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  • @Messier45_Pleiades
    @Messier45_Pleiades Pƙed 4 lety +1181

    Who would have thought, 42 years ago when I came out, that there would be a show like this on TV, and that people would love it, and that, when the kiss came, orchestral music would play to enhance it. Who would have thought.

    • @ibelieveinmiracles777
      @ibelieveinmiracles777 Pƙed 4 lety +5

      Nobody but psychics perhaps!

    • @Messier45_Pleiades
      @Messier45_Pleiades Pƙed 4 lety +32

      @@ibelieveinmiracles777 Only a lesbian psychic.

    • @Messier45_Pleiades
      @Messier45_Pleiades Pƙed 4 lety +4

      Lolol

    • @lauralein89
      @lauralein89 Pƙed 4 lety +92

      People like you, who came out despite the political and social... let's call them "difficulties", are the ones who made this possible. Thank you! Thanks for making life easier for my generation!

    • @MeAVE243
      @MeAVE243 Pƙed 4 lety +31

      @@lauralein89 I agree. It's thanks to those who came before, to the audiences who want wlw content, to Sally Wainwright and to those who gave her a chance to finally realize this awesome history on TV.
      It's like all of the times I watched the Prince and Me except...it's finally two women, in a TV series, as the main characters, and not some small release lesbian film that is only known to people in the community.

  • @shorty1103
    @shorty1103 Pƙed 2 lety +263

    They can keep that Bridgerton nonsense. Give me GentleMan Jack. The writing, the humor, the 4rth wall acting, the wardrobe. Phenomenal.

  • @earthmotherandtheflops
    @earthmotherandtheflops Pƙed 5 lety +2469

    "don't hurt me" **CRIES AND SHAKES COMPUTER SCREEN**

    • @JoePalau
      @JoePalau Pƙed 5 lety +67

      Psychedelic Peach I am convinced that this IS Love. They are IN Love. The emotion is powerful and rings true. No artifice. Vulnerable, Open Hearted, Tender connection. And, now, we have Commitment. Thank You!!

    • @andreabryant2857
      @andreabryant2857 Pƙed 4 lety +28

      That one cut deep.

    • @brklynrox
      @brklynrox Pƙed 4 lety +38

      I placed my iPad down to take a few moments to absorb the impact of that line

    • @gernainelouisethomas945
      @gernainelouisethomas945 Pƙed 4 lety +4

      @@brklynrox Same!

    • @hongye7407
      @hongye7407 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      çĄźćźžèż™ć„èŻćŸˆæ‰Žćżƒă€‚äž€äžȘćŸˆćŒș的äșșçȘç„¶ć†’ć‡șé‚Łæ ·çš„èŻïŒŒćæ˜ ć„čć†…ćżƒçš„è„†ćŒ±ă€‚

  • @adrianagb3176
    @adrianagb3176 Pƙed 5 lety +3202

    I like the fact that when Ann ask her if she’s alright she actually says what’s bothering her, and in previous episodes if somebody would ask her is she was alright she’d answer with I’m always alright

    • @maryfleming3299
      @maryfleming3299 Pƙed 5 lety +21

      Adriana Gil OMG your right

    • @palmertreese1363
      @palmertreese1363 Pƙed 5 lety +64

      I noticed that too, that was amazing. She could be at ease with Ann, soul mates ❀

    • @MaLindaLuker
      @MaLindaLuker Pƙed 5 lety +71

      This is one of my favorite parts of this scene. The fact Anne is willing to open up to Ann and share what's really bothering her speaks volumes.

    • @maryfleming3299
      @maryfleming3299 Pƙed 5 lety +63

      Mariana was always putting Anne down. Ann loves Anne for who she is.

    • @kaidrummond1615
      @kaidrummond1615 Pƙed 4 lety +17

      Facts! You can be vulnerable with the one you love 😍

  • @rachelberry8861
    @rachelberry8861 Pƙed 5 lety +2646

    the doctor: you have 5 minutes and 42 seconds left to live
    me: clicks on this video

    • @alligatortearstns
      @alligatortearstns Pƙed 5 lety +8

      EXACTLY

    • @mayling141
      @mayling141 Pƙed 5 lety +5

      Hahahaha... GOOD ONE! I’ll emulate you then 😁 I think you’re a good role model. A very positive way to spent your last remaining time here on earth! 😂

    • @palmertreese1363
      @palmertreese1363 Pƙed 5 lety +3

      Yes I agree, lol

    • @austenluvr
      @austenluvr Pƙed 5 lety +1

      Mixing two of my worlds! I love it!

    • @nicolefarkouh6668
      @nicolefarkouh6668 Pƙed 5 lety

      ME TOO

  • @YakitoriQueen
    @YakitoriQueen Pƙed 5 lety +1898

    I have genuinely never seen a random scene from a show i've never watched getting me so involved. I almost cried at the end.

    • @glanni
      @glanni Pƙed 4 lety +12

      -almost-

    • @SaunFyre
      @SaunFyre Pƙed 4 lety +6

      Deadass my reaction! I need more of this

    • @bballhead7904
      @bballhead7904 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      YakitoriQueen same I don’t watch the show, but it’s just so moving it had me on the brink of tears

    • @lilyaltomare4693
      @lilyaltomare4693 Pƙed 4 lety +15

      the show is absolutely worth the watch

    • @jodyharbin9043
      @jodyharbin9043 Pƙed 4 lety +13

      I've only watched the whole first season roughly 100 times since I purchased it in February ..I cry everytime during this scene...absolutley worth every penny i spent ..waiting patiently for season 2

  • @skarapeacetalon2800
    @skarapeacetalon2800 Pƙed 4 lety +1239

    *I don't know who these characters are, or why they're in my recommended, but I would die for them.*

    • @isabelwaugh5265
      @isabelwaugh5265 Pƙed 4 lety +32

      that's a mood

    • @shelbyhaacker-hunt9181
      @shelbyhaacker-hunt9181 Pƙed 4 lety +58

      They are based on real people. You should look them up. Same names.

