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SIngapore Love Stories: Marriage Confessions | On The Red Dot | S8 E38
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- čas přidán 17. 02. 2020
- Four couples make their heart-to-heart confessions of the challenges that threatened their marriages and how they moved past the stigmas that tested their modern notions of love.
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Honestly CNA should focus on the 2nd couple more, they are the ones that the current generation must learn from. Including me, this is the ultimatum level of loyalty
the oldest couple, makes me feel so encouraged!
Love the story featuring the mature couple, Jo and Boon. It’s amazing to see the power of unconditional love and the resilience in his spirit despite adversity. 👍
I feel saddened to see the No:2 couple , had to go through such difficulties himself. His wife is so lovely n caring much to him 😥
The story of Wee Boon and his wife is so inspiring. This is the true embodiment of love. She is so loyal and faithful.
Asha is so brave to be honest on camera about such a difficult and personal issue. I admire her courage. And so brilliant of her to channel her suffering into something positive! What an inspiration!
Hirman is a good man.. and his love for cats is very cute. Haha.
*Syazana, not Asha!
The mature couple boon and Jo are amazing, the woman is very wonderful and hardworking and you can see it has taken a toll on her, but I'm happy she still carries on her vows, boon the guy is a trooper he is inspirational but does need to tell his wife that he loves her and appreciates her and her efforts, I'm proud of you both.
Boon's wife , She 's Angel .She has a beautiful Mind.
The 2nd couple Jo & Boon definitely very inspirational.
That is the very testimony of loyalty, through thick and thin, illness and in health.
Best wishes to them both.
What humble braggers. The editors and producers also seem to be mocking them by contrasting their story with the 2nd couple's.
This guy definitely has some inferiority complex, keeps droning on and on about how his wife is famous and popular, to be honest no one actually knows or even cares who she is
He means famous in the rich people circle
I totally skipped the 1st couple
Cheryl and Roy’s storyline is the most unrelatable ie problems that literally only the top 1% is concerned with. No shade lah, just quite uninteresting relative to the rest
felt like i was watching some reality tv with them. so lame
Marriage is hard work. Easy part is to sign the papers, hard part is to keep the vows
dear Boon, you are a blessed man, for God has given you a woman described in Proverbs 31:
The Virtuous Wife
10 Who can find a virtuous wife?
For her worth is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband safely trusts her;
So he will have no lack of gain.
12 She does him good and not evil
All the days of her life.
13 She seeks wool and flax,
And willingly works with her hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships,
She brings her food from afar.
15 She also rises while it is yet night,
And provides food for her household,
And a portion for her maidservants.
16 She considers a field and buys it;
From her profits she plants a vineyard.
17 She girds herself with strength,
And strengthens her arms.
18 She perceives that her merchandise is good,
And her lamp does not go out by night.
19 She stretches out her hands to the distaff,
And her hand holds the spindle.
20 She extends her hand to the poor,
Yes, she reaches out her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of snow for her household,
For all her household is clothed with scarlet.
22 She makes tapestry for herself;
Her clothing is fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates,
When he sits among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them,
And supplies sashes for the merchants.
25 Strength and honor are her clothing;
She shall rejoice in time to come.
26 She opens her mouth with wisdom,
And on her tongue is the law of kindness.
27 She watches over the ways of her household,
And does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children rise up and call her blessed;
Her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many daughters have done well,
But you excel them all.”
30 Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing,
But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands,
And let her own works praise her in the gates.
Cheryl’s story is not so fit for this show. Too much disparity
Oh I wish I could hug these people. You guys are all so strong.
*Edit* I wish the Filipino vet would have known interfaith marriages can be registered under civil law in Singapore. The muslim may remain muslim and the other party may remain whatever faith they practice. It would have been a great alternative for their circumstance.
Such marriages are not valid in Islam :) Both parties have to be Muslim.
Just asking but why must both people be Muslim in the marriage? Just curious and don’t mean to offend
Phobepotatoegirl Pretty In Islam,both the man and woman marrying have to be muslim in order for the marriage to be valid.But of course,we should never force other people to convert to islam.Even before converting,one has to declare again that he/she has converted by their own will and not through force.
Jo-Boon's & Nurul-Azman's stories are inspiring and encouraging. Wishing everyone all the best
All the best to the 2nd story's couple...
Actually I don't know her lol so she's not that famous. And oh i don't know what is so special about the rich couple's marriage other than they are rich to begin with? Why are they even featured? Is it free marketing of her company?? Im sure there are other love stories that are more worthwhile to be featured. CNA please do more of your homework properly can? That being said, thank you very much to the feature of the other couples though.
