Ingredients 3/4 cup butter, room temperature 3/4 cup brown sugar 1/4 cup granulated sugar 1 egg + 1 egg yolk 2 tsp vanilla extract 1 1/4 cup All-purpose flour 2/3 cup cocoa powder 1/2 tsp espresso powder 3/4 tsp baking soda 1/4 tsp salt Chocolate Ganache Filling 3/4 cup chocolate chips 6 tbsp heavy cream
Instructions Step 1 Preheat oven to 350°F (177C). Line a baking pan with parchment paper and set aside. Step 2 For the chocolate ganache, heat up heavy cream for 60-90 seconds and pour over chocolate chips. Let sit for 3 minutes before mixing until combined. Cool completely before rolling into 1 tbsp balls, then adding into the fridge. Step 3 With a whisk, beat butter, brown sugar and granulated sugar together until fluffy and mixture turns an off-white color (about 2 minutes). Add the egg, egg yolk and vanilla extract and mix until a smooth consistency. Step 4 Add the flour, cocoa powder, espresso powder, baking soda and salt. Mix until a soft dough forms. Use a 1,5 ounce cookie scoop, and scoop cookie dough in your palm and flatten out. Place cooled chocolate ganache ball in the centre and fold cookie dough around it. Step 5 Bake for 10 minutes, or until the center has puffed up. Top with a sprinkle of powder sugar. Enjoy!
My response was "cool, have a nice life." to which she got mad and asked "oh so you don't even care huh?" so I told her "Yep. Why would I give a fuck about losing something worthless?"
This should be the ideal way to deal with cheaters. People normally become very emotional and understandably so. You invest so much time in someone and they decide that you're not worth their loyalty. It hurts and you can't be expected to get over it so quickly. Being able to get over a cheater like this is highly admirable, since it's so much easier to not care yet people still do
I auto yelled "Freedom!" and hung up. lol I never expected that from me and I still feel that was the most out of character moment I ever had but there it was.
@@kohaiame2691 They did contact me again 3 times. But before that, he called my parents (we are both adults in our 20s) and explained everything to them to try and control the narrative lol. They didn't believe a single thing he said because it made no sense. Then he called me, a day after to tell me he was still with the side chick and it was much better now that he wasn't having to be sneaky. He said "Thanks for leaving." which was his petty play but that's okay I didn't care at that point. The second time was to tell me he was over me 5 days later. And the third was 2 weeks later to tell me he was going on a date with someone else (not the one he cheated with) and all the ways she was better than I was. I laughed, and he got angry with me and hung up. He has only tried to contact me once after that, to tell me I ruined his family because his mom doesn't like anyone else he dates anymore and that I needed to talk to her. Again, I laughed and he hung up.
@@tarquinioprisco8459 It's a 9-month relationship, there's too much story. But the summary is I had an unhealthy desire to help people who self-sabotage. That's since changed. He couldn't hold a job, and though he 'wanted to work' he would never successfully find a place that would take him. I found 3 separate jobs for him and every time he would get fired for skipping work to party. I was stupidly paying his rent and food and being his driver, as well as, on occasion, his friend's gas. The money that he did make he spent on alcohol and eventually drugs, because he used it all immediately as play money I always covered his living expenses. Eventually, he got hooked on cocaine, and while I paid for rehab and therapy he got angry at me and told me to stop trying to change him. I said that, that was fine but I couldn't permanently support his lifestyle so if he wasn't going to make changes I would stop paying his way. That's the night he went to a party and found his side piece. I never slept with him because I personally would rather only have one partner in my life so I have to be married first. So I guess that's how he justified that relationship. But he would always catch her at parties because I never go to parties it's just not my vibe. Anyway, 2 months later I sat down with him and told him that if our relationship was going to last we had to figure out what we wanted our future to look like and what changes would have to be made, especially if we ever wanted to have a family which we both did. He got angry and stormed off. Later that night he gave me that call to tell me he had been cheating. I guess I knew on some level because I was not at all surprised. So yeah. I was trying to help, and ended up too forceful in my attempts I think, because he pushed back, hard. He wanted an easy life, but with reign to make any choice he wanted at any point in time regardless of morality or even his health and when it became clear we hit the point where he had to choose between doing whatever he wanted at any point in time and having an easy and secure life he chose the more harmful of the two.
i think he was more so preapred for a normal human reaction. i don't think he wanted her to cry. its the idea of having to break bad news to people and expecting 1 reaction...
@@Animegeek770it’s gross to cheat on someone and then ask why they aren’t crying right afterwards. Even if you wonder based on a level of personal curiosity, you just have to have some real audacity to ask that. “I wounded and betrayed you, why are you not physically sad now?” Like what
Found out my ex was cheating on me through a friend who had seen a girl calling him her boyfriend. I wanted the full story so I arranged a meeting between us. We met up, and immediately I told her "I'm not going to fight you, it's clear he's fooled both of us. If you still want him, he's all yours." But the girl also was angry so we decided we'd confront him together and I scheduled a date with him. She and I dressed the exact same and showed up together, to which his face was absolutely priceless. Nice and public, but we didn't yell at him, just kindly thanked him for being the reason why we became friends with each other and walked out of the restaurant.
I told him from day one that if he cheated, it would be over and there would be no second chances. Well, he cheated with his ex, I told him it was over, and like a month later he messaged me begging to take him back and i just coldly reminded him that I had warned him about cheating. I respect myself too much to take a cheater back.
Thanks, kind person, for giving me an idea how to handle such situations when it happen (though we can agree that it is for the best that it should not happen at all.)
@@aelsaellie well the girl found out he was cheating on both of us and we were both being played. Contacted me through a mutual friend. We both broke up with him, and she completely trashed his reputation. And then me and her are still friends
I once heard someone say that when someone cheats on you, it’s because they still need something from you, hence why they didn’t break up before going for the other person. So the best way to hurt them, is to act like you don’t care at all, don’t scream, don’t shout, don’t cry in front of them. Just pack up and walk away.
Yes o heard usually they are getting 80% of their needs met by their partner and 20% by the affair partner. So they don't leave the 80% for the 20%. Once you realise and move on they are left with someone who they never really wanted.
@@taiganb3463 Yes, it is slightly easier to get from someone else than their partner so they go with that. If they had put the same effort into their relationship they could meet 98% of their needs but instead they go with the option that hurts people.
My boyfriend of 6 years came up to me one day and told me he was cheating on me. My response was “okay, hope you had fun” and smiled. He asked why I was acting like it was fine and I told him I wouldn’t waste my time with him anymore than I have. I kicked him out of my house and that was the end.
In my early twenties, I came home once to it happening . They stopped and looked at me. I smiled and said, “hey guys I just got off work early-“ left the room, came back with a cast iron pan leaned in the bedroom door and looked at them , saying, “ you have 29 seconds to get out of the house. One-“ that was that. Bye bye 👋
So he always felt the need to live up to his father's expectations. When he told me he cheated, the automatic response I had was, 'I hope you know how disappointed your dad is for having you as a son', and then I blocked him.
A lot of people think a breakup is the perfect time to discuss issues you've had with each other. It's not. It's a breakup, not a therapy session. If they didn't want to discuss what the issues were before deciding to break up, then that's their issue.
The “other girl” was the one who was kind enough to tell me. She was so scared, but I thanked her and gave her a hug. I kept her out of the breakup conversation bc I knew there was no way she was the only one and I was not about to let him take anything out on her. She saved me from a horrible future. ❤
That's true girls girls attitude from both of you. She got played and she wanted to make it right. But you knew there was a bigger pattern so neither of you were ever the problem and there's nothing to blame on either. 👏 👏 👏
A friend came home unexpectedly at lunch. Caught hubby with the baby sitter. She said, no worries my friend! You can have him! She then proceeded to outline the bill schedule and the school pick up requirements. She then told the babysitter she was actually relieved because she wasn't sure how they were going to pay her this week - and then she handed her the bank statement which said they were overdrawn and she grabbed her purse and walked out the door. 18 months later she was divorced. (And yes, she got the house. And the car. And the bike. And full custody with a very generous child support order😄)
He came clean that he had two girlfriends and that he was choosing her. I told him no problem and I sincerely pray for the best for him (I was genuine, I wasn't even heartbroken just a little disappointed in him as a person). He was surprised that I didn't cry or beg. A month later he came back wanting to get back together but I wasn't having it. I think sometimes when someone cheats you lose respect for them that you don't even care about them anymore. It's like the love just disappears and you're left there just staring at them, like, damn, you're a terrible person, I don't want to be with you.
Bro the only time I got cheated on they told me through a ft call and my response was a sneeze then my mum said my dinner was ready so I was like “aw gotta go mums made me some nuggets” and I hung up I was so happy tho
My autopilot threw my ex into a trashcan at Six Flags. After getting voicemails from him saying he was gonna kill himself, i sent a message to his father saying "your son cheated on me and it now threatening suicide. Do something about it because i am no longer obligated to give a shit.
My autopilot response was also something cold and mechanical when my ex broke up with me (he didn't cheat). I shook hands with him and wished him luck for his future but he held my hand firmly for a second. I tried to pull my hand away, he strengthened his grip more. Then I forcefully pulled my hand out of his and said "there's no point of doing this now". For a moment he was on the verge of tears.
