Epic Surprise Guest Kicked by Laterras R. Whitfield | Dear Future Wifey Podcast Ep801
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- Laterras kicks off season 8 by sharing his vision of the podcast' going forward. He also takes the time to emphasize the importance of vulnerability, relating his personal journey with addiction and financial troubles. Laterras stresses the need to address issues hiding unseen rather than ignoring problems and letting them grow. A guest unexpectedly interrupts the podcast and confronts Laterras about his perspectives on relationships, accountability, and controversy. While they debate differing views, Laterras ultimately discusses his approach to personal growth through vulnerability and commitment to honoring multiple perspectives.
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📍Time Code:
[00:00] - Introduction
[02:17] - Season 8's format
[08:47] - “Love is Blind” hit 1 million views
[11:53] - Providing safe spaces for men
[15:56] - Traveling with the podcast
[18:14] - Not worrying about others opinions
[20:41] - Journey with Celebrate Recovery
[24:42] - Skeletons in the closet
[27:35] - Vulnerability about finances
[29:28] - Surprise guest crashes the podcast
[32:15] - Getting over failed relationships
[33:19] - Does Laterras still seek marriage?
[36:37] - Getting men on the podcast
[42:15] - Laterras kicks guest off
[45:12] - Kingdom Royale Update
[50:38] - Podcast goals for 2024
[55:59] - Letter to Laterras’ future wifey
Key Quote:
“I take this platform with great honor that God would allow me, a divorcee...to help bring healing to other marriages, to help save marriages." - Laterras R. Whitfield
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Please get Judge Lynn Toler on the podcast 🙏🏽
Yessssssssss!!!!! She has so much wisdom I really LOVE Judge Toler
Yes I want to here her story
Would love to sit @ her feet and hear her story!!
Yes she’s going through a lot! I would love to see you pour into her ❤
She was on there before
I'm a female saying, "I wasn't upset when you interviewed Derrick Jaxn". I wanted to hear both sides so thank you for that
Right! I appreciate it - it wasn’t a lopsided conversation. Both said their peace and each gave their perspectives on why the marriage failed.
Likewise!!
Yes it was good to give both parties the opportunity to express themselves.
Same here. I learned something from both interviews. I’m assuming the ones who were upset are the one with fresh wound out haven’t healed.
Ditto
The acting was so legit that I genuinely could’ve thought it was an actual two person conversation.
😂
DITTO!
Right? I was driving & listening... Had to look at my phone when I pulled over!
Keep Terry to tackle or address commenters and to clarify misconceptions on a semi-annual or annually base. The idea of Terry being the talking head for comments section is brilliant.
Thank you. Will do.
Great idea 💡
Love this idea!
@DearFutureWifey terrific CLONE 💡. Keep Terry so I can see his beautiful eyes more😅
How you don’t have a million subscribers already baffles me!❤
That part!
I agree, I can’t understand that one,🤓however it is coming,,😊❤❤
Amen! God the Father timing is different from our timing. All we have to do is Hold on in FAITH. remember Faith w/o Works& Works w/o Faith scripture. Bless up!
I’m liking the way season 8 is starting off!!! Terry is hilarious 🤣
My dear Mom went to glory @ 88 yrs old on Father’s Day 2023. She was married to my dad for 59 years. I asked her why she was so into Judge Lynn Toler. My mom said the woman had so much wisdom. I brushed that off since it was a Divorce Court. But I am a widow since Christmas week 2016 whose beloved went to glory suddenly after 34 yrs of marriage. Finally I saw Judge Toler walk through her husband’s Big E’s death, I started following her and it has brought much healing. To have been loved with sold out loyalty is a blessing. Living beyond that seems impossible but the love goes on and I am thankful. Get that woman on your podcast. She has a healing message e
Your ministry is one of the most powerful ministries out here. I appreciate that you don’t allow the audience’s opinion to lead you. It is us who is following you and your journey. And, you who is following Christ. Don’t compromise 💯✝️💪🏽✨
OMG!! I'm watching this as if it's really two people!! Love it!! Mission accomplished! The best DFW by far! A great way of bringing out 2 perspectives. Gifted and talented you are!
Glad you enjoyed it!
You sent me a friend request I used to watch often and thats true. I have seen you grow keep growing
Lol! I seriously took a double take trying to figure out who he?! Lol
Me and I’m cracking up at some part🔥🔥
For me, your interviews with both D’naya and Derrick Jaxson were eye opening. And it allowed me to see things from both perspectives. Thank you for sharing Laterras. May GOD Restore what was lost.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Threefold Restoration!
