3 Marriages ??? | 1980's Intercaste Love Marriage & Struggles
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3 Marriages | 1980's Intercaste Love Marriage & Struggles
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The best 24 mins of my life listening to this video ❤❤❤. Thank you Bhaiya and Bhabi for recording this, now this will stay with us forever.
Thts true..i will never forget this lovestory
It would be great to record a song of your parents in your studio at home.
Lovely love story 😍
👍👍
😭Sachi me yaar ... Aunty ji ne bola wo touch kr Gaya baat Bhut pyari h aunty ji aap😘😘😘😘🧿mata Rani blessed u💖
I was in a relation with someone from different caste and religion for more than 10 years. In the end he couldn’t tell his family about me and he had an arranged marriage with someone from his own caste. Not everyone have a heart to take major life decision. Your father is a brave man.
No dowry
Intercaste Inter-community
irrespective of looks
They fell for each other's hearts
This is what marriage is all about.
Have faith...we all will find our soulmate.
Very true line.... don't know why people complicate it
sab luck ki bat bahut log esa chahte hain but wesa life partner milta nahi .. ye sab pichle karm hain... wo depend karta hain upper wala apke bare mei kya decide karta hai par ye sab har kisi ke sath hota nahi its all about destiny
It is Inter Community Marriage, not inter caste. Marriage between a Punjabi groom & Bengali bride. Your parents and their parents were wise, so the journey of marriage was smooth.
My mum is a Dogri Rajput from Jammu n dad is a Maithil Brahmin from Bihar... Both doctors,met in Medical College...Dated for 7-8 years n then after a lot of struggle n manana from my fathers side..my Brigadier Nanaji agreed... In 1974 they united their lives ,souls n Its a beautiful journey since... I n my brother know 8 languages... My parents are amazing... n super grandparents now!! We enjoy the culture n cuisines from both sides...
So I love intercaste marriage stories... Thanks for this lovely story...
Wow 🙏🙏
Great...I am also a Bihari
I m also dogra from jammu
Its very difficult to do intercaste marriages in jammu especially bhramin girls
Great love story
Arjuna ,your father is so so practical, His thoughts are so positive he is a pure gentleman
Lucky you "Arjuna"
Yes. That is adorable to know for over intelligent caste based minded people,but it will be easy for loving mind people.
Why I said over intelligent just go below to understand this
jaati ka Matlab to ye but ki uchhi jaati ka aadmi kitna bhi bura Kare wo hamesha. Ucha hi rahega aur neechi jaati kaaadmi agar bhagwan bhi ban Jaye phir bhi wo apradhi hi kahlaye!Nature is god, this is written in every book, sun is the only lord, because every planet worship him, but some people always prayed humans!
Our hindu religion is Great because i. It we pray true Lord Sun only!
This story proves that supporting parents kisi bhi era me exist kr skte bas soch aisi honi chahiye k bacche khus rhe😃really lucky people.
I have toxic parents and they fight so much and never understand each other that always make me think that marriage is very toxic where two people just fight but after listening this story and Arjuna Divya story I feel it's most beautiful thing ...I started believing in soulmate ...your story are just ",MIRACLE" and god bless your family for such pure thoughts 🥺❤️
Same here man🙂 I'm so so glad i got arjuna sir's channel❤️
@@vaishnavii6299 yeah , at least we have different perspective after watching them😊
Same here
I am sure these two couples also fight behind the camera.. so, all marriages will have fond memories and silly fights but they always stay together, thats the beauty of our hindu marriage system...
Same here 😑
Arjuna sir's speaking style is similar to his father😁
Their story is so raw and pure. ❤
AApke mummy papa ki story aapse similar hi hai. Bs thori unpdated hai. Ab to kichu ki same story aayegi. God bless you kichu😘😘😘
Kuch pakhandi log kahte hai aap pichle Janam me kisi aur jaati me paida huyi thi, aapko swarn kul me Janam apke shresth karamo ke Karan Mila hai , Kya apko yaad hai ki pichle Janam me aap kaha paida Hui thi?
