Coming out to my mother | This is how my mother reacted【Japanese Gay Boy】

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  • @shakke565
    @shakke565 Před 4 lety +30977

    "Now just be sure you study hard" LMAO a real asian mother

    • @anggisuryani8151
      @anggisuryani8151 Před 4 lety +552

      Just like my mom everyday tell me this thing lol

    • @tempest206
      @tempest206 Před 4 lety +168

      Anggi Suryani my mom said it's ok to be gay but if you get with a thotty boy i swear then she said focus on shcool

    • @shakke565
      @shakke565 Před 4 lety +49

      @@corntv278 stfu Queer culture IS part of Asian culture, just go and educate yourself. Speaking of Babaylans etc.

    • @user-dn6lq8gj1p
      @user-dn6lq8gj1p Před 4 lety +32

      study hard or not thats not a point here men.
      it just a way to show supporting implicitly form mom.
      She could say "take care your life" or something else whatever thats same meaning to show her love

    • @tammyyyx1159
      @tammyyyx1159 Před 4 lety +1

      Schlackie 😂😂yh

  • @TarynBell
    @TarynBell Před 4 lety +6544

    I can’t imagine how scared he must of been to tell her that

    • @sivabalankaniapan8786
      @sivabalankaniapan8786 Před 4 lety +29

      I think if ths world accept ths liberally thn there shouldnt been any problem...its just in contrary with 'laymens term' which relationship of human being lies in between 2 different sexes....but love is love...

    • @28Justchecking
      @28Justchecking Před 4 lety +10

      Haha I was in this situation at 18. That's wasn't fun but after the stress I ended up calling the rest of my family who were in the living room and had a meeting in the kitchen with 8 persons and announced it hahaha but it took like 30min of trying to tell them 😂😂

    • @SairaAkhtar78
      @SairaAkhtar78 Před 4 lety +1

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    • @anthonybalista7421
      @anthonybalista7421 Před 4 lety +15

      Ya I’m pretty sure he didn’t rip his mothers heart apart. What a vapid comment to make.

    • @malaguenasalerosa4705
      @malaguenasalerosa4705 Před 4 lety +9

      Mothers don't have the right to be againts male homosexuality. It makes no sense. All son to mom coming outs should be like this:
      - Son: "mom, I like men"
      - Mom: "cool, me too!"

  • @JJ-fx3sc
    @JJ-fx3sc Před 4 lety +3841

    2017: nothing
    2018: nothing
    2019 - 2020 : recommends me to watch this at 3am

    • @shreyap3982
      @shreyap3982 Před 4 lety +11

      Haha😂for me its currently 00.26 and it was in my recommendations😂😂😂late nights...duhhh

    • @kuriharayuki7128
      @kuriharayuki7128 Před 4 lety +3

      Right 😮
      It came for me too 😅
      I wonder why...?
      🤔

    • @r.3710
      @r.3710 Před 4 lety +2

      Same 😂

    • @rainbowang3305
      @rainbowang3305 Před 4 lety +2

      Jennifer Jui same here LOLLL

    • @earth-to-zola3725
      @earth-to-zola3725 Před 4 lety +2

      omg sameee ahaha! (Btw Im your 100 like lol

  • @user-cy8eb6xp3y
    @user-cy8eb6xp3y Před 3 lety +553

    お母さんが全肯定するでもなく、「なんで子供が欲しいのに女の人(のパートナー)はあかんの?」と言う様子がリアルでした。でも、決して否定はせず、何より、あなたの幸せを一番に願っている姿に胸を打たれました。
    正直寂しい気持ちもあるよね。リアルを伝えてくださってありがとうございます。優しい素敵なおかあさん。

  • @setjet6544
    @setjet6544 Před 7 lety +1530

    よく頑張ったね。
    この母にしてこの子ありだわ。
    素敵なお母様。
    あなた今一番素敵よ。

    • @MoaandMore
      @MoaandMore  Před 7 lety +86

      本当に両親は偉大やなって、この時改めて感じました。
      素敵なコメントありがとうございます。

  • @jbram9778
    @jbram9778 Před 4 lety +2696

    When she told him, "Don't worry about this, it's your life." "Id that's what makes you happy it's fine." I was teary eyed. You're lucky having her as your mom.

    • @jay-rr8xz
      @jay-rr8xz Před 4 lety +8

      I agree my mom would most likely disown me if I told her that I'm trans and bi

    • @ambrose153
      @ambrose153 Před 4 lety +5

      Right, I was genuinely in tears because I can only wish and dream that my parents were like her

    • @jay-rr8xz
      @jay-rr8xz Před 4 lety +1

      @@ambrose153 yeah

    • @Avaa-gg2rr
      @Avaa-gg2rr Před 4 lety

      What is bi?
      Sorry I just dk -,-

    • @jay-rr8xz
      @jay-rr8xz Před 4 lety +1

      @@Avaa-gg2rr bi is when I like guys and girls

  • @MinYoongi-cc7xt
    @MinYoongi-cc7xt Před 4 lety +5262

    THIS WAS 3 YEARS AGO AND HE STILL HEARTS COMMENTS EJEKSKSIDUSS

  • @hanamurahukuoka
    @hanamurahukuoka Před 3 lety +754

    「そっかー、そうじゃないかと思ってたわ。それで?あなたはどうやって生きたいの?」
    これ以上嬉しい言葉無いよね
    私のカミングアウトの時と似てる、良かった良かった

    • @moomoo7025
      @moomoo7025 Před 3 lety +8

      どうやって生きたいの?ってすごい質問。普通に生きてたら親にこんな質問されないよね、すごくグッとくる。この質問ひとつで自分の人選について本気で考えることができそう。質問に見えて、すごい助言だと思う。

  • @sincerely_6362
    @sincerely_6362 Před 4 lety +3014

    "If it makes you happy, it's okay."
    Gosh i need to hear that so bad.

    • @katielololol
      @katielololol Před 4 lety +21

      Well since you need to hear it, if it makes you happy then it’s okay, lol I hope u really know that’s true no matter what anyone says❤️

    • @rierina6108
      @rierina6108 Před 4 lety +14

      "if it makes you happy, it's okay". And that's so right. U should do what makes you feel happy bc this is all that matters in life. ❤️ Just be yourself

    • @Alyssa-bt9vp
      @Alyssa-bt9vp Před 4 lety +1

      If it makes you happy, it’s okay. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise you are you and that’s amazing in itself you shouldn’t let things get to you just know you are loved by many, many people and we will all be here if you need us just remember you have a community that can back you up we love you 💗

    • @KCMM.5747
      @KCMM.5747 Před 4 lety +6

      That's exactly what my mom said to my older brother🙂
      "If it makes you happy then it's okay. And whatever you want to be, just be a good one."

    • @lovem7105
      @lovem7105 Před 4 lety +1

      Same :(

  • @vicksteria2216
    @vicksteria2216 Před 4 lety +1763

    "I'll be waiting for my grandkids."
    What an accepting and loving mother.
    All the best of wishes to your family and yourself. Truly inspiring.

  • @lilshaunin6637
    @lilshaunin6637 Před 4 lety +15272

    Tell me why the gay men are always more attractive. This isn't fair.