The coldest response I ever saw was a guy in college. His girl cheated on him and he found out but she had no idea he found out. He packed up, moved out and cancelled the lease as it was in his name and she wasn't on it. He left the country and never said a word. Her mind was blown. He ghosted so slick she had no idea what happened until she tried to file a missing person report. She had no idea how he found out but eventually reasoned that was why he left.
When my ex cheated, I said nothing. I literally started packing while he followed me like a puppy dog. He was begging for me to listen and hear him out. I looked at him and was like " I have listened enough and now it's your turn..." Then told him that it was time for him to be alone for a while and it was time for me to leave and move on to better things. I deserved so much better and that I dodged a bullet( we were engaged). He told me I had to take some blame and I was like nah I did all I could to make you happy. I'm not taking blame because you didn't communicate or you didn't care enough about me to just break it off. I was gone by that night when he was at work. I left a note and didn't block him for 24 hours just to see what he would say. I blocked him after and that was that.
@@stress.homework.eat.repeat haha yeah that's basically what I said. He had the opportunity to act like an adult and talk about it if he was having issues and you decided not to do that it is no longer my fault if I didn't receive any communication.
This actually reminds me of my first job. My boss was so abusive. One day she came in and said it would be my last day. I smiled cheerfully, and said, "Ok." She was so confused.
We went out to eat with his mom and I asked him how Ashley was. He stuttered and I turned to his mom and said "Ashley is the girl he decided to cheat on me with. Isn't that something" and she got red hot and said "isacc we will talk about this later" and he stuttered some more and I said "so Sylvia as much as I love you, I won't be your daughter in law anymore and this is the last time we'll be sharing a meal. Your son is a disgusting human being" and she payed for my meal and I went back to their house to collect my things while his grandmother tried to reason with me and then went home, deleted all my social media, changed my number and never spoke to him again.
@@lilSaphyStylinson I still talk to his mom 😂 I moved 12 hours away since then but his mom still checks in every once in a while. I'm married now to someone else 😂 lovely woman. Miss her far more than I ever missed him
I said "ok and?" He was so confused and went into how he'd never do it again. I said, " yeah you will, just not to me". He called me heartless and said i never loved him. Told him that im not heartless but i didn't love him as we had only been together 4 months. Crickets.
my family doesn’t talk to my brother anymore cause he cheated on his wife who he has 2 young kids with and got an STI in the process 🤷♀️ and ofc we talk to his now ex wife she’s like a sister to me now
@@flowflower2816I dont know about you but if one of my family members cheated on someone especially if they have a family with that person. I wouldnt be too pleased with that knowing one of my family members is a scumbag.
@@flowflower2816 because it says a lot about their character as a whole. Who knows maybe the guy was always an asshole and this was the final straw. Also you know those children are a part of that family and they will also have to suffer the consequences of his selfish actions. That would piss me off.
my response was "okay." that was it. he kept going into more and more detail, obviously trying to hurt my feelings, and I just kept repeating "okay" in the calmest voice I could get out. I think my lack of a super emotional response made him pretty mad, and looking back now I am very glad he left because cheating aside, him getting mad over me not sobbing is such a huge red flag.
@@tokillthedragonNot necessarily actually; when it comes to emotional responsivity regarding human psychology, there's a difference between a regulated and mindful response versus unregulated, disproportionate and or impulsive reaction. Being able to take a moment to be logical and calm rather than be controlled by impulse can be a good thing, that many who do dialectical behavioural therapy work towards. It really all just depends on the specifics and situation to situation. I don't think her response was unhealthy, I think if anything it helped to not inflame the situation, and she was able to see what the purpose and intent of her ex was in that moment and expose what he was trying to do.
Logically what would of getting all up in arms have done? Would it have aided in any necessary dialogue? What purpose would it have served? Obviously this may seem almost robotic to think that way, as not everything we say and do is strictally objective driven, sometimes we do just express feelings and there can be value in doing so, but in this case I can't really see a better way of going about it
Nobody is talking about STDs . Its not only about emotion but also about your health . Donno whom they slept with and what they brought so its better to discard the cheater cheater rather than keeping them for your own sake
Yup! That’s EXACTLY how I found out. I’m imunocompromised & ended sick af almost 3 wks before finally going to the ER. He was my 1st monogamous relationship. I let him know he caught something from 1 of his women & should get tested, his responses ranged from the doctors are wrong to I must’ve gotten it from a previous encounter, since he didn’t feel sick & didn’t need to be tested but he never once denied cheating. I get tested every 6mo when active & every yr when celibate, never tested positive for ANYTHING til him. I showed him my previous negative test results & he showed me results for everything but what I had. 😒
I wouldn’t have to worry because I don’t have sex, not till marriage. And yet, people will always say my viewpoint is illogical. Nope. It’s completely logical, smart even. I can walk away from a bad relationship without any worries. No regrets. I get mad for the women who’ve been deceived into thinking freely having sex is wise. Furthest thing from the truth ever.
@@narnia1233 so what happens when your HUSBAND gives you an STD from cheating? What your saying is not logical because sounds childish & ignorant af, people will cheat REGARDLESS of marital status. A cheating spouse is 1 of the most common ways people get STDs, it happens every single day. 🤦🏾♀️ For you to make judgments & derogatory statements about people in a situation you are completely ignorant of, shows nothing but ugliness & God don’t like ugly.
Considering that he was more concerned with the fact that op wasnt crying and /not/ that he couldve hurt op, says a whooole lot about how their relationship was. Props to her autopilot
@@AleV69692omg that’s such an important thing that all of us care about😱 it really doesn’t matter and no one gives a damn. This was never about gender so idk what you’re on.
I said "Thank goodness you're toxic and manipulative I cant even have friends without you scaring them away". Apparently she cried over text and told everyone I was an ass and spread obviously fake rumors about me. She became the "victim" because how dare I not stand up to her and tell her its not ok to manipulate your partner. And how dare I forgive her and move on so quickly because I was so over her. The kicker, how dare I say she could if she wanted to her statement of "Can we still be friends? I dont want to loose you as a friend."
I had a bf he was abusive mentally and physically one day he comes up to me and says “I cheated on you last night” my response was “THANK GOD! GOODBYE LIVE A LIFE OF HELL PLEASE!” Looking back now I am very proud of my response he had been bullying me since 3rd grade and in high school we would only let me where cloths that covered almost all of my skin no matter the temperature we had been dating until 19 we started dating at 15 he had been so abusive towards me it is unbelievable he ended up in Jail for assault the other day and I could not be happier. Idc if you believe this or not.
I got a “I have to come clean. I cheated while we were dating” text from an ex a few years ago. My unfiltered response to being woken up by such a text in the odd hours of the night was literally “all good in the hood tho” They had blocked me by the morning Lmaoo.
You are too sweet and nice, becuz fuck dat... I say let her FAAFO... I didn't tell my ex's new squeeze, and she'll find out eventually... more power to her if she can deal with it.
Cheaters desperately need to feel needed and desired and shit on everyone who cares about them genuinely to chase skin deep validation. Deep down they know they aren’t worth anything and can’t fathom someone mirroring that back at them
A coworker of mine learned her husband cheated on her. 2 days later, while he was at work, she hired 30+ men to take out everything in their house (she bought everything in it). And when I say everything, I mean everything! From the carpet, tiles, staircase railing, fence, lightbulbs, doors, everything! The mf came home to a cave lol 😂 Ps: to be clear, my friend's family gifted them the house when they got married and she bought everything in it (all the appliances and fixtures) except his PS5, which is also the only thing he wanted back lol. If it isn't obvious yet, she's very well off, and he isn't. She makes approx 5x as much as him, so she rightfully took away the luxury he's living in the moment she discovered his cheating escapades. Now, the house is on the market and my friend is happily single lol.
I told him "now at least I know why your breath always stunk" He legit tried to defend him brushing his teeth versus the cheating. Your auto pilot is tuned just right.
I was never cheated on but I did have one guy break up with me at a bus stop with one of my students standing there… I looked at him calmly and just said, “ok,” as the bus rolled up, got into the bus with my student, and went and sat down… my student, meanwhile, was like, “you’re so cool!” Lol I hope she learned something from me that day. Never let a crappy man make you cry.
@@Marynicole830 he wasn’t the brightest guy in the world and had some anxiety issues… he also didn’t know that was my student… but ya, lousy place to do it. He ended up stalking me later on trying to get back with me. -_-“
I think you should probably search up a good recipe for chocolate cookies and put some frozen nutella in them. So scoop up some nutella and freeze it, and then put it in the cookie while forming it. As for the cookies, you don't want anything that spreads too much or is going to be crunchy.
It’s most likely just a chocolate cookie filled with ganache, there’s a recipe for it in the pinned comments replies, it’s the first recipe that should show up.
Not over the cheating, which he didn't admit to until much later, but after not getting his way, he (husband and father of my 3 kids) threatened me with, "Fine, I'm leaving, I'm taking my name off the lease, and you can figure shit out on your own!" and I responded, "I think that's a good idea." He did. And I did. Like a boss. To this day, he tells people I kicked him out.