Amen!! It is done!!
Laterras this is great film work!! This really looks like you have a twin!! This work is amazing!! Excellent skills!! I'm still not convinced this wasn't a twin or doppleganger.
Thank you so much!
I second that! I started googling immediately 😅
I pray more men rock with you this season. I pray for healing, clarity, discipline and more vulnerability to shake up the egos running rampant in our minds. Let's break these generational curses for good!
I sanction the same
I love love the idea of interviewing couples with 30 or 40+ plus years married. I look so very forward to that❤
"As she was losing sight, she was able to see him." "When she completely lost sight, he came into view." Now that's a word. I 💯 approve this message
Straight bars🔥🔥🔥🔥
Amen! That was powerful!
Leadership Said the All MIGHTY thisyea🎉
SaidAllMi😢h😢
This podcast was the boom! Informative, funny, and full of hope, I have been married for 40 years, and I am still learning from your podcasts. Thank you for your hard work! Yes, Terry needs prayer😂
Thanks for sharing!!! Love this introduction to Season 8 !!! My Mom used to tell me you can learn from anyone and “ THERE’S GOOD IN EVERYONE “!!!! Praying you find your Wifey!!! I found my Hubby, after I was Breast Cancer Free and Healed from Covid!!! I was hospitalized for 11 days and came home on Oxygen for 2 months!!!! My hubby said he still would have dated me with the Oxygen tank!!! He is an AMAZING MAN IN MANY WAYS!!!! I prayed for a husband like him!!! Watch what you Pray for, You just might get it!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️
Tell your husband I said, "Salute, king!"
@@DearFutureWifey : Thank You He Said! !!
So tapping into your blessing sis! Healed and ready to be presented by the Lord, Himself!
So beautiful. Thanks fi u testimony of God's Greatness, Mercy, &Grace. Your healing+ Man of God husband. So often ppl LIMIT GOD. Blessings to you ñ your family.
I was not expecting to enjoy a Laterras and Terry conversation so much lol awesome camera work and great intro to Season 8! This was like the Angel and Devil on the shoulder convo lol both interesting and valid in their own right … Happy New Year and let’s get it! 💛🙏🏾
Terry kept it LIT, LIT for the kickoff🤣 We gonna pray for his deliverance this season! Blessings as you continue the journey🙏🏽
It is truly sad that some took offense of you interviewing Derrick after you interviewed his wife as if everything she said was the Gospel. There are three sides to every story. And I absolutely applaud and appreciate you for giving them both a chance to speak. Closed minded people can be so judgemental. He had every right to speak about HIS experience in that marriage as SHE did.
Wow!!!! I absolutely loved this introduction to season 8. Episode 1 came straight outta the gate🔥🔥🔥🔥. Yet again another display of transparency & growth! Look what God has done with your YES to this assignment! Wow!!!!
This was sooooo dope Laterras! From the perspective, editing, creativity etc. Love it! Great job. Looking forward to your future episodes. 💪🏾🤴🏾
This was very creative, love seeing your talent!
I love this 🔥 Laterras, this intro made me emotional. You’re intentional and favored by God. More blessings to you! Save me a seat. I pray one day I make it to the yellow couch!
Same❤️
Amazing idea and talent King Laterras!! Sorry, you experienced the income loss and all the inconveniences that may have caused!! God is still and always good!! That's why you have never been forsaken and you are still exceptionally BLESSED by the BEST!! 🙌🏽💯♥️♥️
God's blessing is coming in 2024. HE is going to turn up and turn out as you stand true to your word. Faith-filled destiny will prevail! Amen!🙏🏽🥰☮️
That’s so awesome that he got his family back. And gave his life to the Lord. Laterras The Light 💡 ✝️🙌🏾💙
Yes! Please try to have them on the show🙏🏽✨ We want to hear that story of a man whose finances are low and doesn’t really believe in God yet.
WOWWWWWW! That was such good acting and camera work that i didnt even realize it was you, Laterras!!!!! God has a special hand on your ministry... continue to trust Him to lead you. You've blessed me and have ceeated healing conversations in my circle. Stay encouraged!!!!🙌🏾♥️🕊️💃🏾
"Where I am weak, He is made strong!" Those were words of deliverance. Thanks for sharing both your light and darkness. It's been a blessing. 🙏🏾
😂😂😂Terry is hilarious!!….Love the idea of having the elders on the show we need to hear more from them.