    • @mariekegrandia
      @mariekegrandia Před 4 lety +432

      TRUE AF

    • @francaismp1812
      @francaismp1812 Před 4 lety +145

      Bissexual

    • @maddy-fj2mh
      @maddy-fj2mh Před 4 lety +27

      Lol

    • @hn6498
      @hn6498 Před 4 lety +335

      Because they actually take the time to look good and groom, unlike most straight guys

    • @hn6498
      @hn6498 Před 4 lety +91

      @Manuel VAQUERO most of the coming out videos have gays (males) in them and their comments are filled with girls saying "why are gay guys so hot" with like 10k likes each comment. What ive noticed is that their hair are well made and their faces look neat and eyebrows done? Ill side with gay guys take care of their appearance rather than gay guys are hot or hot guys are gay.

  • @nemui_minkani
    @nemui_minkani Před rokem +37

    「お母さんが女の人を恋愛対象に見れんのと一緒やん。それが逆なだけ」っていう言葉がなんかすごいしっくりきた、、、世界中のみんな幸せになってほしい

  • @afrodita6335
    @afrodita6335 Před 4 lety +3621

    People really need to understand how hard is the culture in Japan and how they have been raised, most of the parents would punch him and stop talking to him forever, but if you know a little bit about japanese culture you would understand how much his mom love him, please respect her, and I wish you the best with your dad, follow your dreams no matter what I know your parents always are going to love you.

    • @karinadavodova29
      @karinadavodova29 Před 4 lety +41

      With russian Parents is also very stressful and hard to say that because there very homophobic and strict, in Russia is this very hard to understand and many people there bully LGBTQ people for being gay or a lesbian or something else. For example I'm a bisexual and I'm scared to say that to my parents because we're a Russian family and my mum hate LGBTQ so much and yeah.....sad :-(

    • @jeonjungshook4356
      @jeonjungshook4356 Před 4 lety +9

      Karina Davydova omg you’re right I lived there for six years and I really saw parents who were so racist and homophobic ofc not all of them but most of them. And all Asian parents are soooo strict and it makes me stressful but when they say that study you have to cuz sometime you’ll regret not studying 💖✨

    • @oneekochan1386
      @oneekochan1386 Před 4 lety +6

      @@karinadavodova29 I define myself as a bi too. I live in Italy and, luckily, I am not scared to tell my parents about what I like, I'm only not 100% sure about me being bi and not just asexual. I know it sounds strange but the fact is that for now I still don't know because I need to experience, but the only thing I know is that there is something, different from the other girls, in me... I need to wait, but I think they already understood that I'm not 100% straight.

    • @invinciblecucumber
      @invinciblecucumber Před 4 lety +10

      @@karinadavodova29 All Slavic nations are extremely homophobic...

    • @NeverMind-tp3vz
      @NeverMind-tp3vz Před 4 lety +4

      @@karinadavodova29 the same in Ukraine and, I think, in the rest of post-Soviet countries

  • @he8241
    @he8241 Před 4 lety +382

    あんたの人生や、とか、あんたがええんやったら…って、息子に言っているというより自分に言い聞かせて理解しようと努力しているお母さんが素敵。

  • @zoeysnow5122
    @zoeysnow5122 Před 4 lety +764

    3 years ago and he’s still liking comments to this day.💔

  • @user-bb5ry9jv9f
    @user-bb5ry9jv9f Před 3 lety +392

    お母さんに話す前に感極まって泣いてしまうところ。色々な思いがあるんだろうね。
    お母さんが理解しようとしてくれて良かった。お父さんにはお母さんから言っといてよぉ。素敵なお母さん。素敵な息子さん。

    • @user-iv3hk7je9j
      @user-iv3hk7je9j Před 3 lety +21

      いやいや、本人から言ったほうがいいでしょ、

  • @gachaqueen6372
    @gachaqueen6372 Před 4 lety +1845

    "now study hard!" yup a true Asian mother-

    • @AnkitMaurya-zj6wb
      @AnkitMaurya-zj6wb Před 3 lety +3

      Yup😃😄🤗❤️

    • @gachaqueen6372
      @gachaqueen6372 Před 3 lety +3

      @あいでんあいでん hm did i do something wrong or offensive?

    • @mrtomkool93
      @mrtomkool93 Před 3 lety +6

      So emotional the entire video but this detail made me laugh so hard 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @gachaqueen6372
      @gachaqueen6372 Před 3 lety +1

      @あいでんあいでん o its all good

    • @putrizahra9439
      @putrizahra9439 Před 3 lety

      That's my mom bruhh🤣❤

  • @zenmetsuzogo4005
    @zenmetsuzogo4005 Před 4 lety +3148

    Mom was disappointed but you can see on her face that she slowly realized that her love of you trumps her disappointment. Just live being who you are. Don’t ever sacrifice your own happiness for other people’s approval.

    • @samanthavillanuevavazquez2201
      @samanthavillanuevavazquez2201 Před 4 lety +17

      So true, own happiness is what matters ~

    • @Rosak
      @Rosak Před 4 lety +22

      I think it's more worry rather than disappointment; Japan isn't exactly the easiest society to be gay when it comes to a lot of things. It seems to me she's been hoping for kids and what not and suddenly realised there that it's not going to happen, until he explained it a bit.
      The later one with his dad is a bit better as he seems to be more able to explain how he feels and all that.

    • @marian6641
      @marian6641 Před 4 lety +1

      Giving grandchildren to your parents is not your obligation

  • @Hd-ge1vz
    @Hd-ge1vz Před 4 lety +1818

    She’s hurt but she wants what makes her child happy 😔❤️❤️

  • @user-ck8bx6ch3o
    @user-ck8bx6ch3o Před 3 lety +495

    ほんとにカミングアウトするだけで、泣くような社会ではいけないと思います。日本がもっと変わるべき、人は進化してるんだから、国も進化するべき。日本でも早くLGBTQの方がもっと生きやすい社会になるのを私は本当に心から願っています。

    • @moomoo7025
      @moomoo7025 Před 3 lety +16

      別に進化してLGBTになったわけではないと思うからこの言い方には違和感あるなぁ。人は最初から千差万別ある。

    • @user-ck8bx6ch3o
      @user-ck8bx6ch3o Před 3 lety +13

      @@moomoo7025 そんな言い方をしたわけではないですが、そう聞こえてしまったならすいません。人間はカミングアウトして、偽りの自分ではなく、自分の生き方を貫いて歩んでいる。一生懸命、人は進んでいるのに、という意味で言いました。

    • @riohayashi6457
      @riohayashi6457 Před 2 lety +1

      @@moomoo7025 個人の意識や考え方は進化しているのだから、国家の制度なども同様に進化すべきって意味ではないでしょうか?ある種の暗喩で、進歩や革新などを進化と形容してるんだと思います

  • @heathermurgatroyd9164
    @heathermurgatroyd9164 Před 4 lety +1439

    I just wanted to give him a hug, poor guy was obviously terrified

  • @bjorkursula7452
    @bjorkursula7452 Před 4 lety +3823

    Parents that can’t accept their children for who they are,shouldn’t be parents. And your mom definitely deserves to be your mom but she has questions and that’s okay💕

    • @1Chase0
      @1Chase0 Před 4 lety +39

      honestly, to say that those parents shouldnt be parents is kind of a NAH. just because they didnt accept them for one fact dosent make them bad , they still parents and look for your own good!

    • @randomhuman805
      @randomhuman805 Před 4 lety +7

      Yes! I came out to my mom as bi- she accepted me

    • @GreenGiant96
      @GreenGiant96 Před 4 lety +44

      @@1Chase0 No, parents need to accept their kids on this issue. If they can't do that, then they shouldn't be a parent because otherwise they'd be asking their kid to change or abandoning their kid.

