HOW TO QUIT PORN - Viral Therapist, Matthias Barker, Talks Porn Use, Self-Soothing, and Coping
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- čas přidán 10. 12. 2023
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Matthias J. Barker is a mental health professional and well-known TikTok personality. As a licensed therapist, Matthias focuses on helping people overcome childhood trauma and marital issues, and empowers people to move toward what’s meaningful and healthy in the midst of life’s hardships. In this Consider Before Consuming podcast episode, Matthias talks about the issue of shame when consumers deal with their own compulsion to view pornography, how betrayal trauma can impact partners of porn consumers, and how someone can overcome a struggle with pornography with compassion for themself and their partner.
You can find Matthias on TikTok, Instagram, or CZcams at @matthiasjbarker or at matthiasjbarker.com. List to the full podcast episode at considerbeforeconsumingpodcas...
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I'm trying to help my husband with his admitting he is ruining our marriage and hurting me His Mom is an absolute Toxic narcissist.
How can I help him 😢
By sitting down talking about the harmful effects of it
As a husband just figuring this wicked addiction out...have hope
If he doesn't want to admit it in the first place, maybe it's time to go in separate ways.
There is an app out there called Ever Accountable. He would set you up as his accountability partner, and you would put it across all of his devices. This app and my local church saved me from it.
The very first stage is denial. They are tedx talks that might help, exodus cry documentaries and so on. Please be patient and kind to yourself and with your partner. You can try to ask him to try to abstain from it for period of time. Unfortunately you cannot do this instead of him. This is his journey. What you can do is to join a group of partners of addicts. Ultimately we are only responsible for our very own actions. You might want to examine your bundaries, to determine whats okay in a relationship with you and what is not. I am a recovering addict myself, wish you both strength and luck.
One of the hardest battles but have to keep going.
You've got this!! Keep fighting for love!
-FTND
Currently going through withdrawals of porn and masturbation any tips or maybe a video about that?
Headaches?
CZcams search...neural plasticity.
Stoicism helps
@@GregtheGrey6969 as well lol migraine like
@@GregtheGrey6969 hey thank you
@@AllthewayupG mine are migraine like as well.
Pornography and PMO caused me a weird physical speech problem. I block on syllables and on general pronunciation of words when I try to say what I want. I had never had it before. Ive been dealing with this for 15 years.
I've been having a similar problem and it tends to get better with lowered porn viewing.
I've been having a similar problem and it tends to get better with lowered porn viewing.
Are headaches part of porn withdrawal?
Does porn give you withdrawal symptoms?
They do give me yes horrible ones
Absolutely gives you withdrawal symptoms just like any other addiction or habit.
For me it mostly gave me night wake ups and intense cravings.
Thinking about getting one of those timer safes and see if I can use those to help myself with this.