High school wasn't beneficial, it was more about passing than learning. High school doesn't teach us about taxes, credit cards, and budgeting but thank god i know how to apply calculus to my life
The more you get at 17, the easier it'll be later.
To anyone with the same question, Iâd say figure out what youâre good at - what talent or gift youâve been blessed with, then find a job thatâll match well with those skills and pays good money, and pursue that.
While youâre in school or pursuing that, build yourself into the best version of yourself that you can be. The rest will work itself out.
I don't know my talents
Iâm good at over analyzing situations.
My only talent is English but everyone says thatâs useless
@@evanbrown5254 Look into risk mitigation careers!
@@Ambermarie13 Copywriter? Lyricist? Manuscript writer? Author?
Can I say I finished college and I still don't know what I want to do?
Most people do lol
Yes you can!
I think everyone really knows but is too afraid to do it. If being frank.
Look at something practical you enjoy doing. Professional licences or certifications. I go to my BA, but hate my job I got during the recessionđ
Cherry Tung - Finance & Fashion I would say this is way more common then uncommon.
What helped me figure out what I want to do was taking the Myers Briggs 16 Personalities Quiz and then thoroughly understanding myself and what energizes me. Found I was an INTJ. Personal finance most interests me as a technical field (very practical in and of itself), but theology and sharing the faith with others is most fulfilling. But as an introvert, I need to find a way to do that without too much person interaction. Being an author or content creator seems like that would be the best way to go about it. Itâs a long journey trying to figure out what you want to do for the rest of your life. Start off getting to know yourself. Take many personality quizzes and be truthful to yourself. The Temperament quiz is also good but not as precise as the MBTI. Now, Jordan Peterson says he created a personality quiz that is even better. I will take that one soon.
Why should directionless youth be told to go to college before they get real life experience with jobs?
Amen to this
Been there! Some subjects I was fascinated by happened to be the path with least resistance. Luckily I had to leave college without wasting that time in the major which was probably a blessing in disguise. I ended up meeting people who majored in something or knew someone and didn't even get what they desired. Nothing wrong with getting to work and getting your hands dirty or even learning a trade!
I love when Dave is papa bear like this. So sweet. â€ïž
Mr. Ramsey, Iâm so thankful for your straight to the point advice!
Iâve been here after college, had no idea. But after working for a few years I realize real quick. Focus on being self aware.
Hi raul! Can u explain to me what you mean by being "self-aware
@@VanessaGarcia-kg4wo "Put simply, those who are highly self-aware can interpret their actions, feelings, and thoughts objectively"
I think he means noticing what youre good at and not good at. noticing what you enjoy and dont enjoy and using that info of what you like to do to help choose where to work
This video is starting to change how I think about finding a career. I will probably quote it at my next Scout Meeting. Younge people such as myself need to hear this. We need to think about where we want to be and not just what works in the here and now.
This was great advice thank you. The simplicity in the answer was very powerful and helpful.
This is legit the problem that i have been trying to solve for years, iâm in tears. Thank you!
Youâre just like me when I was in college, I have changed my major three times donât know what I really want to be, when I decided to drop out of college my mom and my sister stopped me, and my sister told me to study accounting and finances since I have no clue what I want todo, because she is accountant and can teach me if I have any questions. Glad I listened to them continue finish my college degree now I got a good job with great pay.
Removing all the noise is definitely something I should consider doing. That's some good advice.
one of the best Dave R segments.
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Iâve always wanted to be a music producer. Iâm 36 and was about to work with Sony records 8 years ago but the people fronting the money on my behalf backed out. Now Iâm starting again and Iâm excited to go where Iâm going.