    • @kulturalkontrariankomedy
      @kulturalkontrariankomedy Pƙed 3 lety +44

      They are based on the real story, Ann Lister's diaries whose code took nearly a century to be translated(she used code so her nosy homophobic family members wouldn't read them) and Ann Lister is known as the first modern lesbian. She was an amazing, confident woman, traveller, businesswoman, land owner, etc. She did things I dream of doing in the 1800 and something

    • @thetillerwiller4696
      @thetillerwiller4696 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      There real people, they did actually get “married”

  • @jessrae1182
    @jessrae1182 Pƙed 4 lety +850

    That vulnerability of Anne when she says “don’t hurt me” just hit to the core.

    • @hongye7407
      @hongye7407 Pƙed 3 lety

      +1

    • @CrazyRandomBean
      @CrazyRandomBean Pƙed 3 lety +18

      I genuinely feel so bad for Anne, she’s been hurt so many times

    • @KL-eo4vc
      @KL-eo4vc Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Lindo!!! 4:38

    • @jonallred6794
      @jonallred6794 Pƙed 3 lety +10

      She has really opened her heart to Ann, knowing how vulnerable it leaves her. But, that's what love is, isn't it?

    • @carlososler7024
      @carlososler7024 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@jonallred6794 đŸ€ąđŸ€ź

  • @9gello
    @9gello Pƙed 5 lety +4314

    I love how the positive comments are generally well written, grammatically correct, and quite coherent. The negative ones, not so much.

    • @lornabeckford5419
      @lornabeckford5419 Pƙed 5 lety +49

      Amen to that😊

    • @antoniocarniero5138
      @antoniocarniero5138 Pƙed 4 lety +44

      Can't find a negative comment for miles.

    • @9gello
      @9gello Pƙed 4 lety +60

      @@antoniocarniero5138 I think they drop down the league table because they don't get the likes.

    • @mamarama5174
      @mamarama5174 Pƙed 4 lety +12

      It's always that way.

    • @user-nj1tz2cp9i
      @user-nj1tz2cp9i Pƙed 4 lety +7

      Intellectual only 😂

  • @ibelieveinmiracles777
    @ibelieveinmiracles777 Pƙed 4 lety +511

    When Ann says her sister said that "often a good friendship is better than a marriage", I think Anne looks a bit wounded because she really wants marriage and not just friendship with Ann. Such a perfectly acted scene. Not like acting at all really đŸ€·đŸ»

    • @MeAVE243
      @MeAVE243 Pƙed 4 lety +60

      I agree. She's brilliant. The little "mmh" when AW says she won't say no. The heartbreaking "don't hurt me. I'm not as strong as you think," and the comedic "well, I am, obviously" it's just perfect!

    • @csmith5420
      @csmith5420 Pƙed 4 lety +35

      True, but at this time most marriages were based on position and financial need or whatever, rarely love. So I think the sister meant that a real relationship, friendship or more, was better than a marriage for marriage’s sake.

    • @NG-bf3sm
      @NG-bf3sm Pƙed 4 lety +4

      @WØLF IRIS you wrote perfectly what i think when i first watched that scene

    • @justafractionoftime1984
      @justafractionoftime1984 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      As someone who has been in relationships where someone ends up just wanting to be friends, it breaks. Because that physical intimacy has already been shared, but due to outside expectations and fears of being found out, wanted to be “friends.” Nothing is more crushing. Especially because with women, there is an incredible emotional intimacy. And when a woman wants to keep that emotional intimacy and dependency without the commitment because they’re scared, they want to keep you as close as a lover without being one
shit hurts. I actually felt the hurt than Anne must have felt. Heartbreaking.

  • @HaleiwaGirl808
    @HaleiwaGirl808 Pƙed 5 lety +1935

    I’m obsessed with this show and Anne!!! I’ve watched season one 3 times already!! She plays Anne Lister PERFECTLY!!! And I’m a straight woman!! Lol

    • @jolivieri75
      @jolivieri75 Pƙed 5 lety +12

      Sammi Metheney same đŸ„°

    • @maryfleming3299
      @maryfleming3299 Pƙed 5 lety +30

      Sammi Metheney
      Me too My husband loves this
      We cannot wait for season 2

    • @jessicadavis4541
      @jessicadavis4541 Pƙed 5 lety +7

      Same!!!

    • @palomagreta5851
      @palomagreta5851 Pƙed 5 lety +9

      Same! Me more than 3 times! Lol

    • @j4jools292
      @j4jools292 Pƙed 5 lety +82

      I'm a Transman and I feel the same!
      What a Powerhouse of a Woman Anne Lister was. Suranne Jones inhabits her. She is so immersed in her character that I don't see an Actor playing a part, I just see the embodiment of Anne Lister. I've never had that kind of reaction to an Actor & their role before. It makes the series all the more compelling. I've definitely fallen for Anne Lister & I might just have a wee soft spot for Suranne now too :)

  • @traveller4life123
    @traveller4life123 Pƙed 4 lety +218

    When she says ‘don’t hurt me’ I think we’ve all wanted to be that vulnerable with a woman we were in love with but never had the guts.

  • @paulineballam5945
    @paulineballam5945 Pƙed 5 lety +810

    Amazing. Suranne Jones is luminous . Born to play Anne Lister.

    • @RK-ep8qy
      @RK-ep8qy Pƙed 5 lety +34

      Pauline Ballam she really dedicates herself to the roles, watch anything she's been in and you'll think she was born to play those roles too. It's not so much faith but her skill and she is ridiculously skilled at acting.

    • @cerda8112
      @cerda8112 Pƙed 5 lety +5

      Yeah. lOVED themmmmmmmm. English actresses my weakness

    • @austenluvr
      @austenluvr Pƙed 5 lety +8

      This show makes me want to watch anything Suranne Jones is in... She made this show...

    • @Ryan78336
      @Ryan78336 Pƙed 4 lety

      Ahhh I’d bought I’d seen her before. Remembering the doctor who episode the doctors wife.