Free marketing I guess 😂
Isn’t a marriage in and by itself special 🙄
Starting off the video with the Jean Yip family made me almost exit the video but EVERY other story tho... Glad I stayed 👍
Everything is easier with money
ricphire but not everything in making money
Correct esp the abroad lady one
May God be with Mr Boon and his wife. Wonderful couple 💑. Jiayou.
The 2nd Couple gosh😭💔they've been through a lot along with all the other couples showed the true side of being in a marriage♡︎
except the first couple.😕
I love to see CNA insider.
This is an enriching channel.
God bless the second couple.
Boon and Jo are inspiring ! 👍🏻❤️
Jo & Boon, you are an inspiration to us all!
Every marriage is hard, now I understand. Why have I been so mislead? Lol
Don't care about the rich couple's love life. I am sure their marriage is a fairy tale. I skip them and focus on the normal people and relatable couples.
This was an excellent program. I thank you 😘❤💕❤🇲🇬🇲🇬🇲🇬
I went through the whole video and figured that the whole point of the video is to show the struggles of being married. Singaporeans often do not disclose the negative perspectives of marriages due to embarrassment and pride, hence, the video title is Marriage Confessions. The first couple is so out-of-place compared to the rest of the couples. No mention of any struggles, be it emotional or familial. I am very sure that even upper middle or upper class families have their own struggles and that is an interesting aspect to explore but CNA insider just did a terrible job to portray that, a shame.
Marriage is personal relationship with human while religion is personal relationship with God. This 2 things should not be mixed up and conflicting. The Sing guy should just married Filipino vet without push her to convert her religion.
youre living in a bubble if you think its as easy as you say it is to not push her to convert her religion
I am fully agreed with you.
Forced Religion is disgracefull and disrespect to other religion. It should be treated like "Racism".
Thats why I have never like Muslims from the bottom of my heart. But anyway, I still respect other people‘s life, its their choice.
Thank you for sharing. Sometimes we take life for granted. I promise not to talk negatively about myself anymore.
Excellent love stories and I've learned a lot from these couples. LOVE is never easy; we need to keep learning and finding our shortcomings to know what we actually should do in a marriage. Hope everyone has a happy married life.
Singapore is such a wealthy nation. Isn’t there an institution that can help Boon get prostatic arms and legs?
I was thinking of the same thing! There are many remedies n tools that Occupational therapists can recommend. HELP THEM!
Those cat cushions lololol
Wow.. Your stories really touch my heart
18:09 I think the wife has social anxiety and depression. I have the same issue, but how I deal with it and live a normal life. I do think positive when I’m down and try my best to occupy myself. Make yourself to go out even just a short walk under the sun, it will definitely help.
Agrees w all the other comments, what's up with the 1st story? Do we even need to know about their lives? Alot more couple friends i have goes thru more things then the 1st one. Lmao.
i remember cheryl wee from the channel 5 drama 'mata mata'! one of the best channel 5 shows ever!!
After watching all the couples’s rounding up their stories at the end, it’s quite obvious to see which wife is “wearing the pants” at home....😂
amazing write out for this episode. :)
I've been subscribed to *BOTH CNA & CNA Insider* & I just cannot get enough of the amazing content *ESPECIALLY from CNA INSIDER* because of videos like this one that I'm almost done watching. Much like the episode that I was watching directly before THIS video, there's something so incredibly amazing as well as special about Singapore as a country & the people who live there whether they were born & raised there or if they came to work or vacation & fell in love like the beautiful people sharing their stories in this particular episode of *"On the Red Dot"* BUT WHAT I think that I'm trying to say in my VERY LONG & RAMBLING FILLED comment, is that the rest of the world could stand to learn a thing or two from this country as a whole in general........
........when it comes to how this very beautiful melting pot of a country operates & the beautiful hearts of those who call Singapore *home* it truly & wholeheartedly makes my heart smile as well as the fact that it makes me want to move there. I know I'm rambling & I'm probably being a bit on the repetitive side BUT THAT'S BECAUSE OF WHAT SHINES THROUGH from the people who live there. ❤
I've been to a few different country throughout my 40+ years of life BUT sadly as well as strangely, I've never been to Singapore, not even if I had to make a connecting flight. The funniest part of what I just said is that I actually speak Malay and I also speak a bit of Cantonese. I think that Malay & English are the 2 most spoken languages followed closely by Mandarin. I can speak just a little bit of Mandarin where I can greet people as well as say goodbye & I can also speak the top few phrases that show good manners.