I turned round and said, "Good for you now, get your shit and get out of my house." I took him in because he ended up homeless 3 months into the relationship. He basically just used me. He cried, I didn't. He couldn't understand how I didn't feel hurt after 7 months together, i was hurt, but i wasn't going to give him the satisfaction. But I'd been suspecting for some time, so i worked out most of my feelings beforehand, it wasmore a relief then anything. So I put on my big girl pants and sorted it.
My ex cheated on me with my friend. She always talked about how handsome he was, and I knew something like that would happen eventually, given he always wanted her around. When he told me he cheated on me, I said “I know, she really likes you, good luck though, she’s a cheater too.” And walked away. One year later, she cheated on him and he lost all his friends, his best friend won’t even talk to him anymore, and he still thinks that I’ll want him back. Update: He got suspended for fighting the guy my ex best friend cheated on him with, and I got a new boyfriend 🥰
Looks like he purposely wanted to hurt her and was happy about his actions and I am sure therefore he is a complete narcissist. The girl‘s reaction was PERFECT because that‘s exactly how you can hurt and make a narcissist mad, by making them feel little and acting careless. Good job👏🏻
My ex cheated on me with his ex on valentine's day. Our mutual friends told me, and he said it happened because I wasn't giving him enough attention. He was expecting me to be super upset and apologetic for neglecting him and "forcing" him to cheat. I just shrugged and said it would have been easier if he just said he wanted to break up. I told him from the start that I don't date cheaters. He was really freaked out that I just didn't care, he cried when I told him I didn't care because I didn't love him.
@twinkles5114 What made it worse was that we had been friends before. So he knew I had a bit of a disconnect when it came to people. He just wanted an excuse to sleep with his ex.
My ex cheated on me with a freshman i was in school with and was good friends with (i was 17, he was 18 but she was 14). So i used his phone, screenshot his conversations that had evidence they had sex and sent them to myself to give to her parents which they pressed charges. My last message to him was "I had loved you so much once, that just knowing what you did a part of me died inside. So since you left me to rot, I'll make sure you burn." He was charged with statutory rape, having nudes of an underaged girl and sex with a minor and i changed schools
@@mrpickles-hb6zxyes but it’s not exactly always the child’s fault. They don’t always understand how bad it is. Their brains and emotional intelligence aren’t fully developed and they are definitely way more irrational due to puberty. Not to mention older creeps can be disgustingly manipulative. If she was upset I blame the world around her rather than her herself. No child should be victim blamed for being raped or groomed.
They are sadistic. They truly enjoy causing you pain. He didn’t tell her out of love he did it just to hurt her. He wanted to see her break down and cry. There are sociopaths who love to torture their victims aka you
So he didn't cheat on me, but manipulated and gaslit me to heck during our relationship. One day he snapchatted me (yes, you read that right) and said he doesn't have feelings for me anymore. I am honestly still shocked at my autopilot response to this day, simply because I was so manipulated I literally had a meltdown just a few day earlier over thinking he was going to dump me. But when he actually did, I called him and completely calmly without tears told him in detail how much of a crap person and boyfriend he was. I didn't even raise my voice, I just read a mental list to him about eveything wrong with him. Since he had manipulated me for so long and I had never reacted this way before, he was silent the whole time. I ended it with "I just thought you should know these impairments of yours, bye" and hung up. I did immediately start crying after I hung up (probably because my brain started funtioning normally again) but it is still something I am proud of.
@@tshiololiai6135 Nope, I suspect he was too ashamed. I did get karma though, as he ended up getting back together with his completely insane ex girlfriend and I found a wonderful partner. We have been together for almost 3 years now, so I would say everything worked out:)
"Okay." Just one word made he go through so many emotions and uno reverses without me saying anything else. After watching for 5 minutes and thinking, "This is really interesting," I got up and walked. She started ywlling something, but I was too busy wondering if I could still grill a steak (it was after 7 PM) or if I had to cook it a different way. Ended up frying it in garlic butter, paprika, salt, and basil. It was really good.
I told him I'd be disrespecting myself if I continue to stay with him. He smirked and said ok, I'll go back to my gf. I said, see. Win win. All the best. Went to make lunch for him and kids and flew out the next day to Morocco for a nice holiday.😂❤🎉
Reminds me of my ex always having a breakdown and basically guilting me into staying with her. We had a long distance relationship going when the big C hit and it basically killed what little was left of the relationship. They tell me “We need to talk” and all I could think was “Finally….”. The conversation after was just them saying “I think we should break up” and me agreeing in the most neutral tone I ever had to this day
I didn't cry either when i found out my ex cheated. And then he tried to turn it around against me and said i wasn't crying because i already had someone else and how i was leaving him for that person, because if i really loved him i would forgive his "mistake" and then he cried. I just said "i'm sorry, but i'm going to choose myself". I was just really tired of this emotional blackmail he would pull on me everytime we had a fight, guess i wanted him gone too.
I’m not proud of it now and I know two wrongs don’t make a right. My ex cheated on me and when I found out I was angry and hurt. He didn’t seem too bothered, for obvious reasons. So when I asked him how he would feel if I did it to him he said he wouldn’t care. So instead of breaking up with him right there I just decided I’d find out if he meant it. A few months went by and a guy I had the biggest crush on for years came into town. We hung out and then made out. I told my bf the next day. He cried and yelled how could I do that to him. All I said was “I thought you wouldn’t care”. At the time I felt so good for hurting him the way he hurt me but now I just wish I had left instead.
My coldest response was "FINALLY! I DON'T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU ANYMORE! GO RUIN SOMEONE ELSE'S LIFE!" And left the burger king. Few hours later I get a call from "him" saying he wants me back and he was crying and said that i was acting like i never loved him. 😂
I once got asked when I was younger the same question „Why aren’t you crying?“ just so I could answer him with „I just realised that this wasn’t love. It was just boredom…“ and that was what made me sad. Cuz I really hoped I could fall in love with someone but just ended up with many guys I had to confess that it was boredom and loneliness. 😅
That's when you know you've already emotionally detached. My ex told me he'd cheated on me (got a 15 year old pregnant, he was 23) and wanted to break up, I just said "yeah, sure" and got out his car. You could see he was all puffed up woth some speech to try and explain things, apologise etc and how annoyed he was that he didn't get to say any of it
Everyone wants the soul-crushing comeback to leave the offending party in tears but in reality, denying them the pleasure of seeing you hurt is enough.
I'm so sorry that happened, did you carry around something to defend yourself with, call the police or your building, are you in need of anything now because of it?
@@tourmelion9221 it was when I was much younger so he followed me around everyday after college for 2 years, pranked me with vile words, just so many stalkish things. I was pretty much alone because my family weren't that nice to me back then so I knew it would backfire on me if I told them. I had to painfully wait it out until it died down. Somehow when I started Uni, he seemed to disappear.
The last straw was, “no you didn’t. You were single, we’re over.” But I couldn’t get in touch with him and he tried to pull, “what if I was cheating on you the whole time?”
She's truly closer to enlightenment than most of us. The truth is, brothers and sisters, your peace of mind is the most precious thing you have. No cheater should be able to take it away from you.
this reminds me of a cheating story my grandma told me once, to clarify she got married to my grandfather when she was 18, and gave birth to my mom when she was 19. and this happened when my mom was 2 years old. after being suspicious of her husband for leaving so early in the morning and coming so late at night, she ultimately found a bra that didn’t belong to her in her husband’s stuff, she told me she took a bus, went up to her husband’s office building, walked in on him cheating with his secretary, walked to him and slapped him across the face. she told me the secretary got very embarrassed and quickly left, while she sat down and talked to her husband. she gave him two options: either they get divorced and she gets full custody of her child (my mom) and he leaves and gets with his secretary or this will be the only time he’ll ever cheat. apparently soon after that he fired that secretary and never cheated again for as long as he lived. she said she kept him around because he was the breadwinner of the house and she had two kids to take care of. i asked her how she managed to be so calm and collected and she replied with “what woman would i be if i let a man do whatever he wanted with me. my worth is more than that of a man” 💗
I doubt that he never cheated again, maybe he did it more carefully. Cheaters are not to be trusted anymore. But I understand that she was financially dependent on him (those times, women often were) and thats why she did not leave this piece of trash.
@@dr.bartfratze9354 I understand when people say if someone cheats once they'll likely cheat again but tbh I think it couldn't be IMPOSSIBLE that someone cheats only once. I think it's possible just because the notion that it's impossible sounds ridiculous to me. Like if someone does it once they must have some sort of physical compulsion to do it again. I assume there are a lot of factors which could play into that and having had cheated once is like the tip of the iceberg, the red flag pointing to deeper issues, but deeper issues CAN be resolved.
Based on personal experience by seeing my dad , after getting caught he was just like your grand dad saying he would never repeat but again the 2nd time when he got caught he went to an extent of getting 2nd marriage secretly . That's just how they are . Just imagine if he went to the extent of marriage since how early he started to cheat again on my mom . They don't stop but make sure to be extra careful that's all so as to not get caught like the first time. They don't regret cheating They regret getting caught
its always wild to me when someone initiates a breakup and gets offended when the other person isnt heartbroken or crying. like, YOURE the one breaking up with THEM, why are you so offended by the fact that they dgaf 😂😂
When people pull that kind of stuff I think deep down they want their partner to beg them to stay. All because they were still indecisive about the relationship. Or they use it as a manipulation tactic to make their partner change in an area that was problematic in the first place and have some kind of control over the situation.