@@gaurav2254 what rubbish r u ok. Mai in chigo ko nhi manti
@@gaurav2254 ye true hai karmo ka fal milta hai ye sab jooth nahe hai jaati Kya manusya janm bhe acche karmo se he milta hai acche ko accha fal bure ko bura fal karma se he hai dusri baat duniya ki mat suno khud practical karo ok practical se he answer khud ko milte hai tum jaise log sirf bolte ho kisi ko bura khud me himmat nahe hai khud ke dam mehnat pe janne kee himmat khud me lao karo aur dekho sacchai kya hai if himmat nahe hai to parkhne ki kosish bhe bekar hai kuch nahe milega sirf aur sirf burai aur har cheej me asmanjas he rahega samjhe
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Your father is a real hero, intercaste marriages are not easy today also, really I got emotional watching this video ....🙏
Yes he is very rational person
@@Mr.Singh69 bhai aj bi hmare area me gaion me ya to district me bi Intercaste mrge nehi hota...bahot muskil hai..heartsoff to this gem
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Assam me kuch nahi hota😀
How lover get married they don't see their partner belongs to which cast??
Punjabi+ Bengali combination is really remarkable... Arijit singh and arjuna bhaiya is one of them.🔥💙😂
Arijit and Arjuna.... One of them???
Bro two of them.... 😂😂
These days this is very common
I am combination of punjabi +punjabi 🤣🤣
@@akshatseth7289 me too 😂😂😂
@@harbinderkaur920 i not fully punjabi like my mom is mona punjabi and my father is khatri 🥰
19:08-19:15 uncle got emotional....😞😞 That's called true love pure ND Devine. Hats off to this lovely couple lots of respect 🙏 uncle ND aunty
I really got tears in my eyes...It was emotional 😒😒
Uncle ji get tears everytime. How beautiful his heart is .Rooh paak tau aankh zaroor chalakti hai. So nice to know such a loving couple.
KICHU IS LIKE WAIT FOR MY STORY😂😎❤️
After listening to the Dad, Divya - if you ever need advice or struggling with some issues/problems, you have a great father in law to consult/seek his advice/suggestions. Dad is very clear in his thoughts and likely in his actions too, and Mom seems very strong. They are blessed to have each other! Wish them all the happiness and good health!
I noticed a similarity in your own story as you and Divya met again after some 10 yrs gap and seems like your parents too met again after some 10 yrs gap. In both the cases, it was the guy who sought/located the girl again. Very interesting, as they say history repeats itself!
Yup ❤
The line that marriage is conversion of two souls into one took my heart.
No ghodi Rasam and all. 😍 Having this type of thinking at that time is actually applaudable. Truly a big fan of you all😀😀
Exactly. These cultural customs maybe over time have taken on different meanings but I love the phere vows. Doesn't matter what era when you hear those 7 vows you understand that yes this is about two people becoming equal partners and growing together. Culture will change but nothing changes spirituality
Ab pta chla arjuna ne true love krna Apne parents se sikha h❤️
@CARNAGE !!! yess
@CARNAGE !!! muslim boys can but muslims girls can't
@CARNAGE !!! You have to spread poison everywhere?
@CARNAGE !!! Speak what improves on silence. Otherwise one should keep quiet.
@CARNAGE !!! Your reply was expected. You are nurturing a lot of negativity. Let go of it
Aunty ko ab dekh k aisa bilkul nahi lagta ki Aunty itni bold rahi hongi. Wonderful love story!! Thats y they say Never judge a book by its cover. She is strong women pillar of strength for the family.
I really appreciate the bond Uncle and Aunty share and the kind of unflinching support they have for each other.. Really like Uncle's expression of conviction and commitment towards Aunty. It is definitely something to be replicated .. Lots of love and respect 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I too want to marry with true love like uncle,he truly said that marriage is basically 1 soul having 2 bodies and no show off. i too believe in this and hope I will get the same
I can imagine and feel the intensity of their true love for eachother. Whn uncle was crying I was also crying 😭 .....
When did he cried btw?
@@akashgusain114 At 19:10
I too feel so emotional with innocents love
Such strong personalities...I'm already touched by their values and the way they think! Huge respect!
Especially your dad, he has a solid jigraa....it makes me grounded again...and think about what life really is about!
We get so caught up with satisfying expectations of the world, that we let it change ourselves to match standards of other people. This was such a reality check...touched deep corners of my heart! What courage, what conviction! You parents were so crystal clear and knew exactly what they wanted in life...and stuck with it! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
The moment Arjuna's father had tears in his eyes when his wife was telling the krishna incident, oh my god, it hit me so hardd man. I hope i get someone like him in my life❤
Same to same, my tears rolled down. This touched me intensely.
I was also noticing the same! 18:50
Blessings are the only thing I can give , am speechless , god bless uncle aunty ji, they are pure soul, I strongly feel it. There was a constant smile on my face , also had tears on hearing that marriages are made in heaven , really felt the positivity.