I hope one day that I'm able to make my dream of going to Singapore for about a month, maybe even a little bit longer. I've just had 3 tumors removed in a fairly recent surgery so I have to get a bit stronger before I can actually fly. I've never had any issues with altitudes but it can be a bit of a headache, so to speak, when you're immune system is comprised like mine is. I wouldn't normally vacation anywhere for more than 2 weeks BUT there's just so many beautiful things to try to enjoy in just a 2 week period. I want to see some religious sites & of course, I really REALLY want to dive into the absolutely amazing food culture. We have a couple of street/truck food locations owned/operated that DO make home cooking & even though they have delicious food, going to Singapore for the true & in person experience because I just think it tastes a million times better when you eat a dish in it's true home origin.
I'll finish by saying once again that I'm truly sorry for the insanely long post BUT whenever I get really enthusiastic about something, this is what tends to happen when I type a post BUT I ALSO WANTED TO SAY THAT I don't usually post comments this long. With that being said, I really want to say *THANK YOU to CNA/CNA INSIDER* for making such amazing content. Keep up all of your amazingness........with much love from Canada, Nancy.
Enjoyed all the stories and wish the couples every happiness!
Yes the nly touching love story was mr.wee bhoon n his mrs...hats off...
And is it the another.story which the lady r from philippines...hmmm ...knew it....
Attention all GUYS
Firstly , I just got divorced.
Sadly I was not given any monies for the matrimonial flat.
Reason because I trusted my ex wife by asking her to pay the mortgages and she was a foreigner.
Whether she is a foreigner or not.
My advice to all the GUYS IN SINGAPORE
DON LET YOUR WIFE HANDLE THE PAYMENT OF YOUR MATRIMONIAL PROPERTY CAUSE IF YOU DIVORCE MOST LIKELY THE COURT WILL GIVE TO HER.
DON LISTEN AND YOU WILL REGRET
it is really sad to hear that the Filipina veterinarian as she said she is, kind of give a negative connotation of being a domestic helper. it is a decent work and nothing to be ashamed of. She said 'not like that' as if she views them as inferior.
What famous? I dunno who she is........😒 why is this couple even in it?
jean yip's daughter
Yujia Jin.......So? It’s her mom’s famous not her but her hub kept saying his wife is famous etc. If she is famous, one will be know her name & not her mom’s name.
@@hazelmichiko she used to be an actress too and acted in channel 5 mata mata
How could u forget a Indian couple that would have been so extra and more drama
Very touching
Amazing 🙏🏽🙇🏻♀️❤️
What a caring wife....🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for inspiring!!! 😊😊
I don't expect to be parents so fast, wahahaha what A joke
Love CNA no drama
Oh how I wish we could all be aware it’s all about observing our feelings that progresses into sadness , anger we hv to learn to understand it’s all in the mind it’s so hard to teach that to ourselves and not have self cherishing views and let the pain be healed gradually it’s my teacher said be kind to oneself be even kinder to oneself . May all in pain be relieved of all pain and suffering .
wow, this program is so tactical. shows bad side of foreign countries which are against CCR but avoid dark side of Singapore and china. same as Korean media. as Singapore and Korea support Chinese
invasion in Asia and suppressing Hong Kong.
lucky Roy got a free ride.
Bruh ik this is supposed to be serious but any kpopie realise that they used skz as bgm
lost all limb due to food poisoning ? have a feeling its the doctor fault
Pretty silly of the Filipino to convert.
yes, i married a Filipino and he didn't ask me to convert to Catholicism and i'm raised Taoist. But i do live in the California. lol
Typo error in the title of this video... i is not capital letter
I is a personal pronoun so it does need acapital letter😊😋
Lol
11:56 why doesn’t he have a skate board like thing that he could roll himself around in?
No Indians ???
First couple, sure happy easy life, 3hdb 1 landed, what is this compare to 2nd couple. I reckon you got lots of this from viewers, 1st couple make what work, your marriage, I don't see any misfortune, she means having that baby, their marriage may not work wahahahaha
Do Indians not exist in singapore?
No indian couples were featured.
That's prejudice.
Local singaporean indians are second class citizens ..
I am the first comment and like whioooooo ;) i am finaly first
lol
lmao
I am from Algeria, I am looking for a girl from Singapore to marry.. I love Singapore and I dream of living in it