@@kaygrrl9004I wonder if it's because they want an ego boost too. There's different personalities in everyone and the main 3 when it comes to cheating is egotistical assholes, and the 2 you mentioned. It's f'd up nonetheless.
Because they didn't actually want to break up, they wanted their partner "do whatever it takes" to keep them. I've been the calm one in that situation twice.
Well sometimes, when they actually care thry might just be genuinely confused because they thought things were good and think that means you should feel sad and thus cry. Perhaps they would cry if you cheated on them.
By this point i already knew he had cheated but said nothing, wanted to see if he was going to be brave and admit it or be a coward and keep lying. Rung me a few days after, my mum picked up for me cause i asked her to as was busy and he didnt even make sure it was me, just straight up started saying he'd cheated and was sorry and wouldnt do it again. My mum said "its your boyfriend, he cheated on you im so sorry love". Me while he could hear me over the phone: okay can you just hang up i dont really care right now im trying to cook and need my phone to check the recipe again. My mum was so shocked that it didnt even phase me, i just laughed infront of my carbonara thinking of who the poor girl was that he slept with
@@hotbread1004sometimes they leave a trail (you might see a weird text notification on their phone or the person may leave an item/piece of clothing or sometimes even accidentally reveal on social media). You might also hear from the person they cheated with or somebody that caught them
The second you cheat one someone you're no longer worth crying over, her response was so cold and so deserved. Love that he got angry because she obviously wasn't even sad to see him go.
When he went, "Why aren't you crying?" That tells me he WANTED to hurt her and was baffled and/or annoyed that it failed. She didnt get cheated on, she dodged a bullet. From a howitzer.
I said "okay" thats it just "okay" and they were so confused and asked me if i was okay. Went on to say they just didnt feel the same about me anymore and all i said was "okay" they started crying saying that i didnt even care or want to stay with them so i replied with "well theres nothing i can do about it. You choose this. And i dont want to fight if you arent in it" And then i hung up and went to work
My ex cheated on me and called me a S lut. The audacity this mf had 😂 Well he cheated and got caught red handed, then told me i was the problem nve gave him attention and always "looked out " i didn't say anything and told him " okay " with the most genuine smile i could muster and said "well u called me s lut so .... and i kissed his best friend right in front of him" ( he kissed me back) well he had hots for me from the start and I knew that so when i kissed him it was also because my ex hated it and looked like he could snap my neck 😂 i love how my autopilot handled it ....later i cut off all connections from them and im happier now apart from my trust issues
I already knew he was cheating on me. The chick he created on me with texted me a month before. Her and I are still great friends and he's in a "situation ship" and keeps complaining to our mutual friends about it.
@@veronicarodriguez1697 If it’s the first thing the other girl did after finding out he had another girlfriend that that’s a big green flag that she immediately told OP tbh
I remember this line from a sitcom. This woman told her husband "Just so you know, I'm sleeping with your lawyer". His response was "I know. He's billing me for it."
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@@AskRedditZone thank you 😊
Daaaammmnn this girl's autopilot is a self respecting boss
How the fuck do you get 1500 likes and no comments this is insanely rare
Are the replies broke or some
Self respecting but put up with him lmao yall delusional
@@batsparentsdiedblud what 💀? It's giving special needs
Special needs does not mean bad
anyone who says "why aren't you crying" after telling you they cheated on you is an immediate red flag (though cheating by itself is pretty bad lol)
It’s like me after leaving my toxic friend after so long and they’re like why don’t you miss me/ cry about me?
Because “I cheated” isn’t a big enough red flag, huh? Lmao
So you can’t read is what you’re saying 😭
@@isitoveryet9525 lil bro cannot read
Yup, clear example he was cheating for attention
My response was "cool, have a nice life." to which she got mad and asked "oh so you don't even care huh?" so I told her "Yep. Why would I give a fuck about losing something worthless?"
Oh look! You dropped something ->👑
Ohh damn she got roasted over a fire on a spit
That is a solid burn and an epic mic drop.
This should be the ideal way to deal with cheaters. People normally become very emotional and understandably so. You invest so much time in someone and they decide that you're not worth their loyalty. It hurts and you can't be expected to get over it so quickly. Being able to get over a cheater like this is highly admirable, since it's so much easier to not care yet people still do
888th like so thats cool. but besides that that responce is amazing. top tier. never let someone worthless way you down
I auto yelled "Freedom!" and hung up. lol I never expected that from me and I still feel that was the most out of character moment I ever had but there it was.
Lmfao What happened after that? Did they ever try to contact you back? 😂
I WANT THE FULL STORY NOW
@@kohaiame2691 They did contact me again 3 times. But before that, he called my parents (we are both adults in our 20s) and explained everything to them to try and control the narrative lol. They didn't believe a single thing he said because it made no sense. Then he called me, a day after to tell me he was still with the side chick and it was much better now that he wasn't having to be sneaky. He said "Thanks for leaving." which was his petty play but that's okay I didn't care at that point. The second time was to tell me he was over me 5 days later. And the third was 2 weeks later to tell me he was going on a date with someone else (not the one he cheated with) and all the ways she was better than I was. I laughed, and he got angry with me and hung up. He has only tried to contact me once after that, to tell me I ruined his family because his mom doesn't like anyone else he dates anymore and that I needed to talk to her. Again, I laughed and he hung up.
@@tarquinioprisco8459 It's a 9-month relationship, there's too much story. But the summary is I had an unhealthy desire to help people who self-sabotage. That's since changed. He couldn't hold a job, and though he 'wanted to work' he would never successfully find a place that would take him. I found 3 separate jobs for him and every time he would get fired for skipping work to party. I was stupidly paying his rent and food and being his driver, as well as, on occasion, his friend's gas. The money that he did make he spent on alcohol and eventually drugs, because he used it all immediately as play money I always covered his living expenses. Eventually, he got hooked on cocaine, and while I paid for rehab and therapy he got angry at me and told me to stop trying to change him. I said that, that was fine but I couldn't permanently support his lifestyle so if he wasn't going to make changes I would stop paying his way. That's the night he went to a party and found his side piece. I never slept with him because I personally would rather only have one partner in my life so I have to be married first. So I guess that's how he justified that relationship. But he would always catch her at parties because I never go to parties it's just not my vibe.
Anyway, 2 months later I sat down with him and told him that if our relationship was going to last we had to figure out what we wanted our future to look like and what changes would have to be made, especially if we ever wanted to have a family which we both did. He got angry and stormed off. Later that night he gave me that call to tell me he had been cheating. I guess I knew on some level because I was not at all surprised. So yeah. I was trying to help, and ended up too forceful in my attempts I think, because he pushed back, hard. He wanted an easy life, but with reign to make any choice he wanted at any point in time regardless of morality or even his health and when it became clear we hit the point where he had to choose between doing whatever he wanted at any point in time and having an easy and secure life he chose the more harmful of the two.
😂😂😂😂 please tell me that he lost his mind
"Why aren't you crying" probably is the most narcissistic, egotistical and downright selfish question you can get from a person that's cheating.
Yeah. He wanted her to have a breakdown. To cry. To probably beg him to stay. Its ego.
i think he was more so preapred for a normal human reaction. i don't think he wanted her to cry. its the idea of having to break bad news to people and expecting 1 reaction...
@@Animegeek770it’s gross to cheat on someone and then ask why they aren’t crying right afterwards. Even if you wonder based on a level of personal curiosity, you just have to have some real audacity to ask that. “I wounded and betrayed you, why are you not physically sad now?” Like what
Nah fr… I’m so glad she didn’t cry bc it would’ve filled his ego
im disgusted at that part too
When an ex texted me evidence of him cheating by mistake I said, “if you’re going to cheat, do it better.”
Why did I cackle when I read this-
lmfao 🤣
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You dropped this 👑
LMAOOO 😂😂
Found out my ex was cheating on me through a friend who had seen a girl calling him her boyfriend. I wanted the full story so I arranged a meeting between us. We met up, and immediately I told her "I'm not going to fight you, it's clear he's fooled both of us. If you still want him, he's all yours." But the girl also was angry so we decided we'd confront him together and I scheduled a date with him. She and I dressed the exact same and showed up together, to which his face was absolutely priceless. Nice and public, but we didn't yell at him, just kindly thanked him for being the reason why we became friends with each other and walked out of the restaurant.
Now that is epic.
my mum got a best friend out of her now ex's gf list haha
It's called a Brandy-Monica-Maneuver😅
I love when women become besties/date after same ex
this literally sounds like something from a movie. i’m so happy for you 😭.
I told him from day one that if he cheated, it would be over and there would be no second chances. Well, he cheated with his ex, I told him it was over, and like a month later he messaged me begging to take him back and i just coldly reminded him that I had warned him about cheating. I respect myself too much to take a cheater back.