    • @GhostWalking512
      @GhostWalking512 Před 4 lety +6

      @@GreenGiant96 what the fuck. Who says that parents should accept all theire kids bullshit first of all?

    • @GhostWalking512
      @GhostWalking512 Před 4 lety +5

      Imagine being that ignorant thinking that your person and emotions should be on top off everyones and everybody should accept your shit "bEcAuSe ThEy'Re yOuR pArEnTs, oThErWiSe ThEy DoNt DeSerVe tO bE pARenTs". Sweetie you're no the center of the universe. Everyone can choose what to accept or not. Stop being toxic lmao.

  • @eltan8410
    @eltan8410 Před 4 lety +5299

    Me:Mom Im a gay
    Mom:What is gay?
    .
    Wtf

    • @sandhiyaselvaraj5335
      @sandhiyaselvaraj5335 Před 3 lety +203

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
      America:-
      Me:- mom I'm a gay
      Mom:- don't worry you go enjoy your life.
      China:-
      Me:- mom I'm a gay
      Mom:- hmm. I will support you
      India:-
      Me:- mom I'm a gay
      Mom:- what??? I will slap you first go inside your room😠😠😠
      Me:- !!!!!

    • @Chaseyourgoal
      @Chaseyourgoal Před 3 lety +8

      Damn if that's you in the dp . You're so cute

    • @xyuwijaya6115
      @xyuwijaya6115 Před 3 lety +27

      @@sandhiyaselvaraj5335 Arab or Indonesia
      Hold my !

    • @kokichioma7110
      @kokichioma7110 Před 3 lety +15

      @@sandhiyaselvaraj5335 it’s the same with Arabic’s I know bc I’m in one my mom is mad that there are people who are different she hates gays, tomboys, and other things

    • @erdoganlaputinishiplemeyen1281
      @erdoganlaputinishiplemeyen1281 Před 3 lety +1

      Jsnxksbd çok iyi

  • @wasabi-neko106
    @wasabi-neko106 Před 3 lety +349

    「お母さんが女性を恋愛対象として見れんのと一緒や」
    そう!そうなんだよね

  • @user-rd9gm2oh1o
    @user-rd9gm2oh1o Před 4 lety +170

    人をあやめた訳でもなく、人の物をとった訳でもなく、人が人をただ純粋に好きになっただけ。なにも悪いことしてない。どんな形であれ、愛すること、好きになることは美しいと思う。

  • @ahegwhat4446
    @ahegwhat4446 Před 3 lety +4162

    Me: Mom, I'm gay.
    My mom: Oh, its fine.
    Me: really??
    My mom: Yeah, I mean when I was in high school I would ship your father with his bestfriend (a boy).
    Me: 👁👄👁

  • @jendolls4053
    @jendolls4053 Před 4 lety +571

    The fact that he still likes the comment shows what this means to him.

  • @shiromaru369
    @shiromaru369 Před 3 lety +165

    お母さんなりに理解しようとしているのと、彼の涙に胸うたれました。ゲイだからって泣かなくてもいい世の中になって欲しい。親不孝なんかじゃないから。いい息子さんです。いいお母さんです。

  • @user-qm6xd2bd5n
    @user-qm6xd2bd5n Před 4 lety +719

    son: **sobbing**
    mom: "hold it together"

  • @touyatodoroki3797
    @touyatodoroki3797 Před 3 lety +507

    It’s nice to see 3 years late he’s happy with his boyfriend

    • @imaghost1577
      @imaghost1577 Před 3 lety +4

      Yeah lucky..

    • @izuku9052
      @izuku9052 Před 3 lety +1

      Hey big bro, didn't expect to see you here

    • @imaghost1577
      @imaghost1577 Před 3 lety

      @@izuku9052 it's really ur big bro? --v--

    • @izuku9052
      @izuku9052 Před 3 lety

      @@imaghost1577 nah, i was roleplaying lol

    • @imaghost1577
      @imaghost1577 Před 3 lety

      @@izuku9052oooooooh '_'

  • @kollykolly1607
    @kollykolly1607 Před 4 lety +557

    やっぱりなぁー
    せやと思ったわ
    多分お母さんは息子より先に
    覚悟があったんでしょうね。

    • @megumisofficial
      @megumisofficial Před 4 lety +9

      kolly kolly やっぱり母親はなんでも分かるんだよね。

  • @MEMENTOMORI-iq9iu
    @MEMENTOMORI-iq9iu Před 3 lety +539

    子どもが親を、想う気持ち。子どもが親を、想う気持ち。好きになるひとが、性別が同じ。命が繋がる事を諦めないで欲しい。そして日本でもっともっとこのようなケースが当たり前のようになって欲しいと思う。

    • @user-py4qc1kv1y
      @user-py4qc1kv1y Před 3 lety

      ふふららわやまつ

    • @Glass_Pig
      @Glass_Pig Před 3 lety

      子供が親を想う気持ち。
      親が子供を想う気持ち。

    • @user-lh9se4is5y
      @user-lh9se4is5y Před 3 lety

      言えて良かったよね。友達には言えたけど、親には言えなかったんだね。

  • @user-op5sw1qy8f
    @user-op5sw1qy8f Před 7 lety +813

    カミングアウトしたあと
    「(やっぱりな、)んで?」って続きを促してくれて、話聞こうとしてくれる時点でなけた。

    • @MoaandMore
      @MoaandMore  Před 7 lety +27

      コメントありがとうございます。
      これからも、LGBTのことについて配信をしていきますね!!!

  • @user-by9lu9tn6l
    @user-by9lu9tn6l Před 4 lety +632

    うちの母親は気持ち悪いとかすぐ言うからその度に反論してるんだけど、本当に気分が悪くなるんだよ。素敵なお母さんですね。受け止めようとしてくれてるところが

    • @user-ij3mi9hn5z
      @user-ij3mi9hn5z Před 4 lety +6

      その母親をどう思うかは勝手だけど否定はしちゃダメだな。お互い

    • @user-dk6ur9if2y
      @user-dk6ur9if2y Před 4 lety +2

      気持ち悪いね人間の失敗作
      男が男好きになるとかキモ!!

    • @user-bv1ek4hy1u
      @user-bv1ek4hy1u Před 4 lety +26

      野獣後輩 お前が言うな
      んでネタでも言うな

    • @user-tq3ki8uz5q
      @user-tq3ki8uz5q Před 4 lety +7

      野獣後輩 人の気持ち考えた方がいいぞ。大人になってから苦労するよ。

    • @godjapan3928
      @godjapan3928 Před 4 lety +1

      野獣後輩 野獣だからってなんでもいいと思うなよ?

