this is why you procrastinate
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0:00-0:28 Intro
0:28-2:10 What is Resistance?
2:10-4:38 When does it happen?
4:38-5:58 Do the hard task.
5:58-7:07 Science lesson
7:07-9:05 Eliminate all distractions
9:05-12:38 Become a Professional
12:38-13:59 Summary
title names for the algo
how to beat procrastination
how to stop procrastinating - Hudba
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plot twist: I’m delaying a task by watching this
This is so sad omggggggg yoooooo. This is me bruh. I'll watch self help before I actually apply it because i just want to be entertained
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Plot twist: 4:47 he already said that the 140 of y’all dead slow😂😂
@@amircollins8065 it also gives us a false sense of self improvement
You mean 180?@@Letmerealize
Theres no worse feeling than wasting a whole day when I planned for it to be productive.
Facts
Fr
It feels like wasted life
Don’t make it a wasted life
@@fearitselff1257 these days are inevitable. Some of quarantine felt like this. That’s why we all questioned life.
I love that you are not too loud and talk very calmly, it has been relaxing since the start thank you so much.
thank you. ill keep doing what i’m doin
@@theabrahamdiophonestly, your tone is soothing ❤.
True, I’m so sick of the loud ‘youtube’ voice, no offence to other content creators.
This dude is literally talking to me... You can tell he speaks from experience and love. Thank you for this master piece♥
My pleasure!
you're so underrated bro thank you for this video.
I appreciate that!
Not gonna lie, this video really helped me out.
Keep grinding bro, you're helping the world!
Your videos are helping me through my healing journey, thank you🤍
Glad i can help
this is genuinely inspiring bro, i’ve been really struggling for a while and recently trying to gain a true understanding to what’s holding me back and your perspective is truly eye-opening and this is only the second video i’ve seen from you. i have an idea now what i need to do and hope i follow through with it but anyways thanks for doing what you do man cause it really is impactful 🙏🏼
IK RT ITS ACUTALLY BEUTIFULL
As a Christian you just helped me identify how the devil is attacking me bro
It isnt just some “resistance force” it’s the devil keeping me from who I need to be!
Thank you for giving your resistance analogy. I feel like the word procrastination has been watered down.
i agree. wanted to give a different perspective
These videos helping me come to my senses, helps a lot
Glad to help
The thing I do is observe when I get in that lazy spot, then I'm like 'ight chill one thing at a time', and the next day I wake up eat a healthy breakfast and hop on my bike and ride round the city just to enjoy the moment but to get more fit. From then it's like the universe knows what I'm trynna to do and it keeps in store more fitness within my life, swear down this works fitness like running, cycling going to the gym is my addiction when I get addicted to the lazy spot on a phone playing too much games, love this video man speaking the truth and more kids, teenagers/ adults need to hear his more beacuse this is more common then we think, all the love man ❤
Just found your channel, thank you for putting into words the struggle so many of us face!
Welcome!!
I'm 24 years old and currently a journey so to say to try to cut off all external distractions such as social media and evolve in other aspects like getting better grades at college, read more, exercise, etc. It's hard but watching your videos on those topics are helping me with the process.
I only recently started watching your “self improvement” video’s and I really enjoy them :) your voice is so calm and relaxing and I like the way you organise your video’s, can’t wait to see more!! :)
Thank you! glad you’re liking the videos!
3:50 I struggle with this as well. I have bursts of motivation every so often that feels like it overwhelms that resistance within me. However, when I've got major assignments to work on (Essay, Study for exam), I tend to go for smaller, more easy tasks like organizing my To-Do list more efficiently, outlining/working on lesser assignments, sometimes even tiding up my desk or room. I am being productive by doing these things, but I'm still avoiding work towards the pressing responsibilities. I think it's that instant gratification you mentioned.
Funny enough, this video popped up on my feed while procrastinating.
you seem very articulated with your words, excited to see where you take this channel!
thanks man
You don't even know how much i needed this video..all i can say is thank you and leave a like
Glad I could help
Bro you're so well spoken! I totally relate to almost all the ideas that you elaborate on in your vids and the way you can articulate all your thoughts into almost a step by step guide on ways to improve is such a useful and impressive skill. Really glad I discovered your channel
I just found your channel from another video & wanted to say it’s really refreshing to see people my age (I turn 20 at the end of the month) that I can relate to. I’ve unfortunately struggled with perfectionism for years like you mention in the video. I’ve watched a lot of self help videos and content on procrastination so I’ve heard a lot of these points but honestly just seeing you doing your thing and relating to you helped me in a different way if that makes sense. You have a really natural energy about you that grabbed my attention and I’m coming to realize more and more that I don’t have to be over the top or edit like crazy or even engage with other social media platforms in order to have an audience. I’m gonna be real I haven’t even finished the video I paused to comment because this inspired me and gave me a bunch of ideas on how to move forward lol. Keep up the good work!