Thanks, kind person, for giving me an idea how to handle such situations when it happen (though we can agree that it is for the best that it should not happen at all.)
man, he only had ONE job
based
He was tryna test you smh men are really something else
"Why arent you crying?" Nahh, he wanted her to have a breakdown over him. And he was offended when she didn't. Totally deserved 👏
God bless❤
Narcissist
Its fake
She probably was crying inside, a lot
This what most dudes who cheat want deep down inside
He was like “I technically cheated on you”, and I was like “then we’re technically over.”
no bc what did he even try to say with “technically”💀
Hard hope you are good without him ❤
@@vfxgolden ohhh definitely! He got the next girl pregnant right away 😅
@@CestLaaaViePoor girl😂 I cannot imagine to have a kid with somebody who cannot be loyal to his girl.
good to hear that you're good@@CestLaaaVie
Translation: Narcissist lost his mind when she didn’t react the way he wanted
They want a reaction and when they don't get it, they throw a temper tantrum.
"Why would someone like me cry over someone like you?"
I know he lays awake at night w that line running through his head💀
"lmao I know. She told me. Good luck." She completely ruined his reputation and we're still friends.
you and her or you and him?
@@aelsaellie well the girl found out he was cheating on both of us and we were both being played. Contacted me through a mutual friend. We both broke up with him, and she completely trashed his reputation. And then me and her are still friends
@@Thatonewattpadauthorthat’s pretty awesome, good on you guys!
That's metal af I love it
@@Thatonewattpadauthor ooooh
pretty cool ngl
I once heard someone say that when someone cheats on you, it’s because they still need something from you, hence why they didn’t break up before going for the other person. So the best way to hurt them, is to act like you don’t care at all, don’t scream, don’t shout, don’t cry in front of them. Just pack up and walk away.
Yes o heard usually they are getting 80% of their needs met by their partner and 20% by the affair partner. So they don't leave the 80% for the 20%. Once you realise and move on they are left with someone who they never really wanted.
@@miriam9419yeah the whole point of cheating is getting that one urgent need from someone else instead of your S/O and talking it though with them 💀
This is why i was so mad at my ex best friend for crying over her ex who she thought cheated on her.
@@taiganb3463
Yes, it is slightly easier to get from someone else than their partner so they go with that. If they had put the same effort into their relationship they could meet 98% of their needs but instead they go with the option that hurts people.
@@yell0w-man
Maybe I misunderstood your comment but I would also cry if I thought my partner cheated on me.
My boyfriend of 6 years came up to me one day and told me he was cheating on me. My response was “okay, hope you had fun” and smiled. He asked why I was acting like it was fine and I told him I wouldn’t waste my time with him anymore than I have. I kicked him out of my house and that was the end.
In my early twenties, I came home once to it happening . They stopped and looked at me. I smiled and said, “hey guys I just got off work early-“ left the room, came back with a cast iron pan leaned in the bedroom door and looked at them , saying, “ you have 29 seconds to get out of the house. One-“
that was that. Bye bye 👋
Had this happen to me too, probably the worst way to find out.
Woah-
So he always felt the need to live up to his father's expectations. When he told me he cheated, the automatic response I had was, 'I hope you know how disappointed your dad is for having you as a son', and then I blocked him.
Perfect. Per-fect.
Savage!
Damm that was such a badass move
Oooooph!!!!! The petty part of me loves this!!!!!
damn that's pretty good
Nahh because some dude broke up with me and my response was to just say, ok, and he got so pissed at me.
This made me laugh. Bro basically got a "k" response in real life 🤣
Lol
A lot of people think a breakup is the perfect time to discuss issues you've had with each other. It's not. It's a breakup, not a therapy session. If they didn't want to discuss what the issues were before deciding to break up, then that's their issue.
NO CAUSE THAT HAPPENED TO ME AS WELL!?!?
@@kitganrice8323literally, either communicate or good riddance.
The “other girl” was the one who was kind enough to tell me. She was so scared, but I thanked her and gave her a hug. I kept her out of the breakup conversation bc I knew there was no way she was the only one and I was not about to let him take anything out on her. She saved me from a horrible future. ❤
That's true girls girls attitude from both of you. She got played and she wanted to make it right. But you knew there was a bigger pattern so neither of you were ever the problem and there's nothing to blame on either. 👏 👏 👏
A friend came home unexpectedly at lunch. Caught hubby with the baby sitter. She said, no worries my friend! You can have him! She then proceeded to outline the bill schedule and the school pick up requirements. She then told the babysitter she was actually relieved because she wasn't sure how they were going to pay her this week - and then she handed her the bank statement which said they were overdrawn and she grabbed her purse and walked out the door. 18 months later she was divorced. (And yes, she got the house. And the car. And the bike. And full custody with a very generous child support order😄)
He came clean that he had two girlfriends and that he was choosing her. I told him no problem and I sincerely pray for the best for him (I was genuine, I wasn't even heartbroken just a little disappointed in him as a person). He was surprised that I didn't cry or beg. A month later he came back wanting to get back together but I wasn't having it.
I think sometimes when someone cheats you lose respect for them that you don't even care about them anymore. It's like the love just disappears and you're left there just staring at them, like, damn, you're a terrible person, I don't want to be with you.
😂
As I read this, I feel a sense of numbness, similar to what I felt in my situationship. Good on you
The opposite of love is indifference, not hatred. So makes sense.
@@MsDreaGet ready for nonstop cheating on you then
Yeah, the love automatically turns to disgust.
Bro the only time I got cheated on they told me through a ft call and my response was a sneeze then my mum said my dinner was ready so I was like “aw gotta go mums made me some nuggets” and I hung up I was so happy tho
This is the best one loll, the indifference is crazy😂
I know they stared at the phone for a few seconds questioning what just happened 😂
Bro was unfazed
i love this akjdkd xd
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My autopilot threw my ex into a trashcan at Six Flags. After getting voicemails from him saying he was gonna kill himself, i sent a message to his father saying "your son cheated on me and it now threatening suicide. Do something about it because i am no longer obligated to give a shit.
Respect
My autopilot response was also something cold and mechanical when my ex broke up with me (he didn't cheat). I shook hands with him and wished him luck for his future but he held my hand firmly for a second. I tried to pull my hand away, he strengthened his grip more. Then I forcefully pulled my hand out of his and said "there's no point of doing this now". For a moment he was on the verge of tears.
That's a power move
Wow.
Autopilot do be crazy
The coldest response I ever saw was a guy in college. His girl cheated on him and he found out but she had no idea he found out. He packed up, moved out and cancelled the lease as it was in his name and she wasn't on it. He left the country and never said a word. Her mind was blown. He ghosted so slick she had no idea what happened until she tried to file a missing person report. She had no idea how he found out but eventually reasoned that was why he left.
Damn wow
My dude ninja vanished
country you know lol
POV my dad
Bro vanished
When my ex cheated, I said nothing. I literally started packing while he followed me like a puppy dog. He was begging for me to listen and hear him out. I looked at him and was like " I have listened enough and now it's your turn..." Then told him that it was time for him to be alone for a while and it was time for me to leave and move on to better things. I deserved so much better and that I dodged a bullet( we were engaged). He told me I had to take some blame and I was like nah I did all I could to make you happy. I'm not taking blame because you didn't communicate or you didn't care enough about me to just break it off. I was gone by that night when he was at work. I left a note and didn't block him for 24 hours just to see what he would say. I blocked him after and that was that.
Hold up he tried to make you feel like shit by saying that you should take some blame💀💀
@@N3LLO._that dude had issues 💀
"u should take some blame" bish i didnt cheat U did
@@stress.homework.eat.repeat haha yeah that's basically what I said. He had the opportunity to act like an adult and talk about it if he was having issues and you decided not to do that it is no longer my fault if I didn't receive any communication.
@@TrashCatGangThis. I hate when cheaters try to put the blame on others just to make themselves feel less guilty.
This actually reminds me of my first job. My boss was so abusive. One day she came in and said it would be my last day. I smiled cheerfully, and said, "Ok." She was so confused.
Wow. That's awesome, I love it!!
I've had an ex ask me the same thing, I just went "I have to care to cry" He did not like that one little bit and it still makes me laugh 😂😂😅😅
We went out to eat with his mom and I asked him how Ashley was. He stuttered and I turned to his mom and said "Ashley is the girl he decided to cheat on me with. Isn't that something" and she got red hot and said "isacc we will talk about this later" and he stuttered some more and I said "so Sylvia as much as I love you, I won't be your daughter in law anymore and this is the last time we'll be sharing a meal. Your son is a disgusting human being" and she payed for my meal and I went back to their house to collect my things while his grandmother tried to reason with me and then went home, deleted all my social media, changed my number and never spoke to him again.
boss move
@@lilSaphyStylinson I still talk to his mom 😂 I moved 12 hours away since then but his mom still checks in every once in a while. I'm married now to someone else 😂 lovely woman. Miss her far more than I ever missed him
You are amazing 😂❤
i think u dropped this at the restaurant 👑
I can't with how happy I am after reading this, idk why but I feel so good for you girl!!!! 😭❤✋
I said "ok and?" He was so confused and went into how he'd never do it again. I said, " yeah you will, just not to me". He called me heartless and said i never loved him. Told him that im not heartless but i didn't love him as we had only been together 4 months. Crickets.
For months and he already cheated? Wow you really dodged that bullet! (I don’t know if it’s correct English is not my first language)
The audacity , he went from sorry to angry and making u the bad person WTF😂
@@DanielaHPerezeverything was perfect, but it should be “four”(4) instead of “for.” Great job 👏
@@soggyramenbowlThis is how males are, bizarre. 😄
@@oOIIIMIIIOomore like their thick ego.