  • @drewstae6536
    @drewstae6536 Před 4 lety +1674

    no one:
    me (straight asf): watching gay people telling their parents they're gay

    • @drewstae6536
      @drewstae6536 Před 4 lety +17

      @10k subscribers with no videos project lmfaooo I wish that was me in the pp...the guy is Kim taehyung...idk is he gay or not

    • @francineblackman5963
      @francineblackman5963 Před 4 lety +5

      @@drewstae6536 in the world.. Lol nope

    • @drewstae6536
      @drewstae6536 Před 4 lety +7

      @@francineblackman5963 2017.....Google it bby

    • @chrisskalls702
      @chrisskalls702 Před 4 lety

      Meeee

    • @canangul7917
      @canangul7917 Před 4 lety

      Same bro😂

  • @mmm-bc4pb
    @mmm-bc4pb Před 3 lety +164

    私もトランスジェンダー(FTM)の彼を初めて紹介した時、父には「女性同士で気持ち悪い」と言われました。
    しかし母には「一緒に居たい人と居ればいいやん」と言われ、父も母の言葉にそんなもんか~みたいな。
    めちゃくちゃ勇気いりましたよね。
    大丈夫です。本人たちが幸せなら伝わります。
    今では父も息子のように夫を可愛がっています(笑)

  • @Nicki17321
    @Nicki17321 Před 4 lety +709

    The strength of a woman is on display here. That lady was seriously heartbroken and didn't want to breakdown in front of her son because of her love for him. She definately cried to herself multiple times.

  • @Kali_1666
    @Kali_1666 Před 4 lety +1164

    My mother said she’d kick me out of the house if I were a lesbian...

    • @user-du8zy6rm5k
      @user-du8zy6rm5k Před 4 lety +61

      Lady, you seems like an adult person. She can't really do anything about your thoughs after this.

    • @Kali_1666
      @Kali_1666 Před 4 lety +65

      @@user-du8zy6rm5k Thanks for the compliment (calling me grown up)... But i'm 18 years old :)

    • @komdt6613
      @komdt6613 Před 3 lety +42

      @@Kali_1666 girl, if ur mom don't change her mind, don't told her that, when u have ur own work and u can live alone, maybe it will be the right moment. U need to be happy without toxic persons. Sorry for my bad english, good luck! ♡

    • @angelablasilopez6718
      @angelablasilopez6718 Před 3 lety +16

      Well you just said you're 18. Let me tell you something. When I was 16 I fell in love with my actual boyfriend, he was 32 back then. And at the beginning my parents wouldn't accept it. But I fought and fought for what I really wanted and loved, and they finally understood that there was nothing they could do about it. So when I finished school at 17, I went to his apartment and we're living together since then, and I'm 19 now. You must do what your heart tells you to do, cause you are the one and only one who can decide what to do on life. Do what makes you happy and don't care about others👍🏻💖

    • @xenirzh
      @xenirzh Před 3 lety +3

      Ля, мне мать то же самое сказала, лол

  • @fazsaid
    @fazsaid Před 4 lety +678

    They do say the hottest men are either gay or taken -

    • @dilipsaha4732
      @dilipsaha4732 Před 4 lety +6

      Yeah 🥺🥺

    • @holger_p
      @holger_p Před 3 lety

      This expresses, you cannot be gay and taken at the same time, cause gays are always up for something ;-)

    • @starrynight440
      @starrynight440 Před 3 lety

      Not true for me tbh... I've seen many straight men/guys who looked very attractive, and I've seen many gay or taken guys that weren't really that good looking 😅.... I guess beauty indeed is very subjective 😅😂

    • @iteeparx
      @iteeparx Před 3 lety

      Dude,,, your username 🥺😔

  • @ciee-hf4zh
    @ciee-hf4zh Před 3 lety +35

    この4年後になっても同性婚が認められていないっていうのがすごく悔しい。

  • @user-tu3ol6yh8p
    @user-tu3ol6yh8p Před 4 lety +2035

    In Japan a guy married a Miku Hatsune hologram but gays can’t get married lmfaooo

  • @1857kyle
    @1857kyle Před 4 lety +213

    僕はバイですが、親にバレてしまい、家から出てけと言われて日本に来ました
    僕の場合は認めてくれなくていいから、ほっといて欲しかったです
    この方のお母さんも複雑だと思うし直ぐには受け入れられないだろうけど、息子さんの話に一生懸命耳を傾けている姿に感動しました
    そしてお友達も素敵な方ですね
    日本語下手ですみません

    • @user-yw6xe3zu5k
      @user-yw6xe3zu5k Před 4 lety +33

      日本語上手くて草

    • @1857kyle
      @1857kyle Před 4 lety +10

      ひまんちゅ暇人 あひゃ!ありがとう!

  • @lawenabdulla9100
    @lawenabdulla9100 Před 3 lety +789

    “I’ll be waiting for my grandkids” SHE IS SO CUTE

  • @user-sv3tu9qq2s
    @user-sv3tu9qq2s Před 3 lety +54

    こうやって自分の事をきちんと話してくれることが、親としては嬉しいと思う。
    申し訳ないなんて思う必要ないし、幸せに生きてくれたらそれだけで親は幸せです。
    私も息子がいるけど、そう思います。

  • @user-pj5nm5gq1r
    @user-pj5nm5gq1r Před 4 lety +168

    「お母さんが女の人を恋愛対象に見れないのと一緒やん」って言葉すごくいいな。その通りだもんな、何もおかしいことじゃない

  • @user-eo8wp8mo4n
    @user-eo8wp8mo4n Před 4 lety +1475

    何で好きな人ができただけなのにこんな泣かなきゃならないの。なんで受け入れられない人がいる世の中で苦しまなきゃならないんだ。誰が誰を好きになろうと自由じゃないか

    • @I-am-gakky
      @I-am-gakky Před 4 lety +28

      動画で号泣してこのコメントでまた号泣しました。

    • @mayutomoi3712
      @mayutomoi3712 Před 4 lety +9

      このコメント素晴らしい

    • @kominokuma2962
      @kominokuma2962 Před 4 lety +8

      このコメント見て余計うるうるしました。批判かうかもですが生き物すべて子孫繁栄が1番なのでどうしても同性愛は批判的な意見な人が少なからず残ってしまいますよね・・・

    • @user-bb6qe4ui6g
      @user-bb6qe4ui6g Před 4 lety +6

      キリストとか宗教絡みになって来るとそう簡単な事ではないよ

    • @user-rj5ko6zu7m
      @user-rj5ko6zu7m Před 4 lety +7

      現実ではみんな大人だからね気持ち悪いなんて言わないし言えないよ。思ってて発言してもそれは批判の対象になるだけだし。だけど私はゲイを受け入れられないし、そういう人間の声も大切にしなきゃいけない。

  • @sawa9302
    @sawa9302 Před 4 lety +227

    お母さんの素直に残念そうな気持ちが伝わってくるのが、辛い。
    そんな中でも、すぐに受け入れてくれる優しさ。
    自分は親には言えなさそう。
    あたたかい家族で素敵です。

  • @24-scmz
    @24-scmz Před 3 lety +111

    愛しか感じなくて、もらい泣きしてしまった。

  • @imnoorah
    @imnoorah Před 4 lety +402

    The way he’s explaining to her that he could have children so she won’t feel so sad 🥺

  • @user-vp9uw1tt8g
    @user-vp9uw1tt8g Před 4 lety +271

    She is sooooo sweet! She did her best to be understanding and as kind towards the situation. How lovely..

  • @shiorio7504
    @shiorio7504 Před 6 lety +1131

    お母さんの気持ちとしては、あなたが同性愛者と言うことより、海外に行くことの方がつらいと思う。「もう戻ってこんつもり?」とか「だから海外に行きたいの?」とか言う端々に、寂しさを感じたので、遠くに離れて行く事の方が不安そうです。どうか寂しい思いをさせないように、たまに電話してあげてください。息子が可愛くてしょうがないのが伝わってこっち雅泣きそう

  • @user-qsryj
    @user-qsryj Před 3 lety +150

    相手が同性だって、結婚できる、子供もできる。そういう普通の世の中に早く日本がなって欲しいと思った。泣くことないよ。大丈夫、みんな応援してる📣

  • @me-tp3vy
    @me-tp3vy Před 4 lety +146

    同性愛と言うだけで涙を流しながらカミングアウトしなくてはいけないなんて辛かったですね。陰ながら応援してます!