    • @prettykiray
      @prettykiray Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Her eyes i love most

  • @lindalaw8368
    @lindalaw8368 Pƙed 4 lety +421

    It is easy to underestimate the importance for lesbians - and all gays - to see representatives of themselves in the tv shows and movies of the day. This is passion-filled, not gratuitous, an embodiment of real love. A greater gift is hard to imagine. It is also fun and entertaining, uplifting, and tingly. Thanks to all involved.

    • @gingerluigiwithnomoustache7411
      @gingerluigiwithnomoustache7411 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Great analysis

    • @tunim4354
      @tunim4354 Pƙed 4 lety +21

      In addition, LGBTQ representation means so MUCH more to gay viewers who live in homophobic countries. These shows save lives. đŸ‘đŸœ

    • @taramtatamnow
      @taramtatamnow Pƙed 3 lety

      🙏

    • @janesgems7
      @janesgems7 Pƙed 3 lety +16

      @@taramtatamnow I actually loved the fact that Anne was deeply religious and she always said that she was as God made her. How right she was.

    • @WingedSpanner
      @WingedSpanner Pƙed 2 lety +4

      Yes!! It rejuvenated my belief in love and will go down onto the list of my all time favourites!💜

  • @clarencemae6767
    @clarencemae6767 Pƙed 2 lety +89

    I love how Anne, in the middle of a heavy and passionate moment, made the interaction more lighter by talking casually about her hilarious experience in Denmark. She knows Ann would love that because that's how Ann fell in love with her in the first place.

    • @By_Ashvin
      @By_Ashvin Pƙed rokem +1

      ScĂšne exceptionnellement touchante

  • @HurricaneLisa3
    @HurricaneLisa3 Pƙed 5 lety +902

    The most beautiful scene I’ve ever watched on television.
    Brilliant actors, perfect music, gorgeous scenery, amazing story. What an incredible show!

    • @rossen8384
      @rossen8384 Pƙed 4 lety +5

      Same! I cry every time I watch this.

    • @rosegeaber7533
      @rosegeaber7533 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      Totally agree! Best love story ever!

    • @maryannthornes4984
      @maryannthornes4984 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      I was captivated by Jack the moment the music started in the 1st series. I've watched it twice..now both 1 and 2.
      I wondered how popular the series was ??? Now I see this ..and know it really is a big hit. So longing for series 3.
      The romance is captivating..I do like how jack takes on the town...and Europe as well.
      Suranne Jones. Sure heck knows her stuff. The show is knock over realistical on all levels. Absolutely loved it.

    • @ibelieveinmiracles777
      @ibelieveinmiracles777 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@maryannthornes4984 there has been a second series?

    • @mithaleepardeshi4893
      @mithaleepardeshi4893 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      @@ibelieveinmiracles777 Nope, but the second season will be out soon I guess.

  • @lauryn6059
    @lauryn6059 Pƙed rokem +12

    The way Anne says “good lord” always kills me 😂

  • @thowell3031
    @thowell3031 Pƙed rokem +40

    Honestly, this is the most beautiful lesbian love story I’ve ever seen on a screen. Suranne and Sophie were brilliant. Thank you Sally Wainwright and BBC for bringing Anne Lister’s story to the world.

  • @eternateen4eva323
    @eternateen4eva323 Pƙed 5 lety +844

    Anne Lister was a pioneer Badass ! Go read her biography.

    • @ArtGeek2817
      @ArtGeek2817 Pƙed 5 lety +26

      i have read 3 books on her so far and i'm reading a 4th one right now. her story and their relationship is truly fascinating.

    • @anonymousday1012
      @anonymousday1012 Pƙed 5 lety +7

      @@ArtGeek2817 what's book name?

    • @girlfromnahoon
      @girlfromnahoon Pƙed 5 lety +2

      Ironic...motives, money, haha

    • @eternateen4eva323
      @eternateen4eva323 Pƙed 4 lety +9

      @Needles IblisShe was ahead of her time. Anne did things in her time that was inconceivable to most women. Like 'marriage' to a woman.

    • @eternateen4eva323
      @eternateen4eva323 Pƙed 4 lety +10

      @Needles Iblis Oooh you're one of those. Okay, read Anne's biography.

  • @amandasanders6020
    @amandasanders6020 Pƙed rokem +13

    BBC please don't give up on this show, it means so much to see this story

  • @BecKM94
    @BecKM94 Pƙed 5 lety +593

    This scene - this episode, this whole series - means so much to me and that scene completely destroyed me, it had me crying and shouting of joy, beaming from ear to ear, and made my heart grew ten times bigger with love. It‘s just so perfect: Ann‘s soft „... I wouldn‘t say no“ and „yes“es, Anne‘s „I don‘t think one hour passed where i didn‘t think of you“ & her „Don‘t hurt me, I‘m not as strong as you think... well, I am obviously, but... sometimes I’m not“, the kiss, music, lighting; the chemistry between Suranne and Sophie is killing me (and what absolute excellent actresses they are!).
    Both showing so much love and pain, and confidence and vulnerability.
    Or before that scene, Anne stopping to run away from her broken heart and Ann taking control over her life and decisions in her hand; and after that, their wedding and them already bickering like an old married couple.
    As a big history and period dramas and biopics fan and a gay woman myself (who also loves romance stories), period shows/movies with queer characters are, like, my favourite genre. And getting this classical-epic-super-romantic-hilltop-kiss with these two beautiful, courageous women (even better, knowing they really existed) and seeing them marry (as “much/real” as was possible) in 1834 is truly cathartic!
    Gentleman Jack gave me everything I’ve ever wanted from period dramas & shows with LGBTQ+ characters and more. I’ll never get tired of watching this show and this scene. THANK YOU, everybody involved in GJ! (And yaaay to the confirmed S2!)

    • @palmertreese1363
      @palmertreese1363 Pƙed 5 lety +14

      BecKM94 I totally agree with everything you’ve said here, just reading your comment made me beam. This scene literally took my breath away, I had to remember to breathe, absolutely stunning. Bravo đŸ‘đŸ‘đŸ‘â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž

    • @maryfleming3299
      @maryfleming3299 Pƙed 5 lety +17

      One of the most Beautiful scene on television.
      My husband and I cried tears of Joy. The whole setting and the music, Suranne and Sophie ... the acting / chemistry. We cannot wait for season 2.