Ur father is so sensitive caring and progressive person
I want more such parents and couples and human being to exist for real 😭❤️❤️
Amen 🙏
Yes
M nd my bf are also from different caste plzzz pray that we get married👫💏💍👏🎉💒🍸 😕.
Same.. But it doesn't matter to my family... Also my family doesn't know that I've a bf.. 😛🤫
Keep praying for the future with him 💜🌸❤️
❤️ From Bangladesh 🇧🇩
@@chaitydhar but it does matter to my family.. They are totally against of it.
M very worried about my future🔮.😔
@@sssquare-gd2zk Don't worry... & keep praying 🙏 🌸 💜
You should tell them that, "May the caste are different but the religion is same... Isn't enough?"
@@chaitydhar yeah! Plzzz pray for us.
We both love each other truly💕
God bless u... U will definitely win . But never loose hope.. How much time it takes 😁😁
This was magical..just loved how genuine and honest they were...most beautiful thing I saw online today
Kind of similar story... As Arjuna said history repeats itself ❤️😂
Divya is bangali?
@@sugaarmyradhika1792 no she's Punjabi
Kechu ka name kya hai
@@NewsRepoter avyukta.
LOVED IT❤️
This is the mindset we all should have.
Thank you for bringing this to us❤️
watched this today, after almost a year and now i understand why Arjuna and Divya have such an amazing love story.
Its really unbelievable that what I'm seeing is true & happened in that time .... their love marriage looks so ideal & look at them .....so dignified & maintained the love & respect even after so many years.....that's so evident by seeing tears in uncle's eyes & the memories aunty tells. Wish all the marriages r like theirs ....Happy, respectful & full of love 😇
Most heart touching story of love marriage, that too at that time of era when this was not common................ Inspired by Uncle and Aunty
Thank you divya di & arjuna bhaiya for sharin...❤🤗
Such a beautiful and charming story of Uncle and Aunty .
Been a while , haven't heard anything so pure like this . So was the story of Arjuna sir and Divya ma'am. Touchwood ❤
i am literary crying while hearing to your father , such a great soul with high values, hard to find these days.
God bless
So sweet :)) Uncle is too sweet!! I wish them good health and happiness. What really struck me was, when uncle told things happen according to how you perceive them! This is so true!!
In this materialistic world, It's so nice to see how two people just wanted to be together coz they loved each other!!
I really liked the gentleman. And his wife of course. But the gentleman is extremely articulate and clear in his thought process. God bless this couple.
Yes you said it correctly ❤️
Awwww...uncle is so cute!!! he loves his wife so much and when he said about the rituals he did not believe in shows he was way ahead of time...There were tears in my eyes when he started sobbing at 19:04... so much love... this story really touched me... New to your channel... Aunty is so lucky find a man like him...
Very Genuine, inspiring and thoughtful video..... Thank you for sharing too personal moments with all of us..... Blessings
Arjuna sir u r really lucky to have a parents like them...ND uncle is so down to earth and his each ND every word is nothing like a life lesson means he is talking with facts ND he's so inspiring.... Divya mam how u blessed u r to have such a beautiful ND sweet in-laws...
This is so heart-warming! You both had a divinely blessed marriage (saw your video) and so did the parents. People with a spine stay committed forever! Astrologers played a role in both of your marriage someway 😀
Itna true love to purane time me hi hota tha. Ajkal to true love milta hi nahi. Mujhe Saif-Deepika ki Love Aj Kal movie yaad aa gai. ❤️🙏
Gonna watch this, whenever I'll feel low🥺🥲....True love❤...Also waiting for Divyuna's story❤.... Jai Shree krishna ❤🥺🙏!!
such a sweet n heartwarming story.. rarely do we find such beautiful, musical, pure love story.. no wonder you two are the most adorable
. coz its in your genes ❤️❤️❤️
Felt so good to hear their story of love ❤️... Specially your dad is such a gentle person and its heart touching when he cried couple of times being emotional... Sabke thinking aisi ho jaye to bas....love in air
"Marriages are made in heaven"❤️
I can't tell you Your parents love story inspired me so much .
Really Marriages are made in heaven .
I am Bengali girl and I can feel your mother's emotions .
Still mostly Bengali parents are against Love Marriage ......
But your maternal grandparents were liberal .
Still your mother smiles like newlywed bride .
Very wrong.. i got married to a marathi guy just 6days back nd we got no problem at all
@Shreya Chakraborty exactly
@Shreya Chakraborty exactly.. Bengalis are the most progressive when it comes to situation like these.. intercaste marriage is not even a thing anymore..