I am actively procrastinating while watching this..
I love your videos bro it’s so nice to find someone with a similar mindset keep up the good work🔥🔥🔥
Found this yt channel randomly. And i love your videos bro fr. Your videos and thoughts are literally what i think of everyday as a17 yo teenager but im just so lazy and comfortable with procrastination to start and apply my ideas and goals. as you said i need them so bad but i still procrastinate those tasks. but after watching your videos i actually started to get my shi together a lil. The only thing i struggle with is social media, i just cant leave my phone sadly. But ill surely find my way to quitting that shit. Anyways love your work man your actually one of my favourite youtubers rn. Much love.
Thank you man deep down i really needed to hear this I appreciate it
usually I don't manage to sit though videos but watched all of this and enjoyed it. you made this super interesting and engaging! big ups man!!!
really good video. one of the best on procrastination. it's easy to say 'just do it' but to go through and explain why we procrastinate and how to get through it is really cool
the ego, it's always the ego being resistant to change.
I love your videos !!! Such a great story teller
BACK WITH ANOTHER GEM👏🏾
I needed this video, thank you
This is what I needed so much I make music and I stopped because so much things are going on rn and I don’t got the time but when I had the time I remember watching CZcams and shit and distracting myself
Man, thank you for this info I really needed to know what is happening in my life that keeps me from growing mentally and spiritually ❤😊🧘🏾♂️
So much value in this video, well done
appreciate it!
Trying the deleting social media, but ngl your videos are actually very helpful, I need more!!! It feels like we’re having a convo. Especially I like to see young black men working on themselves and trying to help others! Keep it up, love from Grenada!
Great Vid Buddy its unlike the other self motivating youtuber love this.
Thank you so much that was a very organized video and effective too you continue doing you ! ❤ ✊️
Can’t wait to see how far you go my boi
I appreciate your videos Abraham, you’ve inspired me to put my best foot forward and start a newsletter.
Great to hear!
Thank you so much for this video!! I appreciate you!! You changed me I’m gonna start applying action now. You explained everything so perfect in this video, I always wanted a way to explain this but I just couldn’t. I’m gonna give you a follow.
Damn, needed to hear this….thanks man, keep grindin as well ✊🏾
Your videos are actually so helpful! Thankyou my Dude
I definitely found this video useful! Focus on my work on things that elevate me in the long run !!! Thank you !
Your voice is also really calm and relaxing
Oh thank you!
you’re 100% right! something that helped me get things done are attacking the most important tasks in the beginning of your day, so by that time your day ends, you’ll enjoy your time doing things that you love or feel less restrictive by (from his example: watching your fav netflix show) i promise you’ll feel much better knowing that you accomplished what you needed to do, and now you get to do the things you were looking forward to.
Great video bro I have been in a lazy slacking faze in my life since I graduated hs. I got comfortable and let resistance beat me. I never knew what it was I just knew something was holding me back. After this video I’ve realized that I am resistant with a lot of things in my life talking to a cute girl or working on my clothing brand. Keep it up bro!
You gained my follow after this video.. your articulation and metaphors hit different.. and your description of resistance being the quote on quote procrastination hit home. Then you saying the first thing you thought of when you clicked this video is the thing you need to be doing right now or after you’re done watching … All spot on 🤝
Thanks for this.
thanks man, really need to hear this.
Brilliant video, you have a bright future ahead of you!
like how you explained it well thought out , just subscribed gang 💯
ngl i have 7 yearly exams next week and i haven’t studied for any 💀
Get to it big guy
I'm legit taking notes while watching your videos.
perfect timing for me to hear this. Just like you said about removing ur phone from ur sight and ur mind, i’m def gonna start doing this! Thank you man Jesus loves you ‼️
Ironically this video has been sitting around on my watch later for a month. I'm definitely struggling with procrastination even with small tasks, but hopefully this year I will overcome this.
Wow bro what a great video , great thing you beat resistance or the world would not have these gems!
Saltute to you king !