    • @buzzwor
      @buzzwor Pƙed 5 lety +10

      I was totally taken aback by how this series and in particular this episode affected me. This scene was wonderful. You have summed it up here perfectly.

    • @lindakonieczny9211
      @lindakonieczny9211 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      Totally agree, best thing I’ve watched and rewatched in years, I can’t wait until series 2 and hopefully many more!

    • @BecKM94
      @BecKM94 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      Crescent I think they already confirmed it in May, I think I’ve read in on the show’s Twitter and then there were articles about it. Filming will start next year and the release is probably gonna be in 2021 or maybe late 2020, IIRC. SO HAPPY we’re about get more GJ!

  • @lisbethsalander8463
    @lisbethsalander8463 Pƙed 5 lety +245

    “I always have been”. Such simple words, so beautifully delivered.

  • @lynnharrill420
    @lynnharrill420 Pƙed rokem +50

    OMG. I NEVER get tired of watching that scene. They are so brilliant together. And Suranne Jones -- so many layers of emotions showing. She's quite a phenomenal talent.

  • @happyhedgehogfoods9483
    @happyhedgehogfoods9483 Pƙed 2 lety +18

    right HANDS UP.........Whos watched this scene more than 20 times.....!!!!!!

  • @kobiosama
    @kobiosama Pƙed 5 lety +452

    21st century and here i am cant even score a girl

    • @jitkasuarez
      @jitkasuarez Pƙed 4 lety +14

      Aw! Same here, lol. But I bet you're still a young thing, whereas I'm already too old for excuses. But you never know what's around the corner...

    • @barnitasarkar996
      @barnitasarkar996 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      Me too

    • @chgreengrass4934
      @chgreengrass4934 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Lily Bingham LMAO same here 😂😂

    • @rosedelacruz9261
      @rosedelacruz9261 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Same

    • @sonu24196able
      @sonu24196able Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Ehehe..Same..

  • @chrisocmand6188
    @chrisocmand6188 Pƙed 4 lety +56

    The changes in their facial expressions when AL notices AW wearing the gondola pin and says “God, I’ve missed you.” absolutely make my heart flutter. They go from aggressive and timid, right back to being intimate. Sophie and Suranne are amazing.

  • @katiebienvenue8081
    @katiebienvenue8081 Pƙed rokem +22

    The Hilltop scene is quite possibly my all time favorite scene in anything that I have watched. I love that I can watch it completely out of context at any moment and I still end up being a crying mess at the end. It’s a masterclass in direction, camera movement, writing, and acting!

    • @EricaGamet
      @EricaGamet Pƙed rokem +1

      I just randomly watched it after not seeing it since I re-watched S1 before S2 came out. Tears streaming down my face, yet again. This scene is perfection.

  • @gryffindorseeker1190
    @gryffindorseeker1190 Pƙed 5 lety +258

    I am not even ashamed to admit that this will be on repeat for me until 2021 !!!!!

  • @azure113
    @azure113 Pƙed 2 lety +33

    the fact that that was the first and only time in the whole show that they'd kissed in a public place where anyone could've seen them and without looking to check around them at all!! this scene is perfect in so many ways!

  • @harriethonakerart4912
    @harriethonakerart4912 Pƙed 5 lety +304

    Gentleman Jack is like the lesbian Willy Wonka that I never knew I really wantedđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @sirennumber5248
      @sirennumber5248 Pƙed 4 lety +4

      I don't really see the Willy Wonka connection could you explain please

    • @harriethonakerart4912
      @harriethonakerart4912 Pƙed 4 lety +23

      @@sirennumber5248
      the wealth
      The curiosity of the town people
      The top hat, the cain
      The servants
      And honestly more of an ora than an actual comparison

    • @sirennumber5248
      @sirennumber5248 Pƙed 4 lety +6

      @@harriethonakerart4912 I can see how she has that kinda bigger than life aura to her

    • @vanessatelford5006
      @vanessatelford5006 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      God that made me laugh 😂

  • @hotheadedbab
    @hotheadedbab Pƙed 5 lety +810

    I don’t care what any of you homophobic people have to say. This is beautiful.
    Love is Love. It doesn’t matter if it’s two guys or two girls or a non-binary or trans. It’s not unnatural, it’s unique. Yeah sure pride month is over, but that doesn’t mean we’re gonna stop loving our same gender partner. And why shouldn’t gays not be able to marry? Or have children to love and care for? They’re human. *Just like you.*

  • @lizinmalta1814
    @lizinmalta1814 Pƙed 5 lety +464

    Heart, humour and superb acting by all, loved this show can't wait for Series 2.

    • @Cocky_Poppy_TV
      @Cocky_Poppy_TV Pƙed 5 lety

      Heart no standing up against child rape gangs it heart

    • @bikerchik33
      @bikerchik33 Pƙed 5 lety +8

      Get a life you troll!

  • @lalexander1144
    @lalexander1144 Pƙed 4 lety +200

    " With all my faults, heaven grant me still the virtue of sincerity. And though I walk through many a darksome shed of folly and remorse, still let there be one light, the light of truth to guide me right at last."
    - Anne Lister from her diaries

  • @warriorbard
    @warriorbard Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +7

    There's something about how Anne looking rather unkempt and being emotionally distraught here that really has my heart aflutter. I honestly can't explain it but the way she looks and acts in this scene, being so openly vulnerable, well, it's the most handsome, beguiling, and devastating she's ever been throughout the whole series.

  • @sybilminerva6597
    @sybilminerva6597 Pƙed 5 lety +513

    I love Gentleman Jack, but why is marriage in quotation marks? It was a marriage, not a "marriage", regardless of whether it was legally recognised or not.

    • @mfjdv2020
      @mfjdv2020 Pƙed 4 lety +90

      Well said!! A marriage is in the heart. Not on some piece of paper issued by some mindless government official.

    • @strangelee4400
      @strangelee4400 Pƙed 4 lety +14

      @@mfjdv2020
      So why fight so hard for that meaningless piece of paper? I thought you were all for gay marriage to be legitimised by a government?