Just turned 26 dropped out of community college for graphic design, and I've been doing nothing but working(9-5jobs,hard landscape jobs)...I dont know what or where I'm taking my life
Have you tried internships or job shadowing? Even attending events.
just bro desgin broo
Iâm 26 as well. Ur young stay calm. Keep looking keep busy
@@HashtagCareerGoals internships dont even pay, its a joke
Hang in there. Keep trying new things. Don't let other people discourage you . I'm 26 and I have a decent job but I feel like there is more out there and more money making opportunity to make. I'm still wondering what else I am going to other than what I do now. God creates different paths and timelines for everyone. Good luck .
How many people honestly know what they want then the next step, something that has a decent future? I am 38 and am completely lost.
I think most people don't have it all figured out. My cousin did though. She became a physical therapist in her 20s and she will be 50 this year. She has been a PT her whole life. I wish I would have known what I wanted for sure and been able to stick with it. Healthcare is about the only viable, secure thing in the US now. That's my plan. I will finally get into healthcare. Better late than never. But I know I can't keep teaching English abroad on 1 year contracts. They aren't stable and I have never had a job longer than two and a half years.
Iâm 28 an Iâm lost your not the only one
I love his advice. Talk to god with a blank yellow pad. Iâm 29 and have no idea but I am always stuck working and taking care of things. I never take the time to find out my purpose or what Iâm meant to do
âGo walk around and talk to God for the weekend...â đđŸđđŸđđŸđđŸâ€ïž
I will be doing this the next day i am off from work. Probably the best advice i have ever heard
Labi ni kafe per ty wooooosh
More like talk to yourself coz god doesn't exist we don't need to create something to point direction all we need is ourselves
@@aidenwalker1152 What's your household income?
@@martinramirezmi5457 enough to enjoy my life I don't live my life in other people's validations
I'm 21 and in the same boat. Just graduated with my marketing degree (thankfully with 0 debt to my name) but idk what to do with my life. I have some internships lined up at real estate companies, hopefully I'll find my passion soonđŹ
Super awesome video!! I really liked how he talked about what kind of role God can play into our lives when we take the time to let Him in.
Thank you for your obedience to God Mr Dave Ramsey this helped a lot!
Iâm 23 and almost done with school. Getting my BSN this semester with zero DEBT. Feels good đ
KING MUFASA
Same as me. Of course that was over 6 years ago. Nursing is a great career path. It pays well, you get to help people. But you definitely earn your pay thatâs for sure.
Good luck out there.
congratulations but how zero debt? How did you do that?
Ice Viking thank you and I wish you the best
Why not just be a professional poker player? Iâd presume it would be a better environment with better earning potential ;)
*dave Ramsey sheds tear.
Thanks for the inspiration! Iâm a very creative writer and when in elementary school I was the only student in the school to get what was considered to be the highest score on a short story essay, but feel like itâs too risky to pursue! I also, while in middle school earned the leading role in a class story read along simply because my essay pretending to be the character was the most relatable according to my English teacher. Perhaps Iâm onto something?
When I didn't what to do in my life I experienced the most things possible, so I can find my passion đ„
people including ramsey put so much importance on finding a job you like/love. in my opinion its part of the problem people trying different things to find their dream job all the while wracking up debt. they'd be far better served making a decision and sticking with that decision regardless if its enjoyable or not. news flash work isnt fun regardless what you are doing pick a job you can do well with as high a salary as you are capable of doing and find happiness in non work related things like friends family and community.
I really needed this video today. Thank you â€ïž
Iâm 23 and feel like Iâm stuck in a holeâŠI dropped out of college at 18 and havenât even touched my student loanâŠ.all these comments and this video gives me hope againâŠa little fire is lit under me again
I'm 21 and pretty much same situation. Sometimes I feel like it's too late to change but then I realize I've been thinking that way since 7th grade.