This podcast has literally been my therapy these past couple of years. Laterras is truly a God-send. Thank King, for the gift of you, and for allowing God to help you introduce me to myself. I can honestly say that I am 10x better a man because of the wisdom gleaned from these conversations. Being healed and whole as a man, even as God’s still working on me is BEAUTIFUL!! #LITFam
Say bro! Thank you! Man, that means alot. Make sure you pull up on the next Live and speak.
Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾 It’s nice to hear from a man watching and growing from this platform. Very refreshing, best to you 🤗
This podcast has blessed me and many of us..in navigating through the emotions of singleness..marriage and long term commitment.. one golden prize you bring above the rest is AUTHENTICITY ❤🤲
Agreed! Laterras, keep on doing what you're doing #healingthecommunity #LIT #purposepartner
😂😂😂Love Terry. You must keep this going. You did that role so well.
Low key I be having these discussions with myself like I'm two separate people...this is so entertaining & helpful at the same time❤
"Your strength can also be your weakness" that hit home so hard thank you for this LIT Episode remain blessed.
Please bring Terry back! Great Podcast. Cheers to much success in 2024!
Your alter ego approach was a fun touch. Team Terry all the way! Waiting on LT and Terrance to appear.
Terry is a riot 😂. Great acting Laterras 👏🏾👏🏾 Looking forward to season 8 conversations.
Thank you for your ministry Laterras. You’re helping so many people you’ll never meet face to face. I’m one.🙏🏽🙏🏽
So am I
@@MarciaRoberts-gn8ut #SoAmI
Love you ❤❤❤ I Thank you 🙏🏽 For being so real 😊 And keep it 💯
Thank you! Sitting in my vehicle, listening to you share being a "Gatekeeper of Deliverances" I've decided to finish writing my novel based on true testimonials. I struggled with sharing my experiences and exposing myself on a larger platform, fear of facing shame and disappointment. Thank you for sharing and Thank God for not passing me by.
I’m going through the same thing. And I Know My Story can help someone heal. Move forward & grow.
I thoroughly appreciated watching this episode. The irony of being "interviewed" by "Terry" vividly illustrates how individuals frequently engage in self-reflection, often in a non-therapeutic manner. How frequently do we pose probing questions to ourselves, only to resist when the answers appear too facile or align too closely with societal norms? Essentially, it's a portrayal of "the good twin versus the bad twin," with the unique twist that in this scenario, you were compelled to respond rather than evade or dismiss the challenging inquiries.
You totally got it.
Well said!!!
This was our BONUS episode😂😂(double portion)!!!talent on a different level. Thanks bros👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💖
“And imma unsubscribe to your podcast…and keep shacking up now what?!”😂😂😂 LMAOOO this was so creative and still so full of wisdom! You’re a walking epistle Latterus, keep shining!
Love the skit💜 this is Y we Rock with u Latarris🙌🏾🙌🏾
Yay season 8 is here love, love, love your podcast. I have learned so much from ALL of your podcast from the males as well as the women, couples and singles may God continue to pour blessings on your life as you continue to pursue your wifey. God Bless
Yes I would love to hear from our elderly/seasoned folk!! Their stories are timeless and so full of wisdom
Terry is a hoot😂.Great editing !!
How is that done? The timing is so impeccable.
Amazing! Thank you Laterras for your transparency and being intentional on the podcast. I can say that since I have been watching you and the guest on the pod cast, it has truly helped me so much. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!
This episode is genius. A creative mind unfolding before our eyes. I have so much respect for you. Your commitment to what you are called to do and be unwavering is rare. Sure up your armor Man of Valor.
Terry is HIGH-larious. I was dying the whole time 🤣 I love the skit. Please do more skits because we all have to deal with tug and pull of new and old behaviors when things get tough. Great dichotomy in that conversation even down to the adidas sweatsuit lol
Happy new year Laterres and the boys I started watching the beginning of 2023 I went back to watch what I missed and believe me I am always never disappointed keep doing what you doing blessings
Dude when you come back, you come back with the THUNDAR! 😁 Happy New Year! I enjoyed this episode and your upcoming ideas. And Terry…WHOO LAWD! He was “On It Dog-Gon-It!” 🤣😂🤣
I love the edit job. Looking forward to another season Bro! This podcast has helped me heal in so many ways! Love you man!
I’m a life learner and enjoying the journey…. It’s been pleasure including you in my journey ✨
Tiffany and rich episode was my top five.. what a wonderful love story.. season 8 I’m looking forward to.. Terry is a trip.. you are so creative, keep up the phenomenal work and helping touch the world.