    • @WendywitchWon
      @WendywitchWon Pƙed 4 lety +57

      @@strangelee4400 So it's equal and we dont have to hide also taxes

    • @bettyleeable
      @bettyleeable Pƙed 4 lety +41

      @strange lee and so also couples that have been together forever are listed as each other’s emergency contact and next of kin, legally

    • @shammydammy2610
      @shammydammy2610 Pƙed 4 lety +71

      @@strangelee4400 Because there are rights tied to that meaningless piece of paper. If I was to be in a terrible accident tomorrow, no one would keep my spouse from my hospital bedside because they are my legal spouse. No one doubted my spouse's involvement in my care when I suffered a stroke. It's assumed that my spouse is the person to speak in my stead, if I am not capable of it. Without some meaningless piece of paper, my parents might legally be able cut my partner completely out of decisions because they would be 'next of kin'.

  • @kimnth
    @kimnth Pƙed rokem +15

    I mean just imagine one day you clean your house, find out a diary belongs to your great great great grandma's sister who was gay, had a freaking badass lifestyle and such gorgeous wife.

  • @rhyfeddu
    @rhyfeddu Pƙed 3 lety +9

    This dialogue is all so hard to act. I mean, it really needs great actors to pull this off and make it seem natural, off the cuff, sincere and deeply felt. They're so good.

  • @blaize.01
    @blaize.01 Pƙed 5 lety +1432

    I love my gay sisters it's the most beautiful thing in the world as a Queer being I admire a female being in love with another female it's so beautiful and makes me happy that we get to see representation of our people
    Also let me just say the reason I admire my gay sisters is simply because when shitt like the aids epidemic was happening they were so active in helping our males counterparts who were deeply affected by it whenever something happened in our community they have been so active in providing a helping hand so yes I love my gay sisters and without them some privileges we have today as queer people wouldn't be possible without them.

    • @sparklejumpropequeen2192
      @sparklejumpropequeen2192 Pƙed 4 lety +242

      And gay male love is beautiful too, coming from a lesbian:)

    • @thesephkind9657
      @thesephkind9657 Pƙed 4 lety +147

      Honest love is mad beautiful...humbling for those who have it, searing for those who yearn for it. Y'all rock on with your beautiful, shining beacons of love! I keep watch for the light. Maybe me, one day, too.

    • @maribelcosta5284
      @maribelcosta5284 Pƙed 4 lety +35

      You're adorable. I love my gay brothers and love seeing you happy with each other as well.

    • @molly386
      @molly386 Pƙed 4 lety +32

      SOLIDARITY i love it

    • @screamingweevil3410
      @screamingweevil3410 Pƙed 4 lety +16

      Love is always so beautiful

  • @take5breaths
    @take5breaths Pƙed 5 lety +427

    for the love of god, please BBC: make sure you include all the deleted scenes on the Blu ray for us Americans!!!!!!

    • @RK-ep8qy
      @RK-ep8qy Pƙed 5 lety +4

      take5breaths you guys had a two minute or so scene missing in the last ep where Lister is on the ship back writing a letter then throwing up

    • @PtoRicanDBLT
      @PtoRicanDBLT Pƙed 5 lety +1

      ☝ This!!! Please. Thank you đŸ™đŸŒ

    • @beck4026
      @beck4026 Pƙed 5 lety

      Ropsana Khanom but extra scenes in every episode- an important one from episode4 and 7

    • @elizabethwhite1068
      @elizabethwhite1068 Pƙed 5 lety +4

      You have to buy it through Amazon.uk, the American version is the HBO one. But you'll have to make sure your DVD player is "for all regions" or Google a simple hack to change it.

    • @jacquelinepaul9731
      @jacquelinepaul9731 Pƙed 5 lety

      What deleted scenes ?

  • @mrs.booteh
    @mrs.booteh Pƙed 4 lety +38

    I think the amount of times I've come back to watch this video, has passed the point where it's healthy...

    • @elizabethwhite1068
      @elizabethwhite1068 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      You're not alone, and I own the DVD. But sometimes I just need this scene.

  • @ludovicastile3871
    @ludovicastile3871 Pƙed 5 lety +441

    Who has watched the show multiple times? 🙌

  • @JessRomeo27
    @JessRomeo27 Pƙed 5 lety +181

    I watch this show with my grandmother and its just interesting how she can understand that a relationship between two women can be the same as a relationship between a man and a woman. She still thinks I'm going through a phase, but I'm sure watching something as beautiful as this helps her understand things a lot better. I'm thankfull for this show in so many ways, and it just adds to it all when you realize how wonderful the acting is and how natural the chemistry is between each of the characters. Ready for season 2!!! 😁

    • @Wormwoodification
      @Wormwoodification Pƙed 2 lety +1

      That's a really lovely way to go about helping your grandmother understand. Sometimes people don't even know why they are against something until it's normalized in their head. Then they realize they weren't really against it, just whatever bad they thought it was.

  • @aylinmeansmoonlight1730
    @aylinmeansmoonlight1730 Pƙed rokem +6

    Forget about Titanic, forget about all love stories, I've never ever in my life seen something more authentic, better acted or better told than this! It touches my heart and soul on a level no movie ever has! I want Gentleman Jack come back to our screens! The Ann(e)'s deserve it, the actors and Sally do! Every person on earth should watch it at least one time in their lives! It is SO MUCH MORE than a lesbian love story!! It came into my life like an earth quake! Seriously, if I can't find a girlfriend like Anne, I will forever stay single!

  • @brendabailey7646
    @brendabailey7646 Pƙed 5 lety +85

    What a Brilliant series. The best love scene ever. I cried yet again. Perfect casting.

  • @dexterellis7818
    @dexterellis7818 Pƙed 4 lety +40

    I am a straight man and I love this scene. Two women expressing their love for each other.

  • @angelsantos6039
    @angelsantos6039 Pƙed 5 lety +164

    Okay everyone goes on about lister but Walker is just as amazing. My gay heart can’t đŸ€·â€â™€ïžđŸ’œ

    • @victordobozi
      @victordobozi Pƙed 5 lety +10

      I am in love with walker

    • @virgy_w_
      @virgy_w_ Pƙed 4 lety +3

      They are so beautiful together not "carol" the movie chemistry but quite intriguing đŸ€·â€â™€ïžâ€â€them.