I dropped out of college when I was 18 been working jobs every since then Iâm 28 an still donât know what I see myself doing
@@trustme7660 omg I`ll be the same probably :))
@@agathaXG itâs finding something you can see yourself doing everyday and retiring in thatâs the issue
This is some great advice! I recently struggled with this. I picked a major in mechanical engineering without a specific reason and no real solid goal behind it. In the exam phase, I lost my motivation and didn't touch a book for any of the exams :). After that, I started thinking about the reasons why I study ME and what should I be later in life. I could not figure it out until it got silent. I truly asked myself "what is my passion, what am I most interested in?", after a few nights of intensive thinking, I figured it out. It turns out, a major in ME is not the best option for me. I am glad, I took some time for myself and truly thought everything through.
So what are u doing now, did u find what u like to do
so what do you do now?
I love encountering young men such as him who truly care about their future and are speculative about the things around them.
I am one myself, the same age. And man itâs hella road to cross; you never know if something will hit you or not as you donât always see whatâs coming.
My Aunt owned a painting business for about 20 years, and I worked for her every summer since I was 13 for about 8 years. It built a strong work ethic, I learned a useful skill, and made pretty good money.
I keep telling my younger friends, who are still in college and donât know what they want to do with their life, pick up some kind of trade. If nothing else, itâll give you a useful skill that could be used later on and provide some income in the meantime. Tradespeople can earn a really good living if youâre halfway decent at what you do.
Go out and do stuff. Even if you spend a few years of your life in an industry you never go back to, the networking, skills, and character building that come along with it will be invaluable.
My high school's career coach met with my class twice. Once in the 8th grade where she told us "Find out what you want to go to college for because time is almost up" and once our senior year where she told us to give her a copy of our college acceptance letters. No other time whatsoever. Public school is a mirage.
Dave's comment section is usually more insightful and interesting than the video itself.
Monke lol
Your video is interesting and helpful. I wonder if this is available as a podcast on Spotify?
Good advice. Thank you!
I really hope this caller could update us on how everything went. That was me through my whole 20s and when I found out what I wanted to do like Dave said it was so much better of a ride
What did you end up doing?
@@Man_in_a_Gucci_Suit Im a paralegal in Personal Injury Pre litigation now
Engineer (any field) , accounting, Nurse, Computer Science or IT and trade school
Good for employment after graduation
Learn- Coding, Negotiation and Sales(you wonât fail any where)
Most importantly Focus on STEM and LAW, In the age of A.I., these degrees will pay the most with 4 to 6 year of study
Lastly make money, run after it- Everything in this world is Powered by Energy, Tech and Money
You should also focus on fields that deal with business and money that fall in Liberal Arts -- Economics, Communications (Advertising, Public Relations, etc.), and Business.
Sunny Elise
I would disagree, all these degrees got a value if done from an IYE league or Reputed colleges cus of the competition and complexity of these fields, also these fields got nothing to do with problem solving. Instead itâs waste of time if a person isnât that good with networking, marketing themselves or arenât competitive enough. Lastly Iâm sorry, but in the age of A.I. these degree would literally hold no value.
Arts will mostly shift to independent artists( youtube or other means of representation)
Business and economics yah got value only after PHD in economics or Business degree from IYE league.
Law professionals may actually be getting phased out by self-learning AI the most. There will always be well paid lawyers, but competition will definitely stiffen & hurt wages for the average lawyer as labor supply goes up as AI can read through contracts in minutes. Seeing this across a lot of professions: Robots not necessarily replacing the entire industry but simply killing demand by lowering the overall workload to be met by less workers & diluting supply. Itâs always going to be a decent career but not near as lucrative in the future.
I'm thinking about learning code just because i want to do something with my life but I heard it's really hard and i dont have a passion for it
Whiplazh Certainly wouldnât be a waste of your time if you enjoyed the challenge but learning coding with the expectation it will almost guarantee you a job is foolish. Not saying it wonât happen but learning python or java is only going to get you hired for a few companies who use that stuff. If you arenât learning a new language every 6 months to a year youâre going to be out of a job shortly from what I hear. Just my worthless 2 cents.
Thanks Dave, really needed this
Thanks Dave I needed this..