Being cheated on isn’t as bad as STAYING with someone who cheated on you, that’s why it feels good to ditch them.
My response - "No way same bro!"
my family doesn’t talk to my brother anymore cause he cheated on his wife who he has 2 young kids with and got an STI in the process 🤷♀️ and ofc we talk to his now ex wife she’s like a sister to me now
Goof for the family!
Why do you even care if he cheated or not? I can't fathom why anyone but the lover would care
@@flowflower2816I dont know about you but if one of my family members cheated on someone especially if they have a family with that person. I wouldnt be too pleased with that knowing one of my family members is a scumbag.
@@flowflower2816 because it says a lot about their character as a whole. Who knows maybe the guy was always an asshole and this was the final straw. Also you know those children are a part of that family and they will also have to suffer the consequences of his selfish actions. That would piss me off.
@@flowflower2816maybe because that's her nieces or nephews mum?
my response was "okay." that was it. he kept going into more and more detail, obviously trying to hurt my feelings, and I just kept repeating "okay" in the calmest voice I could get out. I think my lack of a super emotional response made him pretty mad, and looking back now I am very glad he left because cheating aside, him getting mad over me not sobbing is such a huge red flag.
What a terrible piece of a human he was, eew!
Okay but you DID have an emotional response. Your response just indicates that you have learned to suppress strong negative emotions.
@@tokillthedragon You people just _love_ to gaslight, don't you?
@@tokillthedragonNot necessarily actually; when it comes to emotional responsivity regarding human psychology, there's a difference between a regulated and mindful response versus unregulated, disproportionate and or impulsive reaction. Being able to take a moment to be logical and calm rather than be controlled by impulse can be a good thing, that many who do dialectical behavioural therapy work towards. It really all just depends on the specifics and situation to situation. I don't think her response was unhealthy, I think if anything it helped to not inflame the situation, and she was able to see what the purpose and intent of her ex was in that moment and expose what he was trying to do.
Logically what would of getting all up in arms have done? Would it have aided in any necessary dialogue? What purpose would it have served? Obviously this may seem almost robotic to think that way, as not everything we say and do is strictally objective driven, sometimes we do just express feelings and there can be value in doing so, but in this case I can't really see a better way of going about it
Nobody is talking about STDs . Its not only about emotion but also about your health . Donno whom they slept with and what they brought so its better to discard the cheater cheater rather than keeping them for your own sake
Yup! That’s EXACTLY how I found out. I’m imunocompromised & ended sick af almost 3 wks before finally going to the ER. He was my 1st monogamous relationship. I let him know he caught something from 1 of his women & should get tested, his responses ranged from the doctors are wrong to I must’ve gotten it from a previous encounter, since he didn’t feel sick & didn’t need to be tested but he never once denied cheating. I get tested every 6mo when active & every yr when celibate, never tested positive for ANYTHING til him. I showed him my previous negative test results & he showed me results for everything but what I had. 😒
I wouldn’t have to worry because I don’t have sex, not till marriage. And yet, people will always say my viewpoint is illogical. Nope. It’s completely logical, smart even.
I can walk away from a bad relationship without any worries. No regrets.
I get mad for the women who’ve been deceived into thinking freely having sex is wise. Furthest thing from the truth ever.
@@jlynn8707 so he was cheating !
@@narnia1233 what if it happens after marriage? Cheater are always cheaters be it before or after marriage
@@narnia1233 so what happens when your HUSBAND gives you an STD from cheating?
What your saying is not logical because sounds childish & ignorant af, people will cheat REGARDLESS of marital status. A cheating spouse is 1 of the most common ways people get STDs, it happens every single day. 🤦🏾♀️
For you to make judgments & derogatory statements about people in a situation you are completely ignorant of, shows nothing but ugliness & God don’t like ugly.
Considering that he was more concerned with the fact that op wasnt crying and /not/ that he couldve hurt op, says a whooole lot about how their relationship was. Props to her autopilot
“Why would someone like me cry over someone like you?” YAS QUEEN
Fatality
King👑. Op never mentioned the cheater's sexuality
@@AleV69692omg that’s such an important thing that all of us care about😱 it really doesn’t matter and no one gives a damn. This was never about gender so idk what you’re on.
@@RexTheTRex.why you so pressed. Calm down Billy
@@RexTheTRex. 😂😂😂 Someone got offended. You REALLY hate bisexual relationships that much?😂😂😂
I said "Thank goodness you're toxic and manipulative I cant even have friends without you scaring them away". Apparently she cried over text and told everyone I was an ass and spread obviously fake rumors about me. She became the "victim" because how dare I not stand up to her and tell her its not ok to manipulate your partner. And how dare I forgive her and move on so quickly because I was so over her. The kicker, how dare I say she could if she wanted to her statement of "Can we still be friends? I dont want to loose you as a friend."
Did anything come of the rumors
That woman is a narcissist. Do NOT be her friend!! RUN!
Her: can we still be friends
Me:🤣 Haha bitch hell no!😡
So did u cheat on her?
I had a bf he was abusive mentally and physically one day he comes up to me and says “I cheated on you last night” my response was “THANK GOD! GOODBYE LIVE A LIFE OF HELL PLEASE!” Looking back now I am very proud of my response he had been bullying me since 3rd grade and in high school we would only let me where cloths that covered almost all of my skin no matter the temperature we had been dating until 19 we started dating at 15 he had been so abusive towards me it is unbelievable he ended up in Jail for assault the other day and I could not be happier. Idc if you believe this or not.
I got a “I have to come clean. I cheated while we were dating” text from an ex a few years ago. My unfiltered response to being woken up by such a text in the odd hours of the night was literally “all good in the hood tho”
They had blocked me by the morning Lmaoo.
"Why aren't you crying?" He deliberately wanted to hurt you, I'd get in contact with the cheatee and tell her what a massive red flag he is.
You are too sweet and nice, becuz fuck dat... I say let her FAAFO... I didn't tell my ex's new squeeze, and she'll find out eventually... more power to her if she can deal with it.
Cheaters desperately need to feel needed and desired and shit on everyone who cares about them genuinely to chase skin deep validation. Deep down they know they aren’t worth anything and can’t fathom someone mirroring that back at them
exactly!!😂😂😂
YESSSSSSSS
U said it best boo 🙌
It’s truly a sad cycle to see happen for both parties involved
@@Box_creature
Both parties aren’t in a circle.
Just the 🤡 who cheats.
Hopefully one is smart enough to say “see ya”!
A coworker of mine learned her husband cheated on her. 2 days later, while he was at work, she hired 30+ men to take out everything in their house (she bought everything in it). And when I say everything, I mean everything! From the carpet, tiles, staircase railing, fence, lightbulbs, doors, everything! The mf came home to a cave lol 😂
Ps: to be clear, my friend's family gifted them the house when they got married and she bought everything in it (all the appliances and fixtures) except his PS5, which is also the only thing he wanted back lol. If it isn't obvious yet, she's very well off, and he isn't. She makes approx 5x as much as him, so she rightfully took away the luxury he's living in the moment she discovered his cheating escapades. Now, the house is on the market and my friend is happily single lol.
I don’t even know this woman and she’s my hero. YES! I bet he was GAGGED 😭😭😭
Make sure your coworker knows she’s a fucking queen 😂❤
Boss Mama
LMAO
This scene can be added to a movie 🎬
I told him "now at least I know why your breath always stunk" He legit tried to defend him brushing his teeth versus the cheating.
Your auto pilot is tuned just right.
Ofc she was relieved. The trash take itself out without her lifting a hand. 😂
I was never cheated on but I did have one guy break up with me at a bus stop with one of my students standing there… I looked at him calmly and just said, “ok,” as the bus rolled up, got into the bus with my student, and went and sat down… my student, meanwhile, was like, “you’re so cool!” Lol I hope she learned something from me that day. Never let a crappy man make you cry.
Why would he ever choose that time to break up with you?! He wanted to humiliate you bro. Men really do suck sometimes.
Probably the best lesson you ever taught
Like a boss 🤝
@@Marynicole830 he wasn’t the brightest guy in the world and had some anxiety issues… he also didn’t know that was my student… but ya, lousy place to do it. He ended up stalking me later on trying to get back with me. -_-“
@@Elizabeth84517 yup! I so hope she never forgot that lesson. :3
Mine was “oh thank god, now I can break up with you without seeming like the villain”
You can always break up with someone. Don't let becoming a "villain" stop you. Some people just aren't meant for each other, and that's 100% okay!
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
BRUH U SLAYED THAT
GOD THAT FIRST COOKIE MADE MY MOUTH WATER 😭
Right? I’ve been scrolling the comments trying to figure out what they’re called so I can look up the recipe 😅
@@BelligerentBarbiesame, let me know if you find out
I think you should probably search up a good recipe for chocolate cookies and put some frozen nutella in them. So scoop up some nutella and freeze it, and then put it in the cookie while forming it. As for the cookies, you don't want anything that spreads too much or is going to be crunchy.
It’s most likely just a chocolate cookie filled with ganache, there’s a recipe for it in the pinned comments replies, it’s the first recipe that should show up.