    • @jitkasuarez
      @jitkasuarez Pƙed 4 lety +3

      Jones is hot, without question-- but Rundle's face so wonderful to look at.

    • @barbaraglynn1531
      @barbaraglynn1531 Pƙed 4 lety +12

      Veronica Dobozi I am as well. Sophie Rundle gave such a nuanced performance as Ann Walker. She exhibited fragility, vulnerability, uncertainty as well as some mental instability and did it all very convincingly. Kudos to one so young for bringing the gravitas to this role that it deserved. I sincerely hope Sophie is rewarded come BAFTA time!!

    • @nikapaki6146
      @nikapaki6146 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      actualy i love Anne Walker the most..

  • @kemmayr
    @kemmayr Pƙed 5 lety +134

    Just hope Suranne picks up every award going,she's just brilliant,Sophie Rundle also đŸ‘â€

    • @maryfleming3299
      @maryfleming3299 Pƙed 5 lety +7

      kemmayr Suranne and Sophie should have beenNOMINATED for an Emmy. The Show also should have been NOMINATED.

    • @laminage
      @laminage Pƙed 5 lety +2

      @@maryfleming3299It's still hard to see shows with Same Sex Love win Awards. Man In An Orange Shirt didn't win let alone get nominated, and Crystal Chappell didn't get a Daytime Emmy Award for her role as Olivia Spencer when she told Natalia Rivera on her Wedding Day to Frank Cooper she was in love with her on Guiding Light.

  • @maryfleming3299
    @maryfleming3299 Pƙed 5 lety +50

    A little annoyed that Gentleman Jack and Suranne orSophie received NO RECOGNITION for their OUTSTANDING Performance.
    Best show on Television !!

    • @barbaraglynn1531
      @barbaraglynn1531 Pƙed 5 lety +12

      You’re not the only one who was disappointed. I cannot fathom how Suranne Jones didn’t get an Emmy nomination as best actress in a drama series. She absolutely embodied Anne Lister; she owned the role and the range of emotions she had to portray is phenomenal. I think an injustice has been done. Let’s hope the BAFTAs correct this injustice

    • @maryfleming3299
      @maryfleming3299 Pƙed 5 lety +2

      Amen to that

  • @anne7611
    @anne7611 Pƙed 5 lety +26

    I love that Ann is the calm one here while Anne is being vulnerable 💕

  • @maribelcosta5284
    @maribelcosta5284 Pƙed 4 lety +32

    At this rate, it appears I will watch this scene everyday for the rest of my life. Just really noticed the look on Anne's face when she notices the gondola pin at 1:44. It's this expression of "wow, you really did miss me, you may actually love me." It's SO INCREDIBLY SUBTLE because Suranne Jones is absolutely brilliant, but it's there and I felt like crying all over again because this scene explodes my gay heart.

  • @xbjrrtc
    @xbjrrtc Pƙed 2 lety +18

    It's been years since I first watched Gentleman Jack, and this scene makes me cry every single time.

    • @ceekay1676
      @ceekay1676 Pƙed 2 lety

      same here, Catrina. IT such a beautiful and heartfelt scene.

  • @SarahPiperNZ
    @SarahPiperNZ Pƙed 5 lety +136

    I'll never get tired of this ending, or indeed their whole story, and will absolutely be watching this season plenty more times (I'm already at three) until season two. What a beautiful story of these phenomenal people, and it's so incredible that their story is finally being told by such a committed team of people, all those writing and creating, as well as these phenomenal actresses giving so much to their roles and telling such a believable love story.

  • @gpgara
    @gpgara Pƙed 5 lety +376

    I haven't watched this show yet, but this clip made me sob like a little girl! Looks like an absolutely gorgeous love story! :) Well done!

    • @HaleiwaGirl808
      @HaleiwaGirl808 Pƙed 5 lety +11

      giligara30492 omg you HAVE to see this show!!!!

    • @MsNaryssa
      @MsNaryssa Pƙed 5 lety +16

      @Los Lobos 1 only 10% was artistic freedom, the rest is based on real life events taken from Anne Listers very detailed diaries, often they even say things out of the diary.

    • @bsce100
      @bsce100 Pƙed 5 lety +13

      Los Lobos 1 like you’re babbling for no reason. It’s an excellent show. It doesn’t need to be 100% historically accurate, it’s not a documentary. Relax a little and enjoy the show.

    • @iliketowatchvideos47
      @iliketowatchvideos47 Pƙed 5 lety +11

      @Los Lobos 1 disagree with you ,the breaking the fourth wall bits are taken from the diaries 😉😉

    • @iliketowatchvideos47
      @iliketowatchvideos47 Pƙed 5 lety +4

      @@bsce100 couldnt have put it better myself 💖

  • @downeastxg
    @downeastxg Pƙed 2 lety +16

    Simply blown away by the love these two actors portray. How can they not feel it as much as their audience? Just a little tingle now and again must happen somewhere along all of their amazing scenes together. They are both rich in their performances and seem to nearly channel the Anne & Ann of so long ago. Looking forward to S2. Richly enjoying Sally Wainwright's desire and vision in telling a story she wanted to see for herself. I love reading the Helena Whitbread volumes of the Lister diaries and all that entails. Big sigh, huge inspiration.

  • @alisonfool
    @alisonfool Pƙed 4 lety +65

    We can stop creating romance stories, guys; someone finally made the perfect one

  • @emiliamariaturnescu9685
    @emiliamariaturnescu9685 Pƙed 3 lety +27

    I love how dedicated Suranne Jones is to this character . AW and AL have such a powerful connection 🌟

  • @johnhulls5334
    @johnhulls5334 Pƙed 5 lety +246

    This is one of the best TV series ever,I love it.It's available on DVD tomorrow so I guess I'll be buying it.Suranne and everyone on the show can be very proud of it.