Can you consider interviewing Iman Alford's godmom (I think she had a ring on when she was hugging Stephon). . . And do a part 2/part 3 with interviews of her parents and of Stephon's parents? That was such a miraculous connection!
You should do on a season on addictions (whether recovering OR sober)
I agree.
I agree too!!!!
Amen
I heard wanna go to Nigeria and my mouth went😫. My goodness. That would be amazing 🥺. God bless you sir , you have been a hug blessing to me. When you want to come to Nigeria ,I'll be very honoured to serve in whatever way🙇♀️. God bless you again Mr Laterras. You have no idea what God have used you to do in my life . 🥺🙇♀️
I love who you are and most importantly what God is doing through you. Thank you for being obedient and moving steadfast with your ministry💜
I loved tough topics
Can’t wait to see what this season brings 🎉🔥
This was super dope! Terry is a must have! we need a full sit down with him, he got a point of view and story that would help shape how other address that inner voice we all battle with.
Your gonna shake the podcast streets up this year!
Absoloutely love this episode, Laterras! Creative, reflective and transparent. Happy to be part of the Lit Fam.
So cool with the special guest.... even though he's a little grumpy and so rude🤣. I am excited and looking forward to connecting with you more this season. Anointed man of God..keep lit❤🔥
Wait a minute??!! What?!! Ok will be watching more and I pray God restores the loss you took and then triple it. God bless 💜
New doors will open in 2024. You have been an awesome blessing. Your transparency and uniqueness has accelerated many individuals to look in the mirror and be delivered. Thanking God for using you.
Laterras!! You NEVER fail…you are ALWAYS dropping Gems! You, being open, honest and vulnerable has helped SO many of your viewers. Just the general conversation you had today, and some of the things you have opened up about help us everyday normal people. I don’t have a good love story to tell yet. But this year I have decided, now that I have focused on the kids and they are all now young adults, helped fix and up graded many..it’s time for me and the making of finding (or maybe should I say being found) the love of my life and the other half of who God created for me. Keep up the great work and I look forward to your new episodes weekly!💜💜
Nice
Love the creativity, transparency and vulnerability as always. ❤
Latteras, what an amazing surprise with this episode. I love your l.i.t. life and how you continue to show more sides to yourself. Your acting skills is right up there with your writing and producing. Best wishes with your hearts desire in this new year. 🎉❤
Hey LRW you had me there for a while, thought it was 2 people!!!😅 you are blessed with so many gifts yet remains humble. Your gifts will surely make room for you. God bless you as you continue to be a blessing unto us. We love and appreciate you.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
Happy Season 8 Laterras! We are ever learning and there’s something to learn or benefit from everyone we meet or from every experience. Looking forward to your episodes. Best wishes to you!
Ok Terry LOOOOOOL! This is hilarious and on-time as usual, Laterras. Thanks so much for your vulnerability and words of encouragement.
Please come to Cameroon dear future wify.
Your gift has, is, and will continue to make room for you. Don't stop laughing, and I ❤ your-what to some may be abrupt-prayers, but I know, and God knows they are right on time. Thank you for your obedience and submission to the Lord, even on your journey to discover, uncover, and recover love. Thank you.
Thank you so much. I really appreciate the gift.
LATERRAS!!!!😂😂😂😂You are so funny!!! I was laughing out loud! I Love The Terry Character… He’s like one of those annoying uncles who have NO FILTER and say Crazy Stuff!!! Great Work My Friend… Great Editing… What a way to start the new season…Thank You. Peace & Blessings🙏🏽
😂 I love meeting Terry and the conversation with Laterras. Continue blessings to you and this podcast. 🙏
Get that couple that was restored on the podcast, powerful testimony!!!!
LRW,
Please have Terry back on the podcast. I enjoyed your dialogue with him.
Looking fwd to DFW's 2024 Life Lessons and journey to successful heights.
LRW, Keep Shining and by all means remain consistent with Keeping IT LIT🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
OMG!!! I work at the front desk at my job .soooo... you and Terry 😂😂😂😂..yesss please bring him back. I love 💕 it . this episode made my day I was laughing so hard..
ILY Laterras. Keep doing what you are doing. You bless so many lives with your testimony.