Not over the cheating, which he didn't admit to until much later, but after not getting his way, he (husband and father of my 3 kids) threatened me with, "Fine, I'm leaving, I'm taking my name off the lease, and you can figure shit out on your own!" and I responded, "I think that's a good idea." He did. And I did. Like a boss. To this day, he tells people I kicked him out.
I turned round and said, "Good for you now, get your shit and get out of my house." I took him in because he ended up homeless 3 months into the relationship. He basically just used me. He cried, I didn't. He couldn't understand how I didn't feel hurt after 7 months together, i was hurt, but i wasn't going to give him the satisfaction. But I'd been suspecting for some time, so i worked out most of my feelings beforehand, it wasmore a relief then anything. So I put on my big girl pants and sorted it.
Omg, why do they say that? "I don't understand why you're not hurt".
My response was "And I don't understand why you would want me to be".
what did he want u to do, cuddle?
My ex cheated on me with my friend. She always talked about how handsome he was, and I knew something like that would happen eventually, given he always wanted her around. When he told me he cheated on me, I said “I know, she really likes you, good luck though, she’s a cheater too.” And walked away. One year later, she cheated on him and he lost all his friends, his best friend won’t even talk to him anymore, and he still thinks that I’ll want him back.
Update:
He got suspended for fighting the guy my ex best friend cheated on him with, and I got a new boyfriend 🥰
Good for you❤
Yes sir
Y'all have lives I would pay to watch in a cinema
@@arielmk7612 lol
@@arielmk7612 right?
Looks like he purposely wanted to hurt her and was happy about his actions and I am sure therefore he is a complete narcissist. The girl‘s reaction was PERFECT because that‘s exactly how you can hurt and make a narcissist mad, by making them feel little and acting careless. Good job👏🏻
“What’s your coldest response to ‘I cheated on you’?”
Me: “Same”
My ex cheated on me with his ex on valentine's day. Our mutual friends told me, and he said it happened because I wasn't giving him enough attention. He was expecting me to be super upset and apologetic for neglecting him and "forcing" him to cheat. I just shrugged and said it would have been easier if he just said he wanted to break up. I told him from the start that I don't date cheaters. He was really freaked out that I just didn't care, he cried when I told him I didn't care because I didn't love him.
This is how I hope I handle it when ppl cheat on me 😭😭
@@TamWam_ lets hope you never get cheated on to begin with
The way he wants to blame you for his infidelity. The audacity 😒
@twinkles5114 What made it worse was that we had been friends before. So he knew I had a bit of a disconnect when it came to people. He just wanted an excuse to sleep with his ex.
The friends are just as shitty for going along with this, I hope you don't talk to them anymore
My ex cheated on me with a freshman i was in school with and was good friends with (i was 17, he was 18 but she was 14). So i used his phone, screenshot his conversations that had evidence they had sex and sent them to myself to give to her parents which they pressed charges. My last message to him was "I had loved you so much once, that just knowing what you did a part of me died inside. So since you left me to rot, I'll make sure you burn."
He was charged with statutory rape, having nudes of an underaged girl and sex with a minor and i changed schools
Ugh that poor girl. And good for you girl. This isn’t even about petty revenge, it’s the right thing.
My heart started doing cartwheels in my stomach when you said 14 😔
And she's most likely mad about him getting arrested, you do NOT understand how kids work these days, you'd be disappointed
@@mrpickles-hb6zxDang. That's sad to hear.
@@mrpickles-hb6zxyes but it’s not exactly always the child’s fault. They don’t always understand how bad it is. Their brains and emotional intelligence aren’t fully developed and they are definitely way more irrational due to puberty. Not to mention older creeps can be disgustingly manipulative. If she was upset I blame the world around her rather than her herself. No child should be victim blamed for being raped or groomed.
They are sadistic. They truly enjoy causing you pain. He didn’t tell her out of love he did it just to hurt her. He wanted to see her break down and cry. There are sociopaths who love to torture their victims aka you
Bro, her autopilot is a fucking menace and I’m so here for it
So he didn't cheat on me, but manipulated and gaslit me to heck during our relationship. One day he snapchatted me (yes, you read that right) and said he doesn't have feelings for me anymore. I am honestly still shocked at my autopilot response to this day, simply because I was so manipulated I literally had a meltdown just a few day earlier over thinking he was going to dump me. But when he actually did, I called him and completely calmly without tears told him in detail how much of a crap person and boyfriend he was. I didn't even raise my voice, I just read a mental list to him about eveything wrong with him. Since he had manipulated me for so long and I had never reacted this way before, he was silent the whole time. I ended it with "I just thought you should know these impairments of yours, bye" and hung up. I did immediately start crying after I hung up (probably because my brain started funtioning normally again) but it is still something I am proud of.
What happen after ? Dors he still want to connect with you ?
@@tshiololiai6135 Nope, I suspect he was too ashamed. I did get karma though, as he ended up getting back together with his completely insane ex girlfriend and I found a wonderful partner. We have been together for almost 3 years now, so I would say everything worked out:)
And I'm proud of you too 💐
🎉❤
@@tshiololiai6135Who cares what he wants? He's an ass
"Okay."
Just one word made he go through so many emotions and uno reverses without me saying anything else.
After watching for 5 minutes and thinking, "This is really interesting," I got up and walked. She started ywlling something, but I was too busy wondering if I could still grill a steak (it was after 7 PM) or if I had to cook it a different way.
Ended up frying it in garlic butter, paprika, salt, and basil. It was really good.
Sounds yummy 😋
Good for you man. That was nice and you definitely got your priorities straight
😮 ooh!!! Sounds so good 😋
I find you thinking about food in that moment to be absolutely iconic 😂✨
Good for you, man! Food is the best 😂
I told him I'd be disrespecting myself if I continue to stay with him. He smirked and said ok, I'll go back to my gf. I said, see. Win win. All the best. Went to make lunch for him and kids and flew out the next day to Morocco for a nice holiday.😂❤🎉
Reminds me of my ex always having a breakdown and basically guilting me into staying with her. We had a long distance relationship going when the big C hit and it basically killed what little was left of the relationship.
They tell me “We need to talk” and all I could think was “Finally….”. The conversation after was just them saying “I think we should break up” and me agreeing in the most neutral tone I ever had to this day
“I cheated on you”
Best response: “🗿”
I didn't cry either when i found out my ex cheated. And then he tried to turn it around against me and said i wasn't crying because i already had someone else and how i was leaving him for that person, because if i really loved him i would forgive his "mistake" and then he cried. I just said "i'm sorry, but i'm going to choose myself". I was just really tired of this emotional blackmail he would pull on me everytime we had a fight, guess i wanted him gone too.
u need this 👑 and your ex needs a slap back to reality
@@stress.homework.eat.repeatI love your username
@@Lazy_Kai1 thank u, thank u😂(i've read this twice today lmfao)
You're amazing
Lol you said, "yeah there is someone else, ME BITCH." That's awesome
“Why aren’t you crying” I could see why you wanted him gone.
Girlie, you've dodged a bullet! Salute for your self respecting inner self!
This is the way. Sounds like he was hoping for crying, too. Epic.
I am your 666th like 😩
i'm your 909th
I’m not proud of it now and I know two wrongs don’t make a right. My ex cheated on me and when I found out I was angry and hurt. He didn’t seem too bothered, for obvious reasons. So when I asked him how he would feel if I did it to him he said he wouldn’t care. So instead of breaking up with him right there I just decided I’d find out if he meant it. A few months went by and a guy I had the biggest crush on for years came into town. We hung out and then made out. I told my bf the next day. He cried and yelled how could I do that to him. All I said was “I thought you wouldn’t care”. At the time I felt so good for hurting him the way he hurt me but now I just wish I had left instead.
Did something happen for you to wish u should have just left? Tho personally u gave him a taste of his own medicine which was great.
At least you got even and put him in his place.
Honestly, deserved.
He basically gave you permission, so you did nothing wrong.
He miscalculated and messed up
Did something happened that made you change your way of cutting off the relationship?
Nah you totally ate that
I’ve never been cheated on and don’t plan to. But if I was her I’d say. “Sorrows. Sorrows. Prayers.” And then laugh my ass off.❤
Love that for you!
Queen Charlotte 😂
PLOT TWIST: She was just waiting for an excuse to dump him.
"Why aren't you crying?"
The audacity is astounding
I bet he had the audacity to tell his friends that they broke up because she was emotionally unavailable 😅
My coldest response was "FINALLY! I DON'T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU ANYMORE! GO RUIN SOMEONE ELSE'S LIFE!" And left the burger king. Few hours later I get a call from "him" saying he wants me back and he was crying and said that i was acting like i never loved him. 😂
I laugh too loud at “and left the BURGER KING”
@@karu3724 😂 Well I did left. TBH he wasn't a good bf.
@@drixroku2747wow wow wow i can't..... 😮😶😂😂😂 but still good tactic
The Burger King is wild
That was so pathetic of him
That is a boss move right there. 😎 I bet he still regrets cheating on you knowing that you didn’t care and him knowing he'll never get you back.
I once got asked when I was younger the same question „Why aren’t you crying?“ just so I could answer him with „I just realised that this wasn’t love. It was just boredom…“ and that was what made me sad. Cuz I really hoped I could fall in love with someone but just ended up with many guys I had to confess that it was boredom and loneliness. 😅
“alright”
“are you not upset?”