  • @mogemogmogegon
    @mogemogmogegon Před 6 lety +374

    ほんと良いお母さん
    理解のある良いお母さんで本当によかった
    「やっぱりな」ってところは、ああ母親だなって思いました

  • @user-nl6vo8jo5f
    @user-nl6vo8jo5f Před rokem +16

    もうダメだ。涙が出て止まらない。
    ご家族と友達も最高に良い方達ばかりでこちらとしても凄く嬉しくなりました。
    応援してます。
    この先もっともっと幸せになってほしいです。

  • @JellyBeanssus
    @JellyBeanssus Před 3 lety +1957

    i actually can feel his mom feeling.....she is kinda sad after hearing it beacuse every parents except their child to marry and hv kids and live a happy life but she did not disagree on him and decuded to support him. Your mom its just so kind and lovely and open hearted 💜
    Edit : Thanks for the 2k likes which yall agree what i hv said n btw i nvr have so many like b4 😊💜

    • @clarkabinaya6125
      @clarkabinaya6125 Před 3 lety +29

      Me to, her face looks so sad and disappointed.

    • @JellyBeanssus
      @JellyBeanssus Před 3 lety +15

      @@clarkabinaya6125 yea as a girl or a women we can understand this 😔

    • @TastyQueen
      @TastyQueen Před 3 lety +12

      Wel you can still have kids when you hay

    • @moon.937
      @moon.937 Před 3 lety +25

      You can adopt and being forced to marry someone you're not attracted to wont help you have a happy life. I hope she realizes that her son's coming out is the first step to his future happiness.

    • @JellyBeanssus
      @JellyBeanssus Před 3 lety +4

      @@moon.937 ya i know this im just helping her telling her feeling im not like banning him from doing dat bruhhhh🌚

  • @kumahara_kumami
    @kumahara_kumami Před 7 lety +327

    同性も異性も同じように恋ができるのが当たり前な世界になってほしいですね!
    あなたのこの勇気が、大きな幸せになりますように!

    • @MoaandMore
      @MoaandMore  Před 7 lety +13

      僕もそう願ってます。
      ありがとうございます‼︎

  • @missak1365
    @missak1365 Před 4 lety +412

    *She is the calm mother i wish i had, my mom don't listen and understand me.... That's why we can't communicate...and even if i say something...she takes it the other way. I am really happy that you have a mother like that*

    • @aishaniiai
      @aishaniiai Před 4 lety +2

      i get it

    • @everywherebts3149
      @everywherebts3149 Před 4 lety +3

      My mom too

    • @loverbxy
      @loverbxy Před 4 lety +1

      𝗟𝗼𝗼𝗸𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘄𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝙡𝙤𝙡 ☻

  • @user-gi7zt1bk4n
    @user-gi7zt1bk4n Před 3 lety +41

    何かを悟って息子さんをずっと見つめるお母さんの顔が印象的。

  • @priscillamacharia3090
    @priscillamacharia3090 Před 4 lety +209

    Am crying as I laugh she's like "I'll be waiting for my grandkids"

  • @jenyk2413
    @jenyk2413 Před 4 lety +213

    MOM: you're going to come home right?
    River started flowing 😭

  • @user-el5wb7pl7i
    @user-el5wb7pl7i Před 4 lety +147

    話し出すまでずっと黙って
    聞いてあげてるの泣ける。
    やさしいなあ。母は偉大。

  • @user-ew7ic8ig4z
    @user-ew7ic8ig4z Před 3 lety +66

    お母様 優し
    何があっても自分の子供ですものね
    よく、打ち明けた~

  • @EggsheeransBitch
    @EggsheeransBitch Před 3 lety +975

    me: ummmmmmm
    Mum: hmmmmmmmm
    Me: mum im....-
    Mum: ur lesbian?
    Me: -......lesbian
    Mum: Ik i've seen you kiss that girl UnU
    Me: WUT

  • @BlueeCo91
    @BlueeCo91 Před 4 lety +357

    He seems so kindhearted, it's like good energy is radiating from him.

    • @GReyn
      @GReyn Před 4 lety

      true.. i feel it as well.. and he is goodlooking as well, that is a plus..

  • @MrFluff1623
    @MrFluff1623 Před 4 lety +5070

    She looks like she is not killing him just becuase of the camera

    • @chicago2colombia
      @chicago2colombia Před 4 lety +12

      Funny

    • @AdriCr4ft
      @AdriCr4ft Před 4 lety +546

      Valentina Charlotte I don’t get that impression, I thought she was more “sad”. But very supportive. She’s more sad about him leaving.

    • @monkeyslap
      @monkeyslap Před 4 lety +91

      She’s restraining herself while continuously asking, “You’re going to tell your dad, right?” Dun-dun-duuuuun!

    • @AdriCr4ft
      @AdriCr4ft Před 4 lety +60

      stimul8 my mother acted just like this lady did when I told her I was smoking xD “your going to tell you dad right?” Is one of their favourite sentences. It doesn’t matter if your gay. Mums usually always take it easier than dads.

    • @takuyamatsuda7214
      @takuyamatsuda7214 Před 4 lety +5

      stimul8 you literally know nothing lmfao.

  • @Haru-kh3gb
    @Haru-kh3gb Před 3 lety +65

    自分は女性ですが前に女性とお付き合いしてました。
    それを母に伝えたところ「認めない。貴女は女性で恋愛対象は男性。今まで男性と付き合ってきてる。だから女性とは付き合うはずがない」とずっと言われてきました。確かに恋愛対象は男性でした。付き合った女性は心は男性で体は女性でした。この世の中なぜ同性同士が結婚できないのか認められないのか親に恵まれなかったのか。何度も何度も悩みました。親に認められない気持ちは誰も体験して欲しくないです。例え将来自分の子供が出来てもそれぞれの個性として受け入れていきたいなと思っています。
    長々とすみません。素敵なパートナーが現れること結婚できる世の中になることを心から願っています。

    • @chichichinochichichi
      @chichichinochichichi Před 3 lety +2

      @@ahugof7833 いやいや…この件に関しては絶対に否定したらだめでしょ…。

  • @ilknurdss4871
    @ilknurdss4871 Před 4 lety +1126

    It’s cute he talks about to have children .. he knows it will be hard, but he really want to have children

    • @freeseijuro6780
      @freeseijuro6780 Před 4 lety +2

      Whattttttt?? Thats not possible

    • @osamuscumdump1901
      @osamuscumdump1901 Před 4 lety +12

      Free Seijuro you know, they can always adopt if they cant

    • @noramarzook7648
      @noramarzook7648 Před 4 lety +2

      Children*

    • @mrskaa7584
      @mrskaa7584 Před 4 lety +4

      Yes. Children is the plural of Child in the English language. So you don't say Childs or Childrens. Just another odd thing lol

    • @noramarzook7648
      @noramarzook7648 Před 4 lety +2

      @@mrskaa7584
      Yeah, I agree with you.
      Noura Marzook- second year English language and literature student 🤗