I'm glad I found this channel I'm 19 starting college in September
This is the perfect example of how our education system is failing us
Very interesting and wise answer from Mr. Ramsey.
This is some underrated advice I wish I received when I was 21. Ended up picking a mediocre major after switching my major four times. Ah well, I'm not much older now and am still slightly unsure about my future. Thank you for this video.
Iâm a Physical Therapist Assistant at 38 and absolutely miserable with this career choice. I feel like I was lied to about it being a good field. Physical therapy is actually so boring and yet itâs also very mentally stressful and exhausting. Most of the jobs in it have zero value for you as their employee. You get thought of as an ant in their farm of therapist and have zero job growth opportunities. About 90% of patients have no desire for their PT and it begins to make you as the therapist feel like a wretched torturer even when you literally do nothing but make patients get out of bed and walk a little. At the end of the work day, you really feel like just going to bed or kicking back on the couch because of how much energy this job sucks out of you.
Im 21 lost asf also. Dont know what path to take. Been working on my credit, got a full time job to save money, wanna go to school but dont wanna get myself in debt... hmm
David Marz College ainât always worth it.
Enlist. Discover yourself and your true interests. Get out at 4, use GI Bill.
@@ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy thats what im thinking
I'm 59 and still don't know what I want to do... I've only ever discovered what I "don't" want to do Grrrr
great message dave thanks!!
I hope heâs doing okay now. I was 20 at the time this video dropped, in the same place as him. I wish i would have gotten this advice. I just graduated in a field that I was really passionate about but I knew towards the end that it may have just been better off as a hobby. Iâm scared I made a bad choice and Iâm still not 100% sure what it is that I wanna do with my life.
Whatâs your major?
I believe that very few people actually knew by heart what or who they wanted to become . most people choose something based on 80%logic / 20% emotion , and decide that that's what they want to do or who they want to become. Most people who think " they have no idea what they are doing with their life " feel this way because they think that all people who figured it out , woke up one day and went like " oh i wanna be a doctor , or i want to be a lawyer ! " to sum up : Don't beat yourself up because you can't close your eyes , look inside , then get an aha moment and know what you want to do "
Yes it is indeed hard to know what you should do when you have no idea what is out there and what you can possibly do to get there. Especially if you come from uneducated, poor family, and have no one to give you advice or guide you.
Best exercise was for me in school when we were asked to dream what house, car, family size we wanted and calculate how much it would cost to maintain a month! And match that to a career we pick. Eye opening indeed - started some thinking in the right direction in my case. College for me was a way to get a job so I can pay my bills. Because I donât know how to do anything else.
Jose I feel your pain. Except I'm 28 with an unised GI bill working a laborer job at a factory
Iâm in high school but Iâm 100% sure that I want to be an airline pilot. My advice to figure out what you want to do is to just think of your hobbies and interests and figure out how you can turn it into a career. If you are into technology, maybe look at becoming an engineer, or if youâre into fashion maybe look at becoming a fashion designer. You get the idea. Just ask yourself what you like doing and what youâre interested in and how you can make money out of it.
Great advice! A lot of people however, change hobbies all the time! I wish this was easier said than done but your advice is spot on! Commercial airline pilots are also one of the most rewarding trade jobs right now too! I hope youâve kept that aspiration!
I went right into a university after high school but really didn't know what I wanted to do. Uncle Sam and the draft interrupted that and after that, I just floundered from job to job until I landed a job that led to my eventual career. I really didn't love that job but it provided an adequate level of income to raise a family and buy several homes.
My son was a totally different story. He pretty much knew what he wanted to do in the future since he was 9 years old! He is now 42 years old and very happy.
Nice for you
Such good advice Dave!!!
An anology that comes to mind listening to Ramsey here is when we turn the radio down when we are following directions. The music is the "business" of life and when you turn that down and make it quiet, you can see clearly. I too am stuck with what I want to do.