Are you serious man... Bengalis are the most progressive community in the country... I never saw any bengali going against love marriage of their child..🙄
@@sushmamondal9765 obviously .I am also intetcast relationship but in today's days also my parents is totally disagree with this.even they mentally torchered me due to this
He is a great storyteller..♥️...was glued to it through a whole video ..
But the most outstanding thing for me was his thought process ..it's too beautiful..
The most beautiful couple, their thought process; their bond, love and connection is so pure and authentic. You both are truly a blessing for each other.❤
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और उसी दौरान भगवान एक और कहानी लिख रहे थे अर्जुना और दिव्या जी की 🤣🤣😆😆
The way uncle talk about equality in relationship 😭😭❤️❤️❤️uncle aunty is so genuine and down to earth ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻god bless them
I am really so so so so happy after watching the vlog. This is the bestest vlog on your channel arjunna sir. Apke father k views are really commendable yr. He is a real gentleman. As your father said, "rehna to hum dono ko hai" this every parent should understand and they should not force their children to leave their love just because of society or other factors ki kamata kitna hai ladka, ladki ko khana banana aana chahiye, ye wo... Also apke papa ji ne kaha ki ye sb spiritual hai mano to sb otherwise kuch ni he is absolutely right and i too feels if you believe in love and spirituality then you can feel too and relate too. Once again i just want to say this is the best vlog
Such a progressive couple you are., great and glad to know about your love story Kaku Kakima..ai bhabei anonde eke oporeer sathe theko...
This reminds me of the Story of my Parents. They were in Primary School aged 5 and 6 respectively in Malaysia. 14 -15 Years after they had a love marriage in Nepal. After some Years of marriage they saw old Photos and recognised each other. Destiny only knows it seems
One of the best vlogs to-date on this channel. Thank you to each one of you for making it possible and allowing us a glimpse into your beautiful lives. Keep spreading the joy and positivity.
❤️🧿
Such pyara pariwar this Harjai family is.
Touchwood
Two of my favourite videos on this channel
1) this video
2) arjun and divya lovestory
CUTEST VIDEO EVER!!! This is so pure and beautiful! Love your parents! Wish saare logon ka view itna amazing ho! God bless them.
Pranam uncle aunty ko! Such a lovely and inspiring story! Uss zamane may bhi itne ache aur suljhe huye khayal the ye dekh kar bahot acha laga. Thank you Arjuna for sharing this with us. Lots of love to Keechu and Divya!❤️❤️
Sir is so candid in his expression. Relaying incidents to us just the way they happened, including some not-so-flattering comments from family.
😊💖🧿
I literally have never ever listened to such a beautiful & such a peaceful love/marriage story. ❤️ Thank you uncle aunty for your lovely story. Even my husband's bday is on 19th August. And our love story is divine too... 🙏
#chillyflix
Wowwwww , amazing ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏
Everyone was speaking about uncle aunty’s love but one like for their parents who didn’t argue much or didn’t argue at all ❤️
This is the most heart touching stories of love marriages I have heard. It shows that it's just the commitment towards your which matters as uncle rightly said there were not attracted towards each other because of physical appearance instead they were attracted to their qualities or passion which they had in their times.
Love you Uncle and Aunty
Apki mom bengali hai
Omg muje shock laga
Yr family is the best yrr including u both ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️...
Such great thoughts. Very nice and genuine people, all of you. God bless.
This video is beautiful in so many ways🤍🤍 especially what uncle said in the end about love and spirituality is very relatable . Lots of love to your family🤍
Best love story ever. We can't comment on one segment. Full story was commendable. Kichu is blessed to have such a loving grandparents. Live live. Love love.
New subscriber!! I had to pause the video to comment.. Your parents are truly Gem of a person!! You guys are blessed and fortunate to have such lovely parents! I wish there are more people with such thought process regarding marriage. Also I’d like mention that i am binge watching your videos, even when i am at work😅 Lots of love to Keechu❤️ and warm regards to y’all. Have to get back to watching.. lots of videos to catch up with 😁
Beauty that can't be described❤❤❤ Blessed to have known this story ❤
i have never heard this type of such amazing story..n your father and mother are very pure n practical person. how nicely they have explained everything, their thought, a lott to learn from them..🙏
So pure . I really don't have words to explain how I felt during the time I was watching this whole video. Thank you for sharing the whole story ❤️
Beautiful. words fall short to describe. Loved it. ❤️. It seems that your father is very emotional. Both soulmates. God bless you all. Just randomly watched that video, but now press the subscribe button after watching their story......