  • @jericprincehernandez8121
    @jericprincehernandez8121 Před 3 lety +792

    Me: bisexual
    Mom: Straight
    Dad: straight
    Older sister: pansexual
    Cousin: gay
    Niece: pansexual
    Aunt: straight

    • @imaghost1577
      @imaghost1577 Před 3 lety +19

      O- my goood
      My cousin she's the only person who's bisexual ;-;

    • @imaghost1577
      @imaghost1577 Před 3 lety +4

      @@bradleymenezes6196 ask him idk how can I tell u :/

    • @aessrff
      @aessrff Před 3 lety +1

      Omg

    • @kafabidunya8950
      @kafabidunya8950 Před 3 lety +5

      @Dormin's Subs Bisexual means "having the potential to be able to get attracted to both sexes and all the gender identities but not necessarily at the same time and not necessarily at the same amount." Sex-uality has nothing to do with gender and I am saying this as a bisexual and nonbinary person myself. Saying bisexuals only like girls and boys is biphobic and saying pansexuals like transgender people is transphobic as if trans people are something different. Bi in bi-sexual addresses the 2 sexes (everyone no matter what their gender identity is either biologically male or female or intersex (which is a hormonal and physical condition) ) not the " 2 genders"

    • @thebiker7698
      @thebiker7698 Před 3 lety +6

      My whole family from both parts...total 22 members all straight...im BI ...LMFAO NEVER GONNA DO COMING OUT

  • @laiszeyap3706
    @laiszeyap3706 Před 4 lety +1402

    He actually look like he loves men. That vibe. He look like a gentle young men

    • @monkeyslap
      @monkeyslap Před 4 lety +100

      Yes, he seems very genuine. But I also feel a bit sad for him. The kind of love he wants is even more uncommon for gays than it is for straight folks. There is a greater likelihood of infatuation, over sexualization, and infidelity in the gay community. It will open it’s arms to you, then torture you and spit you out. Or your heart will harden and lose that innocence, in order to remain in its embrace.

    • @arraikcruor6407
      @arraikcruor6407 Před 4 lety +7

      @@monkeyslap This is so true. I recently accepted I am gay and I started off with grindr. A guy talked to me for over a week. Said good night and good morning to me everyday, enthusiastic to see me, told me about his life and hobbies, joked about the future, used to make blush all the time. Then when the day came to meet him he was offline. He has been offline for a week now. Not a single word. 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @nikolettkondi7930
      @nikolettkondi7930 Před 4 lety +3

      Arraik Cruor i mean we don’t have to think right away that he doesn’t want you maybe he lost his phone or got logged out? Or maybe he died?

    • @arraikcruor6407
      @arraikcruor6407 Před 4 lety

      @@nikolettkondi7930 I agree that anything could have happened. I just hopes he gives me closure one day.

    • @ViktoriaYatsenko
      @ViktoriaYatsenko Před 4 lety

      @@arraikcruor6407 hope he or whoever was that was not cat hmm I forgot the word.. It was entirely new to me. Well it's someone pretending to be someone he or she is not. And when It's time to meet they don't show up, all of suddenly they disappeared as if they never existed.
      Sigh such a cruel way to set up person after they give them hope , and using them for their own benefits without any guilt , and when it's time to meet they panic because they don't want to be caught. Oh i think I remember the word . is it Catfishing ?
      Anyway, be careful online. Anyone can be anyone they want to be. Don't give them money or anything or any information such as your address, ID etc, including your phone number unless the person is genuine and maybe you did video chat etc hmm. Idk , judge as you see fit and stay strong.

  • @user-mn4nw2yf2q
    @user-mn4nw2yf2q Před 3 lety +5

    『あんたが幸せやったら、それでいいやん!』
    って受け入れて、子供の幸せを考えて涙しながら言ってくれるお母ちゃんも凄い❗
    この言葉で泣きました❗

  • @dariashurakhtenko2976
    @dariashurakhtenko2976 Před 4 lety +166

    Не плачь ❤
    Ты молодец
    Хорошо, что есть такие родители, которые принимают тебя таким, какой ты есть

  • @user-rf9ie4is2b
    @user-rf9ie4is2b Před 4 lety +449

    25年彼女できなくて家族からゲイと思われてるワイ

  • @valentinasalazar5522
    @valentinasalazar5522 Před 4 lety +124

    2017: Algún día.
    2018: NO todavía no.
    2019: Estamos cerca...
    2020: Si ahora sí.
    Love is love, honey. ♡

  • @ten9107
    @ten9107 Před 11 měsíci +18

    これをカミングアウトっていうこと自体なくなる世の中になってほしいな

  • @atari_rx
    @atari_rx Před 4 lety +888

    This is so beautiful. Coming out to Asian parents, especially Japanese parents, is very difficult and scary. I’m also Asian and came out to my parents when I was 14. My mom immediately cried and gave me a hard time up until I was 27 years old. It was only until recently that my mom realized how hurt I felt growing up gay because I finally expressed to her how bad it feels when your family doesn’t fully accept you for who you are and now she finally understands. Recently, she defended me in front of my entire extended family about how she loves me no matter if I’m gay and vowed to hurt anyone if they hurt me. It felt really good to see her defend me and not be ashamed for once. My mom and I now have an amazing relationship and I can openly talk to her about my girlfriend and our future kids together. She’s waiting for grandkids just like his mom in this video :) And my dad, well, he’s loved me ever since I came out because I’m his baby girl and daddy’s princess. For all my LGBT Asians and other gay brothers and sisters out there, it takes time. Our parents are from a different generation and cultural upbringing than us but they will always love you, even if they don’t show it or accept it at first. Stay strong and hang in there, it usually gets better over time.

    • @ayusharora5102
      @ayusharora5102 Před 4 lety +5

      So beautiful. And what you said is totally right. It really takes time. Congrats for your future. Enjoy your life. Stay blessed and happy with your loved one's.....

    • @mushr--m
      @mushr--m Před 4 lety +3

      Time to wait until I'm 27 I guess ;;

    • @yuzuruch.7491
      @yuzuruch.7491 Před 4 lety +1

      I'm scared to tell my mother I loved a girl once. Bc she's also really religious. And I think that would be a shame for my family. I dunno.

    • @skarutbaboon6256
      @skarutbaboon6256 Před 4 lety +1

      Im currently only 13 and i know im into girls and not guys.i am way to scared to come out just because i get a lot of hate on me because of how skinny i am or how i act.im very shy so people tend to not speak to me.i only have my mom.shes all the support i need tbh and i love her the most.

    • @rachel8116
      @rachel8116 Před 4 lety +1

      Oh this is beautiful. Thank u for sharing ur story

  • @carolinad9098
    @carolinad9098 Před 4 lety +1373

    I felted when she said; “if you want to have kids then why don’t you like woman?”, I can assure you he tried, but there isn’t such thing as forcing yourself into liking someone.
    You did well, lots,lots, lotsss of love and fighting 💛

    • @sofiasofia5405
      @sofiasofia5405 Před 4 lety +4

      Come to America! You can adopt a baby or child!We have so many that need a loving home!

    • @Bookwormxox
      @Bookwormxox Před 4 lety +1

      Frl❤️

    • @carolinad9098
      @carolinad9098 Před 4 lety +1

      Zeera Cheeze can I ask why you say that?