“no, my best friend refers to you as ‘which one?’”
yep, that was weird
you deserved each other then
So you're both cheaters..? Am lost.
@@ByAzuraByAzuraByAzura nop, the guy just isn’t memorable enough for her friend to remember who he is.
''My boyfriend cheated on me'' "'Which one?'' Bruh yall both are cheaters@@sophia-dl4fk
That's when you know you've already emotionally detached.
My ex told me he'd cheated on me (got a 15 year old pregnant, he was 23) and wanted to break up, I just said "yeah, sure" and got out his car. You could see he was all puffed up woth some speech to try and explain things, apologise etc and how annoyed he was that he didn't get to say any of it
Hope he's in jail now
He should be in jail
He would be in jail he is a pedo
I hope you sent him to jail
Umm, did you report him??
Everyone wants the soul-crushing comeback to leave the offending party in tears but in reality, denying them the pleasure of seeing you hurt is enough.
Certainly knocked his inflated confidence down XD
I tried this and he stalked me for 4 years. Real life is dark and horrible.
I'm so sorry that happened, did you carry around something to defend yourself with, call the police or your building, are you in need of anything now because of it?
@@tourmelion9221 it was when I was much younger so he followed me around everyday after college for 2 years, pranked me with vile words, just so many stalkish things. I was pretty much alone because my family weren't that nice to me back then so I knew it would backfire on me if I told them. I had to painfully wait it out until it died down. Somehow when I started Uni, he seemed to disappear.
are you ok?
@@ukiyofpluto2319 yeah I'm fine now and but it took quite a few years to heal from the trauma of it all.
You alright?
"Why aren't you crying?" LMAOOO STFU 💀💀💀💀
I’d just start fake crying.
The last straw was, “no you didn’t. You were single, we’re over.” But I couldn’t get in touch with him and he tried to pull, “what if I was cheating on you the whole time?”
She's truly closer to enlightenment than most of us. The truth is, brothers and sisters, your peace of mind is the most precious thing you have. No cheater should be able to take it away from you.
this reminds me of a cheating story my grandma told me once, to clarify she got married to my grandfather when she was 18, and gave birth to my mom when she was 19. and this happened when my mom was 2 years old. after being suspicious of her husband for leaving so early in the morning and coming so late at night, she ultimately found a bra that didn’t belong to her in her husband’s stuff, she told me she took a bus, went up to her husband’s office building, walked in on him cheating with his secretary, walked to him and slapped him across the face. she told me the secretary got very embarrassed and quickly left, while she sat down and talked to her husband. she gave him two options: either they get divorced and she gets full custody of her child (my mom) and he leaves and gets with his secretary or this will be the only time he’ll ever cheat. apparently soon after that he fired that secretary and never cheated again for as long as he lived. she said she kept him around because he was the breadwinner of the house and she had two kids to take care of. i asked her how she managed to be so calm and collected and she replied with “what woman would i be if i let a man do whatever he wanted with me. my worth is more than that of a man” 💗
I doubt that he never cheated again, maybe he did it more carefully. Cheaters are not to be trusted anymore. But I understand that she was financially dependent on him (those times, women often were) and thats why she did not leave this piece of trash.
@@dr.bartfratze9354 I understand when people say if someone cheats once they'll likely cheat again but tbh I think it couldn't be IMPOSSIBLE that someone cheats only once. I think it's possible just because the notion that it's impossible sounds ridiculous to me. Like if someone does it once they must have some sort of physical compulsion to do it again. I assume there are a lot of factors which could play into that and having had cheated once is like the tip of the iceberg, the red flag pointing to deeper issues, but deeper issues CAN be resolved.
Based on personal experience by seeing my dad , after getting caught he was just like your grand dad saying he would never repeat but again the 2nd time when he got caught he went to an extent of getting 2nd marriage secretly . That's just how they are . Just imagine if he went to the extent of marriage since how early he started to cheat again on my mom . They don't stop but make sure to be extra careful that's all so as to not get caught like the first time. They don't regret cheating They regret getting caught
If he was a good person he wouldn’t have fired her, he would have quit.
She had another kid with him even after he cheated?
its always wild to me when someone initiates a breakup and gets offended when the other person isnt heartbroken or crying. like, YOURE the one breaking up with THEM, why are you so offended by the fact that they dgaf 😂😂
When people pull that kind of stuff I think deep down they want their partner to beg them to stay. All because they were still indecisive about the relationship. Or they use it as a manipulation tactic to make their partner change in an area that was problematic in the first place and have some kind of control over the situation.
@@kaygrrl9004I wonder if it's because they want an ego boost too. There's different personalities in everyone and the main 3 when it comes to cheating is egotistical assholes, and the 2 you mentioned. It's f'd up nonetheless.
Because they didn't actually want to break up, they wanted their partner "do whatever it takes" to keep them. I've been the calm one in that situation twice.
Well sometimes, when they actually care thry might just be genuinely confused because they thought things were good and think that means you should feel sad and thus cry. Perhaps they would cry if you cheated on them.
“whats the coldest response to “”i cheated on you””?”
8 ball invite💀
I’m stealing this for the future, that shit was icy…. Love that for you bestie
You should probably steal a man who won't cheat on you instead
By this point i already knew he had cheated but said nothing, wanted to see if he was going to be brave and admit it or be a coward and keep lying. Rung me a few days after, my mum picked up for me cause i asked her to as was busy and he didnt even make sure it was me, just straight up started saying he'd cheated and was sorry and wouldnt do it again. My mum said "its your boyfriend, he cheated on you im so sorry love".
Me while he could hear me over the phone: okay can you just hang up i dont really care right now im trying to cook and need my phone to check the recipe again. My mum was so shocked that it didnt even phase me, i just laughed infront of my carbonara thinking of who the poor girl was that he slept with
Honestly love you for that ❤❤😂
God thats great! How do you even find out when men cheat?
@@hotbread1004sometimes they leave a trail (you might see a weird text notification on their phone or the person may leave an item/piece of clothing or sometimes even accidentally reveal on social media). You might also hear from the person they cheated with or somebody that caught them
@@hotbread1004 not everyone does find out, i was just lucky
"Laughed in front of my carbonara!" That's hilarious!
The second you cheat one someone you're no longer worth crying over, her response was so cold and so deserved. Love that he got angry because she obviously wasn't even sad to see him go.
Sounds like the relationship was dead and no one had the guts to end it well before that moment.
When he went, "Why aren't you crying?" That tells me he WANTED to hurt her and was baffled and/or annoyed that it failed.
She didnt get cheated on, she dodged a bullet. From a howitzer.
I said "okay" thats it just "okay" and they were so confused and asked me if i was okay. Went on to say they just didnt feel the same about me anymore and all i said was "okay" they started crying saying that i didnt even care or want to stay with them so i replied with "well theres nothing i can do about it. You choose this. And i dont want to fight if you arent in it" And then i hung up and went to work
King shit ^
This is by far my fav response, cold and badass 💪
@moocake057 mature af ❤ hope you're doing good though!!
He couldn’t even tell you in person, what a coward.
I walked in on my ex and my room mate in bed together, and my first response was to ask them if they wanted a cup of tea. She was furious
want a cuppa xd love this
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏👏
Why was she mad
That honestly sounds straight out of a British comedy tbh and it’s amazing
That is really classy!
My ex cheated on me and called me a S lut. The audacity this mf had 😂
Well he cheated and got caught red handed, then told me i was the problem nve gave him attention and always "looked out " i didn't say anything and told him " okay " with the most genuine smile i could muster and said "well u called me s lut so .... and i kissed his best friend right in front of him" ( he kissed me back) well he had hots for me from the start and I knew that so when i kissed him it was also because my ex hated it and looked like he could snap my neck 😂 i love how my autopilot handled it ....later i cut off all connections from them and im happier now apart from my trust issues
Remember: If you get cheated with, you will get cheated on
I already knew he was cheating on me. The chick he created on me with texted me a month before. Her and I are still great friends and he's in a "situation ship" and keeps complaining to our mutual friends about it.
🖐️ I would like more context. Like how did you go from she texted me he cheated to friends?! 😅
@@veronicarodriguez1697why wouldn’t you be friends? it’s honestly a power move
@@starboy.x, yeah they likely don’t know and aren’t really responsible for their bad behavior
@@veronicarodriguez1697 If it’s the first thing the other girl did after finding out he had another girlfriend that that’s a big green flag that she immediately told OP tbh
Them cookies be looking so fuckn good
Ikr, the recipe’s not in the description 🥲
Priorities 😂👏🏽👏🏽
Fr I'm just here for the food
Yo if anyone has the recipes hmu
@@Smatty320 I think CZcams deleted my comment but I found a link😭
I tried sending it but I can't find the comment
My response was a simple yet effective "okay you can get out now. take your things and leave"
Am I the only one watching this for the food?
I remember this line from a sitcom. This woman told her husband "Just so you know, I'm sleeping with your lawyer". His response was "I know. He's billing me for it."
I wouldn’t cry over a man who cheated on me. That seems like a him problem.
I was impressed, I was expecting her to do it much sooner.