I was so indecisive if i really wanted to watch a 24 minute long video of someone s love story.. But in between the moments of smiling and sudden crying I didn't even realise how these minutes passed.... So so thankful that I came across this video. uncle aunty have restored my faith in love ❤️❤️ Thank you so much Divya and Arjuna for sharing these wonderful souls with the world..
Aapne shaadi kar li?
@@Light-kw1qk ji abhi tak nai
@@mamtaadhikari878 *what's your age?*
@@Light-kw1qk hahahahahha are you sending me rishtas
Beautiful. Loved the way Uncle Aunty shared their Life journey together. Touchwood. They r really sweet people. Made for each other.
They belong to an era where they saw qualities in a person they respected rather the outward appearance.
Salute to them and applause to the wonderful couple
such a pure bond they are sharing...my eyes got blessed after watching this💖Loved this thnku for sharing this
Wow.. 👌🏻👌🏻 loved listening to them n their story 👌🏻👌🏻 Arjuna .. Thank you so much.. you dad, wow.. ek mast lehja he bolne ka .. ghunto Tak sunte raho .. unke vichar wow.. mom is so soft n stubborn 😃 ye Mumbai main he ? I would love to go n do singing session really..
Ranga's Marriage:Ratna singing and Ranga standing at the gate ,enjoying the song without disturbing.
Why am I crying .... This man is such a good human .... ❤️❤️❤️
I never comment on any of your vlogs. I am your silent watcher and subscriber but this story touched my heart. I was already a fan of aunty and now I am a big fan of uncle too. Precious family ❤️❤️
Great story 👌👌👌😘😘History repeats with u and Divya ✌️Your family stories r like some movie going on very exiting.Love ur mom she is very simple ,elegant 👌👌😘😘😘😘
What a beautiful feelings,,, no words......chhote se Shabd mein badi gehri baat Kahi uncle Ji ne 2 souls ghoom rahe hote aur vah ek hote hai. ,,,,,,,Upar wale ki marji..... Watching this I feel '' actually happy ki ayese thoughtful positive clear soulful person actually hain main unko Sun paa Rahi hoon Jo Main bhi hun jo Aaj bahut kam logomain dekhne mein milta haii ,,,,bohot baten Arya dimag mein par Main likh bhi nahin paa rhi hoon happy thanks a lot,,, what a blog 💕Arjuna+ divya..:- arivya💝
I got so emotional listening to their story; thank you bhai for sharing your parents’ story! :)
Beautiful love story with love, emotions and true feelings. Lovely to hear uncle and aunty. Perfect couple😍
Wow ❤️ such a beautiful video 🥰
Such a beautiful story.. heart touching.. so raw and pure.. huge respect..makes you believe in love..❤️❤️
Ye love story to bilkul same h like arjuna divya.. 10-12 saal tak nhi mile😁
Kitni khub sundor love story hei.I loved it totally.Being a bengali I know the problems.But they made possible❤
Loving this channel more now after hearing both the love stories! ❤️ Earlier I was following just on random basis!! Because people with pure heart attracts you more
Pure souls…best love story ever… my heart is filled with so much love and emotions after listening them..❤️
I literally had tears in my eyes your dad is so emotional
I am watching this video after watching arjuna 's love story
P.S- my birthday is also on 19th august 😊
Mee too
Mine also.. 19 aug
My grandson is on 19th August and I'm 15th August.
Mine alsooo😊😊
When is aunty’s birthday? Does anyone know?
@ArjunaHarjai You r very lucky to have such parents..I almost cried when ur mom started telling the 5yr old kid wala part.
I am a Bengali too and i know how dowry is still socialized in the sake of good fortune. I could totally relate to ur mother bcoz i exactly have the same thought as ur mom did.
I Wish all the happiness for ur family
...stay like this forever ❤️☺️
Loved this video❤️
Such a wonderful message in the end ❤️
I hve nver ever listened a love story like this so pure...so intense.....real love .....hattsoff to sir and mam ....the patience they hve...the commitment they have....and that line ....."meri search tum pr khtm hoti h ".....what more a women can expect from a man....its just magical.....lots of love to all of u
Lately this is the best video I have come across. Words from Sir are priceless.
Thank you soo much for sharing this. ❤
I always found your mom very different and today after hearing this🙌🏻🙌🏻 She feels so different because she is that rare personality. You people are so lucky, not all people are so spiritually gifted like your parents🙏🏻.