    • @TheYavy
      @TheYavy Pƙed 5 lety +1

      Looks garbage

    • @Cocky_Poppy_TV
      @Cocky_Poppy_TV Pƙed 5 lety +1

      Tommy Robinson standing up for rape victems is the best story ever

    • @marypfleming8055
      @marypfleming8055 Pƙed 5 lety +17

      WOW I guess Everything at home is not ok!
      This is One of the Best Shows that is on television,It’s absolutely Beautifully written and the acting not only from Surrane but the whole cast.
      So if you pull your head out of your #$& and watch You might have a whole different and positive attitude.

    • @johnhulls5334
      @johnhulls5334 Pƙed 5 lety +3

      @@marypfleming8055 Well said Mary,spot on.

    • @palmertreese1363
      @palmertreese1363 Pƙed 5 lety +3

      Thanks for the heads up about it GJ đŸŽ© on dvd, I just pre ordered my copy a second ago via amazon! ÂŁ14.99

  • @melanierippon7884
    @melanierippon7884 Pƙed 4 lety +51

    Phenomenal show. And whilst I get the majority of people are talking about the lesbian storyline, I think Anne Lister would STILL be worth knowing about even if she hadn't been gay. Because in a time when women were rarely seen let alone heard & got treated like property or as if they were brainless/helpless, Anne was a property owner, managed that property, mucked in with the workers, travelled independently & dressed as she liked - to name a few reasons. Oh, and didn't suffer fools gladly, especially men who thought they could get away with being patronising or swindling, just because Anne was female. Suranne Jones especially, but also Sophie Rundle, deserve every award going for their portrayals of Anne & Ann, they've given us some of the best TV I've seen in I don't know how long.... Looking forward to series 2!

  • @memo-mz8js
    @memo-mz8js Pƙed 5 lety +57

    This scene keeps me warm in Australian winter 😂😂😂

  • @lcd137
    @lcd137 Pƙed 5 lety +122

    What a fabulous roller coaster ride this has been over the 8 episodes.. Wonderful acting full of every kind of emotion we all know.. Funny,and sad but, always entertaining.. Well done BBC..Now on to Series 2!,👍👍

    • @laminage
      @laminage Pƙed 5 lety +2

      Linda Dunbar You are lucky you saw it

    • @Cocky_Poppy_TV
      @Cocky_Poppy_TV Pƙed 5 lety

      Well done bbc you put a man to prison again for making child rape gangs feel bad I hope your studio burns down

  • @Barbarahaller
    @Barbarahaller Pƙed 5 lety +67

    Give Suranne Jones all the awards in this planet! And thank you Anne Lister! you wrote those diaries 200 years ago and we owe you the best representation of lesbian love in the history of television

  • @princessthyemis
    @princessthyemis Pƙed 4 lety +10

    Reading about her on Wikipedia because of this--HOLY COW, what a life!!! She died so young....

  • @mlcg1500
    @mlcg1500 Pƙed 2 lety +7

    I hope this show gets renewed for a season 3.

  • @jasminecorvic9519
    @jasminecorvic9519 Pƙed 3 lety +13

    One of the most beautiful love stories I've witnessed in television. I was genuinely invested in both of them as characters. I really wish there was a third season to see their life together.

  • @silverfox4055
    @silverfox4055 Pƙed 5 lety +52

    One of the very few videos or shows I've ever nearly cried for. Well done. Well done indeed.

  • @zebracake125
    @zebracake125 Pƙed 5 lety +13

    that second quiet yes at 4:10 melts my heart every single time!

  • @nmisk3127
    @nmisk3127 Pƙed 4 lety +8

    Sally Wainwright hits it out of the park yet again, the lead actresses are exceptional. Heck, all the acting is phenomenal. An intense, important love story told with grace and excellence. Thank you, BBC.

  • @brooklynbaby6885
    @brooklynbaby6885 Pƙed 3 lety +6

    She seems so relieved when Anne said she missed her ❀❀❀ I love them

  • @fionatsang9353
    @fionatsang9353 Pƙed 3 lety +35

    I'm an empath, I'm picky about what I watch because I can't get properly invested in something if the acting (or writing for books) comes across as ingenuine. I've lost count of how many times I've watched this clip because I can feel the characters' emotions and mood shifts throughout the entire scene, the acting is SO GOOD, some of the best I have ever seen. Especially Suranne Jones; I can read Anne Lister's thoughts in her face and body language, every time she wants to give in to her love for Ann but then literally steps away from her because she's afraid of being hurt, how she distracts Ann from noticing how upset she is at being just 'a friendship' to her or dwelling on her slashed wrist by telling self-deprecating stories about herself. The way she plays a strong character who is on the verge of falling apart and trying to hide it is masterful; that little noise she makes after Ann says she 'wouldn't say no' has more emotional conveyance in it than some entire actor's monologues. So incredible.

  • @alligatortearstns
    @alligatortearstns Pƙed 5 lety +40

    I've been watching this scene and repeating like 10000x and it never gets old. It's so beautiful and ah... I can't even explain how this show means to me and all the LGBTQ community. Thanks for everything Sally Wainwright, the cast and crew, BBC One. ❀ Best lesbian drama EVER. I'm still crying and I can't wait for second season.

  • @goazong13
    @goazong13 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +4

    I just binged the 2 seasons and I’m depressed that the show is cancelled!

  • @Keegan7156
    @Keegan7156 Pƙed 5 lety +68

    The entire episode of the season finale was exquisite - this scene was the best of the episode - Emmy worthy to be sure. Ann Walker's whimpering was a bit over the top throughout but she pulled herself together at the end and emerged in charge and intact. A stupendous series with Suranne Jones clearly relishing the role.

    • @mfjdv2020
      @mfjdv2020 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      Yes, Suranne Jones is absolutely superb!!

  • @sitisarahabdulrahman
    @sitisarahabdulrahman Pƙed 5 lety +47

    Thank you BBC for uploading this scene. I cried twice in a row. 😭😭😭

    • @mfjdv2020
      @mfjdv2020 Pƙed 4 lety

      Me too, Siti! Well, more than twice actually :-)

  • @biancamazari9166
    @biancamazari9166 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +5

    So sad we couldn't get 1 or 2 more seasons of this brilliant show.