    • @steventalik4782
      @steventalik4782 Před 4 lety +15

      Zeera Cheeze Gay people are not sterile. They still have effective egg and sperm. If he wants a biological child go do IVF. Get a donor egg. I know a gay couple who had both child through IVF. One child biologically belongs to one father and the other is biologically to the other father. Both child share the same donor mother. The two father has been raising those children since birth as they are both the legal guardian of the child. Mother is just a donor and she said she doesn’t want to be involved.

    • @hellgavampenstein9906
      @hellgavampenstein9906 Před 4 lety

      Gosh me too 😭

  • @suicamomoruri5730
    @suicamomoruri5730 Před 4 lety +64

    子供を授かるっていう表現してくれてるのがすごく嬉しいです。
    妊娠経験はないですが、とにかく嬉しかったです。

  • @cabori
    @cabori Před 3 lety +441

    She comes from a generation where homosexuality was not normalized. So for her to be disappointed and still express her love for her son is something beyond words. Kudos to her. Congrats on coming out!

    • @amymagyar7271
      @amymagyar7271 Před 3 lety +8

      Agreed. Congratulations on choosing to be you. Much love and success!

  • @user-rm7tb4pv8d
    @user-rm7tb4pv8d Před 4 lety +68

    お母さんも必死に受け入れて上げようとしてるのが伝わる
    いい母だね

  • @user-gm7pq4oo1f
    @user-gm7pq4oo1f Před 4 lety +98

    親に言うの本当に勇気要るだろうし、お母さんが思うのは男同志だとどうなるとかだろうし…普通に不安な部分があるだろうけど、それを受け止めてくれるお母さんで本当に良かったとしか言えないな…
    自分は全くゲイとかおかしいと思ったことないし、本人が幸せなら、別に周りに迷惑かけてる訳じゃないから、1度も「え、ゲイやばー」とか「きもちわる」とか全く思ったことない。
    幸せなら、別に迷惑かけてる訳じゃないから全然いいと思う。
    言い方悪くなると思うけど、ゲイとかに対して興味がないから(あくまでも悪い言い方)全くヤバいとか思ったことがない。
    色々あると思うけど、頑張って下さい。応援してます!

  • @shark_bee
    @shark_bee Před 4 lety +3142

    Me: Mom I’m bisexual
    My mom: No you are not
    Me: *w h a t*
    Edit: 2000 likes? Omg
    After two months I found out that I’m Omni and non binary, Lmao

    • @Lale_Canfeda
      @Lale_Canfeda Před 4 lety +38

      wtf 😂

    • @GracieGray10
      @GracieGray10 Před 4 lety +14

      Legit what happened when I came out

    • @miaanthony2688
      @miaanthony2688 Před 4 lety +31

      My parents: it's just a phase😂

    • @martyrigs7141
      @martyrigs7141 Před 4 lety +10

      My mum: r u crushing on Ur best friend then
      Me: erm no
      My mum: well u don't know ur sexuality yet
      Me:😶😑🤔

    • @sabrinya7700
      @sabrinya7700 Před 4 lety

      😂😂

  • @user-vm9qt2ct5r
    @user-vm9qt2ct5r Před 3 lety +192

    「仕方ない」って言う、日本にはよい言葉があるね

    • @ichieyu745
      @ichieyu745 Před 3 lety +49

      これは私の意見ですが。。。
      仕方ないというのはいい言葉じゃないと思います。本当はこうであって欲しいのにちがくて仕方ない、と言うのは、聞いてもらっている彼はきっと心を痛めていると思います。
      お母様は気づいていて、受け入れる努力をする段階の仕方ない、なので、お母様を責める気は全くありません。。。
      LGBTがまだまだ受け入れられていない現状では、受け入れてくれるようになっただけで、今はいいのかも知れませんが、将来はもっともっとLGBTが一つの性扱いになる、普通の世界になって行く事を願っています。
      そうそう。私はアメリカ在住ですが、某大きい会社に履歴書を送ったのですが、その質問事項にlgbtの質問があって、流石、と思いながらも、ちょっと違和感も感じてしまいました 。lgbtを特別扱いしているという事は"普通"扱いではないですものね。

    • @m.rose777
      @m.rose777 Před 3 lety +2

      色んな意味が含まった仕方ない なのかなっとどうがをみておもった!日本語は色んな言葉に色んな意味を持たせて話す事ができる素敵なツールだと思う。お母さんがどんな気持ちを含めて仕方ないという言葉にしたんだろうね、、

    • @citrun5949
      @citrun5949 Před 3 lety +6

      仕方ない…と言う言葉の捉え方は人それぞれです…ですが使い方を誤れば…人の心を傷つけてしまう可能性もあると言うことを忘れてはいけない事が分かりました…

  • @Feliciti919
    @Feliciti919 Před 4 lety +1600

    Lol when I subtly told my parents I like ppl of the same sex, their reaction were different. My mom was disappointed and I remember she said "But a man for a woman is better! Even for cuddling!" And she tried to show me that men were better than women for a relationship.
    My dad, on the other side... We were at a fastfood, eating our 5$ sandwiches and I stopped eating. I was a bit stressed and I said "I dated a girl in highschool..." to which he answered "Do you want more french fries?"
    I was taken aback and repeated "Y'know, i think i might like girls..." "Yeah I heard. In fact, that's not a big matter. Maybe I should order more frenchfries for your brother"
    The best reaction I could've ever dream of 😭

    • @likeakittie
      @likeakittie Před 4 lety +11

      awwww...😢😢

    • @EMBEEAY
      @EMBEEAY Před 4 lety +27

      I would hate that reaction. Someone has done that to me before and it still bothers me to this day.... People think they are making it better by “not caring”, even though it emotionally and mentally means a lot and has taken a toll you. But I guess it depends on the person.

    • @vivi1970
      @vivi1970 Před 4 lety +3

      Your father is so cool that's a fact

    • @minniexoxo1352
      @minniexoxo1352 Před 4 lety +3

      Once, a woman in my city asked "do you have any mental problem?" (I feel like everyone in my country knows that i am bisexual) and my daddy answered "my princess isn't ill". And when my mummy was alive she always defensed me.
      Love you Dad and Mum ❤

    • @huevos3031
      @huevos3031 Před 4 lety

      Awww so cute and how parents should always react~ ❤

  • @georgerotaru5037
    @georgerotaru5037 Před 4 lety +1863

    Ok so, I'm lesbian, i have 14 yrs old and...
    My mother ...
    *Nope*
    Edit: Ty all for 1k likes♡
    Y'all best💗💗

    • @linahbch2673
      @linahbch2673 Před 4 lety +81

      Im lesbian i have 15yo and I can’t tell anyone even my friends... one of my friends I told her that I was lesbian and now no and she said the same but I still lesbian.. 😞

    • @TMlSenya
      @TMlSenya Před 4 lety +59

      @@linahbch2673 I'm 14 and bisexual. I think cus I- i dont even know what to say cuz I'm kinda struggling with it and I'm rlly scared to say anything to my friends and family. I try to not think about it cuz it gives me anxiety and makes my stomach hurt.