I'm so thankful that I found HIM!
i deeply appreciate this video and i love the physics analogy
Needed this 👌🏽 Good work bro
4:50 you did NOT need to call me out like that!! Just discovered your channel and I love your approach to life. Looking forward to binging your videos and working on rewiring my brain lol
You’ve just voiced everything in my mind that I’ve been ignoring
Extremely useful content! Thanks a bunch!
i only watched a few videos of yours but i love your content and it’s inspiring me thank you
Highly Confronting.
Appreciate The Reminders Dawg! 🫡
Thank you a LOT for these words, this video helped me a lot keep going man Good kid maad city vibes lets go
This is what I’m trying to do with my channel bro. Love your stuff
I just started watching your videos . I really enjoy your tips very helpful , straightforward, and understanding the why .
Glad you like them!
GREAT VIDEO! DEALING WITH THIS RIGHT NOW.. THANKS FOR WAKING ME UP
you’re very cool! i’m glad you decided to start uploading on youtube :)
I'm 22. This is an amazing video. Thank you so much. Between this and the phone addiction video its changed my life.
Serious potential in your channel man, keep it up. Will be supporting you along the way!
Needed this thanks man
Love the videos Bro - Keep it up
This was so real and chill
u got me to do what i needed to do thank u
Love your work
thank you Abraham.
Cool to see this, writing my college essay rn and my topic is about that fear playing into resistance
Half way through the video, thank bro keep going
Love the vid bro. Keep that up u going big
This is my third time watching this while getting dressed for class, definitely helping me in the mornings, thank you 🙏🏾
Jesus christ, your style is so refreshing. Although I love Hamza, sometimes he runs out of truly beneficial advice. I think I learned a lot from you. Congratulations, you earned another subscriber.
Keep it up love this🥇
Drip is absolute heat Judah
🤝
I love how you don’t make the background music overwhelming loud like some of these other youtubers.
i thought i had a lack of motivation until i watched this video, made me realize i need to take action. Thx you bro👍👍
Quality > quantity. I am subbed to 2 people and those are the only videos I watch. That’s 2-3 videos a week from u and huberman. Keep it up.
that’s an honor. thank you! more videos to come!
I’m trying to simplify everything into my own words from these videos so it sticks:
- resistance is the outcome of something that provides you pleasure or gratification instantly, basically, why work hard if I’m already comfortable and it’s easy?
Note to self: being a people pleaser and being easily swayed by opinions is NOT GOOD, gotta be confident in one’s self, then you will see who is real to you and you can be real to others.
damn man. Ur soo good at convincing me to work. Thanks
Your videos are so great! Im addoting your steps, thank you!
Glad you like them!
Ive been in a rutt and would have the waves of doing good, then falling off leaving me stagnent. your description of discipline, although a common idea, was executed greatly! even tho ive heard to not rely on motivation, your way of expressing that message helped it click. appreciate you bro, blessings 🙏🏼
We’ve all been in a rut !
I’m grateful for this young man 🙏
If you don't do it now it will never get done. The only moment that exists is the present moment, later is an illusion. So by keep saying "I'ma do it later" you'll never actually do it because when later comes you'll still say the same thing. What is helped me is having a do list everyday and just marking it out once I complete each thing. I also add words of motivation to make sure I stay strong
Videos are starting to help, thanks.
Welcome
awesome video man
My way of cutting of distractions, I completely turn off my phone, so If I want to look at my phone it doesn’t turn on immediately so I don’t want to use it anymore. Btw I’m a 14 year old, and I find this really helpful, I also watched your social media detox vid, and it’s really helpful. I’ll try my best to put what I learned into action
Great message
This video helped so much ngl
I enjoy listening to your videos, I find some videos (and just the general world at times) to be very overwhelming. I don’t realize how stimulating everywhere around me is until I get home, and when I don’t have the urge to do anything. But, what I absolutely love is cleaning when I’m home alone. I’m alone, with my thoughts, I don’t have to talk to anyone for a period of time, it’s just me myself and I. I make a list in the morning of what I need to do, and because I am home alone, I don’t have anyone to worry about (as in, talking to people, socializing, etc). I put lo fi music on the tv and I leave my phone in my room. I leave it under my pillow so if I ever go into my room for whatever reason I won’t see it, and I’m less likely to use something if I don’t see it. Maybe what I said makes sense but maybe it doesn’t. Sorry if my comment is long.
Edit: I made the comment BEFORE finishing the video and I agree, out of sight, out of mind.
The book changed my life
You should start a podcast! I wanna listen to this while driving to work