  • @Mtnsunshine
    @Mtnsunshine Pƙed 4 lety +11

    Still....after re-watching this clip months later....it is the most romantic scene I have seen in a very long while, if not ever. Absolutely brilliant . đŸ‘đŸŒđŸ‘đŸŒđŸ‘đŸŒ

  • @maz8719
    @maz8719 Pƙed 4 lety +19

    The most beautiful love story I've ever watched! Gentleman Jack is an outstanding show all round but this scene is everything. Sophie is wonderful and Suranne is an absolute legend, she was born to play Anne Lister.

  • @JessGrtz
    @JessGrtz Pƙed 2 lety +16

    This is without a doubt the best written, staged and acted scene I have ever seen (and I have watched it about a 100 times!). I love each "mmh" and every second of it! Can't wait for S2 to be released in Germany!🌈 â€đŸŽ©!!!

  • @gordonhall752
    @gordonhall752 Pƙed 4 lety +17

    One of the best love scenes ever committed to film...

  • @vivianarteagamontero2805
    @vivianarteagamontero2805 Pƙed 5 lety +16

    This five minutes and forty two seconds are just sublime. No words to describe, this series took my heart. Thank you Suranne and Sophie! Thank you Sally!

  • @999mmj
    @999mmj Pƙed 3 lety +15

    I have experienced very few scenes in any T.V show or movie that are this powerful and beautiful...gay, straight or otherwise. Brava! The orchestral music absolutely sealed it!

  • @korinnab.2318
    @korinnab.2318 Pƙed 4 lety +146

    I hope God sends me my own Anne Lister someday

  • @memo-mz8js
    @memo-mz8js Pƙed 5 lety +55

    One of the most beautiful moments! I don’t get it why ppl “dislike “ it

    • @robyn828
      @robyn828 Pƙed 5 lety +16

      Must be those homophobic who left lots of comments down this clip. They must have too much free time in their 👐 and parochial. That's a word that I learned from this series. 😉

  • @bobbidazzler1343
    @bobbidazzler1343 Pƙed 3 lety +10

    That noise Suranne Jones makes, drives me insane and i'm straight! She was wonderful in this part and should have won every award going.
    Sophie Rundle was just perfect too. Her Yorkshire accent is outrageously accurate.
    This is the best serial drama I've seen in years. Can't wait for the next series and see what Miss Lister gets up to next. đŸ„°

  • @CrazyRandomBean
    @CrazyRandomBean Pƙed 3 lety +9

    I have watched this an unhealthy amount of times

  • @laurastreit255
    @laurastreit255 Pƙed 3 lety +8

    "Don't hurt me, I'm not as strong as you think, well, of course I'm strong but .... sometimes I'm not" ❀

  • @roryqpotter8242
    @roryqpotter8242 Pƙed 3 lety +11

    This is such a damn beautiful moment. And to see it treated like any other period romance piece is such an amazing thing.

  • @ADORABLEMX2
    @ADORABLEMX2 Pƙed 5 lety +100

    I just fall in love with Anne Lister ♄

    • @ADORABLEMX2
      @ADORABLEMX2 Pƙed 5 lety +8

      skaÂĄÂĄa ÂĄÂĄa I fall in love with her personality not in the way she looks

    • @cassidottir
      @cassidottir Pƙed 5 lety

      Me too

    • @ADORABLEMX2
      @ADORABLEMX2 Pƙed 5 lety

      cassidottir 😊😊😊

  • @hemtonys6179
    @hemtonys6179 Pƙed 2 lety +8

    more than one million views, totally deserved.đŸ„łđŸ„łđŸ„ł It' such a powerful story and having Suranne Jones and Sophie Rundle, for Anne Lister and Ann Walker is truly a gift. Fantastic actresses, and the intensity of their chemistry is stunning.

  • @ttalgichae
    @ttalgichae Pƙed 3 lety +6

    if y’all have not watched this yet then watch it!!! i’ve seen it four times already and s2 is coming out this year too

  • @rachellereamer7135
    @rachellereamer7135 Pƙed 4 lety +9

    I've watched this scene a hundred or so times now. It's truly the most heartfelt romantic scene ever on the screen in my opinion. Simply beautiful...

  • @jimneysweep9810
    @jimneysweep9810 Pƙed 4 lety +10

    My goodness Anne lister looks so gorgeous in this scene ! Such a dream boat I can’t contain myself 😂

  • @emmazermeno968
    @emmazermeno968 Pƙed 3 lety +11

    I said it before and I say it again: this pure scene deserves an Oscar

  • @Ashley--L
    @Ashley--L Pƙed rokem +9

    This series changed something in me. Made me free. I adore this show! Have they started shooting season 3?

  • @palmertreese1363
    @palmertreese1363 Pƙed 5 lety +30

    BAFTA’s right across the board for this production please 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @lennysmom
    @lennysmom Pƙed 3 lety +10

    I love the moment when Anne sees the gold pin. I've watched this scene many times.

  • @eviangrace497
    @eviangrace497 Pƙed 4 lety +9

    Suranne Jones as Anne Lister is a breathtaking character and an extremely attractive woman who dominates the whole screen ..if Sophie wasn’t such a great actress performing Ann with such tenderness, weakness but also with such grace and humility, the screen would totally absorb her.....instead she’s everywhere..all over..firmly present and devoted..Gosh..the two of them together are just adorable ....

  • @cherylfoo3699
    @cherylfoo3699 Pƙed 5 lety +11

    The definition of true love. I’ll just leave it there

  • @zumbakat37
    @zumbakat37 Pƙed rokem +5

    This is one of the best scenes and Suranne is brilliant.

  • @doop9973
    @doop9973 Pƙed 4 lety +10

    This is truly one of the best shows and greatest love stories to ever exist.

  • @Pyongggggg
    @Pyongggggg Pƙed 4 lety +5

    They both balanced up really good.. I admire Anne Lister for her positive, tough and charismatic character.. it must be tough especially in the old time. Looking forward for season 2!!