    • @linahbch2673
      @linahbch2673 Před 4 lety +17

      Jaheim Campbell I dunno sometimes I feel like im lesb and sometimes m bi I dunno what to do I cant tell my family or even my close friend... actually she’s not ... and Im cryin’ Ik im doin’ something wrong and god will get mad at me I just wanna be normally like the others 🚶🏻‍♀️💔

    • @marielypalicio4824
      @marielypalicio4824 Před 4 lety +5

      @@linahbch2673 i understend you, the case is the same, keep stronger uwu

    • @linahbch2673
      @linahbch2673 Před 4 lety +1

      Mariely Palicio thank u 👉🏻👈🏻✨

  • @min_juan1518
    @min_juan1518 Před 4 lety +455

    También fue difícil decirle a mi mamá que me gustan los chicos de mi mismo sexo, pero ella ya suponía que a mi me gustaban, y el día que le dije a ella, me dijo que a ella no le importa si me gustaban los chicos de mi mismo sexo, sólo que fuera feliz, ya que amor es amor, enserio agradezco mucho a mi mamá, por haberme apoyado😢❤

    • @nosinonosino9613
      @nosinonosino9613 Před 4 lety +1

      Que suerte

    • @elcalladitodelsalon682
      @elcalladitodelsalon682 Před 4 lety +4

      Digo que soy asexual pero soy bi y no we Como decirle a mi family

    • @BenBen-kn5do
      @BenBen-kn5do Před 4 lety

      Vaya..tuviste bastante suerte

    • @Liaishappy
      @Liaishappy Před 4 lety

      Esta es una cosa muy buena❤
      Cuando los padres aceptan la ideologia sexual de sus hijos, es maravilloso❤

    • @abcDan_24
      @abcDan_24 Před 4 lety

      Que bonito apesar de que a mí no me pasa eso (por qué soy hetero) pero me parece bonito que sean fuertes ustedes pueden amar a quien quieran 😁😊

  • @chihayaxx2922
    @chihayaxx2922 Před 3 lety +31

    男とか女とか関係なく人を愛せるって素敵なことですよね。

  • @user-ni3hz8lz1j
    @user-ni3hz8lz1j Před 4 lety +174

    ありのままの方が綺麗やで
    俺はこの人を尊敬する

  • @kouseisya31
    @kouseisya31 Před 4 lety +248

    美輪明宏さんは、
    『人類が人類を愛して何が悪い』
    と言ってました。
    すごい名言だと思った。
    ちなみに僕はゲイではないですがLGBTに理解があります。変えていきましょう、この時代。みんなに、幸あれ。

  • @applepi3991
    @applepi3991 Před 4 lety +222

    Literalmente estoy llorando, se necesita de mucho valor para decirle a tu familia, es bueno que hayan respetado tus gustos y espero y seas muy feliz ❤️.

  • @logcome3427
    @logcome3427 Před 3 lety +13

    生きづらかった事実を声に出すこと本当に勇気のあることだったと思います。無理せず、頑張ってくださいね。

  • @DF-be6vb
    @DF-be6vb Před 4 lety +132

    親の心情は親にしか分からん。
    滅茶苦茶複雑なだけは分かる。

  • @catherinehargrave5142
    @catherinehargrave5142 Před 3 lety +493

    His mother should have given him a hug, that’s what he needed x

    • @niloofarnavaei3752
      @niloofarnavaei3752 Před 3 lety +41

      Oh Asian moms....

    • @lincoqie
      @lincoqie Před 3 lety +60

      We don't have hug culture in Japan. Sorry 🙃

    • @YonaIsh
      @YonaIsh Před 3 lety +52

      I'm asian ( my parents are too ) when emotional things happen between my family ( or even my friends ) it's very awkward to hug after and no one will have that thought to comfort someone.

    • @uthrapriya7030
      @uthrapriya7030 Před 3 lety +21

      I would feel weird if my mom hugs me, no matter how emotional I feel.

    • @maryu258
      @maryu258 Před 3 lety

      Anything else?😏

  • @tadanoasanobu
    @tadanoasanobu Před 4 lety +24

    お母さん、素敵だね。
    差別とかじゃ無くて、素直な反応だと思う。

  • @user-jw3rg6so9x
    @user-jw3rg6so9x Před 3 lety +15

    最初のやっぱりな〜っておっしゃったお母様の一言で涙が出ました。
    人それぞれの人生❣️
    あなたの人生❣️
    偉大なるお母様ですね。

  • @Stare_into_void
    @Stare_into_void Před 3 lety +160

    The fact that you're hearting comments even now even though you posted this 3 years ago. We stan.

  • @blackswan3882
    @blackswan3882 Před 4 lety +729

    Nose si vas a leer esto o siquieras me entiendas pero solo quiero decir:
    Ser homosexual/bisexual/asexual/pansexual, etc.
    No te hace mejor ni peor persona,solo sos una persona común y corriente, con gustos como cualquier otro ser humano, admiro mucho que grabaras tu confeción y en la manera que reaccionó tu madre sinceramente no me lo esperaba, pensé y me hubiera gustado que alla dicho cosas como "te sigo queriendo" "no importa, seguís siendo mi hijo y te sigo amando" etc...
    Pero bueno, cada quien con sus maneras de expresarse...
    No se sientan mal por tener "gustos distintos" siguen siendo seres humanos y en cuanto a esas personas que los criticas e insultan solo dan lástima, preocupense mejor por ser una buena persona y cuidar a sus seres queridos en vez de preocuparse por lo que digan ellos o aquellos...
    Y para los religiosos homofobicos que ponen de excusa a dios diciendo "dios castiga a los homosexuales"....... Soy atea pero estoy 100% segura que su dios no va a castigar a una persona por amar a otra, actualicense gente, personas son personas, sin importar importar su religion,país en que nazcas,sexualidad,clase social, etc...
    Te apoyo y a todos los que tomas en valor de decirlo frente a millones de personas, te mando la mejor vibra del mundo jajaja...
    Bye, saludos desde Argentina 💕

    • @axs5153
      @axs5153 Před 4 lety +33

      Mae se gano mi respeto 😔✨

    • @gegedantas4307
      @gegedantas4307 Před 4 lety +5

      Me encantó tu vídeo me encantó tu historia ojalá seas muy feliz. Besos des d Brasil 💋🇧🇷

    • @chansnonexistentheight7044
      @chansnonexistentheight7044 Před 4 lety +2

      Eso es lo que le abia dicho a my pa que todavia era la misma niña de antes y que todavia lo amaba pero no le importo eso a el
      Sorry por my español porque es my primer language but se me olvida como escribir en Spanish, y tambien autocorrect no deja escribir bien que pedo

    • @albak4746
      @albak4746 Před 4 lety +7

      Estoy de acuerdo contigo,pero la pansexualidad realmente no existe. Jsjs

    • @blackswan3882
      @blackswan3882 Před 4 lety +3

      @@albak4746 en realidad si we jjsjaijaja

  • @user-zq9cd5dr9o
    @user-zq9cd5dr9o Před 4 lety +77

    お母さんも動揺してるだろうに、落ち着いてしっかりどっしり構えてあげてるのすっごいいいお母さんですね

  • @user-cq2yw4gt4r
    @user-cq2yw4gt4r Před 3 lety +54

    あんたが幸せなら、それでいいやん。って、大体の親なら思う事ですが、もし自分の子供がそうだったら…
    そういう事が言えるのか…。
    動画の中の息子さんも、お母さんの気持ちを察しすぎてて、涙になりますよね。
    本当に素晴らしい親子関係です😺

  • @wangleima5294
    @wangleima5294 Před 3 lety +84

    He's tearing up 😭 he didn't knew how to say it to his mom awwwww....... "It's fine as long you're happy" this words are so precious😭✨