Happy New Year, I’m ready for what 2024 has in store. Let’s go LW
Terry!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 Sadly, if it were 4 years ago, I would have totally dated somebody like him. I actually preferred “situationships” because I did not have to do the work to become better. I am so glad that God loves me so much to show me the woman in the mirror. I can laugh at myself now, but it was a really painful existence. Jesus + Therapy 💜
I appreciated the interviews with The Jacksons. I am so sorry that you lost half of your viewership because you chose not to remain “safe” by being one sided. God is sovereign. Of course He knew that you would lose half of your income. You are an arrow, Laterras, so pulling you back will only propel you faster and farther to reach the targeted goal He has for you in its appointed time. He is about to give you double for your trouble. The table that God is preparing for you in the presence of your enemies will be so bountiful and plentiful, everyone will know how God was pleased with your obedience. Don’t give up. Don’t look back. God is about to blow your mind.🙏🏾💜
Oooh, I love the arrow analogy!
Didn’t watch Derek’s episode but I didn’t leave altogether 🙋🏾♀️ and I respect Laterras’ decision. I hate that he lost so much from that but I agree with you, I just said the same thing… double for his trouble 🙌🏾
This podcast is a blessing.
"You're real beside yourself ".......literally 😂 Great Interview!
You caught that? lol
@@DearFutureWifey Yes I did! 😄
Latteras, You interviewing Mr. and Mrs. Jackson was a very balanced approach. It was the right thing to do. 💙🙏🏽
The excellence with which you do everything is so inspiring. 😭 Even your website. So clean. So immaculate. May the spirit of excellence that works in you work in me too. 🙌🏾🙌🏾
It will work in you. As you work in the spirit of God. God is your resource. To push you forward. DET 31 and 8. In the Bible, you have to let God walk in front of you. To open the door for you. You must stay humble. Don't let pride get in your way. Because in the Bible it says pride come before destruction. Pride is satan. God is WHO lE! In your life
@@vernelllevingston1800 ❤🙏🏾
Best intro of all seasons thus far!
Happy New Year Latterras. Congratulations on a new season. This is my first time meeting Terry, I love seeing this other side of you. The skit was great! Keep it coming. May God enlarge your territory 🙏🏾
WOW!!!!! Talking about the codependency, seeking attention and leading to other problems is spot on!!! So glad you opened up about struggling with emotional dependency. This is what men need to talk about. I two men who were seriously struggling with these issues and no matter how good they were in certain areas I had to leave because this was not something I could handle. What ends up happening is that they can’t deal with being alone “codependency.” I recently did expose my last ex although he didn’t want to marmot it was a problem. Im happy to see you shedding a light on this. There’s so many coaches for women but men need this
Terry was an excellent alter ego guest today. He should be welcomed back. 🙂
Wow can’t believe income was cut in half because of hearing from both parties.
What an awesome display of creativity with life lessons to glean from. Happy New Year Mr Laterras. Thank you for making impact always. Wishing you a year of Elevation and Fulfillment.
I love the podcast because it teaches you what healing looks like and how to heal. Everyone doesn't know how to articulate that, and this podcast shows us/them how. To God be the glory.
I see what you did there. Laterras, you’re a genius 😊
Happy New Year Mr Whitfield 8th season 🎉🎉🎉 I cant believe I have been committed and invested to the Dear Future Wifey for this long, looking forward to this season.. Ooh we waiting for you here in SA🇿🇦
Zimbabwe I’m the house…..your podcast came at the right time in my life. It has changed my life. I used to underestimate myself and was never kind to myself. believe me when I tell you you and your guests have brought me so much light. I appreciate you a lot.
Wow. Speechless, it keeps getting better and better. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
My favorite was Jewel and Tavia getting back together and celebrating 25 years
Yes yes I love them
I love Terry! Please bring him back! I would not date him but I would watch him on the podcast all day 😂😂😂😂💕💁🏾♀️
Lol. Will do.
😂
Absolutely LOVE you!! This was hilarious and so insightful. What a creative way to engage from the title, the double, the deep conversation with yourself, etc.
First time watching and new Subscriber. This was so refreshing…and love the transparency and insight. Thank you! 🫶🏻
And…reading the letter @ the end was soothing to the soul. 🩶
God bless! 🙏🏼
😂😂 Laterras & Terry you all are hilarious! LOL
This man, Laterras, is for real, for real, on his way to being a holy billionaire because God can trust him.
In Jesus name!!!
@@mjay8335 AMEN
Be blessed. I have learnt a lot from the various people who graced the podcast. I loved it that you allowed everyone to be lit and even asked questions that made me believe that anyone can have a turnaround and your sharing your experiences makes it easy to make an impact on people.
Sir PLEASE....please do come to South Africa!
We cannot wait for you over here! I know a lot of locals who never miss your podcast. ❤🇿🇦